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Our guest this week is Meb Faber. He is co-founder and chief investment officer of Cambria Investment Management, which manages exchange-traded funds and separate accounts. In addition to his duties at Cambria, Faber is a prolific author who has written influential books on tactical allocation and endowment-styled investing, among other published works. He also hosts the popular Meb Faber Show podcast, is an active participant in financial Twitter, and is the architect of The Idea Farm, a web-based research resource he developed for investors. Faber is an experienced angel investor in small, private businesses as well as an investor in alternative assets like farmland and rare coins. He graduated from the University of Virginia with a dual major in engineering science and biology.BackgroundBioBooksThe Meb Faber Show podcast@MebFaberThe Idea FarmCelera Corporation GattacaRichard ThalerJames Montier Current Environment and Market ValuationsTriumph of the Optimists, by Elroy Dimson"The Best way to Add Yield to Your Portfolio," by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, July 6, 2017."Should a Robot Be Managing CalPERS Portfolio?" by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, June 8, 2015."Should Harvard's Endowment Be Managed by a Robot?" by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, Sept. 29, 2016.Jim Rogers "I Don't Feel Overweight," by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, July 8, 2019."The Case for Global Investing," by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, Jan. 10, 2020."Designing a Portfolio With Crypto, Cannabis, and Value in Mind," by Evie Liu, barrons.com, July 1, 2021."Stocks Are Allowed to Be Expensive Since Bonds Are Low…Right?" by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, Jan. 6, 2021.Twitter thread on contrarian investment beliefs "Journey to 100x," by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, July 1, 2021."Stock Market Valuations," by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, March 21, 2020.Shiller P/E RatioResearch AffiliatesAAII Sentiment Survey Galapagos: A Novel, by Kurt VonnegutTrend-Following"A Quantitative Approach to Tactical Asset Allocation," by Meb Faber, papers.ssrn.com, Feb. 1, 2013."How Does a Market Get Cheap? The P in P/E," by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, April 4, 2016."OPTO Sessions: Meb Faber on Spotting Market Bubbles," cmcmarkets.com, Aug. 28, 2020."The Biggest Valuation Spread in 40 Years?" by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, Jan. 25, 2019."The Case for Global Investing," by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, Jan. 10, 2020."Is Buying Stock at an All-Time High a Good Idea?" by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, Nov. 4, 2019."You Would've Missed 961% in Gains Using The CAPE Ratio, and That's a Good Thing," by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, Jan. 6, 2019.Global Asset Allocation, by Meb FaberDow Theory "Diversify, Tilt, Relax--Meb Faber's Case for Global Investing," by Aaron Neuwirth, efttrends.com, Jan. 14, 2020."FAQs on Share Buybacks for Lawmakers, Journalists, and Investors," by Meb Faber, mebfaber.com, Aug. 5, 2019.Qualified Small Business Stock (QSBS)AngelList Unclaimed.orgThe Coffee Can Portfolio," by James Kirby, csinvesting.org, Fall 1984.Favorite Interviews"Episode #39: Ed Thorp, Hedge Fund Manager, Author, & Professor, ‘If You Bet Too Much, You'll Almost Certainly Be Ruined,'" The Meb Faber Show, mebfaber.com, Feb. 8, 2017."Episode #343: Dr. Nathan Myhrvold, Intellectual Ventures, ‘Pizza in the United States Is What Convinced the World That Pizza Was a Great Thing,'" The Meb Faber Show, mebfaber.com, Aug. 25, 2021.
As a Jesus Follower, Is Your Faith So Solid that, Unlike the “rich ruler”, You Would “follow Jesus” in a Financial Storm? MESSAGE SUMMARY: If a financial and economic calamity were to occur in America or in your family, would you still be content with Jesus; or would your faith be tested? In a personal financial problem, would you cling to your “wealth” like the rich young ruler, in Jesus' Parable, from Luke 18:18, 22-24: “And a ruler asked him {Jesus}, ‘Good Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?' . . . When Jesus heard this, he said to him, ‘One thing you still lack. Sell all that you have and distribute to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.' But when he heard these things, he became very sad, for he was extremely rich. Jesus, seeing that he had become sad, said, ‘How difficult it is for those who have wealth to enter the kingdom of God!'”? It is not beyond the realm of possibility that we could face a situation in which our economy goes off the cliff; prices inflate; and life's necessitates become scarce. When you compare yourself to the remainder of the world, you are wealthy like the young ruler – we are all earthly rich in this country. Therefore, can you, unlike the “rich ruler”, “follow Jesus” in a time of financial calamity as well as in good economic times? TODAY'S PRAYER: Lord, I have spent much of my life running from pain and loss, medicating my pain, and quickly moving on to the next project — the new urgent demand. I ask for the grace to embrace all of life — the joys and the sorrows, the deaths, and the births, the old and the new. In Jesus' name, amen. Scazzero, Peter. Emotionally Healthy Spirituality Day by Day (p. 110). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. TODAY'S AFFIRMATION: Today, I affirm that because I am in Jesus Christ, I will seek God's perspective on my situation. For I know that in all things God works together for good to those of us who love Him and are called according to His purpose. (From Romans 8:28). SCRIPTURE REFERENCE (ESV): Luke 18:21-27; James 5:1-6; Mathew 6:24-25; Psalms 37a:1-10. A WORD FROM THE LORD WEBSITE: www.AWFTL.org. THIS SUNDAY'S AUDIO SERMON: You can listen to Archbishop Beach's Current Sunday Sermon: “The Ultimate Call of a Father -- Where Are the Faithful Fathers?", at our Website: https://awtlser.podbean.com/ DONATE TO AWFTL: https://mygiving.secure.force.com/GXDonateNow?id=a0Ui000000DglsqEAB
Join Caro and Corrie for Ep 155 ‘You Would’ve Rocked A Conical Bra’.Thanks to our show sponsors Prince Wine Store and Click for Vic. Caro shares her reflections on Sydney (including her dining out recommendations) and reviews the new Streeton exhibition at the Art Gallery of NSW.As we head rapidly towards Christmas we discuss whether or not our COVID experiences will influence our Christmas plans.In AFL Nathan and Tanya Buckley’s separation hit the headlines this week but – is it really front-page news?In our Click for Vic update for Visit Victoria we discover ‘Tis the Box - a Melbourne owned and based company delivering seasonal health, beauty and lifestyle subscription boxes. For more info head to www.tisthe.com. Plus listener Anita's recommending a #ClickforVic stay at Apollo Bay.Click for Vic - Get the best of Victoria delivered at www.visitvictoria.com/clickforvic or HERE.Let us know about your wonderful Victoria recommendations or Click for Vic gems via our socials or feedback@dontshootpod.com.au.In the Cocktail Cabinet for Prince Wine Store - Tony Nowell joins us again to talk rose. Tony's top pick is Domain Tempier but for an Australian rose Prince recommend;Medhurst Estate Rosé 2020 Sutton Grange Fairbank Rosé 2019 Brash Higgins Nymph Rose 2020Prince Wine Store bringing Melbournians, the greatest wine in the world. Delivering Australia Wide. www.Prince Wine Store.com.au To receive a special listener discount enter the promo code MESS (as in Messenger) at checkout to receive your discount and tell the Prince team that Caro and Corrie sent you!In BSF Caro's been reading The Good Sister by Sally Hepworth (available HERE) and The Burning Island by Jock Serong (available HERE) and highly recommends the film In The Name of the Land. Corrie shares a delicious shortbread recipe thanks to Marg in Hamilton (see recipe below).For videos and pics make sure you follow us on Instagram or Twitter @DontShootPod.Email the show via feedback@dontshootpod.com.au.Like our Facebook page and hit 'Sign Up' to receive weekly updates HERE.Don't Shoot the Messenger is produced by Corrie Perkin, Caroline Wilson and produced, engineered and edited by Jane Nield for Sports Entertainment Network.Thanks to Clementine Donohoe for additional social media support. You can follow @clemmiedonohoe on Instagram HERE.Marg's Shortbread250g plain flour120g rice flour120g caster sugar250g butter1 dash of vanilla essenceCream butter and sugar, add vanilla. Add sifted flours. Roll out thinly. Cut with whatever cutters you like. Bake in a moderate oven for 10mins. Turn oven to slow (right down) and leave for another 10 minutes.
Join us as we explore God's ancient wisdom and apply it to our modern lives. His word is as current and relevant today as it was when he inspired its authors more than two and a half millennia ago. The websites where you can reach us are alittlewalkwithgod.com, richardagee.com, or saf.church. I hope you will join us every week and be sure to let us know how you enjoy the podcast and let others know about it, too. Thanks for listening. Thanks for joining me today for "A Little Walk with God." I'm your host Richard Agee. Can you believe Advent started? The year rushed by very slowly, one day at a time with everything that plagued us over the last eleven months. But Advent is here. A time to look backward and celebrate the time when Jesus, the Messiah, came to live among us. He showed us the living God's character and sacrificed himself to pay the penalty for our sins that we might find forgiveness and life everlasting with him. Advent also celebrates looking forward to the time when Jesus, our Messiah, will return to take us live with him for eternity. He will reign for a thousand years, renew all creation, and set the world right again. Those who believe in him for salvation will live with him throughout eternity renewed with our original purpose restored, to care for his creation forever. Advent is a magnificent time of celebration in the Christian community and begins the global church calendar year. The first Sunday of Advent marks the recognition that God came to dwell with us and the assurance he will come again to take us home to live with him forever. Each year, the lectionary begins Advent with scripture in mind that points to these recognitions. This year, the first lectionary scripture from the Old Testament comes from Isaiah, chapter 64. Isaiah describes events current in the prophet's time but could also describe today's events in many respects. The particular section we will explore today, though, makes a request that could be somewhat terrifying for many, if not all of us. So, what was Israel like in Isaiah's day? First, Jerusalem held a powerful position in the world. The kingdom was prosperous by ancient standards. Yet, because of their strategic location, everyone wanted to possess that little piece of land. It was the crossroads to the north and south and west from the Mediterranean Sea. If you owned the mountain passes in and around Jerusalem, you held the region's military advantage. As the crossroads, it also became wealthy with her ability to trade because every civilized nation passed through the region. If you wanted to charge tariffs for travel through the country, you suddenly had an instant income without much work. The country had money. Of course, the problem with sitting on strategic property was that every other country wanted to own it. Israel faced lots of invasions. And since the northern and southern kingdoms split, they no longer had David and Solomon's kingdoms' strength. By the time Isaiah prophesied under King Uzziah, the northern kingdom was in shambles, and the southern kingdom was closing in fast. With Jerusalem as its capital, Judah was rich, but not in ways it should have been. It had money but no character. Isaiah told of a Messiah who would come and rule the nations. One who would finally fulfill the promise God wanted to be done through Abraham's lineage. Israel's mission had always been to bless the other nations of the world, not to overpower them or become rich at their expense. God wanted Israel to show the other nations his love. Show them how to live together in community. Call them to repentance and live together in peace. Instead, Isaiah saw oppression from the priests and kings who ruled over the people. He saw inequality in their justice between the rich and the poor. Isaiah cried out for the nation to care for the widows and orphans, those who could not care for themselves in that society. He pleaded for the nation to return to the roots of their worship. Isaiah also warned of the consequences of not heeding God's command for doing so – ruin, destruction, exile, death, the curses foretold to Moses centuries before. Ancient Israel sounds a lot like us, doesn't it? We look for the Messiah's return. We long for freedom for oppressive governments, equality in justice between the rich and poor, care for those who cannot care for themselves, return to worship the living God. We pray for the fulfillment of the church's mission – to show the world who Jesus is, show his love, how to live peacefully together, to come to him repentantly. And we often pray, "Why are you waiting so long? Come soon!" Then we come to Isaiah 64. Listen to these words. If only You would rip open the heavens and come down to earth— Its heights and depths would quake the moment You appear, Like kindling when it just begins to catch fire, or like water that's about to boil. If only You would come like that so that all who deny or hate You Would know who You are and be terrified of Your grandeur. We remember that long ago You did amazing things for us that we had never dreamed You'd do. You came down, and the mountains shook at Your presence. Nothing like that had ever happened before—no eye had ever seen, and no ear had ever heard such wonders, But You did them then for the sake of Your people, for those who trusted in You. You meet whoever tries with sincerity of purpose to do what You want— to do justice and follow in Your ways. But You became so angry when we rebelled and committed all sorts of wrongs; we have continued in our sins for a long time. So how can we be saved? We are all messed up like a person compromised with impurity; even all our right efforts are like soiled rags. We're drying up like a leaf in autumn and are blown away by wrongdoing. And it's so sad because no one calls out to You or even bothers to approach You anymore. You've been absent from us too long; You left us to dissolve away in the acrid power of our sins. Still, Eternal One, You are our Father. We are just clay, and You are the potter. We are the product of Your creative action, shaped and formed into something of worth. Don't be so angry anymore, O Eternal; don't always remember our wrongs. Please, look around and see that we are all Your people. (Isaiah 64:1-9 The Voice) Isaiah asks for God to return as he did in ancient days. We sometimes do that, too. But Isaiah recognized what that meant. I'm not sure we do. We too often think in terms of a soft, gentle, teddy bear kind of God that will just pat us on the head and tell us everything is okay no matter what we do. He isn't that kind of God. One day, he will make everything right. As a God of love, he is also a God of justice. The two go hand in hand. He must take care of evil and sin at some point or he is not a God of love. So, when he returns to fix the world's evil, what will he do? Isaiah describes his ancient justice and might pretty well. He ripped the heavens open and made mountains shake. His grandeur terrified those who saw his miraculous appearances. If you've been in 5 or 6 or 7 magnitude earthquakes, you understand what mountain shaking means. If you've been in the middle of a tornado, you know how you might describe the raw power of an angry God. If you've faced the rouge 100-foot wave in an ocean storm, you can understand the fear of God touching earth to cleanse evil from its face. In ancient times, the Hebrews record times God punished sins immediately and harshly. Today, since his sacrifice on the cross, we experience another side of God's love and justice. His grace and mercy extend to us, but he has not changed. He gives us the opportunity to change, repent, follow him, and do his will. But he has not changed. God is as angry at sin and the ruin of his perfect creation as he was with Adam's first act of disobedience. God is also sad at our absence and unfaithfulness as he continues to call to us in a hundred different ways. I like the analogy Isaiah uses to help us remember our place in the universe. God is the creator. He is the potter; we are just a lump of clay in his hands. But as the master potter, God made this lump of clay something of worth. He remembers us because he made us. He listens to our pleas because he made us. He cares for us because he made us. This first week of Advent, celebrate the fact that Jesus, the Messiah, came to live with us. He calls us to repent and follow him. Then and now, his message is the same, believe in him, and you will have eternal life. Then remember he will return. When he does, the mountains will shake. He will come as a consuming fire. Jesus, the Messiah, will set all things right again, renewing his creation and restoring those who believe in him for salvation. Advent begins the church year. Whatever has happened this last year, let's give it to God, and let's give this next year to him as well. He can and will make all things new. I'm ready for a renewed and restored world, but we have a lot of people who need to hear about God's love and salvation so they can join us in that renewed creation. Let's start the year right by telling them. You can find me at richardagee.com. I also invite you to join us at San Antonio First Church of the Nazarene on West Avenue in San Antonio to hear more Bible-based teaching. You can find out more about my church at SAF.church. Thanks for listening. If you enjoyed it, tell a friend. If you didn't, send me an email and let me know how better to reach out to those around you. Until next week, may God richly bless you as you venture into His story each day. Scriptures marked THE VOICE are taken from the THE VOICE (The Voice): Scripture taken from THE VOICE ™. Copyright© 2008 by Ecclesia Bible Society. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
Comedian, musician, and actress Mollie Heckerling joins us to help review out favorite episodes of Hulu’s PEN15 in anticipation of its second season, releasing September 18. She was extremely funny and a joy to have on, and you should check out all of her projects, linked below. Enjoy and share! Mollie Heckerling's YouTube channel, featuring her Ratso puppet series. Mollie's new album, You Would, on Spotify. Click here to listen to the latest episode of Papa's Basement in your browser (and here to give us your money via Patreon). Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Spotify Stitcher YouTube Follow this episode's cast on Twitter and Instagram. Mollie Heckerling - Twitter - @MollieSchmollie, Instagram - @MollieHeckerling Mikael Johnson - Twitter - MikaelLJohn, Instagram - @MikaelLJohn John Papageorgiou - Twitter - @PapasBasement, Instagram - @PapasBasement
You WOULD think people would know not to mess with a Strongman competitor. Especially when he's a former World's Strongest Man. Well, you'd be wrong. Find out the details in IDIOTS OF THE DAY! #PhilShow
Welcome to the Unnamed and Unfiltered Podcast!!!Short Disclaimer: This episode was recorded on February 2nd, 2020 so information or news brought up in our conversations are up-to-date in relation to the original recording day. If you want to keep up with us in real time, be sure to check out our Instagram down below!!!Check Out Our Buzzsprout Feed For When You're On The Go:https://unnamedandunfilteredpodcast.buzzsprout.com/In today's episode we'll dive into Suicidal Cloning...What makes you YOU? Would you choose to live forever or die now? Are vaccines and vitamins a total scam? Don't succumb to analysis paralysis, choose the Unnamed and Unfiltered Podcast and let us fill your mind with terrible nonsense!!!Subscribe and Hit The Bell notification button to stay up-to-date on newly uploaded episodes via YouTube at Unnamed and Unfiltered Podcast.Follow us on Instagram to see behind the scenes clips, sneak peaks of future episodes, and much more at Unnamed_and_Unfilteredhttps://www.instagram.com/unnamed_and_unfiltered/We want your feedback, probably, so e-mail us new topics, questions, or just hate-mail us at unnamedandunfiltered@gmail.com
SummaryBrian Mayer discusses the concept of boundaries in relationships or how to set limits without feeling guilty. Boundaries are easy to talk about but more difficult to implement. It takes practice and lots of encouraging support. You will learn how to set appropriate boundaries so you can live a life of freedom. We hope you enjoy today's message. For more information and additional resources please visit our website at http://www.theremarriedlife.com Today's Goodies Today's episode is all the concept of Boundaries in Relationships in regard to a subsequent marriage that affects more people like biological and step children. What is a Boundary? A boundary is simply a property line to keep what is yours in and what is not yours out. Think of houses and the property lines that are drawn around each home. The history around Boundaries started several decades ago when research around how to help people with addictions took off. This research began to take a look at the family system and found enabling behaviors by other family members. This can also be called Co-Dependency. Out of this co-dependency movement specifically related to addictions, came the term Boundaries and began to be applied to all relationship issues not just addiction issue. A very helpful book about this topic is simply called Boundaries: How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud and John Townsend. They have also written one specific to marriages called Boundaries in Marriage. When healthy boundaries are not in place it can cause issues like depression, anxiety, resentment, and anger. By not implementing an appropriate boundary, you are replacing a temporary discomfort with a more permanent pain. Boundaries sound easy in theory, but are hard to implement. When we first try to install a boundary on someone that is encroaching we can feel guilty or like we are a bad person. Sometimes we also have this mentality that we must be all things to all people and that is how the Golden Rule works – Do Unto Others as You Would have done to You. However, if you are not healthy first then you are no good to someone else. You will ultimately burn-out if you do not install good boundaries. Myths of Boundaries According to Cloud and Townsend: I am selfish if I install a boundary. I am being disobedient if I say No. If I set limits, I will be hurt I will hurt others I'm angry I should feel guilty or bad Boundaries are Permanent Learning to not feel responsible for others thoughts, feelings, and actions. For example, the kids being bored is not your responsibility. Now of course day after day, if you never do anything with them then yes that is a problem. But the fact is that they are responsible for how they feel. If we do not allow them to learn to pull themselves out a funk, then they will be stunted in their growth as adults. Can Love and Boundaries Exist Together: Yes they can. In fact, boundaries actually signal that love exists. Implementing Boundaries shows the other person under what parameters that love can flourish. Inside the boundaries amazing things will happen, outside the boundaries is where individuals can work on themselves. How Do Implement a Boundary Successfully? You are One Step Closer because you are listening to this podcast Get Support. Either find a group or ask a close friend. Role play setting boundaries by being both the boundary setter and the one for whom the boundary is being set. Do not beat yourself up when you try to set boundaries initially. You may fail and you probably will fail. Boundary setting is a process. You will receive much resistance at first because people will not be used to this. Final Thoughts: Practice, practice, practice Know that boundaries will help keep you healthy and in turn will help others recognize how to keep themselves healthy. Think about the Expect failure and grow from it. Resources Mentioned Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend Boundaries in Marriage by Henry Cloud and John Townsend Codependent No More by Melody Beattie The above resources are affiliate links, which means that The Remarried Life Podcast receives a percentage of the sale. Your cost does not change. By purchasing these items you are helping cover the cost of expenses to produce this podcast. Thanks in advance for your continued support of the podcast! Thanks For Listening! With so many things that take time in our lives, I more grateful than you know that you took time to listen to this podcast episode. If you liked this episode and believe that it would be beneficial to a friend, family member, or colleague, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. 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FOI Episode 35 "You Would of Snitched?" by Full Of It Podcast
Have you ever looked at your child giving attitude and they look JUST. LIKE. YOU? Would you do whatever it took so that bad trait, mindset, or addiction didn’t pass down through your lineage? In today’s episode, Matthew & Sabrina tackle this tough subject and give steps on how to become free! Have questions? Contact them at hello@mommentor.org. Join the conversation and community on Instagram by following @sabrinaschlesinger.
People often say they avoid religion and deny God any authority over their lives so that they may be free to enjoy life. Yet, a life of fullness and freedom is precisely what Jesus Christ promises. So, what about YOU? Would you be free? Truly, utterly, undeniably and permanently free? Free to find your destiny and fulfill your purpose in life? Free to “seize the day” and live life to the fullest?
Watch a woman breathe and you’re born again. Nothin’ like it. Everything stops for beauty. I watched them. They brought the sea to the ground, just like the original plan! One for the crashes! Better than a thunderstorm at nighttime. Moved. Completely was I moved, to tears was I moved. You would have enjoyed the Effrontery. You would have laughed with the madness. Nodded like an angel. You Would have nodded like the angel that you are. You would have grabbed my hand and ran like the forest. Ran like forests you and me? We could be Gorgeous. The same way you should look at the world from under a three foot truck. Yea, that’ll teach you to cherish your atman. That’ll teach you to swim less in that ocean. Danger, danger, love me now. That’s what we say to each other while we are asleep. I know we do. ‘Your color enters a room before you do.’ I heard those words over the radio earlier that morning. I believe it. …whole heartedly so. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/nakedpoetry/message
Summary Brian Mayer discusses the concept of boundaries in relationships or how to set limits without feeling guilty. Boundaries are easy to talk about but more difficult to implement. It takes practice and lots of encouraging support. You will learn how to set appropriate boundaries so you can live a life of freedom. We hope you enjoy today's message. For more information and additional resources please visit our website at http://www.theremarriedlife.com Today's Goodies Today's episode is all the concept of Boundaries in Relationships in regard to a subsequent marriage that affects more people like biological and step children. What is a Boundary? A boundary is simply a property line to keep what is yours in and what is not yours out. Think of houses and the property lines that are drawn around each home. The history around Boundaries started several decades ago when research around how to help people with addictions took off. This research began to take a look at the family system and found enabling behaviors by other family members. This can also be called Co-Dependency. Out of this co-dependency movement specifically related to addictions, came the term Boundaries and began to be applied to all relationship issues not just addiction issue. A very helpful book about this topic is simply called Boundaries: How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud and John Townsend. They have also written one specific to marriages called Boundaries in Marriage. When healthy boundaries are not in place it can cause issues like depression, anxiety, resentment, and anger. By not implementing an appropriate boundary, you are replacing a temporary discomfort with a more permanent pain. Boundaries sound easy in theory, but are hard to implement. When we first try to install a boundary on someone that is encroaching we can feel guilty or like we are a bad person. Sometimes we also have this mentality that we must be all things to all people and that is how the Golden Rule works – Do Unto Others as You Would have done to You. However, if you are not healthy first then you are no good to someone else. You will ultimately burn-out if you do not install good boundaries. Myths of Boundaries According to Cloud and Townsend: I am selfish if I install a boundary. I am being disobedient if I say No. If I set limits, I will be hurt I will hurt others I'm angry I should feel guilty or bad Boundaries are Permanent Learning to not feel responsible for others thoughts, feelings, and actions. For example, the kids being bored is not your responsibility. Now of course day after day, if you never do anything with them then yes that is a problem. But the fact is that they are responsible for how they feel. If we do not allow them to learn to pull themselves out a funk, then they will be stunted in their growth as adults. Can Love and Boundaries Exist Together: Yes they can. In fact, boundaries actually signal that love exists. Implementing Boundaries shows the other person under what parameters that love can flourish. Inside the boundaries amazing things will happen, outside the boundaries is where individuals can work on themselves. How Do Implement a Boundary Successfully? You are One Step Closer because you are listening to this podcast Get Support. Either find a group or ask a close friend. Role play setting boundaries by being both the boundary setter and the one for whom the boundary is being set. Do not beat yourself up when you try to set boundaries initially. You may fail and you probably will fail. Boundary setting is a process. You will receive much resistance at first because people will not be used to this. Final Thoughts Practice, practice, practice Know that boundaries will help keep you healthy and in turn will help others recognize how to keep themselves healthy. Think about the Expect failure and grow from it. Resources Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend Boundaries in Marriage by Henry Cloud and John Townsend Codependent No More by Melody Beattie The above resources are affiliate links, which means that The Remarried Life Podcast receives a percentage of the sale. Your cost does not change. By purchasing these items you are helping cover the cost of expenses to produce this podcast. Thanks in advance for your continued support of the podcast! Thanks For Listening! With so many things that take time in our lives, I more grateful than you know that you took time to listen to this podcast episode. If you liked this episode and believe that it would be beneficial to a friend, family member, or colleague, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. It would be extremely helpful, it you would consider leaving a rating and review on Apple devices at iTunes or on Android devices at Google Play as it will help the podcast reach others who need help in rebuilding life and relationships. The Remarried Life Facebook Group is a community of people just like you who get and give support. Please join today!
Brother O'Brother vocalist/guitarist and Romanus Records founder Chris Banta has been wowing vinyl collectors as of late with incredibly innovative pressings ranging from the world's first four-color, glow-in-the-dark, liquid-filled LP to a recent seven-inch on Fonoflo Records with customized Monopoly money inside. Based out of Indianapolis, the band's creativity when it comes to vinyl -- as well as their frenzied, retro sound -- have recently scored them gigs at Third Man Records' Nashville and Detroit locations, leading to Chris even using one of Jack White's amps during their set! You may have heard Heather and Sarah from Wax Mage Records sing his praises back on episode 17 of the show, and today he discusses Brother O'Brother's paint and confetti-fueled music video for "You Would," the rare hydra press he did for Third Man act The Greenhornes, how Third Man's Ben Blackwell purchased Chris' first glow-in-the-dark dinosaur bone record, his own pressings going for hundreds of dollars on Discogs, an upcoming Star Wars-themed variant Chris is working on and much more! Follow @brotherobrother_ and @romanusrecords on Instagram to check out all the crazy vinyl we talk about on this episode.
What if all that beauty you thought you lost… wasn't? What if there was something beyond the suffering you’ve known and become friends with? And what if life didn’t have to be as hard… as it’s felt so far? What if there were a beauty in you that you’ve never seen before? What if everything you thought was wrong with you was actually right? What if all the pain – all the fear – all the sadness – all the anger…. wasn’t even yours? What if YOU – were beautiful? And every molecule in the universe was just waiting…. shimmering at the edges of your vision….excited to contribute to YOU? Would you be willing to risk that maybe you were? And maybe lose your cement blocks — and find your wings? Christel Crawford has been creating change & ‘more’ her whole life, consistently demanding & growing forward. In the past year, Christel has changed & transformed her entire life & business. She loves working with people & playing with the tools of creation to create life & business at the speed of space. Christel is the Dominatrix of Business & Wealth Creation for Heather Nichols, consults with business owners all over the globe, and creates her own business all around the world. She adores working with people one-on-one and in groups, and is currently expanding her playground & consciousness everywhere!! www.imperfectbrilliance.com www.facebook.com/imperfectbrilliance www.christeljoycrawford.com