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Are you ready to embrace the single life and thrive? This week on Doing Well: The Wellbeing Science Insights Podcast, host Lu Ngo is joined by social scientist Dr. Bella DePaulo to learn more about what it takes to thrive as a single person in a relationship-centred world. Having been dubbed America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience, Dr. Bella DePaulo is the leading expert on single life. Dr. Bella DePaulo has always been single, and has pledged to remain single. In addition to writing a The Times best self-help book ‘Single at Heart', her TEDx talk ‘What No One Ever Told You About People Who Are Single' has been viewed over 1.7 million times. In this episode, Dr. Bella DePaulo explains the misconceptions about being single, as well as the concept of well-being. She sheds light on how people cope with being single, be it positive or negative, and how this affects their mental well-being. Together, Lu and Dr. Bella DePaulo discuss the idea of autonomy, and what strategies one can set up to foster a sense of autonomy and ultimately combat loneliness to cultivate a more fulfilling single life. So, tune in this week for expert insights and actionable advice on singlehood! Follow Dr. Bella DePaulo's work: www.BellaDePaulo.com. Follow Dr. Bella DePaulo on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bella-depaulo-2865405/ Produced by the Wellbeing Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://we.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Wellbeing Science Labs. Follow us on social media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@wellbeingsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wellbeing.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wellbeing.science.labs/ LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/showcase/wellbeing-science-labs Twitter: https://twitter.com/WeScienceLabs Discord: http://discord.gg/WESL TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wellbeing.science.labs You can also subscribe and listen to our podcasts on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/doing-well-the-wellbeing-science-insights-podcast/id1648515329 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/63Gni7VN4Ca6IicSuttwQL Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/7cd001d1-b7ba-4b22-a0f3-17c1a9c6e818/doing-well-the-wellbeing-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-doing-well-the-wellbeing-s-102890038/ Podbean: https://wellbeingscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3402363 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/doing-well-the-wellbeing-scien-4914859
In this week's episode, Jonathan Young and Sara Tolley sit down with Dr. Jeff Jackson, a professor in the School of Family Life and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with more than 20 years of experience. Together, they delve into the question, "Is singlehood the new normal?" They discuss shifting societal attitudes toward single living and explore the implications for individuals who are single in today's world.Sources, References, and Additional Information: Adamczyk, K. (2023). Toward a psychology of singlehood: What we already know and what we need to know about contemporary singlehood. V&R Unipress. (open access) Bella DePaulo: https://belladepaulo.com/ Boss, P. (1999). Ambiguous loss: Learning to live with unresolved grief. Harvard University Press Chowkhani, K., & Wynne, C. (Eds.) (2023). Singular selves: An introduction to singles studies. Routledge. Jackson, J. B. (2023, June 6). Acting in faith while hoping for marriage—8 ideas for adults who are single. Liahona Magazine, 47(6), 14-19. https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/liahona/2023/06/06-acting-in-faith-while-hoping-for-marriage-8-ideas-for-adults-who-are-single?lang=eng Jackson, J. B. (2018). The ambiguous loss of singlehood: Conceptualizing and treating singlehood ambiguous loss among never-married adults. Contemporary Family Therapy, 40(2), 210-222. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10591-018-9455-0 Jackson, J. B., & Sabatini Gutierrez, N. (2020). Clinical work with unpartnered individuals seeking a long-term intimate relationship. In K. S. Wampler & A. J. Blow (Eds.), The handbook of systemic family therapy: Vol. 3. Systemic family therapy with couples (pp. 461-486). Wiley. https://doi.org/10.1002/9781119438519.ch79 Lewis, K. G. (1994). Single heterosexual women through the life cycle. In M. P. Mirkin (Ed.) Women in context: Toward a feminist reconstruction of psychotherapy (pp. 170-187). Guilford. Mehta, V. (2018). 4 Reasons Why Being Single Hurts So Much.” Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/head-games/201803/4-reasons-why-being-single-hurts-so-much Mehta, V. (2018). 6 ways to cope with being single. Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/head-games/201805/6-ways-cope-being-single Ulrich, W. (2011, February 13). Coping with loneliness and disappointment on Valentine's Day. The Deseret News.
Finding "the one" can seem like life's ultimate goal—but should it be? This hour, TED speakers expand the definition of life partnership, whether it's with a friend, a spouse, a pet, or no one at all. Guest include journalist Rhaina Cohen, marriage and family therapist Stephanie Yates-Anyabwile, social psychologist Bella DePaulo and photographer Elias Weiss Friedman of "The Dogist."TED Radio Hour+ subscribers now get access to bonus episodes, with more ideas from TED speakers and a behind the scenes look with our producers. A Plus subscription also lets you listen to regular episodes (like this one!) without sponsors. Sign-up at plus.npr.org/ted. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy
Send me a text!This week my guest is social scientist, author and leading expert on single life, Dr Bella DePaulo! We discuss Bella's new Book, Single at Heart and what it is to live an intentionally single life full of power, freedom and heart-filling joy! You can visit Bella's website here; https://belladepaulo.com/ Single at Heart available on Amazon; https://www.amazon.co.uk/Single-Heart-Power-Freedom-Life/dp/1805223984/ref=sr_1_1?crid=20UZ5T6A106L3&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.GfiO9EEjx6CbUWSRB6ySmHUlfdKuWMYYcjwHvptEu-c.XtuV4QGo4rcdjkdvRxaIcstY0LxEqZzsRhD6oJ_E5qs&dib_tag=se&keywords=single+at+heart+by+dr+bella+depaulo&nsdOptOutParam=true&qid=1733778837&sprefix=single+at+%2Caps%2C97&sr=8-1Thank you so much for listening to my show!You can follow and contact me here;Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/onesinglewoman/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551831488278TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@onesinglewomanYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@onesinglewomanpodcastemail - onesinglewomanpodcast@gmail.com
Contrary to the opening of the 1968 song by Harry Nilson, one is NOT the loneliest number, especially for those who are thriving in single life, like today's guest, Bella DePaulo, PhD, social scientist, psychologist, researcher, and author of “Single at Heart.” She suggests that for her and many others, single is arguably the most authentic and fulfilling way to live. We speak to Dr. DePaulo about her own experiences, thoughts and take-aways from her book, as well as the affirming encouragement she offers to those who are happily single. Guest's Website: Home - Bella DePaulo TALK BIG QUESTIONS Use these prompts to have the opposite of small talk in real life. Are you or someone you know single at heart? Have you ever done activities such as a concert or dinner solo? What was your experience? If not, would you be more apt to try it now? What are some misconceptions you or someone close to you has had about single life? Have your perspective or views on being single changed following this episode? Work with Danielle: If you are ready to start working with a life coach or just want to learn more about the impact that coaching can have in your life, visit Danielle's website at www.daniellemccombs.com and schedule a complimentary exploratory session. Work with Kristy: You can work with Kristy one-on-one or hire her to speak with your team to improve workplace communication. Visit Kristy's website at www.kristyolinger.com and find her work journal at Work Journal — Kristy Olinger.
Dating → becoming exclusive → moving in together → getting married → having kids. This is the assumed trajectory that all relationships will take. If you've already started exploring non-monogamy, you have some experience with breaking the mold. But even in non-monogamous relationships, it's common to find yourself slipping back into the relationship escalator framework. This path is so ingrained, it's easy to feel pressure, both internal and external, to fit your life into its rigid set of steps. We've been there, and we continue to work every day to question our own assumptions and tendencies. In this episode, we're helping you reimagine relationships and relationship security beyond the confines of the relationship escalator. In this episode, we talk about: — What the relationship escalator is and how it shapes our expectations — Different types of escalators beyond just romantic relationships — Why getting off the escalator can be psychologically challenging — How to question relationship norms and make space for alternatives — The importance of building security outside of traditional relationship structures — Practical ways to shift language and interactions to be more inclusive Resources mentioned in this episode: — Amy Gahran's book Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator — Dr. Bella DePaulo' book Single at Heart JOIN The Year of Opening community for a full year of learning & support. Registration is open now at www.TheYearOfOpening.com Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com Learn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart way Get the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything here Music: Dance of Felt by Blue Dot Sessions
Social scientist Dr. Bella DePaulo is considered the leading expert on single life. She is the author of Singled Out and How We Live Now, among other titles. Her latest book Single at Heart is a comprehensive, unapologetic case for single life. In a world that favours couples, Bella shares the many benefits of singledom that go unrecognised. She claims the single-at-heart are flourishing because they are single, not in spite of being single.
Send us a textMy guest on this week's episode is the awesome Jill Stark.Jill, who is both single and childfree, is a best-selling author, content specialist and award-winning journalist, who uses the power of storytelling as a tool for connection and change. Her best-selling books include Happy Never After and High Sobriety. She is from Scotland but lives in Melbourne, Australia. Topics that we cover are:the parallels between sobriety and choosing the single life;why she describes herself as a social agitator;how Jill grew up in a culture of drinking, and how she took that into her adult life;the irony of how she became a health reporter writing about binge drinking;how she came to quit drinking, initially for three months, and how much she loved it;the book deal that saw her quit drinking for a further year;people's reactions to Jill's sobriety;being single, and how Jill never questioned whether she actually wanted to get married and have kids;the correlation between quitting drinking and her clarity around her relationship status;Jill's podcast, Well Enough Alone;her ‘Solo Sunday' events in Melbourne;why we shouldn't be looking to other people to fix feelings of loneliness;the lie we've been told that one person can fix all of our problems or complete us;Jill's mental health crisis in 2014;how fundamentally important it is to develop a strong sense of self;how we're so conditioned to see marriage and babies as ‘success';the growing ‘movement' of single women;how Jill resonates with Bella DePaulo's notion of being ‘single at heart'.Follow Jill on Instagram:@jillstark__Check out Jill's website:https://jillstark.com.au/ Check out Jill's podcast, Well Enough Alone:https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/well-enough-alone-a-guide-to-thriving-solo/id1751129641 Get £100 any trip with Explore at:https://www.explore.co.uk/offers/current-offers/hood To try out the amazing deal with Republic of Cats, go to:https://www.republicofcats.com/catlady/ Support the showCheck out my YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSuCiCzcPlAvxzQyHDrLoag Book a FREE 30 minute coaching 'taster' session HERE: https://calendly.com/lucymeggeson/30minute Fancy getting your hands on my FREE PDF 'The Top 10 Most Irritating Questions That Single People Get Asked On The Regular...& How To (Devilishly) Respond'? Head over to: www.lucymeggeson.com Interested in my 1-1 Coaching? Work with me HERE: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/workwithme Join my private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1870817913309222/?ref=share Follow me on Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimagined Follow me on Twitter: @LucyMeggeson Follow me on LinkedIn: Lucy Meggeson Email me: lucy@lucymeggeson.com And thank you so much for listening!!!
At seventy years old, psychologist and author Dr. Bella DePaulo has been happily single her entire life. Having never felt the need to couple up, DePaulo describes herself as "single at heart'" and says her solo status allows her to live her most "joyful, authentic, and meaningful" life. DePaulo has spent many years researching and writing about the single experience and has just released her first book on the subject, Single at Heart. She hopes the book will prove that a powerful, healthy, and happy life is possible not in spite of being single, but because of it. In this episode, she talks to Róisín Ingle about the different ways in which single people thrive, the common misconceptions around singledom, and why she'd rather spend her life with "the ones", than the one. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We all know the power of a great love story. In films, literature, television - a “happy ending” is shorthand for the main characters coupling up at the end. But are these romantic aspirations really a key ingredient for a happy and fulfilled life? Matthew Syed explores the idea that you can be long term single, and happy. Social scientist Bella DePaulo always knew that marriage wasn't for her. At 70 years-old, she is happily single, and always has been. She's spent her career researching, writing and speaking on the single experience, in an effort to dismantle the conventional wisdom that a happy, fulfilled life, means a coupled-up one. Matthew speaks to Yale sociologist and PhD candidate Hannah Tessler about her research into the complex, expansive relationship networks of single people. We also hear from David Bather Wood, an Assistant Professor from the University Warwick, who explains how a philosophical parable about porcupines, dating back to the 1830s, influenced contemporary understandings of the choice to live a single life. Presenter: Matthew Syed Producer: Leona Hameed Series Editor: Katherine Godfrey Sound Design and Mix: Rob Speight Theme Music: Ioana Selaru A Novel production for BBC Radio 4
Bella DePaulo, a renowned researcher and author specializing in singlehood joined host Arlia Hoffman to discuss singlehood and her new book, Single at Heart. Bella shared her life's work in championing single people, debunking cultural myths about singlehood, and the unique ways singles flourish. The conversation covered Bella's research findings, personal experiences, and her advocacy for a positive and affirming perspective on living single. Bella and Arlia also considered the social dynamics and the challenges single individuals face, providing insights into how they can lead fulfilling and independent lives, and how everyone can be an ally to this community. About Bella Bella DePaulo (Ph.D., Harvard) has always been single and always will be. The Atlantic calls her “America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience.” She is the author of Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life (gold medal winner, Independent Publisher Book Awards) and other books. Her TEDx talk, “What no one ever told you about people who are single,” has been viewed more than 1.7 million times. Professor DePaulo has been writing the “Living Single” blog for Psychology Today since 2008. Website | “Single at Heart” About The Women's Sanctuary The Women's Sanctuary was founded in 2014 as a haven for women to be in community. The Women's Sanctuary offers connection through The Women's Sanctuary podcast, personal coaching for soul and body, and group events like temple practice. Rooted in the tradition of women's circles throughout history, The Women's Sanctuary is a place of sacred rest, sacred connection, healing, and belonging. Website | Facebook | Instagram | PInterest About Arlia Hoffman Arlia Hoffman is founder of The Women's Sanctuary and The Women's Agency. She is an ordained minister and shamanic mentor and holds a Masters in Depth Psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute. She is passionate about supporting women as they re-member themselves. In The Women's Sanctuary, she facilitates sacred sisterhood, mentors women, and hold sacred events. Connect with Arlia: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok 00:00 Welcome to The Women's Sanctuary 00:44 Introducing Bella DePaulo 01:50 The Reality of Singlehood 02:37 Research Insights on Single Life 03:19 Personal Experiences and Societal Bias 05:13 Shifting Career Focus 06:27 Flourishing as a Single Person 13:10 The Value of Solitude 14:57 Challenges and Stereotypes 28:38 Community and Support for Singles 30:59 How to Be an Ally to Singles 34:10 Closing Remarks and Contact Information Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Bella DePaulo has been single her entire life, but she doesn't want anyone's pity about that. This social psychologist loves being single, and she always has. In her latest book Single At Heart she highlights the lives of people who are thriving not in spite of being uncoupled, but because of it. She joins us to talk about what her research uncovers about the "Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life." About the Guest Bella DePaulo has been described by The Atlantic as “America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience.” She is a social psychologist who earned her PhD at Harvard University and works as an academic affiliate in the Department of Psychological and Brain Sciences at the University of California, Santa Barbara. Her latest book is Single At Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life. She also blogs at Psychology Today. A full transcript of this episode is available here. Recommend the show to a friend! Rate and review in Apple Podcasts and Spotify!
Actress Jennifer Aniston has responded to comments made by US Senator JD Vance in 2021, who said women who haven't given birth like Kamala Harris are, "childless cat ladies who are miserable at their own lives”, but there's also a study that revealed a huge shift in societal norms, indicating that one in every four adults is likely to remain single for life – and we speak with one – Bella DePaulo joins us live from California; she is the author of Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life. We also get the perspective of a man who with his wife choose to be child-free Hospitality workers across the UK are experiencing an unprecedented rise in mental health struggles, according to a survey by Hospitality Action. We discuss this with the Global CEO of Atelier House Hospitality Panchali Mahendra, Lina Yousif, Head of People and Culture at Media One Hotel and Chef Junior Nadje. And we look at travel and spending. What are the ways to avoid doom spending? Finance Coach Jay Tolentino joins us and Travel Counsellor Pamela gives us tips on how to avoid getting scammed when travelling.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us a Text Message.In this week's episode, Madeleine Crown & Christina Campbell are back on the podcast for Part 2 of our conversation about The Singles Bill Of Rights.The Singles Bill of Rights (SBR) is a policy proposal. Its creation has an American focus and will work as a springboard for other countries to follow suit – adapting it to fit their own needs. Ultimately, Madeleine, Christina, and the rest of the SBR team would like to convene a UN Convention for Singles Bill of Rights, and create a Universal Bill of Rights for Singles.Madeleine is a Lead Project Assistant for an engineering firm, a scandalous divorcee/born again Spinster, a single dog mom, and a self-guided researcher and writer regarding feminism and women's creativity. She is currently working on a comparative study of women writers and an almanac of women writers across cultures and history, in addition to working on the Singles Bill of Rights.Christina co-founded the singles' advocacy blog Onely, long before singles' rights were cool. Her articles about marital status discrimination have appeared in The Atlantic and elsewhere. She is seeking representation for her memoir about invisible illness, which contains award-winning essays on physical and mental health. She lives in Northern Virginia with her infrared sauna and two semi-geriatric cats. Both women are happily single and childfree.Topics that we cover are:the medical discrimination that singles face;including in the Bill the right to equal healthcare regardless of marital status;the right to equal access for singles to health, bereavement, and other benefits within the work place;how health insurance discriminates against single people;the tendency to regard minorities as ‘less than';the similarities in discrimination within the LGBTQ community, and the singles community;the team of people involved in creating the Singles Bill of Rights, including Bella DePaulo and Dr. Kris Marsh;how single disabled people, and single chronically ill people, are disproportionately discriminated against;the goal of bringing the Singles Bill of Rights to every country around the world;why we should look at creating ‘life event leave' for singles who don't take maternity or paternity leave;why we need single people and their lives to be better represented in the media, in movies, in the news etc…;Madeleine and Christina's favourite things about being single.Contact Christina and Madeleine by going to: https://christinadc.com/ Support the Show.Check out my YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSuCiCzcPlAvxzQyHDrLoag Book a FREE 30 minute coaching 'taster' session HERE: https://calendly.com/lucymeggeson/30minute Fancy getting your hands on my FREE PDF 'The Top 10 Most Irritating Questions That Single People Get Asked On The Regular...& How To (Devilishly) Respond'? Head over to: www.lucymeggeson.com Interested in my 1-1 Coaching? Work with me HERE: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/workwithme Join my private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1870817913309222/?ref=share Follow me on Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimagined Follow me on Twitter: @LucyMeggeson Follow me on LinkedIn: Lucy Meggeson Email me: lucy@lucymeggeson.com And thank you so much for listening!!!
Send us a Text Message.In this week's episode, I'm talking to the fabulous Marianne Power.Marianne is a freelance journalist and author who lives in London. Her first book, ‘Help Me! How Self-Help Has Not Changed My Life', an international bestseller, is an irresistibly funny and incredibly moving book about a wild and ultimately redemptive journey that will resonate with anyone who's ever dreamed of finding happiness.Her second book which comes out in August but is available for pre-order right now, is called ‘Love Me! One Woman's Search For A Different Happy Ever After'. Honest, intimate and inspiring, Love Me! is about the freedom to envision the life you want, and finding the courage to choose it.Marianne is single and childfree, but surrounded by love in the form of friends and lovers. Topics that Marianne & I cover are:Marianne's first book, Help Me!, and what prompted her to write it;how initially, she thought self-help books would help her to be ‘perfect';why stepping outside of our comfort zones is important, but why baby steps are essential;the downsides of the self-help industry;how Marianne is now living a life of love, and friendship, and sex, and freedom - which is exactly what she wanted when she started writing the book;the idea that intentionally single people are ‘running away' from intimacy;how during her years of being single, Marianne always wanted to be ‘normal';how the statistics show that single people are generally very happy, and that marriage doesn't actually make you happier;how Marianne discovered Bella DePaulo, and her concept of being ‘single at heart';the book that made her realise she had negative beliefs about women;how women have been conditioned to be more concerned with the needs of others than their own needs;the time Marianne interviewed Gabor Mate, and the fascinating topics they talked about;why we need to fill our own cups before serving the needs of others;how women tend to bond over their woes rather than their strengths;why we as women need to start ‘bragging';how the words we use about ourselves are more important than we realise;why we all need to start being kinder to ourselves.Follow Marianne on Instagram:@marianne_power_writerBuy the book on Amazon:https://www.amazon.co.uk/Love-Me-womans-search-happy/dp/1529057884 Support the Show.Check out my YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSuCiCzcPlAvxzQyHDrLoag Book a FREE 30 minute coaching 'taster' session HERE: https://calendly.com/lucymeggeson/30minute Fancy getting your hands on my FREE PDF 'The Top 10 Most Irritating Questions That Single People Get Asked On The Regular...& How To (Devilishly) Respond'? Head over to: www.lucymeggeson.com Interested in my 1-1 Coaching? Work with me HERE: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/workwithme Join my private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1870817913309222/?ref=share Follow me on Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimagined Follow me on Twitter: @LucyMeggeson Follow me on LinkedIn: Lucy Meggeson Email me: lucy@lucymeggeson.com And thank you so much for listening!!!
Tune in to New Legacy Radio today, and learn about the establishment of Single Studies as a global discipline, with today's guest, Dr. Craig Wynne. Dr. Wynne is the co-editor of the recently released, Singular Selves: An Introduction to Singles Studies. He also wrote the book How to be a Happy Bachelor and has published a number of articles on singlehood. As often discussed on this show, we recognize the ways pronatalism impacts individual reproductive and relationship experiences, amidst status quo thinking and assumptions, and biases experienced by those without children, and those who are unmarried, uncoupled, in diverse relationship structures, and those who are single. Singlism, a term coined by Dr. Bella DePaulo, defines the stigmatizing and negative stereotyping of and discrimination against adults, specifically because they are single. Dr. Wynne will speak to this, and a range of terminology reflecting individual and collective experiences of singlehood. He will also address the why of an intersectional, interdisciplinary global approach to Single Studies, as we consider the questions: How do we best examine the ways systemic, social, and media perspectives have influenced the understanding of singlehood? How can we change the impact of these influences on those who are single, and center the lived experiences of singlehood for greater social change? Join us for this and much more in today's show!
As single people, we're often pitied or seen as living half a life. We're just incomplete puzzles desperately searching for the missing piece to make us whole. But what if the risk is not what we'll miss out on if we don't organise our lives around a romantic partner, but what we'll miss out on if we do? Today, Jill speaks to Dr Bella DePaulo – the world's leading thinker on the single experience about her research, which shows that for millions of people in every corner of the globe, being single is actually the key to thriving and living their best life. And contrary to popular cultural assumptions, those who embrace their single status, grow happier as they age. Dr DePaulo is a professor of psychology with a PhD from Harvard, she's 70, has always been single, and says she always will be. She's the author of Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life. Her TEDx Talk, “What no one ever told you about people who are single,” has been viewed more than 1.6 million times. You can learn more about her at her website, www.BellaDePaulo.com or follow her on Instagram @bellasingleatheartTo stay in touch with Well Enough Alone, you can follow us on Instagram @wellenoughalonepod or @jillstark__ or support the show and get subscriber-only early access to episodes on Patreon. Well Enough Alone is a Spare Room production. Our producers are Kieran Simpson and Trent Bartlett. Get early access to new episodes by subscribing on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Aging can bring about its share of challenges. Some of us are now widowed, some of us are divorced and some of us have remained single our entire lives. There can be a certain stigma to being single. However, if we are honest with ourselves, many of us know that the single life can be both fulfilling and fun. And that's where today's guest comes in. Bella DePaulo (who received her Ph.D. from Harvard University) has always been single and always will be. In fact, The Atlantic calls her “America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience.” Her TEDx talk, What No One Ever Told You About People Who Are Single, has been viewed more than 1.7 million times. We are thrilled to have her join us today to share all about her book entitled. Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life. If you are living single or knows someone who is, you'll want to make sure you hear what Dr. DePaulo has to share!
Kathryn interviews Author Bella DePaulo PhD.It's common knowledge that single women are lonely, desperate for a partner, and envious of every couple they see. Spinsters struggle later in life, never feel fulfilled, and would just love for you to set them up with your neighbor's nephew. But, what if society's ideas about single people—who, by the way, comprise half of the adult population—are wrong? Bella DePaulo PhD challenges the notion that single life is something people settle for, and shows that for millions, in every part of the world, being unpartnered is the key to their most joyful, fulfilling, authentic, and psychologically rich life. Drawing on more than three decades of social science research, and her own experience as a 70-year-old woman happily single her entire life, DePaulo—whose TEDx Talk on the topic has more than 1.7 million views—paints a bold and groundbreaking picture of the myriad benefits of investing in your single life. Bella DePaulo PhD ( Harvard University) has always been single and always will be. The Atlantic calls her “America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience.”Kathryn also interviews Author Dr. Kathleen Corley.Without question, schools today grapple with obstacles unheard of a generation ago, and yet, elementary school principal Dr. Kathleen Corley has figured out how to transform her school into a warm, nurturing community where students embrace a passion for learning. As a 40-year veteran in elementary education, she shares how to overcome current obstacles in education with human interest stories that illuminate a brighter path forward. Using humor, insight and optimism, Dr. Corley reminds readers that despite the problems in schools today — disagreements about what students should or should not be taught, the lingering effects of COVID, etc. — magic still happens in classrooms. She who has been called a Pied Piper of Education, can be seen leading the student drumline down the halls of Palmetto's Finest Award-winning Red Cedar Elementary School.
Kathryn interviews Author Bella DePaulo PhD.It's common knowledge that single women are lonely, desperate for a partner, and envious of every couple they see. Spinsters struggle later in life, never feel fulfilled, and would just love for you to set them up with your neighbor's nephew. But, what if society's ideas about single people—who, by the way, comprise half of the adult population—are wrong? Bella DePaulo PhD challenges the notion that single life is something people settle for, and shows that for millions, in every part of the world, being unpartnered is the key to their most joyful, fulfilling, authentic, and psychologically rich life. Drawing on more than three decades of social science research, and her own experience as a 70-year-old woman happily single her entire life, DePaulo—whose TEDx Talk on the topic has more than 1.7 million views—paints a bold and groundbreaking picture of the myriad benefits of investing in your single life. Bella DePaulo PhD ( Harvard University) has always been single and always will be. The Atlantic calls her “America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience.”Kathryn also interviews Author Dr. Kathleen Corley.Without question, schools today grapple with obstacles unheard of a generation ago, and yet, elementary school principal Dr. Kathleen Corley has figured out how to transform her school into a warm, nurturing community where students embrace a passion for learning. As a 40-year veteran in elementary education, she shares how to overcome current obstacles in education with human interest stories that illuminate a brighter path forward. Using humor, insight and optimism, Dr. Corley reminds readers that despite the problems in schools today — disagreements about what students should or should not be taught, the lingering effects of COVID, etc. — magic still happens in classrooms. She who has been called a Pied Piper of Education, can be seen leading the student drumline down the halls of Palmetto's Finest Award-winning Red Cedar Elementary School.
Cesar Gonzalez Fernandez tells us all about his mission to 'Clean Something for Nothing'. Bella DePaulo talks about the growing voice for those who choose to live a life on their own and flourish doing so. Social scientist Dr. Bella DePaulo is a leading expert on the Single Life, perhaps the leading expert. Her latest book, Single at Heart, has drawn attention from all corners of the world as people feel more able to talk about living a single life, by choice, and feeling utterly fulfilled. Currently an academic affiliate in the Department of Psychological and Brain Sciences at the University of California Santa Barbara, Bella's work on the Single Life gained traction from her TEDx Talk which has now been viewed more than 1.7 million times. Dr. DePaulo's written work includes the books ‘Singled Out' and ‘How we live now'. ‘One is a whole number' was the trigger which started this cascade of research. This line was written by an agony aunt to a letter from a lady who had lost her partner. The idea of course is that you are whole alone. Since then, Bella has also written about the discrimination that can be a part of a single person's experience such as tax laws, but much more besides. When it comes to social events, it is now more acceptable to eat alone at restaurants but still, being single, can attach a negative stereotype. Bella is an advocate of building a great solo life, deep with fulfilling friendships, work and activities of one's own choice without compromise. Dr. DePaulo is a clear example of how to flourish psychologically, career-wise and, most importantly, by being single as a choice, not in spite of being single. Clean Something for Nothing Cesar Gonzalez Fernandez and his partner Lester founded Clean Something For Nothing (CSFN) - a mobile app that connects people to clean the world, one bag of trash at a time. Since their launch in February 2022 their users have completed over 3700 cleanups in 64 countries resulting in over 750 tons of trash picked up to date. Cesar is also an EU Climate Pact ambassador and the Country leader in Luxembourg for the World Cleanup Day organization (WCD) The WCD is the biggest environmental mobilization worldwide and has officially received a recognition by the UN to include the date (20/09) in their official calendar from 2024 onwards. However, before WCD we can work closer to home. Cesar encourages us all to be part of the "lëtz clean your commune" campaign. Luxembourg Spring Cleanup, also known as the Grouss Botz, Naturbotz or Grouss Beschbotz will take place on 23 March and will be the perfect occassion to join a local cleanup and take action. Subscribe to the Podcast and get in touch! You can subscribe to my podcast on Apple and Spotify. Please do rate and review too! Tune in on Today Radio Saturdays at 11am, Sundays at noon and Tuesdays at 10am. https://belladepaulo.com/ https://apollopublishers.com/index.php/single-at-heart/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lyZysfafOAs https://cleansomethingfornothing.com/
In our first show of the new season, we discuss "Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life" with acclaimed social scientist and leading scholar of the single life, Dr. Bella DePaulo. Her groundbreaking, comprehensive, and totally unapologetic new book, #singleatheart, discusses the Joy of Being Single and the Movement toward Unmarried Equality. Her TEDx talk, "What No One Ever Told You About People Who Are Single," has been viewed more than 1.7 million times. Listen in and win a copy of her book, “Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life” HEREIn this episode, we cover:Research Highlights: Challenging Biases and Stereotypes of being SingleStructural Disadvantages for SinglesWhat are the successful attributes of a person who is happily single?Difference between single life and having a romantic interest without being official partners?Strategies for Advocacy and SupportUnderstanding Single at Heart CharacteristicsEmbracing Single IdentityAlternative living arrangements beyond traditional partnershipsSingle parents who are single at heartSignificance of self-improvement and steering clear of detrimental mindsetsHelpful links:Bella DePaulo (Ph.D., Harvard University) has always been single and always will be. The Atlantic calls her “America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience.” Follow her on TwitterHow We Live Now: Redefining Home and Family in the 21st CenturySingle and flourishing: Transcending the deficit narratives of single lifeThe Alternative Unions Replacing Marital Contracts with the State (and the Legal Consequences)I'm 70 And I've Lived Alone My Entire Adult Life. Here's What Everyone Gets Wrong About Single People Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Welcome back to Inside Personal Growth! We have Dr. Bella DePaulo joining us today featuring her book Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life.
Happy Friday, Fckers! On this week's episode of Guys We Fcked, Corinne and Krystyna help a listener wondering if he should hire a sex worker for a little lactation play. Today's guest is “America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience” DR. BELLA DEPAULO. The three discuss being single at heart, where to find community in the world as a voluntary single person, and why society shuns people who opt out of marriage. WATCH THE GWF COMEDY SPECIAL -- "OUR SPECIAL DAY" -- FOR FREE: https://www.youtube.com/guyswefcked Follow Dr. Bella Depaulo on Social Media: @Bellasingleatheart Follow Guys We Fucked on IG/Twitter/TikTok: @guyswefcked Follow Corinne Fisher on Twitter/IG: @PhilanthropyGal (And follow Corinne's store on IG @PerfectlyCenteredStore) www.corinnefisher.com Follow Krystyna Hutchinson on Twitter/IG: @KrystynaHutch www.krystynahutchinson.com Follow Mike Coscarelli on Twitter/IG: @MikeCoscarelli This week's featured music: Problemas https://open.spotify.com/artist/3rMtJPJGd53LJaa6JRnuNp?si=i3uK7FAcTOiPb7QZTY-y0QSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dr. Bella DePaulo, social psychologist and lifelong single woman, discusses her book titled "Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life" in which her research challenges the stereotypes associated with single life, arguing being single can be a joyful, meaningful, fulfilling, psychologically rich, and authentic life.
Social scientist, and foremost expert on single life, Dr. Bella DePaulo discusses her latest book, Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life. In this episode, Dr. DePaulo addresses misconceptions about single life and cites research, studies, and anecdotal evidence to counter longstanding narratives. We also discuss how legislation and policy centers families and couples, often overlooking the needs of single people. From this Episode Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life Listen to All Electorette Episodes https://www.electorette.com/podcast Support the Electorette Rate & Review on iTunes: https://apple.co/2GsfQj4 Also, if you enjoy the Electorette, please subscribe and leave a 5-star review on iTunes. And please spread the word by telling your friends, family, and colleagues about The Electorette! WANT MORE ELECTORETTE? Follow the Electorette on social media. Electorette Facebook Electorette Instagram Electorette Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
On this Woke Wednesday, Danielle Moodie presents something a little different: her conversation with Dr. Bella DePaulo, author of Single At Heart, in which they discuss the social - and legal - stigmas of single life, and the joy that can be found when embracing singleness if that is what you truly desire.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Bella DePaulo, PhD., is the leading expert on single life and is described by The Atlantic as “America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience.” Dr. DePaulo coined the term “Single at Heart” and gave a TEDx talk on the topic in 2017, and today, the talk has had more than 1.6 million views. She is the author of Singled Out, The Psychology of Dexter, and How We Live Now, among other titles; has written the column “Living Single” for Psychology Today since 2008; and has been published by the New York Times, the Washington Post, Time magazine, and other outlets, and been interviewed on shows including The Today Show, CNN American Morning, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, CBS Sunday Morning, Anderson Cooper 360, and Hardball with Chris Matthews. Dr. DePaulo has a BA from Vassar College and a PhD from Harvard University. After two decades as a professor of psychology at the University of Virginia, Dr. DePaulo moved to the West Coast, where she is currently an academic affiliate in the Department of Psychological and Brain Sciences at the University of California, Santa Barbara. She lives in Summerland, CA. Become a member at https://plus.acast.com/s/unimpressedpodcast. https://plus.acast.com/s/unimpressedpodcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Hello and welcome to The Rob Burgess Show. I am, of course, your host, Rob Burgess. On this our 241st episode our guest is Bella DePaulo, PhD. Bella DePaulo, PhD, is the “leading expert on single life” and has been described by The Atlantic as “America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience.” Dr. DePaulo coined the term “single at heart.” Her TEDx talk, “What no one ever told you about people who are single,” has been viewed more than 1.6 million times. She is the author of “Singled Out” and “How We Live Now,” among other titles; has written the “Living Single” blog for Psychology Today since 2008; and has been published by the New York Times, the Washington Post, Time magazine, The Atlantic and many other outlets. She has appeared on shows including The Today Show, CNN American Morning, CBS This Morning and Good Morning America. She has been interviewed on NPR many times, as well as on podcasts by CNN, The Atlantic and many others. Dr. DePaulo has a BA from Vassar College and a PhD from Harvard University. She has lectured nationally and internationally. After two decades as a professor of psychology at the University of Virginia, Dr. DePaulo moved to the West Coast, where she is currently an academic affiliate in the Department of Psychological and Brain Sciences at the University of California, Santa Barbara. She lives in Summerland, California. Her book, “Single At Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life,” was published Dec. 5. Subscribe to my newsletter: http://tinyletter.com/therobburgessshow Follow on Mastodon: https://newsie.social/@therobburgessshow Check out my Linktree: https://linktr.ee/therobburgessshow
Tune in to New Legacy Radio today, and learn about the establishment of Single Studies as a global discipline, with today's guest, Dr. Craig Wynne. Dr. Wynne is the co-editor of the recently released, Singular Selves: An Introduction to Singles Studies. He also wrote the book How to be a Happy Bachelor and has published a number of articles on singlehood. As often discussed on this show, we recognize the ways pronatalism impacts individual reproductive and relationship experiences, amidst status quo thinking and assumptions, and biases experienced by those without children, and those who are unmarried, uncoupled, in diverse relationship structures, and those who are single. Singlism, a term coined by Dr. Bella DePaulo, defines the stigmatizing and negative stereotyping of and discrimination against adults, specifically because they are single. Dr. Wynne will speak to this, and a range of terminology reflecting individual and collective experiences of singlehood. He will also address the why of an intersectional, interdisciplinary global approach to Single Studies, as we consider the questions: How do we best examine the ways systemic, social, and media perspectives have influenced the understanding of singlehood? How can we change the impact of these influences on those who are single, and center the lived experiences of singlehood for greater social change? Join us for this and much more in today's show!
Tune in to New Legacy Radio today, and learn about the establishment of Single Studies as a global discipline, with today's guest, Dr. Craig Wynne. Dr. Wynne is the co-editor of the recently released, Singular Selves: An Introduction to Singles Studies. He also wrote the book How to be a Happy Bachelor and has published a number of articles on singlehood. As often discussed on this show, we recognize the ways pronatalism impacts individual reproductive and relationship experiences, amidst status quo thinking and assumptions, and biases experienced by those without children, and those who are unmarried, uncoupled, in diverse relationship structures, and those who are single. Singlism, a term coined by Dr. Bella DePaulo, defines the stigmatizing and negative stereotyping of and discrimination against adults, specifically because they are single. Dr. Wynne will speak to this, and a range of terminology reflecting individual and collective experiences of singlehood. He will also address the why of an intersectional, interdisciplinary global approach to Single Studies, as we consider the questions: How do we best examine the ways systemic, social, and media perspectives have influenced the understanding of singlehood? How can we change the impact of these influences on those who are single, and center the lived experiences of singlehood for greater social change? Join us for this and much more in today's show!
Whether you are loving your single life or can't imagine choosing to live alone, you need to hear this powerful and revealing podcast. In it, Dr. Bella DePaulo, America's foremost thinker and writer on “the single experience,” shares the experience of single people around the world who have chosen and embrace their single lives. Drawing upon social science studies of thousands of people and the responses of people who have written to her, she delineates the experiences, lifestyle and choices of those who identify as “ Single at Heart.” Dr. Bella DePaulo speaks to the stereotype that assumes that being single is not by choice but by default or defeat. She considers solitude, friendships, having kids, Intimacy and more from the perspective of those Single at Heart, those considering living as a single and those allies and friends who support them. This is a show that dares to ask people to consider how they want to live their best selves – Don't Miss it.
Whether you are loving your single life or can't imagine choosing to live alone, you need to hear this powerful and revealing podcast. In it, Dr. Bella DePaulo, America's foremost thinker and writer on “the single experience,” shares the experience of single people around the world who have chosen and embrace their single lives. Drawing upon social science studies of thousands of people and the responses of people who have written to her, she delineates the experiences, lifestyle and choices of those who identify as “ Single at Heart.” Dr. Bella DePaulo speaks to the stereotype that assumes that being single is not by choice but by default or defeat. She considers solitude, friendships, having kids, Intimacy and more from the perspective of those Single at Heart, those considering living as a single and those allies and friends who support them. This is a show that dares to ask people to consider how they want to live their best selves – Don't Miss it.
Algunos estudios científicos indican la frecuencia y los factores que influyen a la hora de contar mentiras en la vida cotidiana. Medir la cantidad de veces que una persona miente a lo largo del día es una tarea complicada, que, además, puede variar notablemente de un individuo a otro. Por eso, sería casi imposible establecer un número exacto que pueda aplicarse de forma general. A mediados de los noventa, la psicóloga de la Universidad de California, Bella DePaulo, lideró un estudio sobre la frecuencia de las mentiras y ya ofreció algunas pistas sobre el asunto. Los resultados mostraron que estos mintieron una media de una vez al día, mientras que los estudiantes lo hicieron una media dos veces al día. Estos hallazgos se han tomado como referencia en el campo de la investigación sobre la honestidad en múltiples ocasiones, contribuyendo a que muchos investigadores asumieran que mentir es algo habitual. Utiliza el código CIENCIADIGITAL y obtén tu descuento en Muy Interesante, sigue con este link https://bit.ly/3TYwx9a Déjanos tu comentario en Ivoox o Spotify, o escríbenos a podcast@zinetmedia.es Comparte nuestro podcast en tus redes sociales, puedes realizar una valoración de 5 estrellas en Apple Podcast o Spotify. Dirección, locución y producción: Iván Patxi Gómez Gallego Contacto de publicidad en podcast: podcast@zinetmedia.es
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"My mission in putting the single at heart on the map is to rewrite what it means to be single. Single life, to those of us who are single at heart, is a joyful place, a place to learn and grow. It is a big-hearted, expansive, meaningful life full of possibilities . . . intimacy, to us, is personal; in that domain as in all others, we follow our hearts rather than the cultural rulebooks. We chart our own life courses, with meaningfulness, psychological richness, and authenticity as our guide." —Dr. Bella DePaulo, author of Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life Joining me on the podcast today is a guest who has courageously chosen to share that she thoroughly and unapologetically savors living a single life. The leading expert on single living, Dr. Bella DePaulo dispels the myths that pervade modern-day (and historic) cultures around the world when it comes to being single by looking at the research that is often cherry-picked and misleading as it speaks to in what type of relationship status one finds the most happiness. But most importantly, in her new book that was just released yesterday December 5th (2023), Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life, she focuses on an abundance of findings that reveal the many benefits of living single. From improved health and deeper life satisfaction as we age. Thankfully, so much of what is portrayed in media - films, books, television, pretty much everywhere - is not an accurate depiction of where and how happiness is found. By no means is Single at Heart an anti-marriage or anti-couple book, but rather a book that reveals that those of us who have chosen to be single, who find it far more fulfilling than being in a traditional couple, need only trust our inner compass to continue to choose the life that brings us fulfillment. As she points out, the world would be far more peaceful and content if we would trust what we know to be true of ourselves - those who wish to be in a couple would find people who truly wanted to be in a couple, and those who savored their single life would not feel forced to choose a life that was not nourishing. Tune in to today's conversation where we will talk about the priority and value of freedom as well as benefits of solitude for the Single at Heart, and also speak to how those who are widows/widowers, as well as divorcees, can step into a new chapter of revelation about where and how joy can be cultivated. Dr. DePaulo discusses the importance of nurturing The Ones rather than just The One and reminds us that courageously saying we love our single life is what is needed to change the view that the culture errantly holds on to.
Hi Cutie! In this episode, you'll hear my conversation with Bella DePaulo, a social scientist and researcher with an expertise in the benefits of Single life and the author of the new book, Single At Heart. On the pod today, Bella discusses the societal pressures to find a partner, explaining that longterm single life actually leads to happiness for many people. She advocates for recognizing and celebrating personal milestones and achievements that aren't marriage or children-focused. Bella further shares advice for those struggling with societal expectations and how solitude could lead to creativity...Whether you're single or partnered, this episode is an important one to begin to understand and come to peace with the fact that we are forever in relationship with ourselves. The relationship you have with yourself is the one relationship that no matter what, you can always count on being there. This conversation will give you tools to start developing deep self-acceptance, self-love and enjoyment of your own company. Timestamps and links below, my love! Links: Follow the show @unleashyourinnercreative Follow me @LaurenLoGrasso Get Bella's book: https://www.amazon.com/Single-Heart-Rewards-Fulfillment-Singlehood-ebook/dp/B0BPHMX1KF Timestamps: 00:04 Introduction: Topic Intro/Show Intro 00:53 Guest Intro- Bella DePaulo: The Single Life Expert 01:19 The Misconceptions of Single Life 02:06 The Interview Begins: Bella DePaulo's Story 02:51 The Joy of Being Single: Bella's Personal Experience 04:38 The Science Behind Happiness and Marriage 06:57 The Misrepresentation of Marriage in Society 07:30 The Concept of Being Single at Heart 08:09 The Misunderstanding of Single Life 10:17 The Importance of Self-Acceptance and Self-Love 11:18 The Challenges of Being Single in a Coupled World 14:40 The Importance of Being True to Yourself 27:14 Happily Single People Feel Threatening to Coupled People? 31:08 Questioning Happiness and Conformity 31:23 Why Singles Need the Legal Benefits of Marriage 34:21 Challenging Social Norms and Celebrating Individual Achievements 38:15 Navigating Uncomfortable Questions and Embracing Authenticity 42:23 The Bias and Sexism in Society's Perception of Singlehood 45:06 The Power of Solitude and Self-Partnership 54:51 Defining 'Single at Heart' and Embracing Self-Love 57:32 Closing Remarks and Acknowledgements -Remember to subscribe/follow the show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you get your pods. Please leave us a rating and review- it helps SO much in getting the show out there. And tell a friend about the show- podcasts are very personal and tend to be spread person to person. If this show helped you or made you smile, share the love :)
Dr. Bella DePaulo, social psychologist and the author of Single at Heart, joins Lisa Dent to talk about the common myths people might have about individuals who prefer the single life and why they have been stereotyped and ignored. Follow The Lisa Dent Show on Twitter:Follow @LisaDentSpeaksFollow @SteveBertrand Follow @kpowell720 Follow @maryvandeveldeFollow @LaurenLapka
This week's episode is Part 2 of my conversation with Bella DePaulo.Bella DePaulo, PhD, is the leading expert on single life and has been described by The Atlantic as “America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience.” Bella coined the term ‘single at heart', and her new book, Single At Heart, comes out on 5th December 2023. She is the author of Singled Out and How We Live Now, among other titles; has written the “Living Single” blog for Psychology Today since 2008; and has been published by the New York Times, the Washington Post, Time magazine, The Atlantic, and many others. She has appeared on shows including The Today Show and Good Morning America. She has been interviewed on NPR , as well as on podcasts by CNN, The Atlantic, and others. Bella's TEDx talk, “What no one ever told you about people who are single,” has been viewed more than 1.6 million times. In Part 2 of this interview about Bella's new book, Single At Heart, topics that we cover are:how our preoccupation with loneliness has obscured the joys and wonders of solitude;how loving solitude is linked with better psychological health, and how it can be fulfilment and contentment for the single at heart;how solitude for Bella means that she can think with her whole mind and feel with her whole heart;how the single at heart tend to have ‘the ones' instead of ‘the one';the idea of being open to all sorts of relationships, including spiritual figures, nature, or pets;how children can actually benefit from having a single at heart parent;how singles can still have children in their life in the form of nieces, nephews, students and beyond;asexuality, and how a significant number of single at heart people are asexual;how during her research, Bella found that people who are single at heart tend to savour the simple joys in life;how, despite what people may think, the long-term single actually enjoy their older years more than those who have been long-termed coupled;the shocking research that shows that people simply do not believe it when single people ‘claim' to be happy;the most unexpected finding that Bella discovered about those who are single at heart.Check out Bella's website:https://belladepaulo.com/ Buy Bella's new book, Single At Heart (Amazon US):https://www.amazon.com/Single-Heart-Power-Rewards-Uncoupled/dp/1954641281/?tag=wwwbelladepau-20 Buy Bella's new book, Single At Heart (Amazon UK):https://www.amazon.co.uk/Single-Heart-Rewards-Fulfillment-Singlehood/dp/1954641281 Support the show Book a FREE 30 minute coaching 'taster' session HERE: https://calendly.com/lucymeggeson/30minute Fancy getting your hands on my FREE PDF 'The Top 10 Most Irritating Questions That Single People Get Asked On The Regular...& How To (Devilishly) Respond'? Head over to: www.lucymeggeson.com Interested in my 1-1 Coaching? Work with me HERE: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/workwithme Join my private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1870817913309222/?ref=share Follow me on Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimagined Follow me on Twitter: @LucyMeggeson Follow me on LinkedIn: Lucy Meggeson Email me: lucy@lucymeggeson.com And thank you so much for listening!!!
In this week's episode, I'm talking to the one-and-only Bella DePaulo.Bella DePaulo, PhD, is the leading expert on single life and has been described by The Atlantic as “America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience.” Bella coined the term ‘single at heart', and her new book, Single At Heart, comes out on 5th December 2023. She is the author of Singled Out and How We Live Now, among other titles; has written the “Living Single” blog for Psychology Today since 2008; and has been published by the New York Times, the Washington Post, Time magazine, The Atlantic, and many other outlets. She has appeared on shows including The Today Show and Good Morning America. She has been interviewed on NPR, as well as on podcasts by CNN, The Atlantic, and others.Bella's TEDx talk, “What no one ever told you about people who are single,” has been viewed more than 1.6 million times. In Part 1 of this interview about Bella's new book, Single At Heart, topics that we cover are:being ‘single at heart' refers to those who live their best lives, and who flourish, being single;how the stigma surrounding singles remains prevalent and how singles are still considered to be living a lesser life;the idea that you cannot be truly fulfilled or ‘adult' until you are part of a couple;how the research studies show that a large number of people do not desire a partner, despite the assumption that everybody wants a romantic relationship;the findings that show how many singles find that their lives get better and better the longer they're single;how singles are getting happier after the age of forty;those people in relationships who are unable to live an authentic life as part of a couple;how the single at heart relish having opportunities and possibilities, meaning that they live ‘psychologically rich' lives;how, if you're single at heart, coupled life would be a smaller life, and single life can be an expansive life;how when you're single at heart, you can be genuinely happy for the married people with kids around you;how Bella found that everyone she interviewed for Single At Heart cited freedom as one of the main benefits of being single;Check out Bella's website:https://belladepaulo.com/ Pre-Order Bella's New Book, Single At Heart (Amazon US):https://www.amazon.com/Single-Heart-Power-Rewards-Uncoupled/dp/1954641281/?tag=wwwbelladepau-20 Pre-Order Bella's New Book, Single At Heart (Amazon UK):https://www.amazon.co.uk/Single-Heart-Rewards-Fulfillment-Singlehood/dp/1954641281 Support the show Book a FREE 30 minute coaching 'taster' session HERE: https://calendly.com/lucymeggeson/30minute Fancy getting your hands on my FREE PDF 'The Top 10 Most Irritating Questions That Single People Get Asked On The Regular...& How To (Devilishly) Respond'? Head over to: www.lucymeggeson.com Interested in my 1-1 Coaching? Work with me HERE: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/workwithme Join my private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1870817913309222/?ref=share Follow me on Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimagined Follow me on Twitter: @LucyMeggeson Follow me on LinkedIn: Lucy Meggeson Email me: lucy@lucymeggeson.com And thank you so much for listening!!!
In this episode with speak with Dr. Bella DePaulo about her new book Single at Heart (currently available) about how society views and treats people who are single. Dr. DePaulo is the leading expert on single life and has been described by The Atlantic as “America's foremost thinker and writer on the single experience.” Join us as Dr. DePaulo dissects modern marriage, societal norms, and the myths surrounding romantic partnerships. She brings to the forefront the concept of 'single at heart'—a community finding fulfillment and resilience in the face of a couple-centric world. Host: Brent Franson, Founder & CEO, Most Days Guest: Dr. Bella DePaulo Music: Patrick Lee Producer: Patrick Godino
“Amatonormativity is the set of societal assumptions that everyone prospers with an exclusive romantic relationship. Elizabeth Brake coined the neologism to capture societal assumptions about romance.[1][2] Brake wanted to describe the pressure she received by many to prioritize marriage in her own life when she did not want to. Amatonormativity extends beyond social pressures for marriage to include general pressures involving romance.[2][3] The word amatonormativity comes from amatus, which is the Latin word for "loved", and normativity, referring to societal norms.[4][1] Another word which is similarly related to the word amatonormativity is amative. Merriam-Webster dictionary defines the word amative as: strongly moved by love and especially sexual love. Relating to or indicative of love. Amorous is a closely related word also derived from amatus.[5] Related terms include allonormativity, which means a worldview that assumes all people experience sexual and romantic attraction, and compulsory sexuality, which means social norms and practices that marginalizes non-sexuality.[6] The term was modeled after the term heteronormativity, the belief that heterosexuality is the default for sexual orientation.[7] Elizabeth Brake describes the term as a pressure or desire for monogamy, romance, and/or marriage. The desire to find relationships that are romantic, sexual, monogamous, and lifelong has many social consequences. People who are asexual, aromantic, and/or nonmonogamous become social oddities. According to researcher Bella DePaulo, it puts a stigma on single people as incomplete and pushes romantic partners to stay in unhealthy relationships because of a fear the partners may have of being single.[8][1] According to Brake, one way in which amatonormativity is institutionally applied is the law and morality surrounding marriage. Loving friendships, queerplatonic, and other relationships are not given the same legal protections romantic partners are given through marriage.[9] Brake wrote a book, Minimizing Marriage, in which she defines amatonormativity as "the widespread assumption that everyone is better off in an exclusive, romantic, long-term coupled relationship, and that everyone is seeking such a relationship."[10]” --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support
In this week's episode, I talk to writers Joan DelFattore & Christina Campbell.Joan DelFattore writes about living a single life in a world geared towards couples. Following her own experience of discrimination against being single in relation to her own cancer treatment, Joan wrote a peer-reviewed article that was published in the New England Journal of Medicine in 2019, showing that patients with cancer are more likely to receive surgery or radiotherapy if they're currently married than if they're divorced, separated, widowed, or never married. Her research and essays have also appeared in the Washington Post, PsychologyToday and many other publications. Joan also gave a TedX talk, Sick While Single: Don't Die of Discrimination.Previous guest, Christina, writes about invisible illness, singles' rights, and the inexorable onslaught of entropy. After earning her Master of Fine Arts in Creative Nonfiction from George Mason University, Christina co-founded the singles' advocacy blog, Onely. The site deconstructs cultural stereotypes about single hood, such as the myth that unmarried people die alone, eaten by their cats! Her writing on Onely has been featured in numerous publications, including The Atlantic.com; Boston Magazine; PsychologyToday.com; and the book Singlism: What It Is, Why It Matters, and How to Stop It by Bella DePaulo.Topics that Joan, Christina & I cover areJoan's Tedx talk, ‘Sick While Single? Don't Die of Discrimination', and what prompted her to do it;how her research unearthed the systematic under treatment of single people;Joan's 2019 article, Death by Stereotype, that was published in the New England Journal of Medicine;how many physicians can't get their heads around a set up that isn't family-based;Christina's thoughts around the cultural expectation that people will automatically receive all the support they need from a spouse;the hesitation she sometimes feels around asking friends for help as a single woman;how Christina's chronic tick-borne disease has often be misunderstood and even, at times, disbelieved;the discrimination Christina faces with regards her healthcare as a single woman;Joan's experience of single hood growing up in the sixties;how she went to see a psychologist due to her ‘abnormality' with regards not wanting to get married;Joan and Christina's thoughts and advice around going through illness as a single;Christina's Website:www.christinadc.com Contact Christina:www.onely.org Email Joan at:jdel4444@gmail.comJoan's Website:joandelfattore.com Joan's Tedx Talk - Sick While Single? Don't Die Of Discrimination:https://www.ted.com/talks/joan_delfattore_sick_while_single_don_t_die_of_discrimination/details Book a FREE 30 minute coaching 'taster' session HERE: https://calendly.com/lucymeggeson/30minute Fancy getting your hands on my FREE Top 10 Mindset Tips? Head over to: www.lucymeggeson.com Interested in my 1-1 Coaching? Work with me HERE: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/workwithme Join my private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1870817913309222/?ref=share Follow me on Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimagined Follow me on Twitter: @LucyMeggeson Follow me on LinkedIn: Lucy Meggeson Email me: lucy@lucymeggeson.com And thank you so much for listening!!!
In this week's episode, I talk to writer and professor, Craig Wynne. Craig is a writer and professor at the University of the District of Columbia where he teaches rhetoric and writing studies to first year students. His courses are themed around relationships and single studies. He is also a happy bachelor although this wasn't always the case. In 2015, the end of romantic relationship had brought on a whole host of negative feelings around being single. This took him on a journey and exploration of all things single.Craig subsequently wrote a book, How To Be A Happy Bachelor, in which he provides his own observations, anecdotes, advice and takes on all things related to singlehood, and which is primarily written from the male point of view. Because after all, there are many books out there designed to show women how to be single, but no so many for men! Topics that Craig & I cover are:his university student's views on being single;the internalised singlism that Craig suffered from following the break up of his relationship in 2015;how he came across the work of Bella DePaulo which was the catalyst for his journey into singlehood;how he brought some of his single research into his work, including a course called ‘How To Be Single & Happy', and how this led the book deal for ‘How To Be A Happy Bachelor';how men also received stigma around being single, although it looks very different to the narratives around single women;how men often find it harder to form social networks which can lead to isolation;the Facebook network, The Community of Single People (CoSP);how Craig does date, but finds that the single life suits him;The groups MGTOW (Men Going There Own Way) and INCEL (Involuntary Celibates) and their anger towards women;the vastly differing meanings behind the words ‘spinster' and ‘bachelor';Craig's thoughts around men's behaviour when dating online;how Craig met his most recent lady friend organically on a subway platform. (I LOVE this!);the terms ‘matrimania', ‘singlism' and ‘amatonormativity'.how we can all find our tribe thanks to the world of the internet;Craig and my mutual love of music, and going to gigs alone;how singles should get out there and do things by themselves, because the truth is that nobody really cares!Craig's Website:https://www.thehappybachelor.org/ Buy Craig's book (UK), How To Be A Happy Bachelor:https://www.amazon.co.uk/Happy-Bachelor-Craig-Wynne-author/dp/1792407076 Buy Craig's book (US), How To Be A Happy Bachelor:https://www.amazon.com/How-Happy-Bachelor-Craig-Wynne/dp/1792407076 Book a FREE 30 minute coaching 'taster' session HERE: https://calendly.com/lucymeggeson/30minute Fancy getting your hands on my FREE Top 10 Mindset Tips? Head over to: www.lucymeggeson.com Interested in my 1-1 Coaching? Work with me HERE: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/workwithme Join my private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1870817913309222/?ref=share Follow me on Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimagined Follow me on Twitter: @LucyMeggeson Follow me on LinkedIn: Lucy Meggeson Email me: lucy@lucymeggeson.com And thank you so much for listening!!!
In this week's episode I talk to writer, Christina Campbell. Christina lives in Northern Virginia, USA, with her cats. She writes about invisible illness, singles' rights, and the inexorable onslaught of entropy. Her book, And Sarah His Wife, won the Michigan Writers' Cooperative Press Chapbook Contest in 2017. After earning her Master of Fine Arts in Creative Nonfiction from George Mason University, Christina co-founded the singles' advocacy blog, Onely, with her MFA classmate, Lisa Arnold. The site deconstructs cultural stereotypes about single hood, such as the myth that unmarried people die alone, eaten by their cats! Christina's writing on Onely has been featured, quoted, or referenced in numerous publications, including The Atlantic.com; The Sydney Morning Herald; Boston Magazine; PsychologyToday.com; the book Going Solo: The Extraordinary Rise and Surprising Appeal of Living Alone by Eric Klinenberg; the book Singlism: What It Is, Why It Matters, and How to Stop It by Bella DePaulo; and the book It's Not You: 27 (Wrong) Reasons You're Single, by Sara Eckel.Topics that Christina & I cover are: What motivated her and her college classmate, Lisa Arnold, to start their blog, Onely;Why Christina started writing about systemic singlism and discrimination against single people;How Christina has been affected personally by systemic singlism;Bereavement leave, how even that seems to favour those who are married, and how Christina wasn't entitled to take bereavement leave for two of her close relatives;How single people aren't able to choose recipients of certain benefits, whereas married people are automatically allowed to benefit their spouses;How single hood has meant that Christina has been hugely financially disadvantaged in respect of her health care;The project Christina worked on which found that single people, at a certain salary rate, finish their life at least $1,000,000 worse off than their married counterparts;How both Christina and I have been asked by 6 year old girls why we're not married, and why we live alone; and how important it is to show little girls that it's ok to be alone.Despite several relationships, Christina has always been very content on her own and never really felt the need to couple up;The stigma around childless women and how they are often perceived as ‘selfish'.Bella DePaulo's term ‘single at heart' and how Christina and I feel about it.How our ‘women's intuition' is our strongest tool against the patriarchal narratives;Last but not least, our beloved ‘fur baby' cats! Christina's Website:https://christinadc.com/ Onely blog:https://onely.orgUS Link to Christina's book, And Sarah His Wife:https://www.amazon.com/Sarah-Wife-Christina-Diane-Campbell/dp/1546681639 UK Link to the book: Book a FREE 30 minute coaching 'taster' session HERE: https://calendly.com/lucymeggeson/30minute Fancy getting your hands on my FREE Top 10 Mindset Tips? Head over to: www.lucymeggeson.com Interested in my 1-1 Coaching? Work with me HERE: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/workwithme Join my private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1870817913309222/?ref=share Follow me on Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimagined Follow me on Twitter: @LucyMeggeson Follow me on LinkedIn: Lucy Meggeson Email me: lucy@lucymeggeson.com And thank you so much for listening!!!
In this episode, I explore the many myths and misconceptions that surround the single life. Contrary to popular belief, being single is not a death sentence; it is a lifestyle choice that can be just as fulfilling and rewarding as being in a relationship. And getting into a relationship isn't the silver bullet for success and happiness either!Looking at the work from author and social psychologist, Bella DePaulo, I delve into the understanding of why single life isn't the be all and end all of our lives, and help spread the findings from DePaulo's research to debunk common misconceptions around the single life and provide guidance and encouragement to those who have chosen to embrace it. Whether you are single by choice or circumstance, this episode will help you see the many advantages of living a happy, fulfilling life without a romantic partner.What no one ever told you abouy people who are single | Bella DePaulo | TEDxUHasselt Find out what area of your single life you need to focus on to improve your life by taking the Single Life Confidence quiz here.Support the show
This week, Therapy Jeff and Sarah Rice are talking about the single life and why it's important to find ways to be happy and secure when you're not in a relationship–whether for 6 months or the rest of your life. What are the benefits of taking some time to be single and just focus on yourself without having one eye toward looking for your next relationship? Sarah tells us about folks who are, as Dr. Bella DePaulo describes them, "single at heart?" Are you someone who doesn't need a plus-one at every event? Do you thrive in solitude? Would you much rather watch your shows and eat your snacks without having to share with someone else? Jeff breaks down the Relationship Escalator–those steps society expects us to take when it comes to finding a partner and advancing our relationships (dating, marriage, kids, etc.)–and describes the ways society can really look down on people who, for one reason or another, don't adhere to that formula. Jeff and Sarah talk about their favorite Disney movies and how stories like The Little Mermaid and Aladdin can reinforce our ideas of what being in a relationship should look like, for better or worse. Give up your voice for a man? Come on! If you're single, now's the time to lean into the cliche of dating yourself. Use the fancy teacup. Don't save the bath bomb. Take some time to explore and ask yourself who you are, for your own sake. This might be a great time to revisit our episode, "How to Feel Your Feelings". https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-feel-your-feelings/id1640548625?i=1000578782910 Bella DePaulo's article about people who are single at heart: https://medium.com/fourth-wave/single-at-heart-the-worlds-most-joyful-and-unapologetic-single-people-e928887276c4 We want to hear from you! Let us know what's on your mind: Jeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeff Jeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeff Sarah's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imsarahrice Sarah On Brain Candy: https://thebraincandypodcast.com Sponsors: For up to 25% off subscription orders of $50 or more, use code: CHANGES at https://nextevo.com More podcasts at WAVE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/artist/wave-podcast-network/1437831426
The conventional wisdom in politics all year has been Republicans will win back the House and maybe the Senate on the wings of Joe Biden's low approval ratings and the economy's high inflation rate. But, ever since the Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade, that narrative has been suffering. On Tuesday, New York voters chipped away further. We look deep into contests right in Marist's backyard to see what the results really say about the November midterms.Next, we welcome author and U.C. Santa Barbara lecturer Bella DePaulo (@belladepaulo) who coined the term "Singleism" more than a decade ago. Now it's in the dictionary. She explains how society and the law discriminate against single people -- single women especially -- and why some studies about how staying single is hazardous to your health are bunk.Then, we return to the subject of last episode's Fun Fact -- ice cream. Why? Do we really need a reason? This time, we're looking at a bunch of data from the U.S. and the world to see what flavors are the biggest faves. And make sure to stay to the end to hear about the weirdest flavor Jay has ever had. Hopefully it won't "bug" you too much...
C'est le début des vacances, en couple, en famille, ou alors... entre copines ! À cette occasion, l'équipe de Quoi de Meuf vous propose de réécouter cet épisode sur l'amitié féminine sujet passionnant et inépuisable, tant il y a à dire…En proie aux représentations stéréotypées, elle fait l'objet tantôt d'appropriations, de fantasmes, avec un regard bien trop souvent hétéronormé et sexiste. Pourtant, elle est précieuse, complexe et d'une richesse incommensurable.Alors, Clémentine Gallot et Anne-Laure Pineau s'y attardent dans cet épisode long de Quoi de Meuf, et comptent bien dénoncer les préjugés, et rétablir les considérations qu'elle mérite.Les références entendues dans l'épisode :Amies, Ouvrage collectif, Nouvelles Questions Féministes Vol. 30 N2 (2011)Une histoire de l'amitié, Anne Vincent-Buffault, Bayard (2010)De l'amitié, Madame De Lambert, Rivages (2018)Love & Friendship de Whit Stillman (2016)What no one ever told you about people who are single, Bella DePaulo, Tedx Talk (2017)The Female World of Love and Ritual : Relations between Women in Nineteenth-Century America, Carroll Smith-Rosenberg (1975)The Bonds of Womanhood, Nancy F. Cott, Yall University Press (2020)There's a Divide in Even the Closest Interracial Friendships, Aminatou Sow et Ann Friedman, The Cut (2020)L'amitié entre hommes et femmes, la nouvelle frontière de la comédie romantique, Michael Atlan, Slate (2017)Surpassing the Love of Men, Lilian Faderman , The Women's Press Ltd (1981)Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence, Adrienne Rich (1981)Se dire lesbienne, Natacha Chetcuti, Payot (2021)The L World de Ilen Chaiken (2004)Sortir de l'hétérosexualité de Juliet Drouar, Collection sur la table (2021)Réinventer l'amour de Mona Chollet, La découverte (2021)Why Female Friendship Has Been The Greatest Love Of My Life, Emma Firth, Elle (2021)Mettre l'amitié au premier plan, Sasha Roseneil, Nouvelles Questions Féministes (2011)Les orageuses, Marcia Burnier, Cambourakis (2021)Violé.es une histoire de domination, Clémence Allezard, LSD La série documentaire, France Culture (2021)Big Friendship, Aminatou Sow et Ann Friedman, Virago (2020)The Friendship Season, Invisibilia (2021)A l'écart de la meute, Thomas Messias, Marabout (2021)Le deuxième sexe, Simonde De Beauvoir, Gallimard (1986)Bad feminist, Roxane gay, Denoël (2018)Nous devrions tous être féministes, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, TEDxEustonA brief history of squads, Arit John, The New York Times (2019)Les strates, Pénélope Bagieu, Gallimard (2019)Une chambre à soi, Virginia Woolf, Bibliothèque 10/18Divines de Houda Benyamina (2016)Tout ce qui brille de Géraldine Nakache (2009)Bande de filles de Céline Sciamma (2014)Thelma et Louise de Ridley Scott (1991)Baise-moi, Virginie Despentes, J'ai lu (2000)Insecure de Larry Wilmore et Issa Rae (2016)Adolescentes de Sébastien Lifshitz (2019)Les petites reines, Clémentine Beauvais, Sarbacane (2015)Desperate Housewives de Marc Cherry (2004)Frances Ha de Noah Baumbach (2012)L'amie prodigieuse, Elena Ferrante, Gallimard (2016)Les flingueuses de Paul Feig (2013)American predator, Maureen Callahan, Sonatine Eds (2021)Les suicidés du bout du monde, Leila Guerriero, Rivages (2021)Fungirl, Elizabeth Pich, Les requins marteaux (2021)Quoi de Meuf est une émission de Nouvelles Écoutes. Rédaction en chef : Clémentine Gallot. Journaliste chroniqueuse : Anne-Laure Pineau. Mixage et montage : Laurie Galligani. Prise de son par Thibault Delage à l'Arrière Boutique. Générique réalisé par Aurore Mahieu. Réalisation et coordination : Cassandra de Carvalho et Mathilde Jonin.Vous pouvez consulter notre politique de confidentialité sur https://art19.com/privacy ainsi que la notice de confidentialité de la Californie sur https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, Alisia Young reviews the book Singled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After by Dr. Bella DePaulo, PhDThe review will discuss:background of bookinterest in bookkey ideascritiqueskey takeawayswhat's nextMentioned in Episode:Singled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever AfterEpisode #7 – How to Buy a Home in Canada ft. Dr. Enoch Omololu of Savvy New CanadiansEpisode #12 – The Importance of KPIs with Jeff Smith, The KPI Guy (Part 1)Remitbee - Tax Benefits of Married Couples in Canadapage references: 75, 232, 69, 215Connect & Contact Alisia:Congrats Superwoman: When You've Climbed the Mountain and Still Don't Feel Good Enough - https://amzn.to/3nJcATHEat 'N' Live Free Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQfB...Eat 'N' Live Free Website - www.eatnlivefree.comTeach Me Freedom Contact - teachmefreedom2020@gmail.comWebsite - https://teachmefreedom.ca/Connect & Contact Alisia: hello@teachmefreedom.ca Teach Me Freedom Website - www.teachmefreedom.ca Eat 'N' Live Free Website - www.eatnlivefree.com
This week we're rereleasing our conversation from 2019 with Holly Stallcup & Dr. Bella DePaulo about singleness. Here's the link to preorder Dr. Holly Oxhandler's new book! Original show notes below:--------------------------------------------------It's Valentine's week, and one important conversation to have is about singleness. What messages do people get about being single? Are there positives and negatives? How can the church do a better job at creating space for single people to exist and to lead? We're joined by Dr. Bella DePaulo and Holly Stallcup to talk about it.Things we mention in this episode/other resources:- Bella's TedTalk ‘What No one Ever Told You About People Who Are Single'- Bella has tons of books on Amazon, man of which are on singleness- Holly mentions Jenna DeWitt and Gina Dalfonzo (author of One by One: Welcome the Singles in Your Church)Connect with Dr. Bella DePaulo on her website, Twitter, Facebook, read her blogs ‘Living Single on Psychology Today and ‘Single at Heart' on Psych Central, or buy any of her books on Amazon.Connect with Holly Stallcup on Twitter or learn more about Now She Rises.Join the Cxmhunity on Facebook!Connect with Robert on his website, Twitter, Facebook, or Instagram.Connect with Holly on her website, Twitter, Facebook, or Instagram.Connect more with CXMH on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or Pinterest.Ways to support CXMH:- make a pledge on Patreon and get rewards like submitting questions for upcoming interviews, a mug, sticker, t-shirt, or more!- give a one-time gift using PayPal- Buy books from previous guests on Bookshop- Do your Amazon shopping through this link- Leave us a rating & review on iTunes or Google Play- Check out our CXMH merchandise to show off your support- Check out other episodes and find your favorites guests on our website.Intro/Outro music for this episode is ‘Fall Down' by Rivers & Robots.
Tout d'abord, une bonne année 2022 à tous.tes ! On vous souhaite le meilleur ! Pour commencer l'année en beauté, Quoi de Meuf se penche sur l'amitié féminine, sujet passionnant et inépuisable, tant il y a à dire… En proie aux représentations stéréotypées, elle fait l'objet tantôt d'appropriations, de fantasmes, avec un regard bien trop souvent hétéronormé et sexiste. Pourtant, elle est précieuse, complexe et d'une richesse incommensurable.Alors, Clémentine Gallot et Anne-Laure Pineau s'y attardent dans ce nouvel épisode long de Quoi de Meuf, et comptent bien dénoncer les préjugés, et rétablir les considérations qu'elle mérite. Les références entendues dans l'épisode : Amies, Ouvrage collectif, Nouvelles Questions Féministes Vol. 30 N2 (2011) Une histoire de l'amitié, Anne Vincent-Buffault, Bayard (2010)De l'amitié, Madame De Lambert, Rivages (2018)Love & Friendship de Whit Stillman (2016)What no one ever told you about people who are single, Bella DePaulo, Tedx Talk (2017)The Female World of Love and Ritual : Relations between Women in Nineteenth-Century America, Carroll Smith-Rosenberg (1975) The Bonds of Womanhood, Nancy F. Cott, Yall University Press (2020)There's a Divide in Even the Closest Interracial Friendships, Aminatou Sow et Ann Friedman, The Cut (2020)L'amitié entre hommes et femmes, la nouvelle frontière de la comédie romantique, Michael Atlan, Slate (2017)Surpassing the Love of Men, Lilian Faderman , The Women's Press Ltd (1981)Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence, Adrienne Rich (1981)Se dire lesbienne, Natacha Chetcuti, Payot (2021)The L World de Ilen Chaiken (2004)Sortir de l'hétérosexualité de Juliet Drouar, Collection sur la table (2021)Réinventer l'amour de Mona Chollet, La découverte (2021)Why Female Friendship Has Been The Greatest Love Of My Life, Emma Firth, Elle (2021)Mettre l'amitié au premier plan, Sasha Roseneil, Nouvelles Questions Féministes (2011)Les orageuses, Marcia Burnier, Cambourakis (2021)Violé.es une histoire de domination, Clémence Allezard, LSD La série documentaire, France Culture (2021)Big Friendship, Aminatou Sow et Ann Friedman, Virago (2020)The Friendship Season, Invisibilia (2021)A l'écart de la meute, Thomas Messias, Marabout (2021)Le deuxième sexe, Simonde De Beauvoir, Gallimard (1986)Bad feminist, Roxane gay, Denoël (2018)Nous devrions tous être féministes, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, TEDxEuston A brief history of squads, Arit John, The New York Times (2019)Les strates, Pénélope Bagieu, Gallimard (2019)Une chambre à soi, Virginia Woolf, Bibliothèque 10/18Divines de Houda Benyamina (2016)Tout ce qui brille de Géraldine Nakache (2009)Bande de filles de Céline Sciamma (2014)Thelma et Louise de Ridley Scott (1991)Baise-moi, Virginie Despentes, J'ai lu (2000)Insecure de Larry Wilmore et Issa Rae (2016)Adolescentes de Sébastien Lifshitz (2019)Les petites reines, Clémentine Beauvais, Sarbacane (2015) Desperate Housewives de Marc Cherry (2004)Frances Ha de Noah Baumbach (2012) L'amie prodigieuse, Elena Ferrante, Gallimard (2016)Les flingueuses de Paul Feig (2013)American predator, Maureen Callahan, Sonatine Eds (2021)Les suicidés du bout du monde, Leila Guerriero, Rivages (2021) Fungirl, Elizabeth Pich, Les requins marteaux (2021)Quoi de Meuf est une émission de Nouvelles Écoutes. Rédaction en chef : Clémentine Gallot. Journaliste chroniqueuse : Anne-Laure Pineau. Mixage et montage : Laurie Galligani. Prise de son par Thibault Delage à l'Arrière Boutique. Générique réalisé par Aurore Meyer Mahieu. Réalisation et coordination : Cassandra de Carvalho et Mathilde Jonin.Le podcast Quoi de Meuf devient un livre : 100 oeuvres cultes à connaitre quand on est féministe ! Est-il possible de chérir des œuvres imparfaites ? Comment représenter les violences sexuelles ? Faut-il séparer l'homme de l'artiste ? Que faire des œuvres problématiques ? Quelles sont les films, séries, livres, albums indispensables à son éducation féministe ? Clémentine Gallot, Kaoutar Harchi, Anne-Laure Pineau, Pauline Verduzier et Emeline Amétis apportent leurs réponses (subjectives !) à ces questions en vous présentant une sélection d'œuvres qui les ont nourries et marquées dans la construction de leur féminisme ! Le livre est disponible en librairie depuis le 24 novembre, et il est possible de le commander ici : https://tidd.ly/3E2admVSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Many of us are taught from a young age that marriage is the key to happiness. But what if this commonly held belief isn't true? Social psychologist Bella DePaulo breaks down the stereotypes about single life. Later, following the George Floyd protests across the world last year, television shows about police officers have become, for many viewers, a lot more complicated to watch. Media researcher Tiara Sukhan breaks down the line between reality and escapism.
In this episode, Dr. Bella DePaulo, social psychologist and author will first draw upon her well recognized book, Singled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After to consider the cultural myths, negative presumptions and even financial discrimination against people who choose to live alone. Considering that more than half of adult Americans are single, Dr. DePaulo's goal of raising consciousness regarding “Singlism” and awareness of the actual happiness of many singles is an important one. In this episode, Dr. De Paulo will also discuss her fascinating new book, How We Live Now: Redefining Home and Family in the 21st Century, which considers the creative and often non-nuclear ways that people are finding to live. The message of this show is thinking beyond cultural constraints to notice the different ways, spaces and places that people can choose to live happy lives.
In this episode, Dr. Bella DePaulo, social psychologist and author will first draw upon her well recognized book, Singled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After to consider the cultural myths, negative presumptions and even financial discrimination against people who choose to live alone. Considering that more than half of adult Americans are single, Dr. DePaulo's goal of raising consciousness regarding “Singlism” and awareness of the actual happiness of many singles is an important one. In this episode, Dr. De Paulo will also discuss her fascinating new book, How We Live Now: Redefining Home and Family in the 21st Century, which considers the creative and often non-nuclear ways that people are finding to live. The message of this show is thinking beyond cultural constraints to notice the different ways, spaces and places that people can choose to live happy lives.
Why We Lie, And The Neuroscience Behind It I'm fine. Of course, I love you. I'll call you. No, you don't look fat in those jeans. We are liars. All of us. We lie to save face, to avoid hurting other people's feelings, to impress others, to shirk responsibility, to hide misdeeds, as a social lubricant, to prevent conflict, to get out of work, and many more reasons. And we lie a lot. Deception costs businesses and government billions, ruins relationships, undermines what we care about, and even takes lives. The more white matter (see my blog The Truth About How Your Brain Gets Smarter)--or some might even say the more intelligent the neocortex—the greater potential a person has to lie. Bella DePaulo, Ph.D., a psychologist at the University of Virginia, has confirmed that lying is simply a condition of life. In her research, she found that both men and women lie in approximately one-fifth of their social exchanges lasting 10 or more minutes. Wow. And over the course of a week, we deceive about 30 percent of people we have 1:1 interactions with. Wow—wow!! Women are more likely to tell altruistic lies to avoid hurting other people's feelings, and men are more likely to lie about themselves. De Paulo found that men lie more often to impress. A typical conversation between two guys contains about eight times as many self-oriented lies as it does lies about others. Your Brain On Lies Three key parts of our brain are stimulated when we lie. First, the frontal lobe (of the neocortex), which has the ability to suppress the truth—yes, it's capable of dishonesty due to its intellectual role. Second, the limbic system due to the anxiety that comes with deception (hi, amygdala!)—and yes, when we're lied to, our “Spiderman sense” here can perk up, just as we can feel guilty/stressed when we're doing the lying. And third, the temporal lobe is involved because it's responsible for retrieving memories and creating mental imagery. Just for fun, add the anterior cingulate cortex because it helps in monitoring errors, and the dorsal lateral prefrontal cortex because it is trying all the while to control our behavior. Our brain is busy, busy, busy when we lie. And it's far more peaceful when we tell the truth because our limbic systems aren't stressed about lying and our frontal lobe isn't inhibiting the truth. Lies At WorkWhere do we see a prevalence of lies? At work, or more specifically, to get out of work.According to Zety's recent 2020 research, of over 1,000 Americans, they found 96% confessed to lying to get out of work. Here's the net-net:The most common lies include feeling sick (84%), family emergencies (65%), doctor's appointments (60%), or lying about a family member's death (31%)! On average, one person has used 7 different excuses to get out of work on different occasions. Only 27% of respondents who lied to get out of work regretted it, and 41% of respondents would lie again. 91% of people making up excuses to get out of the office were never caught!More men than women were caught lying, and only 27% of respondents who lied to get out of work regretted it. For those caught, 70% regretted lying. But despite not feeling bad about themselves for lying, 59% of respondents said they wouldn't do it again. Here's a silver lining: the older we get, the less compelled we are to lie to avoid work. Are we all pathological liars? Or do we need to look at why we feel compelled to make up stories instead of just telling the truth? Is lying to avoid work a cultural problem, at least in part? And what about people that don't experience regret when they lie? The stance of perpetual innocence or extreme entitlement (and thus reality distortion) is a topic I addressed in my blogs on Borderline Personalities [Kelcie: link to my 2 blogs on this please].Lying RxTo reduce the amount of lying in your workplace, you'll want to first look at how safe people feel. Is it ok to tell the truth? Is it ok to fail? Is it ok to be human and not a superhero/work robot/cog in a wheel? Is it ok to have feelings and need a break now and then? Find out.· Do regular employee engagement surveys – see our fave one here [show either SBM Index sample heat map or link to blog that explains it]· Use the emotion wheel at the beginning of each meeting to check in on how everyone is doing· Create support groups [Kelcie link to this blog] if people need a little extra help So why do we lie? Because it works for us. Temporarily, at least. For fun, you might want to join me in telling the five types of truth [Kelcie please link to this blog]. And you'll notice not only how good it feels, but how much simpler it makes your life.How often do you lie? Why? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Welcome to Episode 17.Living solo, do you ever find that a lot of what is said in the media, portrayed in television shows and movies, and even assumed in conversations with friends and family about single life isn't all that true?Are you enjoying your solo life, despite friends or family constantly asking if you're seeing anyone, when you're going to start seeing someone, or if you think you'll start seeing someone at some point in the future?During my years of thriving on my own, I've seen those myths that are written and assumed about singles, and I've experienced the cringingly boring question of..."So, are you seeing anyone?" many times before.It was a few years ago when I came across many articles that were backed by research and statistics, were speaking my language and that resonated with me so well...saying that many singles are truly happy being single, that the amount of people choosing to be single is growing, and that no, not all single people are out at the bars all weekend looking for love.The woman who wrote those articles that spoke to my solo heart is none other than social scientist, author, teacher, blogger, TEDx speaker and expert on single life, Bella DePaulo, Ph.D. Today, I'm thrilled to share our recent conversation we had on the podcast.During our conversation, Bella and I discuss:What inspired her to shift her research career to the study of single lifeSome of the biggest myths vs. realities about single lifeThe growing trend of focus on other types of relationshipsAnd my favorite, what it means to be Single At HeartI hope you enjoy our conversation as much as I did.Resources:Want to learn more about Bella, keep up with more of her findings, and dive in to other resources that support solo living? Below are some resources to check out:Bella's website:http://www.belladepaulo.com/From Bella's website, the section on singles (click the first link to get to my blogs):http://www.belladepaulo.com/singles-research-writing/For anyone interested in learning more about “single at heart”:http://www.belladepaulo.com/2013/03/single-at-heart-what-do-we-know-about-it/Books:https://medium.com/@BellaDePaulo/badass-single-people-63-books-for-you-430610c032f7?source=friends_link&sk=0b9fc86b3f8c00650cec6923e68fa019Other resources:https://medium.com/@BellaDePaulo/resources-for-single-people-who-are-not-whining-about-being-single-3f9df6e67560?source=friends_link&sk=ccc6e0a765cca583dc643e060b8df896And come leave a comment to let us know your thoughts, and if you think you're Single at Heart here:https://www.riselifestrategies.com/thriving-solo-podcast/2021/4/2/17-so-its-not-just-me-a-single-conversation-with-bella-depaulo-phd
We've all heard that question, “Who am I outside of this relationship/marriage”. Singleism, the term for people living life outside of a committed, romantic relationship, is an emerging area of focus on a state of living that many people experience at some point in life. There is so much wonderful momentum behind the concept of living life while single and destigmatizing past views of what “living single” means in order to open us all up to the possibilities of our very own selves! Helping us explore the beauty and challenges of single hood at any age is NFCC's Lead Clinician, Heather Timmis, MA, LMFT-S. About Heather Timmis: Heather Timmis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Supervisor (LMFT-S) who works with families, couples and individuals ages 3 years and up. She holds a bachelor's degree in psychology from the University of Texas at Austin as well as a master's degree in marriage and family therapy from the University of Houston-Clear Lake. Heather has experience helping clients work through challenges related but not limited to sexual abuse, trauma, suicidal thoughts/actions and anxiety. She believes in a flexible, collaborative approach where she and her client work as a team to determine the best fit for the client's needs. In addition to her amazing clinical work, Heather is obsessed with all things pop culture and experienced her fair share of dating apps before she finally met her fiancé. Here are some resources mentioned in this episode: https://www.shanisilver.com/podcast (A Single Serving Podcast) http://www.belladepaulo.com/ (Bella DePaulo's Books and Info) https://belladepaulo.medium.com/resources-for-single-people-who-are-not-whining-about-being-single-3f9df6e67560 (Additional Resources) A special thanks to our team: Tracy Lehman, Host & Executive Producer Os Galindo, Senior Producer & Engineer Yue Nakayama, Audio Engineer Jacel Dickson, Editor & Graphic Designer Administrators: Mary Elizabeth Hand and Audrey Omenson with music by Jim Roman Thanks for listening!
Hey #TheJoshCast, we here at the last episode of “Living Single”. The single life is blessing and a curse. Single people still face a stigma, even though their ranks have grown. Yet a new study suggests singles become happier as they age. One strategy: Focus on creating a full life now, for yourself, rather than finding a partner. After Katie Tomaszewski divorced at the age of 28, she felt ashamed to be alone. So she did what she thought a single person should do: She over-dated, over-worked and over-socialized, inviting friends over for dinner nearly every night because she was afraid of being lonely. “It was constant socializing and constant distraction,” says Ms. Tomaszewski, now a 36-year-old Pilates instructor in Chicago. “I became desperate and depressed, looking for someone—anyone—to save me from being alone.” Yes, it can be tough to be single. But a new study published this past December in the Journals of Gerontology offers hope for those who are struggling. Singles today are more satisfied with their lives than singles in the past, the study found. And people who are single become more satisfied with their lives as they grow older, according to researchers from the German Centre of Gerontology in Berlin, who analyzed data from the German Ageing Survey, a nationally representative sample of people between the ages or 40 and 85. Experts say the findings ring true for Western countries broadly. This is important news, because one of the biggest demographic trends of the past 50 years is the rise of singles: In 2017, the U.S. Census Bureau's American Community Survey reported that more than 120 million U.S. residents, or almost 48% of adults aged 18 or older, were divorced, widowed or had never been married. In 1970, 29% of the population, or 39 million adults aged 18 or older, were single.And yet single people still face a stigma. Bella DePaulo, a social scientist and author of “Singled Out,” has been studying singles since the late 1990s and has coined the phrase “singlism” to describe the ways in which people discriminate against singles. The stereotyping includes the assumptions that singles are miserable, lonely or selfish; that they are desperate to get married; that there must be something wrong with someone who is single. Some single people internalize all that, even if they like being single,” Dr. DePaulo says. “They even sometimes think that liking single life is itself a sign that something is wrong with them.” Society is organized around couples—they get breaks on everything from club memberships to tickets and events. And it can be a drag for singles when people offer advice or insist on fixing them up. “I think the phrase ‘fix you up' is telling,” says Dr. DePaulo. “It seems to suggest that you are broken, and that coupling will mend you.” She says the hardest time to be single is around the age of 30. That's when the expectation to be married becomes most intense. Friends and relatives are marrying, or are already married, and single people often feel like the odd person out. This feeling is most acute in single people who socialize primarily with couples. “Couples often demote their single friends to lunch or daytime events or children's birthday parties, basically treating them as if they are not fully adult,” Dr. DePaulo says. It is possible for single people to adjust their attitude and become happier. In a not-yet-published study done at Simon Fraser University, in greater Vancouver, British Columbia, psychologists gave single people one of two made-up articles to read, one reporting that singles are generally happy in life and one reporting that they are not. People who read the happy version of the article reported higher levels of life satisfaction and lower desire to find a relationship than those who read the more negative version. Basically, “if you have a fear of being single this undermines your well-being,” says Yuthika Girme, a social psychologist and lead researcher on the study. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sherron/support
Hey #TheJoshCast fam, Let's talk about Living Single. Our Host, Joshua is a 90s baby that loves the 90s! Let's dive right in, Living Single is an American sitcom television series that aired for five seasons on the Fox network from August 22, 1993 to January 1, 1998. The show centered on the lives of six friends who shared personal and professional experiences while living in a Brooklyn brownstone. This is important news, because one of the biggest demographic trends of the past 50 years is the rise of singles: In 2017, the U.S. Census Bureau's American Community Survey reported that more than 120 million U.S. residents, or almost 48% of adults aged 18 or older, were divorced, widowed or had never been married. In 1970, 29% of the population, or 39 million adults aged 18 or older, were single.And yet single people still face a stigma. Bella DePaulo, a social scientist and author of “Singled Out,” has been studying singles since the late 1990s and has coined the phrase “singlism” to describe the ways in which people discriminate against singles. The stereotyping includes the assumptions that singles are miserable, lonely or selfish; that they are desperate to get married; that there must be something wrong with someone who is single. Some single people internalize all that, even if they like being single,” Dr. DePaulo says. “They even sometimes think that liking single life is itself a sign that something is wrong with them.Society is organized around couples—they get breaks on everything from club memberships to tickets and events. And it can be a drag for singles when people offer advice or insist on fixing them up. “I think the phrase ‘fix you up' is telling,” says Dr. DePaulo. “It seems to suggest that you are broken, and that coupling will mend you.”She says the hardest time to be single is around the age of 30. That's when the expectation to be married becomes most intense. Friends and relatives are marrying, or are already married, and single people often feel like the odd person out. This feeling is most acute in single people who socialize primarily with couples. “Couples often demote their single friends to lunch or daytime events or children's birthday parties, basically treating them as if they are not fully adult,” Dr. DePaulo says.It is possible for single people to adjust their attitude and become happier. In a not-yet-published study done at Simon Fraser University, in greater Vancouver, British Columbia, psychologists gave single people one of two made-up articles to read, one reporting that singles are generally happy in life and one reporting that they are not. People who read the happy version of the article reported higher levels of life satisfaction and lower desire to find a relationship than those who read the more negative version. Basically, “if you have a fear of being single this undermines your well-being,” says Yuthika Girme, a social psychologist and lead researcher on the study. So how can you be happiest being single? Focus on creating a full life now, for yourself, rather than finding a partner. Surround yourself with other happily single people. Watch the language you or others use to refer to singlehood. (Ever walked into a restaurant alone and had the host ask: “Table for just one?”) Be proud of the life you've created. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sherron/support
Is anyone single on purpose? In today's podcast, Gabe talks with Bella DePaulo, Ph.D, a prominent thinker and author on the single life, who shatters myths about being single. She shares how many people thrive as a single person and feel their most empowered living the single life. In fact, single people often hold prominent positions in their communities. For more information and a complete transcript, visit https://psychcentral.com/blog/podcast-is-single-life-mentally-unhealthy
Living happily solo for a number of years, Jennifer knows what it takes to thrive while living life on one's own. She's also noticed what it looks like when people aren't enjoying living life single, and get into a habit of being lackluster about their solo status.In this episode, Jennifer takes you through 8 steps that she believes can help anyone live their best solo life, and thrive their way.A few links:Bella DePaulo, Ph.D:http://www.belladepaulo.comThriving Solo Coaching Program:https://www.riselifestrategies.com/thriving-solo-coachingContact:jennifer@riselifestrategies.com
„Stephan – ich muss immer zweimal verkaufen. Einmal extern beim Kunden, das kann schon schweißtreibend werden. Aber das zweite Mal ist noch viel anstrengender und vor allem nervenaufreibend: intern!“ Das ist der O-Ton eines Verkäufers im Außendienst im B2B-Vertrieb. Bella DePaulo, ehemalige Psychologie Professorin an der University of California, hält in einer ihrer Publikationen fest: Verkäufern eilt beim Kunden ein Misstrauensvorschuss voraus. Die Ursache? Einige schwarze Schafe versuchen mit psychologischen Tricks Kunden zu übervorteilen. Das schlägt sich auch in der internen Unternehmenskommunikation nieder. Was der Vertrieb von anderen Abteilungen als Unterstützung einfordert, wird häufig skeptisch beäugt: „Ihr macht intern wieder alle verrückt!“ – heißt es vielfach. Seitens der Abteilungen, die nicht dafür geradestehen müssen, wenn der Umsatz „nicht kommt“, ist das leicht gesagt. Der Vertrieb muss den wichtigsten Stakeholder des Unternehmens überzeugen – den Kunden. Jeder im Unternehmen sollte verstehen, dass Anforderungen aus dem Vertrieb kein Akt der internen Geißelung sind, sondern dazu beitragen, Kunden positiv zu verblüffen und das Unternehmen weiterzubringen. Ergo: Anforderungen aus dem Vertrieb nicht zerreden, sondern umsetzen. Link zum Blogbeitrag: hier klicken.
Bella DePaulo, Ph.D. (!!!) joins A Single Serving Podcast this week so prepare to hear your host completely fangirl. Bella is a leading (if not THE leading) voice in the single space. She's a social scientist looking into all the ways society (and even the law) favors and priorities couples over singles. Her work is extremely powerful and important, and it is a genuine pleasure to welcome her to the podcast in our first episode of the new year. If you're enjoying this podcast, please consider supporting your host on Patreon. (Bonus episodes available!)Bella's Book, Singled OutBella's work on Psychology TodayBella's Facebook group shanisilver.comShani on InstagramA Single Serving Podcast Facebook GroupA Single Serving Podcast Instagram*Amazon link above is an affiliate link.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/shanisilver)
Hello and welcome to the Thriving Solo Podcast.Listen in as your host, Jennifer Fields, invites you into the new world of Thriving Solo. Jennifer share a bit about herself, how this podcast came to be, the growing lifestyle of solo living, and more. Resources from the show:The Growing Power of Single People, in 10 Important Trends by Bella DePaulo, Ph.D.About the Community of Single People on Facebook. Happy Singlehood: The Rising Acceptance and Celebration of Solo Living by Elyakim KislevNo Thanks: Black, Female, and Living in the Martyr-Free Zone by Keturah KendrickSingled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After by Bella DePaulo, Ph.D.Follow Jennifer on Instagram @jenniferfields_riselifeConnect with Jennifer through her website at http://riselifestrategies.com
Hello and welcome to the Thriving Solo Podcast.Listen in as your host, Jennifer Fields, invites you into the new world of Thriving Solo. Jennifer share a bit about herself, how this podcast came to be, the growing lifestyle of solo living, and more. Resources from the show:The Growing Power of Single People, in 10 Important Trends by Bella DePaulo, Ph.D.About the Community of Single People on Facebook. Happy Singlehood: The Rising Acceptance and Celebration of Solo Living by Elyakim KislevNo Thanks: Black, Female, and Living in the Martyr-Free Zone by Keturah KendrickSingled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After by Bella DePaulo, Ph.D.Follow Jennifer on Instagram @jenniferfields_riselifeConnect with Jennifer through her website at http://riselifestrategies.com
Que Single Ladies! Author, Ted Speaker, and Professor Dr. Bella DePaulo has some amazing information for singles and for people wanting to know how to be happy! We talk about the future of relationships and the new types of dating. What does being single mean to you and your peers? Do you only feel satisfied while in a relationship? Bella brings it all out in our talk for If God Had a Podcast! Give me your views and your story- single or wish you were? Follow Bella Twitter - https://twitter.com/belladepaulo Website - http://www.belladepaulo.com/about-bella-depaulo/ Follow Pavlina Wiki - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pavlina_Osta Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/pavlinaosta/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/pavlina.ostapage https://www.facebook.com/PavlinasFanPage/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2F1FfvXoEa1t8_F1t0NO6Q Song: Running All Over You by Ziv Music
It’s Valentine’s week, and one important conversation to have is about singleness. What messages do people get about being single? Are there positives and negatives? How can the church do a better job at creating space for single people to exist and to lead? We’re joined by Dr. Bella DePaulo and Holly Stallcup to talk about it. Things we mention in this episode/other resources:- Bella’s TedTalk ‘What No one Ever Told You About People Who Are Single’- Bella has tons of books on Amazon, man of which are on singleness- Holly mentions Jenna DeWitt and Gina Dalfonzo (author of One by One: Welcome the Singles in Your Church) Connect with Dr. Bella DePaulo on her website, Twitter, Facebook, read her blogs ‘Living Single on Psychology Today and ‘Single at Heart’ on Psych Central, or buy any of her books on Amazon. Connect with Holly Stallcup on Twitter or learn more about Now She Rises. Quotes:- “This is an option. If you think [singleness] suits you, it’s a good valuable way to live.” (tweet)- “Being single is not a monolith.” (tweet)- “Church culture at large makes the assumption that singleness is a stepping stone and that if we see it any more than that, it devalues marriage.” (tweet)- “If single life is valued, than the people who want to marry will be going that direction from a place of strength [instead of] running away from single life.” (tweet)- “Single people across religions often feel like they don’t have a place in their churches. They feel like they aren’t valued.” (tweet)- “A lot of this is just becoming aware of the cultural norms that we’ve embraced.” (tweet) Join the Cxmhunity on Facebook! Connect with Robert on his website, Twitter, Facebook, or Instagram. Connect with Holly on her website or Twitter. Connect more with CXMH on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or Pinterest. Ways to support CXMH:- make a pledge on Patreon and get rewards like submitting questions for upcoming interviews, a mug, sticker, t-shirt, or more!- give a one-time gift using PayPal- Do your Amazon shopping through this link- Leave us a rating & review on iTunes or Google Play- Check out our CXMH merchandise to show off your support- Listen to the Cxmhunity Spotify playlist here- Check out other episodes and find your favorites guests on our website. Intro/Outro music for this episode is ‘Fall Down’ by Rivers & Robots.
It’s Valentine’s week, and one important conversation to have is about singleness. What messages do people get about being single? Are there positives and negatives? How can the church do a better job at creating space for single people to exist and to lead? We’re joined by Dr. Bella DePaulo and Holly Stallcup to talk about it.Things we mention in this episode/other resources:- Bella’s TedTalk ‘What No one Ever Told You About People Who Are Single’- Bella has tons of books on Amazon, man of which are on singleness- Holly mentions Jenna DeWitt and Gina Dalfonzo (author of One by One: Welcome the Singles in Your Church)Connect with Dr. Bella DePaulo on her website, Twitter, Facebook, read her blogs ‘Living Single on Psychology Today and ‘Single at Heart’ on Psych Central, or buy any of her books on Amazon.Connect with Holly Stallcup on Twitter or learn more about Now She Rises.Quotes:- “This is an option. If you think [singleness] suits you, it’s a good valuable way to live.” (tweet)- “Being single is not a monolith.” (tweet)- “Church culture at large makes the assumption that singleness is a stepping stone and that if we see it any more than that, it devalues marriage.” (tweet)- “If single life is valued, than the people who want to marry will be going that direction from a place of strength [instead of] running away from single life.” (tweet)- “Single people across religions often feel like they don’t have a place in their churches. They feel like they aren’t valued.” (tweet)- “A lot of this is just becoming aware of the cultural norms that we’ve embraced.” (tweet)Join the Cxmhunity on Facebook!Connect with Robert on his website, Twitter, Facebook, or Instagram.Connect with Holly on her website or Twitter.Connect more with CXMH on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or Pinterest.Ways to support CXMH:- make a pledge on Patreon and get rewards like submitting questions for upcoming interviews, a mug, sticker, t-shirt, or more!- give a one-time gift using PayPal- Do your Amazon shopping through this link- Leave us a rating & review on iTunes or Google Play- Check out our CXMH merchandise to show off your support- Listen to the Cxmhunity Spotify playlist here- Check out other episodes and find your favorites guests on our website.Intro/Outro music for this episode is ‘Fall Down’ by Rivers & Robots.
贝拉·德波罗哈佛大学心理学博士贝拉·德波罗（BellaDePaulo）一直专注于研究单身人群，最近，她根据2017年的研究数据，发现了4个关于单身人士的新现象。第一，现在单身人士比以往任何时候都要多。据调查，在美国就有超过1亿1千万的成年居民离婚、丧偶或一直单身，占成年人口45%。而根据全球最负盛名的民间独立调研机构皮尤研究中心的报告预测，当如今的年轻人到50岁时，他们当中约有四分之一的人是终生单身。第二，婚姻不再被当做是成年的关键部分。根据美国2017年人口普查局的数据，有55%调查对象认为，结婚和生孩子不再是成年人的重要指标，另外有95%更看重“完成正规教育”和“有一个全职工作”。 第三，感情质量不好，自尊也会下降。研究人员调查德国超过9000人的数据获悉，只有当情侣关系稳定维持在一年以上，人们才能通过一段感情来提高自我价值感。反之，自尊心就会比单身人士要更低。第四，婚姻不意味着会更健康。一项调查跟踪79000名50到79岁的美国女性，记录了她们三年内的感情状态，健康数据和生活习惯。结果显示，单身或离婚的女性普遍比已婚女性更健康。以上虽然是欧美国家的调查数据，但是其中一些观点希望能够对诸位起到参考的作用。贝拉·德保罗（Bella DePaulo），哈佛大学心理学博士，二十多年致力于“说谎行为”和“单身心理学”的研究,《时代周刊》、《华盛顿邮报》、《纽约客》长期撰稿人.以上内容由磨时艺见整理，希望对你有所启发。磨时艺见，每晚9点，准时更新！
Presidential VD (Viral Distractions) 45 Kirsten Gillibrand tweet and we talk about an article from the Hartford Courant written by Bella DePaulo titled "I Study Liars, Never One Like Trump"
Presidential VD (Viral Distractions) 45 Kirsten Gillibrand tweet and we talk about an article from the Hartford Courant written by Bella DePaulo titled "I Study Liars, Never One Like Trump"
Presidential VD (Viral Distractions) 45 Kirsten Gillibrand tweet and we talk about an article from the Hartford Courant written by Bella DePaulo titled "I Study Liars, Never One Like Trump"
¿Qué piensas cuando te imaginas a una mujer soltera de 55 años? Nuestra sociedad contemporánea está llena de prejuicios referidos a los solteros y solteras. Tendemos a pensar que tienen un problema y a discriminarnos aún sin darnos cuenta. Este es nuestro episodio de los solteros y todo lo que ello conlleva. Resumen del Libro: Bella DePaulo se encarga de romper con todos los mitos que rodean a las personas solteras en su obra "Singled Out". Además, nos muestra cómo son discriminados por la sociedad que parece estar obsesionada con las parejas y la "matrimania". Singled Out de Bella DePaulo Pedro García-Huidobro (@pedroghg) y Santiago Allamand (@stgoallamand) discuten sobre distintos libros todas las semanas. |Nuestra página|:http://www.elementalpodcast.cl/ |Twitter|: https://twitter.com/elementalpodcas (@elementalpodcas) |Facebook|: https://www.facebook.com/ElementalPodcast/ |Subscríbete en iTunes|: https://goo.gl/exXvXV |Subscríbete en Stitcher|: https://goo.gl/ZzStCQ |Subscríbete en Podbean|: https://goo.gl/JV8VUZ |Subscríbete en Spotify|: https://goo.gl/jJdL5n |Amazon|: http://a.co/h0GeUkh |Autor|: Bella DePaulo Links y notas del Show: 3:34 |Capítulo 1 Singlism| 15:17 |Capítulo 2 Science and the single person| 18:38 |Mito 1 The Wonder of Couples| 21:55 |Mito 2 Single-Minded| 24:33 |Mito 3 The Dark Aura of Singlehood| 27:06 |Mito 4 It is all about you| 32:28 |Mito 5 Attention, Single Women| 36:17 |Mito 6 Attention, Single Men| 38:11 |Mito 7 Attention, Parents| 41:22 |Mito 8 Too bad you’re incomplete y Mito 9 Poor Soul| 45:34 |Mito 10 Family Values| 47:29 |Capítulo 13, 14 y 15| 49:23 |Cierre| Agradecimientos especiales a: |Música Intro|: Osvaldo Guzmán |Sonidos Adicionales|: Osvaldo Guzmán |Diseñadora|: María de los Ángeles Manriquez |Musica Cierre|: ”Rollin at 5" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/
I veckans Stil tittar vi närmare på singelpolitik, singeldiskriminering och hur samhället ibland gör det svårt för människor att leva ensamma. Historiskt sett har singlar ansetts farliga, sjuka och neurotiska. Även om just de här singelstereotyperna har försvunnit idag har de ersatts av nya för singelskapet fortsätter att vara laddat. Det händer att singlar idag blir exkluderade från middagar, har svårt att hitta en bostad och förväntas jobba över. Men beteenden som tidigare var dolt har nu börjat uppmärksammas och i USA har termen "singeldiskriminering" börjat användas. 1986 publicerade det amerikanska magasinet Newsweek en artikel som satte skräck i USA:s alla singelkvinnor. Omslaget pryddes av ett gigantiskt diagram och texten singelkvinnor så här stor chans har du att bli gift. Enligt artikeln var sannolikheten större att dö i en terroristattack än att bli gift efter 40. Att det var män från Harvard och Yale som gjort studien och att den aldrig stämde fick inte lika mycket uppmärksamhet. Förra året fick artikeln dock ett svar. Det var New York Magazine som skapat ett omslag som pryddes av en gigantisk kvinnohand med röda naglar som pekade finger och i tidningen fanns det en lång artikel om den nya singelepoken. I veckans program åker vi till Santa Barbara i Kalifornien och träffar Bella DePaulo som är USA:s mest kända singelaktivist. Hon har myntat begreppet "singelism", som kan jämföras med sexism och rasism. Vi besöker även New Yorks första microlägenhter, små supermoderna bostäder framtagna för singlar. Och så träffar vi två andra singelaktivister Johan Wahlbäck som står bakom företaget Singelringen och Kim Calvert som driver ett magasin för singlar i Los Angeles. Veckans gäst är forskaren Glenn Sandström, som precis satt igång med en singelstudie om skillnader i välfärd och hälsa. Programmet är gjort av Sofia Hedström.
Today's theme: 혼밥 (Honbap, eating alone) Food has always played an incredibly huge role in Korean culture. The communal aspect has long been a part of Korean dining - this is reflected in the many side dishes that fill the tables and surround the large communal dish from which diners collectively eat out. And yet all that is slowly beginning to change. An online discussion on eating alone in Korea in 2014 featured no mention of the term 혼밥. Now, however, it's a different world. News reports, magazine articles, youtube videos, and apps all heavily feature this term and its many spinoffs. There has been a lot of changes in South Korea recently - in the political landscape, the ethical values, the boardrooms of businesses, and on the very tables on which the inhabitants of this fair land now eat - often alone. >>>The Conversationalist with university students 백유진 & 신유진 Do university students do more or less “honbap” than other people? Have you heard of any restaurants that are changing their style for “honbap”? & Bella DePaulo - visiting professor in Social Psychology at the University of California, Santa Barbara - author of the book How We Live Now: Redefining Home and Family in the 21st Century Common perception is that singles would be more isolated and lonely than people who live with family. But you said studies show otherwise? A government-sponsored study here showed that people who eat alone for all three meals have a higher chance of becoming obese. What's your tip for eating alone in a healthy way? >>>A Few Minutes with Amos I don't shop often but when I do, I always just leave my cart or basket in a corner out of the way. I can't stand people who slowly push their carts with one finger through the middle of the aisle, stop to look at the shelf, put their cart another inch, then stop again. Also, there are people who carry their baskets with them and take up twice the space of a normal person…. >>>Next week: Audition programs
Married people are often considered to be happier and healthier, while single people are often stereotyped as being isolated, self-centered and unhappy. But what if these are myths? In this episode, psychologist Bella DePaulo, PhD, talks about the benefits of remaining unattached and calls on psychology to pay more attention to why certain single people do, in fact, thrive. APA is currently seeking proposals for APA 2020, click here to learn more https://convention.apa.org/proposals
In this episode, Dr. Bella DePaulo, social psychologist and author will first draw upon her well recognized book, Singled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After to consider the cultural myths, negative presumptions and even financial discrimination against people who choose to live alone. Considering that more than half of adult Americans are single, Dr. DePaulo's goal of raising consciousness regarding “Singlism” and awareness of the actual happiness of many singles is an important one. In this episode, Dr. De Paulo will also discuss her fascinating new book, How We Live Now: Redefining Home and Family in the 21st Century, which considers the creative and often non-nuclear ways that people are finding to live. The message of this show is thinking beyond cultural constraints to notice the different ways, spaces and places that people can choose to live happy lives.
In this episode, Dr. Bella DePaulo, social psychologist and author will first draw upon her well recognized book, Singled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After to consider the cultural myths, negative presumptions and even financial discrimination against people who choose to live alone. Considering that more than half of adult Americans are single, Dr. DePaulo's goal of raising consciousness regarding “Singlism” and awareness of the actual happiness of many singles is an important one. In this episode, Dr. De Paulo will also discuss her fascinating new book, How We Live Now: Redefining Home and Family in the 21st Century, which considers the creative and often non-nuclear ways that people are finding to live. The message of this show is thinking beyond cultural constraints to notice the different ways, spaces and places that people can choose to live happy lives.
Jacqui and LeMar discuss Bella DePaulo’s Singled Out as well as their own experiences with singlehood. Also, they talk about New York’s Women’s Equality Act and how the Affordable Care Act is reducing the rate of abortions. Related Links Singled Out: How Singles are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After […]
Put the words "murder" and "loner" into a web search and you won't have any shortage of matches. Certainly it's been a characteristic used to describe several perpetrators of mass violence in the fairly recent past. Some research about loneliness, and those who retreat deeply into it, suggests that a significant number suffer physical and emotional risks of their own…which sometimes can trigger backlash behavior against society. Statistics suggest that the percentages of people living alone keeps moving steadily forward and the number of people who report being lonely at any given point in time has jumped from 20% in 1980 to 40% more recently. A Guardian column was titled, THE AGE OF LONELINESS IS KILLING US, while on the other hand, a Psychology Today column was titled THE HAPPY LONER and began with the words “Loners get a bad rap.” We had a number of conversations with folks who have studied what's happening when loneliness develops, how it can devolve into anti-social behavior, but more important still, how it can upset personal peace and lead to an aching depression and physical challenges and a compromised hope for a longer life. Our guests also reflect on how an individual can get help and how those close to a lonely loved one can offer support. And one of our guests wants to make sure we don't stigmatize all people who choose freely to live alone-- at no risk to themselves or others. Guests: Dr. Louise Hawkley, Dr. Steven Asher, Dr. Bella DePaulo and licensed therapist Robert Thomson. Paul Ingles hosts.
Put the words "murder" and "loner" into a web search and you won’t have any shortage of matches. Certainly it’s been a characteristic used to describe several perpetrators of mass violence in the fairly recent past. Some research about loneliness, and those who retreat deeply into it, suggests that a significant number suffer physical and emotional risks of their own…which sometimes can trigger backlash behavior against society. Statistics suggest that the percentages of people living alone keeps moving steadily forward and the number of people who report being lonely at any given point in time has jumped from 20% in 1980 to 40% more recently. A Guardian column was titled, THE AGE OF LONELINESS IS KILLING US, while on the other hand, a Psychology Today column was titled THE HAPPY LONER and began with the words “Loners get a bad rap.” We had a number of conversations with folks who have studied what’s happening when loneliness develops, how it can devolve into anti-social behavior, but more important still, how it can upset personal peace and lead to an aching depression and physical challenges and a compromised hope for a longer life. Our guests also reflect on how an individual can get help and how those close to a lonely loved one can offer support. And one of our guests wants to make sure we don’t stigmatize all people who choose freely to live alone-- at no risk to themselves or others. Guests: Dr. Louise Hawkley, Dr. Steven Asher, Dr. Bella DePaulo and licensed therapist Robert Thomson. Paul Ingles hosts.
Stereotypes support the notion of the happy, secure married person and the lonely, desperate single. But where are the actual statistics to support those views? Bella dePaulo, Ph.D. and author of Singled Out: How Singles are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After, visits to discuss the effects of "singlism," the pervasive discrimination single people face in politics and everyday life. She shares her 10 Myths About Being Single with Dr. Veronica. Dr. dePaulo is a popular interview subject on ABC, NBC, CBS, CNN and other media outlets.
Stereotypes support the notion of the happy, secure married person and the lonely, desperate single. But where are the actual statistics to support those views? Bella dePaulo, Ph.D. and author of Singled Out: How Singles are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After, visits to discuss the effects of “singlism,” the pervasive discrimination single people face in … Read more about this episode...
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