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Outline Biblical Foundation for Confrontation Scripture establishes that fault will be found in others and ourselves as human beings prone to error Jesus provides guidance on how to handle each other's faults through proper confrontation methods Matthew 7:1-6 emphasizes the importance of checking one's own heart before addressing others' sins to avoid hypocrisy Self-examination through prayer and seeking God's guidance is essential before confronting someone else's wrongdoing Approaching confrontation without recognizing our own weaknesses lacks the humility necessary for successful resolution The goal of confrontation should be recovering people to right standing with God rather than making them act according to our preferences Partnership and relationship should characterize confrontation rather than accusatory behavior. Private Confrontation Protocol Matthew 18:15-20 establishes that the first step involves going directly to the person alone about their fault Scripture specifically emphasizes confronting someone "alone" rather than involving multiple people initially Spreading information about someone's sin to others before addressing them directly creates an "oil spill" effect that becomes difficult to clean up Multiple people become impacted by knowledge of the sin without opportunity for reconciliation if the matter is resolved privately Community members may carry grudges against the person even after repentance occurs because they never witness the restoration Biblical protocol requires relational courage to address issues directly rather than avoiding confrontation Failure to confront privately often leads to hardening of heart, distancing behavior, and protective mechanisms that damage relationships. Escalation Process for Unresolved Sin Taking one or two others along serves as the second step when private confrontation fails, requiring evidence and witnesses to establish charges This step distinguishes between confronting actual substantiated sins versus personal feelings or preferences Scripture qualifies sin quite specifically throughout, making confrontation about verifiable behavior rather than emotional responses Telling the matter to the church represents the third step when the person refuses to listen to witnesses Treating someone as a Gentile or tax collector becomes necessary when they refuse church governance and show unrelenting sin patterns This final classification indicates someone unwilling to be a true follower of Jesus despite multiple intervention attempts. Spiritual Authority and Unity Whatever believers bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever they loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven Spiritual authority of the body of Christ follows from exercising relational courage and willingness to confront sin properly Prayer effectiveness requires unity between two or three people gathered in Jesus' name Unity in prayer becomes impossible when standing in silent judgment of someone's life due to unaddressed sin Relationships frayed by unforgiveness, judgment, or isolation prevent effective spiritual authority in prayer meetings Gossip and rumor-spreading destroys community and creates hypocrisy when the same tongue tries to declare heavenly things Marriage, family, small group, and church relationships all require exercising biblical confrontation principles. Speaking Truth in Love Ephesians 4:14-15 presents speaking truth in love as God's antidote to deception and false doctrine Some people excel at telling brutal truth but lack the love component required by scripture Others focus heavily on love but avoid speaking necessary truth due to past negative experiences with confrontation Both extremes need repentance to find balance in expressing truth with genuine love Truth-telling helps people break free from deception caused by false influences, social media, or cult-like followings Confronting deception requires courage and disagreement since affirming falsehood provides no help to deceived individuals Learning to speak truth in love requires practice, asking for forgiveness when done poorly, and studying how to improve the approach. Reproof and Rebuke with Patience 2 Timothy 4:1-5 charges believers to reprove, rebuke, and exhort with complete patience and teaching Reproof means reprimanding or censoring someone, while rebuke involves expressing sharp disapproval of behavior God's reproof and rebuke always comes with love since love is His nature, providing a model for human confrontation Complete patience requires learning specific techniques for managing anger and frustration during difficult conversations Teaching accompanies reproof and rebuke by showing the right way rather than only pointing out wrong behavior Patience involves sitting with someone as long as necessary to help them understand and find their way to righteousness People often seek teachers who confirm their biases rather than challenge their sin patterns and idolatry. Church Culture and Truth-Telling Consumer-driven church culture often tells people what they want to hear rather than what they need to hear for spiritual growth Economic dependence on giving creates pressure to avoid difficult truths that might cause people to leave Jesus' challenging words caused crowds to leave Him, demonstrating that following Christ involves disturbing and vexing elements Choosing teachers who only affirm and comfort leads to turning away from truth and wandering into myths Church leadership must prioritize the integrity of Jesus' message over financial stability and attendance numbers A remnant of people exists who genuinely want to grow in challenging ways and commit to Jesus' methods. Restoration and Gentleness Galatians 6:1-2 calls for restoring those caught in transgression through a spirit of gentleness while bearing one another's burdens Confrontation should focus on recovering people back to walking "in His name" rather than punishing them for failures The approach involves gentle invitation back to relationship with Jesus rather than violent or aggressive tactics Spiritual warfare targets principalities and powers rather than the individuals ensnared by sin Ministry should address people's spiritual conditions through healing and restoration rather than anger or condemnation Every spiritual condition requires appropriate ministry response, such as breaking chains rather than cutting off legs, or healing blindness rather than yelling at blind people. Learning and Growth in Confrontation Poor execution of confrontation requires learning to do it excellently rather than avoiding it altogether Inactivity or non-engagement prevents growth in necessary relational skills Practice and repetition in speaking truth with love leads to improvement over time Feeling foreign or inauthentic when using Jesus' language indicates positive change from former abusive patterns Loyalty should be directed toward becoming like Jesus rather than remaining authentic to one's former self Replacing violent, hateful, and unforgiving language with Christ-like communication requires accepting the discomfort of change. Next Steps The community commits to learning God's ways of handling family relationships and conflict resolution rather than perpetuating past patterns Members will seek wisdom for navigating challenging relationship issues and sensitive sin matters through prayer and study The church will prioritize righteousness and holiness over false peace in their relationships and community interactions Individuals will examine their own lives for hypocrisy and fault before confronting others, opening themselves to loving correction The congregation will develop skills in speaking truth with love while shedding previous destructive communication patterns learned from family backgrounds.
In this message from Ephesians 4:11–16, Pastor Jim explores the difference between immature faith and mature faith and how the church grows into Christlikeness together. Using the imagery of waves and wind pushing a boat off course, he explains how believers can be easily tossed around by life's circumstances or by new teachings when their identity is not firmly rooted in Jesus. Immature faith reacts to every wave and follows every new voice, but mature faith stays anchored to the gospel and keeps its focus on Christ. Jim reminds listeners that maturity is not simply knowing more information about the Bible but allowing the gospel to reshape identity so that believers increasingly reflect Jesus. As the body of Christ grows together, each person plays a role by speaking the truth in love, encouraging one another, and helping one another stay fixed on the horizon of Christ. Through this shared ministry the church is built up, strengthened in unity, and equipped to display the fullness of Jesus to the world.
Title: LoveScripture Reading: Matthew 22:35-40, Matthew 7:17-20, Matthew 7:13-14Series: The “L” Fruits of JesusWhen observing the lavish lifestyle of a televangelist, it's easy to question the "fruit" of their ministry. Jesus Himself said we would identify people by their fruit. So, what fruit should we expect to see in the life of a disciple?This sermon kicks off a new series, "The 'L' Fruits of Jesus," by focusing on the most foundational fruit: Love. We explore the two critical axes of Christian love. The vertical axis is loving God, which is demonstrated not just by hearing His word, but by our obedience to it. The horizontal axis is loving others, which requires traveling the "narrow road." This difficult path specifically challenges us to love our enemies and to speak the truth in love , even when the world redefines what "truth" and "love" mean.
Are Mormons Christians? Click Here for our full article.Make sure to check out Truth In Love Ministries and support their efforts.Truth In Love Ministries Jesus Is Enough Be Ye Perfect Get The book! Speaking The Truth In Love by Mark J. CaresPlease Consider GivingNifty Links: Join the Community Click Here to Check Out the Store Click Here to Donate Greatest Theology Newsletter on the PlanetTranscript[00:00:03] Mark: We didn't.[00:00:04] Remy: Great.[00:00:04] Mark: This was perfect. This was just. Let's. Let's visit and catch up.[00:00:10] Remy: Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. Pastor Mark, thank you so much for willing to. Being willing to come back on to the show, huh?[00:00:21] Mark: Absolutely. Thanks for the opportunity.[00:00:24] Remy: Yeah, you're. Your episodes were some of my favorite last season.Some of my favorite that, that I, that I've ever.[00:00:40] Mark: Thank you.[00:00:40] Remy: Yeah, I actually, I started watching a.An ex Mormon and so many Mormons deconstruct into atheism, which is sad because they're just as lost. Right. And that's, that's so depressing. And I got to watching this girl on YouTube named Alyssa Grinfell.[00:01:11] Mark: I think, yes, she is the up and coming ex Mormon influencer, if you want to call her that.[00:01:17] Remy: Yeah, yeah, yeah. She. I mean, I have watched probably most of her videos start to finish and there's long man. They're like, she puts out really long form content, but it's so captivating. And I'm trying to get her on the show honestly, just to chat, but she doesn't respond to my emails.[00:01:37] Mark: Mine either, so we're the same boat.[00:01:41] Remy: But I was watching one of her videos and it was something she said and I don't know if she worded it exactly like this or kind of like this, but it made me realize her videos that if you're a woman in the LDS faith, the best you can hope for. The best you can hope for is.And it's, it's. I'm sorry, this is harsh and it's like a hard way to put it, but the best thing that there is for you in eternity is to be.[00:02:15] Mark: A sex slave and perpetually pregnant. Propagating your worlds. Yeah, yeah.[00:02:22] Remy: And that's it. And like that's for LDS women. That's like, that is LDS men are the ones that get all of the, all of the blessing. You get to be a God of your own planet and do all this.LDS women, you get exalted, but your only purpose is to provide spirit children to populate the world. And you talk to LDS people about this and they. I've tried it a few times and they get really defensive because it's a very offensive thing to say. But then you ask them questions. You say, well, what does Heavenly Mother do in our daily lives?Are we allowed to pray to Heavenly Mother? No. And then here's the real big one. Is there only one Heavenly Mother?LDS doctrine doesn't actually clarify that.[00:03:17] Mark: It doesn't. It is one of the most under expounded upon doctrines but overly embraced doctrines of Mormonism. And when it comes to specifically women that are leaving the church today, I would say Alyssa is really resonati...
Speaking The Truth In Love, Ephesians 4:14-15
“Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. (Eph 4:15)
If you have a prodigal in your life or are struggling with knowing how to love a difficult person well, this episode is for you. Judy Douglass shares her story of clinging to hope while raising a rebellious child and offers tips on partnering grace with boundaries in any relationship. She and Christine explore the challenge of “speaking the truth in love” and emulating Jesus by living lives that are full of grace AND truth. View Show NotesVisit the WebsiteRead the Blog Connect with ChristineTake the QuizFollow on InstagramSupport the ShowDon't forget to subscribe and leave a positive review to encourage Christine and help other people find this show!Support the show
# 022 - Today is part 2 of my episode on "speaking the truth in love." This concept comes from Ephesians 4:15 and it's harder to do than you think.Do you have a hard time talking about hot button issues with people who disagree with you? Today's episode will help.Did you miss part one? Check out:fairlyimportant.com/episode21Links from this episode:Ready to stand up for the things you value most? Don't know where to start? Check out my free guide, Seven Quick Steps to Stand Up for Your Values TODAY! You can grab it at:fairlyimportant.com/sevenstepsPlease subscribe to the podcast and review the show!Leave a review here!I'm on Twitter!Follow me on Twitter.I'm on Parler too! Yes, it still exists!Follow @FairlyImportant on Parler!Checkout the website:fairlyimportant.com Support the show
It has been an absolute HONOR serving the students of PCC this year! In this episode, all the officers gather for some final thoughts. Keep GROWING TOGETHER!
# 021 - Have you heard of "speaking the truth in love"? It's a concept that comes from Ephesians 4:15 and it's something I can struggle with. Maybe you do too. Do your emotions get the best of you when you're discussing divisive issues that you're passionate about? If so, this just might help.Today's episode is part 1 of a 2 part series.Links from this episode:Note, some of these are affiliate links. This means, if you use one of these affiliate links and make a purchase, I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you.Checkout Voddie Baucham's fantastic book:Fault Lines: The Social Justice Movement and Evangelicalism's Looming CatastropheGrab it on my Resource Page:fairlyimportant.com/resourcesGet it directly on Amazon with the link below:https://amzn.to/2OqqXQPOr get it for FREE!Simply sign up for a 30 day trial of Audible. Then download the audio book version. You get to keep it even if you cancel your subscription:fairlyimportant.com/audibletrialPlease subscribe to the podcast and review the show!Leave a review here!I'm on Twitter!Follow me on Twitter.I'm on Parler too! Yes, it still exists!Follow @FairlyImportant on Parler!Checkout the website:fairlyimportant.com Support the show
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Pastor Luke, Joel Kobosh and Paul Sanders interact with the text discussing the doctrinal and practical implications of verses seven to sixteen of the fourth chapter of Ephesians.Some Scripture References: Ephesians 4:7-16; Acts 20:28; 1 Peter 5:1-2; 1 Corinthians 12:4-11; 13; Philippians 3:10
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"Speaking The Truth In Love (audio) - August 5, 2018
Ephesians 4:1-16: In the face of a threat to unity, which is the goal and measure of Christian maturity, the writer's advice to the churches to "speak the truth in love." This is a calling to pursue the truth, even if it is painful, we don't like the source, or it requires us to change. It is also a calling to speak it, to voice the truth, but "in love," which means genuine compassion and caring for the person or group to whom we speak.
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Pastor Johnson joins us for another anointed message.
We welcome Pastor Owen Johnson.
We welcome Pastor Owen Johnson to the program.
We welcome Pastor Johnson with another anointed message.
We welcome Pastor Owen Johnson back on Prophetic Message.
TIL 001 : Gay Marriage, Speaking The Truth In Love, And The United States Supreme Court by Association of Certified Biblical Counselors
TIL 001 : Gay Marriage, Speaking The Truth In Love, And The United States Supreme Court by Association of Certified Biblical Counselors
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This message will teach you how to grow up into Christ
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