Podcast appearances and mentions of steven ing

For over 30 years, Steven Ing has dedicated his life to helping others as a marriage and family therapist, with a unique focus on forensic work. He's a prolific contributor to Psychology Today and the author of two insightful books on sexuality: "We're All Like This" and "Get Busy Living." Steven's journey is nothing short of extraordinary. He's the host of the true-crime podcast Sex Crime Central and co-host of the relationship podcast Managing Love Intelligently. Despite surviving a harrowing attempted murder in 2022, Steven's resilience led to the publication of his feminist science fiction novel, "Polliwog," in 2023, and his appointment as a community faculty member at the UNR School of Medicine. Today, Steven and our host Cat Meyer dive deep into the essence of intimacy, human connection, and the multifaceted experience of love. They explore the intricacies of love languages, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the privilege that comes with truly knowing someone. Join us as we uncover the magic of life through the lens of one of the most insightful minds in the field. In this episode, we discuss the following: Emotional Intelligence Love Languages The Full Range of Human Experience  Sexuality Intimacy  You can find Steven here: @StevenIngMFT | stevening.com Please support Steven's foundation of choice:  As the grassroots arm of the women's movement, the National Organization for Women is dedicated to its multi-issue and multi-strategy approach to women's rights, and is the largest organization of feminist grassroots activists in the United States.

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Joining us on this episode of Bone Talk is Dr. Steven Ing. Dr. Ing specializes in Endocrinology, Diabetes and Metabolism, with a special focus on Metabolic Bone Disorders, Calcium Disorders and Osteoporosis. He practices primarily in Columbus, Ohio, and is affiliated with Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center. Dr. Ing graduated from the NYU School of Medicine and completed his training at Johns Hopkins Hospital and the Hospital of the University Pennsylvania.

Happy Valentines Day! For today's episode of Renoites, we're talking sex, dating and relationships with our guest Steven Ing. Steven is a Reno-based marriage and family therapist with decades of experience in the field of sexuality and relationships and a contributor to Psychology Today where he writes a column called Sexual Futurist. On this episode, Conor and Steven talked about how to approach new relationships with intentional interviewing to learn as much about potential partners as early as possible, about the differences between getting to know people online vs. in person, the "magic number" of how much sex each partner wants to enjoy, breakups and learning from relationships that have ended, and much more! Thanks for listening and if you have suggestions for future episodes or any feedback, please email me at conor@renoites.com and if you'd like to support the show financially, you can visit http://www.patreon.com/renoites for more information This season of Renoites is produced by Conor McQuivey, Lynn Lazaro, and Ember Braun.  

Fruit of the Bean Coffee (https://fruitofthebean.com) is our sponsor this episode, please support them by ordering some of their amazing coffee! Right now, all Fruit of the Bean coffee is 20% off until further notice! This episode we had the pleasure of speaking to Public Speaker and Marriage & Family Therapist, Steve Ing. We get to know Steve a little better and probe the hypothetical at hand to its expose the concerns and viewpoints at hand in today’s society. You can find Steve online at: Webpage: Stevening.com Twitter: @StevenIngMFT

Are you religious and your partner is not? Maybe the other way around? The landscape is changing and you don't have to share your partner's religion or be religious at all. Listen to today's episode and learn how to navigate religion in your relationship. It will be valuable whether you're an atheist or a devout follower! In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: The debate around interfaith marriages How religion can become irrelevant in your relationship  The control issues surrounding religion in your relationship Tolerating the differences between you and your partner Raising kids with religious compromises between you and your partner And much more! Steven Ing is reframing an important conversation in society one about the intelligent management of human sexuality. He is a sought-after trainer, speaker and therapist, bringing nearly three decades of experience to his audiences and clients. His book, We’re All Like This” (2015, Giant Publishing), is used as a text in Human Sexuality classes in university classrooms. Full show notes and episode links at: http://idopodcast.com/190 Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Join our 5 Day Couples Appreciation Challenge here: idopodcast.com/appreciation Do you want to hear more on this topic? Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Spark My Relationship Course: Get access to our special offer for I Do Podcast listeners only by visiting: SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah

For today's bonus episode, Alise and Brian are joined by author and TEDX presenter Steven Ing, to talk about the effects of toxic masculinity on our culture, and how we can connect to our own human need for intimacy. They also talk about incels, the need for men to have meaningful friendships, and how sex ed fails to teach the most important aspects of human sexuality.

Recorded: Dec. 16, 2018Published: Dec. 27, 2018https://kuldrinskrypt.com/206Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are speaking with psychotherapist Steven Ing about your magic sex number, Talking to your children about sex, BDSM and religion and much more. [1:05] TEDx Talk: What’s Your Magic Sex Number” http://stevening.com/events/tedx-university-nevada-2018 How many times a week do you prefer to have sex?No matter what your answer is, you are normal.[8:26] Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[9:20] THow to have the pre-relationship interview.[14:10] Sexual intimacy.[17:30] Therapist assigning biases. [18:25] Sex and power? Does that feed the sexual appetite? “Everything in life is about sex except itself sex its self which about power.” -Oscar Wilde[21:00] Swingers and the sexual appetite, power, and the divorce rate.[27:25] People who are constitutionally incapable of intimacy.Personality disorders, addictions, other mental illnesses: 25%[28:45] What is true intimacy and sexual intimacy?[31:05] The puritanical viewpoint in The United States and BDSM and Religion.Therapist tendering a “moral diagnosis”.Outing a spouse at church as a masturbator. [37:18] How are spirituality and sexuality the same and why it scares churches.[39:45] “We’re All Like This” Steven Ing’s book is now used in Human Sexuality classes at the University Level. http://stevening.com/store [43:15] Where do spirituality and sex meet? Catharsis!!![44:40] Kuldrin Service Topping[48:20] Getting in touch with our animal nature and going primal.[49:32] Talking to children about sex and BDSM relationships.Sexual safety and sexual innocence.What age does do children start masturbating?Teaching the emotions of sex before the mechanics.Talking to children about consent before talking about sexuality.[58:44] Talking to children after they walked in on parents having sex or performing act of BDSM.[1:03:20] How to explain BDSM to vanillas.A final note or two: Thanks to our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.Finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfire https://www.instagram.com/kuldrinfire/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: Dec. 16, 2018Published: Dec. 27, 2018https://kuldrinskrypt.com/206Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are speaking with psychotherapist Steven Ing about your magic sex number, Talking to your children about sex, BDSM and religion and much more. [1:05] TEDx Talk: What’s Your Magic Sex Number” http://stevening.com/events/tedx-university-nevada-2018 How many times a week do you prefer to have sex?No matter what your answer is, you are normal.[8:26] Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[9:20] THow to have the pre-relationship interview.[14:10] Sexual intimacy.[17:30] Therapist assigning biases. [18:25] Sex and power? Does that feed the sexual appetite? “Everything in life is about sex except itself sex its self which about power.” -Oscar Wilde[21:00] Swingers and the sexual appetite, power, and the divorce rate.[27:25] People who are constitutionally incapable of intimacy.Personality disorders, addictions, other mental illnesses: 25%[28:45] What is true intimacy and sexual intimacy?[31:05] The puritanical viewpoint in The United States and BDSM and Religion.Therapist tendering a “moral diagnosis”.Outing a spouse at church as a masturbator. [37:18] How are spirituality and sexuality the same and why it scares churches.[39:45] “We’re All Like This” Steven Ing’s book is now used in Human Sexuality classes at the University Level. http://stevening.com/store [43:15] Where do spirituality and sex meet? Catharsis!!![44:40] Kuldrin Service Topping[48:20] Getting in touch with our animal nature and going primal.[49:32] Talking to children about sex and BDSM relationships.Sexual safety and sexual innocence.What age does do children start masturbating?Teaching the emotions of sex before the mechanics.Talking to children about consent before talking about sexuality.[58:44] Talking to children after they walked in on parents having sex or performing act of BDSM.[1:03:20] How to explain BDSM to vanillas.A final note or two: Thanks to our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.Finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfire https://www.instagram.com/kuldrinfire/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

This week we talk with Steven Ing. The conversation gets pretty heavy but we still manage to throw in some dirty jokes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EUOtDSknAOY --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/remote-guys-night/support

Drama is the needless escalation of a problem, and there are people who thrive on it. So, how do we handle drama and the people who perpetuate it in our own lives? Follow Steven on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening

The #MeToo movement has shined a light on sexual harassment and gender equality in the workplace. It has also encouraged some men to step up and demand equality in areas like paternity leave and child support. But what about ladies night at the local bar? Is that worth suing over? Some of these are complicated issues with complicated answers, which we explore in this podcast. Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Octophonix: https://soundcloud.com/octophonix/2015xx

Intimacy. The word can mean so many different things. Steven Ing joins me today as we discuss what does intimacy mean, and how do we create a deeper level of it with others. Enjoy the show! You can find Steven's work here – stevening.com Or check out his TED talk here – What's your magic […]

Intimacy. The word can mean so many different things. Steven Ing joins me today as we discuss what does intimacy mean, and how do we create a deeper level of it with others. Enjoy the show! You can find Steven's work here – stevening.com Or check out his TED talk here – What's your magic […] The post Deeper Intimacy With Steven Ing #373 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Intimacy. The word can mean so many different things. Steven Ing joins me today as we discuss what does intimacy mean, and how do we create a deeper level of it with others. Enjoy the show! You can find Steven’s work here – stevening.com Or check out his TED talk here – What’s your magic […] The post Deeper Intimacy With Steven Ing #373 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Do you remember “the talk”, sex ed, figuring out sexuality and how awkward it all was? Shouldn’t we be able to make it easier for the next generation? This week Steven and Jackie sit down with Nicole Howes from Reno Moms Blog and Jonathan Salkoff from Reno Dads Blog to discuss when, where and how we can do a better job teaching kids about sexuality. Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Octophonix: https://soundcloud.com/octophonix/2015xx

President Trump is appointing another judge to the Supreme Court. What will this mean for our reproductive rights? In this podcast, Steven and Jackie discuss the advantages of planning our parenthood and what could happen to our ability to control when we have children. Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Octophonix: https://soundcloud.com/octophonix/2015xx

Parenting is already a huge challenge, but how do you parent children whose life experience is so different from your own? In this podcast, we bring in members of the LGBTQIA+ community to share their thoughts on how moms and dads can be better parents to their LGBTQIA+ kids. Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Octophonix: https://soundcloud.com/octophonix/2015xx

Social media has changed how we communicate and interact with one another, but is that always a good thing? This week, we talk about how social media might seem convenient and easy, but it may not be the best way to create or maintain any relationship. Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Octophonix: https://soundcloud.com/octophonix/2015xx

Religion has a lot to say about sex, but the big question is whether or not God wants us to have fun in the bedroom. This week Steven and Jackie talk about religion, many of its rules about sexuality, whether those rules are reasonable, and how our own sex lives are intertwined with our beliefs. Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Octophonix: https://soundcloud.com/octophonix/2015xx

We all want to be comfortable with ourselves and our sexuality, but how do we do that? This week Steven Ing talks with Courtney Smith Kramer, author of “21 Reasons Creativity is Like Sex,” about how she became comfortable with talking about sexuality, why she wrote a book about it and the creative industry’s intersection with sexuality. Follow Steven on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening Follow Courtney on Social: Facebook.com/courtneysmithkramer Twitter/Snapchat: @CSHasArrived Instagram: @CSmithPM "21 Resons Creativity is Like Sex": https://www.amazon.com/21-Reasons-Creativity-Like-Sex/dp/1684181836 Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Octophonix: https://soundcloud.com/octophonix/2015xx

Are you ready to proactively take control of your romantic life? In this podcast we talk about Steven Ing’s “30 Days to Reclaim Your Mojo” and how it can help you think more rationally about love and sex.

In this podcast, we discuss the recent terrorist attack in Toronto, what motivates #Incels (involuntary celibates) and what we can do to help prevent more men from turning to this dangerous and self-defeating worldview. Magic Sex Number: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EUOtDSknAOY Talked about in this podcast: Men and Their Friends: http://stevening.com/blog/men-and-their-friends-why-bros-matter Sex Ed and Talking To Kids About Sex: http://stevening.com/blog/when-it-comes-sex-ed-ignorance-%E2%89%A0-bliss http://stevening.com/blog/how-start-talking-about-sex-children-part-1 http://stevening.com/blog/how-start-talking-about-sex-children-part-2 http://stevening.com/blog/how-start-talking-about-sex-children-part-3-0 http://stevening.com/blog/how-start-talking-about-sex-your-children-part-4-0 http://stevening.com/blog/how-start-talking-about-sex-your-children-part-5-0 Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Octophonix: https://soundcloud.com/octophonix/2015xx

The median age for marriage is now 30, compared to 23 in the 1970s. Increased gender equality, advances in technology and different goals are part of the reason younger generations are putting off “settling down,” but what is the rest of the equation? Join our conversation, where we discuss what we can we learn from some new philosophies about commitment — and what elements of love and relationships are consistent through the ages. Magic Sex Number: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EUOtDSknAOY Talked about in this podcast: Marriage & Relationships http://stevening.com/blog/practice-discovery-when-exploring-new-relationship http://stevening.com/blog/yes-you-can-survive-affair http://stevening.com/blog/did-you-know-affair-proofing-your-marriage-possible http://stevening.com/blog/how-take-meh-out-your-marriage Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Octophonix: https://soundcloud.com/octophonix/2015xx

Why are we talking about World of Warcraft on a show about sexuality? If you’ve ever spent time in an MMORPG (massively multiplayer online role-playing game), chances are good you’ve experienced some ugly sexism, homophobia and racism. Dylan Szewczak figured out a way to create an abuse-free oasis in World of Warcraft, and Steven interviews him to find out his secret. Spoiler alert: It’s something we can all do every day to create abuse-free environments in the real world. Magic Sex Number: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EUOtDSknAOY Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Octophonix: https://soundcloud.com/octophonix/2015xx

Men need male friends. This seems obvious, yet it’s alarming how many men forgo this important need. But the fabulous men on the newly rebooted Queer Eye have reminded us just how important it is for all of us to have true friends – the kind who will call us out, share sincere and honest feedback and help make us better people. Oh yeah, and teach us some of the intimacy skills we need for our romantic relationships. But first, a brief detour to discuss Dear Abby’s opinion of virginity. Magic Sex Number: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EUOtDSknAOY Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Octophonix: https://soundcloud.com/octophonix/2015xx

What do sex addiction and gay conversion therapy have in common? Neither one of them is an accepted term used by mental health professionals. While “sex addiction” is sometimes used as an excuse for unacceptable behavior (think Harvey Weinstein), conversion therapy is downright dangerous and should never be used. Topics Talked About in this Podcast: Sex Addiction: http://stevening.com/blog/thank-you-harvey-weinstein-and-james-toback http://stevening.com/blog/are-you-sex-addict Conversion Therapy and the LGBTQAI+ Community: http://stevening.com/blog/lgbqtia-what-do-these-letters-even-mean http://stevening.com/blog/no-bloodletting-and-now-no-conversion-therapy-nevada http://stevening.com/blog/lgbtqia-should-we-just-throw-whole-alphabet Magic Sex Number: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EUOtDSknAOY Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Octophonix: https://soundcloud.com/octophonix/2015xx

The #MeToo and #TimesUp movements have shined a critical light on the problem of sexual abuse in the workplace. Why has it taken so long? Will we finally be able to effect critical change and make work environments safer for women and men alike? In this podcast, Steven suggests that the key to solving this universal problem is simple: We need to use our words to ask for and give consent, rather than to rely on the implicit Braille method. Topics Talked About in this Podcast: Sexual Harassment: http://stevening.com/blog/recurring-questions-about-sexual-harassment http://stevening.com/blog/sex-therapist-i-can-tell-you-you%E2%80%99re-asking-wrong-question-about-sexual-harassment http://stevening.com/blog/thank-you-harvey-weinstein-and-james-toback http://stevening.com/blog/talking-about-sexual-harassment http://stevening.com/blog/dealing-sexual-harassment http://stevening.com/blog/sexual-harassment-workplace Consent: http://stevening.com/blog/%E2%80%98use-your-words%E2%80%99-obtain-consent-eliminate-uncertainty Sexual Fantasies: http://stevening.com/blog/what-about-scary-sexual-fantasies http://stevening.com/blog/beware-ifthen-game-sexual-fantasies Magic Sex Number: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EUOtDSknAOY Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Ben Vanderbosch. https://soundcloud.com/freebmusic/ben-vanderbosch-rainy-day-freebackgroundmusic

The intentional interview is a critical step on the path to a fulfilling, healthy relationship. We talk about how it works and what part the magic sex number plays in it. And it looks like there’s some victim shaming going on with a local city attorney. What’s that about? And what is it designed to accomplish? Nothing good, we’re thinking. We love that Shape of Water, a movie all about sexuality and relationships, won Best Picture at this year’s Academy Awards! Join us as we talk about how to overcome the odds when your soulmate is a fish. Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Ben Vanderbosch. https://soundcloud.com/freebmusic/ben-vanderbosch-rainy-day-freebackgroundmusic

This week, we talk with our guest Verita Black Prothro, about Black Panther, its evolved gender roles and how those affect the onscreen relationships. We also address the issue of toxic masculinity and how loneliness could be contributing to our nation’s shooting crisis. And then there’s drunk sex, and what we all need to understand about consent. Note: Listen to this podcast only after you have watched Black Panther, unless you love spoilers! Follow me on Social: Facebook: @StevenIngMFT Twitter: @StevenIngMFT Soundcloud: Just Asking with Steven Ing -https://soundcloud.com/stevening/dati... Links: Website: http://stevening.com/ Books: http://stevening.com/store Speaking engagements: http://stevening.com/book-steven Consulting: http://stevening.com/consulting Music courtesy of Ben Vanderbosch. https://soundcloud.com/freebmusic/ben-vanderbosch-rainy-day-freebackgroundmusic

The incidence of infidelity in the United States is greater than 50%. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that we're doing something wrong. A huge part of preventing infidelity is communication with your partner. For example, have you communicated your deepest sexual desires to your partner without fear of judgement? Today's show will outline the steps to share feelings like this and to affair proof your relationship. In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to come to terms with the fact that we are all sexual beings, and will find people other than our partner attractive. Avoiding the irrational belief in your relationship that, "we love each other and therefore will never stray." Facing your own fears of your partner being attracted to someone else. Learn to know the person you love on the deepest level possible. How to talk about these deep emotional feelings with your partner. Why the more you talk about your weaknesses, the stronger you and your relationship will become. And much more! Steven Ing is reframing an important conversation in society one about the intelligent management of human sexuality. He is a sought-after trainer, speaker and therapist, bringing nearly three decades of experience to his audiences and clients. His book, We're All Like This" (2015, Giant Publishing), is used as a text in Human Sexuality classes in university classrooms. Download this episode's freebie here! Full Show Notes at http://idopodcast.com/116 Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Do you want to hear more on this topic? Do you struggle with communicating your desires with your partner? If so, you're not alone. Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Talkspace: The online therapy company that believes that therapy should be affordable, confidential and convenient. Join over 500,000 people who have used Talkspace for online therapy with their licensed therapist. Get $30 off your first month when you visit Talkspace.com/IDO. FindYourTrainer.com: Today’s show is sponsored by FindYourTrainer.com, America’s largest personal trainer network that matches you with your perfect personal trainer. Train anywhere, anytime. Get $50 off your first session when you visit FindYourTrainer.com/IDO with Promo Code: IDo If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah

Steven Ing tells us a story of a violent father who could’ve stolen Steven’s legacy, but in a twist of teenage stubbornness, Steven stole it back for himself.

If you're facing sexual harassment in the workplace or even in school, learn from Steven Ing on how to deal with it. Some of the choices will be difficult, but these tools will give you the confidence to make that necessary leap from just surviving to thriving.

Steven Ing discusses themes and elements from the book and shows us how we can better understand human sexuality through the upcoming show.

If you're looking for love here's a tip: stop. Stop looking for love and start looking for life. Life is meant to be shared, if you aren't happy with your life it's irresponsible to try to share it with someone you want to care about. "If you can't live without her then you can't be with her." - Steven Ing