Yinka'sMuse

Friendships as adults can feel complicated.Life gets busy, priorities shift, and sometimes... the people we once spoke to daily become names we whisper in prayer instead of texts we send.In this heartfelt episode of Yinka'sMuse, I open up about the challenges and the quiet joys of forming and maintaining friendships as we grow older.We talk about the drifting, the growing pains, the beauty of intentional bonds, and how to hold space for change without bitterness.If you've ever grieved a friendship that faded, struggled to find your people, or simply wondered why friendships feel so different now... this conversation is for you.✨ Come with an open heart. Leave with a little more peace.

When life feels overwhelming, it's tempting to withdraw — to disappear into the background and hope no one notices your struggle. But what if showing up, even in small ways, is the most powerful thing you can do? In this honest and tender episode, I share my own experience navigating a tough season — the emotional rollercoaster of job applications and rejection emails — and how I'm learning to keep showing up through it all. This isn't about pretending to be okay; it's about making space for honesty, gentleness, and hope. If you've been feeling invisible, discouraged, or tempted to go into hiding — this episode is for you. You're not alone, and you're not behind. Let's walk this road together.

Have you ever caught yourself wondering how different your life would be if a certain opportunity had worked out? A job offer that fell through, a relationship that didn't last, a path you didn't take? It's easy to get lost in the “what could have been,” but the truth is, that kind of thinking can keep us stuck.In this episode, we explore the emotional weight of dwelling on missed opportunities and why constantly looking back can prevent us from fully embracing the present. I also share a personal story about a job that didn't come through and how, in hindsight, it turned out to be a blessing in disguise.We'll discuss how to shift from “what if” to “what now,” how to trust the bigger picture, and practical ways to let go of regrets so you can focus on the life that's unfolding in front of you.Listen in, and remember: what's ahead is always greater than what's behind.

Relationships should be built on mutual respect and appreciation—not obligation. But sometimes, we find ourselves around people who act like they're doing us a favour by being in our lives. Whether in friendships, relationships, or even work dynamics, this toxic mindset can slowly wear down our confidence and self-worth.In this episode, we unpack the signs of these one-sided relationships, why they're harmful, and most importantly, how to step away and choose better connections. If someone makes you feel like you have to constantly prove your worth just to keep them around, this episode is for you.Tune in and remember: You are valuable. The right people will never make you feel like a burden.

Love isn't just about grand gestures or big, romantic moments—it's about the little things that happen every day. From remembering how someone takes their coffee to sending a simple “thinking of you” text, love ripples down to the quiet, consistent actions that show we care.In this episode, I explore the small yet powerful ways love is expressed and how these everyday moments strengthen our relationships. Whether it's a warm hug, a shared laugh, or simply listening without judgment, these little things make all the difference.Tune in to discover why the smallest acts of love often leave the biggest impact.

ove should feel like effort, commitment, and care—not emotional scraps. In this episode, we're diving into nonchalant love—what it looks like, why it's harmful, and why you need to walk away from emotionally unavailable partners. If you've ever felt like you're the only one trying in a relationship, constantly questioning where you stand, or making excuses for someone's lack of effort, this conversation is for you. We'll break down the signs of nonchalant love, why you deserve better, and how to confidently step away and heal. It's time to stop settling for indifference and start demanding the love you truly deserve. Tune in now and take your power back! #SelfWorth #NonchalantLove #WalkAway #RelationshipAdvice #KnowYourValue #PodcastEpisode #LoveYourself

Friendships are one of life's most rewarding connections, but they're not always easy—especially during moments of loss, failure, or setbacks. In this episode, we explore how tough times can test friendships and share practical tips for navigating these challenges with grace and understanding.

Have you ever wondered why some of your fondest memories are from the simplest moments? In this episode, I explore the beauty of small, everyday moments and how they often leave the biggest imprints on our hearts. From quiet conversations to fleeting gestures, these seemingly insignificant events shape our lives in profound ways. Tune in to discover the magic of being present, celebrating the ordinary, and creating meaningful connections in the little things.

Feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to have everything figured out at the start of the year? You're not alone. In this episode, I explore why it's perfectly okay to ease into the year without a solid plan or a long list of goals. Join me as I break down the myth of “having it all together,” embrace the beauty of taking things slow, and discover how uncertainty can lead to unexpected opportunities. Whether you're still figuring things out or simply need a reminder to breathe, this episode is for you. Tune in for practical tips and a fresh perspective on starting the year at your own pace.

What does it mean to be truly vulnerable? In this episode of Yinka'sMuse, I explore the beauty and strength of embracing your imperfections and sharing your authentic self with the world. Vulnerability often feels like a weakness, but it's the foundation of meaningful relationships and personal growth. From the fear of judgment to the courage to open up, we'll uncover why letting down your guard can be the most empowering thing you ever do. Join me as I share real-life stories, practical insights, and reflective questions that will inspire you to lean into vulnerability and experience deeper connections in every aspect of life.

On this episode of the podcast, I talk about how asking for help should never be seen through the lens of shame.

In this episode, I discuss "Something I Wished I Knew Earlier: The Feeling That Comes with Handling Failure." Join me as I talk about the feelings that come with handling or dealing with failure. I discuss personal experiences, not letting failure define you, and how trusting God is one of the important ways of dealing with the feelings that come with failure. Tune in for an honest and reflective conversation that will inspire you to view failure through a new, empowering lens.

In this episode of "Yinka'sMuse," titled "Living in the Now: Valuing People for Who They Are Today," I explore the importance of relating to people based on their current selves rather than the potential we see in them. I discuss how focusing on potential can lead to unrealistic expectations and disappointments. Tune in to learn how to cherish the present moment and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

In this episode, I explore the concept of true luxury—beyond the flashy and superficial. True luxury starts from within, focusing on the things that bring genuine comfort and joy, even if they're unseen by others. Join me as I uncover how these hidden elements can transform your daily routine into a series of small, yet profound, luxuries. Whether it is finding little happiness in Afrobeats like me or just enjoying the little things of life, whatever true luxury means to you I hope you go after it with the whole of your heart.

In this episode of "Yinka'sMuse," join Yinka and her good friend Yomi as they dive into the complex world of expectations. From unspoken assumptions to unrealistic hopes, expectations can shape our interactions and influence our emotions in ways we might not realize. Together, they explore how expectations are formed, the impact they have on friendships, family dynamics, and professional relationships, and the importance of clear communication. Through personal anecdotes and thoughtful reflections, they uncover practical strategies for managing expectations to foster healthier, more empathetic connections with others. Whether you're struggling with unmet expectations or simply curious about improving your relationships, this episode offers valuable insights and relatable stories that will resonate with everyone. Grab your favourite cup of coffee and tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation about the weight of expectations and how to navigate them. Key Takeaways: Understanding the roots and impact of expectations Recognizing unrealistic or uncommunicated expectations The importance of self-awareness and clear communication Balancing personal needs with empathy for others' perspectives Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with friends to keep the conversation going. Stay curious, stay kind, and keep those conversations flowing.

On this episode of the podcast, I talk about how we're all hoping and praying someone takes a chance with us.

One popular saying that's making the round is “nobody is going or coming to save you. You're the only person that can save yourself”. While there's some truth to this statement as it helps to take responsibility for our lives, it also perpetuates the myth that we're self sufficient of ourselves.

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where a friend opens up about their struggles, and instead of listening and showing support you let them know that your problems are bigger than theirs. On today's episode of the podcast, I talk about how to be a safe space for the people in our lives, how no one's problem is bigger than the other.

Evaluating our love lives starts by reflecting on past relationships, when you look back on your past or present relationships, what are some key lessons you've learned about yourself and your preferences in a partner? And how are you taking those lessons or evaluations to better improve yourself? On today's episode of the podcast, I talk about evaluating your love life by taking time to see what works, what can be improved and what should be removed. Listen with a Friend.

Starting the year on your terms means starting the year, however, you like. #startingtheyear #yinkasmuse #yinkasmusepodcast #resolutions #newterms

On this episode of the podcast, I talk about making moves, taking steps towards a particular goal or something and leaving everything that no longer serves you. As you proceed into the new year, make a decision to keep on positively towards your goals and leave behind everything holding you back.

When you thank God this year just thank God.Don't thank him because calamity affected others and didn't affect you. #yinkasmuse  #thanksgiving  #gratitude  #yinkasmusepodcast

Have you been asking the question, when will things change for me? When will this happen for me like I want it to? Then I want you to know that you're in a waiting season but it gets better.Hang in there.#waitingseason #waiting #faith #trustingGod #yinkasmuse #yinkasmusepodcast #christian #christianpodcast

There's no better time to start something than now, there's never a right time or wrong time, so start today.#startnow #startingnew #anewstart #business #idea #creative  #newgoal #newjob #creator #yinkasmuse #yinkasmusepodcast  #yinkasmuseblogger

Have you ever had to postpone your happiness? I think its a disservice when we do so no matter how valid your reasons are.#yinkasmuse #yinkasmusepodcast #happiness #postponehappiness #stopit #youdeservetobehappy #choosehappiness #CapCut

Extend grace to yourself… This a gentle reminder to always extend grace to myself, particularly on hard days.#grace #yinkasmuse #yinkasmusepodcast #itgetsbetter #motivation #faith #selfreminder #reminder

Beware of the little foxes that spoil the vine.Songs of Solomon 2: 15.#yinkasmuse #yinkasmusepodcast #yinkasmusevlog #beware #bewareofthelittlefoxes #foxes #scripture

Not everyone will support you and that's okay.#yinkasmuse #yinkasmusepodcast #podcast #vlog #noteveryone #support #art #creative

There's a kind of pressure that comes from the inside, it's a different kind of pressure.#yinkasmuse #yinkamusepodcast #vlog #pressure #adifferentkindofpressure #podcast #podcastshow

Surround yourself with good stories.☘️

On this episode of the podcast, my friend surprises me with a bunch of questions from my friends to ask me as I celebrate a new age.

Join me for an eye-opening episode as I explore the art of living a shameless life. From living your truths, acknowledging one's inadequacies, shortcomings, failures & successes to sharing empowering stories and offering practical examples on how to live authentically and fearlessly. Get ready to unleash your inner confidence and join me on this inspiring journey towards shameless living.

In this episode of the podcast, I talk about dealing with cycles of failures and rejection. I share personal experiences and tips on coping when terrible life situations begin to happen and how it is important not to cave in or give up but to keep pushing till our desired aim is achieved.

In this video, I talk about the exchange program at the university of Gothenburg with an exchange student. I asked her questions about her experiences, and what it was like, particularly in comparison to studying here in Sweden, Nigeria and in the united states.

Success can mean different things to different people. For some, success may be achieving financial wealth or career advancement. For others, success may be found in personal relationships or in the pursuit of a passion or hobby. In this episode of the podcast, we talk about what success means and how different people measure success. I invite my friend and we looked at an ongoing conversation to talk more about it. #success #failure #career #wealth #failure #passion # hubby

In this episode of the podcast, I talk about how tiredness silently cripples us when we focus on all the things we have hoped against all hope to happen but are yet to occur. I talk about the fact that while it's good to have expectations about the future and our goals, It's always best to keep forging ahead irrespective of the failures and disappointments of the past. #newyear #newgoals #tired #startingtheyear #slow #fastpace #motivation #inspirational #goals

On this episode of the podcast, I sit down with an SI Scholar recipient and ask questions about what to look out for when applying for the Swedish institute scholarship, what you need to know, what you need to do and take note of and things you should avoid. email address for the educational consultant:-Damide@energeia.com Link to apply for the SI Scholarship:- www.si.se #study #studyinsweden #studyabroad #students #sweden #admission #autumn #autumn2023 #europe #exchangestudy #exchangestudents #yinkasmuse #yinkasmusepodcast #podcasts #podcast #vlog #sischolarship #sweden #swedenscholarship #scholarship #scholarships #scholar

On this episode of the podcast, I talk about laying 2022 to rest as we welcome the new year. I share some of the challenges I faced and my wins and what I hope to do more of in the new year.   #Wrappinguptheyear #laying2022torest #2022 #goals #livinginsweden #challenges # work #school #life #relationships #love #endoftheyear #workinginsweden   Facebook:-  https://www.facebook.com/Yinkaadeniyi Twitter:-  https://twitter.com/yinkadeniyi Instagram:- https://www.instagram.com/yimimka/ Pinterest:- https://www.pinterest.se/Yimimka/ Anchor Podcast:- https://anchor.fm/yinkasmuse

On this episode of the podcast, I talk about laying 2022 to rest as we welcome the new year. I share some of the challenges I faced and my wins and what I hope to do more of in the new year. #Wrappinguptheyear #laying2022torest #2022 #goals #livinginsweden #challenges # work #school #life #relationships #love #endoftheyear #workinginsweden Facebook:- https://www.facebook.com/Yinkaadeniyi Twitter:- https://twitter.com/yinkadeniyi Instagram:- https://www.instagram.com/yimimka/ Pinterest:- https://www.pinterest.se/Yimimka/ Anchor Podcast:- https://anchor.fm/yinkasmuse

On this episode of the podcast, I ask several questions about the pursuit of love...hoping for answers from you.

On this episode of the podcast I and some of my friends talk about things we are grateful for even as we begin the second year of our master program. We talked about our journey, the waiting period, what we did during those times, how we perceived and how our life is here in sweden. #Journeytosweden #sweden #nigerianinsweden #studyinsweden #liveinsweden #masterstudent #japa

On this episode of the podcast I talk about the entitlement of behaviour that a lot of men have towards their partners. I mention that getting marriage isn't an achievement and shouldn't be considered such, neither should you think you're doing your partner a favour by being with them.

On this episode of the podcast I talk about what's been going on with me lately. I give updates on the different areas of my life and basically catch up with my listeners. #lifestyle #lifeupdate #lifelately #love #relationship #business #job #school #faith #moving #people #landlord #gettingburnt

In this episode of the podcast I & the host of "So This is Adulting" talk about online dating and the blessings and curses it brings

On this episode of the podcast, I talk about the importance of preparation meeting opportunity, how to keep pushing forward even though it looks like nothing is coming forward. I use the example of Marvin's record latest artist who was just recently signed by Don Jazzy and how his preparation was finally able to present him with this opportunity. #Donjazzy #music #marvinrecord #boyspyce #opportunity #preparation #goals #dreams #artist #creative #art

On this episode of the podcast I talk about how to remain true to who you're no matter life's challenges, I talk about how to not to lose your essence and become hard particularly for people living abroad. #livingabroad #working #cleaning #cleaner #oddjob #Blackjob #immigrant #minoritygroup #minority

In this episode on the podcast, I talked about the challenges of finding help in a new country and how its important to manage your expectations.

On this episode of the podcast I talk about feeling the pressure that comes with celebrating the valentines season and I lay more emphasis on not falling into the likely rabbit role that comes with it.

On this episode on the podcast, I talk about the importance of putting yourself first because why not ? Most importantly, because nobody else will and its important to prioritise oneself. #selflove #love #putyourselffirst #prioritiseyourself #loveyourself #relationship #friendship #marriage #dating #valentine #boyfriend #girlfriend Make sure to follow me on social media Twitter - https://twitter.com/yinkadeniyi Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/yinkasmuse Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/yinkasmusepodcast/

On this episode of the podcast, I talk about the dread that a lot of us have when we are coming into a new age, I talk about the inadequacies we feel, the feeling that we haven't done enough or accomplished anything worth celebrating or anything that should make us happy. #birthday #dread #fear #inadequacies #accomplishment #worth #celebration #newage #happy #yinkasmuse #podcast #whoppiegoldberg #sweden #nigeria #europe #africa Make sure to follow me on social media Twitter - https://twitter.com/yinkadeniyi Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/yinkasmuse Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/yinkasmusepodcast/

On this episode of the podcast I talk about what it means to keep moving forward. I share personal experience from someone from my past and how not moving forward can make one feel stuck. #movingforward #forward #progress #life #career #relationship #business #family #moving