Men don't know is a podcast about, three guys asking women in the same field a bunch of questions that men need answers to over wine and cocktails.
Does someone's past really define who they are... or should it stay exactly where it belongs—in the past? On this episode of the Men Don't Know Podcast, Chris and the boys call up a group of women to tackle one of dating's most controversial questions: How much should someone's dating history matter when you're looking for a serious relationship? From body count and past relationships to cheating, heartbreak, toxic exes, and personal growth, the conversation gets real as everyone shares where they draw the line—and why. Some believe your past predicts your future. Others believe people deserve a clean slate. So... who's right? In this episode we discuss: Does body count matter? Can people truly change? Should you judge someone by their past? Do men and women view dating history differently? Is honesty more important than experience? How much is too much to overlook? Are we all carrying baggage into relationships? This conversation is guaranteed to spark debate between men and women and might make you rethink your own dating standards.
On this episode of the Men Don't Know Podcast, Chris and the boys call up a group of women to ask one uncomfortable question: If you've spent years dating the wrong men... would you actually know how to date a good one? Sometimes the biggest challenge isn't finding a good partner—it's recognizing one when they finally show up. The conversation dives into whether past relationships, trauma, toxic dating habits, unrealistic expectations, and modern dating culture make it harder to appreciate someone who's genuinely good. The women don't hold back, and neither do the guys. Topics include: Can someone become addicted to toxic relationships? Do nice guys get overlooked? Are women attracted to peace or excitement? Can past dating experiences change what you find attractive? Is a good man enough anymore? What makes someone relationship material? This episode is guaranteed to start conversations, challenge perspectives, and have everyone questioning what they really want in a partner.
What Matters More: An Apology or Accountability? | Men Don't Know Podcast On this episode of the Men Don't Know Podcast, Chris and the boys call up a group of women to settle a debate that affects friendships, dating, and relationships everywhere: What matters more... an apology or accountability? Is saying "I'm sorry" enough, or do actions speak louder than words? Can someone be forgiven without changing their behavior? And when trust has been broken, what does real accountability actually look like? The guys hear honest, unfiltered opinions from women as they break down whether words or actions carry more weight when it comes to repairing relationships and moving forward after mistakes. Topics include: • Is an apology enough? • Why accountability is harder than saying sorry • Can you forgive someone who never changes? • Do actions always matter more than words? • Dating, relationships, and trust after betrayal • What women really want after they've been hurt • The difference between remorse and responsibility The answers may surprise you. Do you think an apology matters more, or is accountability the only thing that counts? Let us know in the comments.
Fear of Starting Over Starting over is one of the hardest things a person can face. Whether it's after a breakup, divorce, losing a job, ending a friendship, or simply realizing the life you've built is no longer the life you want, the fear of beginning again can be overwhelming. On this episode of Men Don't Know Podcast, Chris and the crew dive into the uncomfortable reality of starting from scratch. Why do so many people stay in situations that no longer serve them? Is it fear of failure, fear of being alone, or fear of not knowing what's next? The conversation explores the mental battles that come with change, the courage required to walk away from what's familiar, and the opportunities that often exist on the other side of uncertainty. Sometimes the biggest risk isn't starting over—it's staying stuck. If you've ever found yourself holding onto something because you're afraid of what comes next, this episode is for you.
On this episode of the Men Don't Know Podcast, Chris and the boys call up a group of guys and force them into an impossible dating dilemma: If you HAD to choose one, who are you dating and why?
on this episode Chris and the boys call up some women to find out how long they would deal with a man that's hot but has no ambition
PART 2: How & When To Ask A Question | Chris & Jess Have you ever asked the right question at the wrong time? In Part 2 of this conversation, Chris and Jess dive deeper into one of the most important skills in communication: knowing how and when to ask a question. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, talking with family, or trying to understand a friend, timing can be the difference between getting an honest answer and starting an unnecessary argument. Chris and Jess discuss: • Why people ask questions they don't really want the answer to • The difference between curiosity and confrontation • Questions that strengthen relationships • Questions that destroy trust • Why timing matters more than most people realize • Learning to listen instead of waiting to respond • How to create meaningful conversations that lead to understanding Sometimes the most powerful question isn't what you ask—it's when you ask it. What question do you think people ask at the wrong time the most? Let us know in the comments.
How & When to Ask a Question | Men Don't Know Podcast On this episode of the Men Don't Know Podcast, Chris and Jess sit down for an honest conversation about one of the most overlooked skills in relationships, friendships, and everyday communication: knowing how and when to ask a question. Is there ever a wrong time to ask something that's been on your mind? Why do some questions lead to deeper understanding while others create arguments? Chris and Jess break down the importance of timing, intention, emotional awareness, and learning how to communicate without putting someone on the defensive. From relationships and dating to family, friendships, and personal growth, they discuss why asking the right question at the right moment can completely change the outcome of a conversation. They also explore the mistakes people make when they ask questions looking for validation, ammunition, or reassurance instead of understanding. If you've ever struggled with difficult conversations, felt unheard, or wondered why certain discussions always seem to go sideways, this episode is for you. Topics include: • The difference between listening to respond and listening to understand • Why timing matters more than the question itself • Questions that strengthen relationships • Questions that create conflict • Emotional intelligence and communication • Understanding before being understood • How to create better conversations and stronger connections
ON THIS EPISODE CHRIS AND THE BOYS CALL UP A BUNCH OF HIS HOMEGIRL TO FIND OUT WHO WOULD THEY RATHER DATE AND THEY WOULD HAVE TO PICK ONE The gym trainer The arrogant ceo The guy with all the ideas and no ambition The 4ever frat boy
On this episode, Chris & the boys call up some of the fellas to findout how long they would deal with a woman that's hot but annoying!
On this episode, Chris gets alittle Tea On Tuesday and has a one on one conversation with one of his favorite hairdressers Laura!
Of this episode Chris celebrates that he is a man of honor at his sister's wedding now the real question begins who does he get to bring and and who is allowed on the guest list at any wedding
On this episode, the boys call some friends up and ask if a sides chick or man does it help keep the main relationship healthy?
On this episode Chris and the boys call some friends up and ask if rich and wealthy relationships will have a sides chick or man does it help keep the main relationship healthy?
On this episode Chris and the boys call up some guys to find out how many male friends can a woman have for them to date them
On this episode Chris and the boys call up some of his Homegirls to find out if women want a good man or a successful one.
On this episode Chris and the boys call up some friends to find out about pretty privilege among other things.
On this episode, Chris and the boys call up some friends to find out if their dream person had a big red would they still be with them?
On this episode, Chris & Jess debate on whats too much access in relationships!
On this episode, Chris & the oyster Gett alittle messy talking about some social media news on a Monday! For Wednesday!
On this episode Chris and the boys call up some friends to find out why men will do anything for pussy even when they can just pay for it.
On this episode Chris and the boys call up some friends to find out how many friends should a woman have at least to date her?
On this episode, Chris and the boys call up some friends to findout if they would rather be the side dude or the main?
on this episode Chris and the guys caught up a bunch of friends to find out if men are getting smarter nowadays.
ON THIS EPISODE CHRIS AND THE BOYS TALK ABOUT THE ALLEGATIONS BROUGHT UP WITH THE JOURNALIST IN THE HEAD COACH.
On this episode, Chris & Jess have a discussion about women only going out to dinner with guys just for the food!
ON THIS EPISODE CHRIS AND THE BOYS TALK ABOUT THE ALLEGATIONS ON THE EXECAND HER CONTROL ON HER EMPLOYEES.
On this episode Chris and the boys call up some fellas to get their opinion on being a wing man.
On this episode Chris and the boys call up some friends to talk about uncommunicated expectations in relationship.
On this episode, i bring jess in to talk about liking a woman's photo on instagram!
On rhis episode, Chris & the boys call up some home girls to find out WHY ARE SOME MEN TRYING TO DATE OUT OF THEIR LEAGUE?
On this episode, Chris & the boys calls some friends to find out What are some things that men have to worry about when dating a good looking woman!
On this episode Chris and the boys caught up a bunch of women to find out what are some red flags men don't realize a red flags.
On this episode, Chris & Jess go back and fourth and discuss Alimony!
On this episode the guys call some guys to find out how much it means and matters when they're in a relationship and their significant other says thank you or I appreciate you.
On this episode of Chris and tay ask a bunch of women questions that they ask the guys to see if their answers are the same or different.
On this episode Chris & Tay Talk about the upcoming Chris Brown & Usher Concert & who should you take. Your girl or The Boys!
On this episode, Chris and jess discuss the kiss at the chris brown concert!!
on this episode Chris and tay call up some friends to find out questions they need answers to for guys on a first date.
On this episode Chris calls a bunch of his homegirl to talk to them about pretty privilege and what it means!
ON THIS EPISODE CHRIS CALL UP A BUNCH OF WOMEN TO FIND OUT WHY DO THEY THINK MEN ARE TIRED OF DATING!
On this episode, Chris & Jess debate on the pre-nup situation and all that is being talked about on social media!
On this episode Chris and the boys call up some friends to find out what's the difference between rushing or dragging a relationship!
On this episode Chris and the boys call up some friends to find out if people still feel safe in the relationship meaning, regardless what happened they know one another is not gonna leave
On this episode, Chris & the boys call up some friends to findout if people still want to be posted on social media
On this episode, Chris & Jess are back to discuss Child support and a certain NBA player thats figuring it out in real time!
On this episode Chris & the boys argue you over which artist had the better career!
On this episode, Chris and the guys call up some friends to find out how much a first date should cost.
On this episode, Chris and the boys call some friends up. to findout if dating apps are helping or destroying!
On this episode, Chris & Koi rant about random stuff this day and age that grinds there gears. Foam soap what happen to regular soap. Is going to the movies still even a thing Wine tasting with friends is really to get drunk Is going to the casino a date What's worse rushing into a relationship or dragging it out! What's your old school Netflix and chill movie that you would put on in the background. Who was more of a player bill belamy or Mike lawry Cheapest date you've ever been on?
On this episode, Chris gives on a 2 min monologue on about feelings after the breakup
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