Podcasts about Alimony

⚠️ What If Your Ex Refuses to Pay Alimony? | Los Angeles Divorce ⚠️ Is your ex refusing to pay court-ordered alimony? Missing spousal support can create serious financial stress, but legal options exist to enforce the order and recover unpaid amounts. This video explains what steps you can take, how support is enforced, and what documentation helps protect your financial rights.

This week on Beer'd Al, Lauren and Russ are joined by special guest Nick Marocco, owner of Rock City Music Company in Livonia, Michigan, to dive into "Alimony" from Even Worse.A loving parody of Billy Idol's rebellious anthems, "Alimony" takes a not-so-glamorous look at divorce, financial ruin, and the high cost of heartbreak—all filtered through the brilliantly absurd lens of Weird Al Yankovic.Along the way, the crew discusses Billy Idol's unmistakable style, why "Alimony" remains one of Al's sharpest genre parodies, and how the song balances over-the-top humor with some surprisingly catchy hooks.Nick also shares stories from the world of records, guitars, and Detroit rock culture, plus details about his weekly radio show, where every episode features a different musical theme.Grab your favorite beverage, crank up the sneer, and join us as we ask the important question: is there anything funnier than court-ordered payments set to a Billy Idol beat?You can find Nick and learn more about his work at Rock City Music Company, a Metro Detroit shop specializing in guitars, vinyl, lessons, repairs, and more. You can also tune into Nick's themed radio show, Cobra Rock City, on Radio Cobra Detroit.And this is the Hair Metal Polka we discuss at the end of the episode.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beer-d-al-podcast--5439475/support.

⚠️ What If Your Ex Refuses to Pay Alimony? | Los Angeles Divorce ⚠️ Alimony orders are legally enforceable—but problems can arise when payments stop. If your ex refuses to pay spousal support in California, there may be legal options available to help enforce the court order and address overdue payments properly.

⚠️ Ex Refusing to Pay Alimony? Here's What You Can Do | Los Angeles Divorce

Most people going through a divorce focus on what happens in the courtroom or mediation sessions. Very few stop to think about what happens behind the scenes, and that gap is costing them real money. The person who sees your case every single day, fields your calls, organizes your documents, tracks your deadlines, and watches how clients either help or hurt their own cases? That's your paralegal. And until now, she's never been on this show.In this episode, Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt, pulls back the curtain with her colleague Liz Morgan, a family law paralegal with more than 30 years of experience working exclusively in family law. Liz joined Gailor Hunt in January of 1996 and has spent her career managing complex property and support cases, handling large-scale document discovery, and building the trial presentations that help clients tell their story clearly in the courtroom.Liz breaks down what paralegals actually do, why financial transparency is non-negotiable in North Carolina courts, and how client behavior, specifically disorganization, poor communication, and emotional decision-making, directly drives up legal fees. She also walks through the discovery process in plain language: why attorneys ask for so many documents, what they're looking for when they trace bank statements, and what happens when clients miss deadlines or delete digital evidence.Key TakeawaysConflict for conflict's sake is expensive. Fighting over a $100 piece of furniture or credit card points will cost far more in attorney fees than the item is worth. Liz identifies unnecessary conflict as one of the top drivers of avoidable legal costs.Your documents need to be complete and organized from day one. Uploading a screenshot of an account balance or the first page of a statement is not enough. Liz explains exactly how to submit financial records in a way that saves significant processing time and fees.Deleting texts, emails, or social media posts during litigation can have serious legal consequences. Once litigation begins or is anticipated, clients have a duty to preserve all digital evidence. Courts view destruction of electronic evidence negatively, even when it is unintentional.There is no such thing as winning in a divorce. Liz outlines what the clients who navigate divorce most successfully have in common: they stay organized, they listen to their attorneys, they separate legal decisions from emotional reactions, and they focus on what life looks like when their divorce is over.Liz Morgan is a family law paralegal at Gailor Hunt. To learn more or to connect with the Gailor Hunt team, visit divorceistough.com.Follow A Year and a Day wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode.For legal assistance in North Carolina, contact Gailor Hunt at divorceistough.com.While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

Alimony and child support only work if the checks keep coming. And in high-conflict divorces, or honestly, in any divorce, that is a far more dangerous assumption than most people realize. One accident. One illness. One unexpected death. And the financial foundation you spent months negotiating can disappear overnight. Karen McMahon sits down with financial strategist and CDFA Jeff Landers to pull back the curtain on the one protection most divorce agreements quietly ignore, using life and disability insurance to secure your alimony and child support payments before the ink is even dry on your settlement. What most people don't know is that the chances of your ex becoming disabled are three to four times greater than the chances of them dying. And yet disability insurance almost never appears in a divorce agreement. Jeff explains why that gap exists, what it costs you if you don't close it, and exactly how to bring it up during negotiations, while you still have leverage. Karen and Jeff also tackle the details that can make or break your protection: why you, not your ex, must own the policy, what happens when a paying spouse quietly stops making premium payments, how 26 states automatically revoke beneficiaries upon divorce without you knowing, and how to use insurance as a negotiating tool if you're getting pushback. If you're counting on alimony or child support to keep your home, feed your children, or rebuild your financial life, this episode isn't optional. It's the conversation your attorney probably never had with you. Connect with Jeff: Free Resource: Jeff is gifting JBD listeners a free copy of his new guide, How to Protect and Create Income in Divorce. Email Landers@hellomonthlyincome.com and reference the JBD podcast. Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jefflanders/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.landers.9210 Website: https://hellomonthlyincome.com/ Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/jbdpod Curated Podcast Playlists: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/

Returning Dig Me Out Union patron Josh Page is back from Australia with his second pick, and this one is geo-locked to his home country for most of the world. The Hummingbirdsformed in Sydney in 1986, signed to rooArt Records (the label founded by INXS manager Chris Murphy), and recorded their debut loveBUZZ in 1989 with producer Mitch Easter, the same man behind R.E.M.'s Murmur and Reckoning. The album hit ARIA #31, the single "Blush" reached #19, and they went Gold in Australia. Outside Australia, almost nobody has ever heard it.Jay, Tim, and Chip dig into the record with Josh, covering the intricate boy-girl vocal harmonies that draw comparisons to early R.E.M., The Lemonheads, Throwing Muses, and Belly; the punchy drumming that gives jangle pop some actual weight; and the Lemonheads connection most fans don't know: Robin St. Clair and Nic Dalton co-wrote "Into Your Arms" during this era, Evan Dando recorded it, and it became the biggest hit of the Lemonheads' career.Timestamps: 5:05 Band history and Mitch Easter connection | 6:09 The Lemonheads origin story | 14:19 "Alimony" | 19:17 "Get On Down" | 28:51 "House Taken Over" (and the unauthorized house remix) | 38:48 "If You Leave" | 42:08 VerdictsThe hosts split 2-1, and the community voted 80% Better EP. Head to digmeoutpodcast.com to listen to the full episode and share your take.

Episode Summary Alimony is not a formula. It's not a calculator output. It's not what your friend got. In this episode, Karen and Catherine explain what actually goes into evaluating spousal support — and why financial clarity before negotiation is the difference between a settlement that holds up and one that falls apart in six months. The Right First Question Most people ask: “What number should I expect?” The better question is: what financial information needs to be in place before this conversation can responsibly happen at all? Support is not a number. It's a relationship between two households after divorce. Until you understand both households, any number is a guess wearing a lab coat. What Really Drives Alimony Spousal support analysis depends on more than a W-2. Key factors include: • Length of the marriage and marital lifestyle • Full income picture: bonuses, commissions, K-1s, distributions, equity comp, passive income • Post-divorce expenses for each household • Assets — which produce cash flow vs. which just sit there • Debts each spouse is taking on • Earning capacity and time out of the workforce Property division and support are the same conversation, not separate rooms. What someone keeps — and what it costs to keep it — directly affects what support has to look like. Why Calculators Only Get You Partway There Online spousal support calculators are a starting point — not a strategy. They don't verify documents, review bank statements, or account for variable income. They don't know whether bonuses repeat, whether income is partially held inside a business, or whether the lifestyle being used as a baseline was funded with debt. Calculators are only as good as the data going in. In divorce, the data going in is almost never complete on day one. How Long Does Alimony Last? Duration depends on state law, marriage length, type of support, and more — your attorney is the right guide there. But the more useful financial question is: what happens when it ends? Scenario modeling shows both households month by month, year by year, so cliffs and gaps surface before the settlement is signed — not six months after. The Documents That Matter Most • 3 years of personal tax returns (with all schedules and K-1s) • 12 months of bank and credit card statements • Paystubs and bonus history for both spouses • Business tax returns, P&Ls, and distribution records (if applicable) • Current statements for every account: retirement, investment, loans, equity comp Without these, you're negotiating from memory. With them, you can start asking the right questions. In This Episode • Why the support number is the tip of the iceberg • How business income hides inside W-2s and distributions • Why AI tools and calculators are education, not analysis • How scenario modeling changes negotiation from fear to information • A practical document checklist to start gathering this week My Divorce Solution has helped 5,000+ clients across all 50 states gain financial clarity during divorce through the MDS Financial Portrait™ and the We Chat Divorce podcast. www.mydivorce-solution.com This episode is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the goal of your divorce wasn't to win — but to make sure everyone could sit at a dinner table together a year from now for the sake of your kids?In this episode, Jaime Davis sits down with Hannah Hembree Bell, founder of Hembree Bell Law Firm and creator of My Confident Divorce. Hannah built a multi-million-dollar family law practice rooted in a deceptively simple mission: help marriages end well. She describes herself as a recovering litigator — and for good reason. After navigating her own painful divorce and custody battle while putting herself through law school as a mother of three, Hannah didn't just survive the process. She rebuilt, and then she built a law firm so that she could be the attorney she desperately needed back then.Hannah and Jaime get honest about one of the biggest misconceptions in family law: the idea that going to court means getting justice. As Hannah puts it, a client once told her that "the last place you go for justice is on the courthouse steps" — and after years in the courtroom, she couldn't agree more. The judge is not interested in your vindication. The judge is interested in your children's well-being and a decent application of the law. Understanding that from the beginning, Hannah explains, can reshape the entire divorce process. She and Jaime also discuss what it actually looks like to keep the main thing the main thing — even when the other party is committed to scorched earth litigation — and why the BIFF method (Brief, Informative, Firm, and Friendly) is one of the most powerful tools a divorcing parent can have in their back pocket.Key TakeawaysRedefining the Win: If both parties leave mediation equally unhappy, that's probably the right result. If you feel like you got a slam dunk, that bodes poorly for your future co-parenting relationship — and your ex's ability to recover. A real win looks like dinner together with the kids a year later.Divorce Is a Tool, Not a Destination: A divorce is simply the legal mechanism by which you are no longer married. The real question is: what life are you running toward? Getting clear on that answer changes everything about how you move through the process.Bitter or Better — You Choose: Between stimulus and response, there is a space. How you react to your ex's latest move, how you show up for your kids, how you engage with the process — all of it is within your control, even when everything else feels like it isn't.You Deserve a Happy Life: Hannah's closing message is the one every woman in this process needs to hear. You are worthy because you exist. Not because you survived. Not because you white-knuckled it. Because you exist.Learn more about Hannah's work and explore the My Confident Divorce program at HembreeBell.comIf you found this episode helpful, follow A Year and a Day wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode.For legal assistance in North Carolina, contact Gailor Hunt at divorceistough.com.While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

    Slam the Gavel welcomes back Todd Humes to the podcast. Todd was last on Season 6, Episodes 341 and 349. The last time he was on, we discussed how it's not about the money, it's about JUSTICE. Still, there  no change in his case after his fourth attorney still hasn't been able to get a court date while Todd is STILL PAYING alimony after being ONLY SEPARATED for the last EIGHT YEARS. We discussed that his bar, The Pub and Grubb has sat empty for the last three years and his soon to be ex is NO WHERE TO BE FOUND. Where is the JUSTICE??To Reach Todd Humes:  toddhumes42@gmail.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcast?si=INW9XaTyprKsaDklhttps://substack.com/@maryannpetri?r=kd7n6&utm_medium=iosInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/aboout*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user/guest should consult with the relevant professionals. IRS CIRCULAR 230 DISCLOSURE: To ensure compliance with requirements imposed by the Internal Revenue Service, we inform you that any U.S. federal tax advice contained in this communication (including any attachments) is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, for the purpose of (1) avoiding penalties under the Internal Revenue Code or (2) promoting, marketing or recommending to another party any transaction or matter addressed herein. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. The content creator maintains the exclusive copyright and any unauthorized copyright usage is strictly prohibited.  Podcast is protected by owner from duplication, reproduction, distribution, making a derivative of the work or by owner displaying the podcast. Owner shall be held harmless and indemnified from any and all legal liability.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Is dowry really just a “gift”? Or is it a system that society normalized despite being illegal?And on the other side—why is alimony often judged so harshly?In this episode, we break down the truth behind marriage, money, and misconceptions. From legal realities to emotional impact, this conversation challenges the mindset that compares dowry with alimony.Because one is rooted in pressure and exploitation… while the other is about financial support and fairness after separation.No filters. No bias. Just facts and perspective.#DowryTruth #AlimonyDebate #ModernRelationships #MarriageMyths #LegalAwareness #WomenRightsIndia #GenZTalks #PodcastIndia #RelationshipReality #SocialIssuesIndia #BreakingTaboos #IndianSociety #MoneyAndMarriage #RealTalkIndia #JusticeNotJudgement

On this episode, Chris & Jess go back and fourth and discuss Alimony!

Divorce attorneys can tell you what to sign. Financial advisors can tell you what to keep. But who helps you understand what you're feeling — and why it's not going to feel this way forever?In this episode, Jaime Davis sits down with Oona Metz, a nationally recognized psychotherapist with over 30 years of clinical experience and the author of Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women. For the last 15 years, Oona has led weekly divorce support groups that have become a lifeline for women navigating one of life's most difficult transitions. Her work fills a gap that the legal and financial world simply cannot: the internal, emotional experience of ending a marriage.Oona introduces her Five Phases of Divorce Grief — Heartbreak, Rollercoaster, Mending, Letting Go, and Moving On — and explains why these stages are not a straight line. She and Jaime discuss why women initiate divorce 70% of the time (and what that actually tells us), the critical difference between legally ending a marriage and emotionally leaving one, and why dating too soon can quietly derail both your healing and your legal case. Oona also makes a powerful case for reframing the language around divorce entirely — moving away from words like "failed marriage" and "broken family" and toward something more accurate: a family restructuring and a life transition.Key TakeawaysThe Sunk Cost Fallacy in Marriage: Staying because you've already been there 20 years is not a strategy — and it's not the definition of success. A long, miserable marriage is not an achievement.Protecting Your Nervous System: When stress goes up, cognition goes down. Self-care during divorce is not a luxury — it's a prerequisite for making sound legal and financial decisions that will affect the rest of your life.The Elevator Speech: Have a short, truthful, privacy-protecting answer ready for people who ask about your divorce. Your feelings about your ex will change over time — what you say in the heat of the moment won't.Dating Post-Separation: A tender heart needs the same care as a broken arm. Jumping into a new relationship before doing the internal work means your needs won't get met — again. And from a legal standpoint, new relationships discovered mid-case can unravel settlements that took months to build.Find Oona's book, Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women, and additional resources at OonaMetz.com.If you found this episode helpful, follow A Year and a Day wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode.For legal assistance in North Carolina, contact Gailor Hunt at divorceistough.com.While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

This week we're covering California conformity to federal alimony treatment.

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Amye is joined by Becca to recap the 2026 HULU docuseries Betrayal: Secrets and Lies S1:EP2 Abuse & AlimonyTRIGGER WARNING: This episode is very explicit and contains discussion of rape and sexual assault. Crystal Harris had everything she wanted in her life: a successful career, a wonderful husband, and the perfect family, until her husband became a monster. Get BONUS content and ad-free episodes! Sign up at:www.littlemissrecap.com/supportOr go directly to Patreon at:www.patreon.com/littlemissrecapListen to my true crime podcast: Murder She Watched at www.murdershewatchedpod.comSUPPORT OUR SPONSORSBIOptimizers Head to http://bioptimizers.com/littlemissrecap and use my exclusive code LMR to get 15% off any order. And when you subscribe, you'll get great discounts, free gifts, and the peace of mind of never running out. Again, that's 15% off any order at http://bioptimizers.com/littlemissrecap MERCH: https://littlemissrecap.threadless.com/I'm on cameo at: https://www.cameo.com/amyearcherGet in touch with us:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/littlemissrecapFacebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/littlemissrecapInstagram: @littlemissrecap Voicemail: www.littlemissrecap.comEmail: amye@littlemissrecap.comYoutube: www.youtube.com/@littlemissrecap Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we're turning the mic around! Jaime Davis, host of A Year and a Day, joins Kayleigh Bain for a deep dive into the professional side of family law. With 25 years of experience and a board certification in family law, Jaime shares how she built a thriving practice and why she transitioned from dreaming of criminal law to mastering the complexities of "Divorce Without Destruction."For business owners and professionals, divorce isn't just personal—it's a high-stakes asset management challenge. Jaime explains how to protect your business interests before and after marriage, the strategic importance of prenups (and "postnups"), and why your company's valuation might be more vulnerable than you think. Whether you're a founder looking to shield your equity or an aspiring attorney curious about the "business" of law, this conversation provides the intentional, expert-led roadmap you need.Inside this crossover, we cover:Protecting the Hustle: How business owners can use premarital agreements to ensure their growth remains separate property.Strategic Marketing: Why Jaime launched a podcast to educate individuals considering or going through a divorce and her referral network of realtors, therapists, and financial planners.The "Year and a Day" Logic: Understanding North Carolina's mandatory separation period as a window for financial planning.Need a consultation in North Carolina? Visit divorceistough.com to connect with the team at Gailor Hunt.Have a myth you want Jaime to tackle? Email her at jdavis@divorceistough.com.While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina.

This is a comprehensive discussion about child support and spousal support, also known as Alimony, or Maintenance. My guest is  Minnesota based divorce attorney, Kathryn Murphy, who explains what these are and answers questions you might have.

Dr. Friday explains how alimony tax treatment differs depending on divorce date. She notes that most post-2018 agreements are no longer deductible to the payer. Transcript G’day, I’m Dr. Friday, president of Dr. Friday’s Tax and Financial Firm. To get more info, go to www.drfriday.com. This is a one-minute moment. Divorce, alimony, really doesn’t make a big difference to be quite honest, because none of it’s tax deductible anymore. If you got divorced after 2018, your alimony or your payments of any kind going to your ex are not going to become deductible. If you divorced prior to 2018, you still have that deduction in play. So if you’re looking at divorce and you’re the one that’s the breadwinner, you might want to take into account how much you’re gonna be paying in taxes because the other person will be paying zero. Very interesting way to work out a deal. You need help on taxes? Come to us, drfriday.com. You can catch the Dr. Friday Call-in Show live every Saturday afternoon from 2 to 3 p.m. right here on 99.7 WTN.

Welcome back to another Damn We Grown Wednesday! This week, Tiff and Mike are bringing the heat, the laughs, and all the unfiltered reality you need to get through the week. Grab your water (because Tiff forgot hers) and settle in for a vibe.We're kicking things off by exposing the absolute financial robbery that is youth club sports. From club fees to paying for parking and entry tickets just to watch your own kid play volleyball—when did school sports start charging like the Super Bowl? We also take a quick detour to give a massive shoutout to Babyface's legendary Tiny Desk concert, because real R&B is forever.Then, we dive right into the meat and potatoes of the episode: The Great Prenup Debate. We react to a viral social media post claiming that asking for a prenup is an immediate dealbreaker and means the marriage should be called off. But let's keep it a buck—do regular, everyday people need a prenup, or is that just billionaire behavior? Plus, we're unpacking the wild concept of "pre-alimony," what happens when you inherit money, and why everyone might need to keep a little "bag lady" escape fund just in case things go left.Whether you're single, hitched, or just here for the comedy, this episode is packed with the relationship realities they definitely don't teach you in school.What We Get Into This Episode:The ridiculous, hidden costs of youth sports and weekend tournaments.Tiny Desk vibes and the unmatched penmanship of Babyface.Is asking for a prenup a red flag or just smart financial planning?The hilarious truth about dividing assets when you aren't rich.Unpacking "pre-alimony" and protecting your peace (and your pockets) before saying "I do."Join the Conversation & Follow Us:Don't forget to hit that subscribe button so you never miss an episode!Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DamnWeGrownListen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify: Search "Damn We Grown"Follow us on IG & TikTok: @damnwegrown

In this episode of A Year and a Day, host Jaime Davis takes on the role of "MythBuster." After years of seeing clients enter her office fueled by internet rumors and well-meaning but inaccurate advice, Jaime clears the air on the most common divorce misconceptions in North Carolina.From the "staying together for the kids" trap to the reality of how property is actually divided, this episode replaces "water cooler wisdom" with hard facts. Jaime breaks down the state's unique Year and a Day rule, explains why moving into the spare bedroom isn't a legal separation, and reveals why "winning" the divorce based on a spouse's misconduct is largely a fantasy. Whether you're curious about whether the Courts favor mothers  or wondering if your pre-marital home is excluded from property division, this episode provides the clarity needed to make decisions based on facts, not fear.The Myths We're Busting:The Bedroom Separation Myth: Why you aren't "legally separated" until someone actually moves out.The Child's Choice Myth: Does a 12-year-old really get to pick where they live? (Spoiler: No).The "Cheater Takes All" Myth: How marital misconduct actually affects alimony, post-separation support, and property division.The Equitable vs. Equal Myth: Understanding that "equitable" doesn't always mean a perfect 50-50 split.Mothers are favored in custody decisions, your spouse needs to sign divorce papers, and MORE!Need a consultation in North Carolina? Visit divorceistough.com to connect with the team at Gailor Hunt.Have a myth you want Jaime to tackle? Email her at jdavis@divorceistough.com.While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina.

Real answers to the financial, parenting, and legal questions keeping you up at night.If you're going through a divorce, chances are you've asked yourself at least one of these questions:Who keeps the house?Do I have to pay alimony?What happens if my ex won't cooperate?How does a GAL affect custody?What counts as marital property after separation?In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea and Morgan answer real divorce questions submitted by members of their private community. From community property and spousal support to 50/50 parenting schedules, marital settlement agreements, home sales, custody concerns, and separation, this episode covers the kinds of issues that keep people up at night during divorce.This is an honest, practical, and empowering conversation designed to help you think more strategically, ask better questions, and make smarter decisions during the divorce process.In this episode, we discuss:What happens to business assets and property in divorceWhether keeping finances separate during marriage really protects an assetWhat to know about community property vs. separate propertyHow alimony, maintenance, or spousal support may be determinedWhether a salary increase can affect alimonyWhat to include in a divorce agreement if your ex may stop paying supportHow to think about custody, 50/50 parenting schedules, and parenting plan logisticsWhat a GAL (guardian ad litem) does in a divorce or custody caseHow to present concerns about the other parent without sounding reactiveWhether a spouse who moved out still has to help pay bills, utilities, or repairsWhat happens when an ex refuses to cooperate with the sale of the marital homeWhether retirement assets can be used to buy out a spouse's share of the houseWhy having the right strategy with your attorney can save money and stressKey takeaways from this divorce Q&ADivorce is rarely just about one issue. It is often a mix of legal questions, emotional stress, parenting concerns, and financial uncertainty all happening at once.In this episode, Morgan explains why it is so important to be proactive, not reactive during divorce. Whether you are dealing with custody, alimony, property division, a difficult ex, or a confusing settlement agreement, the more informed and prepared you are, the better decisions you can make.Andrea also shares an important reminder for anyone deep in divorce stress: sometimes you do not need to blow up your life or make a dramatic change. Sometimes you just need a break, a reset, and a strategy.If you're struggling with divorce right now…This episode is for you if you are:feeling overwhelmed by the divorce processworried about making the wrong financial decisionconfused about custody or parenting issuesdealing with an uncooperative exunsure what questions to ask your lawyertrying to figure out what is actually worth fighting forBecause divorce is not one-size-fits-all. And sometimes the biggest source of anxiety is simply not having enough information.Mentioned in this episodeOur Family Wizard – a co-parenting communication app often respected by courtsThe How Not to Suck at Divorce private communityThe upcoming Divorce Crash Course, including guidance on how to communicate more effectively with your attorneyAbout How Not to Suck at DivorceIf you're going through a divorce or thinking about divorce, this podcast is here to help you avoid major divorce mistakes and move through the process with more clarity, confidence, and support.Hosted by Morgan Stogsdill, head of family law at the largest family law firm in the country, and Andrea Rappaport, comedian and marketing expert, How Not to Suck at Divorce combines legal insight, real-life perspective, and humor to help make divorce feel a little less overwhelming.Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-courseOur Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuckFriends, slide into our dms, we love love love hearing from you. We are always here to listen and help in any way we can. You've got this and we've got you.Instagram: @hownotosuckatdivorceFollow Andrea: @theandrearappaportFollow Morgan: @divorceattorneychicagoMentioned in this episode:Natural Cyles When your body feels unpredictable, your decisions shouldn't have to be. Get insight and clarity with NC° Perimenopause. Visit Naturalcycles.app/divorce to learn more and save on a subscription Natural Cycles

Welcome to A Year and a Day. I'm Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I'm joined by Diane Kinlaw, a senior loan officer with Revolution Mortgage, to discuss the critical mortgage challenges that arise during separation and divorce.Diane explains why your credit score is your "financial resume" and why you shouldn't wait until your divorce is finalized to speak with a mortgage professional. We dive into the specific rules for using alimony and child support as qualifying income, why keeping the house isn't always in your best financial interest,  and the logistical hurdles of equity buyouts through cash-out refinances.Together, we discuss the "deal breakers" of debt-to-income ratios, how contingent liabilities on joint credit cards can sink a new loan application, and the reality of navigating today's interest rates versus "stored equity." Diane provides a proactive checklist for gathering financial documents and highlights the importance of working with a team—attorneys, financial advisors, and lenders—to ensure a clean transition to your next chapter.Need help from Diane? Reach out for a free consultation at revolutionmortgage.com/dianekinlaw.If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting www.divorceistough.com.

Most law students and practitioners stumble over the complex world of spousal support—also known as alimony—where logic collides with human emotion. What if you could decode the hidden frameworks that determine whether support is awarded, for how long, and on what basis? In this episode of "Best in the World," we peel back the layers of family law's most misunderstood terrain to reveal the secrets behind support law's biggest debates.This isn't about reading statutes. It's about understanding the fundamental distinction: property division is a final, retrospective process, while spousal support is an ongoing, flexible obligation. Property division celebrates the past—who owns what—generally final with little room for modification. Support, by contrast, is about the future needs of a spouse, adjusting to life's unpredictable shifts: job loss, health issues, or new relationships. Recognizing this critical difference is the first step for any law student aiming to master family law.We break down the core support typologies—pendente lite, rehabilitative, permanent, and reimbursement support—each serving a distinct policy purpose and dictating different durations and modifiability. Want a temporary safety net during the divorce process? Pendente lite support is your answer. Need a structured pathway back to independence? Rehabilitative support, grounded in the Gavron warning, requires the supported spouse to actively pursue self-sufficiency. Facing long-term incapacity or age? The overwhelming trend leans against indefinite alimony, with many states capping or phasing out permanent support, reflecting a modern push toward clean breaks.Key to support analysis are the well-known but often misunderstood factors: the length of the marriage, standard of living during the union, and the economic contributions—monetary or non-monetary. Imputed income becomes critical when a high-earning spouse intentionally underemploys or quits a lucrative career to shirk obligations, triggering courts to treat potential earnings as actual income. Similarly, contributions that aren't monetary—childcare, homemaking—are now credited as vital support pillars, influencing property shares and alimony awards.Among the episode's most compelling insights is the ongoing debate over the professional degree dilemma. Unlike traditional property, degrees are generally not considered assets—yet their immense future income potential makes them a de facto kind of property in some states. Landmark cases like Gram v. Gram in Colorado established a hard line against calling degrees property, citing transferability as a key criterion. But states like New Jersey—with Mahoney v. Mahoney—have innovatively remedied this gap with reimbursements, allowing courts to order support that refunds the spouse's investment in education, akin to a business investment gone awry.The episode also reveals modern shifts away from life-long alimony, especially permanent or indefinite awards, exemplified by recent reforms in Florida. Now, legislatures favor formulas or caps, reflecting a broader move towards ending lifelong dependency—though this raises societal questions about fairness, especially for those who sacrificed careers decades ago under old social contracts.Understanding fault is equally crucial. Today's courts emphasize economic need over morality—cheating spouses can still receive alimony unless their misconduct directly dissipated marital assets. Conversely, cohabitation—living with a new partner—can trigger automatic termination or require courts to scrutinize financial interdependence. This social evolution underscores a legal landscape striving for fairness, transparency, and long-term sustainability.Tax considerations have also transformed. Prior to 2019, payers enjoyed tax deductions; payees paid income tax on support. After the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act, support has become tax-neutral—less tax benefit for payers, more pressure on negotiation leverage.

Divorce isn't just emotional — it's financial restructuring.In this episode of the Grey Rock Realty Podcast, we sit down with Cat Barnett, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) with 25 years in mortgage lending, to break down what really happens to the house during a divorce in Colorado.We cover:• When to talk to a lender during divorce (hint: earlier than you think)• Cash-out refinance vs. rate & term refinance• How alimony and child support affect mortgage qualification• VA loan assumptions during divorce• Why most people who keep the house sell within 3 years• Common attorney blind spots• The danger of quitclaiming off title• Why selling before the divorce is final can backfire• How to protect your credit if one spouse keeps the homeThis gets technical fast — because real estate, lending, and divorce law intersect in complicated ways.If you're navigating divorce and real estate in Northern Colorado, lean into specialists who understand how these pieces fit together.Contact Catherine Barnett: team@loanfit.us | loanfit.us | https://form.jotform.com/260495276369167

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Welcome to A Year and a Day. I'm Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I sit down with Autumn Dubois, founder and principal agent of Dubois Property Group, to discuss the strategic management of one of your most significant financial assets during a divorce: the family home.Autumn shares her expertise on navigating the intersection of real estate and divorce, explaining why she views her role as "Switzerland"—a neutral third party dedicated to protecting the sale regardless of the conflict between spouses. We explore the importance of a tight listing strategy, why having a hard date in a separation agreement is the "absolute best scenario" for preventing delays, and how to manage the logistical hurdles of repairs and staging when homeowners are living separately.Together, we weigh the pros and cons of when one party wants to stay in the family home and discuss the financial "red flags" that might make selling a better move than a buyout, the complexities of loan assumptions in today's market, and transitioning into a "new chapter" purchase. Autumn also provides a checklist for coordinating with divorce attorneys to ensure closing disclosures and proceed directives align with legal requirements, helping you maximize your profit and move forward with clarity.Need help from Autumn? Learn more about her transition-specialized real estate services by visiting duboispropertygroup.com.If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting www.divorceistough.com.Like this show? Rate it here!While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

Discover how Missouri determines alimony payments, why the state's flexible approach differs from formula-based states, and what you need to know about modification, enforcement, and recent legislative changes affecting spousal support. For direct assistance, visit https://divorcelawyerstlouismo.com/family-law/need-a-family-law-attorney-in-st-charles-mo-get-help-now/ Lecour Family Law City: O'Fallon Address: 38 Crossroads Plaza, O'Fallon, MO 63368. Website: https://divorcelawyerstlouismo.com/

Welcome to A Year and a Day. I'm Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I'm talking with Dr. Lee Baucom, a veteran relationship coach, therapist, and creator of the Save the Marriage System.Lee shares his perspective as a "recovering marriage therapist," explaining why traditional marriage counseling often fails by focusing on communication—the "plumbing"—rather than the underlying connection. He breaks down how marriages often hit a "pause button" during busy seasons of life, leading to a slow cascade of disconnection that mirrors the symptoms people mistake for the "reasons" for divorce.Together, we explore the concept of "The We"—viewing the marriage as a third entity or a team—and how this mindset shift can resolve conflicts over money, parenting, in-laws, and more. Lee reveals how one partner can unilaterally change the "dance" of a relationship to invite restoration, even when the other is emotionally withdrawn or "quietly quitting" the marriage. Whether you are looking to save your partnership or create a better  co-parenting relationship, Lee provides a roadmap for moving from high-conflict combat to connection.Need help from Lee? Discover his system and resources by visiting savethemarriage.com.If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting www.divorceistough.com.Like this show? Rate it here!While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

अमुक तमुक ला subscribe करण्यासाठी click करा: https://youtube.com/@amuktamuk?si=LCVcdLVB9KMPVHrkघटस्फोटाबद्दल बोलताना अनेकदा कायदेशीर प्रक्रिया नीट समजत नाही आणि गोंधळ वाढतो. खुसपूसच्या या भागात आपण घटस्फोटाचे Legal आणि technical मुद्दे समजून घेतो. घटस्फोटाची कारणं काय असतात, WhatsApp chats कोर्टात पुरावा म्हणून चालतात का, Judicial separation आणि divorce यातला फरक, तसंच Mutual divorce आणि Cooling-off period म्हणजे काय यावर आपण ऍड. प्रतिभा घोरपडे आणि डॉ. सागर पाठक यांच्या बरोबर चर्चा केली आहे. यासोबतच Maintenance, Alimony, स्त्रीधन आणि Joint property बाबतचे नियम यावरही चर्चा केली आहे. पूर्ण एपिसोड नक्की बघा. When it comes to divorce, the legal process is often confusing and hard to understand. In this episode of Khuspus, we discuss the legal and technical aspects of divorce in a simple way. We talk about the reasons for divorce, what cruelty means in legal terms, whether WhatsApp chats can be used as evidence in court, the difference between judicial separation and divorce, and how mutual divorce and the cooling-off period work. We also discuss the rules around maintenance, alimony, heritable and joint property. This conversation with Adv. Pratibha Ghorpade and Dr. Sagar Pathak helps clear common doubts. Do watch the full episode.आणि मित्रांनो आपलं Merch घेण्यासाठी लगेच click करा! Amuktamuk.swiftindi.com Disclaimer: व्हिडिओमध्ये किंवा आमच्या कोणत्याही चॅनेलवर पॅनलिस्ट/अतिथी/होस्टद्वारे सांगण्यात आलेली कोणतीही माहिती केवळ general information साठी आहे. पॉडकास्ट दरम्यान किंवा त्यासंबंधात व्यक्त केलेली कोणतीही मते निर्माते/कंपनी/चॅनल किंवा त्यांच्या कोणत्याही कर्मचाऱ्यांची मते/अभिव्यक्ती/विचार दर्शवत नाहीत.अतिथींनी केलेली विधाने सद्भावनेने आणि चांगल्या हेतूने केलेली आहेत ती विश्वास ठेवण्याजोगी आहेत किंवा ती सत्य आणि वस्तुस्थितीनुसार सत्य मानण्याचे कारण आहे. चॅनलने सादर केलेला सध्याचा व्हिडिओ केवळ माहिती आणि मनोरंजनाच्या उद्देशाने आहे आणि चॅनल त्याची अचूकता आणि वैधता यासाठी कोणतीही जबाबदारी घेत नाही.अतिथींनी किंवा पॉडकास्ट दरम्यान व्यक्त केलेली कोणतीही माहिती किंवा विचार व्यक्ती/कास्ट/समुदाय/वंश/धर्म यांच्या भावना दुखावण्याचा किंवा कोणत्याही संस्था/राजकीय पक्ष/राजकारणी/नेत्याचा, जिवंत किंवा मृत यांचा अपमान करण्याचा हेतू नाही.. Guests: Adv. Pratibha Ghorpade(Sr. Lawyer) & Dr. Sagar Pathak(Marriage Counsellor & Gynaecologist)Host: Omkar Jadhav.Creative Producer: Shardul Kadam.Editor: Rameshwar Garkal.Edit Assistant: Rohit Landge,Priyanka ThosarContent Manager: Sohan Mane.Social Media Manager: Sonali Gokhale.Social Media Intern: Anushri JoshiLegal Advisor: Savani Vaze.Business Development Manager: Sai Kher.About The Host Omkar Jadhav.Co-founder – Amuk Tamuk Podcast NetworkPodcast Host | Writer | Director | Actor | YouTube & Podcast ConsultantWith 8+ years in digital content, former Content & Programming Head at BhaDiPa & Vishay Khol.Directed 100+ sketches, 3 web series & non-fiction shows including Aai & Me, Jhoom, 9 to 5, Oddvata.Creative Producer – BErojgaar | Asst. Director – The Kerala StoryHost of Khuspus – a podcast on taboo and uncomfortable topics.Visiting Faculty – Ranade Institute, Pune University.Connect with us: Twitter: https://twitter.com/amuk_tamukInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/amuktamuk/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amuktamukpodcastsSpotify: Khuspus #AmukTamuk #marathipodcasts

Welcome to A Year and a Day. I'm Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this re-run episode, I'm talking with Kate Anthony, a certified high-conflict divorce coach and author of The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision about Your Marriage.Kate shares her insights from over a decade of coaching thousands of women through the agonizing choice of whether to stay in a marriage or pursue a divorce. We explore why women often stay in unhappy relationships for an average of four years before making a move, frequently choosing their children's or spouse's needs above their own. Kate challenges the cultural myth that "staying for the kids" is always the best path, noting that high-conflict or deeply unhappy households can create a toxic blueprint for a child's future relationships.Together, we discuss how to identify different forms of abuse—including emotional, financial, and spiritual—and the "frog in boiling water" syndrome that leaves many women desensitized to their own unhappiness. Kate provides a roadmap for self-actualization, explaining how to differentiate your inner guide from your inner critic and why personal development is the ultimate tool for a brighter future, whether that involves saving the marriage through qualified therapy or "saving the divorce" through healthy communication.Need help from Kate? Explore her resources and order her book by visiting kateanthony.com.If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting www.divorceistough.com.Like this show? Rate it here!While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

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     Slam The Gavel podcast welcomes back Todd Humes. He was last on the podcast Season 6, Episode 341. Today Todd gave updates regarding his case involving fraud, no Due Process, and how he has STILL been paying Alimony (while NOT divorced) for the last 5 YEARS at $360.00 per week. Today we discussed the corruption in the Domestic Relations Units and how a second Protection of Abuse Order has been signed with NO EVIDENCE by Judge Kurtz. Todd still hasn't been to court for the divorce to be finalized and his civil suit against his ex-wife and business partner. We also discussed the corrupt lawyers obstructing HIS JUSTICE and the corruption inside the courthouses in Pennsylvania.To Reach Todd Humes:  thumes42@gmail.com(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user/guest should consult with the relevant professionals. IRS CIRCULAR 230 DISCLOSURE: To ensure compliance with requirements imposed by the Internal Revenue Service, we inform you that any U.S. federal tax advice contained in this communication (including any attachments) is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, for the purpose of (1) avoiding penalties under the Internal Revenue Code or (2) promoting, marketing or recommending to another party any transaction or matter addressed herein. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. The content creator maintains the exclusive copyright and any unauthorized copyright usage is strictly prohibited.  Podcast is protected by owner from duplication, reproduction, distribution, making a derivative of the work or by owner displaying the podcast. Owner shall be held harmless and indemnified from any and all legal liability.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Have you felt paralyzed by the thought of meeting a divorce lawyer, fearing that stepping into the office makes the end of your marriage a done deal? What if that first meeting isn't about starting a fight, but about finally gaining the clarity and game plan you need to move forward?This week on A Year and a Day, Jaime Davis sits down with her colleague Grace Massarelli, a family law attorney at Gailor Hunt who guides clients through the high-anxiety early stages of separation. Grace pulls back the curtain on the initial consultation, transforming it from a scary "point of no return" into an empowering information-gathering session.They discuss the emotional intelligence required to navigate this transition and why the most important person in the room is actually you—the captain of your own goals.Tune in for:Why the initial consultation is the first page of your next chapter and how it can set the tone for your entire case.Normalizing the "emotional soup" of anxiety, guilt, and anger—and why authenticity is more important than a strong face in the lawyer's office.The "Exposure Check": Why your attorney needs to know the worst true thing the other side can say about you.The difference between legal options and non-legal alternatives (and why seeing a lawyer doesn't always mean a lawsuit).Why North Carolina's specific "Year and a Day" separation requirement makes this process a marathon, not a sprint.How to determine if a lawyer is a good fit for your personality and whether their approach aligns with your desired level of conflict.Practical tips on what to bring (contracts and prenups) and what to leave at home (thousands of text messages and five years of bank statements).The "Choose Your Own Adventure" nature of legal fees and how to communicate your budget to stay in control of the costs.Grace's three takeaways for anyone terrified to take the first step: It's okay to feel, information is power, and you will be okay.About Grace Massarelli:Grace Massarelli is a family law attorney at Gailor Hunt in North Carolina. She works closely with clients at the outset of their cases, helping them navigate the complexities of equitable distribution, alimony, and child custody with a focus on intentional decision-making and realistic expectations.Resources & Links:Gailor Hunt Law Firm: https://divorcestough.comFollow Gailor Hunt on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/gailor-hunt-davis-taylor-&-clark-r-p-l-l-c-/A Year and a Day is hosted by Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt.

When facing separation, the fear and overwhelm of finances can feel like the last insurmountable obstacle to freedom. Many people, paralyzed by the unknown, stay in unhappy marriages for the money.This week on A Year and a Day, Jaime Davis sits down with Lori Atwood, CFP®, founder of Fearless Finance, to demystify money management during and after divorce. Lori's firm provides objective, hourly, and affordable financial planning, driven by the mission that finances should never dictate a life-altering decision.They discuss the emotional roots of financial fear, the practical steps to gain control, and the critical elements of building a secure, sustainable life post-divorce.Tune in for:Why the question "Can I survive?" is often the last piece of the puzzle people need answered before deciding to leave a marriage.Lori's top two immediate steps for the "non-moneyed spouse" upon separation: establishing individual credit and gathering data on all accounts.Why the marital house is often "the elephant in the room" and why, from a financial standpoint, selling it is typically the cleaner and less stressful option.The financial pitfalls of nesting and why this arrangement is generally detrimental to long-term financial stability.Lori's simple spending tracker model that focuses only on two main areas—groceries and discretionary spending—to help people consistently spend less than they earn.The advantage of the hourly, no-commission financial planning model for divorcing individuals who need objective advice without the pressure of being sold products.The building blocks of a post-divorce financial roadmap, including cash reserves, emergency funds, and retirement savings.Lori's single most important piece of advice: The most critical thing to your finances is your happiness.About Lori Atwood:Lori Atwood is the founder of Fearless Finance, a firm dedicated to providing objective, hourly, and affordable financial planning. Her goal is to demystify personal finance and help people achieve financial wellbeing, especially during major life transitions like divorce.Resources & Links:Fearless Finance: https://fearlessfinance.comGailor Hunt Law Firm: https://divorcestough.comA Year and a Day is hosted by Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt.

On this episode, Chris, Koi, & Tay call up some friends to findout if men should take alimony if awarded?

    Slam The Gavel welcomes new guest, Todd Humes from Pennsylvania. He has been driving tractor trailer for 38 years. He had purchased a bar back in 2019 and getting through the pandemic was challenging. However, his ESTRANGED WIFE was managing the bar when Todd noticed LARGE amounts of money going missing. She put him out on a false PFA and from there he began paying alimony and is trying to get into court to obtain a divorce. To Reach Todd Humes: thumes42@gmail.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. For information only and no affiliation with legislation, bills or laws. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis is joined by her law partner, Melissa Essick, to discuss how parents can successfully navigate the holidays after separation and divorce, focusing on reducing stress and building new family traditions.Melissa stresses the importance of adjusting expectations: the holidays won't feel "normal" right away, but they will eventually find a "new normalcy" that can be positive for the children. They discuss why peace over presents is the guiding principle, and how a parent's calmness sets the tone for the entire season.Melissa introduces her key strategy for surviving the holidays: Plan, Prepare, Pivot. She shares practical advice on when to start coordinating holiday schedules (at least two months out), how to handle logistical roadblocks, and the critical need for flexibility. The attorneys also review best practices for communication, including the use of tools like Our Family Wizard to maintain a calm, fact-based tone, and offer guidance on sensitive topics like introducing a new partner and setting boundaries with extended family. Ultimately, they emphasize putting the children first to ensure a stress-free and joyful holiday season.If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting www.divorceistough.com.Like this show? Rate it here!While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

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Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis talks with Thad Hollis, an expert in conflict resolution, divorce coaching, and mediation, and the founder of Better Outcomes.Thad introduces his powerful philosophy: "Conflict is inevitable. Combat is optional." He explains how someone in the middle of a painful divorce can begin to view conflict as a "gift"—an opportunity for positive change rather than a source of destruction. Thad shares his mediation and coaching techniques, emphasizing the need for clients to "find their voice" and shift their mindset from a win-lose battleground to constructive negotiation.Jaime and Thad discuss common emotional roadblocks in divorce, such as the need "to be heard," feelings of unfairness, and the prevalence of power imbalances in relationships. They conclude by focusing on the ultimate goal: being kind and future-focused to ensure the best possible outcome for the children and the co-parenting relationship.Need help from Thad? Contact him by visiting betteroutcomes.au.If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting www.divorceistough.com.Like this show? Rate it here!While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

This week we're covering California's recent conformity to TCJA alimony provisions, and which taxpayers are affected.

Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude with Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. This week, Ryan and Amy unpack Colorado's evolving spousal maintenance (alimony) landscape—specifically how coercive control, domestic violence, and litigation abuse now factor into maintenance decisions under §14-10-114. They lay the groundwork for when maintenance is considered, how the advisory guideline interacts with income, duration, and tax changes, and what judges are being asked to weigh beyond the traditional factors.Episode HighlightsMaintenance 101 • When spousal maintenance is on the table after property division • How Colorado's advisory guideline works (income, duration, caps)New DV/Coercive Control Factor • How emotional/financial abuse, coercive control, and protection orders can affect awards • Why courts may look at access to money, debt in one party's name, and “litigation abuse”Practice & Proof • Evidence that helps: texts, photos, financial records, counseling history • The credibility challenge in DV cases—and why expert testimony can matterJudicial Reality & Open Questions • How judges may balance lifestyle history with abuse factors • Potential impacts on modifications and on payor/payee outcomesKey Takeaways • Maintenance decisions remain case-specific—now with explicit attention to abuse and control. • Early, thorough evidence gathering is crucial. • DV/coercive control issues may change whether maintenance is awarded, the amount, or duration.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

My guest is James Sexton, Esq., a renowned attorney specializing in contracts related to love and money—prenuptial agreements, divorce and custody. We explore the counterintuitive fact that people with prenuptial agreements tend to stay married longer and report more satisfying relationships than those who don't. We discuss how legal contracts can foster deeper understanding by encouraging vulnerability and honest communication about each partner's values and expectations. We also examine what defines true, lasting love versus generic romantic ideals—and how social media can distort our understanding of what we truly need. Additionally, we review how cultural traditions, gender dynamics, courtship length, and age at the time of marriage shape marital outcomes. This episode offers practical tools for anyone—single or partnered—to build more successful and stable relationships through deeply honest dialogue and contracts that reflect genuine values around love and money. Read the episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Wealthfront**: https://wealthfront.com/huberman BetterHelp: https://betterhelp.com/huberman Our Place: https://fromourplace.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman **This experience may not be representative of the experience of other clients of Wealthfront, and there is no guarantee that all clients will have similar experiences. Cash Account is offered by Wealthfront Brokerage LLC, Member FINRA/SIPC. The Annual Percentage Yield (“APY”) on cash deposits as of December 27,‬ 2024, is representative, subject to change, and requires no minimum. Funds in the Cash Account are swept to partner banks where they earn the variable‭ APY. Promo terms and FDIC coverage conditions apply. Same-day withdrawal or instant payment transfers may be limited by destination institutions, daily transaction caps, and by participating entities such as Wells Fargo, the RTP® Network, and FedNow® Service. New Cash Account deposits are subject to a 2-4 day holding period before becoming available for transfer. Timestamps 00:00:00 James Sexton 00:02:19 Divorce & Breakups, Men vs Women, Perception; Infidelity 00:12:04 Sponsors: Wealthfront & BetterHelp 00:14:41 Contracts, Business, Marriage Celebration, Prenups 00:26:24 Nesting; Prenups, Creating Rulesets 00:33:56 Prenups & Strengthening Marriage 00:38:19 Marriage Traditions; Divorce Rates, Religion 00:44:44 First vs Second Marriages, Love & Impermanence 00:50:09 Sponsors: AG1 & Our Place 00:53:53 Contracts, Relationships & Hard Conversations 01:02:37 Marriage & Underlying Problems, Love, Successful Marriages 01:16:27 Ideals, Social Media & Advertising, Simplicity, Dogs 01:27:33 Sponsor: Function 01:29:26 Intimacy, Tool: Early Framework for Hard Discussions 01:37:06 Prenup Consultation, Legal Defaults, Reasons for Marriage 01:47:37 Alimony, Prenups & Creating Rulesets, Yours, Mine & Ours, Adultery, Pets 02:02:30 Fond Memories & Ending Relationship, Pain, Divorce 02:12:49 Social Media, Movies & Ideals, Pornography vs Real Sexual Relationships 02:22:43 Revealing Flaws, Bravery, Prenups & Expectations, Money 02:37:49 Bravery, Vulnerability, Relationship Changes, Men vs Women, Marriage 02:47:11 Relationship Sacrifices, Men & Women; Prenups, Government 02:54:45 Life Milestones, Early vs Late Marriage, Navigating Challenges 03:01:38 Courtship Period & Marital Outcomes 03:10:12 Knowing Self & Partner, Vulnerability 03:16:58 "Postnup", Rekindling or Ending Relationships, Tool: Leave a Note 03:26:41 Heartbreak & Love, Divorce; Acknowledgements 03:34:45 Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow & Reviews, Sponsors, YouTube Feedback, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures