(not so) Secret Dads Business

This episode is #125 and the final episode for (not so) Secret Dads Business. Judge pulled out the stops and surprised Nate by inviting 2 previous guests, Shannon and Rob from Shedadigans. Matt aka Nip Slip also joined the show. This episode was a busy one with 6 of us all up, coming together for the final wrap up of the podcast. Thank you to all of you who have listened over the past 4 years. That includes you, listener. Producing this show has been fulfilling beacuse people like you have taken the time to listen. Thank you for joining me on this journey of trying to become a better dad, friend and man. - Nate

This episode, Nate and Judge consider the Mandela Effect and discuss why this phenomenon exists. They discuss whether we're in a simulation or whether parallel timelines have crossed over and bled into one. The third possibility is scarier and Nate ponders if it's a deep state conspiracy to lie to the world population and confuse the masses.

This week, the guys open up the doors to "The Clubhouse" and shoot the shit with the audience before the show. Then, its onto Tangent City. There was no specific topic, the guys just went off on the tangent train and spoke about a bunch of unrelated topics. The guys talk about going on a haunted house adventure, experiencing an exorcism, how Disney is planning on a Disney villain area at Disney World and Nate gets a marriage proposal.

Scenarios like surviving a natural or geopolitical disaster, a zombie apocalypse, surviving a stint in prison, along with who's the most approachable among others, this episodes delves into the question, posed by Judge and our audience, of “who's most likely”, comparing between Nate, Judge and Rob.

This episode, Rob and Nate are hanging out without Judge! Rob has been down the Reddit rabbit hole and found some interesting questions to ponder over, like: What's your favourite finger? What's your favourite dinosaur? Can a surrogate baby claim the citizenship of the egg or sperm donor? AITAH for telling my wife my honest opinion? Feel free to reach out to us on our socials and give us your answers to these questions!

This episode Nate, Judge and Rob talk about a topic that may be considered taboo or macabre. Everyone ends up having one and no-one likes planning them. That's right, they're talking about funerals. Judge brings us a list of funeral traditions from across the globe to discuss. The guys also play around with wild and absurd ideas for their own funeral. Special guests are the NSSDB wives! The guys ask their wives their opinion on Taiwanese strippers at funerals.

This episode, Judge is out but Jai is in! Nate and Rob hang out with a good friend of the podcast. Jai is a fire cracker and she always has something to say!

BIG NEWS!!!! Rob has joined Nate and Judge as a permanent host! With that, we'll be rebranding the podcast soon and the show name will change! This episode, Judge brought a game to the podcast and he called it "What The Fuck Are They Selling?" Judge presented a series of photos with obscure context to Nate and Rob and asked the guys what the person was selling. This episode was full of laughs!!

A quick show update! Much love to our listeners and we appreciate your patience!!

This week, Nate Judge and Rob are back with some deeper conversation for Men's Mental Health Month. Do men grieve after a long term relationship has ended? Are there double standards between men and women when it comes to dating? Will a screaming toddler get you out of a speeding ticket? The boys throw their hat in the ring and make their opinions known!

This episode is the 3rd annual US Fathers Day episode! For Nate and Judge, this is the pinnacle of their year! Nate had a couple of suggestions from the audience, Rob went down a reddit rabbit hole for bad Fathers Day gifts and Judge found the 2024 Fathers Day gifts list according to The Strategist from New York Magazine. This episode had all 3 guys get out of their seats and leave the room at some point. There are many laughs, many criticisms and many "WHAT THE FUCKS?' Strap in! This one is worth listening to!!

This episode, Nate and Judge are back after a week off. Nate prefaces the show with the reason the show had an off week (excuses, excuses), then the guys get into it full swing. The guys start off talking about the relief of the Tyson/Paul fight being called off. Judge then goes on to tell Nate about the latest graphic novel that has comic book fans divided and now each side are livid at the other. Nate was surprised to find out that Superman has PTSD among other superheroes. Nate and Judge then start talking about ancient civilisations, ancient, modern and alien technology.

Nate, Judge and Rob are back for another banger!! The guys discuss a whole string of tangents, as usual. They kick off with the annoying things that their spouses do that drive them nuts and for the life of them, the guys don't understand why they do it! Judge has a good bitch about the upcoming Tyson fight with splits boys brother and then the guys move on to talk about break up stories. Tune in next week to find out how the Americans like baked beans on toast.

Nate, Judge and Rob get into the weeds in this one! The guys discuss Mothers Day brunch and Nate mentions his morning out with his family and in-laws. Rob and Judge are perplexed about why anyone would want beans on toast. The guys then go on to talk about the hot topic doing the rounds online that everyone is talking about lately. Would you rather encounter a man or a bear in the woods? The guys go on several tangents as always and they were really ready to have a go at this one.

This week, Nate and Judge were run off their feet and didnt have a chance to catch up so they're bringing you another Best Bits episode. Join Nate down memory lane listening to some clips of older episodes, including the first appearance of Judge on NSSDB.

This week, Nate and Judge have our professional asshole, Heavy Drop aka Rob joining us on the show. First, the guys discuss entitle people thinking they can't be arrested, teaching our boys how to stand up for themselves and how violence isn't always the answer, but if you need to fight, make sure you win. After that, the guys pick up from last week and read a list of porn searches that our audience have as their go to category. Nate reads out the list of the top 8 category searches for every generation from Boomers to Gen Z. As a special treat, because Rob was live with Nate and Judge, we get a live, off the cuff safety brief. Special shout out to  @Pods.R.Us.  for the spotlight on the podcast this past week!!

This week, Nate kicks off the show by telling Judge about the disgraced "momfluencer", Ruby Fanke. Nate details the child abuse and neglect she committed while also posting videos about her "tough love" parenting. After that, Judge lightens the mood a bit by covering the top porn searches in America, state by state. We found that some states are into the gentler side with things like tickling and sensual sex. Other states however, go way off the deep end with search terms we wont disclose here. You'll have to listen to the episode for all the tea.

This week, Nate and Judge were off air so the boys are bringing you the 4th instalment in our Best Bits series. We'd love to hear your feedback from these clips. These are some of the crowd favourites from some of our more recent episodes. Join us on YouTube every week Saturday 9pm EST in the USA and Sunday 11am AEST in Australia!!

This week, Nate and Judge jump on the tangent train for one of their wildest rides yet. The boys cover a slew of topics and for the first time on the show, we touch on the 2 most hated topics in society; politics and religion. They discuss the latest buzzword of the day and why its being used in the wrong context and how its being used to gaslight people. What's that word? Satire Don't get offended by this episode if you don't agree with the opinions of Nate and Judge. This whole episode is just "SATIRE".

We were lucky to get this episode happening this week. Judge shares his health scare over Easter. He was rushed to hospital thinking he was having a heart attack. Luckily everything was all clear and he's as healthy as a horse. Judge then shares a blood boiling story of an example of shitty parenting. PSA, Don't leave your toddler home alone for 10 days while you go on vacation. From there, Nate and Judge continue on a lighter note as Judge asks Nate about his experience giving a sperm sample at the fertility clinic and he was surprised that it involves having a dry rub. This episode is full of highs and lows but its exactly what you would expect from these 2 chuckle heads.

This episode, Judge invited his good friend, Shannon to have a chat with us on the show. As Nate and Judge have made clear on the show, they both have shitty experiences with their dads. Having Shannon come onto the podcast to talk about her father was something totally new for the guys. Both Nate and Judge got emotional listening to Shannon's stories about her father. She regaled the guys with stories about her fathers cross country trucking, how he met her mother, how he got clean from cocaine addiction and many other stories that will tug on your heart strings. Join us every week, LIVE, on YouTube to catch the episode before it goes out to audio podcast platforms.

This episode was recorded in January 2024.

This episode, Nate and Judge are back at it again, taking the train to tangent town!! We kick off the show, talking about Mike Tyson's latest scheduled fight. Out of principle, mainly because he doesn't need the recognition boost, we wouldn't mention his opponents name. We consider how the fight might turn. out, how we'd like to see it play out and basically bitched about how a "boxer" who fights nobody's, has the balls to call out Iron Mike. After the heat dies down, we have a lively conversation with input from those who joined the chat about the coolest thing you could think of putting into your house and whether you'd move into a potentially haunted house. Join us live each week to get in on the action!!

This week, Nate and Judge have the Professional Asshole, Rob aka Heavy Drop joining us to do our first live safety debrief at the end of the show. Judge kicks off the episode with an important PSA regarding the wellbeing of amateur and professional porn stars. Nate moves then shifts the conversation towards movies. He leaves Rob and Judge speechless with the news that he just watched "Goodfellas" for the first time. Judge and Rob become disturbed by the number of iconic movies Nate hasn't seen, and for a moment, Judge breaks. Also, find out what Old Mother Hubbard was up to in our weekly safety debrief.

This episode, Nate opens the episode talking about his viewing experience of Black Summer on Netflix and talks about the storyline and cinematography of the show and how it has set the show apart from other zombie related shows. Judge then brings us some infuriating news about the tooth fairy. Apparently, she's getting richer and richer as she hands out Louis Vuitton bracelets and silver necklaces. Strap in as this one had Nate gritting his teeth in anger.

This episode, Nate and Judge talk about LARPing, fitness and general dad shit that we focus on but we're still unsure if its just old people shit. Join the guys for another awesome episode!!

Its the podcasts 100th episode! Its also our first live episode! Our good mate Geoff joins us for this episode and Judge asks us some deep questions. Would you rather 1000 ant sized bulls or 1 bull sized ant? Would you rather live in The Walking Dead or Jurassic Park? Tune in to hear the rest or watch on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/live/Yphj2De9pq4?si=NhHGzNgSgHVAiIGk

Part 3 of our Best Bits series is here! This episode, Nate had Judge choose some of his favourite clips from our episodes together! Have a listen and join us as we go down memory lane for a 3rd time. Don't forget to tune in next week for our 1st episode of Season 4 and our 100th episode for NSSDB!

Welcome back for our second episode in our Best Bits series! Boy! Do we have a show for you! Make sure you go back and listen to the back catalogue of Nate and Judge. You wont regret it!

This week we're bringing you a new type of episode. These are some of the best bits recorded in June and July 2022. Join us as we walk down memory lane and listen to some snippets from some of our favourite episodes. We'll have another "Best Bits" episode next week to keep your ear pussies moist for our return on the first week of February!!

This episode is a short one. Here's an update for what's to come in 2024 for (not so) Secret Dads Business. Join us next week for our first "Best Of" episode!! We'll be bringing new episodes to your ear pussies in February 2024!!

In this episode, we wrap up the podcast for 2023, and Judge gets a Christmas miracle and has a chance to catch up with an old friend. Rob is an old friend of Judge, going back to the days of 1990s New Jersey. Rob regails Nate and Judge with some of his war stories and fatherhood experiences. The guys all discuss the moment all children have at some point in their early lives, the "Santa isn't real" moment. They go on to talk about how their kids handled the news of the myth of old Saint Nick. Have yourselves a safe and joyful holiday break. Don't drive drunk this holiday season and help protect other families on the roads. We'll be back in 2024 with a brand new season of NSSDB! PEACE!

This episode, Judge opens with 3 men he thought would be better nominees for GQ Magazine Man of the Year. Judge hits us with another "Can We Stop?!" and he talks about how cold LARPing in winter is. Nate and Judge also talk about supporting friends, how kids appreciate our time over what we can buy them and we answer another audience question. Come join the fun and have a listen!

This episode is a first for both NSSDB and the Young Dad Podcast! We have created a special crossover for your listening pleasure! Tune in for some awesome conversation on a plethora of different topics. Nate and Jey kick off talking about the differences between the USA and Australia, especially the wildlife. They then go on to talk about why they both started their respective podcasts and by the end of the episode, they wrap up sharing their opinions on parental alienation and what that can look like.

This episode, Judge kicks us off with a good rant and tells Nate about the GQ Magazine "Man" of the Year for 2023. Nate and Judge then go on to answer some listener questions. They talk about the infamous talk of the birds and the bees and they talk about who they would like their kids to have met whom may have moved out of their lives or passed away. Nate and Judge also answer the question of what they looked forward to about fatherhood before they became dads and why the phrase "because I said so" is counterintuitive to effective parenting. Nate even embarks on his first rant of the show as well. Tune in as Nate and Judge ponder all of these questions and more!!

Join Nate and Judge as they dive headfirst into the chaos of modern society. In this episode, the hosts candidly discuss the precarious state of the world, emphasizing the challenges faced by those caught in the crossfire of extreme views. They also discuss how hard being a single parent is, especially while going through a divorce, paying child support, paying for childcare and the effect has not having two parents in the house can negatively affect our children. They also share their insights, drawing parallels between societal tension and the snap-back effect of a pulled rubber band. They dissect the pitfalls of extreme ideologies and urge listeners to find balance in their perspectives. The episode takes a turn as they discuss controversies, including the JK Rowling situation and the nuances of separating art from the artist. Nate and Judge engage in a lively debate about standing up for one's beliefs without alienating friends, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue over knee-jerk reactions. As the conversation flows, Nate and Judge encourage listeners to send in questions, anecdotes, and funny stories about fatherhood. From the volume of dad sneezes to relatable dad tropes, they promise to turn the next episode into a fan-driven laugh fest.

In this engaging episode, join Nate as he sits down with author and humorist Tom Kreffer to delve into the joys, challenges, and humorous moments of parenthood. Tom's latest book, "The Search for Sanity," takes us on a hilarious and heartfelt journey through the world of raising a toddler, where everyday situations become laugh-out-loud anecdotes. Nate and Tom discuss the magic of storytelling, reflect on the unique ways children perceive the world, and share their experiences dealing with toddler tantrums and the quest for the ever elusive "listening ears." We explore the creative aspects of Tom's writing style, which includes bringing a fish in a Chinese restaurant and a fictional character named Mr. Jacobs to life. Discover why "The Search for Sanity" is considered the best in the series and how it captures the essence of parenthood with a perfect blend of humor and heartfelt moments. If you're a parent, uncle, aunt, grandparent, or simply love a good laugh, this episode is a must listen. Tom's insightful and hilarious stories will remind you that parenthood is a wild ride filled with laughter and chaos, and you're never alone in the journey. Tune in now and get ready to laugh your way through the ups and downs of raising a toddler!

Nate and Judge are back with another episode and were bringing back our friend Geoff! This episode is to be expected with the three of us. We talk about hobbies. Hobbies we have, hobbies we are interested in and hobbies we can't afford. We also asked each other what our least used impulse buy was. All three guys go on many different side quests, but we all come together with our own perspectives on things.

In this episode of (not so) Secret Dads Business, join Nate as he engages in a transatlantic conversation with his dear friend, R.L. Shawver, who is a passionate advocate for freedom, resilience, and character-building. Together, they embark on a profound exploration of the intricate world of modern parenting and the values we instill in our children. Drawing inspiration from the timeless principles the Founding Fathers enshrined in the U.S. Constitution, this episode dives deep into the concept of liberty and the challenges of preserving it in a world brimming with diverse perspectives and digital distractions. The dialogue is not limited to the American context; it spans continents and touches upon the universal themes of nurturing strong character and resilience in the youth. Amidst the exchange of ideas, Nate and R.L. recount personal anecdotes and share insightful experiences from their journey as fathers. They discuss the profound importance of connecting with our children in this fast-paced, technologically driven era and fostering resilience that will help them navigate the complexities of our contemporary world. The heart of this episode lies in the genuine conversations between these two friends who, despite living on different sides of the world, share a common goal: raising children who embody compassion, confidence, and resilience. We hope this episode inspires parents to cultivate young minds with values rooted in freedom, integrity, and empathy. It showcases the transformative power of love, open dialogue, and understanding as essential tools for nurturing the heroes of tomorrow. Don't miss this thought-provoking journey into the realm of parenthood and the profound impact it can have on the world.

This episode, Judge is back for the second time in a row. Infact, he's back EVERY WEEK!! This episode, we're all aboard the tangent train yet again. Nate and Judge discuss Nates visit to the Zoo, the ridiculous things people do for TikTok, and Nate goes on a rant about fuel prices. Later on in the episode, Judge brings the attention to the strength and inspiration one woman can have. Shout outs to: @thequirkymouse @ecentricart @kieramitchell_ @j7healthjaveno

In this unfiltered episode, Judge has returned to the show! We dive deep into the joys, challenges, and raw emotions of fatherhood. With candid humor, expletive laced rants, genuine insights and plenty of tangents, we share personal experiences and explore the importance of checking in on your physical and emotional well-being as a dad. From heartfelt anecdotes about meaningful gifts from their kids to discussing the significance of early cancer detection, this episode is a rollercoaster of laughter and valuable life lessons. Tune in to this authentic conversation that emphasizes the importance of cherishing family moments and maintaining your health to be there for your loved ones. Whether you're a seasoned parent or just starting your fatherhood journey, this episode offers relatable and thought-provoking content that every dad can connect with. Don't miss this episode full of dad jokes, heartfelt advice, and the reminder that being there for your kids is the greatest gift of all

In this episode, Nate dives into a candid conversation with Matt, a devoted dad and the creator of an innovative project called Kidbox.fun. In this engaging conversation, Matt shares his journey from city life in Denver, Colorado, to rural South Dakota, where he's embraced the role of a dedicated dad to three teenage daughters. He opens up about his experiences as an entrepreneur and how his ventures led him to rediscover his true purpose—being a dad. The conversation takes a humorous turn as they discuss the challenges and fun of parenting, including those awkward moments in the tampon aisle and embarrassing kids with dad jokes. Matt shares heartwarming stories of watching his daughters grow through activities like cheerleading and drama, emphasizing the importance of being there for their milestones. The spotlight then shifts to Matt's latest project, Kidbox.fun, a monthly subscription box designed to help dads spend quality time with their kids. Matt explains how each box contains unique activities, books, and surprises that encourage dads and their children to bond and explore together. He shares the inspiration behind Kidbox.fun and the diverse range of experiences it offers. As the conversation unfolds, Matt and the host reflect on the challenges of modern fatherhood and how they are learning to redefine their roles as dads in today's world. They discuss the importance of imagination and creativity in parenting and how Kidbox.fun is helping dads break free from the routine and embrace new adventures with their kids. Tune in to this episode to discover how Matt's journey from entrepreneurship to fatherhood led to the creation of Kidbox.fun and how this exciting project is helping dads become superheroes in the eyes of their children. Get ready for laughter, insights, and inspiration in this delightful episode that celebrates the joys and challenges of being a dad. Check out Matts website www.kidbox.fun or follow him on Instagram and Facebook @kidbox.fun

In this inspiring episode, our host, Nate engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Chris Phillips, a passionate entrepreneur and mindset enthusiast. Chris shares his remarkable journey from a traditional 9-to-5 job to becoming a successful business owner and mindset coach. Join us as Chris reveals the pivotal moments in his life that led him to embrace the power of a positive mindset. Through candid anecdotes and insightful advice, he demonstrates how a shift in perspective can transform your personal and professional life. Discover how Chris and his wife achieved a harmonious blend of work and family life, where they prioritize their children and personal growth while running multiple businesses. Learn about the importance of rewarding yourself for your efforts and fostering a balanced life that encourages success and happiness. Chris delves into the significance of setting aside the fear of judgment and embracing your inner child to find joy and fulfillment in everyday experiences. As he prepares to launch his mindset coaching services, Chris offers a glimpse into the tools and strategies he's developing to help individuals unlock their full potential and achieve greatness. Tune in to this episode for an uplifting conversation that will leave you inspired and motivated to embark on your own mindset makeover journey. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur, a seasoned professional, or someone seeking personal growth, Chris's wisdom and positivity will leave a lasting impact. Don't miss this opportunity to learn how to revolutionize your life through the power of mindset.

In this emotionally charged and inspiring episode, we dive deep into the life of Josh, a single father who battled addiction and emerged as a remarkable example of resilience and transformation. Join us as we hear Josh's incredible journey from the clutches of addiction to becoming a devoted and loving super dad. Josh opens up about the all-encompassing grip of addiction and how it controlled every facet of his life. From the incessant thoughts to the daily rituals, Josh shares the stark realities of his struggle. He paints a vivid picture of the dark days and nights where addiction seemed like the only escape and the fear of facing life without it was paralyzing. But this episode isn't just about the past; it's a testament to the power of redemption. Josh shares his newfound perspective on life, embracing the beauty of the everyday moments with his four children. You'll be touched by his dedication to being a hands-on dad and his ability to find joy in the simplest of interactions, even if it's playing superheroes. As the conversation unfolds, Josh candidly discusses the challenges of single parenthood, the financial strain, and the sacrifices he's made to provide for his family. He also emphasizes the importance of being brutally honest with his kids, sharing life's truths with them in a way he wished he had experienced growing up. Tune in to this episode to witness Josh's incredible journey, his unwavering commitment to fatherhood, and his dedication to helping others overcome addiction. You'll gain a fresh perspective on the trials and triumphs of parenting, all while being inspired by Josh's remarkable transformation from addiction to being a super dad.

In this empowering episode of (not so) Secret Dads Business, Nate dives deep into the world of resilience and self-improvement with the ever insightful Kristian Moore, founder of the Resilience Revolution Facebook group. They unravel the essential aspects of mental and emotional resilience that every man needs to cultivate in order to navigate life's challenges and emerge stronger. Kristian shares his personal journey of overcoming adversity and how it led him to create a thriving community focused on fostering resilience in men. Tune in as they discuss the crucial differences in how men and women approach problem-solving, offering an eye-opening perspective on relationship dynamics. Delve into the intricate balance between vulnerability and maintaining respect, understanding how to be emotionally open without compromising the respect that is integral to a healthy relationship. As they explore the realms of accountability and self-respect, Kristian and Nate shed light on the power of recognizing one's role in both the problems and solutions, emphasizing the importance of taking control of your life's trajectory. Discover how building a network of like-minded men can provide the external support and accountability needed to unleash your full potential. With valuable insights and practical strategies, this episode serves as a blueprint for fostering mental, emotional, and financial resilience in your journey towards becoming a stronger, more empowered man. If you're ready to embark on a journey of transformation, this episode of (not so) Secret Dads Business is a must-listen. Join Nate and Kristian as they guide you towards building the life you envision, fortified with resilience and determination. Find Kristian's Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/theresiliencerevolution

In this thought-provoking episode, join Nate as he engages in a compelling conversation with James, a visionary entrepreneur and educator on a mission to transform education through the power of 3D printing. Drawing from his unique experiences and insights, James shares how he and his wife are reshaping the way students learn by integrating hands-on, practical skills into the curriculum. With a focus on problem-solving, creativity, and critical thinking, James explains how their innovative approach challenges traditional educational paradigms. As the discussion unfolds, listeners gain a deeper understanding of the limitations of conventional schooling and how James is pushing boundaries to create a more dynamic learning environment. Tune in to discover how James is addressing the shortcomings of the current education system, tackling issues such as rigid curriculum structures, limited creativity, and lack of engagement. Learn about the potential of 3D printing and coding to empower students with practical skills that extend beyond the classroom walls. From sharing anecdotes of teachers' and parents' reactions to his program to discussing the exciting developments he envisions for the future, James sheds light on the importance of school choice, adaptive teaching methods, and fostering a love for learning. Join Nate and James as they explore the pressing issues in education today and discuss the path towards a brighter, more hands-on educational future. If you're curious about the future of education, the role of technology in learning, and how you can be a part of this transformative movement, this episode is a must-listen. Get ready to be inspired and rethink what education could be in an ever-changing world. Find James at: www.3dprintedcreations.com FB: 3dprintedcreations IG: 3dprinted_creations Twitter: 3dcreations_ Want to be a guest? Contact Nate at: notsosecretdadsbusiness@gmail.com https://www.notsosecretdadsbusiness.com/be-a-guest-on-nssdb

Step into a world of resilience and creativity in this episode of (not so) Secret Dads Business]. Nate engages in a profound dialogue with Nemiah VanGuilder, a gifted author and artist, as he shares his courageous journey from the clutches of addiction to the realm of artistic inspiration. Nemiah's unfiltered narrative unveils the arduous battle with addiction, a struggle many face in silence. Through sheer determination, he emerged from darkness, harnessing newfound clarity and purpose. His story is a testament to the unwavering human spirit. Explore the depths of Nemiah's creative process, especially his latest work, "The Unseen Gift: A Christmas Love Story." As he peels back the layers of this enchanting tale, you'll uncover the profound connections between creativity and healing. Join Nate and Nemiah for an intimate exploration of the intersections between adversity, recovery, and imagination. Buy Nemiah's Books: www.vanguilder-kane-books.com Be a Guest on (not so) Secret Dads Business: Email Nate at notsosecretdadsbusiness@gmail.com or on the website https://www.notsosecretdadsbusiness.com/be-a-guest-on-nssdb

Heather Neilsen is an anti porn activist and addiction coach. This episode we talk about porn addiction and the effect it has within the family. We also talk about how accessible porn is to our underage children and the effects it has on them. Heather has a new website up to help men, youth and families work through porn and masturbation addiction and the negative impacts it has on the psyche and our relationships. Check out the work Heather is doing through the links below.   Fight The Beast Website: fightthebeast.org Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fightthebeastorg/

Join Nate on a gripping episode of (not so) Secret Dads Business as he tackles the disturbing topic of child exploitation. Special guest, Akhim Dev, a renowned documentary filmmaker and investigative journalist, shares his experiences and insights from his global adventures covering stories on this crucial issue. Akhim's work extends to his podcast, "The Children in the Pictures," and his feature documentary of the same name available on SBS on Demand.In this episode, Nate and Akhim delve into the distinction between the terms, child pornography and child exploitation material, shedding light on the global efforts to redefine terminology and prosecute these crimes effectively. Akhim emphasizes the importance of digital evidence in bringing perpetrators to justice.Listeners will be captivated by Akhim's journey, which led him to spend years with Taskforce Argos, a law enforcement agency dedicated to combating child exploitation. He recounts a chilling encounter with a prisoner that exposed the extent of online child exploitation, prompting him to venture into the dark web and collaborate with Taskforce Argos.As the conversation unfolds, Akhim reveals the unprecedented level of international cooperation among law enforcement agencies such as Taskforce Argos, the FBI, Homeland Security and Interpol. The emotional toll on these dedicated individuals adds a profound dimension to the discussion.Throughout the episode, Nate and Akhim stress the importance of raising awareness about child exploitation and understanding its pervasive nature. Listeners will gain insights into the intricate networks and communities operating on the dark web, engaging in the trade of explicit material involving children.But that's not all. In a thought-provoking segment, Nate and Akhim shift the focus to the evolving landscape of child protection in the digital age. Drawing from personal experiences and expert insights, they explore the unique risks each age group faces online, from predators disguised as friends to unsupervised internet access. The discussion highlights the need for vigilance and responsible digital parenting, offering practical tips and cautionary tales.Join us for this eye-opening episode of (not so) Secret Dad's Business, as Nate and Akhim unravel the complexities of child exploitation, shine a light on the critical work of law enforcement agencies, and advocate for a better understanding of this pervasive issue in society. In addition, dive into the alarming shift in child safety concerns from physical spaces to the digital world, and gain valuable insights on safeguarding our children's well-being in the digital age.You can find Akhim's documentary, "The Children In The Pictures" on SBS on Demand at www.sbs.com.au/ondemand/tv-program/the-children-in-the-pictures/1957876291797or you can listen to the podcast of the same name at https://www.listnr.com/podcasts/the-children-in-the-pictures or wherever you stream your podcasts.

This episode, Joseph Pereira is on the show! Join us as we have an honest and heartfelt conversation about the beautiful, chaotic, and ever-changing journey of parenting. From the importance of being present and learning from the everyday moments to the bittersweet feeling of watching our children grow and leave the nest.Discover the raw emotions and mixed feelings that come with raising kids, the challenges of balancing work and family life, and the continuous learning process of being a parent. We also touch upon the dynamics within a family, the importance of communication, and the significance of supporting our loved ones emotionally.

In this episode, my guest, Steve Smith and I, delve into the topic of control and the importance of breaking free from limiting beliefs. Through a captivating conversation, we uncover the desire for control in our lives and how it often goes beyond material wealth. From the longing for a stress-free life to pursuing passions and hobbies, we discuss the tragic reality of settling for unhappiness and the liberating moment when one realizes they have a choice.As Nate and Steve share personal stories and insights, they highlight the role of consistency and small wins in creating momentum towards a more fulfilling life. The discussion also delves into the powerful influence of money on our mindset, challenging the conventional notions surrounding wealth and success. With anecdotes and reflections, the hosts emphasize the importance of redefining our relationship with money and how it can be a tool for positive change and making a lasting impact.