Podcasts about just fed up

This episode was originally published on May 5th, 2018. Remembering the grocery list, coordinating with the babysitter, making food for the potluck, scheduling a get-together with the in-laws: These are some of the invisible tasks that (most) women exclusively do in their romantic relationships — and the list goes on and on. Like a modern-day Greek chorus, women from across the country wrote in to the Dear Sugars inbox echoing identical inequalities in their relationships with their husbands and boyfriends. The Sugars commiserate with this aggrieved chorus along with Gemma Hartley, the writer who set off a national conversation about emotional labor with her viral article in Harper's Bazaar, “Women Aren't Nags — We're Just Fed Up.” Broaching the subject of emotional labor with a romantic partner can be tricky, especially if he feels as if he's being blamed for the imbalance of labor. The imbalance in Ms. Hartley's marriage began righting itself when she and her husband shifted their perspective: “This is not a problem with you and it's not a problem with me. It's a cultural problem. We have to unlearn a lot of things together in order to move forward." The Sugars Recommend “I Stand Here Ironing,” by Tillie Olsen “The Yellow Wallpaper,” by Charlotte Perkins Gilman

On this episode of GHY, Misty shares an article from Good Housekeeping about The Wobbly Work of Finding Relationship Balance by author and friend of the podcast Gemma Hartley.If you'd like to hear our episode covering Gemma's viral Harpers Bazaar article titled Women Aren't Nags, We're Just Fed Up, you can do so here. You can also listen to our episode interviewing Gemma on her book Fed Up here.Have a question, a story you'd like to share, or a topic request? Get in touch with us! Email us at gohelpyourselfpodcast@gmail.comWant more GHY?Sign up for our newsletter at gohelpyourself.coFollow us on instagram @gohelpyourselfpodcast If you're enjoying GHY, please leave us a rating and review, as it helps other people find our show.xoAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Ariana Madix (Vanderpump Rules) and Meredith go WAY back - they've known each other longer than they haven't at this point. Ariana has some hot tips for Meredith on the egg retrieval process, talks about why she decided to freeze her eggs, and reproductive panic.Read the accompanying blog post here: https://backupplanpod.com/28-fertile-myrtle-w-ariana-madixWomen Aren't Nags—We're Just Fed Up, by Gemma Hartley: https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a12063822/emotional-labor-gender-equality/ CONNECT WITH ARIANAInstagram: https://instagram.com/arianamadixTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@arianamadix?lang=enDrink From Home: https://dfhcocktails.com/Support the showCONNECT WITH THE BACKUP PLAN Website: https://backupplanpod.comYouTube: https://www.www.youtube.com/@backupplanpodInstagram: https://instagram.com/backupplanpodTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@backupplanpodFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/backupplanpod CONNECT WITH MEREDITHInstagram: https://instagram.com/meredithk8 WORK WITH THE BACKUP PLANVisit https://backupplanpod.com/work-with-me for brand partnerships and business inquiries. Support the show: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=FTHC2VXY65NZNCreated, produced and hosted by Meredith Kate, co-produced by Julian Hagins.@backupplanpod on Instagram, TikTok, Pinterest, Facebook, and YouTube.Visit https://backupplanpod.com for show notes, transcripts, partner links, and our newsletter.

Have you ever heard the term, “emotional labor”?  It's that invisible, unappreciated caring you do for other people.  You're about to hear a lot about it as we talk with our guest, journalist Gemma Hartley, whose viral article "Women Aren't Nags, We're Just Fed Up" was viewed more than two BILLION times!  She's the author of, "Fed Up:  Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward".  Her website is http://www.gemmahartley.com/

On this episode of Emotionally Unfucked, we welcome Gemma Hartley, author and writing coach, as a guest to talk to us about her book Fed Up. Gemma's article "Women Aren't Nags; We're Just Fed Up" went viral in 2017, sparking a national conversation on the mental load that women have been expected to burden and leading to her book, Fed Up. Her book not only names the problem of invisible work but also lays down the groundwork for men and women to learn how to wield emotional labor to live more full and satisfying lives. We're chatting more about: How her viral article idea turned into a book What is emotional labor and how it breaks down into 4 different parts The conversations partners should be having to help the burden The first step is to start dividing the emotional labor in a household Negative effects of not sharing the mental load Gemma's upcoming 6-week live course (August 23rd - Sept 27th) Pitched to Published to help freelance writers learn to pitch and get published in online publications and print magazines. She has extended a special offer for our listeners! Use code emotionallyunfucked to save $50 when signing up for Pitched to Published. Visit the link to learn more! https://gemma-hartley.square.site/product/pitched-to-published/1 Can't get enough of Gemma? We get it! Learn more about her and her book Fed Up here- http://www.gemmahartley.com/ Follow her on Instagram here- https://www.instagram.com/gemmalhartley/ Connect with Us! https://www.instagram.com/emotionallyunfucked/

A mentális egészség az elmúlt években hatalmas slágertémává vált az interneten, így törvényszerűen egyre több a baj is azzal, amit és ahogyan kommunikálunk egymással ezen a téren. De vajon milyen veszélyeket rejthet a "therapy speak", a félig elvégzett belső munka és az individualizmus?Az adás a YouTube-on:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_AL1O-HycwQForrásanyagok:Is Therapy-Speak Making Us Selfish?Therapy speak is everywhere, but it may make us less empatheticWomen Aren't Nags—We're Just Fed Up

Remembering the grocery list, coordinating with the babysitter, scheduling a get-together with the in-laws: These are some of the invisible tasks that (most) women exclusively do in their romantic relationships — and the list goes on and on. In this favorite episode from the archives, The Sugars commiserate with Gemma Hartley, the writer who set off a national conversation about emotional labor with her viral article in Harper's Bazaar, “Women Aren't Nags — We're Just Fed Up.”

Have you ever heard the term, “emotional labor”?  It's that invisible, unappreciated caring you do for other people.  You're about to hear more about it as we talk with our guest, journalist Gemma Hartley, whose viral article "Women Aren't Nags, We're Just Fed Up" was viewed more than two BILLION times!  Her book on the topic is called "Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward".  Her website is http://www.gemmahartley.com/   Thanks to our sponsor, Paired, the relationship app for couples. You and your partner download the app, “Pair” together, and every day Paired gives you questions, quizzes and games to have fun, stay connected and deepen your conversations. It's simple and often hilarious and heartwarming!   Each day you get a quiz to play, or a question to answer and you can't see your partner's answer until you answer yourself.  Whether you're just a few dates in or have been together a long time, it's time to lighten the mood and have fun with your partner by using Paired. Paired has a special offer for our Nobody Told Me! listeners.  Head to PAIRED.COM/NOBODY to get a 7-day free trial and 25% off if you sign up for a subscription.     Thanks to our sponsor, Lomi, the world's first Smart Waste Appliance.  If you've struggled with composting and feel it's too much work, or feel bad that you're not doing your part to help the environment, you have to check out Lomi, the countertop electric composter.  Just about anything you'd put into the kitchen disposer can be put into the Lomi on your countertop and turned into dirt in four hours.  Use that dirt in your garden! There's no smell when Lomi runs and it's really quiet.  Turn your food waste into dirt with the press of a button with Lomi.  Lomi will make the perfect gift for someone on your shopping list!  Just head to LOMI.COM/NTM and use the promo code NTM to get $50 off your Lomi!

Women from across the country wrote in to the Dear Sugars inbox echoing identical inequalities in their relationships with their husbands and boyfriends. The Sugars commiserate with this aggrieved chorus, along with Gemma Hartley, the writer who set off a national conversation about emotional labor with her viral article in Harper's Bazaar, “Women Aren't Nags — We're Just Fed Up.” This episode was originally released on May 5, 2018. 

In this episode, the Moms dig deep into an issue that mothers have faced for decades: the mental load.  If you're a mom, you know exactly what we mean.  The constant juggling of tasks, lists, requirements, details, inventories, and schedules for an entire household falls disproportionately on the shoulders of moms, but shouldn't dads be asked to carry some of that weight?  Though addressing this particular topic can sometimes devolve into an opportunity to complain about husbands, listeners will be delighted to hear Melissa and Leah take a much more productive approach to managing the mental load by asking partners to collaborate.The Book Blurb in this episode is from Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do (and More Life to Live) by Eve Rodsky.  For more on the author and her Fair Play products, visit everodsky.com.A few other noteworthy mentions include The Fair Play Deck of cards for dividing up household responsibilities, Eve Rodsky's episode on the Mimosas with Moms podcast, the Overwhelm episode of Glennon Doyle's new podcast, We Can Do Hard Things, and a Harper's Bazaar article on emotional labor, Women Aren't Nags -- We're Just Fed Up.

Gemma Hartley's 2017 Harper's Bazaar article "Women Aren't Nags, They're Just Fed Up" received 2 BILLION views online and sparked a national debate on Emotional Labour and the role that women play in it and the expectations of men. Join Scott today as he and Gemma discuss Emotional Labour and what it means for Women and how we can adopt better practices in our relationships.-Her book Fed Up: Emotional Labour, Women, and the Way Forward has sold 1000's & 1000's  of copies.-You can find Gemma's book on Amazon: https://read.amazon.ca/kp/embed?asin=B077MBP9XV&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_B49NY36P1SX5ZE9DDEHEor on her website: http://www.gemmahartley.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gemmalhartley/?hl=en-"Be the best possible version of yourself you can be!"-#podcaster #podcast #starttalking #surroundyourself #bethepebble #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #conversations #community #foreveryone #men #women-Support The Show* Become a Patron and  support the amazing guests and conversations we bring you every week! http://www.patreon.com/starttalking* Buy Us A Coffee: A one time donation helps us keep the mics on!  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/starttalking-Want To Start  A Podcast?Using the link below let's Buzzsprout know we sent you, gets you a $20 Amazon gift card if you sign up for a paid plan, and helps support our showhttps://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=303359-Join the conversation at https://weas.ca/ or https://www.flowcode.com/page/we_as_starttalking-Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter & YouTube:https://www.instagram.com/we_as_starttalking/https://www.facebook.com/WeAsStartTalkinghttps://twitter.com/we_as_https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwtKEIMBrxzrH4lUvHFrFHA Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/starttalking)

Gemma Hartley's 2017 Harper's Bazaar article "Women Aren't Nags, They're Just Fed Up" received 2 BILLION views online and sparked a national debate on Emotional Labour and the role that women play in it and the expectations of men. Join Scott today as he and Gemma discuss Emotional Labour and what it means for Women and how we can adopt better practices in our relationships.-Her book Fed Up: Emotional Labour, Women, and the Way Forward has sold 1000's & 1000's  of copies.-You can find Gemma's book on Amazon: https://read.amazon.ca/kp/embed?asin=B077MBP9XV&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_B49NY36P1SX5ZE9DDEHEor on her website: http://www.gemmahartley.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gemmalhartley/?hl=en-"Be the best possible version of yourself you can be!"-#podcaster #podcast #starttalking #surroundyourself #bethepebble #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #conversations #community #foreveryone #men #women-Support The Show* Become a Patron and  support the amazing guests and conversations we bring you every week! http://www.patreon.com/starttalking* Buy Us A Coffee: A one time donation helps us keep the mics on!  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/starttalking-Want To Start  A Podcast?Using the link below let's Buzzsprout know we sent you, gets you a $20 Amazon gift card if you sign up for a paid plan, and helps support our showhttps://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=303359-Join the conversation at https://weas.ca/ or https://www.flowcode.com/page/we_as_starttalking-Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter & YouTube:https://www.instagram.com/we_as_starttalking/https://www.facebook.com/WeAsStartTalkinghttps://twitter.com/we_as_https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwtKEIMBrxzrH4lUvHFrFHAFollow the link below to receive 50% off your first order with Farmly.http://www.farmlycanine.ca Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/starttalking)

Gemma Hartley's 2017 Harper's Bazaar article "Women Aren't Nags, They're Just Fed Up" received 2 BILLION views online and sparked a national debate on Emotional Labour and the role that women play in it and the expectations of men. Join Scott today as he and Gemma discuss Emotional Labour and what it means for Women and how we can adopt better practices in our relationships.-Her book Fed Up: Emotional Labour, Women, and the Way Forward has sold 1000's & 1000's  of copies.-You can find Gemma's book on Amazon: https://read.amazon.ca/kp/embed?asin=B077MBP9XV&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_B49NY36P1SX5ZE9DDEHEor on her website: http://www.gemmahartley.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gemmalhartley/?hl=en-"Be the best possible version of yourself you can be!"-#podcaster #podcast #starttalking #surroundyourself #bethepebble #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #conversations #community #foreveryone #men #women-Support The Show* Become a Patron and  support the amazing guests and conversations we bring you every week! http://www.patreon.com/starttalking* Buy Us A Coffee: A one time donation helps us keep the mics on!  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/starttalking-Want To Start  A Podcast?Using the link below let's Buzzsprout know we sent you, gets you a $20 Amazon gift card if you sign up for a paid plan, and helps support our showhttps://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=303359-Join the conversation at https://weas.ca/ or https://www.flowcode.com/page/we_as_starttalking-Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter & YouTube:https://www.instagram.com/we_as_starttalking/https://www.facebook.com/WeAsStartTalkinghttps://twitter.com/we_as_https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwtKEIMBrxzrH4lUvHFrFHAFarmly Canine Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREESupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/starttalking)

Show Notes:Gemma Hartley is a freelancer writer, wife and mom of 3 who lives in Reno, Nevada. She writes about emotional labor, and wants to create a world in which invisible labor is valued and supported by both partners and public policy alike. What we talked about:Getting married at 20 and being together 16 yearsHaving severe postpartum depression with her 1st child and thinking she couldn't do it againDidn’t get postpartum depression with her 2nd and realized she wanted a 3rdHer article, “Women Aren’t Nags - We’re Just Fed Up” in Harper's Bazaar Talked about her personal experience with emotional labor and wider cultural implications of doing all of the invisible workNever expecting it to go viral What emotional labor is: the intersection of the mental load and the unseen work, as well as emotion management Constantly having to ask, keep track, delegate and monitor to make sure things are getting done, and having to ask in the right way to keep people happy Having huge blow ups about something that seems trivial, but it’s because of built up frustration Couples using her book as a way to start conversationsThe entire process of signing a contract for the book happened within one month of the article coming outPart of the contract was that the had 6 months to write the bookHer book deal coincided with her husband getting laid offShe and her husband struggling with emotional labor while she was writing the book Criticism about her book and pushback because it's a marker of structural inequity It impacts women of color and women who are poor at such a severe levelPeople who work in unappreciated jobs having no safety netSingle moms being treated differently than single dads Men aren’t expected to have to take care of their children Needing to be intentional about our language Thank you to ChildLife Essentials for sponsoring this episode! ChildLife Essentials has been a trusted children supplements brand for over 20 years and they are offering 10% off with the code CHILDLIFE10 at iHerb.com. ChildLife Essentials can also be found at Whole Foods & Amazon. *Talk to your healthcare provider about what supplements are right for your family. Follow Gemma on Instagram or her website.Follow Mommin’ Podcast on Instagram and FacebookThanks so much for listening and for supporting our podcast! Please rate the show, leave a review if you liked what you heard and make sure to subscribe on Amazon Music, iHeartRADIO, iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts or TuneIn!

Continuing the discussion about Feminized labor, Heaven discusses Invisible Labor and The Second Shift that is often times left to women to do. This type of labor is undervalued since there is no paycheck attributed with doing household labor. Heaven revisits Gemma Hartley's essay, "Women Aren't Nags--We're Just Fed Up" when discussing Invisible Labor, as well as references a classic I LOVE LUCY episode that acknowledges Invisible Labor."Women Aren't Nags—We're Just Fed Up" by Gemma Hartley:https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a12063822/emotional-labor-gender-equality/Stavros Halkias's review of CASINO on Letterboxd:https://letterboxd.com/stavvybaby69/film/casino/

This week Heaven discusses the phrase Emotional Labor--what the actual definition of it is, the type of jobs that require a heavy use of Emotional Labor, the misuse of the word, how the definition has changed, and whether or not the misuse of the word will have a lasting impact on the Labor Movement.The articles referenced in this week's episode:"I was the first person to file a sexual harassment grievance at Verso Books. This is what happened" by Emily Janakiram:https://ejanakir1128.medium.com/i-was-the-first-person-to-file-a-sexual-harassment-grievance-at-verso-books-this-is-what-happened-c8a878fb5fef"Women Aren't Nags—We're Just Fed Up" by Gemma Hartley:https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a12063822/emotional-labor-gender-equality/"The Trauma Floor" by Casey Newton:https://www.theverge.com/2019/2/25/18229714/cognizant-facebook-content-moderator-interviews-trauma-working-conditions-arizonaThis episode is dedicated to the loving memory of my mother, Mary Ann (1961-2011).

On the Well Woman Show this week, we discuss why women are fed up, according to Gemma Hartley, author and speaker whose book Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward brings much-needed awareness to the invisible work shouldered by women. Her viral Harper's Bazaar article Women Aren't Nags - We're Just Fed Up sparked an international conversation about emotional labor inequality, and was shared and read by millions of readers. We discuss: - Woman's workload during the pandemic. - How we can build a culture of awareness, and bring men into the conversation, - and finally, why it is so important for us to abandon the need for perfectionism. All the information shared today can be found at the show notes at http://wellwomanlife.com/radio (wellwomanlife.com/radio) The book Gemma recommended were: Nobody Will Tell You This But Me: A True (as Told to Me) Story by https://bookshop.org/contributors/bess-kalb (Bess Kalb)You can also continue the conversation in the Well Woman Life community group at http://wellwomanlife.com/facebook (wellwomanlife.com/facebook). The Well Woman Show is thankful for the support from The Well Woman Academy™ and High Desert Yoga in Albuquerque. Support this podcast

In the 17th episode of One Weird Trick, A.Ron talks about anger and Cecily breaks down exactly what "emotional labor" means. Then, they discuss feedback, which includes sharing personal stories of understanding, staying sane in the time of COVID, being single late in life, and undervaluing premium content. If you want to dive deeper into the concepts discussed in the podcast, start here: Harper's Bizzare article: "Women Aren't Nags—We're Just Fed Up" by Gemma Hartley The Atlantic article: "The Concept Creep of ‘Emotional Labor" by Julie Beck For quality cat content, look no further:   YAS cat Southern "well, hi!" cat    

Remembering the grocery list, coordinating with the babysitter, making food for the potluck, scheduling a get-together with the in-laws: These are some of the invisible tasks that (most) women exclusively do in their romantic relationships — and the list goes on and on. The Sugars commiserate with Gemma Hartley, the writer who set off a national conversation about emotional labor with her viral article in Harper’s Bazaar, “Women Aren’t Nags — We’re Just Fed Up.” This episode was originally published on May 5th, 2018.

Do you anticipate other’s needs before your own? Does your brain house the master to-do list for your entire family? You're a queen of emotional labor — the unpaid and unnoticed work that many women do to keep their loved ones happy. Gemma Hartley, author of "Women Aren’t Nags; We’re Just Fed Up," tells us all how we can cut back, and stand up for ourselves. In Mailbag, how to invest in Roth IRAs, prioritize saving versus investing, plus the dos and don’ts for downsizing.

Marie Claire and The Thinkergirls Present We Need To Talk About...Today's Topic: Emotional Labour00:44 - Foreword from Editor of Nikki Briger1:27 - What actually is ‘emotional labor’ in a relationship to Stace and Kristie? 5:43 - Women bit by bit taking on more in relationships 8:18 - Feminine and masculine energy in relationships. We’re not just talking about men and women here 12:27 - Kids being a game-changer for ‘emotional labour’ in relationships 15:33 - What are some of the take outs from the article that went viral? 20:30 - Why conversation is key 23:19 - How millennials / new relationships are reshaping the way the dynamic works Women Aren’t Nags We’re Just Fed Up by Gemma Hartley. Originally featured HERE ‘Fed Up’ By Gemma Hartly - Read HERE https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/38647406-fed-upMore from The Thinkergirls:Email us – hello@thinkergirl.com.auFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/thinkergirlsInstagram – https://instagram.com/thethinkergirlsAll Podcasts – http://bit.ly/2wviSir See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Our guest this week on the pod is Gemma Hartley, the author of Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward. Gemma Hartley is a writer, reporter, and author. In September 2017, Gemma wrote an article that went viral, titled Women Aren’t Nags – We’re Just Fed Up. That article was viewed by over 2 billion people and gave voice to the frustration and anger of countless women, breaking the dam on the conversation around emotional labor. Fed Up picks off where the article left off, expanding on the role and impact of emotional labor in our lives. Fed Up is on sale now. Gemma sat down with Ana Maria Alessi, and talked about what she wants the book to accomplish on a national level, why the reach of her article surprised her, the difference between how boys and girls are rewarded for empathy, and more.

In this thought-provoking episode, we pick apart the concept of emotional labor with Gemma Hartley, whose Harper·s Bazaar article Women Aren·t Nags · We·re Just Fed Up went viral last year. Gemma is releasing a book on the subject the day this episode airs called Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward.  Gemma talks about why she feels doing less isn’t always the answer, her feelings on 50/50 splits, and much more.  In the intro, Sarah admits she may have planning fatigue, and a listener writes in about whether to prioritize job satisfaction/opportunity vs being home to greet kids after school.

This spotlight episode can't wait until Friday. Over the weekend even more women have shared their stories about sexual abuse on Twitter with the hashtag #MeToo (in regards to the Harvey Weinstein story or about Weinstein himself). Read more about that here: http://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-trending-41633857 * Comedian Owen Benjamin tweeted out over the weekend that he has been dropped by his agent without providing further details. * http://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a12063822/emotional-labor-gender-equality/ to read the Harper's Bazaar article "Women Aren't Nags-We're Just Fed Up". * Send emails to info@talkingsexpodcast.com and on Twitter @talkingsexpod

The topic of Emotional Labor has been written about and discussed a lot in recent months. Of course it isn't anything NEW, we just now have a name for it! Pretty much every female friend I have had as an adult has vented about the frustrations, burnout, even anger of the behind the scenes mental and emotional labor they have within their relationships. It is the constantly rotating list of "to do's", the names of the kid's teachers, knowing which kid will throw up if served peas, the dates of soccer games, the entire backstory of the BFF's huge fight about who is the cutest band, the name of the co-worker who your husband is convinced is stealing his lunch, when the last teeth cleaning occurred, the reaction to the antibiotic, etc. etc. etc. This is all on top of the normal day to day work of living and frequently a 40-60 hour workweek to somehow fit in.  It. Is. Exhausting. And it isn't fair. So how do we deal and spread the love a bit? Is it even possible? We dive into Emotional Labor on today's episode and it is very interesting to get Jay's perspective as a man who has also experienced the world as a woman.                     How are you dealing with Emotional Labor? Do you think it is an issue or are women just being overdramatic? Is it nature or nurture? We would love your thoughts in our Facebook group.  Don't forget to register for Jay's webinar--How to Trash the Guilt and Shame (and get happy and fulfilled) Are you ready to be coached? Shoot us a message through our contact page or message us on Facebook. We would love to get your scheduled. Thank you for listening! We appreciate you! Don't forget to subscribe on iTunes, Google Play or Stitcher to get your episodes automatically sent to you each week! We would also love for you to submit a review on iTunes! A few things mentioned in this episode... Lean Inside: 7 Steps to Personal Power by Jay "Women Aren't Nags...We are Just Fed Up" a Harper's Bizarre article on Emotional Labor Why Women are Tired: The Price of Unpaid Emotional Labor a HuffPost article on EL Women are Just Better at This Stuff-Is Emotional Labor Feminism's Next Frontier? a Guardian article on EL The Invisible Workload that Drags Women Down a Time article on EL Jay's Webinar-How to Trash the Guilt and Shame (and get happy and fulfilled) Our Patreon Account! Come support the podcast! Our Private Facebook Group Thank you for listening. We are so honored to have you with us each week. Please note that some of the links are affiliate links through Amazon. We get a little money if you end up purchasing the item through the link. This money helps to keep our podcast on the air! We do not link to anything that doesn't naturally come up in our podcast interviews/conversations. We are not asked to link to any specific product or service. 

This week, a spirited debate over a presidential game of F, marry, kill, a discussion on emotional labor, and what happens when your dad comes out late in life. Plus, we love you, let us count the Waze and a sweet sixteen for Josie & the Pussycats! All that, plus the usual nonsense. Show Notes00:00 -- INTRO / SHOW OPEN / Online life before the election / The presidential selfie leads to a game of “F*** Marry Kill”15:45 -- Discussing the article “Women Aren't Nags—We're Just Fed Up”24:53 -- HERE FOR IT — Waze & Spotify (Ruby) / Aaliyah, Beyoncé, and Left Eye Were Almost In Josie and the Pussycats (Kodi)35:20 -- Q&HEY — Am I TOO supportive of my dad after his coming out?42:20 -- THE GOOD WORD — John GreenLeaf Whittier (Ruby's pick)43:40 -- SHOW CLOSE / CREDITSArticles discussed in episode:https://twitter.com/goodwalkspoiled/status/913450996688408576https://techcrunch.com/2017/03/14/spotify-and-waze-partner-to-play-music-and-navigate-seamlessly/http://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a12063822/emotional-labor-gender-equality/https://jezebel.com/jennifer-hudson-throws-shoes-at-people-as-a-compliment-1819022419https://jezebel.com/aaliyah-beyonce-and-left-eye-were-almost-in-josie-and-1818879574The Swirl is produced by Kodi Seaton & Stephanie Ruby. Mixed & Edited by Kodi Seaton. Social media support provided by Justine Bronson and Tim Fennell.