Reinvent Ideal: Dating & Life Advice for Men

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Transcript As a man, you know if you want to have sex with a woman within 3 seconds. A woman knows within 3 minutes if sex is even in the cards for her with you. But from there, there are many other considerations on her part that still need evaluation. During the period of evaluation by her, many guys will resort to simping in an attempt to win her favor or get angry and upset because she gave them blue balls. The real problem here is that most males do not understand what a woman needs before getting into bed with you. Today's episode will clear it all up and show you what helps get her over the hurdles to have sex with you. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Transcript The language you use in your own thoughts matters because the cruelty you accept from your inner voice determines the cruelty you will accept from others. Saying "I got rejected," or "I need help coping with rejection" sends the wrong message. It says that something happens to you. It says you're not in control. Instead of “coping with rejection,” think of it as “handling the rejecting behaviors of others,” and “how to respond when other people are disinterested.” While you cannot manage other people's behaviors and preferences, you can easily manage your own thoughts. When you think or say, “I got rejected,” you are falsely putting the blame for the horrid event on yourself. Assigning that fault will hinder your ability to cope. But considering all the contextual variables, it's a 1 out of 500 chance that it was because, “She didn't like you.” It's more likely something that's not your fault, like her being in a relationship already. Was it not better to find this out as early as possible? That's one positive way to spin it. But too often, guys will look for the most negative interpretation of events. In behaviorism, this fatal mistake is called “Cognitive Distortions.” ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Transcript Far too often in the pickup/allurement/dating advice community, the focus is put entirely on the beginning phases. They teach you how to get her attention, phone number, date and sex. But one thing that this community has lacked in its teachings is how to keep a relationship with her, and more importantly, how to keep it one that you're happy with. Her loyalty is equally as important. You know everything now you need to do in order to get her out of your dreams and into your car. But how do you keep her there? There was so much hard work that went into getting to this point that many guys would like to think now is the time that they can just relax and enjoy what she can give you. Nothing could be further from the truth. This is where a lot of guys get lazy, give up going to the gym, stop paying attention to how they're dressed and groomed, and some even choose to slack off at work. They have become so comfortable and happy in their personal life because of this new-found relationship with the woman they desired that they forget how to exhibit the traits that attracted her in the first place. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Transcript How do you find other high value men to make male friends that will push you further along your path to achieving success in life and reinvention? Find out here Ideally, the friends you have will be ones that share the same activities, interests, experiences, feelings and thoughts as you. However, this is very unlikely. So in order to grow and accomplish anything in life, you'll have to adapt. Don't expect the universe to drop friends on you randomly. You've got to make these things happen for yourself. You may need to take on whole new activities, interests and experiences. The following ways are what I believe are the best, most effective ways for you to meet other guys that will lift you up in life and help you along in your journey. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Transcript Do you believe that being a sugar daddy is a perfectly fine way to operate your life as a man? If so, you're about to get a kick in the butt today because you're approaching women from a position of weakness and thus will lose in the exchange. Sugar daddies, simps and the like treat the exchange like a negotiation, which this was never meant to be. Have you ever had some guy tell you how lucky you were to have a girlfriend? Have you ever been the guy that tells other men that? Ever seen another man with a girlfriend that was so beautiful, you think to yourself, “Wow, that's so amazing. I wish I could have a woman like that. I could never have that.” That's precisely why you won't. You don't think you're worthy so you won't be. But have you ever seen a man with a beautiful girlfriend, but he was a bad boyfriend to her and you felt you'd be so much better for her? Why would you be? You say it's because you'd give her everything she wants and move mountains for her. If you could get her. But that's why you don't have her. The Sexual Marketplace is no different. But the simp is not entirely aware of this. They may feel unworthy of the woman and thereby less valuable. But the things they think would make their position stronger are all wrong. They think flaunting money, flexing muscles and flattering with compliments is what will make them more valuable to the woman. They couldn't be more wrong. What wins a woman over and causes her negotiate from a position of weakness is allurement. When a man can make a mundane moment memorable and magical, when he can turn an ordinary date into an experience she'll never forget, or take the lead in a dance that sweeps her of her feet, he's a man that she'd make concessions for. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription A form of deep, intrapersonal intelligence that is not talked about, despite the rise in interest for emotional intelligence, is what I would like to call sexual intelligence. If emotional intelligence is the ability to call into question and control bursting emotions screaming for attention, then sexual intelligence is the ability to do the same for your urges. This is not to say that there is anything wrong with your attraction or sexual arousal. Letting them run wild can lead to more serious problems down the road. Having the ability to cap them early on will also make your sexual experiences more pleasant, because during them, you can release yourself of the mental discipline it takes to restrict arousal. And finally, the greater the control you have over your sex-drive, the more irresistible you are to women. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Dating is dangerous in today's world for men, especially the marriage-minded, but these red pill rules will keep you safe. Pursue romance and intimacy safely with an awareness of inter-sexual dynamics and the praxeological information referred to as the red pill. It is a collection of empirical data that will save your life and your sanity from the unforgiving brutal of today's mating market. These red pill rules are said to be Iron-Clad not in the sense that they cannot ever be broken. But in the sense that they encompass all the principles of allure lead back to one of these. They are also to be used as fall back positions for those “When in doubt” moments of not knowing what to do next. Going into the dating pool of today can be like a seal swimming with sharks if you're not careful. These principles will make sure you're not falling into the traps set by the blue pill world. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription No, I do not think the Flagrant 2 are racist. But this is the little game they play on people they don't like and agree with: take words and actions of theirs out of context, twist them into something else, and present a false conclusion. Today, they get a taste of their own medicine for their assault on the Red Pill consortium. But what today's episode is really about is what Andrew and Akash illustrated with their white knight behavior. The great problem for men today is how easily they turn on each other to "defend ma lady's honor," or compete viciously, or even "out-alpha" each other. By the way, if you're using the word "alpha" to describe yourself or any other male, you really need to stop. Today, we'll get into how to override this conditioned proclivity men have to turn on each other and a better way to approach competitive situations and the way the world pits you against other men. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription How can you be anything but black pill in today's world? Everyone hates us just for the way we're born. Women hold all the power. If she doesn't want me to approach her, she can say I'm harassing her and everyone will believe her. Even if we're married, she can end that anytime and be rewarded for ending that. If a woman can destroy my life from the very beginning at approach and even at the end with divorce where she can clean me out of all I've built, how can I be anything but black pill and nihilist? Can we make ourselves instantly happy right away? Actually, yes. Believe it or not, your life is already pretty awesome. The majority of our thoughts are inherently negative largely because of how easy it is to think negatively. It's easy to worry, to become anxious, to feel inadequate and to feel anger about the seeming injustices that cause them. These emotions are overpowering and can take hours to recover from, leaving very little time to feel contentment. Because the natural, default state of the world is for it to suck, it's only natural for our minds to expect the worse and go negative. To be optimistic and upbeat is quite unnatural, which is why such people who are leave a lasting impression on us. The amount of bad things we remember from our past, the current strains and stress we feel, and the vast number of future worries stealing our concerns seem to outweigh any little joys we might pick up day to day. In short, living is naturally hard and you have to work to put a smile on. While I'm sure this is true for every living being on earth, being male, I'm able to pinpoint the obstacles to contentment that the world throws specifically at us. We're constantly reminded that we're inadequate with unrealistic body standards force-fed to us since childhood. Just look at the bodies of the action figures, superheroes and athletes we're made to idolize. The grateful man has the advantage because it can disarm the sting of any problem or challenge that life throws at him. If there is any privilege at all in being male, it's from these things. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Why do women dish out their disapproval of you? Because they're hypergamous? Cold-hearted? Conditioned to hate males? Does every woman on earth already have a boyfriend? And the ones that don't are just coincidentally asexual as well? Or does it have more to do with you? Is it because you're unworthy? Unlovable? Unnecessary? Is the black pill correct? These are only perceptions. We've spent years trying to build up the self-esteem of an entire generation and have created a world in which the word “no” carries more power to wound adults more deeply than ever before. Teenage males believe the solutions to their problem are: money, hot transportation, expensive dates, gifts, excitement from an expensive lifestyle, muscles, height, hot sex, perfect facial symmetry, popularity, acting like a jerk, and having a big dick. These are all assumptions but developed for a reason. Lack any of those, and that's why he believes girls are not dating him. The generalizations are easy and convenient to believe. It gives the idea that if they get better at just that one thing they lack, gone will be the problem. And there are many profit-seekers out to provide what the young guys lack. There are entire industries built on teenage boys and adult males continuing to have an unsolved reproductive problem. OnlyFans, Chaturbate, PornHub, etc. exist because of the simps and they have a financial interest into turning these males into full-blown incels. The poor fools fall for it hook, line and sinker and tragically at an early age. The boys fail realize that when they are teenagers, they have underdeveloped brains. They're just stupid. Up to this point, all the information they've received about successful relationships with females has come from movies, TV and the internet. In those outlets, all you see is just what you want to see. That's all they sell to you. When you are rejected, you scramble for an answer as to why and are desperate to know. Your mind ruminates over it unnecessarily. Today's episode will tell you the only reason why you get rejected and what to do about. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription A car is definitely a necessity in today's world. But being a necessity does not make it an asset, despite what car salesmen will say. In fact, a personal vehicle is one of the greatest liabilities you'll ever own. It requires regular maintenance, it may occasionally come down with costly issues, it needs gasoline which does not have a stable nor predictable price, and it requires insurance to legally drive it, even though you may never use it. Let's not forget, the government is here to stick it to you again, forcing you to pay money for your driver's license, registration, tags and plate. For goodness sake, the thing loses 15% of its value the moment it's driven off the lot. The one thing that prevents most people from ever attaining wealth is the monthly car payment. This doesn't mean you shouldn't buy a car. This doesn't mean you should only buy it outright with cash. This doesn't mean walk everywhere you need to go or ride a bike (but do it if you can). It means don't continue buying new cars every five years. Today's episode will give you some very good ideas about cars. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription That skill is how to talk to girls. Part of the reason I chose to become a dating coach is due to dissatisfaction with the ones currently available in my local market. Since they couldn't provide the answers I was looking for, I sought those answers out on my own. And once I had them, I knew I could crush the competing coaches just for the fact that I had them. Many dating coaches are just really bad at giving guys advice beyond the usual, “Engaging the conversation is half the battle.” Sure, it's a vital part of the process, but as the saying says, there's a whole other half to this equation. They'll tell their clients, "Just talk to women and boom! They chase you." That only works for the coaches because they've been talking to women for a long time. Many guys starting out are lost on what to even say to her. What do you say when you finally get the balls to talk to random women you don't know or have any prior connection with. And to make matters more difficult, these women will also be 9's and 10's on the beauty scale. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Offense is taken. It cannot be given. Whenever you don't like something, you say, “I take offense to that.” You never say, “You give me offense with that.” Being offended is a choice. The pain you feel from a punch or injury is involuntary because physical damage is done to the body. But the pain from an insult results in no physical damage. An insult is comprised of words and words are nothing more than sequences of sound waves. They only have the meaning and the power you give them. Words only have the meaning and power you choose to give them. If they ever have the power to offend you, remember it was you that chose to give them that power. And that's very telling about the kind of person you are if you are one that chooses to be offended by sequences of sound waves. But many of the whiners and bitches that claim they are so deeply offended by things aren't necessarily making their displeasure known because their feelings are legitimately hurt. They are complaining because they have a need to have their complaints heard. Some people actually get orgasmic pleasure from indignation. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Today's episode goes back to what Reinvent Ideal is all about. Changing the standard for an ideal male life. This is done by abandoning and rejecting outdated, awful advice often given to guys that if followed can ruin their lives. Advice like go to college, climb the corporate ladder, get married, have kids, follow the blue pill, and even "game." Instead, a man should pursue a different path, one where he reinvents himself. By reaching his full financial, social, genetic and intellectual potential. That is the most moral calling any human can chase, especially a man. These are the things a man should chase instead of women. And then once he's reached these peak potentials, he can have his choice of all the women available. Even if you don't get the woman of your dreams at the end of this, you get much more out of this life for you. You're not doing this for women. You're doing it for you. You chase excellence instead of women not to one day have one. You do it to have the new ideal life for a male. One that's happy whether he has a woman or not. And we begin by deprogramming all the blue pill lies you've fed. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription More like myths, but myths are really just a nice way of saying lies. The three that I'm going to tear apart on today's program are: 1. The sole mate myth 2. The quality woman myth 3. The lonely, miserable, unmarried, old man myth These three lies are spread throughout popular wisdom and pop culture to convince you that your sole purpose in this world is to serve women and be a great asset to their existence. Even if that comes at the expense of your happiness, so be it, says the world. We're going to change this type of thinking and transform your mind into having more beneficial thoughts for you today. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription A woman can be a great addition to your life, but locking in a financial attachment to her can totally ruin it. As guys, we will still want women and to have them in our lives, but do we have to make ourselves economically dependent on each other? Can we possibly protect ourselves if so? Marriage, cohabitation, even committed relationships are generally not beneficial to the reinvented ideal life for men. But for those that just can't live without commitment to a woman, today's episode has a quiz for you and her to do that will prevent financial ruin in case the relationship goes south. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Do you get really angry at thots on Twitch, OnlyFans, Instagram, or whatever when they grift and exploit guys with their sexuality? The sexual thirst racketeering gets pretty annoying. But do not be angry at these thots. That will only make them double down. Who should you really be angry at? Who do you think you have a chance of reaching and making a difference with? Not the thot, but the simps that make her popular and give her that easy life. You must shame all your simp friends by telling them something like, "Hey, bro. The way you're slobbering all over this chick that would turn her nose up at you? It's not a good look on you. A lot of people would laugh at you and make fun of you behind your back if they saw this." That's not really shaming, more like helping that guy. Simping is a plague upon the world and needs to be shamed out of existence. Today's program is all about this. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Today's episode is a response to a listener's email asking why women have sex: I don't understand why women act like sex is such a big deal or an enormous favor they do for us guys. Like, WTF? Don't they enjoy it too? Doesn't it feel good on their end? Especially for the fact that they hardly have to do any of the work. What is their problem? I understand that there's a greater reproductive burden to pay, but last I heard birth control and condoms were invented. Could you talk about how to overcome this obstacle of women's apparent resistance to having it and what ultimately motivates them to have sex when they do? Women need a reason to have sex whereas men just need a place. It's important to understand the female mind when it comes to what motivates them to have sex. What need is a woman looking to have fulfilled by having sex. A man that can recognize that and act accordingly to it needs very little knowledge of tactics on how to get it. We're not seeking to trick women into having sex. We're only seeking to give them the sex they've already decided they want to have. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Answering a listener's email tonight about why you never want a woman to perceive you as subservient. This is a perception she may develop if you are too quick to help her or attempt to make her life easier at your expense. We also call this simp behavior. Suppose you are someone that is very beneficial for her to have in her network. Suppose she is even a bit interested in you before the two of you get to know each other. Then she finds out that you could help her with something that she really wants or needs. At that moment, you become disqualified from ever being a sex partner. The rational explanation behind that is that if you really are that useful, she doesn't want to fuck things up by introducing sex into the arrangement. But as you know, women are more emotional and they understand that sex can make things unpredictable and jeopardize the relationship. It adds new risks that otherwise would exist. Even if you're a very attractive guy, you must recognize this point. Women have 1/18 the amount of sex hormones you have, so it doesn't always take top priority for them when it comes to getting needs met. But if you're one of those guys that they call “meal tickets” (a guy that a woman dates just to get free meals from), you're serving a more useful purpose: feeding her. She doesn't always need sex but she always needs to eat. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription It is better to endure a failure from a rejection than to be tied to a success you regret. Avoiding rejection causes more long-term problems than just enduring through it. Because how well you handle failure determines how often you get to handle success. Your attempts to shield yourself from failure are also shielding you from success. Males hinder their own success by creating long-term problems that otherwise wouldn't have hit them. We are the masters of complicating our lives and justifying why we do it. Some ways in which they complicate and create worse problems for themselves is by getting into long-distance relationships, orbiting, simping, dating single mothers, and developing an unbreakable addiction to porn. The existence of these problems has allowed me to make my living as a writer and a coach. And what I've found common among all these problems is that at the root of them is a fear of rejection and desire to shield one's self from it. The shields from rejection that males develop for themselves condition them to accept not winning. They are in fact an admission of early defeat. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription If dating coaches talked about them, you probably wouldn't ever hire one. Is it possible that you're wasting your time and money on pursuits that will not make you happy in the end like you think they will? Is it possible you're wasting your life on goals that the world says your supposed to have but you're not sure you even want? I am out to make money, but my clients are often big spenders and I charge a high-end price, so I don't think I'm losing much business revealing all this here. Dating coaches are out to make money so it's not in their financial interest to tell you these things. But this episode will tell you what they won't to save you real money. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription New year, but for resolutions, instead of looking at the future, look at the past. We're going to look at the past of one fellow in particular. Jack Murphy, a guy that prides himself on being the alpha male mentor. Guys, when you hear these voices in the male space calling themselves "Alpha males", run. Firstly, the whole concept is bro-science bullshit. Second, if you have to label yourself as a top-tier guy, you're probably not. Not interested in shitting on Jack Murphy, although I personally don't care for him. These guys that promote themselves as super-masculine and have these big beards are an embarrassment to all males. Please, shave off your stupid beards. Today is about what can we learn from his mistakes. A smart man learns from his own mistakes. A wise man learns from the mistakes of others. Just own your past. Everyone has something unflattering and embarrassing in their past. Look at me. For a period of time in my life, I was a stripper. I'm sure there's videos out there of my time as a stripper because I remember seeing phones locked on to me. Am I going to try to hide it? Hell no. The theme of today, if anything, is you need to give a lot less of a shit about most things. Especially your past. Own your shit. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription We all get soft rejections, but what about the explicitly harsh rejections? What about when she tells you to, “Fuck off because you're the ugliest person in the world with the smallest dick alive!” in front of a large crowd? As painful as that one sounds, what would you think if you were told she was the one feeling the most pain? Acting this cold and bitchy is not normal behavior for a woman because it is confrontational which is not a feminine trait. There are only three possible explanations for why she would deviate from the vernacular of female behavior. We discuss them today. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription A male friend that sticks by your side is far more valuable to you as a man than even the hottest, most sexual, submissive wife. Here's what they can do for you. This goes especially for the guys that are in the most pain and have the greatest need to get it off their chests. These guys often lack the opportunities to do just that. Neither were they ever taught the skills of expressing these intense emotions and negative feelings in a constructive way. Males often feel safer expressing vulnerable thoughts and feelings with their woman. It seems perfectly reasonable to expect the woman who loves you to offer a sympathetic ear and provide emotional support that seems natural for women to give. Today's episode will show you why it is more beneficial for you to seek empathy and advice from your male friends instead of your woman. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription A dating life hack that will dramatically improve your happiness and satisfaction as a male is spinning plates, or date non-exclusively. Most guys do not do this because it is contrary to our nature and goes against everything the media tells us. Many guys will have initial hesitation to doing this, which of course shows a healthy thoughtfulness and consideration for others. There are two reasons that most guys do not build a rotation: the disgusting aftertaste of feeling like a player and the over-estimation of maintaining such a circle. Both these objections need to be dismantled. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Indirect allure is so appealing to guys because it protects their egos. If the woman rejects you while you're trying to chat her up about dogs, it's not that she doesn't want you, it's because she doesn't want to talk about dogs. What then is an easy way to find out if she likes you? Even if it works well enough to get you a phone number out of the interaction, it only sets you up for being her male girlfriend or an orbiting simp. Attempting to talk to women without the chance of being judged is just not possible. You need to just embrace the judgment and go direct. You have a short window of time to find out if she likes you before the approach becomes awkward or annoying to her. Today's episode focuses on finding out fast ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Even if you know how to converse and aren't afraid of running out of things to say, there's still one missing element of talking to 9's and 10's. If you only know how to do that, you may make a lot of friends, but it won't get you on dates. To do that, you must learn how to flirt. Further, you must learn how to flirt without being creepy. Flirting is how you arouse her interest and making her start imagining both of you together. This is definitely what you want her thinking about, but also in a fun and suggestive way. Flirting comes natural to women because they can get away with anything. If a woman came up to you and said, “I'd love to put lipstick on your dipstick,” you wouldn't object as long as she was hot. It doesn't come so easily for guys and there's no way we'd ever get away with something like that. Especially with the #MeToo era. A lot of guys are afraid to flirt with women because they don't want to look creepy and get accused of harassment. But the reason they do is precisely because the way they flirt is creepy. I'd bet that many of those harassment claims arose because the guy was trying to flirt but was too clumsy with it and overly direct. The proper way is to be subtle. You want to tease and excite her, not shock her. Today's episode will give you a primer on flirting without appearing to be a thirsty creep. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Many times, all a guy needs to do to get laid is to not fuck it up. But many guys will shoot themselves right in foot on the road to wrinkled bedsheets. They were so close but made one little mistake. I've compiled a list of the most common, stupid mistakes that guys easily fall into doing. Bear in mind that these mistakes are only actions to avoid while you are pursuing sex with her. You can get away with doing some of these things after you've had sex with her twice. I still would suggest keeping it to a minimum after that point. But don't think these are absolutely, don't-even-think-about, “no-no's”. On dates, a guy looks for things he likes about the woman he's with while the woman looks for things that she doesn't like. She actively searches for disqualifiers because of her hypergamous nature and the fact that she knows she has so many options available to her with the current simp pandemic. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Did you know that there are myths that most guys believe and believing those myths is preventing them from getting laid? That's one of the many lies that women want you to believe. Caitlin V. made a video to document them all. Cairo made this podcast to debunk it all. This just goes to show that you can't take advice from female dating coaches or anyone who hasn't dated a woman. A coach can only lead you as far as they've gone and if they haven't gotten the results with women you want, they can't help you get them. But also, the things that women want you to believe about them are so false and could lead you to get hurt bad. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Short answer: no. But there is a tremendous amount of joy you gain from not getting married. Further, there's a greater cost to getting married beyond wedding. Society today puts tremendous pressure on guys to get married or make them feel as though they are not in good standing if they do not. You may have noticed this that whenever you're with a woman, you're treated differently. However those benefits are dwarfed by the drawbacks. Today's episode explains how guys will not become the miserable, lonely, old man archetype if they chose to remain single or a player forever. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Getting back with her is one pseudo-solution. Another is getting back at her. This one, however, is far more tempting. After all, this woman not only abandoned you and showed no regard or guilt in doing so, perhaps she also humiliated you. But you still must never seek revenge on an ex-girlfriend. There's is a world of terrible things that could happen to you as a result because the Fempowerment Mandate will come swiftly to her defense. But there's also a ton of better things you could be doing with you time and energy that will serve an even sweeter dish of revenge: make your life so awesome without her that she wishes she could still be part of it. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Here's a hint: it's not looks, money, status, muscles, or power. The greatest contributor to your sexual success is the amount of volume you are working. The number one thing you need to do on your end to make this quest of getting laid successful is to work more volume. The most important element of your system is to try to close with as many women as possible. There are far too many mitigating factors and contextual variables in a woman's life that get in the way of your pursuit of sex with them. These things make it impossible to succeed while focusing on just one or even a few women. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Many guys waste their time with online dating and the usual apps, hoping to find a worthwhile girl from them. So much time is wasted. You're often ignored. Or if you make one mistake, you're replaced in a heartbeat. Or you find yourself "fat-fished" where the girl turns out to be nothing like her pictures. There are several reasons to avoid online dating. But how often do these posts tell you what to do instead to improve you chances with women? This one sure will. I won't just hate on the problem. I'll give you an alternative solution. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Reinvent Ideal is on. Today, is it possible you are wasting countless, precious hours of your life, not mention energy output, caring about something that will never satisfy you nor make you happy? It's a problem in the world that everyone seems to care about but it will never be solved, and we'd all be a hell of a lot happier if we just forgot all about it. I promise you, your life and happiness will skyrocket once you drop thinking about this one thing. Want to know what it is? Warning, you're about to pass a no bull barrier. Reinvent Ideal starts now. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription You might have heard about the Morgan Stanley report that estimates most women will be single and childless in 10 years. You may have also heard some advice on how to invest for that event when it happens. I've heard some investment ideas too, like dog food, handbags, luxury goods, etc. All those ideas are 100% trash. On this episode, I will show you why and also tell you what to invest in instead. As well as make the major announcement for my new book: Jurassic Stocks: Stock Investing Explained Using Jurassic Park ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Many guys live with the goal of one day getting married. They're constantly on the lookout for their future wife. They often fantasize and idealize hat she may be like and how life with her could be. Today, I'm going to show you how and what to replace those thoughts with that is far more beneficial for you. Continuing to think about a future, ideal wife is to go down the blue pill path. But this new way to think will have you reinventing yourself in a way that can only propel you to greater heights and achievements in life. How to make decisions so you'll never make a regretful one ever again! ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription A critical life hack for men that can sum up all the benefits of many everyday hacks is a lesson best learned now. We're often told to "take action" right away. But is that the optimal move in every situation? Is it possible that sometimes it's best to just wait and not do anything? L ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription By we, I mean dating coaches and PUAs. The red pill consortium covers this subject a lot: how cruel a woman you're dating can be to you in terms of dumping you quickly, without warning, and for seemingly trivial reasons. Your emotional investments and supposed "equity" the relationship is erased instantly and completely unrecognized in her eyes. What should you do knowing that this risk is out there when you pursue a woman? That's covered on today's episode. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription The stench of sexual thirst is the vibe a pervert or a creep gives off. If you want to avoid appearing creepy and making women you talk to uncomfortable, you must learn how to eliminate this stench of thirst and how turn off your sexual reactions. That will make you seduction-proof and keep you in a frame of mind to make intelligent decisions. Today's episode gives you 3 easy ways to do this. All in the effort of slaughtering the simp within. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Want to know a little secret? Something that will drastically improve your life and make it much easier to enjoy? A shortcut to a more satisfied life? There are plenty of products and services out there being sold to you under this guise, but this one thing is something that legitimately does the trick. Best of all it doesn't need to cost you anything. Doing this one thing will also greatly reduce your stress and make you much less likely to experience depression. Doing this one thing will also help you stay in shape and avoid obesity. Doing this will allow you to maintain a higher standard of health. It is scientifically proven that it will also help you live longer. As if you needed another reason, doing this one thing also makes you a lot more appealing and attractive to women. So what it is it?! Listen and find out! ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Society is a simp factory and the social conditioning of it is so horrible, it's almost unavoidable. On today's program, I will show you what is in the future of a simp's sad life, along with things to start (or stop) doing right now to avoid becoming pathetic. Simp rehab begins right now. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription What causes many guys to take the easy path in life is the fact that rejection is so harsh. But I want to present this perspective how it's really not that bad. On today's short episode, a quick pocket lesson you can listen to any time you're afraid to approach that girl because she might reject you. Listening to this will have you realize it's really not the thing to be feared. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription The largest transfer of wealth continues. OnlyFans will resume the porn grift for "sex workers" (which is a phrase everyone needs to stop using because sex and work do not go together and if they do, you're doing it wrong). No one on earth is a sex worker, they are just a bunch of "sexual thirst racketeers". Please refer to them only as that from now on. Today, I'll share with you how OnlyFans harms everyone, not just the fool that pays for it. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Yeah, OnlyFans is doing away with dirty content. But this won't save the world from the simp problem. And the entitlement attitude and solipsism women have won't end with it. When a guy buys an onlyfans subscription, he's taking the lazy way out. Same with simping in general. That used to be just his problem. Now it's everyone's problem. What needs to happen is the simps need to be rehabbed. Sure, I say shame your simp friends. Get them a copy of my book, send them a link to it on Amazon and audible. But don't do this to bully them. These guys are not happy simping. They are in deep pain. Like a drug addict. They need professional help. Share this episode with your simp friends or share it online wherever you see simp behavior. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription This episode is an emergency one made off schedule. We got a major problem going on in the red pill consortium which is illustrated by the rivalry between Fresh & Fit and Aba & Preach. We must stop the infighting going on in the male space of the internet. When you see content creators engaging in infighting, just post this in the comments section of their YouTube videos, tweets, blog posts, podcast posts, etc.: "I liked your message and content. But if you're going to be participating in infighting, I am not following you anymore." Then they'll get the message and stop, maybe. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Most guys go down the life ruining path by making self-sacrifice and service their second-nature. Refusing to put one's self first and make your own needs a priority, or really even just giving yourself permission to make your needs a priority, will have you indentured to anyone and everyone else. The crucial concept explained on today's episode is "Original Point of Concern" which means making your own needs the number one priority of your life. No, it is not selfish or inherently greedy as society would have you believe. The point of it is to love yourself like your life depends on it, because it does and no one else will. Being male, no one cares about us. Therefore, you must. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription It is very common today for women to disrespect and publicly humiliate their boyfriends and husbands. It drives many guys into deep despair as they often believe that this is just a fact of life they must put up with and even try to rationalize it. Our cultural conditioning has taught us to be overly humble while teaching women to overly humble us. What do you do? There is one thing that will fix this problem for good. It is a concept every man must fully comprehend: frame. Today's episode breaks it down for you and fully defines what frame is, as well as how to establish it for your advantage in your relationship. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription There's a terrible frame of mind that will destroy you mentally, emotionally, physically, financially, and socially. Wrapping your mind around one girl and believing she is the one thing you need to feel complete will be the death of you. On today's episode, we're getting into 5 steps to reinvent your mindset from scarcity to abundance. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription Breakups are particularly devastating for men. But they don't have to be. What if you could turn the negative energy and compulsions for sadness into fuel to make a better life? What if you could build a life so amazing as a result, that the girl who broke your heart wishes she didn't so she could still be part of it? Isn't that worth the effort? Time to benefit from your breakup. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Episode Transcription A look at the number one reason why women reject your approach and turn you down: the venue that you do it in is not conducive to flirting or singles mingling. Also, what venues are the best ones to flirt up women at. ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support

ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube Click Here for Episode Transcription Social media is a deadly poison that will waste your time and ruin your life. It's loaded with bitches ready to insult you, simps ready to shame you, and bots out to scam you. Still not convinced yet? Here are 6 reasons to stay off social media completely (with the one exception being Instagram). ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cairo-copeland/support