Podcast appearances and mentions of jeffrey platts

Jeffrey Platts is a dating & relationship coach with one mission—helping single men authentically attract their perfect, well-matched woman, while setting the solid foundation for a thriving, long-term partnership.  With over 25 years of personal study and transformational training, he has led nearly 200 workshops and retreats on personal growth, dating, and communication.    Jeffrey's work and writing have been featured in the Huffington Post, Washington Post, ABC News, Authentic Man Program, and The Good Men Project.    Today he shares his tools in becoming an authentic communicator so that you can dramatically improve any relationship in your life today!   See More Of Jeffrey--- https://www.facebook.com/jeffreyplatts https://www.instagram.com/jeffreyplatts https://www.jeffreyplatts.com ___________   WATCH This Podcast On Youtube Here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCerchi4_C77ZJAJqCiXYlKA And make sure to subscribe ;) ____________ Apply For A Free Strategy Call With Coach Jumha Here: https://www.stoopid.fit/strategycall Get 15% Off Strong Coffee Company With Code "STOOPIDFIT" Here: https://strongcoffeecompany.com/?ref=-AdnXfp82ojl Get 10% Off Cured Nutrition Products With Code "STOOPIDFIT" Here: https://www.curednutrition.com/?rfsn=5858183.b97141 ___________ Get Your Free Copy Of "THE NUTRITION MANUAL" Your thought Free Approach To Designing Your Perfect Diet Here: https://www.thenutritionmanual.com ___________ Follow Coach Jumha On Instagram Here: https://www.instagram.com/stoopid.fit Follow Coach Jumha On TikTok Here: https://www.tiktok.com/@stoopidfit?lang=en ___________

Vanessa Petronelli is on a mission, teaching people how to fully embrace their unique gifts and share their divine purpose with the world. She mentors high-profile, conscious business executives, entrepreneurs and celebrities to achieve grounded, strategic results-based transformations, taking their impact, fulfillment and success to the next level. She is also the creator of the Embodied Alignment System™ which provides the tools, processes and daily practices to help clients experience deeper clarity, intuition, self-awareness and momentum - both personally and professionally. She supports her clients and students worldwide through her private mentoring programs, leadership retreats, keynote speaking, channeling events and online programs. Vanessa and her work have been featured on Good Morning America, KTLA, Collective Evolution, Authority Magazine, Parade Magazine, Glamour, People, Life & Style, LA Talk Radio, Your Morning Show Canada, Access Hollywood and more. Formerly, Vanessa was a certified yoga instructor, member of the all-female pop group Savvy Cafe, a runway and print fashion model, actress and a classically trained pianist. She lives in sunny San Diego with her husband, Jeffrey Platts and their adorable rescue dogs, Leo & Chloe.  Vanessa's journey and how she became awake to everything that's going on in the world.  The divine intervention of why God didn't let her go to Hollywood. “Truth has a frequency.” “It feels inconvenient to know the truth because it shatters their entire reality.” This is not about a conspiracy theory; this is about critical thinking and researching both sides. How do we hold an elevated perspective during this chaotic time? How to train your nervous system to be more resilient. How to trust that there's a higher plan to all of this.  Vanessa's mantra right now: “Take it just one step at a time.”  “Every industry has been hijacked, including spirituality.” How to determine if we're channeling negative beings/energies. Vanessa's tangible ways in which she keeps her energy pristine. Why we must stand true in our convictions. Be comforted in knowing that the truth is always revealed eventually. Facebook: www.facebook.com/vanessa.petronelli

Vanessa Petronelli is on a mission, teaching people how to fully embrace their unique gifts and share their divine purpose with the world. She mentors high-profile, conscious business executives, entrepreneurs and celebrities to achieve grounded, strategic results-based transformations, taking their impact, fulfillment and success to the next level. She is also the creator of the Embodied Alignment System™ which provides the tools, processes and daily practices to help clients experience deeper clarity, intuition, self-awareness and momentum - both personally and professionally. She supports her clients and students worldwide through her private mentoring programs, leadership retreats, keynote speaking, channeling events and online programs. Vanessa and her work have been featured on Good Morning America, KTLA, Collective Evolution, Authority Magazine, Parade Magazine, Glamour, People, Life & Style, LA Talk Radio, Your Morning Show Canada, Access Hollywood and more. Formerly, Vanessa was a certified yoga instructor, member of the all-female pop group Savvy Cafe, a runway and print fashion model, actress and a classically trained pianist. She lives in sunny San Diego with her husband, Jeffrey Platts and their adorable rescue dogs, Leo & Chloe.  Vanessa's journey and how she became awake to everything that's going on in the world.  The divine intervention of why God didn't let her go to Hollywood. “Truth has a frequency.” “It feels inconvenient to know the truth because it shatters their entire reality.” This is not about a conspiracy theory; this is about critical thinking and researching both sides. How do we hold an elevated perspective during this chaotic time? How to train your nervous system to be more resilient. How to trust that there's a higher plan to all of this.  Vanessa's mantra right now: “Take it just one step at a time.”  “Every industry has been hijacked, including spirituality.” How to determine if we're channeling negative beings/energies. Vanessa's tangible ways in which she keeps her energy pristine. Why we must stand true in our convictions. Be comforted in knowing that the truth is always revealed eventually. Facebook: www.facebook.com/vanessa.petronelli Instagram: www.instagram.com/vanessapetronelli

“If I’m not in control, I’m not safe.” The past year and a half has challenged humanity in more ways than one, with control being a massive issue. Join me and Vanessa Petronelli for a real AF conversation that will highlight the real pand3mic that we’re currently facing. In this episode, you’ll learn the problems that visionaries are facing right now, how people on all sides of the discussion are acting out of fear, why terms like ‘conspiracy theorist’ and ‘sheep’ further our divide, the importance of understanding what’s really motivating you to fight the fight, why the word ‘freedom’ has now become a trigger word, and how to really help and support humanity right now (this is incredibly important to understand). Vanessa Petronelli is on a mission, teaching people how to fully embrace their unique gifts and share their divine purpose with the world. She helps conscious leaders, celebrities and creatives achieve grounded, strategic results-based transformations, taking their impact and success to the next level. She is also the creator of the Embodied Alignment System™ which provides the tools, processes and daily practices to help students experience deeper clarity, intuition, self-awareness and momentum — both personally and professionally. She supports her clients and students worldwide through her private mentoring programs, leadership retreats, keynote speaking, channeling events and online programs. Vanessa and her work have been featured on “Good Morning America”, KTLA, Collective Evolution, Authority Magazine, Parade Magazine, Glamour, People, Life & Style, LA Talk Radio, Your Morning Show Canada, Access Hollywood and more. Formerly, Vanessa was a certified yoga instructor, member of the all-female pop group Savvy Cafe, a runway and print fashion model, actress and a classically trained pianist.  She lives in sunny San Diego with her husband, Jeffrey Platts, and their adorable rescue dogs, Leo & Chloe. Connect with Vanessa Petronelli… Website: https://www.vanessapetronelli.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessapetronelli Connect with me… IG: https://instagram.com/iamruby TW: https://twitter.com/IAMRUBY YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/iamruby  Telegram: https://www.rubyfremon.com/telegram  Inbox: https://www.rubyfremon.com/connect  Or text #TTL to 1-781-336-0160 to stay in touch via text message.  And get on the waitlist for my upcoming book: https://www.rubyfremon.com/bookwaitlist

In this episode, Kate and Catherine interview power couple Jeffrey Platts and Vanessa Petronelli on the truth about chemistry vs. compatibility. These two share their love story and how they built their relationship via long distance before moving to the same city together. Learn the truth about what real compatibility is and why chemistry alone isn't going to lead you to true fulfillment and alignment in your romantic partnership.    About the Guests: Jeffrey Platts is a men's dating & relationship coach who is passionate about helping single men own & express their value through their relationships and their purpose. With over 23 years of personal study and transformational training and a decade as a coach/teacher, he has led over 200 workshops and retreats on personal growth, dating, and communication. Together with his wife and co-facilitator Vanessa, they train single men in their 30s and 40s to prepare for partnership and attract their own well-matched woman. Vanessa Petronelli, a former model, actress, singer and yoga teacher, for over a decade has been teaching, speaking, and writing about the powerful impact of accessing higher-levels of consciousness. She supports high-performing creatives and leaders to embody and lead from their soul, to find balance and fulfillment throughout their entire lives. Jeffrey and Vanessa's work & writing have been featured in the Huffington Post, Washington Post, ABC News, Good Morning America, KTLA, Your Morning Show Canada, Access Hollywood, AskMen.com and The Good Men Project. They both live in sunny San Diego with their rescue dogs, Leo & Chloe. www.getclosertoher.com     About the Hosts: Catherine Danieli is a love and relationship educator helping women heal fear-based relationship patterns so that they can experience radical self love and healthy, extraordinary romantic relationships. She not only cares about helping women find love but learn the skills and tools to make love last. She is incredibly passionate about conscious relationship and empowering people to create healthy relationships in their lives. She believes healthy relationships are what will heal the world. After overcoming her own painful journey through love addiction and codependency, and seeing so many people in pain over love, she has devoted her life to teaching women how to transform, heal and have new experiences in partnership. She works with women 1:1, leads workshops and retreats as well as couples intensives.  www.CatherineDanieli.com   Kate Harlow is the Owner and Founder of the Irresistibility Project. She is a revolutionary Love & Relationship educator - with life changing perspectives on love. She guides women to awaken their own irresistibility- so attracting high quality love is effortless. Kate has coached and mentored thousands of people for over a decade - facilitating life changing love talks, workshops and retreats all over the world. She has inspired and transformed the lives of many. She has dedicated her life to helping Women around the globe shift to a new paradigm of love, so they can finally end the painful struggle and heartache that so many women experience. She is a masterful teacher & coach and is known for awakening women to who they TRULY are. www.theirresistibilityproject.com Thanks for listening! It means so much to us that you listened to our podcast! If you would like to continue the conversation with us, head on over to our Facebook group, the New Truth Movement at https://www.facebook.com/groups/209821843509179/ With this podcast, we are building an international community of The New Truth Movement. If you know someone who would benefit from this message or could be an awesome addition to our community, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a note in the comment section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe on the podcast app on your mobile device. Leave us a review We appreciate every bit of feedback to make this a value-adding part of your day. Ratings and reviews from our listeners not only help us improve, but also help others find us in their podcast app. If you have a minute, an honest review on iTunes goes a long way! Thank You!

MICHELE ARIANA & JEFFREY PLATTS are two excellent, caring folks, whom I met recently. When I found out they were both DATING & RELATIONSHIP COACHES I freaked out and immediately signed them up to come on for a Q&A conversation with my most beloved single friends. This Dating & Relationship Episode stars a few people who are most dear to me, a handful of single men & woman, who are experiencing various stages of falling in and out of wanting, to fall in love It's a tricky dating game out there these days. My husband Wil Traval and I just managed to slide 'safe' into the plate, mere moments it seems, before the swipe left/swipe right calamity of online dating exploded. I want my friends to find the love they want, deserve & dream of SO BADLY, that I thought wouldn't it be fun to bring in the big guns! ABOUT THE BIG GUN COACHES:::: MICHELE ARIANA is an NLP Master Practitioner who created the coaching companies called MPOWER Your Life™ & MPOWER Your Love Life™ Michele, helps powerful visionary women attract love, while loving themselves…and without losing themselves. She focuses on helping women to develop the key areas of Clarity, Confidence, & Communication. Her new free ebook is called "Single & Stuck: Clear the 15 Sabotaging Beliefs That Block Women From Love" https://www.mpoweryourlife.com/love If you want to dive deeper into finding your soul mate - call Michele - she has a new 10-day online course called "MANifest: 10 Proven Steps To Attract Love Using The Ultimate Law Of Attraction" JUST FOR OUR LISTENERS Michele is offering access to this audio workshop for FREE!! **AUTHENTIC-SELF POWER VISUALIZATION AUDIO Download FREE at: www.mpoweryourlife.com/free_audio **************************************************** JEFFREY PLATTS has been in the life coach game for over 10 years. His work and writing has been featured in the Huffington Post, Washington Post, ABC News, Authentic Man Program, AskMen.com and the Good Men Project and he is days away from launching a brand new 8-week online and highly interactive course, designed for single, professional men, who are serious about finding their own well-matched woman for monogamous, long-term relationship or marriage. Integrating both the masculine AND feminine perspective. Students will receive cutting edge, foundational tools and practices that will have them stand out in the dating world and make them more magnetic to the very women who are the right fit for them. Reach out to Jeffrey - he cares! Visit | jeffreyplatts.com Facebook | facebook.com/jeffreyplatts Instagram | instagram.com/jeffreyplatts

Jeffrey Platts is passionate about helping men design and live that has them feeling fully alive. He’s obsessed with finding out what keeps people from being their most authentic. Which is actually what is most attractive. Not just physically. Professionally, financially, emotionally, sexually, socially, spiritually.  Jeffrey Platts is a men’s life and love coach with a background in salsa dancing, world traveling and yoga instruction. Favorite Success Quote “Whatever I think the world is withholding from me, I am withholding from the world”~Eckhart Tolle “The cave you fear to enter contains the treasure you seek”~Joseph Campbell Key Points 1. If You Want External Change, You Have to Start Internally  On the road to success, in whatever field, be it financially, socially, physically, or emotionally, the change starts inside. No change will happen in your external world without first taking the time to do the deep internal work of finding your why, crushing mental barriers, and setting a clear vision just to name a few. You need to realize that if you want to see success, you have to work from the inside out and be willing to put in the time and effort on yourself before you will see the results that you are looking for. 2. Your Identity Determines Your Outcomes Often times, when individuals try to change, a huge stumbling block that they run into is that the identity that they have held for years is incongruent with the new path that they are on. If you have told yourself that you are a smoker for nearly 20 years, you will find it damn hard to quit smoking because that habit is so tied up in your identity. Therefor, if you want to make any sort of appreciable changes in your life, part of the inner work you need to start with is developing a new positive identity in yourself. Develop an identity of a man who is disciplined, who is hardworking, who is innovative, who is smart, who is whatever you want to be. Only when your identity is aligned with your goals will you begin to achieve them. 3. Comparison Will Kill Your Dreams The fastest way to live a miserable, unhappy life is to constantly be in comparison. Guess what, someone will always be richer than you, better looking than you, have a better family than you, date more attractive women than you, and drive a faster car than you. But that is completely irrelevant. All that matters is that you are competing with yourself. Are you living up to your full potential within the circumstances that you were given going after the goals you have set? Other people are born with different assets and skills than you and often had successes that came from hardships you would never wish upon your worst enemy. Learn to congratulate others on their successes without being threatened by them. As the old clique goes, “The only person you need to be better than is the person you were yesterday.” 4. Be Who You Want to be Unapologetically  In society, we are all encouraged to fit in. So fill the social mold and to do what everyone else is doing. This leaves very little room for authenticity and a life on your terms. Just be who you are unapologetically and don’t worry about what society thinks. Do you love salsa dancing and yoga? Who cares that society sees this as less manly than MMA and Crossfit! Do you want to commit to a loving and monogamous marriage? Who cares that society will tell you that you are less of a man for sleeping with fewer women. Be who you are and who you want to be completely and without apology.

Join Breakthrough Coach Nando Rodriguez on Sunday Reset and discover: How to Go From “waiting to be saved” to realize “you're the hero of your own story!” Discover the mind blowing tips from Men's Dating & Relationship Coach, Jeffrey Plats, on how to go from a victim state to a warrior state. Create a breakthrough guaranteed get you unstuck in this area and insert freedom and ease into your life instantly. Nando is a Life & Success coach in New York city with a coaching foundation based on NLP (neurolinguistic programming) to create transformation in his client's lives. It's not magic or hopeful affirmations -- it's awareness + action that creates transformation. For more info on Nando's coaching practice: Follow Nando on twitter | instagram | facebook | nandoism.com For info on Jeffrey Platts | instagram | facebook | jeffreyplatts.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/nandoism/support

In our quest for romance and sex, we often put up an act in order to look more attractive. This often results in mismatched partners or lonely nights. There is a better way to date, it requires courage and a willingness to share our genuine self. Learn how with men's coach and dating expert Jeffrey Platts, as he contributes to the conversation around purpose, manhood, gender, and intentional dating.

Jeffrey Platts is passionate about helping men design and live that has them feeling fully alive. He's obsessed with finding out what keeps people from being their most authentic. Which is actually what is most attractive. Not just physically. Professionally, financially, emotionally, sexually, socially, spiritually.  Jeffrey Platts is a men's life and love coach with a background in salsa dancing, world traveling and yoga instruction. Favorite Success Quote “Whatever I think the world is withholding from me, I am withholding from the world”~Eckhart Tolle “The cave you fear to enter contains the treasure you seek”~Joseph Campbell Key Points 1. If You Want External Change, You Have to Start Internally  On the road to success, in whatever field, be it financially, socially, physically, or emotionally, the change starts inside. No change will happen in your external world without first taking the time to do the deep internal work of finding your why, crushing mental barriers, and setting a clear vision just to name a few. You need to realize that if you want to see success, you have to work from the inside out and be willing to put in the time and effort on yourself before you will see the results that you are looking for. 2. Your Identity Determines Your Outcomes Often times, when individuals try to change, a huge stumbling block that they run into is that the identity that they have held for years is incongruent with the new path that they are on. If you have told yourself that you are a smoker for nearly 20 years, you will find it hard to quit smoking because that habit is so tied up in your identity. Therefor, if you want to make any sort of appreciable changes in your life, part of the inner work you need to start with is developing a new positive identity in yourself. Develop an identity of a man who is disciplined, who is hardworking, who is innovative, who is smart, who is whatever you want to be. Only when your identity is aligned with your goals will you begin to achieve them. 3. Comparison Will Kill Your Dreams The fastest way to live a miserable, unhappy life is to constantly be in comparison. Guess what, someone will always be richer than you, better looking than you, have a better family than you, date more attractive women than you, and drive a faster car than you. But that is completely irrelevant. All that matters is that you are competing with yourself. Are you living up to your full potential within the circumstances that you were given going after the goals you have set? Other people are born with different assets and skills than you and often had successes that came from hardships you would never wish upon your worst enemy. Learn to congratulate others on their successes without being threatened by them. As the old clique goes, “The only person you need to be better than is the person you were yesterday.” 4. Be Who You Want to be Unapologetically  In society, we are all encouraged to fit in. So fill the social mold and to do what everyone else is doing. This leaves very little room for authenticity and a life on your terms. Just be who you are unapologetically and don't worry about what society thinks. Do you love salsa dancing and yoga? Who cares that society sees this as less manly than MMA and Crossfit! Do you want to commit to a loving and monogamous marriage? Who cares that society will tell you that you are less of a man for sleeping with fewer women. Be who you are and who you want to be completely and without apology.

In this episode of the Game Quitters Podcast Cam interviews Jeffrey Platts, a men's relationship coach to talk about how to build more confidence and develop more meaningful relationships. They also talk about current obstacles men struggle with in life, and whether you should join the "PUA" community to improve your dating life. An episode with a number of comedic moments, we hope you enjoy it. If you do, please share it on social media, like it on SoundCloud, and subscribe for a new episode every Thursday. For all the links and shownotes: http://gamequitters.com/podcast To support the podcast: http://patreon.com/gamequitters

In this episode, Jeffrey Platts, Dating and Relationship Coach, talks about how to communicate yourself authentically. Go to https://jeffreyplatts.com/ to find out more. For more instant access to future episodes, subscribe to the podcast for free from your mobile device, laptop, or desktop computer.

Welcome back to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. Jeffrey Platts is the fun and well-dressed guest today and he’s here to share what not to say on a date! Jeffrey is a men’s coach and authentic communication expert who is passionate about helping men own and express their value with women, and the world. Rob is always touched by the way Jeffrey approves of men and what they’re going through in this disapproving world. Jeffrey and Rob have both heard a lot of complaints over the years from women who feel frustrated that guys are ambiguous when asking for a date. Instead of being upfront, they ask to ‘hang out’ or ‘get coffee’ or ‘go for a walk’. A lot of guys do this because it dilutes the fear of actually asking a woman out. If you hang out and there’s no chemistry, then it’s easy to say it wasn’t a date to begin with. Then, if there is chemistry, it’s a surprise bonus. While it may make sense from the perspective of not wanting to be rejected, Jeffrey warns that it isn’t the optimal way to approach it. If two people are spending time together either one has to ask the question, ‘is this a date?’, something’s wrong because it hasn’t been expressly communicated. The mistake most guys make when asking women out is in not actually using the word date! Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

Welcome back to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. Jeffrey Platts is the fun and well-dressed guest today and he’s here to share what not to say on a date! Jeffrey is a men’s coach and authentic communication expert who is passionate about helping men own and express their value with women, and the world. Rob […]

Hello and welcome to episode #16 of the JOY Factor Podcast. It's good to be here with you today and I think you're going to enjoy this episode- especially if you're a guy looking for a solid relationship or even just a good date. My guest is Jeffrey Platts-he's a men's coach and authentic communication expert who is passionate about helping men create amazing relationships with women. With over 20 years of personal study and transformational training, he has led nearly 200 workshops and retreats on personal growth, dating, and communication. Jeffrey's work and writing has been featured in the Huffington Post, Washington Post, ABC News, Authentic Man Program and the Good Men Project. He brings a rich toolbox of insights and experiences to his facilitation, integrating his adventures as DJ, amateur stand-up comedian, salsa dancer, yoga teacher and world traveler. Find out more at http://www.jeffreyplatts.com.   More from Jeffrey: http://www.jeffreyplatts.com http://facebook.com/jeffreyplatts http://instagram.com/jeffreyplatts http://huffingtonpost.com/jeffrey-platts "Whatever you think the world is withholding from you, you are withholding from the world." - Eckhart Tolle

Follow Your “Yes” Friday is about you.It is about you taking a step forward in your partnerships by taking action and applying at least one thing you heard from our guests during their interviews this week. On today’s episode, all of this week’s guests have generously provided BONUS MATERIAL, not included in the interviews you listened to earlier this week. Each one has provided incredible examples of the power of following your “Yes”. Enjoy! Jonathon Aslay  (https://speakingofpartnership.com/Episode%201) Not Following -In 2008 Jonathon did not follow his gut, his “Yes”, when it told him the stockbroker he was using, who was also a friend, was not the right person to be in charge of his money. Ultimately, not listening to his “Yes” ended up being a major contributor to losing nearly $1 million in the market. Following -He is following his “Yes” in the dating world right now without any expectation, agenda or pressure and it has been leading him to different pieces of the puzzle that he needs for everything to come together.   Jonathon’s recommendation for anyone dating is to practice your “Yes” without an agenda or expectation of outcome. The more you do this, the faster what you are seeking will come into your life. Listen to Jonathon's full interview here (https://speakingofpartnership.com/001-jonathon-aslay-choosing-partnership-first-time/) Jonathon Aslay’s website (http://www.jonathonaslay.com/) Jonathon’s Facebook Page (https://www.facebook.com/UnderstandMenNow/?fref=ts) Chantal Lamontagne (https://speakingofpartnership.com/Episode 2) Not Following -I have been practicing Hoʻoponopono so long that I cannot remember the last time I did not follow my “Yes.” Actually I do remember that I received clear guidance to write my book and I did not follow this “Yes” for 10 years. Following -[spp-tweet tweet="When I follow my “Yes” it is always a win/win."]  Once you realize you are a stewart of a gift you are here to birth it will bug you until you give birth to it and give it a structure. The hard part is the structure. Once you do this, you will find peace. Listen to Chantal's full interview here (https://speakingofpartnership.com/003-chantal-lamontagne-get-know-sexual-energy-give-needs/) Chantal Lamontagne’s website (http://chantallamontagne.com/) Chantal’s Facebook Page (https://www.facebook.com/chantal.lamontagne2?fref=ts) Jeffrey Platts (https://speakingofpartnership.com/Episode 3) Not Following - Jeffrey was dating a woman and his radar was going off that this was not the relationship for him, but he did nothing about it until she called him out. If he had just followed his “Yes” when it came up and trusted that whatever happened when he addressed it would serve them both, they would have been better off. Following - With his current partner, Vanessa, he had already sworn off long distance relationships and she lived in Canada. But he trusted his “Yes” and explored it and now they have an amazing relationship together. Listen to Jeffrey's full interview here (https://speakingofpartnership.com/jeffrey-platts-completely-unplug-on-a-regular-basis/) Jeffrey Platt's website (http://jeffreyplatts.com/) Jeffrey’s Facebook Page (https://www.facebook.com/jeffreyplatts) Lara & Johnny Fernandez (https://speakingofpartnership.com/Episode 4) Not Following - During Johnny’s first marriage he felt something on his wedding day that something wasn’t right and he didn’t listen to it.  Following - Johnny had an intuitive hit that he needed to move to California. Which sounded crazy since he was born and raised in New York City and had his dream job. He followed his “Yes” and it has led to Lara and all the amazingness that is his life now. Listen to Johnny and Lara's full interview here (https://speakingofpartnership.com/004-dr-lara-johnny-fernandez/)...

Jeffrey Platts is a coach for men, who has a unique gift of helping men quickly clear out the "noise” so they can choose and create an amazing life that they didn't know was on the menu. He integrates his adventures as DJ, amateur stand-up comedian, salsa dancer and yoga teacher and world traveler into his work. Jeffrey believes that every man has a the right to choose the life he lives. There is no secret code to hack. But there are three necessary ingredients: awareness, choice and action. Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra Be the source of what you want. Tripped Up in a Partnership Jeffrey was dating a great woman he was really into, but he tried to play it cool and not show his emotions. In turn, she withheld her feelings as well and ultimately she moved away and the relationship ended. Now he realizes that if he had just slowed down and been true to his feelings he could have avoided this disappointment. The “DUH” moment that changed your partnerships forever Jeffrey was really into the woman he was seeing, but she was not reciprocating. The signs were there. Why was he always having to chase the women he was interested in? The DUH was if he is true to his own sense of self he will get his needs met and not need to chase. Proudest moment in partnership When Jeffrey and his partner, Vanessa, did whatever it took to spend the weekend together in Montreal. It wasn’t easy of convenient, but it was so worth it. It was a Victory Moment in their relationship. Current Partnership that Has You Excited His partnership with Vanessa and the life they are building together both personally and professionally. It is a 1 + 1 = 10 scenario. What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received? Slowing down and focusing on presence. [spp-tweet tweet="Completely unplug on a regular basis."] Best Partnership Book (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1585429139/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1585429139&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=EQWKVXAV6US6L2XG) Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1585429139/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1585429139&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=NOWMGIOEPRJ3J4EF) (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0770437141/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0770437141&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=GPFS5DX2YN2BB4MT) Making Marriage Simple: Ten Relationship-Saving Truths (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0770437141/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0770437141&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=7DDGG2UR5GQUOLDV) (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0762415339/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0762415339&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=P7W7G4YWEKVEPPOQ) No More Mr Nice Guy (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0762415339/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0762415339&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=HII5OCZWS4LB6D5B) Parting Advice Take yourself out on a date. Indulge your guilty pleasures. Interview Links - Jeffrey's website (http://jeffreyplatts.com/) Jeffrey’s Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/jeffreyplatts) (https://speakingofpartnership.com/?p=1311)

In this episode, I’m joined by a panel of courageous men: Booster Blake, Jeffrey Platts, Adrial Dale, and Christopher Sunyata.  These men have all done work on themselves, and so are able to get honest and talk openly about their sexuality, their victories and challenges with intimacy, with relationship, and with their bodies in the bedroom.  I think you’ll appreciate the transparency of these men. SHOWNOTES: How has porn negatively or positively affected your sex life? [29:45] If you played with other boys when you were young, did you ever have any doubts that you were gay because you enjoyed it? [27:05] Did you ever have a sexual experience with a boy? [24:00] When did you first learn to masturbate, and what was it like? [17:30] The men briefly describe their relationships to their cock [13:00] Christopher introduces himself [10:10] Booster Blake introduces himself [8:45] Jeffrey introduces himself [7:35] Adrial introduces himself [6:50] Beginning of interview [6:45] Where do these men draw the line when it comes to fantasizing about other women? [37:30] What’s a victory, or celebratory moment, you’ve had with your cock? [42:00] What are your thoughts on working to transcend pornography?  [48:00] A listening woman asks: What is the best segue to bring up sexual topics when there is shame around the topic? [52:45] What kind of shame have men experienced that have been put on their cocks or their sexuality by women? [58:30] If the woman asks for something different in the bedroom, does a man take this personally and feel like he is not a good enough lover? [1:05:30] Final comments [1:12:45]

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There's a cool hack we come to in this episode about how to become more masculine. The fact is, traditional views of masculinity are outdated in sex, dating, and relationships. We need a new model for what a sexy AND mature man looks like in the world. Men's coach Jeffrey Platts shares an easy way to do this in a powerful and exciting way.