Closed Door Conversations Podcast

Carlos Henry also known as Loso 2.O is a new author, personal development coach and motivational speaker who focuses his attention to motivating and empowering minority youth comes to Closed Door Conversations to have a conversation with Mil and share his story with the CDC fam.  Carlos story is more of a testimony, a motivating factor on how having the mindset of a winner and the determination to stay focused to be better will help you become better! He travels  the world giving speeches on how to improve yourself mentally, physically, financially, emotionally and spiritually to be your better version of yourself and today he is here on Closed Door Conversations to share that with us!, tune is to part 1 and 2 as Carlos shares his very personal story or trial to triumph and why he is a walking testimony that winnerz win.   https://www.carlosjhenrywinz.com/?fbclid=PAAaYQVC0-jiI_f-zpFj8K82zt6kN6pGNh0iWM6ZCeE4ac-PvC9E5Ji71qCSghttps://instagram.com/loso2.0_?igshid=NDk5N2NlZjQ=

Carlos Henry also known as Loso 2.O is a new author, personal development coach and motivational speaker who focuses his attention to motivating and empowering minority youth comes to Closed Door Conversations to have a conversation with Mil and share his story with the CDC fam.  Carlos story is more of a testimony, a motivating factor on how having the mindset of a winner and the determination to stay focused to be better will help you become better! He travels  the world giving speeches on how to improve yourself mentally, physically, financially, emotionally and spiritually to be your better version of yourself and today he is here on Closed Door Conversations to share that with us!, tune is to part 1 and 2 as Carlos shares his very personal story or trial to triumph and why he is a walking testimony that winnerz win!     of course his links are below.https://www.carlosjhenrywinz.com/?fbclid=PAAaYm4nqAYWQm0G_SVChkI3JUPwvTM6LGSHE2wllx7QkYp2NiaBu2NZ7F1eQ

You're the one is a brief conversation turnt almost rant to quickly not in the mood to talk about it today.

An aphrodisiac is any substance or food that increases sexual desire, arousal, behavior, performance, or pleasure. There are a number of reasons why people may want to take an aphrodisiac to improve their sex lives. Some reasons may include increasing libido  or to improve sexual performance, but sometimes people may want to simply try to enjoy sex more.    Mil sits down to have a conversation with Amy Reiley, food aphrodisiac expert to get her thoughts on food, how it relates to the libido and how it can create more pleasurable sex.  Her whole career has been dedicated to getting people excited about making good food choices by showing them how food can get them excited - in the bedroom!  Amy Reiley is best known as an authority on aphrodisiac foods. But she is also a speaker, cookbook author and consultant as well as a freelance wine writer and wine competition judge. Whether you're just trying to figure out how to make Valentine's Day more memorable or you're ready to change the way you eat to improve your sex life, (or anything in between), Hopefully you can get some out of today's conversation!!  https://www.eatsomethingsexy.com/

Living an unapologetic life doesn't mean you don't apologize when you're wrong. It doesn't mean you're rude or treat others poorly. It simply means never having to feel bad for the way you want to live. If you're not hurting anyone in the process, you should feel free to live your life exactly the way you see fit.

The problem I have with resolutions is their lack of specificity. This is why my focus goes to setting personal and professional goals, since the mindset and approach to achieving a goal differs from that of a resolution. Goals take longer to frame because they involve planning. But, this preparation provides you with a clear direction to follow to reach your desired outcome. By rephrasing your New Year's resolutions to goals, you make them stronger and more likely to be achieved.

Most people are afraid of being transparent for several reasons.  Mil sits down with producer,artist,photographer & videographer  YoShayne to discuss why transparency is important.  The goal of this conversation is to bring light to the fact that being transparent is not a weakness!  Sharing ideas, feelings and information that you may have not particularly been compelled to share can actually strengthen you are the core of establishing business and personal relationships.  You will be  resolve conflict faster or even avoid conflict all together if you just learn to be open and honest. https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/yoshayne/go-big-girl?fbclid=PAAaZ36mkO6vCFNmzPQyU6kMTBuUDig1rZXZiqo7oRfOd-0DINC_NtGgAJBmI   https://instagram.com/iamyoshayne?igshid=NDk5N2NlZjQ=

Most people are afraid of being transparent for several reasons.  Mil sits down with producer,artist,photographer & videographer  YoShayne to discuss why transparency is important.  The goal of this conversation is to bring light to the fact that being transparent is not a weakness!  Sharing ideas, feelings and information that you may have not particularly been compelled to share can actually strengthen you are the core of establishing business and personal relationships.  You will be  resolve conflict faster or even avoid conflict all together if you just learn to be open and honest.   https://instagram.com/iamyoshayne?igshid=NDk5N2NlZjQ=   https://youtube.com/@YoShayne

In part 1 and Part 2 of this episodes Mil sit down and have an awesome conversation with dynamic duo of Married Into Crazy. Podcasting is just one of the hats they share, they are also Arthurs, & life coaches focusing on couples but single or people looking can also “get the business also”. ( quoted per Lovey) The focus for them is just helping people to be C.R.A.Z.Y. !

In part 1 and Part 2 of this episodes Mil sit down and have an awesome conversation with dynamic duo of Married Into Crazy. Podcasting is just one of the hats they share, they are also Arthurs, & life coaches focusing on couples but single or people looking can also “get the business also”. ( quoted per Lovey) The focus for them is just helping people to be C.R.A.Z.Y. !

Back in the day, not even way back because some people still feel like being strong is a form of strength.  I may even agree to a certain degree BUT once it starts to affect who you are physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually you need to do something different!  When you know better you do better and we as a society now know that be strength looks different.  We now know that you can not our from an empty cup.  We now know that we are responsible for our own individual happiness and inner peace.  The biggest thing now that we know these things are what are we going to do about it? Are we strong enough to take the hard steps of putting our self first? Mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.  It is our responsibility!  Remember the conversation about self love? If you have not listened to it go back and listen! Self love is not selfish! Neither is protecting your peace! It's a necessity in todays world! Let's talk about it! 

In part 1 and part 2 of this episode our host Mil Ivory sits with fellow podcaster and host of Dear Poly podcast and have a conversation about his choice to live a polyamory lifestyle.  In this conversation Phillip helps to unravel some of the confusing (or what seems to be confusing to the “outside” world) terms and misconceptions of his lifestyle.  First thing that is established is that polyamory and polygamy is not the same thing.  Which is a common misconception about the lifestyle.  THEN we dive into some of the different terms why he choose this lifestyle or how this lifestyle choose him is probably more accurate and some of his experiences.   The goal of this conversation is to give you a better understanding of why someone will choose this lifestyle as well as to help clear up some of the misconceptions of what people assume this lifestyle is.    Make sure you tune into part one and part 2.  Although we covered a lot I feel like there is sooooo much more to be discussed so we may revisit at a later time.  

In part 1 and part 2 of this episode our host Mil Ivory sits with fellow podcaster and host of Dear Poly podcast and have a conversation about his choice to live a polyamory lifestyle.  In this conversation Phillip helps to unravel some of the confusing (or what seems to be confusing to the “outside” world) terms and misconceptions of his lifestyle.  First thing that is established is that polyamory and polygamy is not the same thing.  Which is a common misconception about the lifestyle.  THEN we dive into some of the different terms why he choose this lifestyle or how this lifestyle choose him is probably more accurate and some of his experiences.   The goal of this conversation is to give you a better understanding of why someone will choose this lifestyle as well as to help clear up some of the misconceptions of what people assume this lifestyle is.    Make sure you tune into part one and part 2.  Although we covered a lot I feel like there is sooooo much more to be discussed so we may revisit at a later time.   Feel free to Leave us your comments or email your questions and comments.   also make sure to check out Phillip on his platform at the Dear Poly Podcast.   Enjoy 

Our Host Mil Ivory sits with guest/Co Host and fellow podcasters of Not your Normal Discussion  Podcast in part 1 and 2 of this episode to discuss why we think people may not be comfortable with their sexuality and why they may nor be comfortable with sexual exploitation when they should be! Of course there were a lot of theories and opinions on the topic on hand.  So many that we are definitely doing a life chat about it soon so make sure to leave you comments and opinions down below or email us. Set your alerts so that you are tuned in for our live on our social media platforms.    Mil felt like it was important to have this conversation because so many people are first not comfortable it's their sexuality, so there for they struggle in the sexual exploration category! Rather they are ashamed, have trust issues or just plain shy on the subject our hope is that people realize that sexuality and all that comes with it is a very personal decision.  It is also natural to want to explore and it is something that you should not be ashamed of.  Although often over looked as a major issue issues surrounding sexuality and unfulfilled sexual desires are a major problem.  Being confident in your sexuality and open to explore sexually place a major part of maintaining mental health for some.  So YES I definitely think it is safe to say no matter what anyone things you should not be ashamed of your sexuality and sexual preferences! It is not a once size fit all type of deal.  So do you, be you live laugh love lust ! Do it in a safe, confident, an unapologetic manner because sexual coordination and emotional stability complement each other!

Our Host Mil Ivory sits with guest/Co Host and fellow podcasters of Not your Normal Discussion  Podcast in part 1 and 2 of this episode to discuss why we think people may not be comfortable with their sexuality and why they may nor be comfortable with sexual exploitation when they should be! Of course there were a lot of theories and opinions on the topic on hand.  So many that we are definitely doing a life chat about it soon so make sure to leave you comments and opinions down below or email us. Set your alerts so that you are tuned in for our live on our social media platforms.    Mil felt like it was important to have this conversation because so many people are first not comfortable it's their sexuality, so there for they struggle in the sexual exploration category! Rather they are ashamed, have trust issues or just plain shy on the subject our hope is that people realize that sexuality and all that comes with it is a very personal decision.  It is also natural to want to explore and it is something that you should not be ashamed of.  Although often over looked as a major issue issues surrounding sexuality and unfulfilled sexual desires are a major problem.  Being confident in your sexuality and open to explore sexually place a major part of maintaining mental health for some.  So YES I definitely think it is safe to say no matter what anyone things you should not be ashamed of your sexuality and sexual preferences! It is not a once size fit all type of deal.  So do you, be you live laugh love lust ! Do it in a safe, confident, an unapologetic manner because sexual coordination and emotional stability complement each other!

In this episode host Mil Ivory has a conversation with life coach and fellow podcaster Vernon T. Scott about TRUST.  Trust is one of the main components that gels society together.  It's presence cements relationships, allowing people to live together, work together, grow and blossom various relationships together by allowing you to feel safe and have a feeling of comfort and belonging.  There are some key elements of trust ….Reliability, honesty, good will, competency, vulnerability  and good communication.  In this episode Mil and Vernon sit down to have a conversation about trust, it's key elements AND what if it's just not there.   This is Part 2  of the conversation so if you haven't listened to Part 1 go back and listen!!!  To those who have…. Enjoy!!  Make sure you leave us your thoughts comments emails …..we want to know what you think!!  Enjoy    Vernon T Scott can be found on IG at:  https://instagram.com/urfavheauxst?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= make sure you like and follow him.

In this episode host Mil Ivory has a conversation with life coach and fellow podcaster Vernon T. Scott about TRUST.  Trust is one of the main components that gels society together.  It's presence cements relationships, allowing people to live together, work together, grow and blossom various relationships together by allowing you to feel safe and have a feeling of comfort and belonging.  There are some key elements of trust ….Reliability, honesty, good will, competency, vulnerability  and good communication.  In this episode Mil and Vernon sit down to have a conversation about trust, it's key elements AND what if it's just not there.   This is a two part conversation….. Part 2 will be posted next week!   Make sure you leave us your thoughts comments emails …..we want to know what you think!!  Enjoy    Vernon T Scott can be found on IG at:  https://instagram.com/urfavheauxst?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= make sure you like and follow him.

The weight that we carry on a daily basis as a black woman in America is a unique kind of weight.   A weight that only a black women is able to describe.  Similar to the walk of the black man there are some things that women go through that will look completely different from the eyes of a black women.  In this episode an extension to the conversation from the eyes of a black man host Mil Ivory talks with three black women in different age ranges about their experiences as they navigate life as a black woman in todays society.  This is part 2. The conversation continues.  If you have not listened to part 1 STOP go back and listen!! 

The weight that we carry on a daily basis as a black woman in America is a unique kind of weight.   A weight that only a black women is able to describe.  Similar to the walk of the black man there are some things that women go through that will look completely different from the eyes of a black women.  In this episode an extension to the conversation from the eyes of a black man host Mil Ivory talks with three black women in different age ranges about their experiences as they navigate life as a black woman in todays society. 

If you missed part 1 of this conversation that posted last week go back and listen before you proceed.  Host Mil Ivory sits down with fellow podcasters Big Smash and Rashad Burton to have a well needed conversation about how things look through the lens of a black man.  The simple honest truth is a black man struggles will always look different than any other race.  Therefore the lens that they see the world through will look different from another other race regardless of social status and income bracket and in these two episodes we talk about it.   Guest Can be found on all your listening platforms. Big Smash Bet the House Podcast.  Also on YouTube. Radhad: Vibe with me Podcast    make sure to leave us your comments and opinions.  We want to hear them! 

When the lens is tinted with Melanin you see life differently.     This conversation was sparked by Juneteenth but the truth is a black man's view on the world will be different from any other race.  As a result of day to day racism, associated poverty, Injustice, environment, and expectations.  These factors and many more has a major impact on  black men in the U.S.   It affects their health(mental and physical) and creates blocked opportunities more than any other race no matter of their income bracket or social standing.  The pressure that a black man deals with on a daily basis for just having melanin in his skin makes him 66% more likely to experience day to day discrimination than any other race.   Which would of course makes how he view the world and his tactics for survival different.  The host Mil Ivory wanted to speak to some of our black kings and have a conversation about it. She felt as if this was a much needed conversation.  Although, it was a powerful conversation and we touched on a lot we barely scratched  the surface!  However a scratch in the surface may be what we need to disrupt the pattern.    Guest Big Smash host of Bet The House Podcast  Rashad of Shad be real Podcast    This recording is Brokendown into two episode so make sure to tune in to part 2 next week!! 

Y'all MAY or may not want to hear about it BUT I felt an obligation to my people to talk about it! EVERYONE NEEDS TO KNOW about the Juneteenth holiday. So in this episode we are going to talk about it!!  What is Juneteenth, why we should celebrate, the importance and significance of it!    leave me a comment or shoot me an email because I want to know what y'all think!

There are all forms of violence in America.  Most of the time everyone is concerned with the fatalities and not the survivors.  In this episode Mil has a conversation with someone who was the victim of a drive by shooting.  The purpose of this conversation is to bring awareness or to a5 least shine a light no matter how tiny that unexpected traumas has an impact on everyone.  Specifically Gun violence.  We always hear about random shootings but we rarely hear from the victims who survived.  

If you tuned in last week we discussed love lust and curiosity! This week is a continuation of the conversation! If you didn't listen to last weeks episode go back and listen first!! 

Love is about having an emotional connection with someone.  This connection drives you to want to growth with them and see them happy. Lust is all about sex and physical attraction. Curiosity is the desire to know or learn more about something or someone.  That being said…….. In this episode the host Mil Ivory has a conversation about love,lust & curiosity.  Three different things closely intertwined when it comes to relationships and especially romantic relationships.  Mil and her guest have a conversation about what these things mean to them and their interpretation of the three! 

In this episode show host Mil Ivory leads by example of what accountability looks like.   Not only does she discuss accountability…….what it is….how to show it and what it's important, It was important that she first made herself accountable for taking such a long break from the mic.  listen, leave your thoughts, comments and suggestions.  Most importantly enjoy!! 

In this conversation Mil sits down with Motivational speaker and Arthur Iffy to discuss why he decided to quit dating.  During the conversation that touched on some very important things in understanding  the expectations when dating and they enlightened each other on the fact that just because you do not label something it does not make it a thing.   Interesting conversation on the development of relationships.  iffy can be found at iffyinspires.com

A general conversation with friend to the show/ fellow podcaster  Rashad Burt turned into a WOW moment for host Mil Ivory.  So much of a IKYFL moment she decided to share the conversation!,  Tune in to see what he looking for in a mate and why!  Email/comment and share your thoughts on the situation! O…..since a PSA was made during the recording Rashad contact information is linked below!!

In this episode Mil Ivory continues her conversation with intimacy expert to millions, sexpert Susan Bratton.  Susan is specializes in sexual communication skills and advanced sexual mastery techniques.  You do not want to miss this conversation as Susan and Mil talk through the different aspects of the male and female orgasm.  Why aren't you getting them and if you are how to make them better!! She was dropped so many jewels and included some information on where to find her free literature as reference.  Make sure you tune in as we dig deeper and even discuss incorporating toys during intimacy!!   All adult toys mentioned  and more can be found at A-Ze Kreations Kinky Korner  https://a-zekreations.com/collections/kinky-korner   https://personallifemedia.com/?_ga=2.213650900.1549535644.1634014500-1266232539.1634014500

In the episode Mil Ivory sits down with intimacy expert to millions, sexpert Susan Bratton.  Susan is specializes in sexual communication skills and advanced sexual mastery techniques.  You do not want to miss this two part conversation as her and Mil talk through the different aspects of the male and female orgasm.  Why aren't you getting them and if you are how to make them better!! She was dropping so many jewels I had to give y'all the whole conversation!!  This is only part one make sure you tune into part 2 next week when we dig deeper and even discuss incorporating toys during intimacy!! 

Too many men ignore their depression, phobias and other mental issues. Many men are becoming better at taking care of their physical health as they get older.  When it comes to their mental health for some it is still unimaginable for anyone to to know they are battling depression, anxiety, or being bogged down with any emotion.  Most men simply downplay their feelings because they feel like they need to be “strong” or it's not the manly thing to do.  Some are just simply embarrassed by it.   Our male guest shares his experience with dealing with depression and how he has been able to stabilize his mental health.  I am so grateful that he agreed to share his story on this platform.  We need to talk about this! Men need to know that they should never be embarrassed when dealing with any health related situations including mental health.  Although we can't always see it these feelings are very real!! 

Mil Ivory continues her conversation with Author  Lori Hardacker  to discuss her experiences with dating and what prompted her to write the book Dating, What The Fuck?   Lori WAS dating for over 30 years!!  I know you want to know was she seriously dating that long! So did I which is what prompted the conversation.  I am hoping that someone can gain some insight as Lori shares her opinion, thought and experiences on being in the dating pool for so long!! The conversation was so interesting it had to be divided into two episodes so make sure you listened to part one!!!! 

Mil Ivory has a conversation with Author  Lori Hardacker  to discuss her experiences with dating and what prompted her to write the book Dating, What The Fuck?   Lori WAS dating for over 30 years!!  I know you want to know was she seriously dating that long! So did I which is what prompted the conversation.  I am hoping that someone can gain some insight as Lori shares her opinion, thought and experiences on being in the dating pool for so long!! The conversation was so interesting it had to be divided into two episodes! 

Self care is simply you being mindful of your own needs.  When you take care of yourself you are able to better meet the needs of others and people you care about.  Self-Care is necessary to maintain your health!! Self care comes in many forms.  In this conversation we discuss self care, what it is,  why you need to incorporate it in your life and things you can do to customize your self care plan to implement in your lifestyle no matter how “busy” you are!! Self care is the beast care!! #let'stalkaboutit  

In this episode the host Mil Ivory has a conversation with friend to the show and fellow podcaster Society Talks Podcast Red Goddess and her husband  music producer Heavy.    The coupled opens up to Mil about what the keys to their successful marriage.  The purpose of the conversation was to bring awareness that marriage is a lifetime commitment that requires continuous work, communication, respect, love and two individuals who are healthy.  Health of a marriage is ultimately determined by the people in it so it is important for them to be diligent about mental, emotional, spiritual and physical health.  These are all tools needed in order to. E able to communicate properly, compromise and manage conflict well.  It is possible to have a happy, loving productive successful marriage.  

In this conversation Mss Francois joined Mil Ivory in a conversation about dating & breakups! Mss Francois is the host of the Mss Francois Show as well as author of the book Let That @#$%&! Man Go: 5 Plus Steps to Getting over a break Up.  So we knew she would  drop jewels in a conversation and do it only in a way that the Multitalented Sassy & Sexy Patrice Francois would!! Tune in to catch this tea!! 

Host Mil Ivory has a conversation with Promoter of body positivity Markeyah also know as and can be found on Instagram as Kurvy_Kayy. MIL and Kay discuss how positivity promotes that all people deserve to have a positive body image.  Regardless of what stigmas society put on you to believe.  Your size, shape, color, gender and appearance should strictly be  asked on you being happy with who you are.  What you think is beautiful in your eyes NOT what society or popular culture view as ideal.  Total self love and acceptance plays a major role in you achieving that!! what their views are on body positivity, and how your perception of your body's image can effect you and the people around you. It is ultimately up to you to possess the confidence and acceptance of who you are to be able to have these positive experiences with your self but if you are struggling we want you to know that it happens to the best of us and it is not permanent.  You can change it with the will, support and self love!!           

As the number of biracial Americans grow in today's society it is important to understand some of the struggles they face simply by being a combination of their parents racial groups.  We are all so familiar with the black stereotypes, the white stereotypes, the Mexican stereotypes etc. but what happens when you  are forced to navigate more than one racial stereotype?  Whatever their particular ethnic mix, biracial Americans often struggle to fit in.  What's the experience of being multiracial and feeling like others categorize you one way or the other? Can being perceived as one particular group of another affect a persons well-being? How does one navigate that?  These are the things we are discussing in today's conversation as the host Mil Ivory has an honest conversation with a young lady about her experience as a bi racial American.    Listen and let us know your thoughts on this!  If you are a bi racial American what advice can you offer that has helped you?  #Let'stalkaboutit 

Closed Door Conversations host Mil Ivory has a open conversation with fellow podcaster of Society Talks Podcast about why we should occasionally do a Reality Check.  The host of Society Talks podcast Red Goddess wanted to give her listeners a little reality check & of course Mil Ivory in true CDC fashion wanted to talk about it and extend upon the conversation.  Hints.....Reality Check 2.0 Most people look at a reality check as a bad thing, when it is actually the complete opposite.  “Checking in with yourself “ assessing your needs and setting your goals based on YOUR PERSONAL SITUATION is very important to your growth an success.  It is so important that it can often make or break a person.....literally.  Being honest with yourself when your assessing your needs,wants,desires,goals and not comparing yourself to others helps us to pour into ourselves to encourage self growth.  It is beneficial and essential because it can improve your energy, your productivity, your mood and your relationship with others.  So check in with you!!  Pay attention to you.  Work on improving your own behavior based on your needs so that you can live a more happier healthier life physically,emotionally, and financially!  #letstalkaboutit 

Mil Ivory has a conversation with a fellow podcaster who is actually a sugar baby.  The host of  The Sugar Baby Diary Kay simply shares her experiences in great detail with her listeners as a sugar baby.  This is not a conversation that people normalize so of course we needed to have a conversation with her on Closed Door Conversations about her experiences.  In this conversation we get answers to what it is like to be a sugar baby, how you can get into the lifestyle, touch the service o. Some of the good bad ugly perks and frustrations.  For those of you who may not know what sugaring is, it is a form of daring in which one partner financially supports the other, often in forms of cash and gifts.  Most sugaring relationships involve and older man known as a sugar daddy and a younger woman known as a sugar baby.   Disclaimer Here at Closed Door Conversations Podcast we do not offer professional advice or opinions.  Simply offer a space to have honest non judgmental conversations for the host and or guest to speak their truths based on their personal experiences. 

In this conversation the host is challenging all the CDC community to not only ask themselves do they see their glass half empty or half full.  Why is that important you say?  If you are the type of person who always sees their glass half empty it means you are a pessimistic person versus the opposite of being optimistic.  Optimists focus on the good whereas pessimists tend to focus on the bad.  If you are a pessimistic person simple put, you are a negative thinker.  In which case this conversation is targeted at you.  In this conversation the host hopes to enlighten and convert or at least encourage negative thinkers to become positive thinkers.  Just an attempt to let you guys know the power in positive thinking and how it can help to improve your mental, emotional, physical and sometimes financial and sexual health.       Disclaimer:  This is not professional advice.  The host is sharing her opinion based on her experiences and research.

Closed Door Conversations discuss the importance of dating.  CDC host Mil Ivory have a conversation with fellow podcaster Rashad of Shad be Real Podcast on the importance of dating, personal preferences and experiences when dating.    Dating is an essential step when you are looking for your forever person.  Dating is important to help you develop a friendship, learn to communicate, get to know one other and test your vibes   to determine the direction of budding friendship that may turn into something more.  Dating gives you the opportunity to learn and grow from each other.  Not to be overstated or underrated but definitely necessary.   DISCLAIMER:  Closed Door Conversations Podcasts the host and guest are not professionals and are not giving advice.  They are simply sharing their experiences in conversation to the listening audience.  

There are just some things that show no prejudice of who it attaches too. Doesn't matter you age, race, importance, talent or popularity.   Struggles..... We all go through things in life.  These things can define us and have an ever lasting impact on us.  Mental health conditions, poverty and addictions are some that are commonly overlooked and underserved.   These are all things that will take a toll on you.  If you do not deal with them, they will deal with you.  One thing about the hip hop legend DMX that has recently parted he was very vocal and open about his struggles with these things.  How them impacted him, how they made him feel, and often times expressing feeling of being tired and helpless.  His openness has inspired this conversation.  Soooooo many things were overlooked because he was who he was.  Disregarding that no matter his position was in this world he was human first.  A man that was fighting almost his whole life.  Dealing with things that were out of his control.  I want to honor him in this conversation.  Bring light to some of the things that people seem scared to talk about and confront! Normalization only occurs from conversation!!  Mil   Disclaimer:  Closed Door Conversations DO NOT offer professional advice or intends for any of the information to be taken from a  medical standpoint. The host is expressing feelings, knowledge and concerns from personal thought and experiences.      

Mil Ivory has a conversation with two guest who are part of or has been a part of the LGBTQ community on how your sexual orientation can affect your religious experience.   For decades one of the most enduring ethical issues across Christian traditions is sexual diversity.  Today we touch on what the bible actually says about attraction to someone of the same sex and how that can affect someone interactions with people in the religious setting.  Acknowledging the fact that sexuality for the most part was not understood in biblical times and these times are changing to be more open to the change.  Engaging  in a same sex relationship is not always a direct rejection of the Bible's authority in their lives.  Is there such a thing as neutral interpretations? Is there one correct way to interpret the Bible and if so who determines that?  To most conservative Christian's their interpretation is that same-sex relationships = sin and people who engage in such behavior are not able to reflect God's intent.   So today we are going to talk about it!!      Disclaimer:  We are not professionals.  We are simply having conversations based on our personal experiences and opinions.  This is not meant to discourage,encourage, or persuade anyway into any actions or decisions.   

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Closed Door Conversations Podcast will sometimes produce a Woman to Woman conversation series in which it is focused on a subject that only pertains to or targeted towards women.  We welcome all listeners to tune in.  Even though the conversation is focused on women men may learn some things too!

If you only knew..........What it really takes to be a success entrepreneur.  There are struggles in being a business owner.  It's not always roses and Champagne.  The more of a minority you are the more greater the challenges.  In this conversation Mil Ivory has a conversation with a fellow female entrepreneur Boss Kyla about the things that encouraged them to take the leap of faith into the business world.  Some of the challenges women entrepreneurs face and a deeper dive at what black women experience as entrepreneurs.  The importance of support, being focused, professional, and knowing your purpose as an entrepreneur.  Not only women entrepreneurs but  Black women entrepreneurs are on the rise! It's important to know how to get there and tools for continued growth........ The Conversation Continues BECOME A PATRON Become a Patron!       Let's talk about it!

In today's conversation the host Mil Ivory speaks on the importance of empowering and inspiring others.  It is very important for people who are empowered to “reach back” and empower others.  When people feel empowered, they believe in themselves and their capability to control their professional and personal lives.  When you help to empower others it promotes a “can-do” attitude which helps people to live more positive purpose driven lives, that allow them to do the same for someone and keep the positivity and inspiration going.

Pleasure means the state of being pleased, gratified or delighted.  In this episode the host Mil Ivory has a conversation about pleasure with her guest and the various ways of how it is used for feelings of happiness or satisfaction.  

In this conversation Mil shares how carrying the title of  “ The Strong One” can affect a person.  For some of us being strong is default to us, second nature.   You don't know how not to be strong, even if you tried.  You're the one who always holds it together, keeps going, and perseveres despite all.  Being “the strong one “ may not always be easy but it is absolutely necessary.  We (the world) need fighters, the ones who see the beauty in pain, hope in the moments of doubt. I want you to know that being the strong one is a beautiful thing and self care is equally important!  We don't usually see what everyone else sees in our strength.  It's hard to see what you carry inside, so we don't know what it looks like, how much it is needed and appreciated.  Sometimes we see it as a weakness.  Being the strong one often gets in way, becomes heavy and tiring.  You don't know how to go through life any other way, but no one can be “the strong one” all the time for the people in our lives. Sometimes being “the strong one” is taking care of yourself.  Not allowing your own needs and hardships to be postponed or disregarded in your efforts to support others.  We have to stop doing that!! You should make a habit of asking yourself .... I'm always looking out for others..... but who is looking out for me?  Just to help you prioritize and remind you if you use all of you up for everyone else, what are you leaving for yourself? Self care and self love is the best love!!

Being in love can be the most amazing thing in the world, “they” say, there is no such thing as too much love.  If you've ever been in love with two people at the same time, you might not say the same.  Where you in love or did you just love them? In  honor of  side chick side dude Valentine's Day ( Day After Valentine's) it seemed appropriate to have the conversation on being in love with two people at the same time.  In this episode the host has conversations with guest to get their thoughts on it.   Drop down in the comments or go to our Facebook page and tell us what you think?? Let's Talk about it!!