Along the Way

Have you ever downplayed your achievements, convinced yourself that you haven't done enough, or worried that you'll never get to where you want to be? In this episode, we're breaking the cycle of self-deprecation and shifting our mindset to one of self-recognition. Instead of focusing on what we haven't done, we're acknowledging everything we have accomplished and understanding that we are exactly where we need to be.Join me as we explore how to embrace our journey, trust our timing, and step confidently into the future—without diminishing the progress we've already made. It's time to stop undermining our own success and start owning our story.JACKSON AND HYDE: CodeAlongTheWayhttps://jacksonhyde.comConnect with Lydia:https://bio.site/lydiakyle

This is one of those special moments where you meet your "internet friend" and talk for hours in person for the first time. Anna Meyers of Meyers Silver has been one of my lady boss heroes for YEARS and from the moment I saw her Instagram filled with cowboy living, motorcycles, and firefighting I KNEW I had to know her. For years, Anna and I have lived parallel lives filled with things we'd rather not do again. From house fires, getting fired, and getting burned by family we've done it all and are still here to tell the stories. In this episode, we shoot the breeze and maybe take a few shots at things we have opinion on. FIND ANNA HERE:https://meyerssilver.comhttps://www.instagram.com/meyerssilver/FIND LYDIA HERE:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lydia_kylTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lydia_kylFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rancherswifelife

Motherhood is beautiful, but it can also be incredibly isolating. In this episode, we dive into the often-unspoken struggles of the mental load that comes with caring for others, the loneliness it can create, and how these pressures impact our mental health. We'll also unpack the heavy role that Mom guilt plays in deepening isolation and making it even harder to ask for help. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, unseen, or burdened by the expectations of motherhood, this conversation is for you. You're not alone, and you deserve support.Tune in for an honest discussion and encouragement to break the cycle of isolation.JACKSON AND HYDE: Code-AlongTheWayhttps://jacksonhyde.comConnect with Lydia:https://bio.site/lydiakyle

Is the public school system failing our children? In this episode, we dive deep into why homeschooling is emerging as a better alternative for families seeking quality education and strong values.We discuss:

In this episode, I continue my conversation with the Martin family—this time, sitting down with Leann Martin, wife of retired General Joseph M. Martin. Leann shares what it's like to build a life and raise a family deeply ingrained in the U.S. Army, especially during times of war and uncertainty. From navigating unforeseen challenges to enduring deployments and frequent moves, she reflects on the sacrifices and resilience required of military families.Through it all, Leann and her family have embraced life as a grand adventure, finding strength in their shared experiences and unwavering commitment to one another. She offers an inspiring perspective on how faith, adaptability, and a strong support system kept their family not just together—but thriving.If you haven't yet, be sure to check out Part 1, where I spoke with General Joe Martin about his distinguished military career and his heart for service.JACKSON AND HYDE: Code- AlongTheWayhttps://jacksonhyde.comConnect with Lydia:https://bio.site/lydiakyle

In this episode, I sit down with retired General Joseph M. Martin, the 37th Vice Chief of Staff of the United States Army, to discuss his distinguished military career and personal life. A 1986 graduate of the U.S. Military Academy at West Point, General Martin was commissioned as an armor officer and has held various leadership positions, including tank platoon leader, scout platoon leader, and company executive officer in the 1st Battalion, 37th Armor Regiment, 1st Armored Division.  We discuss how his commitment to serving those under his command has profoundly influenced his life, both during active duty and in retirement. General Martin also shares insights into balancing a demanding military career with family life, highlighting the support of his wife, Leann, and their journey together.This is part one of a two-part series. In the next episode, we'll gain Leann's perspective on their shared experiences and the challenges and rewards of military family life.JACKSON AND HYDE: Code- AlongTheWayhttps://jacksonhyde.comConnect with Lydia:https://bio.site/lydiakyle

In this episode, we dive into the power of saying “no” and why it's one of the most valuable skills you can develop. Too often, we feel pressured to say “yes” to everything—opportunities, favors, invitations—only to find ourselves overwhelmed and stretched too thin. But here's the truth: saying no isn't selfish or negative. In fact, sometimes saying “yes” is actually worse than saying “no.”We'll explore how protecting your time and energy allows you to focus on what truly matters, how setting boundaries leads to better opportunities, and why saying no is a form of self-respect. If you've ever struggled with people-pleasing or felt guilty for turning things down, this episode is for you. Tune in and learn how to make “no” your secret superpower!JACKSON AND HYDE: Code- AlongTheWayhttps://jacksonhyde.comThe Best Yes Book:https://urlgeni.us/amazon/uEEg0Connect with Lydia:https://bio.site/lydiakyle

In this episode, we dive into the delicate balance millennial parents are trying to strike between raising emotionally healthy kids and avoiding the mistakes of past generations. But has the fear of causing trauma led to a new challenge—becoming pushovers for our children? We'll explore how this mindset is shaping family dynamics, why saying “no” is just as important as saying “I love you,” and how setting boundaries is essential for both kids and parents to thrive. It's time to rethink what it really means to parent with love and strength. JACKSON AND HYDE: Code- AlongTheWay https://jacksonhyde.com Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

In this episode, we explore the idea that learning new things is supposed to be hard—and why that's not a bad thing. Drawing parallels to how we encourage children to practice, stumble, and grow, we ask the important question: Why don't we give ourselves the same grace? From the frustration of trying something for the first time to the joy of finally getting it right, we'll unpack the pressures we put on ourselves to succeed instantly and how adopting a patient, childlike mindset can transform the way we approach challenges. Tune in for an inspiring reminder that progress takes time, and that's where the magic happens. JACKSON AND HYDE - Code: AlongTheWay https://jacksonhyde.com Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

As a parent, I think we often spend time wondering how we are supposed to raise "good kids" in a bad world. The bottom line is that parents have been doing just that for generations, and we're not that special! The world has always been hard, but we have to be willing to raise kids that are part of the solution instead of part of the problem. Inappropriate Trucker Hats! CODE: LYDIA25 https://unclebekah.com connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

Big wins and hard times, that's what being a small business is all about. Sometimes you're featured in People Magazine, and sometimes you're getting screwed by business partners. In this episode I sit down with Uncle Bekah from Inappropriate Trucker Hats in Prosper, TX to talk all about being a small business owner and cornering the market on HUMOR! Inappropriate Trucker Hats! CODE: LYDIA25 https://unclebekah.com connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

It's sad but true, LIFE gets in the way of our relationship with God if we allow it to. Even more so, life gets in the way of reading our Bible and deepening our understanding of God's Word. Joined by guest, Lauren Hopkins, this episode discusses the practical and spiritual aspects of studying the Bible when life is being LIFE. Inappropriate Trucker Hats: LYDIA25 https://unclebekah.com Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle Bible Recap: https://www.thebiblerecap.com She Reads Truth: https://www.shopshereadstruth.com/?gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAAphbTeYgRqB--J-mKXeLaZl_mihHW&gclid=CjwKCAjw9eO3BhBNEiwAoc0-jZxK_OrgQNLu3Cl_Ik4HSUkQhk25UoHfBcERUg49ESIeSQQDNkmOzRoCcGMQAvD_BwE Lifeway Bible Studies: https://www.lifeway.com/en/shop/bible-studies-for-life?cmpid=pm:ggl:220919%7Cboth%7Cna%7Congoing%7Cbsfl%7C10433797149%7Congoing_bible_studies_ppc:lerma_bible_studies_for_life:bible%20studies%20for%20life%20lifeway&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADG5DetjpwweMigzg1Pz1nsaJpc_I&gclid=CjwKCAjw9eO3BhBNEiwAoc0-jdgcAkRB9SSgU_W43znauhkMYTViqYJeJZ6gEVHeCVEmaocQNen6PxoC9C0QAvD_BwE --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

Not everyday of homeschooling is great... There are HARD days. But, I've found some things that make the harder days easier to overcome and make the harder days less and less. This episode has lots of resources and links- SEE BELOW! Inappropriate Trucker Hats! CODE: LYDIA25 https://unclebekah.com Amazon Homeschool List: https://urlgeni.us/amzn/Homeschool AOP Christian Learning: CODE LYDIA10 https://www.aop.com/?utm_source=socialmedia&utm_medium=influencer&utm_campaign=lydia connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

We all make mistakes and we all learn along the way, but these are a few of the things I wish my younger self knew about bullying, opportunities, risks, and relationships! Inappropriate Trucker Hats! CODE: LYDIA25 https://unclebekah.com connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

This is MY testimony! Despite being raised in church and baptized at a young age, I didn't live my life for Jesus for a LONG time. Once I was willing to let go of my own control and give my life to Jesus, the world I had created by my own lack of self worth was turned upside down. Hallelujah! Inappropriate Trucker Hats! CODE: Lydia25 https://unclebekah.com Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

Half the reason you're feeling overwhelmed is because you're adding in too many things. You need to get the essentials down to energy minimum and THEN add new things! This is how we teach our kids to do chores and how we can be our BEST without hitting the burnout wall. Today, let's talk about how to get yourself organized by using the Energy Minimum technique. Inappropriate Trucker Hats! CODE: Lydia25 https://unclebekah.com Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

Seeing social media for what it is, is KEY to never falling into the trap of comparison or blindly supporting something without doing your own research. Social media literacy is a skill we all need and we need to be teaching in school! Inappropriate Trucker Hats! CODE: LYDIA25 https://unclebekah.com connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

This is probably the #1 thing holding you back right now in life. As a parent, an employee, a creative... Perfection paralysis keeps us from reaching our potential because we're too afraid to just START. Inappropriate Trucker Hats! CODE: LYDIA25 https://unclebekah.com Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

I have never struggled with body image the way I am currently. I went to by OBGYN and walked out feeling like I was an absolute failure when it came to my weight... How in the world did that happen?! Inappropriate Trucker Hats! CODE: LYDIA25 https://unclebekah.com Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

Did you know I was a Special Education teacher back in the day? I don't talk about it much because it was a rough experience. Maybe it was hard because I didn't have a degree in SPED or Education? Or maybe it was the fact that I only to 6 weeks of classroom training? Or maybe it was the caseload twice what it should have been? Let's discuss how Teach For America isn't the top of my list for potential post-graduate options for college students! Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

In this episode I'm joined by my friend Lisa to chat about what it's like to raise a large (young) family in today's world. Lisa and her husband have 5 children with one more on the way... Does that seem like a lot? How do people perceive a large family in today's culture? Is it difficult to manage so many personalities? How do you maintain a sense of SELF in motherhood? All those topics and more as we sit down to discuss similarities and differences in our motherhood journey. Mary Ruth Organics- "MROLydiaK15" https://www.maryruthorganics.com Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

When life is hard, we beg for it to be easy... But will an easy life help us achieve the goals we have for ourselves? In this episode I discuss why I think hardship and trauma is a part of our story that leads to greatness when we approach it in that way. Leo Skepi Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3VJuGmqMazkAQRnnbh974V?si=F5JQpZHNQ2WCvKNjFg5ntA Liquid IV: "Lydia_Kyl" for 20% off https://www.liquid-iv.com/ Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

We spend A LOT of time on social media as a society. Whether it is for professional or personal reasons, every single generation on the planet right now is impacted by social media. I was feeling the weight of the social media performance and decided to "detox". Here are some of the things I took away from my 5 day break from all socials! Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

When we blindly react to our children's emotions and "solve the problem" without the entire story we're teaching them to be victims! Parents need to teach their children the importance of telling the whole story and get to the bottom of a situation before reacting emotionally themselves. Affiliate Link/Code: https://glnk.io/koyv/lydia-kyl "LYDIA_KYL" Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

Why does having an opinion about literally everything feel so dangerous? Why did we decide we need to share EVERY opinion we have with people when they didn't ask for it? In this episode we talk about why having an opinion is important and you should not be afraid to have them, but also why we should learn to exist without imposing our opinions on everyone we meet aggressively. Kier Gaines from The Tamron Hall Show- @keirgaines Affiliate Link/Code: https://www.maryruthorganics.com CODE: MROLydiaK15 Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

Forward! That's the goal!! So why are we spinning our wheels in the Dollar General parking lot and feeling like we're being torn apart at the seams by our own life? You're out of alignment. That's why. Let's talk about it! Connect with Lydia/Affiliate Links: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

How did No Child Left Behind result in a millennial identity crisis? Just kidding, I'm not sure it's directly connected... But, I have my suspicions! In this episode, let's talk about why millennials are job hopping, unhappy at work, and feel like their job is sucking their soul out. Connect with Lydia/Affiliate Links: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

Did you know an adult human has less attention span than a goldfish now? Sad, but not shocking. That said, I've come to the conclusion that our lack of attention span might be contributing to our lack of meaningful life. Connect with Lydia/Affiliate Links: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

Why do millennial parents get so much flack for their kids? Specifically why their kids don't listen or respect authority? Well... Houston, I think we might actually be the problem this time. But! I could be wrong, so listen in to see if you agree or disagree with me about WHY children of younger parents are struggling. Connect with Lydia/Affiliate Links: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lydiakyle/support

Trust me, putting it off until tomorrow is NOT the thing to do. Changing your mindset about how long tasks take and how much more stressful life is when you push things off is a KEY life skill. This is the final episode of Season 1 of the Along the Way Podcast! Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alongthewaywithlydia/support

What is it with social media and the fact that we are so willing to pop off in the comments from behind a screen? I used to do it SO OFTEN and I did it because I had a BIG EGO. But, I've seen it a lot lately and frankly we all need to learn how to keep our digital mouth SHUT!! Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alongthewaywithlydia/support

Ok, so you're an impulse buyer. So what? There are responsible ways to change your financial situation without having to magically become a different person. I'm an impulse buyer who is very responsible with my money. Here are my tips for changing your brain chemistry and habits to still be "you" but not out of control with your money. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alongthewaywithlydia/support

We're a family of 5 and we still go on family vacation every year... How do we afford it? Our trick is National Parks! That said, in this episode I talk about adjusting your expectations for family travel and understanding how to properly use credit cards. Because, spoiler alert, that's NOT FREE MONEY. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alongthewaywithlydia/support

Today I'm sitting down with micro-influencer and UGC queen, Taylor Wysong, to talk about how to earn an income on social media, shake the feelings of doubt, and overcome the fear of being judged on social media. Connect with Taylor: IG- @bougiebettay TikTok- @bougiebarrelracer Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alongthewaywithlydia/support

The way you speak about your spouse to other people MATTERS. This is one of the lessons I learned the hard way, and today I'm going to tell you how I saw the seed of negativity have an impact on my marriage. Trust me, the way you speak to your spouse matters and sometimes you don't even realize what you're doing is detrimental to your love life. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alongthewaywithlydia/support

There is a difference in equality and equity when it comes to your marriage! Are you more focussed on "apples to apples" or are you more concerned with making sure your marriage dynamic is fair? Today I'm sharing a listener inspired story about how I think EQUITY is the goal, not equality. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

I said I'd never homeschool my kids, but here I am homeschooling! But, it's a lot better than I expected and I think the reasons might surprise you. The decision to homeschool isn't an easy one, but for many of us, it's becoming the ONLY one. Homeschool resources: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ranch_wife_life/list/2RXJIS3T1I4IP?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfranch_wife_life_CTZ6TTVQYSGRXA1QWFM2 Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

In this episode I sit down with one of my oldest friends and discuss what it was like to get married and divorced at a young age. From coming to terms with a failed marriage to healing your own personal trauma along the way this episode breaks down some of the intricacies Elizabeth experienced during this season of her life. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle Resources mentioned: https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Blackmail-People-Obligation-Manipulate/dp/0060928972/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2XWJ48OJW23VN&keywords=emotional+blackmail&qid=1704219660&sprefix=%2Caps%2C179&sr=8-1 https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Past-Your-Breakup-audiobook/dp/B007T5N2YU/ref=sr_1_3?crid=1Y6QHTFM1YATR&keywords=getting+past+your+breakup+book&qid=1704219687&sprefix=getting+brea%2Caps%2C143&sr=8-3 https://www.amazon.com/Why-Men-Love-Bitches-Relationship/dp/1580627560/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1X26B5G94264R&keywords=why+men+love+bitchy+women&qid=1704219671&sprefix=%2Caps%2C858&sr=8-1

Today I'm welcoming another one of my friends to the podcast to discuss what it's like to climb the corporate ladder as a young millennial woman. Shelby Tsuji is a Director of Marketing for a large toy corporation at the young age of 30 and her career hasn't always been smooth sailing. We chat about the Barbie movie, navigating the corporate "jungle" and playing the game, and the concept of being expendable in the workplace despite your title. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

THIS BOOK. I could talk for HOURS about it... But, I'll keep it under 10 minutes. Today I'm excited to introduce you to Empire of the Vampire by Jay Kristoff. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

Burnout gets a bad reputation but I think that's because we don't listen to the early signs of when we need to stop, recalibrate, and adjust as necessary. Let's talk about why burnout can be a good thing! Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

... I just wasn't a fan. This book was so unsettling and despite the fact that I read it in less than 24 hours it was enough to turn me off to CoHo as an author. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

Spoiler... They're not. You need to change your expectations and ADJUST! I hear it all the time when people say "having adult friends is so hard!" or "why is finding grown up friends impossible?!" but I'm here to tell you it's not as bad as you think. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

Is this my first negative review of a book on the podcast? Maybe?! I don't know if this is negative but small town romance just isn't my vibe. That said, if anyone knows how to write a small town comedy and romance it's Lucy Score! Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

We're talking about the power of outsourcing today!! Whether you're a mom, business owner, or content creator there is power in outsourcing certain tasks. My Bookkeeper: https://www.mtfaber.com My Newsletter Gal: https://www.thewildwebco.com Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

Kevin Kwan knows how to write a GREAT comedy that also educates readers. Not only will these books make you giggle, they'll leave you with a new appreciation for Eastern cultures. I loved reading all three of the books in Kevin Kwan's Crazy Rich Asians trilogy and I hope you will too! Crazy Rich Asians Box Set: https://a.co/d/1vJ2poZ Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

We all fight with our spouses and significant others. It just happens and it's part of being humans, but that doesn't mean we don't need to check our baggage at the door. Today we're talking about how we learned to fight in a way that honored the other person and didn't destroy our love for each other. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

Grief doesn't stop because of the holiday season and many people around us are struggling to process this grief each day. On this special bonus episode I sit down with a dear friend, Ola Bodurka Kirk, as we discuss the loss of her father and how she is handling the holidays. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

It's something we all experience at some point or another... Jealousy! It's an ugly truth, but here is how I've learned to handle both feeling jealous or receiving jealousy from someone else. Self awareness is KEY. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

Welcome to MY Roman Empire... The world of Sarah J Maas. Today we're talking about the first book I ever read by SJM, A Court of Thorns and Roses! ACOTAR Box Set: https://a.co/d/arnMYXD Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle

I have needed therapy multiple times in my life and it has changed the course of my story every single time! Today we're talking about all the different types of therapy and counseling I've encountered. Connect with Lydia: https://bio.site/lydiakyle Parenting Courses: https://courses.peaceandparenting.org Christian Counseling: https://www.faithfulcounseling.com