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This week, my guest is the legendary, Shani Silver! Shani is the host of A Single Serving Podcast which she launched in 2019, she is the author of 'A Single Revolution: Don't Look For a Match, Light One' and she also publishes two Substacks, weekly.  Shani is an advocate for living life to the fullest, while single and has made great strides in shifting single women's mindsets across the globe. She challenges outdated dating advice and perspectives, offering a far more positive abd empowering approach for single women. Enjoy! xx You can find Shani's work here;https://www.shanisilver.com/https://www.instagram.com/shanisilverShani's book - https://www.amazon.co.uk/Single-Revolution-Dont-match-Light/dp/1544525303/ref=sr_1_1?crid=36HT96UJ0KYZW&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.aEr647q1KxXrWXVrRsBsM7W6gJFR5s8_nwzVoVEdFWu37cewWBe29mZlOyJQrJT5YMhQxmTwyw-xoH2GOg2gtMEVi5cawlf2OqRUodEBsxoEqDjXWX19c7fRyl-6vufIHNQVxMMHG4oRs8hOJooxFzbRe9_qMPPpBZOG1SvRzechIGvG1NPRwz30EoHUgAJ2D0rQE0hd21ruUbzhSBJYGZYjCRoj3u9FjAeDYX-lR-o.X1rUJu-cABEUCXvrWck1-lynWTugJjueDyBnSmqmi-4&dib_tag=se&keywords=shani+silver&qid=1741710789&sprefix=shani+silver%2Caps%2C107&sr=8-1Thank you so much for listening to my show!You can follow and contact me here;Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/onesinglewoman/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551831488278TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@onesinglewomanYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@onesinglewomanpodcastemail - onesinglewomanpodcast@gmail.com

Send us a textMy guest on the podcast this week is the one and only, Shani Silver.Shani is an author, writer, and podcaster. She is the host of 'A Single Serving Podcast', and the author of 'A Single Revolution: Don't Look For A Match. Light One'. She writes two Substacks, 'Cheaper Than Therapy', a healing newsletter for 80s babies, and 'Hey Shani', a toxic positivity-free advice column. Both publish once per week. Shani is passionate about changing the narratives that limit women, especially those around single women. She is single, childfree and lives in New Orleans.Topics that we cover are:why Shani decided to bring her podcast to an end;how she doesn't know what's coming next and is excited about the not knowing;why podcasts shouldn't be forever;her thoughts on the world of online dating;how being happily single and wanting a relationship can co-exist;how good Shani's life got when she stopped the chase for a relationship;how she absolutely wants a partner, and is looking forward to experiencing it as her older self;why finding a partner is not going to fix your life;why we need to find happiness within ourselves;why we need to be aware of getting stuck in an endless loop of self-development;how gratitude was the cause of the biggest boost in Shani's happiness;the stories we've been fed that have taught us to feel shame around being single;why singlehood being women's biggest fear is something that deeply worries Shani;how women who are convinced they can't be happy without a partner will not be able to hear Shani's message until they're ready;Shani's thoughts on any future relationships;why our relationship, or lack thereof, has nothing to do with us;why we can always choose to reframe our singlehood.Buy Shani's book, A Single Revolution:https://www.amazon.co.uk/Single-Revolution-Dont-match-Light-ebook/dp/B09HZ1TBX7 Join Shani's substack, Cheaper Than Therapy:https://1982.substack.com/ Join Shani's substack, Hey Shani:https://heyshani.substack.com/ Check out her website:https://www.shanisilver.com/ Follow Shani on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/shanisilver/  Support the showCheck out my YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSuCiCzcPlAvxzQyHDrLoag Book a FREE 30 minute coaching 'taster' session HERE: https://calendly.com/lucymeggeson/30minute Fancy getting your hands on my FREE PDF 'The Top 10 Most Irritating Questions That Single People Get Asked On The Regular...& How To (Devilishly) Respond'? Head over to: www.lucymeggeson.com Interested in my 1-1 Coaching? Work with me HERE: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/workwithme Join my private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1870817913309222/?ref=share Follow me on Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimagined Follow me on Twitter: @LucyMeggeson Follow me on LinkedIn: Lucy Meggeson Email me: lucy@lucymeggeson.com And thank you so much for listening!!!

In this episode, you'll hear from Shani Silver, a podcaster and author of A Single Revolution: Don't Look For a Match—Light One. We talk about singlehood, dating apps, and the balance between wanting to be single and wanting a partner. You'll hear about how Shani changed her perspective on dating and being single. Shani also provides a ton of tips for folks who want to make connections without putting too much pressure on relationships. At the end, Shani shares what she wants to see more of in the dating world and what you can do to flip the script while dating. Follow Shani on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanisilver/  Read Shani's book: https://amzn.to/3ZxFQTA Submit a dating dilemma: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9  Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionally Get my free dating FAQ guide: https://datingintentionally.myflodesk.com/free-guides Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/  Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP  About Shani: Shani Silver is an author and podcaster originally from Fort Worth, Texas. Her name is pronounced like “rainy” with a “sh.” Her book, A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match—light one, helps singles reframe singlehood to see its value and validity, for as long as we happen to be single. She is not an advocate for singlehood, she's an advocate for people being happy while single, and there is a difference. Her podcast, A Single Serving Podcast, launched in April of 2019 in the hopes of giving single women content that—for once—didn't revolve around dating, and to support singles around the world in shedding the societal shame of singlehood. Shani has lived and dated in Austin, TX, Los Angeles, CA, Chicago, IL, Philadelphia, PA, and Brooklyn, NY. She currently lives in New Orleans. Following ten years of use, Shani permanently deleted her dating apps in January of 2019. She has loved her life ever since. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fresh Conversations with Shani Silver: are dating apps a total scam? In this episode of A Fresh Story, Olivia and Jenny talk to Shani Silver, an author and podcaster, about the exploitative nature of dating apps and the societal pressure to be in a relationship. They discuss the evolution of dating apps from websites to apps, and how these platforms prioritize profit over helping users find love. Shani emphasizes the importance of reframing single-hood and finding happiness while single. They also touch on the reactions to Shani's content and the lawsuit against Match Group for making love elusive on purpose. In this conversation, Shani Silver discusses the predatory nature of dating apps, the pressure to find love, and the importance of living authentically. She highlights the lack of safety measures on dating apps and the need for change in dating app culture. Shani emphasizes the importance of living a fulfilling life and challenging societal expectations. She encourages individuals to define their own identities and celebrate single-hood. Overall, the conversation explores the complexities of modern dating and the impact it has on individuals' mental health and self-worth. Shani Silver is an author and podcaster originally from Fort Worth, Texas. Her name is pronounced like “rainy” with a “sh.” Her book, A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match—light one, helps singles reframe singlehood to see its value and validity, for as long as we happen to be single. She is not an advocate for singlehood, she's an advocate for people being happy while single, and there is a difference. Her podcast, A Single Serving Podcast, launched in April of 2019 in the hopes of giving single women content that—for once—didn't revolve around dating, and to support singles around the world in shedding the societal shame of singlehood. Shani has lived and dated in Austin, TX, Los Angeles, CA, Chicago, IL, Philadelphia, PA, and Brooklyn, NY. She currently lives in New Orleans. Following ten years of use, Shani permanently deleted her dating apps in January of 2019. She has loved her life ever since. Topics discussed in this episode of A Fresh Story with Shani Silver: Dating apps prioritize profit over helping users find love. Singlehood should be reframed to focus on happiness and personal growth. Societal expectations and stigmas around relationships can be harmful. The lawsuit against Match Group highlights the addictive nature of dating apps. Dating apps can have addictive behaviors and may not deliver on what people are seeking. The pressure to find a romantic partner can lead to settling and compromising one's values. Dating apps lack safety measures and can expose users to abusive or predatory behavior. Living authentically and focusing on personal fulfillment is more important than conforming to societal expectations. It is crucial to challenge the commercialization of love and celebrate singlehood as a valid and fulfilling lifestyle.

Shani is the author of the book, A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match—light one, and the host of her own podcast, A Single Serving Podcast. On today's episode, her and I chat about why she deleted the dating apps after a decade of using them, reasons why none of us will die alone, her choice not to have children, and why she values living in a new city. Shani's Website Shani's IG Shani's Tiktok

Singlehood is not a broken state that requires fixing. This is the core message of our guest, Shani Silver, who deleted her dating apps in 2019 and has been infinitely happier ever since. Shani reminds us that dating apps are a for-profit industry that stand to benefit from keeping you single rather than helping you find love, and they often deplete your self worth and mental health. Author of the fantastic book A Single Revolution: Don't Look for a Match. Light One. and host of A Single Serving Podcast, Shani firmly believes that you can enjoy your life as a single human while still hoping for a partnership. But this episode is not just for the singles out there! Shani helps people in couples reframe how they view their single friends and family members, and as a result of reading her book, we have personally stopped asking questions like "How's dating life?" or "Can I please fix you up with someone?" Shani offers zero apologies for living her life exactly as she wants to, and we offer zero apologies for Ellie's graphic colonoscopy story and Julia's description of her nuclear meltdown. Love us as we are or don't love us at all, but do listen to the episode and share it with your people. Topics and timestamps15:05 - Shani tells us the wildest thing a doctor ever said to her 15:05 - Shani tells us the wildest thing a doctor ever said to her.17:49 - Dating apps are a for-profit industry. Here's why you should delete them.22:30 - How to maintain your self-worth and dignity in a society that shames singles.28:44 - How to reframe your mindset about the hell-scape that is dating.34:00 - Dispelling the notion that your life isn't real until you have a partner.47:45 - A person can embrace their single-hood while hoping for a partner. Handles and sitesShani's websiteShani's show: A Single Serving PodcastBuy Shani's book: A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match. Light one. Shani's InstaShani's TikTokList of Resources MentionedTubal Ligation No Better Than IUD at Preventing PregnancyThe Mob Should Run Planned ParenthoodWhy Many Single Women Without Children Are So HappyThe Other 50% PodcastOther LinksErin's Faces Affiliate LinkSupport the showBe one of the helpers! SUBSCRIBE to this podcast on APPLE PODCASTS or SPOTIFY and leave us a review on APPLE PODCASTS.

If you are currently single and feeling exhausted by the dating apps, the games, the people who keep asking you your status and giving unsolicited advice… If you're feeling pressure from family, society, or even your own inner critic to finally settle down, or you're frustrated and starting to feeling hopeless because you feel like your life can't start or won't start until you find “the one”, well this episode of How to Find Joy is dedicated to you! My guest is going to blow your mind and flip your beliefs on its head because she is going to make you question everything you may have been taught to believe about being on your own AND empower you to show up with more joy, especially when you are in your singlehood! And for those of you who are in relationships, I'm also talking to you too because...1) if you're in a relationship or marriage that is toxic, but you stay because you are terrified about what it means to be single, I hope this conversation also comforts and supports you.2) Even if you're happy in your relationship, this episode will teach you how to better support and respect your single loved ones, which IMO is very important!-----------------Our guest today: Shani SilverShani Silver is an author of A Single Revolution and podcaster for A Single Serving from Fort Worth, Texas. Her name is pronounced like "rainy" with a "sh." In April of 2019, she launched A Single Serving Podcast to change the narrative around being single and to help single women shed both societal shame and a digital dating dependency. Shani wants single women to know that it's possible to feel free and optimistic about singlehood. To love single life and desire a relationship at the same time. After fifteen years single and four years dating app free, she's living proof.Connect with Shani SilverWebsitePatreonInstagramTikTokTwitter: @shanisilverHere is what Shani and I discussed on this episode:Shani's definition of joyHow Shani finds joy Questioning societal expectations on singlehoodDifferent treatment for single people / Questioning why married people get more respect than singles What is blocking your joy while you're singleWhat are the most common grievances for being singleShani's core mission to offer up a new narrative about singlehood, particularly for single women3 pieces of advice on how to find joy when you're singleHelpful tool for singles, Shani's book: “A Single Revolution: Don't Look for a Match, Light One”Why her podcast is also a supportive tool for singles “A Single Serving Podcast” on Patreon--------------------------------CONNECT WITH JOY GUIDE JUNE! Website Instagram TikTokYouTube LinkedIn If you'd like to work with June one-on-one, join her Joy Guidance Program! Learn more HERE.

WELCOME TO SERIES 3! Thanks for being here!Today we're talking about the dreaded dating apps, the damaging narrative about being single and how we can start to shift it.Shani Silver is a writer based in New Orleans. She hosts A Single Serving Podcast and is the author of A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match. Light one. It's a book that's changing the narrative around being single, and hopefully helping single women feel better about this incredibly valuable time in our lives. She says 'I'm not an advocate for singlehood. I'm an advocate for single women FEELING GOOD WHILE SINGLE. There is a difference.'Shani is also the author of two Substacks! 1982, a healing newsletter for 80s babies, and Hey Shani, a toxic positivity-free advice column from a perpetual re-framer. It's been an absolute treat to have her on the show. Thank you, Shani!www.shanisilver.com - visit her to find links to all of her wonderful resources!@shanisilver on all the socialsKnowing When to Quit - Instagram - @knowingwhentoquitPodcast homepage - www.sarahweiler.com/podcast/Editor - Johnny Hall / Music - Sarah Weiler / Artwork - Tom PaulingThis was recorded in March 2023WANT TO SUPPORT THIS PODCAST? You can buy me a coffee here: https://ko-fi.com/sarahweiler

Shani Silver is an author and podcaster originally from Fort Worth, Texas. Her name is pronounced like “rainy” with a “sh.” Her book, A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match—light one, helps singles reframe singlehood to see its value and validity, for as long as we happen to be single. She is not an advocate for singlehood, she's an advocate for people being happy while single, and there is a difference. Her podcast, A Single Serving Podcast, launched in April of 2019 in the hopes of giving single women content that—for once—didn't revolve around dating, and to support singles around the world in shedding the societal shame of singlehood. Shani has lived and dated in Austin, TX, Los Angeles, CA, Chicago, IL, Philadelphia, PA, and Brooklyn, NY. She currently lives in New Orleans. Following ten years of use, Shani permanently deleted her dating apps in January of 2019. She has loved her life ever since. Referenced TikTok Video: https://www.tiktok.com/@femiio/video/7158903607461727534 Shop Nisolo: https://nisolo.uvwgb9.net/c/2219200/1058225/10656 If you want to stay in touch, find me on TikTok or Instagram @femiio, or email questions/feedback to info@femiio.com. To support Femiio and The Femiio Podcast, you can visit paypal.me/femiio

Sarah welcomes Shani Silver, who is an expert on Singledom. She discusses her book, A Single Revolution, her podcast, A Single Serving Podcast, and moving to New Orleans from Brooklyn. Shani emphasizes never to be desperate to find anyone. She and Sarah also talk about dating apps, and Shani describes them as “hope rollercoasters” that breed mental health problems and cause more harm than good. Men are not scarce resources, so women should not be afraid of growing older and being single. Love is not over at 37, and women are not just holes!

This week, we have a very special Valentine's Day guest: Shani Silver. Shani is the host of A Single Serving Podcast and the writer of the column Every Single Day for Refinery29. After 13 years of being single and being made to feel like this one minute part of her life was life-defining, Shani decided that it was time to change the narrative. Her book "A Single Revolution: Don't Look for a Match. Light One" will reframe the way you look at singledom, so you can feel good about yourself, whether you have a partner or not. https://www.shanisilver.comhttps://twitter.com/shanisilverhttps://www.instagram.com/shanisilver/https://www.tiktok.com/@shanisilver?lang=enJoin our Book Club: patreon.com/parisundergroundradio Find Us OnlineWebsite: https://www.parisundergroundradio.com/storytimeinparisFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/parisundergroundradioInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/parisundergroundradio/ CreditsHost and Producer: Jennifer Geraghty. Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter: @jennyphoria; Website: http://jennyphoria.comMusic CreditsHip Hop Rap Instrumental (Crying Over You) by christophermorrow https://soundcloud.com/chris-morrow-3​ Creative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported— CC BY 3.0 Free Download / Stream: http://bit.ly/2AHA5G9​ Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/hiYs5z4xdBU​ About UsSince well before Victor Hugo looked up at Notre Dame and thought, "Huh... what if a hunchback lived in there?" authors have been inspired by Paris. The Storytime in Paris podcast will help keep this tradition alive with short interviews and readings from your favorite contemporary authors with a French connection. Every episode will feature five questions, asked by you, our authors' biggest fans, and answered live on air. Then, our authors will treat us to a reading of an excerpt from their book. Who knows? Maybe you'll even be inspired to write your own Great French Novel. Happy listening!

A Single Serving Podcast publishes ONLY on Patreon every Monday morning, but once a year I like to gift subscribers who have found me throughout the year with one Patreon-only episode as a way to show you what you can expect from the podcast. I hope you enjoy one of my absolute favorite 2022 episodes, The Vilification Of Single Women. This episode does not hold back, it does not mince words, and it is DONE with the BS narrative that single women are a threat to married women's relationships. NOPE! We are done being vilified, and we are done moving through the world on eggshells so that we don't upset a married. It's an intense one and you know what—it should be. Because single people are not villains, and partnered people are not superior. Period. Shani's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/shanisilverShani's book: A Single Revolution: Don't Look For A Match. Light One. https://amzn.to/3FZwBzjShani's website: https://www.shanisilver.com/Shani on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shanisilverShani on Instagram: https://instagram.com/shanisilverBook link is affiliate link. Support the show

This is a mid-year reminder that A Single Serving Podcast publishes EVERY MONDAY MORNING on Patreon and only on Patreon. Your $5 per month membership gets you every single podcast episode AND access to the podcast's private Facebook Group. If you're looking for more content and community that treats singlehood with the respect and validity it deserves, as opposed to more and more baseless, future-predicting dating advice, join us. Shani's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/shanisilverShani's book: A Single Revolution: Don't Look For A Match. Light One. https://amzn.to/3FZwBzjShani's website: https://www.shanisilver.com/Shani on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shanisilver Shani on Instagram: https://instagram.com/shanisilverBook link is affiliate link. Support the show

For this week's episode, author, podcaster, and TikToker, Shani Silver joins Shamelessly Unapologetic to debunk the narrative that being single is a miserable and bad place to be in your life. Ilana and Shani dive into the bullshit they've dealt with when it comes to being treated differently as single women compared to others who are partnered. Shani gives a ton of great insight to help others embrace their singlehood and to live life freely! Main takeaways from the episode: How people can become more confident and comfortable with being single Learning to handle single shaming and our experiences with being single shamed Empowering singles to change the narrative that being single is not a bad thing Navigating life while dating and not dating as a single adult Find Shani on social media: Instagram: @shanisilver TikTok: @shanisilver Shani's Podcast, A Single Serving Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-single-serving-podcast/id1458026831 Shani's Book, A Single Revolution: Don't Look for a Match. Light One: https://www.amazon.com/Single-Revolution-Dont-match-Light-ebook/dp/B09HZ1TBX7 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shamelesslyunapologetic/support

In this week's episode of Spinsterhood Reimagined, I talk to New Orleans-based writer and podcaster, Shani Silver. Shani is truly a force for change when it comes to the current narratives around singledom, and her brilliant, inspirational podcast - A Single Serving Podcast - is a must-listen. She is also the author of 'A Single Revolution: Don't Look For A Match, Light One', a book which is helping women around the world feel better about this wonderfully free time in their lives. Shani is not an advocate for singlehood per se, but rather an advocate for single women feeling great whilst they are single. I was honoured to be able to spend some time in the company of such an intelligent, passionate and forthright individual. In this conversation, Shani and I cover an array of topics including the darker side of internet dating, how she is child free by choice, her decision to quit online dating for good and the reasons behind it, and the fact that she wrote her book in a month! I really hope you guys enjoy this interesting and insightful conversation. Shani can be found on Instagram @shanisilver and @asingleservingpodcast. She can be found on Twitter @shanisilver. Her Patreon is: https://www.patreon.com/shanisilverLink to Shani's book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Single-Revolution-Dont-match-Light-ebook/dp/B09HZ1TBX7Follow me on Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimaginedEmail me: lucymeggeson@gmail.com 

Being single has its absolute high moments. And it can also feel like an endless hell. Especially when you feel so done with it. Perhaps you get to the point that Shani Silver, humor essayist and podcaster did: ‘I had been dating fruitlessly for a full decade and there came a moment of absolute exhaustion. And it wasn't just exhaustion with dating or exhaustion with searching for someone, it was exhaustion with the frustration around those activities. I was tired of being tired of being single. It was enough.'So Shani changed her view on being single as something other than a problem to fix at any cost. She reframed the way she viewed and experienced her own singlehood, to increase her sense of self-worth and live her life at whole new levels of happiness, fulfilment and satisfaction. In this podcast Shani and I discuss her book, A Single Revolution', which spoke to my heart as a long-term former single winab. And I am sure will speak to your heart too.  Show notes:How to reframe singlehood to increase your self worthUnderstand how dating in its current form is serving youAnd if not, what you can do insteadThe shame of singlehood is damaging, especially to women Reframe your life so that you feel empoweredJealousy is something that can be shed Fully embrace your own life and it's unique timelineSee the gifts that come to you because of being singleDecide on who you want to be in the world and own it Accepting the fantastic, custom-designed life that is yoursKnow that you are whole and complete right nowDon't wait for a partner to live the life exactly the way you want toLive life fully now – being happy is a present-time choiceAbout Shani:Shani Silver is a humor essayist and podcaster from Fort Worth, Texas who began writing at age six. Her name is pronounced like “rainy” with an “sh.” She publishes most frequently on Medium as well as on her website, shanisilver.com. Her podcast, A Single Serving Podcast, launched in April of 2019 in the hopes of giving single women content that—for once—didn't revolve around dating, and to support women around the world in reframing singlehood. Shani has lived and dated in Austin, TX, Los Angeles, CA, Chicago, IL, Philadelphia, PA, and Brooklyn, NY. She currently lives in New Orleans. Following ten years of use, Shani permanently deleted her dating apps in January of 2019. She has loved her life ever since.Connect with ShaniAmazon link to Shani's book, A Single Revolutionhttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Single-Revolution-Dont-match-Light/dp/1544525303/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=a+single+revolution&qid=1647025389&sr=8-1 Shani's website https://www.shanisilver.com/ Follow Shani on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/shanisilverConnect with AndreaThe discussion continues over on social media. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreabalboni_lush/Sign up for the Lush Love newsletter to learn about new podcasts:  Website: https://www.lushcoaching.com/

In this episode, Raquel and Jennifer are joined by Shani Silver - the author of A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match. Light one., and the host of A Single Serving Podcast. Her podcast launched in April 2019 in the hopes of giving single women content that - for once - didn't revolve around dating, and to support women all over the world in reframing the way they see and experience singlehood. Following ten years of fruitless use, Shani permanently deleted her dating apps in January 2019. She has loved her life ever since. “I'm trying to help singles view singlehood as something other than a problem to fix at any cost.”You can buy Shani's book here.You can find Shani on IG here.A Single Serving Podcast publishes every Monday morning on Patreon, and can be accessed by becoming a Patreon Patron here at the $5 per month tier. Let Raquel and Jennifer know what you think about this and other episodes. They can be reached on IG @madnesscafepodcast or via email at madnesscafepodcast@gmail.com.And don't forget to rate and review the show wherever you listen!Thanks for listening and responding!

A Single Serving Podcast is now exclusively on Patreon! As of January 2022, new episodes will publish every Monday morning only on Shani Silver's Patreon at the $5 per month tier. This tier also comes with access to the Patrons-only Facebook group for this podcast. You are welcome to listen to the back catalog on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, etc, and if you'd like new episodes I hope you'll join our Patreon community where we're reframing the negative, lack-filled narratives of singlehood and replacing them with new ways of thinking about and experiencing single life that feel MUCH BETTER. See you there!  https://www.patreon.com/shanisilverShani's book: A Single Revolution: Don't Look For A Match. Light One. https://amzn.to/3FZwBzjShani's website: https://www.shanisilver.com/Shani on Instagram: https://instagram.com/shanisilverBook link is affiliate link. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/shanisilver)

Shani Silver, the author of A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match — Light one, and the host of A Single Serving Podcast, joins Damona in a fun debate on whether dating apps really serve singles looking for love. Damona covers headlines: Hard Ball Dating - What is it and why you're doing it wrong and Atheists: hot or not? Science tells us the answer. Dear Damona listener questions: What to say if you're feeling that third date pressure and how to learn more about yourself when you're starting over in dating at age 40. Make sure you get a copy of Shani's book A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match — Light one and subscribe to her podcast A Single Serving. Here's a hot tip: You need to create a dating profile that attracts the right matches to you. You need my free profile starter kit. It's a full PDF with detailed instructions and tips on creating a magnetic profile that will attract the right matches to you. I give you ideas on what to write in your bio and how to pick the best pictures. All it takes is 20 minutes of your time.  It's 100% free and you can find it at PROFILESTARTERKIT.COM or DATESANDMATES.COM! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What is a "bare minimum" mindset, and how is it harmful to singles? This solo episode explores a deep dive into where the bare minimum comes from, how to move past it, and why we're so vulnerable to it. You'll also hear advice on how to reframe your comparison thoughts around the holiday season. ANNOUNCEMENT: This is the last episode of A Single Serving Podcast that will publish for free on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, etc. From now on, listen to a new episode of A Single Serving Podcast every Monday morning over on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/shanisilverShani's book: A Single Revolution: Don't Look For A Match. Light One. https://amzn.to/3FZwBzjShani's website: https://www.shanisilver.com/Shani on Instagram: https://instagram.com/shanisilverPodcast P.O. Box3436 Magazine Street #8110 New Orleans, LA 70115Transcript of podcast via OtterAnti-Racism Resources For My White Friends & ReadersSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/shanisilver)

In todays episode, I chat to Shani Silver.  Shani is a writer and the host of A Single Serving Podcast. Her work focuses on changing the negative narratives around being single in an effort to improve the way single life is experienced. Shani's work helps singles reframe the limiting, shame-filled societal messages around singlehood and reframe them to hold more truth and authenticity. On October 26th, 2021 Shani is releasing her first book, A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match. Light one.   In todays chat we cover:  - The narrative around single women as compared to that of single men - How reframing can help us to enjoy singlehood a lot more - The importance of language when discussing singlehood - Why we don't have to find a partner for our life to start - Coming to the realisation we don't have to have a baby, if we don't want to have a baby - How spending time with babies can help you decide if you want to be a parent - Challenging the assumption that we are all supposed to get married and have children - The importance of making conscious decisions, whatever they may be and much, much more..... You can purchase A Single Revolution , Shani's new book from Amazon from 26th October 2021   Connect with Shani Silver: Instagram: www.instagram.com/shanisilver Medium: https://shanisilver.medium.com/ Podcast: A Single Serving Book: A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match. Light one. Website: https://www.shanisilver.com/     Thank you for listening to The Stork and I Podcast! I would love for you to share this episode and let me know what you think! Please take a moment to rate and review, it really helps others find the podcast which can be a great source of support! Join our Instagram community for more support: www.instagram.com/the_stork_and_i.   About Mel Johnson Hi! I'm Mel, The Solo Parenthood Coach and following my own journey to solo parenthood, I created The Stork and I to support others going through the same journey.  I'm also on a mission to change the narrative around solo parenthood Learn more about me at www.thestorkandi.com

THIS WEEK. We had the lovely and wise and talented and funny Shani Silver, host of “A Single Serving” Podcast on the show to talk about the Wild West that is dating in a global pancetta. We covered everything from why dating apps are not your friend to finding out that all the hot men in the world are on TikTok. Enjoy! If you want to stay in touch, find me on Instagram @femiio or email questions/feedback to info@femiio.com. To support Femiio and The Femiio Podcast, you can visit paypal.me/femiio

It's a wild one! Things that happened in this episode featuring Lane Moore: a phone call from my movers saying they were FINALLY arriving later that day after being a month late, a dog cameo, and a very chatty UPS delivery man, and after all that we get into some good shit! Comedian, Creator of Tinder Live and author of How To Be Alone Lane Moore is one of my most-requested guests EVER, and I'm so thrilled she took time out of her tour schedule to chat with us about singlehood, online dating, attachment styles, and the things we have to learn from each other. Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts or below.Lane's website & tour infoLane's InstagramLane's TwitterLane's Book, How To Be AloneAttachedShani's Podcast P.O Box!3436 Magazine Street #8110New Orleans, LA 70115Shani's websiteShani on InstagramThis podcast publishes once a month on Apple Podcasts and other free-access platforms, and once a week on Patreon! Join the Patreon for A Single Serving Podcast to get full access to all weekly podcast episodes and instant access to all existing Patreon-only episodes. You'll also get access to the private podcast Facebook group! Anti-Racism Resources For My White Friends & ReadersPodcast logo by Johanna PendleyPodcast hosted on BuzzsproutTranscript of podcast via Otter*Book links are affiliate linksSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/shanisilver)

In this very special episode of A Single Serving Podcast, I am joined by podcast listener Christine Po, a Dermatology Physician Assistant based in Atlanta, Georgia. Christine reached out as a listener and her email was one I wished I could have shared with you all—so I made it a podcast episode instead. This is for anyone who has ever felt entirely alone in never having been in a relationship before, anyone who's ever experienced racism in dating, and anyone who has ever felt like there was just simply something wrong with you for being single. The episode also begins with my own deep dive and reframe into expectations around our least favorite question: "How's dating going?"Connect with Christine on InstagramJune Patreon Podcast EpisodesJesus Was Single with Kat HarrisFilter Of Fabulosity with Shani SilverEmpathy & Actual Answers with Jennifer Michelle Mason Unique Is Normal with Laura Behnke (mentioned in this week's episode) Nothing Personal by Nancy Jo SalesShe I Dare Not Name by Donna Ward Panel discussion with Donna Ward, Jody Day, and Civilla Morgan Join the Patreon for A Single Serving Podcast to get full access to all weekly podcast episodes and instant access to all existing Patreon-only episodes!Anti-Racism Resources For My White Friends & ReadersPodcast logo by Johanna PendleyPodcast hosted on BuzzsproutTranscript of podcast via OtterBook links are affiliate links.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/shanisilver)

Nancy Jo Sales is a New York Times bestselling author and award winning journalist whose work you might know from The Bling Ring, American Girls: Social Media and the Secret Lives of Teenagers, or her documentary filme Swiped. Her newest book, Nothing Personal: My Secret Life in the Dating App Inferno addresses a topic very close to this community: Big Dating and the corporate takeover of our search for love. It’s not just you—maybe the gamification of dating is actually that bad. This episode hits home, hard. CW: This podcast episode includes a brief discussion of rape and sexual assault at the very beginning of the interview. Nancy Jo Sales’ websiteNancy Jo Sales’ TwitterNothing Personal: My Secret Life in the Dating App InfernoBooks mentioned in the episode:Brotopia, by Emily ChangMen Who Hate Women by Laura BatesJoin the Patreon for A Single Serving Podcast to get full access to all weekly podcast episodes in 2021. May Patreon EpisodesWords, Wine, & Walks, featuring Sara K Runnels $100 Cashmere Onesie, featuring Melanie NotkinRaw,  featuring your host, Shani Silver & 3 Subtle Ways Single Women Are BulliedAnti-Racism Resources For My White Friends & ReadersPodcast logo by Johanna PendleyPodcast hosted on BuzzsproutTranscript of podcast via OtterSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/shanisilver)

Alex Kruger is a writer who recently published an essay with The New York Times’ Modern Love column.  What’s the “right” approach to dating? An organized and thoughtful effort, or a hands-off attitude that lets what will be, be? Or…are both Alex and Shani 100% right? This episode is FULL of explorations into modern singlehood, and all the little idiosyncrasies and anxieties that come with it. A must listen for anyone who feels like dating is happening to them, rather than the other way around, as well as anyone who feels a little out of control. Modern Love: My Ridiculous Dating System by Alex KrugerAlex Kruger on Substack What’s Right With You? podcast episode featuring Sara Eckel April Patreon Episodes: Representation Changes Attitudes with Rowan EllisUnique Is Normal with Laura BehnkeSexuality Is An Energy with August McLaughlin (August’s book, Girl Boner)Join the Patreon for A Single Serving Podcast to get full access to all weekly podcast episodes in 2021. Anti-Racism Resources For My White Friends & ReadersPodcast logo by Johanna PendleyPodcast hosted on BuzzsproutTranscript of podcast via OtterSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/shanisilver)

We've all heard that question, “Who am I outside of this relationship/marriage”. Singleism, the term for people living life outside of a committed, romantic relationship, is an emerging area of focus on a state of living that many people experience at some point in life. There is so much wonderful momentum behind the concept of living life while single and destigmatizing past views of what “living single” means in order to open us all up to the possibilities of our very own selves! Helping us explore the beauty and challenges of single hood at any age is NFCC's Lead Clinician, Heather Timmis, MA, LMFT-S. About Heather Timmis: Heather Timmis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Supervisor (LMFT-S) who works with families, couples and individuals ages 3 years and up. She holds a bachelor's degree in psychology from the University of Texas at Austin as well as a master's degree in marriage and family therapy from the University of Houston-Clear Lake. Heather has experience helping clients work through challenges related but not limited to sexual abuse, trauma, suicidal thoughts/actions and anxiety. She believes in a flexible, collaborative approach where she and her client work as a team to determine the best fit for the client's needs. In addition to her amazing clinical work, Heather is obsessed with all things pop culture and experienced her fair share of dating apps before she finally met her fiancé.  Here are some resources mentioned in this episode: https://www.shanisilver.com/podcast (A Single Serving Podcast) http://www.belladepaulo.com/ (Bella DePaulo's Books and Info) https://belladepaulo.medium.com/resources-for-single-people-who-are-not-whining-about-being-single-3f9df6e67560 (Additional Resources)  A special thanks to our team: Tracy Lehman, Host & Executive Producer Os Galindo, Senior Producer & Engineer Yue Nakayama, Audio Engineer Jacel Dickson, Editor & Graphic Designer Administrators: Mary Elizabeth Hand and Audrey Omenson with music by Jim Roman Thanks for listening!

Where are my single ladies at?? If you haven't heard of Shani Silver and her work around redefining the single narrative, you can thank me later. You can find Shani over on A Single Serving Podcast every week with some refreshingly positive aspects of flying solo, as well as challenging the status quo of modern dating. Today we hear about her advice for writers that want to start being paid to write professionally, how she handles creativity blocks, and we learn about the phenomenon of “window shoppers” in your life. It's extremely enlightening and can be applied to all areas of your life. Whether you're curious about becoming a writer or appreciate those that create new narratives when the current one isn't working for them, you'll find something to love in this week's episode. Where to find more Shani Silver: Instagram: @shanisilver https://www.shanisilver.com/ More Defining Roles with Kate Barrett Instagram: @definingroles Email: definingrolespodcast@gmail.com https://www.katebarrett.online/

Shani Silver is a writer and podcast host working to change the way that being single is seen in the world. Both her writing and her show, A Single Serving Podcast, seek to create content for single women that's about way more than dating. In this episode, Shani tells us the story of how she Continue Reading…

Because it's not, and Shani Silver wants to tell you why. Shani has been single for a decade, and one day she just became tired. Not tired of being single, but tired of being mad about it. And that's when things started to change for Shani. In today's episode, Shani shares how she changed her life by taking a different approach to being single than what we're normally taught. She explains how she got here, what dating looks like these days, and how she was able to start enjoying her life again. I was excited to have Shani on the show because she's a beautiful example of being hopeful and optimistic, but at the same time completely present. Meaning, she's looking forward to the future, but she's also truly loving her present. Her perspective on dating is so refreshing (and needed), that she scored a column with Refinery29 titled, "Every Single Day" and hosts a podcast called "A Single Serving Podcast." Shani is changing the conversation for shamed singles everywhere, so that we can finally look at this time in our life with clarity There's so much wisdom in this one. Enjoy!