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Dicey Stuff: the podcast is about life, because, well, the dicey stuff is the realest stuff of our lives! Your host, Lois, explores living as a Christian woman in this modern age. Hear about relationships, mentoring, homemaking, education, and more. Time

Lois Matson


    • Apr 11, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 45m AVG DURATION
    • 174 EPISODES


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    What?! The End of the Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2025 38:41


    Seasons come and seasons go. Stacey and Lois have had a wonderful season of podcasting together, and our goal was to share the impotance of connection and fellowship, which is why the question in our culture is often "Whose boy are you?" We aren't boys, and most of our interviews and listeners aren't boys, so we switched things up and named our podcast "Whose Girl Are You?"Now the season is changing, and we feel we've accomplished what we set out to do. Lois' health has had another setback, and our lives aren't slowing down at all. So with this final episode, we thank all of you for your care, your love, and your support of our podcast, and we bid you a very fond farewell. May the Lord bless snd keep you! We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com. Lois will still be active at that email address as long as she can be.

    Genius Life Hacks (Not Ours)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2025 40:28


    Lois and Stacey share their genius life hacks, but not theirs, personally. These are other peoples' life hacks, so don't blame us if they don't work for you!We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Twenty More Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2025 50:29


    Shaina, Stacey and Lois answer twenty "more" questions, because there are ALWAYS more questions.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Adult-Diagnosed ADHD with Shaina

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2025 74:56


    Stacey and Lois chat with Shaina today, who was diagnosed as an adult with ADHD. Join us as she shares her story about being neurodivergent!We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    20 Introspective Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2025 72:35


    This list of 20-ish introspective questions will make you think! On the podcast today, Tsasa, Lois and Stacey answer some hard ones.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    PPD with Tsasa

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2025 66:40


    Our 4th (and last!) guest shares her PPD story with  Lois and Stacey. We hope you enjoy hearing Tsasa, and we hope you've enjoyed this series on post-partum depression as much as we have!We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    20 Qs: Habits and Traits

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2025 67:53


    Here's another super-fun 20 Questions episode about habits and traits. Learn more about our guests Shaina and Jenn, and even more about your hosts, Stacey and Lois.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    PPD with Jenn and Shaina

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2025 60:43


    We're continuing our (very important) topic of post-partum depression with another interview! Please join Lois and Stacey as Jenn and Shaina share the difficulties they endured with PPD.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    20 Mental Health Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2025 56:44


    Brenda, Lois and Stacey answer 20-ish mental health questions. How do you cope with stress?We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Divorce, Remarriage and More with Brenda

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2025 73:10


    Brenda joins us to talk about some really hard stuff! Join Lois and Stacey as they hear her story of divorce and remarriage, plus post-partum depression/psychosis. God be praised for healing in all areas of life.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    What About Godparents?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2025 27:14


    Godparents: are they outdated? are they still relevant? what's their purpose? Join Lois and Stacey as they explore this subject.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Respect Choices. Be Nice.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2025 40:44


    Today, Stacey and Lois talk about the importance of respecting other people's choices, and why that's hard to do sometimes. We all could use a bit more kindness.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Petting Your Cat Backwards and Other Offenses

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2024 33:45


    People do offensive (and annoying) things, often without their knowledge. Do you tell them? Stacey and Lois talk about some of these things, and what we can do about it.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Christmas Trivia

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2024 42:18


    Lois and Stacey challenge each other with Christmas trivia questions just in time for the holy  day. Can you answer them? We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    What Is a Crux Theologorum?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2024 28:31


    Whatever is a crux theologorum? In this episode, Stacey and Lois discuss the question that cannot be answered: why are some people saved and not others?Here's a link to the article "Crux Theologorum: The Theologians' Cross" at the St Paul's Lutheran Church website: https://www.stpaulslutheranchurch.net/the-theologians-cross/We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    AI Generated Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2024 36:00


    It's time for another "Questions" episode, which are always so much fun! This time Renae, along with Stacey and Lois, of course, answer 10 AI-generated questions. We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Christmas Gift Giving

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2024 63:22


    A listener gave Stacey an idea for a podcast: what do I gift my adult children for Christmas who don't really need or want anything? Join us as we discuss this thorny subject. We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Church Music with Renae

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2024 71:01


    As Christians, how we sing and what we sing are vitally important. Renae joins Stacey and Lois to discuss church music: hymns, praise songs, worship music and more!We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    The Secret Place

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2024 73:32


    Stacey and Lois promised a book report on "Secrets of the Secret Place" by Bob Sorge. One of us likes this book better than the other, so please join us for our rousing conversation.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Swearing!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 63:09


    After a recent-ish conversation in a Facebook group, Lois and Stacey talk about swearing... what it is or isn't in our opinions, how it's different in different cultures, and more.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Feeding Your Soul

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2024 50:20


    Lois and Stacey talk about soul food, and the importance of feeding your soul what is good.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Do You Have (Good) Coping Skills?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2024 53:28


    Stacey and Lois talk about coping skills, the good and the bad. We all have them, inherited from childhood or developed through our lives. And we can develop healthier ones!We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Those Crazy Health Fads

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2024 52:29


    Stacey and Lois talk about all the crazy things they (used to) do in the name of health. They cover Tae Bo, the grapefruit diet and much, much more in this episode that isn't only about our physical bodies.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Stuff and Nonsense

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2024 67:32


    Stacey and Lois talk about stuff today, and sometimes that turns nonsensical. Please join us for the fun! We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    The Jenga Art of Listening

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2024 46:20


    Lois and Stacey talk about the age-old art of listening. Do you listen to learn? to respond? to prove a point (ouch!)? Hear about some timeless hints for being a better listener.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Have More Babies??!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2024 51:54


    Stacey and Lois talk about population... over- or under-, density, control, and more. A recently-released study on fertility rates raises this question: does the world (and the U.S.) need more babies? What do you think?We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Great Expectations

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2024 56:44


    Lois and Stacey discuss expectations in different relationships, and how they can bring resentment and disappointment.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Is It Okay to Vent?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2024 33:29


    Is it okay to vent? Or is venting just a nicer word for complaining? Stacey and Lois talk about venting and relieving the pressures of our daily lives. We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Abiding in Christ

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2024 39:55


    Lois and Stacey talk about the importance of abiding in Christ, especially when you're feeling under attack. What does it mean to be clothed in Christ?We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Perspective Shifting

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2024 53:03


    Lois and Stacey talk about our perspective and how it can be shifted, sort of like a manual transmission!We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    One Year Recap: Our Top Five

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2024 46:27


    Our one year anniversary episode... only a few months late! Lois gets Stacey's reactions to clips from our most popular episodes. We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Generational Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2024 64:23


    Here's another "Questions" episode, which are always so much fun! This time, Linda and Pastor Jason, along with Stacey and Lois, of course, answer questions about the generation they grew up in. We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Book Report: Suffering Is Never for Nothing

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2024 58:29


    Way back in the winter, Lois and Stacey promised to discuss the book "Suffering Is Never for Nothing" by Elisabeth Elliot. Today, we're keeping that promise. PLEASE NOTE: This episode was recorded in mid-February, before Lois had any knowledge of her cancer.Here's a link to the book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Suffering-Never-Nothing-Elisabeth-Elliot/dp/1535914157We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Part 2: But It's Okay Because Christ Is Holding Me Fast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2024 47:03


    Today Stacey and Lois update you on part two of Lois' brain cancer journey. If you missed last week's episode, you might want to catch that one first.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Part 1: It's All in My Head

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2024 69:08


    After a long hiatus, Stacey and Lois are back! Today's episode is part one of Lois' brain cancer journey. Join us for part two next week.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    50TH EPISODE SPECIAL: Growing Up ALC with Pastor Jason

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2024 77:55


    Whoa!! For our 50th episode special, Stacey and Lois invite a man of God into the virtual studio, and this changes everything! We ask Pastor Jason "Whose BOY are you?" for starters, and then chat about growing up in the ALC, and some of the things that make the Apostolic Lutheran Church of America distinctive. We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Do You Wear a Mask? Does God?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2024 53:11


    Do you wear a mask, literally or figuratively? Lois and Stacey talk about the masks we wear, and the reasons we wear them. Then they discuss the mask of God. Wait... God wears a mask???!We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    O Be Careful What You Say!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2024 60:22


    Stacey and Lois explore an idea that your mama may have taught you: "If you don't have anything good to say..." Conclusion? Be careful what you say! We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Vaccines!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2024 52:39


    From the frying pan into the fire... this week Stacey and Lois take up the (very controversial) topic of vaccines. Are you pro- or anti-vaxx? Do you do a delayed immunization schedule?  Have you seen vaccine injury? We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Flying Frying Pans and Other Idioms

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2024 65:43


    Lois has Stacey in the hot seat today, quizzing her about flying off the (frying pan?) handle and other fun idioms! Don't spill the beans, but they'll give you the whole nine yards about some of the odd sayings that we use daily. Where do such gift horses come from, anyway?!We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Think About What You Think About with Linda

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2024 76:17


    Linda joins Lois and Stacey today as they talk about thinking and our minds. The mind is a powerful creation of God, so think about what you think about!We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.  

    Out of Focus Random Coincidences

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2024 42:31


    Have you ever experienced a random coincidence that kind of blew your mind? Lois and Stacey talk about keys and locks, "coincidental" friendships, texting vs calling, and reading glasses.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.  

    Pulling All the Stops

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2024 43:29


    We're not pulling your leg... today Lois and Stacey talk about pulling, and the different ways that word can be used in our crazy English language.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Organizing of All the Things!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2023 39:22


    Lois and Stacey discuss organizing and decluttering... why we should, what motivates us (Pinterest-pretty pantry, anyone?!) and even how storing externally can help with daily stressors.They talk about DaNita's organizing challenge, which you can check out at her website here: https://www.delightfulorder.com/challenges-and-guides/2024-organizing-challenge  or her Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/DelightfulOrder We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Wrapping It Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2023 49:56


    Stacey and Lois talk about fun (and not so fun!) Christmas games, gifts, wrapping and more. Merry Christmas to each of you!We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Who Has Parenting Insecurity?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2023 69:12


    Who has parenting insecurity??? When did it start? And does it ever go away?! Stacey and Lois discuss these questions and more on today's episode. We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Potluck Heaven

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2023 59:54


    Lois and Stacey talk potlucks—the good and the bad—after posing this Big Question on Facebook: "If heaven has a potluck table, what dish do you hope is on it? And whose recipe is it?" Thank you all for participating!We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    What Color Is Advent?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2023 53:28


    Lois and Stacey chat about Advent, the upcoming season of the new Church year. While discussing the colors of Advent, they lament the demise of ROY G BIV and Pluto. Join them!We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Can You Text with Jesus?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2023 50:09


    Can you text with Jesus? Short answer... no! But Stacey and Lois talk about an app that purports to allow you to do that very thing. We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Leashes and Shock Collars

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2023 75:13


    Lois and Stacey answer more "Why?" questions, and the resulting conversation might be shocking... pun intended! Why is common sense so uncommon? Why can't men find something in plain sight? Why don't we put shock collars on children? Wait... what?!Disclaimer: Please don't ever use a shock collar on your child, or any human for that matter. We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

    Twenty Childhood Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2023 65:05


    Here are Twenty Questions about Childhood with Stacey, Della, Ashley and Lois! We answer 20 questions, and we ask each of our guests the same 20 questions, and the results are always delightful.We'd love to hear from you! Please send your feedback and comments or questions to whosegirlareyou@gmail.com.

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