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Join spiritual teacher and author Scott Kiloby as he offers unique insights on a variety of topics (consciousness, inquiry, trauma, emotional repression, ending suffering, extra-terrestrial/dimensional phenomena, culture, politics, and LGBTQIA issues). This podcast will bust myths, shatter illusions, and welcome a greater depth of understanding and heart-centered wisdom around consciousness and this absolutely crazy, profoundly beautiful unfolding we call life! Guests may appear. Look for new episodes each week!

Scott Kiloby


    • Jun 17, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
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    Latest episodes from Scott Kiloby’s Podcast - Natural Recovery from Suffering

    Free Nonduality - #9 - Treasures and Traps of Spiritual Practice

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2024 105:54


    In this special bonus episode, Scott bridges his teaching here on podcast with his recent free non-duality teaching on YouTube. Scott goes into great detail on how and why people pick up practices that give them benefit while also solidifying a deeply unconscious fear-based habit of avoidance. Proposing a practice that doesn't send us on a bypass, Scott reiterates the 2D inquiries he teaches on YouTube that touch deeply enough into the root of suffering so as not to be just another unskillful or unproductive journey. But there's a caveat. Listen and find out! To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here's our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here's our seven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/mentorship-discovery-kit/

    I'm Teaching Nonduality for Free on YouTube Now (Special Podcast Episode)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 68:07


    While Scott is on hiatus from podcasting, he wanted to do this special bonus season-end episode to announce his return to teaching on YouTube (Sundays at 5pm pacific - sometimes live)). In this episode, Scott shares intimately about his own personal process with KI 3-D repression inquiry, which led to his return recently on Youtube to being a non-duality (“spiritual enlightenment”) teacher again similar to other non-duality teachers out there in the world who don't and can't help us get to the root of suffering through THAT kind of teaching. Is Scott off his rocker? After all, he's been on this podcast series talking about how THAT kind of teaching contains an inherent bypass. How on earth could he start doing THAT kind of teaching on YouTube after everything he has said on this podcast series about the ineffectiveness, inauthenticity, and inherent dangers of non-duality teachers who aren't trauma-informed and/or who ignore the science (and the body) telling us that hidden emotional repression is driving our suffering? The answer might surprise you! The fact that Scott's nonduality teaching will now be FREE on YouTube is not really the twist. The twist is that this is just what Scott wants to do because he sees the value of giving away THAT kind of teaching and also pointing people out of its inherent bypass as his NEW way to teach non-duality. Tune in for this special bonus episode where Scott lays out for you everything you need to know about his teaching including where you should go if you have been following Scott's social media and podcast but haven't gotten the experiential aspect yet! For Scott, this is really the beginning of being the kind of teacher he always wanted to be but couldn't due to emotional repression. Follow Scott on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@scottkiloby?si=bWhLAeC6rlqGXwcZ. Check out this playlist he just started - Free Nonduality Teaching: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_wpNzMrtFSE8LVwJ1m0HvczyrphrEM8y&si=nWLX2dBoUk2imvD9. Save this playlist because all the free teachings will be added to it as they are released. If you are ready for 3D (ready to end the bypass) as Scott discusses on this podcast series, start with our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. This will automatically put you on Scott's newsletter to start receiving information and resources about KI 3-D. This podcast will resume in the summer of 2024 and Scott will be doing both podcasting and free teaching on YouTube at the same time to clarify KI - Natural Recovery From Suffering.

    Last Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2024 95:54


    Scott sums it all up. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj.

    Healing Doesn't Happen In a Straight Line

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2024 92:00


    Scott shares personal details mixed with the reality of the process of healing trauma. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj.

    Suffering Is Optional

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2024 76:39


    Scott explains why he sees himself more as a mentor than a teacher now. He's interested in empowering people to take responsibility for their own suffering so that they can end it. In the days when he was a teacher, and it was about pointing to presence, the focus was not on the root of suffering. People could not end their suffering and neither could Scott. In this podcast, Scott speaks very directly to all those who are interested in the question of suffering. Scott explains that suffering in each moment is optional with this work and that, if we are earnest, suffering overall can stop arising. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. Join our first online retreat in May 2024: https://nrfs.co/49f5. Credit for the title of this episode goes to Dan McLintock and Ina Backbier.

    Dissolving the Sense of Disconnection in Relationship, Spirituality & Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2024 53:05


    Scott shares how disconnection was a way of life for him for many years and even how he used spirituality and the talk of separation to hide the actual programming of trauma and repression in his body producing the disconnection. In the last segment, Scott shares a solution for any and all experiencing disconnection. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. Join our first online retreat in May 2024: https://nrfs.co/49f5.

    The Radical Truth of Being (YourSelf)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2024 47:19


    Scott points to how Being and processing the main driver of suffering - emotional repression - come together to reveal our authentic self. This episode also illuminates how we easily get sucked into a vortex of bypassing where we believe falsely that we can just be with what is and truly embody freedom without discovering that we've been creating our suffering all along. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. Join our first online retreat in May 2024: https://nrfs.co/49f5.

    My Vulnerability - Settling for Safety and Superficiality

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2024 66:32


    Scott shares intimate details of his life to answer the question, what is real vulnerability? This is a depthful conversation that doesn't settle for superficial. Here, Scott gets to the root of why vulnerability was a trauma response for him in many ways until we cleared the anger repression. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. Join our first online retreat in May 2024: https://nrfs.co/49f5.

    All Your Suffering Is Connected to One Thing

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2024 80:07


    Scott breaks realization down very simply to the network of programs that creates the suffering according to science. This is perhaps Scott's most direct and simplest explanation of how repression drives suffering and how we get free using these tools. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. Join our first online retreat in May 2024: https://nrfs.co/49f5.

    Critique of Presence Practices

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2024 68:42


    Scott is releasing this special episode as a precursor to the episode “All Your Suffering is Connected to One Thing” coming out Monday, April 1st. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. Join our first online retreat in May 2024: https://nrfs.co/49f5.

    Creativity Repression and the Plight of the Suffering Artist

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2024 72:47


    Scott shares how the creative impulse in humans is tied to the wiring of emotional repression and how our unrealized potential awaits us, while we toil and spin in stories of being artists who must suffer in order to create. To get started on this path take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. Join our first online retreat in May 2024: https://nrfs.co/49f5

    Approval Seeking - Recovering from the Ultimate Human Addiction

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2024 49:54


    Scott explores approval seeking in all its forms, including how it has infused his life from addiction to recovery to teaching. The very act of holding back, or repressing, emotion is synonymous with the seeking of something outside ourselves, often approval. These two things cannot be separated because they are the same mechanism. Scott makes the case that both in inquiry and in life, if we look with the right skills within our own somatic awareness, we may find approval seeking less like an addictive behavior that we should focus on stopping, and more like an unconscious operating system connected directly to emotional repression that we make conscious to end the suffering. You may never look at approval seeking the same after this episode. In the last segment, Scott invites you into a direct taste of being you without the constraints of needing others to approve of you - and all the freedom, joy, enthusiasm and love that naturally comes with that realization. To get started on this path take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. Join our first online retreat in May 2024: https://nrfs.co/fc2g

    How Do You Know If You're Really Free?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2024 53:11


    Listen if you are serious about ending suffering. A new path has been created. This may be Scott's most direct message yet about this new work - Natural Recovery from Suffering. Learn about our first online retreat here: https://nrfs.co/fc2g. Take our free repression test here: https://nrfs.co/znnj

    A Trillion Distractions from the SOURCE

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2024 46:05


    With references to Led Zeppelin, the Absolute, and the true source of suffering, Scott returns to pointing to awareness and to how the trillion distractions aren't just coming and going to awareness. We are unconsciously creating it all. To allow what we create as it comes into awareness keeps us stuck unless we get to the source of the suffering. On this path, the trillion distractions from awareness are opportunities to live and embody awareness. Take this free repression test to get started with Scott's work: https://nrfs.co/znnj

    All the Rage

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2024 91:44


    Despite the title, this episode isn't just Scott promoting “all the rage” around the work. In this episode, Scott transparently discusses all the rage that was within him and that is unknowingly driving the suffering of many people. Scott explains how his buried anger - before this work - came out in the strangest of ways to blind him into continued, self-generated suffering. He exposes the funny thing about buried anger, how hurt felt intoxicating during his suffering days, and how he used vulnerability as both a weapon to manipulate others and a self-protective shield to hide his real wounds in relationship. Scott also clearly illuminates various stages of the path. This is the stuff anger repressors don't know or never hear about - because they've buried anger. Take this free repression test to get started on this path: https://nrfs.co/znnj

    Making Self-Realization Authentic - A New Nondual Path

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2024 70:21


    Using a simple and practical context, Scott Kiloby explains Natural Recovery from Suffering and how the work can lead to self-realization. Although that may sound lofty, the realization - when embodied - ends up being simply an authentic human who no longer suffers. Take this free repression test to get started on this path: https://nrfs.co/znnj

    Love Repression - you can't be what you've buried

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2024 30:56


    Who wants to talk about hurt or anger if it's buried and we are scared of it? However, in this work, it's seen that fear is running it all and that includes fear of emotions. We hold ourselves back in relationship in all sorts of ways that have more to do with safety than love. The answer is not to try and be loving but rather to process the fear held deeply in the body that blocks us from the love that we already are. This is one of a two-part Valentines Day podcast. Listen to my other Valentines Day podcast called “Falling in Love: Is it Real or Just a Trauma Response?” released on February 11th. Take this free repression test to get started on this path: https://nrfs.co/znnj

    Our Unmet Needs and the Healing Available When We Meet Them Ourselves.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2024 73:32


    Scott discusses how, when we are children, the experience of not feeling safe to express certain emotions sets in course a lifetime of suffering where we look to others for a sense of well-being. Others cannot meet our experience. Only we can. In this podcast, Scott points to the solution to the fundamental problem of looking to others to have our needs met. Visit www.kiloby.com

    Falling in Love: Is it Real or Just a Trauma Response?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2024 55:56


    Scott demystifies the phenomenon of falling in love and points to the root of it. This doesn't take away the dazzle and allure of falling hopelessly in love, but rather sheds light on the source from which that comes and how that is also the source of suffering when we step into a relationship blind to who the other person is because we are blind to who we really are. This is the first of a two part Valentines Day podcast series. The second part will be released on February 18th and is called “Love Repression: You Can't Be What You've Buried.”

    Victim Consciousness - Inside Out

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2024 47:45


    Scott tells his story directly from the voice of the unconsciousness that created all of his suffering. This is a unique perspective on his personal suffering, which then becomes a teaching in and of itself, and a guide to others who desire to wake up out of victim consciousness and embody freedom.

    Nonduality - Your House Is On Fire

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2024 81:56


    Scott criticizes the bypass in his prior teaching and other teachings and explains the process of breaking trauma bonds that drive suffering in spirituality.

    It's Okay to be Misunderstood

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2024 36:39


    Are you okay with being misunderstood? Scott discusses the real misunderstanding in our lives - identity coming from buried emotions. If we hold back what is true for us, we are forced to identify with what is false, Identification with the false creates an enormous amount of misunderstanding in our daily lives and relationships. This can be transformed with the right perspective and tools.

    Death Isn't Real But It Still Hurts Like Hell

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2024 71:02


    Scott inquires into whether the real suffering is what we feel when the ones we love die or what we refuse or are afraid to feel while they are still alive. This is a special podcast release dedicated to the family and friends of Gina, Chester's grandmother, RIP Gina January

    You'll Keep Working for Mom and Dad Until You Clear Them Out of Your Body

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2024 46:37


    Scott takes a look at how we are never stressed, upset, or dissatisfied with work or career “for the reasons that we think”to quote A Course in Miracles. If we are all working for mom and dad, what's really driving that and what happens when we stop? The answer might surprise you..

    The Real Truth About My Awakening

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2023 40:01


    During the first 10 years of being a non-duality teacher, Scott - like so many other teachers - did not share much personal detail, and was reluctant to tell his story. Scott thought that not having to share had something to do with the Awakening that happened to him when in fact it was coming from repression and shame. Now Scott is blowing the whole thing wide-open, breaking the fourth wall in non-duality teachings, and sharing personal details that actually illuminate how deep non-dual realization can actually go when you stop being fake.

    Sexual Liberation Is Tied to Spiritual Liberation

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2023 47:22


    Scott discusses his own sexual life, including early exposure to sexual experiences which shaped his understanding of how trauma and emotional repression are intrinsically woven into the fabric of our adult sexuality. By seeing the link between sex and our social and personal lives, and doing the necessary inner work, we can access greater depths of freedom and healing.

    Aliens, Advaita & Authenticity

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2023 50:06


    In this podcast, Scott explores his experiences and interest in the extra-terrestrial and extra-dimensional phenomena and how it relates to the evolution of consciousness, spirituality, healing, and the future of humanity.

    Introducing Scott Kiloby's First Podcast Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2023 2:33


    After sixteen years of teaching, Scott is super-excited to begin his first podcast series. In this two minute podcast, Scott explains his excitement and some of the topics he intends to cover.

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