That Couple Next Door

We update our listeners on why we are overdue for publishing a podcast episode and what the future looks like for That Couple Next Door.  In summary, we will be hosting our podcast through Patreon for the next two years, until I finish residency. At that time, we will see about resuming it, but for now, it is the safest way forward for us. Thank you so much for all of your messages and support through the years since we started this podcast.  Without the regular positive listener feedback, we likely wouldn't have continued on past the first year but we're so glad that we did. This podcast has changed our lives for the better.

We take the risk of sharing details of our personal life with a coworker and not only does she accept us, she joins us for a rave with LS friends and an orgy afterward. We're joined by Chris & Vanessa, Maverick & Vanessa and new friends and there's a fun story about almost getting caught on Chaturbate by Vanessa & Becky at the end. 

We spend a night in a very sexy AirBnB with new friends, Todd & Bailey! They are friends of friends and came with receipts so we knew we'd hit it off. We had a night (and morning) full of laughs, cookies, DP and impact play. We have a feeling that there's going to be a part II to this story. 

We sit down with Cash & Noelle and discuss the community that they've started in the greater Seattle area to help "non-traditionalists" meet up and have fun. They host meet-and-greets, sporting events, roller skating, dancing and more. Their goal: to facilitate an environment of no-pressure gatherings for couples to find new friends and have fun with old pals. We finish the episode by recalling a fun night out to SuperNova and the after-orgy that followed. 

We went home to visit our families at the end of the summer and took time to head to Boston for a sexy weekend getaway with friends. The DC folks came up to hang out and we met new friends from Boston as well as finally closing the circle with a couple that we'd been wanting to meet for some time, Jared and Lexi, who join us on the podcast to recall the great memories from that trip. Another orgy (or two) in the memory bank and new friendships formed on several fronts.

After more than a year of waiting for the Northern border to open up we finally meet Maverick and Vanessa who join us at Logan and Jade's home for a wild sixsome. The Canadians bring their toys and the hosts combine technology and hospitality to create a very sensual environment. 

We fly from Seattle back to DC to attend Rory's rave-themed birthday party hosted at Chris and Vanessa's home.  What a night!  There were approximately 20 couples and singles that turned out in beautiful outfits decked out in rainbow, neon, glow, fishnet, leather...you name it. The music indoors was pumping out incredible bass drops while people hula hooped and used light up whips or sat in the bass-vest chair.  Walking outside, the vibe changes completely and you're bathed in warm summer air and a chill musical vibe. There is sexiness everywhere in the house and out in the pool, the hot tub and even...a trampoline.  Chris and Vanessa join us to recall the incredible birthday celebration that was Roryland 2021.

We're joined by the beautiful  and charming Paola who was our tour guide in Mexico City. She helps us recall our most recent trip, from adventurous eating (bugs!) to fine dining at a Michelin star restaurant and exploring the city with Nate, Liv, Chris and Vanessa. She also shares her fascinating sexual journey, from being a Catholic nun to an out lesbian.  Finally, it wouldn't be a TCND podcast without a sexy story and she expertly helps us remember an unforgettable night in her sultry accent.

It's the second half of our 2021 Desire Riviera Maya trip and we talk about Liv's birthday, a sun-drenched orgy and villa gangbang. New friends, glow night fun and much more.

It's our annual trip to Desire and this time we get to reunite with our DC squad after a year of being separated by COVID. We meet some new friends and get to party with some of our PNW friends as well.  This episode has villa couch sex, double penetration, beach blowjobs and more!

In this episode, Jay & Kay host Rose, a lovely temporary unicorn for a weekend getaway in Seattle.  It's a novel experience for us and features surprises, sleepless nights, blunders and lots of sexy stories. We explore the city together and each other. We think you'll enjoy this episode as we dive headfirst into the retelling of a wild weekend. 

In this episode, we are joined by our friends Amy & Rory where we discuss hothusbanding and their approach to non-monogamy.  We've been friends for years now and have traveled with them to Desire and Temptation and miss them a lot! We really enjoyed our time talking with them and had lots of laughs while listening to their very sexy stories.  We hope you'll enjoy hanging out with us as we dive deep into the world of hothusbanding.   Follow them on Twitter! DrandSexyThing   If you need high quality sex toys because you're turned on from listening to our podcast, check out  Casual Toys and use code "redlight" to save on a sexy purchase.

In this episode, Jay & Kay are guests on Livin' The Suite Life podcast hosted by Tryst and Loq and we are joined by our friends Nate & Liv where we discuss the ins and outs of lifestyle dating sites, profiles and meet-up apps for singles and couples.  We really enjoyed our time with them and had lots of laughs.  We hope you'll enjoy hanging out with us as we dive deep into the world of lifestyle sites and talk about how to put your best foot forward. Check out Livin' The Suite Life podcast!  Livin' The Suite Life  If you need high quality sex toys because you're turned on from listening to our podcast, check out  Casual Toys and use code "redlight" to save on a sexy purchase. Our chat community on MeWe has grown with Patrons from all over the world supporting each other and sharing sexy stories and photos from their adventures.  Thank you so much for your support, we truly have the best fans in the lifestyle podcast community.  Your messages and kindness really keep us going!  For those joining the MeWe chat, please take a moment to introduce yourself to the community.  Tell us what brought you there and what intrigues you about the lifestyle. Come chat with us!  https://www.mewe.com/join/thatcouplenextdoor

In this episode, Jay & Kay reconnect by asking each other questions from the 4OURPLAY conversation deck, one of several game packs created by Bella & Jase, hosts of the 4OURPLAY podcast.  We really enjoyed it and ultimately, as advertised, the game worked as foreplay and we ended up in bed together.  We hope you'll enjoy hanging out with us as we dive deep into each other's sexy thoughts.  4OURPLAY.com

In this episode, we share the details of a private birthday party we had with four friends. Hear about our swinger pad, sex in a minivan, sexy nights, and fun days hiking in the surrounding mountains, and fancy evenings that turn into debauchery including a private party bus with a stripper pole.  Shout out to Casual Toys for Kay's birthday gift recommendation!  Use code "redlight" to save on a sexy Christmas stocking purchase.

We tell the story of a very sexy birthday girl who got a stripper pole as a gift, installed by her husband and friends while she was distracted.  We recreate our Love is Art painting and announce our contest winners for the male masturbator giveaway.  

In this episode we mark five years of podcasting and talk about how we've been focusing on keeping things sexy between us during these COVID-19 times.  We reflect on our podcasting and lifestyle journey and answer a related question in Kay's Corner.  We share a sexy story gone awry when friends of ours sent a "Love is Art" painting kit for us to try out.  Kay is on the search for men's muscle photos in exchange for a male sex toy and we end the show with bonus material from 2017 when we were spending time with Nate & Liv in preparation to record the Japanese episodes. 

We discuss hpw our views on friendship have changed since we first entered the lifestyle until now.  There were times when we couldn't imagine being friends with swingers but now, we couldn't imagine it any other way.  In true TCND style, we had to sprinkle in some sexy and decided to share a couple of hot stories from our college days.  

Remember when we could be out in crowds of people and enjoy music together?  It seems like a lifetime ago, but in this episode we recall attending the biggest EDM show we've seen.  FreakNight in Seattle is the largest annual Halloween raver in the PNW and we tell you all about it, and of course, the details of the after party with Will & Michelle. Sexy rave women, collars and leashes, surprise hotel guests and more.    Thanks for all of your support, we've sent out our camper mugs to those who submitted Amazon photos and replied with their address. We're sending out a mug now to a new and existing Patron at the $5 level, this month, it's: New Patron: RMAC Existing Patron: ShineyPenney

"What is this, a key party?"  That phrase, uttered by a wine bar manager as he came back to our table and seemed confused by the musical chair style seating of our sexy group had us laughing all night long.  We share the story of some new local friends that we met and how one night turned into a sexy bow tie and lingerie event.  Men having Hitachi orgasms, back flips, wall sex, sex chains, Kay's corner and more.  

We hope that you are all continuing to stay safe during this COVID-19 pandemic.  Like you, we are still practicing social distancing and our lifestyle activities have remained at a halt.  We have been doing our best to keep our romance alive with sexy nights alone together and shared chats with friends using teleconferencing.   We hope you'll enjoy some stories from the end of last summer when we first moved out to Washington state. In this episode, we highlight two couples that we met. The first introduces us to a fun new sex move that we hadn't even heard of before, "The Amazon". The second couple, Ben & Yvette join us on the podcast to help tell the story of when we first met them and ended up...well, you'll have to listen and find out. We laugh our way through this episode and hope that it will bring a smile to your faces. We hope you enjoy, and thanks again for supporting us!!   Mentioned: Audio Desires 

We hope that you are all staying safe during this COVID-19 pandemic.  Like you, we are practicing strict social distancing and any lifestyle activities have come to a sudden halt.  We have been doing our best to keep our romance alive with sexy nights alone together and shared chats with friends using teleconferencing.  It was exactly two months ago today when we boarded a plane for Cancun and now it seems like a lifetime ago already.   We hope you'll enjoy some stories from the second half of our wonderful trip to Mexico where we spent a total of eight days in the sunshine while having fun and reuniting with our sexy friends from DC and around the US and Canada.  There were fabulous villa orgies, off-resort dining experiences, hot reunion sex with the sexy Canadian bloggers Monogamish Marriage.  Nate gets sick and Kay checks his temperature in a unique way.  All this and more to distract you during these trying times.  

We leave the PNW to head down to Mexico for 8 days of sunshine and fun while reuniting with our sexy friends from DC. We meet new friends including Scarlet, Lainey and some hotties from NC and FL and link up with some Canadian couples that we've had the pleasure of meeting before. You'll hear about a fabulous fivesome, Kay's dancing, Liv and Rich aroused from the wind and you'll get the inside track to discussions between Jay and Kay as they work their way through some lifestyle conflicts that came up on the trip. Jay, Rory and Nate encounter a Southern Belle at sea on the Boobs Cruise and so much more.    

Kay dips her toes in the West Coast single male waters and has mixed experiences. First, the tedious task of wading through hundreds of online profiles from Tinder and Feeld in order to find the men that excite her. When she finally goes to meet one, she finds that he has misrepresented himself and worse, tries to lock himself in a public bathroom with her while at a restaurant in our home city. That ended quickly and she drove to my work where I was working overnight. We talked through the situation and she looked so beautiful that I just had to take her to a back room and fuck her right there at work. The story has a happy ending you could say, she met another man who was everything that he claimed to be and after a coffee date, they hit it off and went back to his place. You'll have to tune in to hear what happens from there, but we're pretty sure you'll enjoy every little detail. Kay's Corner leads off tonight and answers a question about when she felt comfortable watching Jay have sex with another woman and like most of our episodes, there's an audio nugget tucked in to the end of the show where Liv, Amy and Kay talk about dry humping vs. grinding.

We attend our first West Coast house party and though we met so many great new people, emerging from that sea of sexiness was one very special couple, Cole and Marie.  We talk about shedding nerves, lingerie, house party games, pee dances, white claw, hot tubs and hot sex (that lasted a few minutes.)   Kay's Corner answers questions about hooking up with single men as a hotwife and like most of our episodes, there's an audio nugget tucked in to the end of the show where Rory waxes poetic about his love for us and how Amy crossed land and sea for his penis.  We hope you enjoy, and thanks again for supporting us!! Travel News: Temptation 14-17 FEB 2020 Desire 17-21 FEB 2020

IT'S A DOUBLE EPISODE! Take your time with this one, it's our longest episode to date and there are built in breaks for this 2.5 hour birthday weekend celebration.  We have guest audio galore to help us recall this seriously sexy getaway to Portland, Oregon with Adam & Belle from Swinging Outside the Lines.   Kay and I celebrated our shared birthdays at Club Privata and over 90 people came out to party with us.  It was such a sexy crowd and we met so many wonderful people with incredible personal and lifestyle stories.  From the planning phases to the Friday night M&G, Saturday morning strip club field trip, daytime cuddles and lifestyle quickies to the dinners and the club itself, no detail is left unexplored.  Like any good party, there's an after party, and this one did not disappoint as we had an eight person orgy that will be forever ingrained into the red light part of our memories.   We answer questions on Kay's corner, thank YOU our Patrons and finish up with some pretty funny bloopers at the end.   For even more details of this fun weekend, be sure to head over to Swinging Outside the Lines (or search for them on your favorite poscast catcher) and listen to their take for exclusive unheard audio not covered on our show. Swinging Outside the Lines  Club Privata 

It's our 50th episode!!  We spent the first 49 on the East Coast (mostly) but in this episode we leave the East Coast orgy scene behind and strike out for new adventures in the Pacific Northwest.    We begin with the story of a failed blowjob challenge from Adam & Belle from the Swinging Outside the Lines podcast.  We then tell you about some new couples who welcomed us to the West Coast when we came out to do some house-hunting.  They say there's a thing called the "Seattle Freeze" but our experiences have been much...warmer.  All the sexy details follow.  There's no Kay's Corner on this episode (we need your questions!) but we did add some behind-the-scenes audio that will give you insight into our Top Secret pseudonym generation process.    We hope you enjoy, and thanks again for supporting us for 50 Episodes!! Mentioned: Swinging Outside the Lines  Travel News: Club Privata 16 NOV 2019 Temptation 14-17 FEB 2020 (see below for discount code) Desire 17-21 FEB 2020 Join us at Club Privata in Portland, Oregon on NOV 16 as we celebrate our birthdays and are joined by Adam & Belle From the Swinging Outside the Lines podcast!

Not long ago, we received an email from a listener who was going to be traveling through the Washington DC area and wanted to meet our friends, the hosts of PlayGRND parties in the DC area.  You've probably heard them on the show, Amy & Rory, Chris & Vanessa and Nate & Liv.  We forwarded their contact information along and luckily they had the time to meet this couple on their travels.  The result was a sexy evening between the eight of them with commentary on how this particular couple had one of their first really positive lifestyle experiences.  We recorded it in Seattle when the PlayGRND crew came out to visit us.  It was so great seeing them and catching up. Niko & Stella provide guest commentary from their point of view. Technical note: Liv had some great commentary but her microphone was unplugged while we recorded so unfortunately she didn't pick up and thus, her comments were lost.  

Jay and Kay have a celebration with a mix of family and LS/vanilla friends which ends in yet another sexy orgy.  We explore and discuss the emotional impact of playing with a longtime vanilla friend and her fiance.  All the sexy details follow and Kay's Corner answers questions about penis size and the female impact from erectile dysfunction during play.  Mentioned in this podcast: Club Privata 16 NOV 2020 Temptation 14-17 FEB 2020 Desire 17-21 FEB 2020 Sophia and Dick Nate & Liv Chris & Vanessa Rich & Pam Rick & Robin    

Jay and Kay attend a M&G at Crimson in DC, hosted by our friends at PlayGRND parties.  This was going to be our last lifestyle event  before we left Washington DC and we wanted to go big.  Kay lets Jay pick out her stunning cocktail dress and we were immersed in a sea of diverse, sexy people all night long.  But before heading downstairs to turn heads, we had a planned pre-party orgy with sexy robes, blindfolds, handcuffs and some especially adventurous oral play by Kay.  We end the night with Rick and Robin, who is so hot she literally sets off a hotel fire alarm. Mentioned: PlayGRND Party The Suite Life Podcast Black and Kinky Podcast Our Unicorn Diaries Podcast Temptation Resort Desire Riviera Maya Swing Jam 2020 with Swinging Downunder, Casual Swinger and iOS Connections

Meet Seth & Caroline, a fun, classy and very sexy couple whom we first met on Seth's birthday.  We were the surprise and Caroline had worked behind the scenes for months to set up an after-dinner meeting with us in Washington DC.  We hit it off so well that it wasn't long before we set up another date night and well, you'll have to listen in to see how that went.   Kay answers questions about attraction on Kay's Corner.  It turns out there's more than one way to win her over.  Rory talks Swinger NPR and more! Mentioned: Episode 15 - Kay's 40th birthday Episode 41 - The MFM Artist and The Crush Episode 43 - Dirty Talk in DC Nate & Liv Amy & Rory Zack & Kelly Travel News: Join us from FEB 14-21 as we start our vacation at Temptation Resorts in Cancun and then change resorts to Desire Riviera Maya on the 18th.  We will be with the PLAYGRND crew and more!

In this episode, we gathered with our friends to celebrate Chris' birthday at the lake house. We spent the weekend recording a joint podcast together (Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy), went hiking, played sexy games and the ladies gave Chris a lingerie birthday surprise that he will likely never forget. We played sexy games, made new friends and struggled to shed a couple that just didn't fit our dynamic that weekend. Kay's corner answer questions about hotwifing and reconnection sex as well as techniques to guard your name or occupation at lifestyle resorts. The bonus material at the end challenges listeners to Tweet to @drandsexything on Twitter if you can solve their pseudonym question. Support us on Patreon or leave us a 5-star review everywhere you find our show. To have fun adventures just like this, follow our links to Double Date Nation (code REDLIGHT) or Kasidie (follow our banner link) and explore the lifestyle community. Mentioned in this podcast: Spiritual Swingers Front Porch Swingers Dr. and Sexy Thing Swinger Diaries We Gotta Thing Podcast-a-Palooza 2 Swinging Downunder  

Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy In this episode, Jay & Kay are joined by their friends Nate, Liv, Amy & Rory with guest audio appearances by Donny and Marie as they try to describe the sexy details of a 10 person orgy, which, as you can imagine, can be very difficult to recall because there are so many individual sexy experiences occurring simultaneously.  The night evolved from what was supposed to be a private dinner between Donny & Marie and Jay & Kay but grew to include Nate & Liv, Amy & Rory as well as a very sexy single female named Sonja and our now well known artist friend Ryan.  There is a lot of shared laughter in this episode and we work to try to minimize or explain inside jokes.  If you are a veteran listener then you will know these important people in our lives and laugh along with us.  If you're a new listener, you will be treated to what lifestyle friendships can and do become, tightly interwoven circles of trust and support.  Technical note: About 45 seconds in to our cabin recording the input wire becomes partially removed creating a less powerful sound.  This resolves after a few minutes. Spliced into our conversation are recordings from Donny and Marie, our guests from the Pacific Northwest who came to Washington DC for a vacation of our Nation's Capital.  They wanted to see the Cherry Blossom Festival and tour the Smithsonian museums, but no vacation is complete without a 10-person orgy.  They graciously share their memories with us, essentially making this two podcasts in one. As fun as the friendships are and as sexy as the orgy was, there are many great personal details sprinkled throughout.  Introspective reflections and thoughtful musings permeate this episode.  Those details, shared in the context of our move away from these friends, make Episode 45 my personal favorite and I hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed making it.  -J & K Mentioned: Temptation and Desire with the @PLAYGRND crew- Feb 2020 - info@playgrnd.events Dr. and Sexy Thing Line 1/Line 2 Oregon TMS

Kay's favorite single male, "The Artist" returns to DC for one more MFM before we move across the country.  This time we have a pre-play discussion to include our mutual fantasies and decide that he and Kay will play alone initially before I come in to join them.  We discuss the lead-up, the nerves involved and those sweet moments of torture Jay endured while waiting for over an hour to join in the fun.  (He has a voyeur moment and could hear her moaning from outside the apartment!) The story turns erotic with talk of anal play, double penetration, cock ring fails, sixty-nine and double cumshot facials.  Mentioned in this episode: Swinging Downunder Podcast Support us on Patreon at the $5 level and access our bonus blog www.patreon.com/thatcouplenextdoor

In this episode, we reunite with our good friends Zack & Kelly that we spent a weekend in Nashville with (Ep. 41 - The MFM Artist and The Crush).  We were skeptical that we'd be able to achieve the same level of sexy fun but as it would turn out, there was nothing to worry about in that department!  Kay and I started the evening on a sour note with an argument en-route to the date.  We'll tell you how we pulled over and hashed it out just in time to salvage what would become a memorable night. Kay surprises us all with some next level dirty talk in what is the hottest soft swap experience we could imagine.  We sneak in some audio from our friends and Kay's corner discusses sending nude photos to friends and posting them on Twitter.  Mentioned in this episode: Swinging Downunder Sliquid Lube Swinging Outside the Lines Playroom Podcast Support us on Patreon!

We warm up a cold winter by spending an evening with a sexy unicorn named Rebecca before heading down to the warm beaches of Cancun, Mexico for some wild days and nights at Temptation Resort accompanied by our DC crew, the hosts of PLAYGRND parties as well as our friends Rob & Lala.  We partied all day, danced all night and shared amazing meals and 5 lbs of Swedish Fish together...and of course there is sex.  Rob & Lala teach us about the ElectroErotic Neon Wand and rock our world several times.  Hear the scandalous story of "The Cover Up" where we nearly ruined an orgy. We mix in some self reflection, lessons learned and laughter along the way.  Kay's Corner, Nate's wisdom and more!! Mentioned in this episode: Swinging Downunder Normalizing Non-Monogamy Temptation Resort ElectroErotic Neon Wand PLAYGRND parties Support us on Patreon! The Coverup (featured on the episode image)    

Our artist friend returns to DC for a second MFM and Kay considers trying her first DP. We meet up with very sexy new friends in Nashville and have an incredible weekend together, sharing one of our hottest stories to date. We tour the Jack Daniels distillery, plug Steak and Tequila’s snapchat, talk about the Lovense Lush 2, Kay’s corner and more! Mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing - Podcast Swinging Downunder - Podcast Steak & Tequila - Pocast Normalizing Nonmonogamy - Podcast Lovense Lush 2 - Remote control vibrator

In this episode we recap a vanilla-ish trip that we took to Peru with some of our closest lifestyle friends.  We had an amazing trip filled with adventure, fine dining and even a night of rooftop blowjobs. We share the story of a sexy night with Rob & Lala, a hot couple who we had a fantastic night with who will also be joining us and the PlayGrnd crew at Temptation resorts Feb 15-18th.  We cover our approach to parenting while participating in the lifestyle.  We've received many emails about the topic and wanted to share our personal approach and thoughts on the subject.  We share some emails on Kay's Corner and tell you about some sexy upcoming events.  Tune in! Mentioned in this episode: PlayGrnd parties - Twitter: @playgrnd_party Astrid & Gaston Restaurant Ayahausca Restobar - Lima, Peru Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast Swinging Downunder Sweet Tea & Whiskey Lotus Blooms - Alexandria, VA sex boutique We Gotta Thing - Podcast    

We share the details of a recent trip to Europe for Jay where he met a couple for some hotwife and MFM fun in Austria.  Meanwhile, Kay had a pair of successful single male dates and met one for hotwife play.  We discuss our feelings surrounding separate play and start to explore how we arrived at this place in the lifestyle.  Kay shares her feelings of envy after Jay purchases a lingerie gift for Anna.   Mentioned: Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast Palmers Lingerie Krampus

Our dear friend Sophia, the intro voice to our podcast, is back and her life has changed so much in the last two years.  She has a new man, Dick and they have been exploring the boundaries of non-monogamy together.  They've had threesomes with men and women and there's more to come.  To fully appreciate the transformation, be sure to listen to Episode 10 - Meet Sophia, She Has Questions! Mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing - Episode 29: Lifestyle Rules and Boundaries The Kinsey Scale  

We join our fellow podcasters Swinging Downunder with C&D, Spiritual Swingers with Adam & Even and lifestyle bloggers Kate & Mike from Monogamish Marriage for a fun-filled sexy weekend in NYC with our amazing listeners and readers who attended the event.  What a weekend!  We had our first FFM, gave a presentation, met the sexiest listeners, attended an after party and finally had a podcaster/blogger orgy at the after after party.  So many sexy details in this episode that you won't want to miss.  Featured in this podcast: Swinging Downunder Spiritual Swingers Monogamish Marriage Red Hot Pie

We attend a PLAYGRND house party together for the first time and what a blast!  The hosts outdid themselves with a sexy guest list, nuru massages, hot tub, hookah, fire pits, photo booths and play areas. Later we have a separate date with our friends Chris and Vanessa and she surprises everyone with her desire, and ability, to have DP.  Kays corner, upcoming events and more! Mentioned in this episode: PLAYGRND parties Swinging Downunder Spiritual Swingers Monogamish Marriage We Gotta Thing

Kay surprises Jay with a surprise hall pass while she's away on vacation, allowing him to be an "extra dick" for a birthday girl whom she's never met and to participate in an MFM threesome with our friends Nate & Liv. We catch you up on our summer spent mostly apart and discuss boundary flexibility, counseling, future plans and more.  Mentioned in this episode: Nate & Liv Average Swingers Spiritual Swingers Esther Perel TooTimid - Remote Petite Panty Teaser Monogamy Disrupted

At first thought, finding a single male to play with seems like it would be easy to do yet we've encountered some challenges recently and Kay was stood up (twice!) while trying to dip her toes back into the hotwife waters.  We get voicemails galore as Adam & Eve from Spiritual Swingers unwind post-Desire and C from Swinging Downunder reminisces about our first meeting at NiN two years ago.  Speaking of NiN, Jay & Angie from Average Swingers and C from SDU play a little prank on us using our voicemail for callers.  We review sex toys from TooTimid.com where you can save 20% off your entire order by using our code "Redlight" at checkout.  Kay enjoys anal sex, enough said.  Jay discusses the joys of the male double orgasm and we share some details about a sexy date that we had with some friends after our first date was cut short due to illness.  We finish up with Kay's Corner and tell you what's coming up for us. 

We tell you about a cooking class date we had with a lovely couple  that was complicated by illness yet still managed to be sexy.  We caught up with Mr. & Mrs. Jones from @WeGottaThing and met Adam & Eve from @SpiritualSwing before Jay makes amends for interrupting Kay during a sexy description on the last episode.  Finally we wind up with the tale of a sexy photo shoot before closing with Kay's corner.  Mentioned: We Gotta Thing - Mr. & Mrs. Jones Spiritual Swingers - Adam & Eve Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv Scott Davis Photography

Jay & Kay catch you up on their busy spring and hang out with C from Swinging Downunder along with Nate & Liv.  We attend a Gin Dig and meet some sexy listeners from California.  We attend Liv's birthday in DC and end up at a hooka bar.  Kay's Corner catches listeners up on their questions.  We ran a half marathon with We Gotta Thing and discuss that as well as tackle criticism from the email inbox. Mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing Swinging Downunder Nate & Liv Casey Donatello - In Bed With Strangers Spiritual Swingers

We catch you up on the past month or so of our lives and tell you how we came to have our first MFM, a wildly successful and sexy evening out where we found that reality can sometimes be just as good as fantasy.  By unpredictable means, Jay goes alone to a house party hosted by the PLAYGRND crew in the DC area and has a note from home allowing him to get a blowjob.  We discuss that, the aftermath and more.  Kay's corner answers the questions, "How do I bring up the lifestyle without making my partner feel inadequate" and "How do I prepare my lady bits for the sun and fun in Desire"? Mentioned in this episode: PLAYGRND party - Twitter Rachel Krantz - Twitter Swinging DownUnder - Podcast We Gotta Thing - Podcast The Curious Couple - Podcast Swinger Diaries - Podcast HUMP! film festival

We finally make it to Desire and it's the adventure that we hoped it would be.  The weather was perfect and so were the friends that we made.  We talk you through our days and nights from poolside to the disco and hot tub as well as a catamaran trip we took that ended in a day excursion to Desire Pearl.  Of course there's sex!  We fill you in our own connections and the difficulty we had staying connected during a play session.  We end with our first parallel play session and discuss all the feels that went along with this trip.  It's a long one, so buckle up and enjoy the ride. 

We meet a new couple for some flexible four way fun and then fill you in on a weekend away with some friends at a cabin for a ski weekend in which there was little skiing, but lots of sexiness.  Mentioned in this podcast: Eugene Drinks Every State's Most Iconic Alcohol Swinger Diaries  

We begin with our Halloween night out and briefly discuss seeing our local friends before heading back to a hotel room for a night of sex with our friends Nick and Cleo, better known as "The Italian Couple".  We also discuss having great nights out with lifestyle friends sans sex, just enjoying the company of wonderful people when we attend a concert and go to a White Elephant party with LS folks.  We catch you up on our single guy situation and discuss some feelings that arise surrounding that topic. Finally, Kay leaves you with a special holiday edition of "Kay's Corner" in which she tells an erotic story from back in her college days.   Mentioned in this podcast. Swinging Down Under Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

As part two of our back-to-back separate play episodes, Kay has solo play with a single male!  She gave up on the lifestyle sites and took to Tinder to find a single male of her choosing.  As before, we discuss everything that led up to that moment and beyond and relate it to my solo play that we discussed in Episode 25.  Incredibly, we also somehow managed to end up in bed with our good VANILLA friends, who happen to be a lesbian couple.  You're going to want to tune it to this episode.