The Other Woman And The Wife

In this weeks episode of TOWTW podcast, hosts Chelsea and Ann Marie welcome back guest Luke Shillings. Chelsea and Luke courageously share their contrasting experiences growing up in the shadow of parental infidelity revealing how the same type of family disruption created two very different journeys to healing. This episode explores how childhood perspectives on adult betrayal shape our relationships, outlook, and personal growth. A must-listen for anyone navigating family complexities or supporting children through difficult transitions.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women Community: Use Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membershipApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUEST LINKSWebsite: www.lifecoachluke.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachlukeInstagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachlukeLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachlukeTikTok: @mylifecoachlukeDiscovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-callPodcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcastSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

Self-care alert: TOWTW Podcast will be taking an Easter Break this week. With new episodes and guests returning next Sunday!SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women Community: Use Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membershipApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

Self-care alert: TOWTW Podcast will be taking an Easter Break this week. With new episodes and guests returning next Sunday!SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women Community: Use Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membershipApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this week's episode, Chelsea retells a story about a woman experiencing a sexual awakening through an affair, leaving her torn about her marriage's future. Together, with co-host Ann Marie, they unpack the woman's complex dilemma, examining how societal judgment shapes our views on infidelity while advocating for personal autonomy and authentic desires over rigid marital expectations. Join us for a candid conversation about navigating the tension between personal fulfillment and societal pressure in intimate relationships.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women Community: Use Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membershipApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this week's episode of TOWTW Podcast we are revisiting an episode from our vault. Chelsea shares a story about a woman who finds herself widowed and in an affair with a co-worker. When her affair partner passes away suddenly she finds herself very alone in her grief as nobody knows the full extent of their relationship.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women Community: Use Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membershipApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this powerful TOWTW episode, Chelsea is joined by returning guest Carolina Vilalva to challenge the notion of staying in unhappy marriages "for the kids." They reveal how children inevitably sense parental tension and Carolina explains why showing children it's acceptable to leave situations that compromise your wellbeing might be more valuable than preserving an unhappy home, offering a fresh perspective on this difficult parenting dilemma.Guest Bio:Carolina is a certified Executive and Life Coach from Columbia University with over 11 years of experience specializing in life transitions for couples, executives, teenagers, and parents. She holds a B.A. in Clinical Psychology and International Relations from Tufts University and a Master's in International Education.Carolina's training includes EFT, IOPT, DISC assessments, and she is pursuing licensure in Neurofeedback. A Third Culture Kid and part of a blended multicultural family, she has lived on four continents and is currently based in Maputo, Mozambique, where her husband serves as a diplomat.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women Community: Use Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membershipApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this intimate solo episode of TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea speaks directly from the heart about the business she has created. With characteristic honesty, she shares the pivotal moments that inspired her new courses and the current life experiences deepening her commitment to this work. Join her for this rare, vulnerable conversation as she reveals the true passion behind her mission and why she's more excited than ever to help others transform their challenging experiences into opportunities for growth.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women Community: Use Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membershipApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this candid TOWTW episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie explore ghosting in relationships, particularly affairs. Using Esther Perel's accountability framework, they reveal how intuition signals uncomfortable truths before we consciously recognize them. Through personal insights, they transform ghosting from trauma to growth, emphasizing how honest endings—though difficult—ultimately empower all parties involved. For access to the Relationship Accountability chart referenced in todays episode follow this link. https://www.estherperel.com/blog/relationship-accountability?gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjw7dm-BhCoARIsALFk4v_h6nv4QPEGtuc1GNGiUCQgjKACmE-lr39R3NZW3QvEBuvbkvTZ0DEaAqEAEALw_wcBSUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityUse Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membership!Apply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this powerful episode of The Other Woman and The Wife, Chelsea sits down with New York Times bestselling author and spiritual thought-leader Rob Bell. The former pastor and creator of the RobCast explores how love extends beyond conventional boundaries—especially after infidelity. Rob offers a compassionate framework for understanding our most complicated relationships without judgment, showing how better questions can transform our approach to life's messiest moments and open genuine pathways to healing.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this follow-up episode, Chelsea and Luke explore the journey beyond infidelity trauma. Building on their previous discussion of grief, we examine how to rebuild trust in others and ourselves after infidelity has entered the chat. Together they share their insights on overcoming self-sabotage, managing vulnerability fears, and rediscovering authentic connection.Use promo code: PODCAST at check-out to receive $10 off a TOWTW Community membership!SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUEST LINKSWebsite: www.lifecoachluke.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachlukeInstagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachlukeLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachlukeTikTok: @mylifecoachlukeDiscovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-callPodcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcastSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

Why does love feel dangerous after betrayal? Part 1 of this special series of The Other Woman & The Wife features Chelsea and Luke Shillings exploring the paradox of craving connection while being terrified of it. Join us next week for Part 2, where they share how pain can be transformed into deeper, more authentic connection.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUEST LINKSWebsite: www.lifecoachluke.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachlukeInstagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachlukeLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachlukeTikTok: @mylifecoachlukeDiscovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-callPodcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcastSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

Host Chelsea and incoming coach Kris explore why shame might be holding back your healing after infidelity in this episode of The Other Woman & The Wife. Together they unpack the difference between productive guilt and paralyzing shame, showing you how to write a new story - one of self-compassion and growth instead of self-judgment."Kris Haraldsson MS is a coach and educator who gained a following of 100k followers across platforms discussing relationships, divorce, and personal empowerment in the context of relationships. Her passion lies in weaving her extensive background in psychology with her experience working in social services to help people understand how they can change unhelpful patterns in their relationships.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUEST LINKS:Website:  thrivingimperfectly.comInstagram: @thriving_imperfectlyTikTok: @thriving_imperfectly

Tired of your boundaries turning into group discussions? In this episode of The Other Woman & The Wife, Chelsea and Ann Marie expose the trap of 'collaborative communication' and provide practical tools to transform your requests into powerful statements. Learn why being 'demanding' might be exactly what your relationship needs.Topics:InfidelityRelationshipsCommunicationSUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

Join host Chelsea and our returning guest Luke Shillings as they explore how gender stereotypes influence both the experience of infidelity and the recovery process. They examine society's expectations of how men and women 'should' process pain, and discuss how breaking free from these stereotypes can lead to more authentic healing. If you're seeking to better understand the complex dynamics of affair recovery, this episode offers fresh perspectives and practical insights for moving forward.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUEST LINKSWebsite: www.lifecoachluke.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachlukeInstagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachlukeLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachlukeTikTok: @mylifecoachlukeDiscovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-callPodcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcastSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

In this illuminating episode, Chelsea sits down with Carolina Vilalva, a licensed clinical therapist joining The Other Woman and The Wife coaching team. They explore the crucial differences between therapy and coaching, helping you understand which path might be right for your healing journey after infidelity. Whether you're considering professional support or looking to make a change in your current therapeutic relationship, this episode provides valuable insights to guide your decision-making process.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKS GUEST BIOWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUEST BIOCarolina is a certified Executive and Life Coach from Columbia University with over 11 years of experience specializing in life transitions for couples, executives, teenagers, and parents. She holds a B.A. in Clinical Psychology and International Relations from Tufts University and a Master's in International Education.Her training includes EFT, IOPT, DISC assessments, and she is pursuing licensure in Neurofeedback. A Third Culture Kid and part of a blended multicultural family, she has lived on four continents and is currently based in Maputo, Mozambique, where her husband serves as a diplomat.

Chelsea and returning guest Luke Shillings bring their personal experiences to challenge common stereotypes about infidelity. As a former other woman and betrayed spouse respectively, they examine which stereotypes rang true, which missed the mark, and whether these labels help or hurt healing. A raw, honest conversation about moving beyond societal assumptions to find understanding.Topics:Betrayed Spouse StereotypesAffair Partner StereotypesHow Stereotypes Affect HealingSUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUEST LINKSWebsite: www.lifecoachluke.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachlukeInstagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachlukeLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachlukeTikTok: @mylifecoachlukeDiscovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-callPodcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcastSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

TOW&TW kicks off the year with a journey down memory lane. In this encore episode, we revisit an episodes that deeply resonated with our longtime listeners – and offers our new audience a powerful glimpse into some of our previously aired compelling conversations. From our carefully curated archives, this raw and honest Q&A with Chelsea explores the questions that keep affair partners awake at night.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

This week on The Other Woman & The Wife, Chelsea and Ann Marie are once again joined in the studio by Luke Shillings. Together they retell and explore the emotional story of a woman torn between her role as wife and mother to her family and a rekindled connection with a man from her past. As relationship coaches, they delve into the roots of infidelity, unresolved trauma, and finding constructive paths forward when in complicated relationships. Whether you're seeking understanding or guidance, this episode offers a compassionate look at the nuances of love, betrayal, and self-discovery. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUEST LINKSWebsite: www.lifecoachluke.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachlukeInstagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachlukeLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachlukeTikTok: @mylifecoachlukeDiscovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-callPodcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcastSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

This week on The Other Woman & The Wife, Chelsea and Ann Marie welcome Julie, the Chief of Knowledge at TOW&TW, to the studio. Julie has been working tirelessly to create an all-inclusive, transformative retreat for women in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. This retreat is designed to foster connection, empowerment, and personal growth in a supportive and inspiring environment.If you've ever wanted to meet Chelsea and our team while building lifelong friendships with like-minded women, this is your opportunity! Don't miss the chance to join this life-changing experience. Visit our website or click the link to sign up: https://towtw.com/retreats.Give yourself the gift of transformation—you won't regret it! Walk away feeling empowered, inspired, and connected like never before.JOIN OUR RETREAT https://towtw.com/retreats.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY JOIN OUR RETREAThttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

This Week on The Other Woman and The Wife: Ann Marie and Luke Shillings continue unraveling the gripping story of infidelity shared by Tim Teddor, writing under the alias "Mark." In Part 2, we uncover the twists and turns of Mark's journey in the aftermath of his affair and divorce, exploring how his decisions shaped the years that followed.If you haven't listened to Part 1 episode #54 yet, catch up here: Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBxKxAaErZc&list=PLT72S-uJEtmDtVZ2xI4FnVOWGE9fXuDaZ&index=4Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5QrOvLH2Gpj4y4xwTjOGUU?si=dlrhd4uOREq4yW2GIbkQjgApple Music: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/54-marks-affair-story-pt-1-luke-shillings/id1685932363?i=1000676389597Don't miss this raw conclusion to a story that's both deeply personal and universally resonant. For Tim's full story and more visit his website https://www.affairhealing.com/mark-affair-story.html SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: https://towtw.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUEST LINKSWebsite: www.lifecoachluke.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachlukeInstagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachlukeLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachlukeTikTok: @mylifecoachlukeDiscovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-callPodcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcastSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

In this week's episode of The Other Woman and The Wife, Chelsea sits down with Olivia, a cherished member of the TOW&TW team as Olivia holds a special place in Chelsea's journey, not only as one of the first members of her thriving online community but also as her very first coaching client.Join Chelsea and Olivia as they reflect on Olivia's transformative journey—from navigating life as an affair partner to building one of the healthiest relationships she's ever experienced. Hear Olivia's story of growth, resilience, and where she stands today in her personal evolution.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

This week Chelsea sits down with Carolina Vilalva. Carolina is a certified Executive and Life Coach from Columbia University with over 11 years of experience specializing in life transitions for couples, executives, teenagers, and parents. She holds a B.A. in Clinical Psychology and International Relations from Tufts University and a Master's in International Education.After commenting on an Instagram post asking, “What makes somebody leave their marriage for the affair?” Carolina was overwhelmed by the response, inspiring her to continue to connect with other people who had found themselves in similar situations involving infidelity.Topics:Infidelity Blending familiesParenting through divorceLife TransitionsSUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this week's episode Chelsea, Luke, & Ann Marie explore a story submitted to them by a follower. The writer reveals the confusing and emotional complexities of infidelity. Once a harsh critic of affairs, she found herself involved in one after 23 years of a stable but unfulfilling marriage. A connection with a coworker, her direct report, sparked an intense, secret relationship that has lasted for over a year, even though her husband now knows about it and wants to repair their marriage. Now, with a greater empathy for those in similar situations, she faces the painful choice between duty and fulfillment. Topics:Crumbling ConvictionsInfidelity in the workplaceSUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/GUEST LINKSWebsite: www.lifecoachluke.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachlukeInstagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachlukeLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachlukeTikTok: @mylifecoachlukeDiscovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-callPodcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcastSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

Join Chelsea, Luke Shillings, and Ann Marie as they dive into a gripping story of infidelity by Tim Teddor, writing under the alias Mark. Tim recounts his affair, the struggle to choose between his marriage and his affair partner. Tune in for a raw discussion on the complexities of love, choice, and consequence—and look out for Part 2, where we learn how Mark's journey unfolds in the years that follow. For Tim's full story and more visit his website https://www.affairhealing.com/mark-affair-story.htmlSUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeIG: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/LUKE SHILLING'S LINKS:Website: www.lifecoachluke.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachlukeInstagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachlukeLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachlukeTikTok: @mylifecoachlukeDiscovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-callPodcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcastSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

This week on The Other Woman and the Wife, Chelsea is joined by renowned divorce attorney and author James Sexton, who brings over two decades of experience handling high-conflict divorces. Together, they dive into the complexities of modern relationships, examining the intricate roles of infidelity, love, and commitment. James shares surprising truths from the courtroom and beyond, revealing what often goes unsaid about why marriages end and what we can learn from those who face it head-on. Don't miss this candid conversation about the legal and emotional landscapes of divorce.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKS GUEST LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUEST LINKSJames's Twitter: https://twitter.com/nycdivorcelawJames's Instagram: https://instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyerJames's Website: https://nycdivorces.com/our-attorneysHow to Stay in Love (book): https://amzn.to/3t61ujiIf You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late (audiobook): https://amzn.to/3PkVECg

This week, Chelsea interviews Mama Coll, who opens up about her experience as “the other woman” and the extreme harassment she faced from her affair partner's spouse. From online stalking to restraining orders, Mama Coll shares her story and how she found her voice as an advocate. With a large TikTok following, she first connected with The Other Woman & The Wife as a passionate supporter in the comments. Join us for an eye-opening conversation about infidelity and resilience.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUESTS LINKSTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@collsclosetofcomfort52?_t=8qn7ZebMqxq&_r=1Youtube: https://youtube.com/@mama-colls-closet52?si=lefLuUQJ6QWIpcff

In this week's episode, Chelsea passes the hosting baton to Luke Shillings, who turns the spotlight on her journey in building a thriving women's community and coaching program. Together, they dive deep into the recent launch of a men's community in August, sharing the inspiration behind it and their vision for its future. Join them as they explore the evolution of these supportive spaces and the exciting expansion of their mission.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUEST LINKSWebsite: www.lifecoachluke.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachlukeInstagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachlukeLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachlukeTikTok: @mylifecoachlukeDiscovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-callPodcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcastSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

In this compelling episode, Chelsea sits down with Licensed Clinical Therapist Lauren LaRusso, who brings both her professional expertise and personal experience to the table. Specializing in affairs and infidelity, Lauren opens up about her own journey as a betrayed spouse after her husband's affair. This conversation is truly unique in its dynamic between Lauren, a betrayed spouse, and Chelsea, "the other woman." Offering a rare and dynamic perspective on healing, forgiveness, and self-discovery.Topics:DualityBetrayal TraumaInfidelitySUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGUEST LINKSLauren LaRusso Coaching : https://www.laurenlarusso.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenlarusso/

In this episode, Chelsea interviews Lindsey, who shares her deeply personal experience with infidelity. She discusses how her life changed when she realized she had found safety and a sense of “home” with someone who wasn't her husband. Lindsey opens up about the emotional struggles of divorce and what it took to rebuild her life with her affair partner. A story of vulnerability and transformation, Lindsey's journey sheds light on finding oneself amid heartache.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewifeGuest Links - Lindsey's WorkExplore Lindsey's Website:  The Resource Follow Lindsey on Instagram: Lindsey.Kasten on IG Lindsey's Blog:  PinzyDoesBrave

We're back from summer break, and we have some exciting news! Joining our team here this season at The Other Woman and The Wife is a special guest Luke Shillings. Luke is stepping in to help us expand our reach to not just include women but men as well as we grow and develop The Other Man and The Mister community. In this episode, we explore complex topics surrounding a men's community, relationships, and the delicate issue of infidelity. Together, we dive deep into the emotional landscapes that often go undiscussed. Whether you're navigating these challenges yourself or simply curious, this conversation is sure to resonate. Tune in for fresh insights, a powerful new perspectives, and a preview of what's to come this season!SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

How does a woman who is self described as "the most unlikely candidate to cheat" find herself in an affair? An affair that leaves her reeling and conflicted with a temptation to cheat again no less. Join Chelsea and Ann Marie as they candidly share their reactions, thoughts, and insights about this very situation.If you would like to entrust us with your own story and have it shared on the podcast please leave it in the comments or better yet visit the link below and submit it on our website.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORYhttps://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submitASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this week's episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve into the topic of disclosing your affair verses waiting for it to be discovered. The discussion weighs the merits of voluntary disclosure against the potential trauma of a partner finding out about the affair independently.  Topics:Weighing Discovery Against DisclosureSteps to Prepare for Revealing an AffairEvaluating the Necessity of Revealing an AffairASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this week's episode, Ann Marie and Chelsea dive into the concept of limerence and its role in infidelity. They discuss how the limerence narrative can limit self-growth by offering overly simplistic explanations, and examine its impact on addressing the root causes of affairs. Finally, they challenge the labels associated with limerence, suggesting it be viewed as a facet of human emotion rather than an addiction.Topics:LimerenceInfidelityRelationship DynamicsASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this weeks episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve into "Gangster Gate," where a group of women doxed members of Chelsea's online community. They explore the dramatic events and their fallout. Chelsea shares her experience and the valuable lessons learned from this challenging situation. They also discuss the struggles and triumphs of building a controversial business from scratch, driven by passion and purpose, despite facing skepticism and opposition. ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this week's episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie explore the complex motivations behind infidelity by defining and distinguishing between "painkiller" and "refuge" affairs. By facing past traumas and recognizing unhealthy patterns, they discuss how addressing the root causes of infidelity can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Join us for an insightful discussion on the nuanced reasons behind why people seek affairs and how to move forward in a constructive way.ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this weeks very special episode we are joined on the podcast by non other than Chelsea's husband, Stan. Join them as they discuss the intricate terrain of love, resilience, and personal growth after partaking in an affair. From Stan's immigrant roots to the complexities of their relationship dynamics, they offer raw honesty and shared wisdom, illuminating the transformative power of commitment amidst adversity. Through candid reflections on overcoming challenges, rebuilding trust, and the importance of therapy, they inspire listeners with their tale of redemption and renewal. ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this thought-provoking episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve deep into the often overlooked aspect of motherhood: the mother's own happiness and well-being. Join us as we explore the tendency for mothers to prioritize their children's experiences over their own, the societal expectations placed upon mothers, and the impact of relationships, like marriage, on a woman's happiness. Join us as we celebrate the multifaceted journey of motherhood, encouraging mothers everywhere to nurture their own happiness as they nurture their children. Tune in for an empowering and enlightening conversation.ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

Episode Description:This week Chelsea is joined in the studio with a special guest, Grace. They delve into the intricate layers of Grace's life, where she candidly shares her journey through a decades-spanning marriage. Discover the profound impact of infidelity on Grace's life, as she opens up about her 20-year affair with her brother-in-law, unraveling the tangled web of emotions, guilt, and longing. In this episode, we confront the uncomfortable truths of marital discord, the allure of forbidden love, and the difficult journey toward reclaiming one's sense of self. We will navigate the depths of Grace's experiences, offering a counterweight to conventional narratives surrounding infidelity and providing a beacon of hope for those grappling with similar struggles.ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

This week Chelsea and Ann Marie explore the concept of opportunity cost in relationships, emphasizing the human tendency to prioritize external factors like financial stability and social standing over personal well-being and growth. They discuss how pro's and con's lists can lead to analysis paralysis, hindering individual growth within relationships.ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this week's episode, Chelsea & Ann Marie embark on an exploration of how marriage, infidelity, motherhood and many other factors transformed the way they viewed the world. Dispelling common misconceptions along the way, they bravely share their experiences of embracing new mindsets. As they reflect on the transformative power of flexibility over rigidity, listeners are invited to join them on a candid and thought-provoking journey. ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this weeks episode join us for a thought-provoking exploration of boundaries, self-care, and the profound impact they have on the fabric of our relationships. Get ready to embark on a journey of empowerment and connection as we navigate the intricate terrain of setting healthy boundaries.Topics:Distinguishing boundaries from ultimatums.Understanding self-abandonment.Empowerment through boundaries.Comprehensive ways to model boundaries and why it's impactful.ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

Chelsea reacts to her own guest appearance on an episode of Jubilee centered around infidelity. Join Chelsea as she pulls back the curtain on this experience and talks about what it was really like on this set.ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

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Chelsea & Kristin discuss infidelity, the essence of love, societal expectations of relationships, and the concept of soulmates or twin flames. Rather than sticking to societal norms, they emphasize the paramount significance of cultivating self-love, seeking internal validation and nurturing genuine self-understanding. They explore the idea that one's relationship with oneself sets the foundation for their relationships with others.ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

Marty shares his complex journey about an emotional affair he had while being married for 20 years. He details his struggle with balancing his love for his wife and the feelings for his affair partner, while also dealing with personal growth and realization.ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

In this episode of The Other Woman and a Wife, host Chelsea is joined by minister Jamie to discuss the topic of infidelity and why women often find themselves in competition with one another. They explore how societal expectations and upbringing shape women's perception of themselves in relation to men, the importance of passion in relationships, and the complexities of reconciling after infidelity. Jamie shares valuable insights on love, the difference between being in love with the idea of a person versus the actual person, and the role of circumstances in changing individuals.Jamie's linkshttps://www.tiktok.com/@ministerjamie2http://ministerjamie.weebly.com/ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for 1:1 CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

Get 10% off your first month of talk-therapy with BetterHelp using the link: https://betterhelp.com/theotherwomanASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for Affair Recovery CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

Get 10% off your first month of talk-therapy with BetterHelp using the link: https://betterhelp.com/theotherwomanDescription:Katie shares her story of growing up in dysfunctional families, dealing with emotionally unstable parents, and the trauma these experiences have inflicted on her. Katie extensively shares her childhood experiences, detailing how her parents' unhappy marriage and subsequent divorce shaped her. Katie discusses the lessons she's drawn from these experiences, as well as her efforts to ensure these patterns don't repeat in her own family and relationships. Topics:Impact of Parent's Toxic RelationshipRelationship with Parents as an AdultWhen to End a RelationshipExperience with Toxic StepmothersThe Impact of DivorceBoomer Mentality and Its EffectsThe Fallout of a Family ConflictStruggles of Blending a FamilyThe Importance of Validation and ApologyThe Bond Between Siblings Amidst ChaosThe Aftermath and Moving ForwardASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for Affair Recovery CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

Get 10% off your first month of talk-therapy with BetterHelp using the link: https://betterhelp.com/theotherwomanDescription:Romi Cumes is a leading professional in somatic and relational psychotherapy, bodywork, yoga instruction, and intuitive healing. She supports people to explore the profound relationship between somatic (body-centered) awareness, inner-healing and personal growth. In this episode Romi shares her professional & personal opinion on the topic of infidelity covering the following topics:Topics:Fear of therapy in affairsBody's response to thoughts impacts experiencesIntentionality and mindfulnessThe inner critic and addiction to mobile phones in a relationshipPowerful exercise for managing stress.Processing shame and imbalancesCommunication and open agreements in relationshipsAre cheaters bad people?Once a cheater always a cheater?Romi's links:https://romicumes.com/ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for Affair Recovery CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

Dave Capozzi is a former evangelical pastor turned teacher. Dave shares his personal experiences with infidelity, including unexpected proposals and accusations. Chelsea and Dave explore deconstruction, the challenges of marriage within the confines of religion, and the importance of trauma-informed care.TopicsPersonal Experiences with InfidelityThe Impact of Marriage and ExpectationsThe Decision to leave marriageThe Process of DeconstructionImportance of Trauma-Informed CareDave's links:https://www.tiktok.com/@davecapozziASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours hereHOW WE CAN HELPJoin the Other Women CommunityApply for Affair Recovery CoachingOUR LINKSWebsite: theotherwomanandthewife.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife