Unsolicited Views

In this bonus episode, the crew gets real about parenting—then vs. now. We reflect on how we were raised, the lessons (and trauma) we inherited, and what we plan to keep or leave behind as we raise the next generation. From old-school discipline to gentle parenting, we break down the shifts in parenting styles and ask: Are we doing better, or just different?Whether you're a parent, thinking about having kids, or just here for the real talk, this episode is full of laughs, insights, and a few hard truths. Tap in and let us know—what parenting lessons are you keeping, and what are you leaving in the past?

This week, we're joined by MAX from Fax From The Lab Podcast to talk all things blerd culture and how it's always been a part of Black identity. From Parliament Funkadelic to Erykah Badu, we break down how Black people have always embraced futuristic, imaginative worlds—long before anime and sci-fi went mainstream. Whether it's Dragon Ball Z, comics, or deep space beats, we've been leading the way in creativity and innovation.But that's not all—we take a trip down memory lane, talking about growing up in Baltimore and our favorite spots to grab some fire food. Whether you're an anime head, a proud blerd, or just here for the laughs, this episode is for you!Tap in for nostalgia, real talk, and a whole lot of unfiltered opinions. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe!

Truckin' Through Love, Sex Playlists & Valentine's Day Fails | Unsolicited Views Podcast Ep. 249This week on the pod, Jon, Mal, Syd, and special guest Franklin are bringing the laughs and real talk! Franklin gives us the lowdown on his life as a trucker and opens up about his love life on the road. He's got one big question: Why doesn't his lady ever say “I love you”? Is she just not that into him, or are emotions just not her thing? We dig deep into whether we take love for granted or not .

The gang is back with another unfiltered episode of Unsolicited Views! Mel returns from FMLA, and we catch up on everything—from her love for Sprinkles to Jon's latest peculiar story. We dive into whether we truly stand up for Blackness, why so many of us are fighting for work-from-home life (work plan antics) and Jamal's name if he went to jail.The conversation gets deep as we debate spirituality—do we believe in a higher power, and how do our perspectives shape our lives? (Spoiler: Mel and Mal are NOT having it.) Do we pass fear to kids. And in classic UV fashion, we round it out with a discussion on friendships: Are we making new friends as adults, or are we just outgrowing the ones we have?Tap in for laughs, real talk, and the debates you never knew you needed!

Episode 247 is packed with laughs, truths, and a little bit of soul-searching. Jon gets candid about his allyship to the LGBTQIA+ community—because supporting all the letters matters

We're back, and so is Mel!

This week, the crew is here to tackle the big questions in life…sort of. First, we dive into the “Sin Spectrum” and decide which sins are worse—spoiler alert: marriage might just be the cheat code to knock fornication and adultery off your list. Next up, we settle the age-old debate: is 2-ply toilet paper the only acceptable option? (The answer is obvious, but we had to say it.) Finally, we get into women giving up their last names after marriage—what does it really mean in 2024? Tune in for laughs, questionable logic, and of course, plenty of Unsolicited Views.

With Mel still on LOA and Mal out here galavanting, Jon and Syd are left to roast every generation. First, they dig into the age-old question: why did Millennials sneak around while Gen Z just throws it all out there like they've got nothing to lose? Then they dive into life trajectories—turns out, how we turn out really isn't that shocking. They also introduce the “Ain't Sh*t Spectrum” (yes, it's real), tackle partners who outgrow each other, and ask: are we secretly all addicts? And why does weed get such a bad rap compared to alcohol? Buckle up for laughs, a few uncomfortable truths, and plenty of Unsolicited Views!

In this laugh-out-loud episode, Jon, Mal, and Syd are diving headfirst into the big questions no one asked but everyone wants answered. First up, we're getting real about oral sex—what's easier, for men or for women? Things get heated fast! Then, they debate the real top 5 Disney slaps of all time—will your childhood favorite make the cut? We also tackle the serious topic of raising kids: is co-parenting more manageable than married life, or vice versa? Lastly, we get deep (well, kind of) on what it really means to be a "real person" in today's world. Get ready for a wild ride of laughs, debates, and completely unsolicited views!

In this hilarious and thought-provoking episode, the Unsolicited Views crew—Jon, Mal, and Syd (Mel's still on LOA)—dive into a range of topics that'll have you questioning everything from your happiness to your attachment style. Mal opens up about what really makes him happy and whether he's the type to jump for joy. The team then tackles the ever-controversial topic of the “hoe phase”—what defines it, and have we all had one? Next, they get real about community—do Millennials actually want it? What sacrifices are we willing to make, and as Black people, do we rely less on each other as we thrive and become more affluent? Syd calls out Mal for his bad texting habits (and why he's always asking her to do it instead). Rounding things out, they explore attachment styles and ask the burning question: Are “Get Ready With Me” videos just cleverly disguised thirst traps? Tune in for laughs, debates, and plenty of unsolicited views!

Join Jon, Mal, and Syd as they dive into a mix of deep thoughts and hilarious takes (Mel's still on LOA, and we miss him!). We're unpacking our favorite five-year stretches of life—were they wild, and what do we regret? Plus, we're breaking down why Black women slow down on the twerking in their 30s. We're voting on the top 4 words to retire in 2024: Monolith, Diabolical, Narcissist, Toxic and the latest Demure—seriously, they need to go! We also get into why millennials seem to over-therapize and overthink everything.Ever wondered when we started caring about hygiene as kids? Can your partner comment on another person's looks right in front of you, or is that a no-go? And let's be real—what's a petty reason you would date someone? We played a game of 21 questions, asked if Jamal will be the man running things in the nursing home, and shared our first kiss chronicles. Oh, and would you ever tell your partner you don't like the engagement ring they picked out? It's all here in this jam-packed episode, full of laughs and insights!”

“Audience, pardon the audio—this one needed some serious fixing after the distortion monster attacked. But we're back and better with Jon, Mal, and Syd (Mel's on LOA), diving into some hot topics. We're talking about men letting women pick up the tab and who you call first when masculine duties pop up—whether you've got a man or not. Plus, getting into a fight as an adult? Yeah, that's wild. We also get deep into rituals and religious practices, rate our adulting skills on a scale of 1-10, reminisce on our starting salaries at our first ‘big people' jobs, and debate whether we've gotten too comfortable with our inconveniences. It's a rollercoaster, so buckle up!”

In this hilariously candid episode of Unsolicited Views, Mal, Mel, Syd, and Jon catch up on the latest shenanigans and drop a dad joke that'll make you groan. They dive into the art of knowing when an argument is almost over and debate whether it's okay to pass up on a kiss if the fight isn't finished. Tune in as they tackle creating open communication while still getting your needs met, all inspired by some viral Instagram reels. Don't miss their unsolicited thoughts on these oh-so-relatable dilemmas!

This pre-pod we discuss what we were taught about sex as adolescents and teens.

Join Jon, Syd, and Mal as they navigate the tricky waters of friendships with different financial situations. They discuss what it means to be "well traveled" and whether a passport is a must for certain social circles. The trio also explores the pressures of maintaining status among friends, the art of accepting criticism, and Mal's ongoing battle with procrastination. Tune in for honest discussions, relatable stories, and plenty of laughs on Unsolicited Views!

Join Jon, Mal, and Syd for a hilarious and thought-provoking episode where they tackle everything from picking cotton for $350 an hour to the age-old debate: is a hotdog a sausage? Relive high school lunch meal classics and explore the difference between twerking and grinding. They also dive into the quirks of bad built skinny people, discuss if support in relationships should be conditional, and question if men die on the wrong hill in arguments. Plus, when is too much touching not okay from a platonic friend? And don't miss their take on church songs with cuss words. Tune in for laughs, insights, and real talk!

In this engaging episode of Unsolicited Views, hosts Jon, Mal, and Syd dive deep into a range of topics that resonate with adults navigating the complexities of modern adult life. Here's what you can expect: 1. **Great Parent vs. Great Partner**: We explore why the qualities that make someone an exceptional parent might not align with those that make a great partner. Join us as we unpack the distinct roles and the challenges of balancing both. 2. **Parenting on the Shit-o-Meter**: Can parents be rated on a "shitty" scale? We discuss the nuances and the often unrealistic expectations placed on parents, with a candid look at where society might be too harsh or too lenient. 3. **Diddy Allegations**: In a very late but necessary conversation, we tackle the Diddy allegations. As much as we dislike hot topics, this one couldn't be ignored. Hear our perspectives and the broader implications of such accusations. 4. **Gender Communication Breakdown**: Why do we have to articulate differently to men and women? We delve into the communication gaps and offer insights on how to bridge them effectively. 5. **Partner as a Sounding Board**: Is your wife or girlfriend really your sounding board? We debate the pros and cons of relying on your partner for emotional and intellectual feedback. 6. **Men and Friendships**: Why don't men keep close contact with friends? We investigate the social and psychological factors that influence male friendships and what it means for men's mental health and well-being. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion filled with personal anecdotes, expert opinions, and plenty of humor as we navigate these intricate topics. Join Jon, Mal, and Syd for an episode that's sure to spark conversation and reflection.

This episode we sit down with the owners of Blackstone Brothers Distillery. We discuss their journey into the alcohol business and the life experience that led them to business. Sorry for the audio we got a little turnt. Enjoy! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode Jon and Mel sit down and discuss mans inability to hold them selves accountable. I'm addition to how masculinity can show in a healthy way. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This week the crew sits down to discuss body positivity and not settling. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode we back at it. We discuss the topic if therapy has made our generation victims. Have we taken something that should help and made it a hindrance. Jon, Mel, Syd, Mal and Quentin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This week the whole crew is together. We discuss generalization and does changed behavior mean more than words. Jo, Syd, Mek, Mal --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode Mal, Mel and Jon discuss several topics. At what point do people peak in there lives? Did some of us peak too early? Lastly, What are some goals set in 2024 and will they hit them. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode we talk life, celebrities and why they might not matter anymore. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into a range of topics that often remain unaddressed in everyday conversations. From the complexities of creating trauma-aware environments for children to the lingering questions we've never dared to ask our parents, our discussion is as raw as it is enlightening. Finally, we address the common misconception that patience is solely a virtue for women, urging men to embrace the power of patience in all aspects of life. Jon, Syd and Mel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

Hey, Thanks for listening.This episode we discuss lies, life and pet peeves. Who lies more..men or woman? Are white lies ok? Is avoiding questions lying? Is lying necessary. All that and much more on this episode. Visuals coming soon.... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This week we sit down and discuss many things of course. Some topics included Mel and Sud buying s new house and settling in. Also we talked not loosing your appearance as you get older. Most importantly we talked consumerism and how we fall victim as adults. Other topics included:Are we to old for music festivals. How to shake poverty mindset. This and so much more Jon, Mel and Syd --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode Syd, Jon and Mel sit down and discuss adulting and growth. We discuss the main question: What to do once triggered? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode we open up with a what if we lived when Jesus was out in the streets. Would we call it cap? We also discuss what it means for men to emote properly and why we so easily take the back seat. Lastly, we talk about what do we look for in ones character and does ours measure up to our own defintions. New Year new US! We posting these episodes. Visuals coming this week! Jon, Mel , Syd and Dame --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode we discuss heavily what past relationships and dating experiences may have taught us. We also find a conversation in holding friends and those close accountable. Jon, Syd, Mel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

After sometime Mal,Syd and Jon sit down to discuss meeting the emotional needs of your partner. We further dive into to what it takes to get them in the mood and creating emotional safe spaces. All that and more... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode we talk health, relationships and wrapping up 2024. Mel, Jon and Syd --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This week we continue last week episode about Patriarchy and Gender Wars. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

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This episode Mel, Jon, and SYD take you on a journey through the highs and lows of life in this episode of "Trippin' through Life.", and At 4:00, our hosts share their favorite scriptures that keep them grounded if they can remember.... Things get a little interesting at 10:30 with a late and washed hot take on Drake, at 14:50 as we reminisce about the wild escapades of drinking in our 20s. You remember them plastic bottles.... Ever had trouble finding the perfect pair of stretch jeans and dealt with a shortage of ass...sets? 23:30. At 25:00 as Mel, Jon, and SYD spill the beans on their worst dating experiences – prepare for laughter and maybe a cringe or two! The conversation takes a serious turn at 28:00 as we explore equitable capitalism, making you ponder life's bigger questions. Get ready for a mental health check at 33:00, followed by reflections on parenting and grand-parenting at 36:00 – why won't our parents grow up? Laugh, reflect, and join the chaos with Mel, Jon, and SYD on this unfiltered adventure through the unpredictable landscape of life! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This Episode Syd Jon and Mel sit down and talk about the consistent divisiveness of patriarchy. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This week, the crew is back together to discuss how we all got to college, rank our egos, what's required to survive a Greek process, how people perceive us vs how we perceive ourselves, and more! Jon, Mal, Mel, and Syd --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode Mel,Jon and Syd sit-down and discuss what it means to be a Alpha man Vs Masculine Man. They discuss how they were raised and how it contributed to the people they are. Guess: Dame --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode we get into a interesting topic about the meaning of a wedding ring to women. Do men value anything as much as a women does a ring? Also, are black women's expectation for men to high or are they just right. Jon, Mel & Syd Guest: Quentin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode Syd and Jon sit down and cover it all.....Literally. They get started discussing "Do we give those we love the best of us?" analyzing a popular James Baldwin clip. They get into the main topic that discusses growth and the impact their partners had on self growth. Jon and SYD --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

Interesting convo to start the pod. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode the crew sits down and gets to it. Make sure you listen to the pre-pod. We start out sharing what is proper birthday etiquette via social media. We discuss what constitutes someone as a friend and what baggage we bring to relationships. Jon, Syd, Mel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This week, we talk about the darndest things kids have said to them, things they prefer to do with their partners vs. their friends, activities men can get together to do, fulfillment at work, and more! Mal, Mel, & Sydney --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

Hey! Thanks for listening. This episode we sit-down and discuss it all per usual. We start out talking about the ethical way to be a side chick. We answer the question is our generation selfish and how that prevents us from creating community. Jon, Mel and SYD --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode we sit down and discuss life, love and relationships. Do we need to honor the divine masculine and feminine? Do we all secretly want gender roles and social constructs? All this and more. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

We Back! This episode we welcome Mal back with open arms. Starting the episode we catch up. We discuss how Syd is w/ Mel and Mal vs. Just podcasting w/ Jon. We go on to discuss the variations of millennials and how we differentiate. Clothes, Personality and Persona are all different depending on the millennial. We also discuss how the Millennials selfishness has hurt the generation. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

Welcome to this week's episode of "Unsolicited View Podcast"! Join our crew as we delve into thought-provoking discussions on various aspects of life. In this episode, we dive headfirst into exploring intriguing topics that often go unnoticed. Firstly, we unravel the curious phenomenon of the superficiality in women's relationships. Ever wondered why it seems like every woman refers to her friends as beautiful? We take a closer look at this cultural norm and examine its underlying reasons, shedding light on the complexities of female bonds. Next up, we tackle the intriguing subject of post-COVID friendships. With the pandemic altering our social dynamics, we explore the lasting effects on our connections. Did your COVID friendships stand the test of time or gradually fade away? We share personal experiences and explore the intricacies of maintaining meaningful connections in a post-pandemic world. Lastly, we delve into the impact of body types as we age. Society often places undue emphasis on physical appearance, particularly for women. We engage in a candid conversation about the societal pressures surrounding aging and body image. Additionally, we challenge the notion that only women face criticism for "letting themselves go" and discuss whether this phrase applies to men as well. Tune in to Unsolicited Views Podcast as we navigate these thought-provoking topics with authenticity, empathy, and a genuine desire to uncover the layers beneath the surface. Join us for engaging discussions that will make you question societal norms and encourage personal growth. Get ready to challenge your perspectives and open up new avenues of understanding. Jon, Syd and Mel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode Jon and Syd sit down and discuss women anatomy and aging as a women. Also they dive into relationships and what it takes to sustain love. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode we take a mid year reflection on what our intentions were in 2023 vs what is happening. We also discuss what are some habits to have in your 30's and how we be slacking. Like, Listen and Subscribe Jon, Mel, Mal and Syd --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

This episode we discuss equity and how religion make folks the victim. Are to many black people complaining about their situation and not doing anything about it ? Can we get far with the "White Man's" religion? Make sure you listen and comment! Jon, Mel, Syd , Dame and Q --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message

If the title doesn't say it all. Take a listen to the pre-pod prior to Episode 203 Featuring: Jon, Mel , Syd, Dame and Q --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baltimore-podcast-studio/message