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In this solo deep dive, Dani unpacks the deleterious dark side of “niceness,” and explores how our cultural obsession with being good, polite, and palatable keeps us dishonest, disconnected, and disempowered — and how reclaiming authenticity is the only path to real integrity and intimacy. Along the way, she explores the weaponization of “privilege,” the pitfalls of polarized thinking, and the covert ways philanthropy and media co-opt truth-telling.This episode is a fiery reminder that playing “nice” isn't the same thing as being kind — and that speaking truth, even when it's uncomfortable, is the most loving act of all.Tune in, share widely, and stop being nice already!Watch on Odysee. Listen on Progressive Radio Network and podcast platforms everywhere.Part 2:danikatz.locals.comwww.patreon.com/danikatzAll things Dani, including books, courses, coaching + consulting:www.danikatz.comPlus, schwag:danikatz.threadless.comChemical Free Body Green Powder, et al:https://www.chemicalfreebody.com/DANI28299Show notes:Article on Santa Fe shenanigans Radio silence in Journalism Online ghosting in biz relationships Linear time lie & mortality codes Playing with Quantum LanguageUn-casting the “mid-life” spell De-programming aging/death consciousness Betterarchy book reading on ‘Privilege'Analysis: 'Democratic Socialism is…..'‘Victimhood' of people in power The Democrats tweet on ‘their shutdown'Using transitional language authenticallyBeing ‘nice' vs communicating honestly Topics Covered· Why “being nice” often means betraying our truth, our bodies, and our boundaries· How social conditioning trains us to equate niceness with goodness — and authenticity with danger· The energetic and emotional toll of performative kindness· The difference between kindness and niceness, and why one liberates while the other enslaves· The weaponization of the word “privilege” — how it reinforces division, victimhood, and hierarchy· A live reading from The Language of Betterarchy on the distortion and misuse of “privilege”· How “privilege” narratives sustain power structures and keep us fighting each other· Inside the Santa Fe philanthropic/activist grift: how billionaire foundations fund ideological “accelerators”· The psychological mechanisms behind guilt, virtue signaling, and moral posturing· Why being honest — not “nice” — is the most loving act we can offer· Language upgrades and quantum-linguistic tools for reclaiming personal sovereignty· What happens when we stop silencing truth to make others comfortable
Are you tired of saying yes when every part of you is screaming no? In this week's episode of A Millennial Mind, I sit down with Annalie Howling — performance coach, trauma specialist, and boundaries queen — to unpack the truth about people pleasing, approval addiction, and why so many of us feel guilty putting ourselves first. We dive deep into the psychology behind saying yes, how it's linked to childhood conditioning, and what it actually takes to stop caring what everyone thinks. If you've ever been called “too nice,” struggled to set boundaries, or felt drained trying to please everyone — this one's for you. ✨ Who It's For: Chronic people pleasers who can't say no Anyone struggling with guilt, shame, or overgiving Women tired of being the “good girl” Anyone learning to protect their peace & energy
In this Super Human Life masterclass, Coach Frank Rich brings you a powerful compilation from three of our most impactful conversations with Annie Yatch — trauma expert, entrepreneur, and founder of NorthStar Leadership. Across these deep and revealing clips, Annie breaks down how unresolved trauma shapes who we love, how we lead, and the life we build. She unpacks the hidden ways our childhood stories, nervous system, and subconscious beliefs are running the show — influencing our relationships, businesses, and even our sense of purpose. Whether you're a high-performing man, an entrepreneur, or a husband trying to lead with strength and compassion, this masterclass will show you how to recognize the role trauma plays in your patterns — and how to turn that pain into power. Annie's frameworks bridge trauma healing, nervous-system regulation, and masculine/feminine polarity, offering practical tools for staying calm in conflict, leading your relationships from grounded strength, and finally finding freedom from the chaos that once defined you. If you've ever felt stuck in the same emotional cycles, struggled to stay present with your partner, or wondered why success still doesn't feel fulfilling — this episode will help you connect the dots between your inner story and your external world. Expect To Learn The hidden role of trauma in attraction: why we're subconsciously drawn to partners who mirror our childhood wounds. How trauma distorts polarity: what happens when feminine energy leans into masculine control, and how to restore balance and safety in love. Reading relationship dynamics: signs your wife or girlfriend is operating too much from her masculine — and what to do about it. How to stay calm and neutral in conflict: the mindset and nervous-system tools to respond instead of react. Integrating your masculine and feminine sides: how real strength comes from emotional awareness and internal balance. Why entrepreneurs are addicted to chaos: understanding trauma-driven success and the addiction to adrenaline, crisis, and control. The story that runs your life: how your subconscious childhood narrative shapes your relationships, business, and reality. Why men struggle with vulnerability: the link between safety, emotional connection, and masculine openness. Healing for young men: how men in their 20s can start connecting heart and mind to break generational cycles. Annie's personal story: her journey from trauma to transformation and how it shaped her work in leadership and coaching. How trauma becomes calling: turning pain into purpose by rewriting the story that once held you captive. Victimhood vs. ownership: how unhealed trauma breeds a victim mindset — and how to break free. Trauma, the subconscious, and your nervous system: why your body remembers what your mind tries to forget. Gut health and trauma: how your microbiome affects mood, emotional regulation, and healing. Finding your calling in life: connecting your greatest pain to your God-given purpose. Love & leadership in partnership: how to build a business with your spouse without losing intimacy or polarity. The biggest lies we tell ourselves about relationships — and how truth sets us free. Guest Bio — Annie Yatch Annie Yatch is a trauma-informed performance coach, speaker, and founder of NorthStar Leadership School, where she helps entrepreneurs and high-performing leaders heal the unconscious trauma that limits their relationships, leadership, and success. After building multiple seven-figure businesses, Annie turned her focus toward helping others break free from self-sabotage, emotional disconnection, and chaos addiction — guiding them to lead with clarity, compassion, and balance. --- Connect with Frank and The Super Human Life on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/584284948647477/ Website: http://www.thesuperhumanlifepodcast.com/tshlhome YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjB4UrpxtNO2AFtDURMzoKQ
Financial advisor and author Mark Matson joins Behavioral Grooves to explore what the American Dream means today—and whether it's truly attainable for everyone. We dig into his view that fulfillment comes from mindset, not money, and examine how behavioral biases can sabotage our financial decisions. But as we discuss the tension between personal responsibility and systemic headwinds, we also ask: can discipline and optimism alone really guarantee success? Topics [0:00] A quick word with Kurt and Tim - Struggling with the American Dream [5:08] Speed Round with Mark Matson [9:20] Cognitive Biases in Investing [16:00] Victimhood vs Agency [23:58] Why Investors Are Their Own Worst Enemy [27:12] Behavioral Economics and Bad Decisions [38:45] The Three Rules for Smarter Investing [44:58] Defining “Enough” [51:13] How to Find Purpose and Find Your Groove [58:50] Desert Island Music Picks [1:01:12] Grooving Session: Nuance, Privilege, and Perspective ©2025 Behavioral Grooves Help Behavioral Grooves stay independent and science-focused by becoming a paid subscriber or making a one-time donation. Support our work Links About Mark Experience the American Dream: How to Invest Your Time, Energy, and Money to Create an Extraordinary Life by Mark Matson Join us on Substack! Join the Behavioral Grooves community Subscribe to Behavioral Grooves on YouTube Musical Links Billy Joel - We Didn't Start the Fire Morgan Wallen - I Got Better
ResourcesJoin the TikTok Growth AcceleratorExplore Reclaim Inner SovereigntyRepurpose Ai: Streamline your content creation and repurpose effortlessly with Repurpose Ai.Later Content Scheduling: Simplify your social media strategy with Later.Flodesk: Elevate your email marketing with Flodesk – get 50% off your first year using this link.Other Resources:Submit a question to be featured on the podcast and receive live coaching! Send a voice note or fill out the question form.Where To Find Us:Instagram: @sigma.wmnTikTok: @sigma.wmnNewsletter: Subscribe here.Threads: @sigma.wmn.Manifestation is not a mindset alone. It is a practice powered by energy, choice and consistent action. In this conversation with Alison from Reclaim Inner Sovereignty, we unpack what is missing in many manifestation journeys and why trying to call in results from a state of burnout will keep you stuck. You will hear a grounded approach that blends nervous system care, soul-level work and clear strategy so your efforts have the energy they need to land.We explore how self-responsibility dissolves victim mentality, how to interrupt old patterns with practical tools, and why being self-resourced is the foundation for a life and business that actually expands. Alison shares her story, a values-led method for evolutionary manifestation, and the difference between subconscious reprogramming and deeper soul work when you are ready for sustainable change.If you are ready to move from wishing to creating, this episode offers a pathway to become resourced, make aligned choices, and take action that compounds. Tune in to hear:What is likely missing in your manifestation journey and how to fix it.Why burned out energy blocks results and how to restore capacity.How being self-resourced turns desires into consistent action and outcomes.Find the Complete Show Notes Here → https://sigmawmn.com/podcastIn This Episode, You'll Learn:How to identify energy leaks and rebuild capacity so your actions have power.How to shift from victim mindset to self-responsibility using choice and accountability.How to combine soul-level work with practical strategy for sustainable results.How consistency, clear branding and smart outsourcing create space for growth.Themes & Time Stamps:[0:45] Introduction and TikTok Accelerator Announcement[3:28] Guest Introduction: Alison of Reclaim Inner Sovereignty, Evolutionary Manifestation Guide[5:14] The Importance of Energy in Manifestation and Business[8:48] The Role of Mindset and Letting Go of Victimhood[12:43] Why Manifestation Isn't One-Size-Fits-All[13:28] Patterns in Manifestation: Delayed Results[14:36] Common Manifestation Pitfalls: Pedestals and Blind Spots[16:41] The Role of Subconscious and Soul-Level Healing[18:01] Energy as the Currency of Manifestation[21:06] The Importance of Physical Energy and Movement[22:24] Blind Spots: Not Generating Enough Energy[23:34] Advice for Listeners: Tailor Your Manifestation Approach[24:03] Business Coaching and Branding Experience[25:04] The Impact of Consistent Content and Branding[26:32] Outsourcing and Energy Management in Business[29:57] How to Start Working with Alison of Reclaim Inner Sovereignty
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The modern love economy turns seduction into calculus. Beats that once celebrated devotion now sound like quarterly reports scored by 808s. GloRilla's defiance, Nicki Minaj's audit of desire, Lil Kim's monetized mantra—each line announces a shift from victimhood to strategy. Yet beneath the glitter hides an inversion of the oldest script: men no longer appear as sole hunters. Women fluent in the dialect of scarcity sometimes pursue wounded men as capital—resources measured in status, income, or insecurity.
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On this episode of Fox Across America, Jimmy Failla explains how New York City mayoral candidate Zohran Mamdani's closing message to voters in the Big Apple has been focused on turning himself into a victim of supposed Islamophobia. Co-Anchor of “America's Newsroom” Bill Hemmer stops by to break down what it would take for a Republican to win the mayoral race in New York again. WPHT Radio host Rich Zeoli checks in to discuss the close gubernatorial races in New Jersey and Virginia. PLUS, Former Trump 2024 Campaign Deputy Communications Director Caroline Sunshine makes her in-studio debut and tells us how Hollywood and politics both have an authenticity problem. [00:00:00] Mamdani clarifies comment about his aunt [00:39:03] Rich Zeoli [00:56:30] Rich Zeoli part two [01:16:50] NBA illegal gambling scandal update [01:35:30] Caroline Sunshine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
The Mindful Healers Podcast with Dr. Jessie Mahoney and Dr. Ni-Cheng Liang
A mindful, honest, and hopeful exploration of victimhood in medicine—what it is, how it shows up, and why so many of us feel trapped, powerless, and unseen within a deeply flawed system. We invite you to listen with curiosity and self-compassion, knowing that if you've found yourself here—tired, discouraged, or resigned—you are not alone, and nothing is wrong with you. Rather than shaming or simplifying, we offer this conversation as a compassionate mirror and a naming of what's real with clarity, awareness, and care. We unpack moral injury, systemic betrayal, learned helplessness, and the quiet culture of resignation that seeps into even the most well-intentioned among us. Naming where we are is the essential first step to healing. This is part one of a two-part series. In this episode, we shine a mindful light on the roots of victimhood. In part two, we will offer mindful paths forward from powerlessness to purpose. Pearls of Wisdom: Victimhood is not weakness, it's a human, protective response to chronic dysfunction. And it's not where you want to live. Naming victimhood with empathy, not judgment, allows us to reclaim agency, even within a broken system. Noticing where we give away our power is the first mindful step toward healing and change. Systemic “solutions” like suggestion boxes may unintentionally reinforce helplessness unless paired with authentic engagement and choice. Reflection Questions: When have you felt the most powerless in medicine? What helps you feel safe and what erodes that sense of safety? What would it mean to believe that you still have influence, even in a broken system? Don't miss the Mindful Moment at the end of this episode. It's an opportunity to ground, reflect, and reconnect to your inner wisdom with clarity and compassion. If this conversation resonates, I invite you to explore coaching with me to help you name and shift patterns of disempowerment in your life and career: www.jessiemahoneymd.com/coaching You can also join me at a Pause & Presence Retreat—a nurturing, transformational space to reconnect to what matters most: www.jessiemahoneymd.com/retreats If you would like to bring a more mindful, compassionate approach to your institution, team, or training program, I'd be honored to speak or lead a workshop: www.jessiemahoneymd.com/speaking You can also invite Dr. Liang to speak or lead a breathwork workshop for your group: www.awakenbreath.org Together, one mindful conversation at a time, we can shift the culture of medicine. Nothing shared in the Healing Medicine Podcast is medical advice.
In this episode, Lee breaks down the irony of Senator Lindsey Graham positioning himself as a victim of the Justice Department while having actively funded the very investigations targeting Donald Trump. From Jack Smith's political inquisition to Graham's votes for new FBI resources, Lee exposes the contradictions and consequences of trusting the “uni-party” system. Listeners will hear a detailed analysis of how political alliances can backfire, the lessons from history, and the real motivations behind Graham's public complaints. This episode is a must-listen for anyone tracking the intersections of politics, accountability, and power plays in Washington.
What if everything you've been told about anxiety only scratches the surface? We're taught to quiet our thoughts, reframe our worries, and “think positive.” But what if the real root of anxiety isn't in your head at all, it's in your body? In this transformative episode of the HEAL with Kelly Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Russell Kennedy - physician, neuroscientist, and best-selling author of Anxiety Rx, who has made it his life's mission to uncover what truly heals anxiety. Drawing from his own decades-long struggle with crippling worry, psychedelic journeys, and breakthroughs in somatic healing, Dr. Kennedy reveals how anxiety is actually an alarm state stored in the body, often rooted in unresolved childhood trauma. Together, we explore why coping strategies and pharmaceuticals often fall short, and how practices like “sensation without explanation,” breathwork, and inner child connection open the door to real healing. Dr. Kennedy also shares why suppressed anger can turn children into adults locked in victimhood, how worry tricks the brain into false certainty, and why reclaiming a spiritual connection with yourself may be the missing piece in resolving anxiety. This episode is practical, eye-opening, and deeply human. If you've ever wrestled with anxiety or love someone who has, Dr. Kennedy's wisdom will help you understand it in a whole new way, and guide you back to a place of calm, safety, and inner trust. Key Moments You'll Love ✨:
Finding Superman: How Did Humanity Get So Soft? Somewhere along the way, humanity traded its hunger for comfort—and in doing so, tamed the tiger within. In this episode, Dr. JC Doornick (The Dragon) takes you on a journey from the streets of post-earthquake Haiti to the philosophy of Friedrich Nietzsche, exploring how society, culture, and convenience have softened our edge, silenced our will to power, and lulled us into complacency. Through stories, philosophy, and reflection, you'll rediscover Nietzsche's concept of the Übermensch—the human who dares to rise above conformity, reclaim meaning, and say yes to life even in the storm. This is not about judgment. It's about remembering who we are, what we're capable of, and what it takes to awaken the untamed creator within. Because the world doesn't need more comfort, it requires more courage. The tiger's still there—waiting for you to let it out of its cage. Make Sense?
In this episode, Shanti goes to "back to school" night and discovers some things never change, while Antoinette prepares herself for a winter of quality entertainment. After listening to caller voicemails, we discuss victimhood. Are we active participants in our own suffering? Do we find comfort in confusion and chaos? Are we afraid to choose differently? Can you have high self esteem and still be a victim to life's challenges? Why or why not? Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
"Come, Follow Me" is a FVChurch fall 2025 series, about following Jesus into adventure and purpose. Find sermon notes, discussion questions, and more, at: https://fv.church/media-blog-2025/2025/8/24/come-follow-me
In this episode of Mere Fidelity, Derek Rishmawy, Alastair Roberts, James Wood, and Joseph Minich engage in a deep and sobering discussion about the recent assassination of Charlie Kirk, reflecting on the implications of violence in society, the reactions to such events, and the role of social media in shaping narratives. They explore the need for a Christian response to violence, emphasizing the importance of prayer, community engagement, and the teachings of Augustine on justice and retaliation. The conversation highlights the fragility of societal discourse and the necessity of maintaining a Christ-centered perspective amidst chaos. Chapters 00:00 - Reflections on a Tragic Event 03:57 - Identifying with the Victim 06:35 - Political Assassination 09:06 - Weight of Darkness 14:32 - Shocking Reactions Uncovered 19:44 - Meme Warfare 23:22 - Responsible or Reckless Rhetoric 27:22 - Asymmetrical in Narrative and Victimhood 33:29 - Girard Everywhere 38:09 - Time to Process 42:45 - Do Not Fear or Retaliate 48:47 - The Power of Prayer in Crisis
https://eggshelltherapy.com/podcast-blog/2025/09/24/drlilie/Today, we are fortunate to have Dr. Lilie Chouliaraki with us. She is a Professor in Media and Communications at the London School of Economics and has spent her career examining how the media discusses human suffering and our own vulnerability.We are going to explore her work on how approaches to helping people have evolved over time. She walks us through the concept of "post-humanitarianism," which examines how our sense of solidarity has shifted. It is less about a shared sense of humanity and more about personal benefit, a kind of self-focused, consumer-style activism.We also explore the highly complex but timely topic of victimhood identity. Dr. Chouliaraki discusses how the language of being a victim has become a powerful political tool. She has examined how this concept of victimhood is sometimes used, or even manipulated, by those who are already privileged to gain more power, a concept she calls the "weaponization of victimhood." This can happen in ways that actually reinforce inequalities rather than challenge them.About Dr. Lilie Chouliaraki Professor Lilie Chouliaraki is Chair in Media and Communications at LSE. She holds an MA and PhD from Lancaster University Department of Linguistics and a bachelor's degree from the School of Philosophy, University of Athens. In the past twenty-five years, her research has been examining how media shape our ethical and political relationships with vulnerable populations globally and how pain intersects with power relations in disaster news, humanitarian communication, migration, and conflict journalism across historical and digital contexts.Recently, Chouliaraki has focused on histories of victimhood within emotional capitalism, social media, and far-right populism. Her award-winning book "Wronged: The Weaponization of Victimhood" was published by Columbia University Press in 2024.She has received numerous international distincThe Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink PodcastCurious about Dominance & submission? Real stories, real fun, really kinky.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifyEggshell Therapy and Coaching: eggshelltherapy.com About Imi Lo: www.imiloimilo.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/eggshelltherapy_imilo/ Newsletters: https://eepurl.com/bykHRzDisclaimers: https://www.eggshelltherapy.com/disclaimers Trigger Warning: This episode may cover sensitive topics including but not limited to suicide, abuse, violence, severe mental illnesses, relationship challenges, sex, drugs, alcohol addiction, psychedelics, and the use of plant medicines. You are advised to refrain from watching or listening to the YouTube Channel or Podcast if you are likely to be offended or adversely impacted by any of these topics. Disclaimer: The content provided is for informational purposes only. Please do not consider any of the content clinical or professional advice. None of the content can substitute mental health intervention. Opinions and views expressed by the host and the guests are personal views and they reserve the right to change their opinions. We also cannot guarantee that everything mentioned is factual and completely accurate. Any action you take based on the information in this episode is taken at your own risk.
In this episode of Main Street Matters, Elaine Parker speaks with Dr. Chloe Carmichael about the significance of free speech, especially in the context of recent events and workplace dynamics. They discuss the challenges of navigating difficult conversations, the role of employers in managing speech, and the impact of victimhood on workplace culture. Dr. Carmichael emphasizes the importance of open dialogue for mental health and societal progress, offering strategies for fostering a culture of free expression in various settings. Pre-Order Dr. Chloe's NEW Book | https://www.drchloe.com/freespeech Learn more about Independent Women | https://www.independentwomen.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Is it ever okay to walk away from your own mother… or your husband? (Cue the gasps from the peanut gallery clutching their pearls.) If you grew up in church culture, you probably heard that honoring your parents and submitting to your husband meant swallowing abuse with a smile. But guess what? That's not actually what Jesus had in mind.In this episode, I sit down with Christian counselor and author Kris Reese (yes, the YouTube powerhouse with over 476,000 subscribers) to dismantle the toxic myths that keep Christian women chained to destructive relationships.Together, we talk about:The big guilt trip – Why Christians confuse “honor” with “obey” and how that keeps grown women stuck in parent-child dynamics with their 70-year-old mothers.The covenant conundrum – What makes walking away from a spouse more complicated, and why wisdom (not religious rule-keeping) is the real key.The fog machine – Fear, obligation, and guilt: the trifecta abusers use to keep you running in circles like a hamster who just discovered Peloton.Boundaries ≠ lack of forgiveness – FACTS: You can forgive your mom and still not show up to her guilt-drenched Sunday dinners. You can forgive your husband and still not share a bed with him while he weaponizes scripture against you.Manipulation tactics 101 – Victimhood and scripture-twisting are the go-to moves of toxic moms and spouses everywhere. (“You're not being a good daughter/wife” translates to: “My control over you is slipping and I hate it.”)Trauma bonds and porcupines – Why you might be clinging to the emotional equivalent of a barbed-wire teddy bear, and how to finally put it down without losing your sanity.Why Christians stay too long – It's not because they're lazy or selfish. It's because they've been conditioned to confuse holiness with masochism.Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources:Go to Kris' website to get on the waitlist so that you're the FIRST to know when her new book, Breaking the Narcissist's Grip, is released!Get her FREE Narcissist Survival Guide. Check out her YouTube channel.Connect with Kris on Instagram and Facebook.Kris Reece is a Christian counselor, author, and speaker who helps believers break free from toxic relationships and codependency biblically and practically. With over 30 years of combined personal and professional experience, Kris has guided thousands through the emotional wreckage left by narcissistic and manipulative relationships. She blends deep biblical truth with real-world strategies to help others reclaim their identity, rebuild confidence, and walk in the freedom Christ offers. Kris is the author of Breaking the Narcissist's Grip and host of a fast-growing YouTube channel where she equips Christians to set boundaries, overcome manipulation, break trauma bonds, and heal after toxic relationships.
Leaders often assume transformation comes from learning new skills or following the latest management trend. But real change begins when we confront our own beliefs, reflect deeply, and choose to step out of victimhood into agency. That inner work is what lays the foundation for lasting growth in how we lead and live. Only then can leaders create change that resonates far beyond the workplace.In this episode of the Happiness Squad Podcast, Ashish Kothari and Shawn Quinn talk about the deep reflection leaders need to build their own reality and move from victimhood to agency in life and leadership.Shawn Quinn is the Managing Partner of Lift Consulting and Faculty Director of the Positive Leadership program at the University of Michigan's Ross School of Business. A leading voice in positive leadership and organizational transformation, he has advised global companies including GE, Coca-Cola, American Express, and the U.S. Army. Shawn is also co-author of Leading Innovation: How to Jumpstart Your Organization's Growth Engine.Shawn and Ashish explored how transformation doesn't come from another training, another framework, or another leadership fad. It happens when we pause, reflect, and face the beliefs that hold us back.Things you will also learn in this episode:• Breaking free from a victim mindset• Why belief shifts matter more than skills in true transformation• The power of small experiments, reflection, and awareness to spark change• How leaders at any level—not just executives—can create meaningful impact• How workplace behaviors ripple outward into family, children, and community• The challenge of systems and people resisting changeTune in now and see for yourself how this shift unlocks the kind of transformation no trend or tactic can deliver.✅Resources:• Related episode: (Robert Quinn) https://player.captivate.fm/episode/1b7c5df6-06e1-4929-83d3-5849caa6b9b5 • Strengthsfinder by Gallup: https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/254033/strengthsfinder.aspx • A Fundamental State of Leadership Approach: https://scholar.valpo.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1444&context=jvbl • Charles Snyder's Hope Theory: https://www.mindtools.com/aov3izj/snyders-hope-theory • The Sunflower Model: https://player.captivate.fm/episode/ee784c9c-cf26-48df-b07f-b4c0dcc638f3 • The Sunflower Model: https://happinesssquad.com/the-sunflower-model-career-transition-guide-with-ashish-kothari/ • The Power of the 5:1 Ratio: https://michiganvirtual.org/blog/the-power-of-the-51-ratio-in-the-classroom-how-fostering-positive-interactions-can-transform-student-learning/ • Martin Seligman's Learned Helplessness:
In this episode of The Healers Café, Manon Bolliger, FCAH, RBHT (facilitator and retired naturopath with 30+ years of practice) speaks to Dr. Kelly Baron, a chiropractor and survivor of a violent assault, transformed her trauma into a journey of resilience and empowerment. She overcame her fear by participating in MMA fights and later shifted her focus to menopause and perimenopause, founding Tempesta to help women with genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM). Dr. Baron emphasizes the importance of mental resilience and self-care during menopause, advocating for a positive mindset and addressing the physical and emotional challenges. For the transcript and full story go to: https://www.drmanonbolliger.com/dr-kelly-baron Highlights from today's episode include: Transformation Through Adversity: Dr. Kelly shared how facing and overcoming trauma empowered her to reclaim her life, emphasizing that healing is an ongoing process and that women can adapt and grow stronger through challenges. Redefining Menopause: She highlighted the importance of viewing menopause as a positive transition and rebirth, encouraging women to embrace this phase with support, open conversation, and a shift in mindset from victimhood to empowerment. Challenging Cultural Stereotypes: Manon emphasized that cultural narratives and media shape negative perceptions of menopause, and advocated for self-acceptance, self-love, and viewing menopause as a natural, non-pathological life stage. ABOUT DR KELLY BARON: Dr. Kelly Barron, DC, is a dynamic chiropractor and survivor who transformed the scars of a violent assault into a powerful narrative of resilience and empowerment. A graduate of Life University with a Doctor of Chiropractic degree, she co-founded Tempesta and is a Certified Integrated Threat Response Instructor, equipping women with the tools to reclaim their strength and defy victimhood. As a mother of three, Dr. Barron balances family life with a fierce competitive spirit, shattering expectations with World Record titles in powerlifting, taking on the challenges of American Ninja Warrior, and boldly stepping into the MMA arena. Her relentless spirit dismantles stereotypes, inspiring others to rewrite their own stories of adversity with courage and determination. Dr. Barron's expertise extends to fostering mental and emotional resilience for women navigating all of life's transitions, embracing each stage with boldness and passion. With her fiery energy, Dr. Barron sparks transformation in every endeavor, empowering women to confront personal, physical, or societal challenges with unapologetic pride and resilience, leaving a lasting legacy of strength and defiance. Core purpose/passion: Dr. Kelly Barron is on a mission to shatter taboos and open up honest, raw discussions about the physical, emotional, and mental challenges women face during perimenopause and menopause. Here, no question is too personal or off-limits. Website | Facebook | LinkedIn | Instagram | YouTube ABOUT MANON BOLLIGER, FCAH, RBHT As a de-registered (2021) board-certified naturopathic physician & in practice since 1992, I've seen an average of 150 patients per week and have helped people ranging from rural farmers in Nova Scotia to stressed out CEOs in Toronto to tri-athletes here in Vancouver. My resolve to educate, empower and engage people to take charge of their own health is evident in my best-selling books: 'What Patients Don't Say if Doctors Don't Ask: The Mindful Patient-Doctor Relationship' and 'A Healer in Every Household: Simple Solutions for Stress'. I also teach BowenFirst™ Therapy through and hold transformational workshops to achieve these goals. So, when I share with you that LISTENING to Your body is a game changer in the healing process, I am speaking from expertise and direct experience". Manon's Mission: A Healer in Every Household! For more great information to go to her weekly blog: http://bowencollege.com/blog. For tips on health & healing go to: https://www.drmanonbolliger.com/tips Follow Manon on Social – Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube | Twitter | Linktr.ee | Rumble ABOUT THE HEALERS CAFÉ: Manon's show is the #1 show for medical practitioners and holistic healers to have heart to heart conversations about their day to day lives. Subscribe and review on your favourite platform: iTunes | Google Play | Spotify | Libsyn | iHeartRadio | Gaana | The Healers Cafe | Radio.com | Medioq | Follow The Healers Café on FB: https://www.facebook.com/thehealerscafe Remember to subscribe if you like our videos. Click the bell if you want to be one of the first people notified of a new release. * De-Registered, revoked & retired naturopathic physician after 30 years of practice in healthcare. Now resourceful & resolved to share with you all the tools to take care of your health & vitality!
In this episode of Money on My Mind, I break down why mastering money isn't about complicated formulas or secret investment hacks—it's about your relationship with money. At its core, money is simple: spend less than you make, invest the difference, and let time compound your returns. But fear, guilt, shame, and identity conflicts often sabotage even the smartest strategies. I share how subconscious beliefs, childhood programming, and emotional barriers can keep you stuck in a cycle of avoidance and scarcity, and I give you practical steps to reset your money mindset for long-term success. This conversation will challenge your beliefs, push you to confront your fears, and give you a framework for aligning your identity with abundance. Key Talking Points of the Episode 00:00 Introduction 00:37 How your emotions about money make it complicated 01:38 The 3-step playbook: spend less than you make, invest the difference, let time work 02:27 The role of fear, guilt, and mindset blocks in your relationship with money 05:12 The unknown factor: why people fear investing like they fear the “unknown villain” in a movie 07:02 Scarcity and procrastination: why people hoard money instead of investing 08:10 Subconscious programming and avoidance behaviors 10:40 Guilt and shame: linking mistakes with self-worth keeps people stuck 11:42 Why avoiding your budget or bank account makes the problem worse 13:03 Identity conflict: “I grew up poor, I'm not supposed to be rich” 16:06 How labels hold you back from achieving your financial goals 18:02 Victimhood vs. ownership: why externalizing blame disempowers you 21:40 Breaking from the matrix mindset and thinking independently about money 24:53 Personal story: saving every paycheck at McDonald's, losing $1M in potential investments 28:35 Why environment and belief systems dictate results (Budget Dog Academy framework) 33:02 The two keys to success: focus and not giving up 36:00 Conviction, belief, and aligning your identity with your desired outcome Quotables “If you save money and don't invest it, you are guaranteed to lose money through inflation.” “You are your own problem, therefore you are your own solution.” “Your confusion, fear, and avoidance—not money itself—are the real enemy.” Links The Roadmap to Financial Freedom https://budgetdogacademy.com/order-now Budgetdog https://budgetdog.com/ Brennan Schlagbaum https://www.instagram.com/budgetdog
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PBD Podcast breaks down a Jubilee clip where a self-described mentally ill activist rejects help and ignites a debate on victimhood, personal agency, and socialism vs capitalism. Pat challenges claims, offers real options, and the panel tackles entitlement, academia, and why responsibility wins.
Send us a textHaving a great interest in mind control, I discovered Jason Christoff at NCI - National Citizens Inquiry - an amazing Canadian people-led group diving into what went wrong during Covid. The present theme and question is Are children safe in Canada? (I spoke on the Flexner Report of 1920 in Edmonton in March 2025. The Flexner Report sabotaged our medical system by making our health care solely allopathic, excluding systems of medicine such as homeopathy, naturopathic medicine, chiropractic, midwifery and traditional osteopathy.) Jason has spoken on the subject of mind control at the US Senate and at the EU, Japanese and Romanian Parliaments. Jason operates an international psychological reprogramming institute where he teaches health professionals and members of the general public how to use positive forms of mind control, to make their lives (and the lives of their patients) better.Jason is set to release his first documentary titled PLANET MIND CONTROLthis fall, 2025. In order to win the battle we're all in today Jason believes that each citizen must educate on the basics, in relation to how mind control works and how to avoid becoming a victim of it.Victimhood is another topic I hope to discuss through this podcast as I regain equilibrium after my husband's death by medical error. To that end my one woman show will start off as a radio play. I hope to have it ready to air by October 2025.This journey of grieving has been intense and I want to thank so many- family, friends, strangers, new friends from Har El, the grief group out at N Van City Library as well as PJ and Beau for almost daily walks. And NCI for hope and strength to get our world on a better course. So much love, so much support has come my way...and I am sooo grateful.Jason grew up in Truro, Nova Scotia so this episode is dedicated to my cherished Maritime sisters and brothers and friends, who are confined by the ridiculous edict to not go into the woods today. Much love to all and please pray for attorney Reinier Fuellmich who is imprisoned in Germany for political reasons.Relevant books for this episode include: Rape of the Mind by Joost Merlo 1950s psychiatristAnything by Hannah Arendt, German Jewish American, probably the greatest philosopher of the 20th centuryEssays and books by Matthias Desmet, Belgian professor and Support the show#Creativity in Healing #Medicalfreedom #MindControl #Canadaontheedge #HealthCanada #CanadaLaw #TrueHope #truth #apocaloptimist #transformingtrauma #grief #grievingdeeply #homeopathy #loveheals #naturopathicmedicine #druglessmedicine #energymedicine #expressiveartsheal #empoweredvoices #knowledgeispower #singtohealthyroids #erasetoxiclegacies #peaceispossible #VictimeRecoveryBooks: Transforming Trauma, a drugless and creative path to healing PTS and ACE is published by Hammersmith Books is available globally. Surviving a Viral Pandemic through the lens of a naturopathic medical doctor. On Amazon both paperback and eBookFlawed, a novel - an eccentric family saga - is on Amazon both paperback and eBook...audiobook now on Audible Music: Instrumental album: Sophie's Heart - Avi Noam Gross (streaming)Workshop coming in October. Pls email drheatherworkshops@icloud.com. websites: drheatherington.com; heatherherington.comemail: drheatherh@icloud.com new phone number 672 399 1942Breathe in and out slowly and gently wherever you are. We will survive this dark time of the world. It starts with you: standing, jumping, singing in the light of love and even if just a little at first, joy.
#115: On today's episode, Kimmy Nguyen, content creator and founder of Blushing Agency, jumps on the podcast to share her vulnerable journey. She shares her healing after discovering dark truths around her biological father and her journey back to hope. The girls get into: growing up in chaotic family dynamicshitting rock bottomnavigating a mother with narcissismuncovering family secrets and maneuvering generational traumacultural expectations and how they impact living authenticallythe importance of getting real when it comes to our own healing the impact that living in victimhood has on our own healingnavigating betrayal and moving into a place of acceptancerecognizing judgement in our own thought patternstips for moving toward peacenavigating adult friendshiplearning to trust others and develop connection& MORECONNECT BELOW:follow Kimmy herefollow her agency hereCONNECT with HAN:follow Han herefollow HOW I SEE IT hereshop the podcast merch herework with Han: howhanseesit@gmail.com
A deep dive into the unconscious roles of Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor, and how the Drama Triangle drives conflict, disempowerment, and division in both personal and collective life.
RAW Recovery Hosted by Dion Miller Subscribe to our YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@thedailytrudge3367 RAW Recovery is a podcast built on real conversations, not canned stories. Hosted by Dion Miller, who brings over 20 years of experience interviewing people and supporting others through recovery-related work, this show offers honest, unfiltered dialogue about addiction, sobriety, and healing. Dion has spent two decades connected to recovery—from working in detox and treatment to prevention and outreach—and now uses podcasting as a new way to help others. RAW Recovery isn't about one-size-fits-all solutions. It's about real people, from all walks of life, sharing their journeys in their own words. What makes RAW Recovery different? It's not a scripted narrative or a host-driven spotlight. It's a conversation. The guest is the focus. The stories are raw, the emotions are real, and the goal is simple: to let people know they're not alone. Whether you're in recovery, seeking help, or just listening to learn, RAW Recovery is here for the tough talks that can lead to healing.
Wednesday Night Live 20 August 2025Philosopher Stefan Molyneux explore the intersections of philosophy, personal challenges, and belief systems. He discusses the evolution of HR practices away from productivity and towards ideological compliance, questioning the influence of leftist ideologies on corporate efficiency. Through engaging calls, he shares insights from watching "Dear Liar," prompting a critique of societal conditioning versus individual talent.Stef and callers delve into belief systems, drawing on Stef's atheistic perspective and the importance of logical reasoning over emotional conviction. The conversation navigates the themes of personal responsibility versus victimhood, encouraging listeners to embrace humility while confronting their realities. Concluding with personal narratives of overcoming struggles, Stefan invites further dialogue, urging an active pursuit of understanding and self-discovery through philosophical inquiry.FOLLOW ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxGET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
In today's episode, we have the pleasure to interview Rick Walker, author of 9 Steps to Build a Life of Meaning: How to Unlock Your Mind, Happiness, Power, and Your Enemies' Demise.Rick is a high-impact founder, philosopher, and private equity leader who built a 400-person company by age 26, scaled a 2,000+ team member nonprofit across 53 countries, and helped bring $5 billion in capital investment to his hometown. He's advised billionaires, met privately with a U.S. President, and draws his insights from a lifetime of studying ancient texts, world religions, and strategic leadership.In this episode, you'll learn how to escape a life of comfort that's killing your potential, why choosing a worthy enemy is the fastest way to unlock purpose, and what it truly takes to sacrifice the present to win the future.We hope you enjoy this incredible conversation with Rick Walker.To Learn More about Rick and buy his book visit: The Book: https://a.co/d/flqGgNfWebsite/Socials: https://rickwalker.com/https://twitter.com/RickWalkerTXhttps://www.facebook.com/RickWalkerTXhttps://www.youtube.com/@rickwalkertxhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/rickwalkertx/Chapters: 0:00 Intro0:48 Men rarely value what they don't earn3:35 Victimhood & what you attract5:41 Wisdom is trading short term discomfort for long term gain9:08 Choosing a worthy enemy to fight12:14 Regret as an enemy15:32 Your attention is a form of love17:51 Priorities and saying no21:06 Unmet potential as an enemy to fight23:12 Rick's morning routine & habit system27:12 Wisdom that stands the passing of time33:08 Stories on doing what is right39:05 A warrior in a garden vs A gardener in war41:38 Having something to fight for as a country47:33 Where to connnect with Rick49:08 Hope threatens the world's threats50:01 Rick's book recs & biggest mentors________________________________________________Join the world's largest non-fiction Book community!https://www.instagram.com/bookthinkers/The purpose of this podcast is to connect you, the listener, with new books, new mentors, and new resources that will help you achieve more and live better. Each and every episode will feature one of the world's top authors so that you know each and every time you tune-in, there is something valuable to learn. If you have any recommendations for guests, please DM them to us on Instagram. (www.instagram.com/bookthinkers)If you enjoyed this show, please consider leaving a review. It takes less than 60-seconds of your time, and really makes a difference when I am trying to land new guests. For more BookThinkers content, check out our Instagram or our website. Thank you for your time!
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The death of the mainstream media has emboldened far right charlatans Nick Cohen talks to author and journalist James Bloodworth about the evolving nature of politics and media in today's digital age. James explores how traditional media institutions are losing influence while online platforms and personalities mainly of the radical and far right have become more prominent, particularly noting how successful figures leverage algorithms and controversial content to gain attention.The strange death of the mainstream mediaJames Bloodworth discusses the changing media landscape, noting that traditional media outlets like newspapers and TV networks are losing relevance, especially among younger audiences. He observes that podcasts and social media have become more influential, with figures like Joe Rogan and Andrew Tate gaining significant followings. Bloodworth explains that successful online personalities often understand algorithms and use outrageous statements to gain attention, both from supporters and critics.Victimhood is pay-dirt for online Radicalised RightJames Bloodworth says radical right figures are earning online fortunes with simple messaging, saying "You slowly learn that the nuanced articles don't get as many clicks and subscriptions, and people sending you money as the more inflammatory articles." He described figures such as Matthew Goodwin as "very obviously leaning into the white supremo types who give him money on his Substack." He adds, "I don't know how much of this stuff he actually believes, but he's willing to surf that wave because it because it seems to be making him quite a lot of money."Online far right wingers are guilty of bad faith & hypocrisy James says right wing charlatans are always banging on about free speech when it came to people jailed for inciting violence against immigrants like the wife of a Tory councillor, Lucy Connolly, while demanding the banning of pro-Palestinian protests. James adds, "I know there are people at those protests who have said anti-semitic things, and that there have been anti-semitic chants. But... there's a complete double standard. I think it's all bad faith, and I think the accusations, particularly against Keir Starmer of two-tiered justice, are completely absurd, considering he was involved in the prosecution of people following the 2011 riots."Read all about it!James Bloodworth, @J_Bloodworth, the author of The Lost Boys, A personal journey through the Manosphere published on June 5th by Atlantic Books. James's Sustack is For the Desk Drawer.Nick Cohen's regular Substack column Writing from London on politics and culture from the UK and beyond is another must-read. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode, we're diving deep into the latest breakthroughs in integrative mental health and wellness with special guest Kirkland Newman, founder of the Mind Health 360. Kirkland is an Anglo-American journalist, philanthropist, and Founder of MindHealth360, a global platform dedicated to integrative mental health and functional medicine psychiatry. Get full transcript, audio, video & downloads of this episode here: https://www.jillcarnahan.com/kirkland... SIGN UP NOW FOR IMMH! Link: https://www.immh.org/immh-2025/?ref=1265 Discount code for $50 off registration: CARNAHAN50 Key Topics You'll Discover: ① The surprising link between mitochondria and mental health – and why morning light and movement are your brain's best friends. ② How childhood trauma impacts your body's immune response and can drive chronic illnesses like mold sensitivity and Lyme disease. ③ The real talk on functional medicine: what's working, what's not, and the simple daily habits that make a powerful difference. ④ Insights from thought leaders like Dr. Gabor Maté, Dr. Emran Meyer, and Dr. Dale Bredesen.
On this episode of “Fearless,” Jason Whitlock addresses claims that Shedeur Sanders is “being set up to fail,” as he is slated to start for the Browns tonight against the Panthers. Whitlock argues that Sanders has never had to compete for a job, because he's convinced his father, Deion Sanders, and people like Stephen A. Smith that he shouldn't have to. Guests Steve Kim and T.J. Moe join the show to weigh in on Sanders, injuries plaguing Colts QB Anthony Richardson, the ongoing sex-toy saga making a joke of the WNBA, and Dave Portnoy's latest eye-raising comments. During the always entertaining As the WNBA Turns segment, Whitlock is joined by a panel of guests who break down the Mercury trouncing the Fever last night and what the players' performances mean for Caitlin Clark's team. Dynamic show today; don't miss it! Today's Sponsors: CBDistillery If better sleep, less stress, and pain relief after exercise sound good to you, you need to hear about CBD from CBDistillery. Visit https://CBDistillery.com and enter code VIP to save up to 50% on everything. SHOW OUTLINE 00:00 Intro Want more Fearless content? Subscribe to Jason Whitlock Harmony for a biblical perspective on everyday issues at https://www.youtube.com/@JasonWhitlockHarmony?sub_confirmation=1 Jeffery Steele and Jason Whitlock welcome musical guests for unique interviews and performances that you won't want to miss! Subscribe to https://youtube.com/@JasonWhitlockBYOG?sub_confirmation=1 We want to hear from the Fearless Army!! Join the conversation in the show chat, leave a comment or email Jason at FearlessBlazeShow@gmail.com Get 10% off Blaze swag by using code Fearless10 at https://shop.blazemedia.com/fearless Make yourself an official member of the “Fearless Army!” Support Conservative Voices! Subscribe to BlazeTV at https://www.fearlessmission.com and get $20 off your yearly subscription. Visit https://TheBlaze.com. Explore the all-new ad-free experience and see for yourself how we're standing up against suppression and prioritizing independent journalism. CLICK HERE to Subscribe to Jason Whitlock's YouTube: https://bit.ly/3jFL36G CLICK HERE to Listen to Jason Whitlock's podcast: https://apple.co/3zHaeLTCLICK HERE to Follow Jason Whitlock on X: https://bit.ly/3hvSjiJ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jamie Lynn is a marriage and family therapist, FHM cover model, and returning guest on the podcast. She openly shares her personal journey through abuse, healing, and professional growth, offering insight into mental health, narcissism, and self-worth. Her experience gives her a powerful and compassionate voice in both therapy and public conversations. 00:00:00 – Intro 00:01:12 – Clarifying The Drama 00:02:25 – Is He a Narcissist or Just Not Into You? 00:03:37 – Patterns vs Red Flags 00:04:50 – Empathy or Lip Service? 00:06:02 – Women and the Victim Mindset 00:07:15 – Misusing Pop Psychology 00:08:27 – Victimhood as an Identity 00:09:40 – Manipulation Through Guilt 00:10:53 – The Trap of Empath Label 00:12:05 – Nobody Really Cares 00:13:18 – “That Won't Work for Me” Syndrome 00:14:30 – Linking Therapy & Fitness 00:15:43 – Physical Health, Mental Health 00:16:55 – Skirting Around the Truth 00:18:08 – What Body Positivity Hides 00:19:20 – Therapists and Avoidance 00:20:33 – CBT vs Real Change 00:21:46 – Rewiring the Brain 00:22:58 – Behavioral Activation Basics 00:24:11 – Depression vs Inactivity 00:25:24 – The “Just Move” Advice Debate 00:26:36 – Labeling People Isn't Helpful 00:27:49 – Diagnosing Doesn't Fix It 00:29:01 – Narcissist vs NPD 00:30:14 – Court-Ordered Therapy Explained 00:31:27 – Behavior Without Remorse 00:32:39 – Stop Dating Red Flags 00:33:52 – Healing Without Closure 00:35:04 – Bullet Removal Analogy 00:36:17 – Imposter Syndrome or Self-Doubt 00:37:30 – Split Thinking in Success 00:38:42 – The Root is Low Self-Esteem 00:39:55 – Specific vs Situational Confidence 00:41:07 – Authenticity vs Insecurity 00:42:20 – Childhood Trauma & Belief 00:43:32 – Abusive Home Life 00:44:45 – Religious Confusion & Abuse 00:45:57 – Growing Through Education 00:47:10 – Forgiveness Is For You 00:48:22 – Letting Go of Justice 00:49:35 – Closure Is Not Reconnection 00:50:48 – Resentment Bonds You 00:52:00 – Forgiveness and Spiritual Freedom 00:53:13 – Narcissist Still Controls You 00:54:25 – Heal to Stop Obsessing 00:55:38 – Abundance as Antidote 00:56:51 – Betrayal Still Hurts 00:58:03 – Forgiveness Is Daily Work 00:59:16 – Busy Over Bitter 01:00:28 – Power of Forward Vision 01:01:41 – No One Is Coming to Save You 01:02:53 – How She Met Her Ex 01:04:06 – Attracted to Power 01:05:18 – First Signs of Manipulation 01:06:31 – Creating Jealousy Early 01:07:43 – Triangulation Tactics 01:08:56 – Control Through Insecurity 01:10:08 – Going to Therapy After Abuse 01:11:21 – Why She Chose Psychology 01:12:34 – Knowing Her Purpose Early 01:13:46 – Happiness Through Work 01:14:59 – Not Idle, Not Depressed 01:16:11 – Focus on the Future 01:17:24 – Saving Herself, Not Waiting 01:18:36 – First Red Flags in Marriage 01:19:49 – Idealizing False Safety 01:21:02 – Ignoring the Warning Signs 01:22:14 – When Love is a Trauma Bond 01:23:27 – Psychological Abuse Isn't Loud 01:24:39 – The Power of Projection 01:25:52 – Living for Someone Else 01:27:04 – Silence as a Weapon 01:28:17 – Leaving Without Closure 01:29:30 – Self-Worth After Breakup 01:30:42 – Dating While Healing 01:31:55 – Falling Into Old Patterns 01:33:07 – Looking for Safe Chaos 01:34:20 – Why Trauma Feels Like Home 01:35:33 – Fantasy Relationships 01:36:45 – Emotional Safety vs Excitement 01:37:58 – Recognizing Real Love 01:39:10 – Drama Isn't Chemistry 01:40:23 – Trust Takes Time 01:41:35 – Slow is Safe 01:42:48 – Conflict Avoidance Patterns 01:44:01 – Learning to Speak Up 01:45:13 – Boundaries Are Self-Love 01:46:26 – When to Walk Away 01:47:38 – Coaching vs Counseling 01:48:51 – What Clients Really Need 01:50:04 – Accountability Over Validation 01:51:16 – The Truth About Change 01:52:29 – Helping People Who Won't Help Themselves 01:53:41 – Final Thoughts on Narcissism 01:54:54 – Leaving the Past Behind 01:56:06 – Stay Grounded in Reality 01:57:19 – The Power of Reflection 01:58:31 – Own Your Healing 01:59:44 – Thank You Jamie Lynn
Could It Happen Anywhere? Listen to the rhythm of things that never die. —Mark Nepo, “For a Long Time” Worried about what was to come, I went to the river and listened to the constant song as water met stone, met log, met wall. The endless white hush of it. Song of building up banks. Song of tearing them down. Song of surrender to invisible force. Song of change that is ever the same and not the same. And in the listening, I found refuge—not in the longing to hide, not in the sound— I found refuge in the listening. Refuge in the opening of the senses. In attuning to what is here. Wave and current and eddy and flow and the attentiveness that lives through this woman. And I listened and listened, listened to it all, and was opened by listening. At some point the listener disappeared. What was left was listening itself. For a time, peace found me there. Intention To wonder. To wonder with no plan for where it might lead. No strategy for arrival. No finish line. No pot of gold. No perfect score. No striving for. To wonder. To wonder the way a small child might wonder when seeing a roly poly for the first time— oh, look at all those legs. Look at how it curls! Look how it moves again. Feel how light it is in the palm. Feel how it tickles as it moves. Imagine an awareness that new meeting a life form that old. Can I be that new as I meet this infinite world? To wonder not just with my mind but with my belly. To let every neuron spark. To notice where there is a channel and imagine the great wing of life is scraping it clean so the stream might flow in new ways. To wonder beyond the edge of the known, and in that spaciousness, play. —Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer The listing of Chat GPT response to brutal truths: Here are five core truths about your own psychology that everyone must understand—or risk sabotaging their success, happiness, or relationships: ⸻ 1. You are not your thoughts. Your mind generates a constant stream of thoughts—some true, some false, some helpful, many harmful. If you believe every thought, especially negative self-talk, you'll: • sabotage goals, • erode self-esteem, • and avoid taking necessary risks. ✅ Learn to observe thoughts without obeying them. This is the root of emotional resilience. ⸻ 2. Your emotions are messengers, not dictators. Feelings like anger, fear, jealousy, or sadness carry signals—but they don't always point to truth or demand action. Avoiding or overreacting to emotions leads to: • impulsive decisions, • emotional burnout, • or constant anxiety. ✅ Name your emotions, listen to them, and respond—don't react blindly. ⸻ 3. You have unconscious patterns driving your behavior. Much of your personality and decision-making is shaped by: • childhood experiences, • unresolved trauma, • or defense mechanisms. Ignoring these patterns means you repeat them—even when they hurt you or others. ✅ Self-awareness requires digging into your past, habits, and triggers with honesty. ⸻ 4. Your brain is wired for comfort, not growth. Your mind naturally resists discomfort, uncertainty, or change—even when it's what you need. This resistance: • kills dreams, • prevents growth, • and reinforces stagnation. ✅ Discomfort is a sign you're on the edge of transformation. Don't run from it. ⸻ 5. You are responsible for your reactions—even when others hurt you. Blaming others or circumstances for how you feel or behave keeps you powerless. Psychological maturity means: • owning your choices, • setting boundaries, • and healing, not blaming. ✅ Victimhood might be justified, but it won't help you thrive. ⸻ Bottom Line: Mastering your psychology is not optional—it's the difference between drifting through life and designing it. If you don't do the work, your patterns will run you, and you'll wonder why life keeps turning out the same.
=== SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT === As you know by now, we're all about agency over victimhood around here. Too many of us as men adopt a poverty mentality when it comes to women, thinking that some other guy who won the proverbial 'genetic lottery' will get all the women instead of us. But ironically, many of us also believe in picking ourselves up by our bootstraps and taking personal responsibility when it comes to our education, our careers, and perhaps even our social lives outside of women. What's up with that? It's obviously a clash of incongruent mindsets, if not flat-out hypocrisy. How did so many of us get to that point? And more importantly, how do we get back on an even playing field with a consistent, winning mindset? Can you handle the truth? If so, check out the Substack channel at https://mountaintoppodcast.com/substack === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extemely effective...and actionable. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review. As we say here in Texas, I appreciate you!
The Bible says that we're more than conquerors in Jesus. But some days it really doesn't feel that way, and you're convinced life truly isn't fair. In this program, guest teacher Jennie Allen wraps up her series “Get Out of Your Head.” She'll tackle the last two common yet toxic thoughts that pollute our minds: Victimhood and complacency. Don't miss how these mindsets can destroy our lives, and unravel our relationship with God.16 Rejoice always, 17 pray without ceasing, 18 give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. -- 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18The antidote to victimhood:GratitudeWorshipSeeing the good in our livesEven though they're invisible, we fight with real weapons against the devil:Gratitude slays darknessPrayer slays darknessConnection with other people and them fighting for us slays darknessTime with God slays darknessChoosing joy slays darkness -- Galatians 5:13The antidote to complacency:Serve othersGratitudeStillness with GodConnectionTrustDelightBroadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesGet Out Of Your Head BookAdditional MentionsJennie Allen's Free Book Club KitConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003About Jennie Allen: Jennie Allen is the founder and visionary behind IF: Gathering and she is the author of several books and study guides, including Restless, Anything, and Nothing to Prove. She is a passionate leader following God's call on her life to catalyze a generation of women to live what they believe. Jennie has a master's in Biblical studies from Dallas Theological Seminary and lives in Austin, Texas, with her husband, Zac and their four children.
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What game are you playing so well… it's keeping you stuck? If you feel like life isn't working, pause before you call it failure. You're winning. You've just been unconsciously training for the wrong game. This episode isn't here to fluff you up or give you a participation ribbon. It's here to hold up the mirror and show you exactly where your energy, time, and identity are going—and what it's actually producing. Because whether it's the Game of Burnout, the Game of Victimhood, the Game of Playing Small, or the Game of “I Can't”—you're clocking W's every day. You're just not enjoying the spoils. I've played all of those games. I've collected those trophies. And I made a new choice. Tune in if you're ready to flip the board, shift your scoreboard, and start playing for power, peace, and principle. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The victim mentality has the power to leave you hopeless and helpless. How is the victim mentality influencing your life? Have you been the victim? Are others in your life playing the victim? Where is the victim mentality holding you hostage, parenthood, relationships, career? What is it? In a nutshell, a victim mentality is when someone blames others for their life experiences. In other words, they do not take ownership of, or responsibility for their decisions and actions that resulted in unfavorable circumstances. Experiencing it. If you are the person employing a victim mentality, you are blaming others for things in your life that you are unhappy with. Blaming equates to powerlessness. When you, or others in your life, do not take ownership and consistently blame others, you sacrifice the power to change your circumstances. Additionally, a victim mentality is characterized by a lack of accountability for one's actions. Likewise, they do not adopt healthy coping mechanisms; instead, they blame others. This can be the result of trauma or past experiences, or it could be an intentional choice. Complaining is a symptom of victimhood, and people deny responsibility or ownership for their part in their circumstances. Blaming others, Satan, or God is quite common when someone chooses victimhood. Blame is the key ingredient of a victim mentality. I've recently heard an overwhelming number of people blame the devil for their current circumstances, be it relationships, financial insecurity, lack of success, emotional chaos within their families, or anxiety. When anyone gives Satan credit for their circumstances, they are rendering themselves powerless to him. Scripture verses that remind us that Satan has no authority over us: Luke 10:19 "See, I have given you authority to tread on snakes and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy; and nothing will hurt you." 1 John 4:4 "Little children, you are from God, and have conquered them; for the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world." Colossians 1:13 "He has rescued us from the power of darkness and transferred us into the kingdom of his beloved Son," Romans 8:38-39 "For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord." Anxiety One of the first steps you can take is to download the free eBook, Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Healthy Habits for a Healthy Mind. The second step is to give yourself a social media reset and use the time you've been scrolling to get closer to Jesus. Read the full shownotes and access all links.
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Scott Barry Kaufman is a cognitive scientist and best-selling author of the book Rise Above: Overcome a Victim Mindset, Empower Yourself, and Realize Your Full Potential. Scott's writing dives deep into the psychology of the victim mindset, narcissism, and the impact of performative vulnerability on social media. Having overcome childhood misdiagnoses that placed him in special ed classes and bullying peers, Scott went on to earn a PhD from Yale. He shares this deeply personal story of as a teachable moment to discuss mental health, cancel culture, psychological flexibility, and what truly helps us grow as humans. Thought-provoking, funny, and brutally honest—this is a must-watch for anyone navigating identity, trauma, or the modern self-help world. Scott's other books include Transcend: The New Science of Self-Actualization and Choose Growth: A Workbook for Transcending Trauma, Fear, and Self-Doubt. Read Paul's Substack here: http://words.PaulOllinger.com Learn more about Scott's academic on his website and his magic and mind-reading on https://www.theamazingdrscott.show/
Sam Harris speaks with Scott Barry Kaufman about Scott's new book, Rise Above: Overcome a Victim Mindset, Empower Yourself, and Realize Your Full Potential. They discuss victimhood culture, narcissism and psychopathy, the personality traits of successful individuals, the dark triad of personality traits, how victimhood culture presents on the Left vs. the Right, free speech, self-esteem and meaning in the age of AI, the replication crisis, the personality traits of MAGA conservatives, IQ, psychedelics, and other topics. If the Making Sense podcast logo in your player is BLACK, you can SUBSCRIBE to gain access to all full-length episodes at samharris.org/subscribe. Learning how to train your mind is the single greatest investment you can make in life. That's why Sam Harris created the Waking Up app. From rational mindfulness practice to lessons on some of life's most important topics, join Sam as he demystifies the practice of meditation and explores the theory behind it.