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In part 2 of this interview with Dr. Dan Allender, Heather and Dan delve into what it truly means to experience a deeper, more fulfilling marriage. Dr. Allender shared profound insights into how our past plays a crucial role in shaping our present and how this understanding can guide us toward redemption and healing in our relationships. Here are themes for our conversation today: Growth in Marriage: True growth in marriage is not just about comfort and convenience. It involves addressing past traumas and engaging with each other's differences to heal and understand the work of the spirit in our lives. The Role of Desire: Desire in a marriage is never equal, and understanding this difference can lead to greater curiosity and compassion rather than conflict. It's about exploring each other's hearts and seeking out redemption together. The Intersection of Shame and Delight: Our deepest areas of shame are often where we can find the most profound delight, especially in the context of marriage. Dr. Allender emphasized the importance of inviting kindness into our hearts to truly reflect this delight onto our spouses. Stay til the very end when Dr. Allender explains why shame and food are as interconnected as shame and sex! Learn more about Dr. Dan Allender and his new book: Deep-Rooted Marriage. (Amazon affiliate link) Learn more about Compared to Who? or join the next 40-Day Journey to Body Image Freedom here: https://www.improvebodyimage.com Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
This episode is sponsored by: Welcome to another empowering episode of the Thinking Big Podcast, in this episode we explore the critical role of desire when pursuing big goals. This episode dives into the essence of true desire, especially when the going gets tough. Remember Mike Tyson's wise words: "Everybody has a plan until they get punched in the mouth." This episode isn't just about the punches life throws at you; it's about how your desire reacts to those punches. Key Takeaways: Understanding True Desire: It's easy to be driven when the path is clear, but real desire shines in adversity. Inspirational Stories: Learn from the greatest achievers in history and what set them apart. Self-Reflection: Assess the strength and clarity of your own desires. The Power of Desire: Desire is the starting point of all achievements. Keeping the Fire Burning: How to maintain and harness your desire to achieve your dreams. Upcoming Episode Teaser: A sneak peek into our next topic – decision making and its relation to desire. Quotable Moments: "True desire shines brightest in the face of adversity." "Desire is the starting point of all achievements for us." "Keep that fire of desire burning. Let it guide you, drive you, and transform your dreams into reality." As someone deeply invested in growth, I urge you to constantly fuel your desire, even when obstacles seem insurmountable. Remember, the size of your success is only limited by the size of your desire. FAQs: Q: How do I maintain my desire in tough times? A: Remember your ultimate goal and the joy of achieving it. Let that vision drive you. Q: Can desire alone lead to success? A: Desire is the spark, but it needs the fuel of hard work and persistence. Q: How can I differentiate between a whim and a true desire? A: True desire withstands challenges and grows stronger over time. Q: How often should I reassess my desires? A: Regularly. It's important to ensure they align with your evolving goals and values. Q: Is it okay to change my desires? A: Absolutely. Growth often involves changing desires and goals. Connect with Sean Osborn at Thinking Big Coaching Thinking Big Coaching Website Instagram Facebook Be sure to check out your free 6 Human Needs Assessment 6 Human Needs Assessment If you enjoyed listening then please take a second to rate the show on iTunes. Every podcaster will tell you that iTunes reviews drive listeners to our shows so please let me know what you thought and make sure you subscribe using your favorite podcast player. It means a lot to me and to the guests.
Shall we take a deep dive into the journey of a Nigerian immigrant in Canada? Meet Desire, a multi-faceted individual who joined us to share his extraordinary experiences. His recollections touch not just on cultural shock and acceptance, but also the future he envisions in his new home, the preservation of his Nigerian culture, and his upbringing and education in Nigeria. Desire's narrative will captivate you, as he unravels his transition to Canada, the challenges, the triumphs, and all the tiny details that make this transition unique. His stories of navigating through language barriers and career opportunities, and his observations on Canadian inclusivity will make you ponder on the nuances of immigration. The conversation takes a fascinating turn as we discuss how Desiree responds to the often-asked question, "Where are you from?"As we stroll through Desiree's career path in Canada, a tale of resilience and networking that led him from a customer service job to a lecturing position at Fanshawe College unfolds. Desire's volunteer work opens a window to his personality, as he talks about building networks and creating opportunities. As we end the conversation, Desire reflects on his journey, shares his insights on Canada's immigration system, and offers advice for others experiencing cultural shock. Come along to explore Desire's inspiring story!Follow the host and the podcast on Social Media channels below: My Thick Accent on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mythickaccent/My Thick Accent on Threads - https://www.threads.net/@mythickaccent?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==MyThickAccent.com - https://www.mythickaccent.com/Gurasis's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/iamgurasis/Gurasis's LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamgurasis/__________________________________________To contact Desire:Desire's LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/olabode-desire?lipi=urn%3Ali%3Apage%3Ad_flagship3_profile_view_base_contact_details%3Bi%2FJOSBloTkOTj82Q%2FVGDVQ%3D%3DDesire's Books - https://www.amazon.ca/s?i=stripbooks&rh=p_27%3AOlabode+Desire+Omogbehin&s=relevancerank&text=Olabode+Desire+Omogbehin&ref=dp_byline_sr_book_1Portfolio - https://www.desireolabode.wordpress.com/Agency - https://flywheeleffectbiz.com/Want to share your story? Or know someone I should invite next on the show? DM us or write to us at Hello@mythickaccent.com
Jeff Heggie Daily Success Strategies 474: There Are No Limitations To The Mind Except Those We Acknowledge www.JeffHeggie.com/BestYearEver Everything Is Created Twice Article: https://jeffheggie.com/2020/11/16/everything-is-created-twice-the-first-time-in-the-mind-and-then-in-reality/ “Everything is created twice, the first time in your mind and then in reality.” – Robin Sharma Is it possible to pronounce your future and have it come to pass? Neville Goddard said that “not one thing has appeared in a man's world but what man decreed that it should.” All that is, all that we have today, was first created in the mind. Airplanes, cars, light bulbs, iPhones all began as a thought before they became reality. Look around you right now and recognize the amazing things, many which we take for granted, that we have because someone first thought of them. In Think and Grow Rich(https://amzn.to/3I8zb6a), Napoleon Hill said, “There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge.” Your mind, thoughts and imagination create your future. It's up to you whether you unconsciously allow that to happen, or you take charge of those things and in turn take charge of your future. The Power of Desire “Desire is the starting point of all achievement.” – Napoleon Hill Desire is knowing what you want and is a key to success in life. Stephen Covey taught us to “begin with the end in mind.” When we know what we want and have a desire to achieve it, we have the end I mind. We know the outcome that we are after. By using our imagination, visualization and making our desire the dominating thoughts of our mind, our conscious and subconscious go to work to help us to find a way to accomplish it. Napoleon Hill taught that when we set our goals and establish what it is that we truly desire, creating a Definite Chief Aim and following the steps he outlines, it will help you to achieve those goals. He tells us that wishing will not make us achieve our goals. But desiring to achieve our goals with a state of mind that makes it become an obsession, then planning definite ways and means to achieve the goals and backing those plans with persistence which does not recognize failure, will bring the desired results. The Process of Creating a Definite Chief Aim: 1. Fix in your mind exactly what it is that you desire 2. Determine exactly what you intend to give in return for that which you desire 3. Establish a definite date by which you intend to achieve your desire 4. Create a definite plan for carrying out your desire and begin at once, whether you are ready or not, to put this plan into action 5. Write out a clear, concise statement of what you intend to accomplish. Name the time limit to achieving it, state what you intend to give in return for it and describe clearly the plan through which you intend to do it. 6. Read your written statement aloud, twice daily The Confident Athlete Program: https://jeffheggie.com/confidentathlete High Achievers Success: https://mindset.jeffheggie.com/
Levels of Desire (3) Pre-Desire: Desire to Desire Ayin Beis Volume 1, Discourse 17, Atem Netzovim, Chapter 65 p. 121-123 Short Summary: The actual (revealed) desire is preceded and rooted in the power of desire (or concealed desire), thought, which is simply a heskem, a resolution and determination on the worthiness of the desire, but is not yet an actual stimulated desire, being drawn and longing to the object. It can even take time between these two stages. (This is lower than the firm essential desire (rotzon ha'muchlat b'etzem), which is simply within the essence, and may never be expressed). Long Summary: The actual (revealed) desire is preceded and rooted in the power of desire (or concealed desire), which is simply a resolution and determination (heskem) on the worthiness of the desire, but is not yet an actual stimulated desire, that is longing for and palpably being drawn to the object. This stage of desire, which emerges after some awakening of desire, is a step lower than the firm essential desire (rotzon ha'muchlat b'etzem), which is simply within the essence beyond any form of arousal, and may never be stimulated and expressed. By contrast, the desire we are discussing comes after his interest has been aroused and he had an internal dialogue whether this object is worthy to be desired or not, and he has determined that it is worthy. Yet, the desire is still only a determination, not an actual yearning. It's possible that years may elapse until he will actually desire and pursue the object. This determination is called "thought," not actual desire - rotzon -- which consists of the same letters as "tzinor", a channel that draws down the soul to a particular object, being that he is excited and immersed in the desire. Concepts: Determination to Desire Sources: Transcendence (chapters 49-83)
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Jeff Heggie Daily Success Strategies 157: Everything is Created Twice, the First Time in the Mind and Then in Reality www.JeffHeggie.com Mindset.JeffHeggie.com “Everything is created twice, the first time in the mind and then in reality.” - Robin Sharma Is it possible to pronounce your future and have it come to pass? Neville “not one thing has appeared in a man's world but what man decreed that it should.” All that is, was first created in the mind. Airplanes, cars, rockets... Your thoughts are either your limitation or your path to freedom. The life you are living is the result of your conscious and subconscious being. In Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill said, “There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge.” Desire - “Desire is the starting point of all achievement.” - Napoleon Hill Many failures are the result of an individual's lack of passion, direction, and aim in life. Desire is knowing what you want and is a key to success in life. Stephen Covey taught us to “begin with the end in mind.” By using our imagination, visualization and making our desires the dominating thoughts of our mind, our conscious and subconscious go to work to help us to find a way to accomplish our desires. Visualize Your Future - Rabbi Daniel Lapin in Thou Shall Prosper Whether you are contemplating an investment or planning on opening a new business, faith is paramount. If you are unable to clearly visualize what it will all look like were it to go well, you would be better off deferring the action util you can see it. Your chances of success are vastly enhanced if you spend a few moments first actively visualizing the conversation with your prospect as culminating triumphantly Visualization – Neville: From the end, rather than Of the end "We must use imagination masterfully. Not as an onlooker thinking from the end. But as a partaker, thinking from the end. We must actually be there in imagination. If we do this, our subjective experience will be realized objectively." Golf My Way, Jack Nicklaus said, “I never hit a shot, even in practice, without having a very sharp, in-focus picture of it with my head. It's like a color movie. First I “see” the ball where I want it to finish, nice and white and sitting up high on the bright green grass. Then the scene quickly changes and I “see” the ball going there: its path, trajectory, and shape, even its behavior on landing. Then there's a sort of fade-out, and the next scene shows me making the kind of swing that will turn the previous images into reality.” “The greatest achievement was, at first, and for a time, but a dream.” - James Allen You can create the future of your dreams. It will take work and effort on your part, but it all begins with your imagination. If you cannot first imagine it, you will never achieve it. The more you imagine and visualize the future you desire, the more it becomes a burning desire which you'll be able to bring into reality. Neville: Don't think of your goals, think from your goals Mindset.jeffheggie.com
Anna looks at desire in A Streetcar Named Desire, for your A Level English Literature course. In this episode, she will look at how the various characters express desire, and how women's desire is treated differently to men's. Ideal for preparing you for your A Level English Literature exam. Click here for the full course, or visit this link: http://bit.ly/36ZLiAA
An student-led exploration of the theme of desire in Tennessee Williams’ play ‘A Streetcar Named Desire’.
How do you practice safe, sane, consensual kink “in color”? What is fire-play? How do you navigate master-slave relationships? And how do you understand a submissive's needs? Shanae Adams aka Honestly Nae, joins Jess and Brandon to share their insights as professional Dominatrix and kink educator. Follow Shanae on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Youtube. Also check out their sex-positive collaborative in Denver, The Chrysalis House. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. If you've got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone's headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. PechaKucha: Kink & BDSM with Honestly Nae 00:00:05 - 00:05:09 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess podcast sacks and relationship advice. You can use tonight Welcome to the sex with Dr Jeff podcast. I'm your co host Brandon. Wear and I'm here to didn't know if you're gonNA chime in or not Dr Jess I was waiting for. I'm with my partner the lovely doctor just isn't that what you usually say what I say but you. I thought you were going to chime in all right well. I'm here now and I want to give a big. Thank you to desire resorts. Desire Desire cruises check them out online at desire experience. Today we are so fortunate to be joined by honestly honestly nee sex educator professional. Dom Dom instructor you go by the name. Sire uh-huh explained to US Sire Siren King spaces 'cause I'm royalty and you will just me such so yes sire no sire more sire. Oh man it just got really seriously though remind Brennan of last night with me pretty much yeah she wants to be addressed now slightly different language but the same message now you are a Bedia educator a kink educator. You are going to be a sex therapist opening a practice very soon yes and you and I were in North Carolina. we determined that not says here not mid. Carolina north one the northbound four the North Carolina Conference Convention Ya going to mention it was amazing. It was brilliant. It was so well done and one of my favorite events at this conference was the Petra Coochie Night Ketchup Coochie Patrick Uji pitch couture pet set your coochie. Cut Your coochie with consent so Pacha Kucha is a presentation style where you show twenty images his each for twenty seconds and you talk for twenty seconds per image to tell a story and there were twelve presenters that night you were one of the presenters presented Kink in color yes celebrating black bodies in King spaces and I would love and Brennan has been requesting because he started to watch it on your instagram and your instagram is honestly may so he wants to see and hear the rest of it so you're going to run through your Petukhov Petukhov presentation for us all right now all right all right here we go are so I am honestly May Sexuality Professional by day which basically basically means that I host comprehensive education workshops talk about healthy relationships and consider in reproductive justice and contraception all the things right but but by night I am Sire Professional Dominatrix you will adjust address me as such in King spaces. Yes sire no sire more sire and and as a professional dominatrix. I get to help people live out their kinky or they bedia some fantasies in a safe way in I get to help people kind of explore that outside of themselves now. My journey started when I was in high school.
Today on Mindset Transformation Radio and podcast, we are continuing with our series on the The Alchemy of Desire Episode 5- The Long Term Relationship Dance. My co -host for this series is my girl pal the fabulous Ms Margo Blake. Margo is a One Taste Intimacy Coach and, I am a Mindset Coach. Together we want to share our knowledge on this Topic “The Alchemy of Desire and Intimacy”What is Desire – Desire can be called the feminine face of God! Desire is what God places in your spirit to lead you to your purpose. It is the key that unlocks what God placed you on this earth to do.We all Desire to be in loving fulfilling relationships with our Partners, our children, our friends and co-workers. We desire to have successful careers, some of us desire to procreate and have children, we desire to be emotionally and physically healthy, we desire to be wealthy, and today we are going to touch on the desire for flow in our relationships and not ebb.The Dance of Intimacy Anyone in a long-term relationship knows the relationship dance well. It took me a while to understand this dance. I walked out of my first marriage at age 21 declaring boldly “I am no longer in love with my husband and I refuse to live in a loveless marriage at age 21.” After 4 marriages I now know that relationships EBB and FLOW. Erotic love turns into Agape love. Passion and desire EBB and FLOW. In all my relationships fighting and then having make up sex was usually the shock than rejuvenated the relationship. In the beginning of anything there is more energy just as electrify is more powerful at the source, feelings are more powerful when they are new. As feelings change and familiarity sets in, the intimacy dance begins. Just as you have to practice the waltz on the dance floor, in a similar way you must practice your dance in the bedroom. It is important to understand why you and your partner connected in the first place and why you disconnected. Since all relationships begin within, the scenery out there is the scenery in here. You can’t give away what you don’t have. So the first step when you become aware of the EBB in your relationship is to take an inventory of the self. Meditation can help. In our first episode I introduced the book "The Alchemy of Desire." In this book the lovers were passionate and couldn’t keep their hands off each other, then life happened and intimacy veined. Every relationship faces this junction. Once relationships become more established, the individuals in the union begin to turn their attention outward again. To the other parts of their lives that matter, such as work, family, and friendships. This is natural and healthy but; if a long-term relationship is to last, turning towards one another recurrently, with the same curiosity, attention, and nurturance of earlier times, is essential. In a busy and demanding world full of obligations and opportunities, we sometimes lose track of our primary relationships, thinking they will tend to themselves. We may have the best intentions when we think about how nice it would be to surprise our partner with a gift or establish a weekly date night. Yet somehow, life gets in the way. We may think that our love is strong enough to survive without attention. Yet even mature trees need water and sunlight if they are to thrive. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Today on WDJY 99.1 FM straight talk radio our topic is “How does Infidelity affect Intimacy and Desire for our Partner ” We all Desire to be in loving fulfilling relationships with our Partners, our children, our friends and co-workers. We desire to have successful careers, some of us desire to procreate and have children, we desire to be emotionally and physically healthy, we desire to be wealthy, and today we are going to touch on our desire for our partners to be faithful to their commitment to us.But what happens when they don’t? Statistics show that as much of 70% of men and women cheat on their spouses and committed partners. My co -host for this episode is my girl pal the fabulous Ms Margo Blake. Margo is a One Taste Intimacy Coach and, I am a Mindset Coach. Together we want to share our knowledge on this Topic “How does Infidelity affect Intimacy and Desire for our partner”What is Desire – Desire can be called the feminine face of God! Desire is what God places in your spirit to lead you to your purpose. It is the key that unlocks what God placed you on this earth to do.The dictionary calls Alchemy a seemingly magical process of transformation, creation, or combination. I will tell you from personal experience that there is nothing that transforms an intimate relationship into something magical, like the surety that your partner will not break his vows or commitment to you, that he or she loves you unconditionally and would not look at another. Not too many of us can walk in that space, being able to swear that our partners would not cheat on us. Let’s recap. In our first episode we talked about how to manifest the desires of your heart. The first step is knowing what you want. The second step is adding emotions to it In our second episode we talked on how to use the energy of desire to create something magical. In our 3 episode we Used the Power of Attention to light our desires afire. If you missed those 3 episodes, please download on then on iTunes, Sticher or TuneIn podcast. Today we want to turn up the heat another notch as we talk about the controversial subject of Infidelity and how it changes Intimacy. So, lets dive right in. Margo is an Intimacy coach with One Taste. So let’s start off our discussion today by having her weigh in on the conversation. Illustrations of an intense desire for intimacy UK Artist Ben Newman brings a different kind of taste to satirical art. This is sultry and saucy at the same time.His boldness in combining sexy female characters with robots present in the fantasy world is amazing with an intense desire for intimacy. Show Notes: 1.Question 1: Margo as an intimacy coach, how has your clients dealt with infidelity? 2.How have you dealt with infidelity? 3.What happens when Desire goes looking somewhere else? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
The Alchemy of Desire is the magical process of the transformation of your desires to reality. This transformation happens faster if we empower it with Attention. In this episode we are going to teach you how to use the, Power of Attention, to manifest all your dreams and desires. What is Desire – Desire can be called the feminine face of God! I love this sentence! Desire is what God places in your spirit to lead you to your purpose. It is the key that unlocks what God placed you on this earth to do.We Desire for our partners physically and spiritually, we desire our careers, we desire to procreate and have children, we desire to be emotionally and physically healthy, we desire to be wealthy but most of all we desire to fulfill our purpose on this earth and leave it a better place then we found it. In our first blog on this topic, we talked about how to manifest the Desires of your Heart. The first step is knowing what you want. The second step is adding emotions to it. In our second blog post on the Alchemy of Desire, we talked on how to use the, Energy of Desire, to create something magical. If you missed those 2 episodes, please listen to then my iTunes podcast. Today we want to turn up the heat and talk about the “Power of Attention” •Now that we know what we want. •We know how to use the energy of emotion to engage the laws of attraction. •Now, we want to light our desire afire with the "Power of Attention." You remember as a kid you would hold a magnet over a piece of paper and have the Attention of the sun light the paper afire, that is what the, Power of Attention, can do to your Desires. So, lets dive right in. My co-host on this episode Margo Blake, an Intimacy coach with One Taste. Tune in to Sticher to listen to Margo tell her personal story of using, The Power of Attention, after her divorce to attract her now soulmate. The word desire does not only belong with, sexual desires. As a Mindset Coach, today I want to show you how the energy or, Power of Attention, can transform your Desires into something magical as promised by the Alchemy of Desire. The power of AttentionAttention is your power source. Rarely does a quality life just show up by chance. What you give your attention to expands. If you want your dream to come through, you have to do more than dream. You must focus your attention and activate the power of Attention. The power source for having an Intention that comes through is Attention. What you pay Attention to will grow. If your intention comes from the level of your true self, it can attract anything. Attention activates the energy of Attraction. Every wish or desire is like a tiny seed that contains the blueprint for the tree that manifests from the seed. The seed of Desire which is also the seed of any Intention needs nourishment to grow. If you want your desire to manifest here are some important ways to put the right attention on it: 1.Have a clear intention or goal; don't muddy it with doubt and fear regarding why it won't come true. 2.Have positive emotions around your desire, feel how good it will be to fulfill it. 3.Believe that what you want is beneficial to you without any negative consequences to those around you. 4.Be prepared for any response the Universe brings and be flexible to where you go from there. 5.Feel confident that hidden sources will come to your aide once your... See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Today on Mindset Transformation Radio and podcast, we are continuing with our series on the Alchemy of Desire. How to transform the Energy of Desire to Create Something Magical inside and outside of the Bedroom. My co -host for this series is my girl pal the fabulous Ms Margo Blake. Margo is a One Taste intimacy coach. And of course I am a Mindset coach. Together we want to share our knowledge on this Topic “the Alchemy of Desire”What is Desire? – Desire can be called the Feminine face of God! I love this sentence! Desire is what God places in your spirit to lead you to your purpose. It is the key that unlocks what God placed you on this earth to do.We Desire for our partners physically and spiritually, we desire our careers, we desire to procreate and have children, we desire to be emotionally and physically healthy, we desire to be wealthy.Let me share with you the meaning of Alchemy. The dictionary calls Alchemy a seemingly magical process of transformation, creation, or combination. That includes. "finding the person who's right for you requires a very subtle alchemy" The Alchemy of Desire by Tarun J. TejpalIn his book Mr Tajpal tells the story of a young couple, penniless but gloriously in love. Obsessed with each other, they move from a small town to the big city, where the man, who dreams of being a writer, works feverishly on a novel, stopping only to feed his ceaseless desire for his beautiful wife. This book offers, in searing, lucid prose, a deeply sensual and moving meditation on the nature of desire, history, truth, and art. One Taste Coaching program called the Alchemy of Desire teaches Tantra, and how to use erotica to transform your desires into something magical. My co-host Margo Blake is an intimacy coach who works with couples to achieve their desires.The word desire does not only belong with sexual desires. As a Mindset Coach, I want to coach you on how the Energy of Desire can transform your life. I want to teach you how you can harness desire to create and transform your world. The Alchemy of Desire. Behind every desire is the need to feel good! On our last episode of the, Mindset Transformation radio show, I asked you to feel your desires and bring them into the present moment with emotion. I am sure that when you think of your desires you feel good, otherwise you would be called a sadist! Everything you desire is because you think it will bring you some form of pleasure. I will also hazard a guess that your desires is for some form of experience. Here are 7 major positive emotions and Desire heads up the list.The seven positive emotions are:1.Desire2.Faith3.Love4.Sex5.Enthusiasm6.Romance7.HopeHere is the process that starts with desire. You desire something, then you package it with positive emotion. Thoughts are energy travelling at a high rate of vibration. Thoughts that have been modified or stepped up by any of the major positive emotions vibrate at a much higher rate than ordinary thought. Then you auto suggest this desire to your subconscious mind. The subconscious mind is the sending station of the brain in which vibrations of thought are broadcasted. The creative imagination is the receiving center. Your creative imagination picks this message up and desire is formed. I was watching television documentary a few months back. They were talking about marriage and the difference between men and women as far as their desires for their wedding day. They said that every 7 year old girl has already visualized her wedding day. She has imagined the groom, See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Where it all begins.... Have that BURNING desire to achieve the dreams you want to, listen to these five steps to bring those desires straight into reality !!!
What is the Alchemy of Desire? – Desire can be called the feminine face of God! Desire is what God places in our spirit to lead us to our purpose. It is the key that unlocks what God placed you on this earth to do.We have Desire for our partners physically and spiritually, we desire our careers, we desire to procreate and have children, we desire to be emotionally and physically healthy, we desire to be wealthy.So why the topic the Alchemy of Desire you ask again? My co-host today is Margo Blake, a One Taste coach. One Taste has a coaching workshop called the Alchemy of Desire. This workshop focuses on sexual desire; and I wanted to expand that Alchemy of sexual desire to encompass all desires. Let me share with you the meaning of Alchemy. The dictionary calls Alchemy a seemingly magical process of transformation, creation, or combination. That includes. "finding the person who's right for you requires a very subtle alchemy"The book the Alchemy of Desire was made famous by by Tarun J. TejpalIn his book Mr Tajpal tells the story of a young couple, penniless but gloriously in love. Obsessed with each other, they move from a small town to the big city, where the man, who dreams of being a writer, works feverishly on a novel, stopping only to feed his ceaseless desire for his beautiful wife.A chance occurrence allows the lovers to abandon the city for a mist-shrouded spur of the lower Himalayas and move into a sprawling old house, which they hope will embody their love. At first they pursue their deep physical need with a reckless intensity. But during renovations of the house, a set of diaries written by the original inhabitant—a glamorous American adventuress—is unearthed, and the narrator finds himself irresistibly drawn away from his wife and thrust into another world and time, into the hole of history. As his life and love fall apart, he slowly begins to uncover the dark secrets at the heart of her story, until the shocking truth is laid bare and all certainties are overturned. It also offers, in searing, lucid prose, a deeply sensual and moving meditation on the nature of desire, history, truth, and art.The word desire does not only belong with sexual desires. As a mindset coach I created a work shop to help me and my clients manifest the desires of our hearts. As mentioned in the definition of the word Alchemy. Alchemy is the magical process of transformation and creation. •We must identify the desires we most want to have and then breathe life into them with the power of our emotions. •To bring the quantum possibility into particle existence emotions is the key. •Emotions is the only way to give power to our thoughts and animate them. •When we focus conscious energy towards what is desired and give it life through emotion, what we desire will always show up. •I teach my clients to create a list of all the attributes they desire. •Its Like going into a restaurant and ordering your desire. What do you want to eat? •You don’t just go into the restaurant and order whatever they are serving; so you shouldn’t do that with your life either. •Be clear on what you want to create. It is important to live life from that vantage point. Imagine your most important desire is already yours, imagine that it is already happening. •To do this Ask yourself the following questions: •1. What is life like now that I have the thing I want the most? •2. How is life different than it was before when I didn’t have the thing that I want the most? •3. How is my time spent differently? •4. How does it feel when I wake up in the morning? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Everyone has greatness within them. God has put potential in everybody, but are you playing your part to achieve that potential? To Joe, potential is the maximum level of success or fulfillment you could possibility reach. If you squeezed out every ounce of that special something in you, to do what you were created to do, and you overcame every obstacle and you shed off all the negatives that come at you, what you will achieve then would be your full potential. Another great definition of potential is “the best version of yourself.” If you take all the skills, experiences, qualities that you’ve got and you distill it down to the best you can possibly be, that’s achieving your potential. Every one should strive to achieve their potential but too many people don’t work hard to achieve it. It’s also really easy to get caught up in things that get you off track, and cause you to lose focus. As a result, very few people achieve their full potential. There are three things that have a direct impact on whether your potential is maximized or falling backwards: aptitude, environment and desires. Aptitude Everybody has some natural abilities. That goes back to your purpose, your areas of greatest strength and what some people call your ‘super powers’. Additionally, what determines your aptitude, is the level of schooling or education you get. It’s your character and your integrity, your core values and what you believe. If you believe things that are negative or destructive, you’re not going to move towards your potential. If you believe in things like integrity, honesty, and serving other people, those types of things will move you towards your potential. So your core values play an important role with your aptitude. Environment The easiest definition of environment is your physical location. If you have two people and one is born in poverty and lives in a mud hut in the third world, their potential is limited compared to someone born in a Western society who has access to school, access to the internet, access to food. Those aspects of environment play a huge role in whether or not you’re going to have the opportunity to achieve your potential. Another area of your environment is your culture. Culture is the environment of a group of people, which Joe covered in a previous episode. It can be the culture of a nation, the culture of a church, the culture of an organization, the culture of a company and/or the culture of you and your friends. The culture is going to play a huge role in whether you’re going to achieve your potential or whether you’ll allow yourself to be pulled away from it. The culture of the groups you spend the most time with, and your personal culture, plays a huge role in the achievement of your potential. Another part of your environment is your mentors or your role models, the people you learned from, the people who showed you the way and went before you. Desire Desire to Joe, is directly related to your purpose in life. Why did God create you? If you have a purpose and a vision of what you want to be that is so strong it propels you toward it, that desire is going to carry you toward your potential. If you are not protecting your confidence, will-power, or energy and they are being depleted before your day even gets going, that will pull you backwards. So desire is going to play a huge role in whether you are moving forward with the potential God put in you or whether you are being pulled away from it. Attitude, environment and desire; take a look at those things. Which of them are working in your favor? Which of them are working against you? Which of them can you change so they’re working you in favor? In America, there is an epidemic of lost potential. When you look at sports, it’s easy to tell whether someone is achieving their potential, because it’s all about performance on the field. You’re either winning or you’re not. You’re breaking records or you’re not. When you’re dealing with life or business, there are gray areas. You can’t quite tell whether someone is achieving their potential in the way you can with sports. Dwight Gooden and Darryl Strawberry had both the aptitude and the desire to be among the best baseball players in history and help the Mets achieve a 10-15 year dynasty after they won the World Series in 1986. However, they didn’t have the right environment. They were surrounded by a party culture. Drugs, women, drinking and they got caught up in the addictions. And because of that, although they were great for a couple of years, their true potential was squandered. In your life, when you look at your potential and the areas where you want to be great, what areas are cheating you out of your greatness? Where are you lying to yourself or engaging in an activity or behavior that doesn’t line up with where your potential should be taking you? What are you doing to correct those things? There are really five different areas that stop people from achieving their potential. Laziness The first thing that holds people back from achieving their potential is laziness. They’re complacent, self-satisfied, and don’t have any goals or vision. They’ve just settled into a comfort zone and basically given up the desire to be anything more. If you’re in that lazy zone but you have a glimmer of desire to be more, what can you do to break the cycle? It comes down to your WHY. Why do you not want to be lazy anymore? What is your purpose? You such a powerful WHY that you will do it even when you don’t feel like doing it. Lazy is hard to overcome without goals or vision or values. By the way, quiet time is not lazy time because quiet time is the time that gives your brain a little oxygen and that oxygen allows the fire to light that gets things going. Quiet time is a great way for someone who is complacent and satisfied with mediocrity to start. Think about what you’d like to be great at and what your purpose is. Spend time imagining what life would be like if you really got good at that and honed your skills there. If you’re lazy, you need to find a WHY that’s going to stop you from being lazy. Fear The second reason people fall short of their potential, is they’re scared. It’s not a terrified, trembling-in-your-boots scared, but having no confidence. You never want to leave your comfort zone because you don’t know what’s out there. Or maybe you failed in the past and you’re afraid you’re going to fail again. Maybe you didn’t quite measure up one time and you were humiliated or made fun of and you don’t want to experience that again. Everybody is scared, at times. It all comes back to your comfort zone. Stepping out of your comfort zone is scary. Figure out, what it is you’re scared about, and do it scared!. That’s the best way. Expand that comfort zone because if you are not stretching your comfort zone everyday, it is shrinking. Every day you can move forward, every day you can expand your comfort zone, and every day you can experience what it's like to step out. If you try something new, you’re not going to be good at it the first time you try it. You need to take the attitude of a learner and not be afraid to look silly or goofy. Just do it and then laugh about it when it’s tough and try again to get better at it. That’s how you learn, so if you’re scared, expand your comfort zone and do it scared. Lack of discipline The third thing that stops people is they are undisciplined. They’re distracted. They don’t know how to prioritize. They don’t know how to grind. They’re not able to focus for a long period of time to move the ball forward on a project. Lack of discipline comes from a short attention span, or when people multitask five things at once but actually are doing five things badly. Undisciplined comes from stretching too thin and trying to do too much. If you get to the end of a day, exhausted because you’ve been so busy, but haven’t actually accomplished anything important, then you may have a problem with discipline. You need to learn how to focus, and a great place to start is to read Gary Keller’s book The One Thing and set aside an hour to work on your purpose. It’s important to understand, what got you to your current level of success, is not going get you to the next level of success. You have to change things. Are you doing things now, just like you’ve always done them and expecting a different result? If you are, you may have something you need to deconstruct, take up a step back and reconstruct better before you move forward. A lot of times, getting disciplined and focused is one of those things. Deceived The fourth reason people fall short of their potential is they’re deceived. They’re lying to themselves, saying they’re doing fine when they’re not. Or pretending that there’s not a problem when there is. They’ve convinced themselves everything will go great, when it really won’t. Most of all, they’re not willing to admit they have a problem they need to address or an issue they need to solve. Another way people lie to themselves is they expect it to be easy. They expect the things worth having in life to be easy to achieve. And typically, the best things in life are very difficult to achieve. Also, people make excuses. They act like the world is against them. They're victims. Those people are deceived. The day you become an adult, your problems are on you. It’s not always fair but the truth is the world doesn’t care. The day you become an adult, it is your job to overcome whatever challenges are in front of you. Are you going to be an overcomer? Or are you going to wallow in self-pity and pretend the world owes you something? It’s not to minimize problems, but it’s about making a decision to be an overcomer. Don’t deceive yourself into thinking the world owes you anything because you were dealt a bad hand. Face your problems and your issues head on, and figure out a way to overcome them. Arrogance The fifth reason why people fall short of their potential is arrogance. These are the people who won’t ask for help, who lack humility, or who have no commitment to personal growth because they think they know everything they need to know. They have no mentors, no examples, and no ongoing education. Howard Brinton always said, "Get out of judgment and get into curiosity." We can learn something from anybody we meet. If you sit down and ask those people, everybody has wisdom they can share. And if you take the attitude of a student in life, you’re going to learn things from everybody. If you walk through life with arrogance, like you know everything, you’re missing out on all kinds of stuff that can help you, make your life richer, and help you reach your potential. So get out of judgment, get into curiosity and be a student of life. Out of those five reasons why people fall short of their potential—laziness, fear, lack of discipline, being deceived and arrogance—which of them is holding you back? Are you really doing everything you can to achieve your potential? Everybody has something getting in their way. Whatever it is, you need to address it. Spend the time to find solutions and get inspiration. Allow your brain the space to think about your potential and what’s keeping you from doing that. What kind of person are you? What are you going to be? Are you going to go after your potential? Or are you going to let the world beat it out of you? If you’ve enjoyed the podcast today, Joe would love to hear from you. Email him at joe@studentoflifepodcast.com Hit subscribe and share the podcast with your friends. Have a great week!