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Listen to an interview with the musician and activist Taylor Hall. May is Mental Health Awareness Month, so Hall chose the month of May to release her latest collection of songs, Cheaper Than Therapy. During her recent conversation with WFYI's Kyle Long, Hall said she hopes the project will help to destigmatize mental health and provide her fans with a message of hope. Also hear a conversation with Jenny Boyts, CEO of Forty5, a locally owned Indianapolis production company specializing in live music events. Forty5 owns and operates local venues including The Vogue and Turntable, and produces live concert series like Rock the Ruins at Holiday Park. Boyts rose to prominence in Indianapolis through her work with Indy Pride, serving as Indy Pride's board president for 4 years. Boyts says the relationships she created while building community with Indy Pride have informed her work with Forty5.

Many of us often feel a sense of unease in our intimate relationships. If you're struggling to pinpoint the source of this discomfort, you're not alone.  My guest, Dené Logan, has discovered an essential insight in her quest for relational satisfaction: the answer often resides in the natural balance of masculine and feminine energy that exists within each of us.  Today, she will unveil a transformative perspective on how understanding our inner masculine and feminine energies can be the key to unlocking fulfillment in our partnerships. Dené Logan is a Group Facilitator, Therapist, Author, and Wisdom Seeker living in Los Angeles. She has a Master's Degree in Counseling Psychology, has been featured on ATTN, and is the mentee of acclaimed psychotherapist Esther Perel. Dené co-hosts the Cheaper Than Therapy podcast alongside her soul-sister, Vanessa Bennett. In this conversation, Dené equips us with practical strategies on how to blend masculine and feminine energies. This will empower us to shift from the codependent and transactional perspectives of relationships to a more interdependent and balanced dynamic.

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Send us a textMy guest on the podcast this week is the one and only, Shani Silver.Shani is an author, writer, and podcaster. She is the host of 'A Single Serving Podcast', and the author of 'A Single Revolution: Don't Look For A Match. Light One'. She writes two Substacks, 'Cheaper Than Therapy', a healing newsletter for 80s babies, and 'Hey Shani', a toxic positivity-free advice column. Both publish once per week. Shani is passionate about changing the narratives that limit women, especially those around single women. She is single, childfree and lives in New Orleans.Topics that we cover are:why Shani decided to bring her podcast to an end;how she doesn't know what's coming next and is excited about the not knowing;why podcasts shouldn't be forever;her thoughts on the world of online dating;how being happily single and wanting a relationship can co-exist;how good Shani's life got when she stopped the chase for a relationship;how she absolutely wants a partner, and is looking forward to experiencing it as her older self;why finding a partner is not going to fix your life;why we need to find happiness within ourselves;why we need to be aware of getting stuck in an endless loop of self-development;how gratitude was the cause of the biggest boost in Shani's happiness;the stories we've been fed that have taught us to feel shame around being single;why singlehood being women's biggest fear is something that deeply worries Shani;how women who are convinced they can't be happy without a partner will not be able to hear Shani's message until they're ready;Shani's thoughts on any future relationships;why our relationship, or lack thereof, has nothing to do with us;why we can always choose to reframe our singlehood.Buy Shani's book, A Single Revolution:https://www.amazon.co.uk/Single-Revolution-Dont-match-Light-ebook/dp/B09HZ1TBX7 Join Shani's substack, Cheaper Than Therapy:https://1982.substack.com/ Join Shani's substack, Hey Shani:https://heyshani.substack.com/ Check out her website:https://www.shanisilver.com/ Follow Shani on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/shanisilver/  Support the showCheck out my YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSuCiCzcPlAvxzQyHDrLoag Book a FREE 30 minute coaching 'taster' session HERE: https://calendly.com/lucymeggeson/30minute Fancy getting your hands on my FREE PDF 'The Top 10 Most Irritating Questions That Single People Get Asked On The Regular...& How To (Devilishly) Respond'? Head over to: www.lucymeggeson.com Interested in my 1-1 Coaching? Work with me HERE: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/workwithme Join my private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1870817913309222/?ref=share Follow me on Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimagined Follow me on Twitter: @LucyMeggeson Follow me on LinkedIn: Lucy Meggeson Email me: lucy@lucymeggeson.com And thank you so much for listening!!!

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Dené Logan is a marriage and family therapist, spiritual teacher, and host of the podcast Cheaper Than Therapy, which gives a behind-the-scenes look at coaching sessions with clients and interviews with thought leaders in the field of mental health and wellness.    Here Dené and Dawson discuss: Lifetime curiosity about our behavior patterns Often there is conflict over who's getting what share of the energy Eastern traditions have an understanding of our own wholeness Building on Jung's work on the masculine and feminine within each person Jung's individuation process As a society we're questioning: who are we? When you take everything away, who am I? Getting into intuition and synchronicity Why you can feel the energy between people Always be respectful about your partner Should you do your psychological growth work within the relationship? The first thing to do in your relationship is to ask why The Stoics always asked the first question: Know yourself Know your story and your own purpose, then bring an individuated self into the relationship dynamic Our relationships are these mirrors that are showing us ourselves You are the love of your life   To learn more about Dené and her work: https://denelogan.com/   To find Dawson and his work: https://dawsonchurch.com/   #mindtomatter #blissbrain #eft #meditation #highenergyhealth #relationships #marriage #couples #cheaperthantherapy 

In this heartfelt final episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we reflect on the last four years, all of our challenges and personal growth, and the significance of our friendship while preparing to close this chapter. While it's farewell to the podcast for now, it's not farewell to us. Join our online community to stay in touch with multiple live weekly process groups and workshops, and stay in touch with us for upcoming retreats. What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨How both of our perspectives on so many things have evolved since the podcast's early days, from the challenges of motherhood to deepening our clinical skills, and how much we've used the podcast for processing life experiences✨ An emphasis on how our shared struggles have shaped our friendship and influenced our professional work, and how candidly the topic of motherhood has been approached on Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast since day one✨Gratitude for our friendship and the unique dynamic we've built between us, and how supporting each other's growth has been vital to both the podcast's success and our personal journeys✨As we prepare to end the podcast, we do so with gratitude and reflect on the importance of honoring life's cycles, embracing endings as a necessary part of growth

In our second to last episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Reverend Michael Beckwith, founder of the Agape Spiritual Center, the Take Back Your Mind podcast, and bestselling author of “Life Visioning™,” “The Answer is You,” and “Spiritual Liberation.” Reverend Michael shares journey from being a psychobiology major to becoming a spiritual leader and the profound insights he's gained along the way, particularly about the rise of the feminine energy and spiritual awakening. What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨The global shift toward feminine energy and collective spiritual awakening, and why Reverend Michael believes that this movement is essential for healing the planet and fostering deeper unity among people✨ Reverend Michael's personal spiritual experiences, including profound mystical events that changed his perception of reality, and how these moments helped him embrace his spiritual gifts and lead others on their own awakening journeys✨The need for living with intention, rather than reacting to circumstances, and how intention acts as a guiding force, helping individuals align with their spiritual purpose in order to navigate life more authentically and meaningfully

Ep 234: Friendships & GoodbyesIn this emotional and reflective episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we discuss the cycles of relationships, touching on our personal friendship dynamics and the upcoming conclusion of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast after an incredible 4 years. What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨ An emphasis on the importance of prioritizing friendships over romantic relationships, which often get placed on a societal pedestal, and how our friendship has thrived because of our commitment to this mindset✨The cyclical nature of relationships, using the metaphor of a spiral to illustrate how old wounds and dynamics resurface, but with each turn of the spiral, they move further from the center, showing growth and healing✨Exploring the concept of respecting where each person is in their development and capacity to engage in relationships, and how recognizing that capacity in one another helps prevent the ego from taking a “one-up” position, allowing for empathy and understanding✨The conclusion of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast after 4 years together, our immense gratitude for this journey, our guests, and you - the amazing community we've built together

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Sabrina Zohar, a prominent voice in dating and relationship psychology and host of the Sabrina Zohar Show, a top resource for no-nonsense relationship advice backed by the expertise of board-certified and licensed psychologists. What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨ How dating emotionally unavailable people will often lead to the realization that you are emotionally unavailable, showing the importance of accountability vs blame in relationships ✨Why we should challenge common social media dating advice like “If they wanted to, they would,” due to a need for deeper self-reflection and understanding, rather than blindly following oversimplified advice✨How past trauma can influence current dating patterns and the importance of healing from these experiences so you are able to approach relationships by prioritizing authenticity and depth over superficial connections✨The importance of maintaining high standards in dating without getting caught in unrealistic ideals, and to begin prioritizing compatibility and shared values over physical appearance or fleeting excitement

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Green Chef: Go to https://www.greenchef.com/valeriaclass for 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass!  In this episode, Valeria chats down with Dené Logan to explore the intricate dynamics of relationships, the concepts of feminine and masculine energies, and the societal shifts surrounding these themes. Dené explains the historical suppression of the feminine and the modern journey towards reclaiming it. The discussion covers the impact of these energies on personal growth, relationships, and societal structures, offering listeners profound insights into achieving a balanced and fulfilling life. Dené Logan is a Marriage and Family Therapist with an orientation in Depth Psychology (often referred to as ‘The Psychology of the Soul'), Group Facilitator, and co-host of the podcast Cheaper Than Therapy.  She has a Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology and is notably the mentee of acclaimed psychotherapist Esther Perel. Dené is passionate about sharing tools and strategies to cultivate spiritual awareness, understanding the current shifts taking place within our societal structures, and empowering others in understanding how they can live the most fulfilling lives possible.  Mentioned:  Sovereign Love by Dené Logan:  Mankind Project: https://mankindproject.org/  Sacred Sons: https://www.sacredsons.com/  Jane Fonda in Five Acts: https://www.hbo.com/movies/jane-fonda-in-five-acts  Pema Chödrön: https://www.instagram.com/anipemachodron/   Dené is on: https://www.instagram.com/dene.logan/  https://www.tiktok.com/@denelogan  https://www.flowhousetherapy.com/  Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4OMP3  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 04:34 What is the feminine energy? 06:08 Wounded masculine paradigm 05:38 Women are raised feminists 11:29 Healthy masculinity 15:27 Sacred connection in relationships 20:32 What defines a successful relationship? 24:34 Conversations are crucial 32:52 Is there a limit to what you can talk about with your partner? 35:54 Be your true self all the time  40:04 Moving out of codependent paradigms 45:19 Ownership mindset in relationships 48:33 Midlife awakening 48:33 Men also need emotional support 51:41 Men are struggling in secret 55:57 Men need more model leaders 59:52 Post-patriarchal society 01:02:18 The next stage of feminism 01:05:05 How to reclaim your feminine self 01:05:58 Surround yourself with authentic people Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode of TIWW, we're going to talk not just about understanding masculine and feminine energetics, but unifying them. Within ourselves first, and then in our relationships. Our guest, Dené Logan is a Marriage and Family Therapist with an orientation in Depth Psychology (often referred to as ‘The Psychology of the Soul'), co-host of the podcast Cheaper Than Therapy, and author of the recently released book, Sovereign Love. With her Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology and her experience being the mentee of acclaimed psychotherapist Esther Perel, Dené is passionate about sharing tools and strategies to cultivate spiritual awareness, understanding the current shifts taking place within our societal structures, and empowering others in understanding how they can live the most fulfilling lives possible. What I hope most is for you, and for me, for all of us, is shed the gender expectations, give our finger to the should and the supposed to's, so that we can show up as our best, most authentic selves – which is a mix of the masculine and the feminine. But in order to do that, we need to know ourselves, deeply and intimately – we get to build and create from the inside out, knowing that whatever energy that exists authentically within us is as it should be. Connect with Dené: Website: https://denelogan.com/  IG: https://www.instagram.com/dene.logan/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@denelogan  Book: Sovereign Love, available on Amazon Like what you heard? Please rate and review  Thanks to our This Is Woman's Work Sponsor: Visit  https://www.heyfreya.co/ and use promo code TIWW for 25% off multivitamins and other products - I use the Thrive multivitamin, Quench, and Nourish daily!

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Michelle, who is struggling with her husband's mental health issues and their recent impact on their family dynamics. The conversation explores step-parenting, mental health in relationships, and more.What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨ The difficulties in finding common ground with her husband regarding parenting decisions, especially as her children have grown older✨ What to do when when mental health struggles have created an ongoing sense of unpredictability and fear within the family dynamic✨ Approaching conversations with curiosity and vulnerability, and the possibility that open communication about their fears and past traumas could help alleviate some of the tension in the relationship✨Why it's important to take accountability in relationships and address your own trauma to recalibrate your own nervous system to better cope with the present, and how by doing the necessary inner work, you can embrace the good surrounding your external

Does the way society has dictated gender roles affect the dynamics in your relationship? Many of us are conditioned from a young age to adhere to certain gender roles, often seeking validation and traits from our partners that we feel we lack within ourselves. This deep-rooted socialization can result in an unhealthy dynamic, impacting the harmony and health of our relationships. How can we reclaim and integrate these vital energies within ourselves to create stronger, more authentic connections? In this episode, we explore how traditional gender conditioning influences our expectations and behaviors in relationships. Through a deeply insightful discussion, this episode offers practical strategies for recognizing and integrating both masculine and feminine energies in everyday life. Reflecting on personal experiences, societal dynamics, and spiritual perspectives, this episode provides tools to foster emotional maturity, authenticity, and harmony in your relationships. Join us to understand the importance of inner balance and discover how to step into a more empowered version of yourself. Dené Logan, AMFT, is a marriage and family therapist, spiritual teacher, and author of Sovereign Love: A Guide to Healing Relationships by Reclaiming the Masculine and Feminine Within. She is cohost of the weekly podcast Cheaper Than Therapy, which gives listeners a behind-the-scenes look at coaching sessions with actual clients, interviews with thought leaders in the field of mental health and wellness, and a bird's-eye view into two therapists hashing out their current life struggles and perspectives on various hot topics. She lives in Los Angeles. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 6:35 Deńe Logan's journey: From being a spiritual seeker and yoga teacher to becoming a therapist who specializes in couples work. 13:05 Redefining relational success and embracing the spiritual journey in relationships. 23:26 Balancing masculine and feminine energies in modern society. 46:51 Healing relationships through inner child connection and energy awareness. Mentioned Sovereign Love: A Guide to Healing Relationships by Reclaiming the Masculine and Feminine Within (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of "A Course in Miracles" (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Shifting Criticism For Connected Communication Connect with Dené Logan Websites: denelogan.com Instagram: instagram.com/dene.logan Podcast: denelogan.com/podcast Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Gabriella Ulloa and Meadowlark Monaghan, co-hosts of the “Thoughts May Vary” podcast; a podcast about changing our minds, with the common threads of mental health and nuance weaved throughout. We talk about mental health and the value of open, honest conversations & feeing understood in relationships.What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨Normalizing exploring mental health conversations in an approachable and authentic way, without falling into toxic positivity ✨The value of holding space for differing opinions and the need for discussions that allow for change and growth✨Approaching the topics of mental health with compassion and understanding, and the importance of feeling safe to speak openly about difficult subjects without fear of judgment✨The importance of vulnerability in relationships, both romantic and platonic, and why showing up authentically, especially in the messiest parts of life, is crucial for building deep, authentic connections

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Sarah, who is grappling with the aftermath of overhearing a negative conversation about herself between her in-laws and parents. What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨Exploring the motivation behind listening to a recorded conversation and why it's important to consider the deeper truths that might be present in the feedback✨The challenge of reconciling the desire for space and healing coupled with the pressure from others to resolve the conflict quickly, and why setting boundaries for space to process your emotions is important✨Why personal accountability is important and how our past experiences can influence our behavior✨Sometimes healing can be complicated and relationships have to change, so allowing yourself to feel your emotions fully is important for a sense of clarity, self-awareness, and spiritual growth

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Africa Brooke, internationally acclaimed consultant, credentialed coach, speaker, and podcaster to discuss self-censorship, brave expression, navigating complex social dynamics, and how to trust your inner voice. Her book, The Third Perspective: Brave Expression in the Age of Intolerance is available now! What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨Why non-binary thinking is necessary to breaking free of self-censorship and having open, authentic conversation✨The significance of brave expression in the age of intolerance, and the struggle to remain authentic when facing societal pressures that go against your own truth✨How social media may have amped the culture of fear and intolerance, and why focusing on meaningful posting and interacting may have more authentic results than performative social media presences✨The necessity of holding space for nuance in difficult conversations, and why true understanding doesn't always mean agreement

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Erica to talk about her struggles with managing strong emotions and staying grounded in emotionally overwhelming situations, and what to do when you tend to outwardly focus on others when overwhelmed, and how to trust your inner voice and listen to Self. What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨How somatic tools can help manage intense feelings during moments of emotional overwhelm✨ The importance of self-compassion and acceptance when dealing with big emotions, and how to uncouple negative beliefs from emotional reactions✨Why being emotionally vulnerable and authentic can feel challenging when learning how to trust your inner voice

Mick Thomas joins me to discuss The MCU's possible return to form! Check out Mick's podcast Cheaper Than Therapy: https://open.spotify.com/show/4SQ721kWuyWeWYu5zSLw1o?si=3SjB1eULQYaODvC_HjPF0w Follow Brett Scott on Twitter and Instagram: @realbrettscott Rate and Review Marvel Plus: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marvel-plus/id1524308260 MARVEL PLUS MERCH: https://www.teepublic.com/user/marvel-plus-podcast Marvel Plus Intro Music: https://youtu.be/mclAqQ5GVaI Support Marvel Plus on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/MarvelPlus?fan_landing=true Check out my podcasts everywhere podcasts are heard: Marvel Plus (Disney Plus / Marvel Companion Podcast) https://podfollow.com/marvel-plus Ambassadors of Quan (90's Movie Reviews) https://podfollow.com/1496965266 Long Lost Brothers (Fitness, Self Improvement, Pop Culture) https://podfollow.com/1523182128 Daily BS (entertainment and pop culture) https://podfollow.com/149697543 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/marvelpluspodcast/support

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, licensed psychologist, author, speaker, and founder and host of Therapy for Black Girls, a podcast and platform dedicated to making mental health topics more relevant and accessible for Black women. We discuss Dr. Joy's journey to creating a significant platform aimed at destigmatizing mental health issues among Black women, community, generational trauma, self-awareness and spiritual growth, and more. What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨The critical role that community plays in mental health, particularly in the context of collective trauma and support systems✨Dr. Joy emphasizes the intertwined nature of spirituality and mental health in Black communities, advocating for a holistic approach to well-being.✨The impact of generational trauma and the importance of acknowledging and healing these deep-seated wounds to foster overall mental health

The dating app Bumble can not stay out of the news. First, the company launched an anti-celibacy advertising campaign mocking abstinence and suggesting women shouldn't give up on dating apps. Then, at a tech summit, Bumble's founder suggested artificial intelligence might be the future of dating. Both efforts were met with backlash, and during a time when everyone seems irritated with dating - where can people turn? Shani Silver, author of the Cheaper Than Therapy substack, and KCRW's Myisha Battle, dating coach and host of How's Your Sex Life? join the show to make sense of the mess.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Jill, a single mother and entrepreneur who is navigating the challenges of rebuilding her life after leaving a toxic and abusive marriage. The conversation touches on how to trust your inner voice, boundaries, impacts of relationships on children, and more. What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨How societal and cultural pressures can cause us to feel like we need external validation and approval, and how that can make it difficult to learn how to trust your inner voice, especially after leaving an abusive relationship ✨The importance of making independent decisions, even in what seems like small daily matters, as a way to reclaim personal agency and build trust in Self✨The significant impact past relationships have on children, highlighting the importance of modeling healthy behaviors and open communication to break generational cycles of trauma✨Why seeking family therapy to facilitate open discussions and provide a supportive environment is key to heal and grow together

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Lisa Marchiano, LCSW, NCPsyA, a Jungian analyst, author, and podcaster. Her writings have appeared in numerous publications. She is the co-host and creator of the popular depth psychology podcast This Jungian Life. She is on the faculty of the C. G. Jung Institute of Philadelphia, and lectures and teaches widely. What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨The significance of feminine archetypes, like Lilith and Eve, and how they represent different aspects of the feminine experience and self-empowerment✨Why recognizing and integrating shadow aspects like anger and assertiveness can lead to personal growth and authenticity, teaching you how to trust your inner voice✨How embracing the power of storytelling and sharing personal stories fairytales can facilitate deeper understanding and healing in both therapy and personal life

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we address listener questions around boundaries and dealing with significant changes in your relationships. We discuss themes around abandonment, setting boundaries, and accountability vs blame in relationships. What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨How a fear of abandonment can make setting and maintaining boundaries challenging/unclear, often leading to negative responses from others✨The importance of accountability vs blame in relationships, and not personalizing others' actions✨Distinguishing between someone's capacity to show up in a relationship and their desire to do so, and that a lack of capacity doesn't necessarily mean a lack of care✨How controlling behaviors stem from deep-seated fears of abandonment and emphasize the need for self-reflection and personal responsibility to take accountability in relationships and foster healthier relationships

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Joy, who is navigating the complex and practical life challenges following the end of a long-term relationship. We explore the difficulties of fully moving on when there is significant overlap in social and professional circles, and how to handle lingering feelings especially during potential future interactions. What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨The importance of self awareness in recognizing and validating your feelings of discomfort and jealousy, and why radical acceptance of these emotions is a key part of the healing process✨Why you need to fully grieve the ending of a relationship, and why both intellectual acceptance and emotional processing are crucial for moving forward✨ Finding a way to balance your desire to share your experience with others and not bleeding your pain onto them by prioritizing tending to your own wounds before engaging in activism or public discussion

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Dr. Jody Carrington, psychologist, speaker, and three time author known for her expertise in trauma, connection, relationships, and mental health, to discuss emotional regulation, how to be emotionally available in what Dr. Jody calls a loneliness epidemic, and the transformative power of leading with kindness and compassion. What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨The importance of emotional regulation as the foundation for healthy relationships and effective leadership✨The need for more supports for first responders and the effects of organizational trauma✨ Why our society may be facing a loneliness epidemic and why professionals like teachers, therapists, and first responders need increased supports for the well-being of their communities

In this incredibly informative episode, Melissa is joined by therapists Vanessa Bennet and Dené Logan. As business partners in retreats and hosts of the podcast Cheaper Than Therapy, where Melissa has previously been a guest, Vanessa and Dené bring a wealth of knowledge on relationships, motherhood, and managing heavy emotions. Both specializing in relationships, they kick off the conversation by discussing the importance of finding the right therapist and recognizing when it might be time to take a break from therapy. They explore managing deep emotions that we all encounter in everyday life, offering eye-opening perspectives on topics like true vulnerability. The episode also explores attachment styles in relationships and addresses deeply relatable listener questions. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that will inspire you to view your emotional landscape in a whole new light.Sign up now for a 7 day free trial at melissawoodhealth.comLimited Time Offer: Use code movewithheart when you sign up for a monthly membership to get your first month FREE.Treat yourself to glowing, moisturized skin and a moment of self care this summer. Use code MWH20 for 20% of your first order at katemcleod.com.Get up to 15% off plus a free cup and frother on piquelife.com/MWH. Plus, for a limited time, get a free starter kit + sampler pack ($60 value) with code MWH.Melissa Wood-Tepperberg, founder of MWH and host of the Move With Heart Podcast, is a meditation teacher, certified yoga and pilates instructor, certified health coach, and beloved by the diverse community she's cultivated through her unique approach to fitness and mindfulness over the years. MWH is a health, wellness & lifestyle platform on a mission to create a more mindful way of life, accessible and attainable for all. Melissa and MWH have been featured on LIVE with Kelly and Ryan, GMA, The Today Show, Forbes, Fortune and more. MWH was also the subject of a 2021 Harvard Business School case study. The most important part of this practice is that it's not just about building the body you desire, it's about building a better, stronger relationship with yourself. The foundation of this practice has always been about using what you have available to you, whenever, wherever you are. So, wherever you are on your journey, we have something for everybody. The MWH platform has a growing library of 500+ workouts in a variety of styles (pilates, yoga, meditation, pre & postnatal, and more!). Plus, with unlimited access to recipes & video tutorials, plus coveted lifestyle & nutrition tips, this is the destination to better every single aspect of your life.Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we delve into the complexities of the therapeutic process and how to trust your inner voice as you navigate the challenges of finding the right therapist for yourself. If you have a question for Dené and Vanessa, click here. Or, if you'd like to apply for a live coaching session, click here.What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨The importance, as a therapist, to understand individual client needs and examine your own reactions and countertransference during therapy✨How interviewing therapists is similar to the early stages of dating, and why you should ask potential therapists about their own therapy experiences and their modalities to help ensure alignment within the relationship✨ Why the relationship between therapist and client is crucial for effective therapy, and why open communication is the best way to foster a healthy and vulnerable relationship between you and your therapist

What does it take to achieve true harmony in our relationships? Regardless of your gender or sexual identity or role in your relationships, understanding the balance of masculine and feminine energies is crucial for intimacy, connection and personal power in love. In this Language of Love conversation, I have a heart-to-heart with therapist and author, Dene Logan. Dene's new book, “Sovereign Love,” delves into finding the perfect mix of masculine and feminine energies in our relationships. We discuss the challenges of navigating societal expectations, especially for moms juggling responsibilities and managing dynamics within their relationships. We explore the question of how we can lean on each other in love without losing ourselves and how we can work as a team with our partners to heal what isn't working in love. It's all about getting to know yourself, embracing what makes us different, being real with each other, and keeping that spark alive while staying true to yourself. We unpack: Reclaiming healthy masculine and feminine energies in love and partnership Balancing masculine and feminine energies in work and home life Societal norms and their impact on relationships Challenges faced by couples, particularly in the context of motherhood Embracing interdependence in relationships The vulnerability and authenticity that lies within communication Check out Dene's book, "Sovereign Love: A Guide to Healing Relationships by Reclaiming the Masculine and Feminine Within," for more insights, and tune into her podcast, “Cheaper Than Therapy” too! As always, visit my website to explore my available courses to improve your relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Veronica, joining us for a second live coaching session, to discuss her experiences with social anxiety and navigating calm environments after growing up in a chaotic household. If you have a question for Dené and Vanessa, click here. Or, if you'd like to apply for a live coaching session, click here.What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨Why growing up in chaos can lead to feeling uncomfortable and anxious in calm environments, and how to begin to reset your nervous system ✨The importance of somatic awareness and understanding your body's responses to specific environments and triggers✨ How approaching new relationships from a mindset of being in-service, rather than reciprocation, can help ease the fear of vulnerability when forming new connections

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down with Todd Baratz, LMHC, a certified sex therapist, licensed individual and couples psychotherapist, co-host of the Our Diagnonsense Podcast, and writer who specializes in relationships and sex. We talk about relationships, his philosophy that “you aren't fucked up - our culture is,” and his first book, How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind which is available now! Todd is one of our favorite people and we had so much fun during this conversation. We know you're going to have so many take-aways and love this conversation with him, as well!What You'll Gain from this Episode:✨ The complex reality of therapeutic support on social media, it's influence on current societal trends, and the need to hold space for the inevitable lack of nuance that exists in the digital world✨ An emphasis on the importance of understanding the complexities and meanings behind behaviors, rejecting black-and-white thinking, and taking personal responsibility to recognize the influence of social norms on your own personal development✨ How our relationship structures are evolving in ways that offer less dogma and more authenticity in our healing, and how that's begun to shift the societal “normal” away from staying in unhealthy relationships ✨The necessity for therapists to check in with their countertransference and not be too quick to look for a solution when “stuck” is a necessary stage of their own personal development

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we talk about a conversation we've been hearing around celibacy as a form of activism and a way to shift the often challenging landscape of modern dating and traditional gender dynamics.Some Takeaways from this episode:✨ How a recent controversy around the new Bumble ad-campaign has a seemingly tone-deaf message toward women in 2024✨ The 4B Feminist movement happening in South Korea advocating for non-hetero relationships, hetero-celibacy, and child-less lives, and how the awareness of it is shaping conversations around relationship dynamics worldwide ✨ How there seems to be a disconnect between cis men and women and how they experience what is happening in heterosexual relationship dynamics ✨ We share insights from a historian about the concept of incels and what the evolution of masculinity will look like in a post-patriarchal culture

In this Q&A episode, someone wrote in to ask: as I'm starting to do recovery work around codependency, I find that I sometimes swing into hyper-independence. How do I find a middle ground? We talked about:✨What it looks like to move out of the space of enmeshment into a differentiated sense of self.✨Realizing that we staying present with ourselves is a practice that we all have to continuously come back to.✨The evolution of relationships that are co-created by the people involved instead of looking to society to define what's “normal.” ✨Understanding the distinction between attachment and intimacy and how we can fall into patterns of self-abandonment

This week, the dating app Bumble could not stay out of the news. First, the company launched an anti-celibacy advertising campaign mocking abstinence and suggesting women shouldn't give up on dating apps. Then, at a tech summit, Bumble's founder suggested artificial intelligence might be the future of dating. Both efforts were met with backlash, and during a time when everyone seems irritated with dating - where can people turn? Shani Silver, author of the Cheaper Than Therapy substack, and KCRW's Myisha Battle, dating coach and host of How's Your Sex Life? join the show to make sense of the mess. Then, it's been four years since the start of the COVID pandemic. So much has changed - especially attitudes towards public health. Brittany talks to, Dr. Keisha S. Ray, a bioethicist, to hear how public health clashed with American culture - how we're supposed to live among people with different risk tolerance - and what all this means for the next pandemic.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

We'll be back with all new episodes of Cheaper than Therapy starting next week! But we're so excited about the launch of Dr. Shefali's new podcast, PARENTING & YOU, that we wanted to do a throwback episode to when we had her on the podcast to talk about her most recent book, The Parenting Map. Dr. Shefali is not your typical parenting expert and PARENTING & YOU is not your typical parenting podcast. There are no guest experts or celebrities. Every episode has 2 parents being helped through their parenting journey.It's raw, real and totally relatable.In Ep. 142, we did an Instagram Live with Dr. Shefali, three time New York Times best-sellers author, including her two landmark books The Conscious Parent and The Awakened Family. We talked about:

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy, we sit down to discuss transitions and the concept of liminal spaces, and how these transitional moments challenge existing paradigms, inviting personal and societal transformations.Some Takeaways from this Episode:✨ Why these phases of major transition can feel deeply unsettling but are necessary for for growth and true authenticity to Self✨ How traditional life scripts and societal norms are being questioned and dismantled, offering a unique opportunity to redefine values and ways of living in more authentic and fulfilling ways✨ The importance of staying true to your authentic Self in the face of societal expectations, even when you feel uncertain and “othered”

In this episode, we go into our archives and bring back one of our first episodes EVER with our good friend, Ashley Torrent. Ashley is a psycho-spritual counselor and intuitive medium, Co-Host of “The Blue Butterfly Effect” and “The Practice of Love” podcasts, and recurring guest on the “Single on Purpose” podcast. Dené and Vanessa sit down to talk with Ashley about her journey and insights into holistic therapy, and her practice of blending clinical psychology with spiritual practices to help clients navigate their emotional and spiritual well-being and challenges. Some Takeaways from this Episode:✨ The importance of being present and curious about oneself, and how that practice of mindfulness can accelerate the healing process and give you insight to a bigger purpose, providing additional emotional support in your healing journey✨ How combining empathy and intuition in therapy allows a deeper connection between therapist and client, allowing authentic connection and healing ✨ The challenges and rewards of being a therapist, particularly as an intuitive, and the delicate balance of maintaining professional boundaries with deep empathy

This episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast is from an Instagram live with Vaness and Mark Groves, Human Connection Specialist and founder of Create The Love. Mark works as a bridge between the academic and the human, inviting people to explore the good, bad, downright ugly, and beautiful sides of connection. Join us as we talk emotional armor, the necessity of integrating bodywork with talk therapy, relationships as the jump off point for our deeper internal work, co-regulation and of course codependency!

Ep 212: Complex Connections: Navigating Feedback with AuthenticityThis episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast is part of a series where we answer questions submitted by listeners. We dive into the complexities of accountability in all relationships. Some Takeaways from this Episode:✨Recurring Themes in Society: Many of the topics addressed in the show are themes that have come up repeatedly within therapeutic spaces, reflecting collective societal trends and healing journeys indicating a widespread desire to evolve past self-abandonment and the cultivation of healthier relationships ✨Staying Authentic: The importance of staying true to your beliefs and message, even when it may not resonate with everyone, to remain authentic to Self✨ Personal Accountability: Consider how you may be self-abandoning or using relationships as a means to avoid addressing something you may need to work through, and how deeper self-examination will naturally lead to more authentic relationships✨Complexity and Nuance in Human Behavior: Not simplifying complex human behaviors into labels (like narcissist), and instead take a compassionate and curious approach to understanding others' actions, promoting dialogue that embraces the full complexity of human experiences and interactions

In this Cheaper than Therapy episode, we sit down with Dr. Peter Levine for a deep dive into the complexity of trauma, and the transformative possibilities within therapeutic practices. Dr. Levine holds a doctorate in biophysics and a doctorate in psychology. He is the developer of Somatic Experiencing and Somatic Experiencing International, a naturalistic and neurobiological approach to healing trauma, Founder and President of the Ergos Institute for Somatic Education, dedicated to community outreach and post-advanced somatic experiencing training, and author of several best-selling books on trauma. His work has been taught to over 30,000 therapists in over 42 countries. Some Takeaways from this Episode:✨ Trauma and the Body: The importance of recognizing that trauma is not merely a brain disorder, but becomes deeply embedded in the body's responses and requires therapeutic techniques that addresses physical manifestations of trauma(s)✨Interconnectedness of Generations: How trauma is interconnected across generations and survival mechanisms passed down, recognizing that patterns and responses inherited from ancestors may not just be through behavior, but through epigenetic modifications✨ Healing in Community: The importance of community and collective healing practices when addressing trauma, and that the often isolated approach to mental health should be replaced with communal support systems and shared healing experiences

In this special Cheaper than Therapy episode, we sit down with our friend Rainier Wylde in person to talk about the often painful truth of love's impermanence and conditionality, and how love can lead to personal growth. Rainier is a highly sought after mentor and consultant to authors, athletes, business professionals, coaches, healers, and ordinary radicals who want to see change in their world. He is known for his unique blend of spirituality and in depth strategic coaching and is the author of “As You Are: Meditations on Self & Other” and the co-host of Love Like Hell podcast.Some Takeaways from this Episode:✨The Link Between Love and Loss: The importance of embracing loss as an inevitable part of all relationships and that grief and joy are intertwined✨Fantasy Love and Consequences: The misconceptions about the idea of “fantasy love” and pitfalls of chasing unconditional love in romantic relationships✨ The Evolution of Love through Life: How the progression of love, from initially meeting to the mature connection highlights how love is a dynamic force that can foster profound inner growth and self-alignment✨Parental Love and Selfhood: The complexities of parental love and the challenges of maintaining your sense of self, especially in romantic relationshipsConnect with Rainer:Podcast: Love Like HellInstagram: @rainerwyldeBook: As You Are: Meditations on Self and Other

This episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast is part of a series where we answer questions submitted by listeners. Today's listener writes in concerned about a loved one's abusive marriage, asking how to balance personal boundaries and navigate the challenges supporting a loved one in an abusive relationships. If you have a question for Vanessa and Dené, click here.Some Takeaways from this Episode:✨Supporting without Enabling: The importance of offering love and support without enabling or trying to rescue your loved one✨Challenging and Honest Communication: How to navigate the complexities of honest communication when trying to help a loved one see the reality of their situation, with a recommendation for trying to be a "release valve" for frustrations and addressing issues directly with those involved, rather than using others as a sounding board✨Personal Boundaries and Self-Reflection: Understanding your own motivations and biases to ensure your offered support is genuinely in your loved one's best interest, and allowing the individual to navigate their own path, ultimately respecting their right to make their own choices

Dené Logan is a Marriage and Family Therapist with an orientation in Depth Psychology (often referred to as ‘The Psychology of the Soul'), Group Facilitator, co-host of the podcast Cheaper Than Therapy with Vanessa Bennett, and Wisdom Seeker living in Los Angeles. She has a Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology and is notably the mentee of acclaimed psychotherapist Esther Perel. Dené is passionate about sharing tools and strategies to cultivate spiritual awareness, understanding the current shifts taking place within our societal structures, and empowering others in understanding how they can live the most fulfilling lives possible. Her debut book, Sovereign Love:, publishes May 28, 2024 from Sounds True.Follow Dené on Instagram: @dene.logan And TikTok: @deneloganDene's Website: https://denelogan.com Find out why over 4,500 healthcare professionals and hair stylists recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit Nutrafol.com and use promo code BESTFind your forever pieces @jennikayne and get 15% off with promo code BEST15 at jennikayne.com/BEST15! #jennikaynepartnerSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast is part of a series where we answer questions submitted by listeners. Today, we're addressing the discomfort some listeners have talking about relationships, specifically when discussing the evolving paradigms of love and partnership and our ownership template of relationships. If you have a question for Vanessa and Dené, click here.Some Takeaways from this Episode:✨Shifting Perspective: While uncomfortable, it is important to shift your viewpoint of relationships in a way that prioritizes personal responsibility and growth over controlling others, as a way to foster more genuine connections✨ The Role of Control: Recognizing that attempting to control our environment and the people around us is actually anxiety and/or fear manifesting and the first step to breaking free from codependency✨Navigating Activation and Resistance: Remember that when feeling activated, it's an invitation to look inward and focus on Self, pushing past the discomfort ✨Empowerment through Agency: By focusing on what we can control (our actions, responses, participation, etc.) we reclaim our power and cultivate healthier, more authentic connections

I know all too well the weight of grief and expectation it can bring. That's why I'm thrilled to have the compassionate Liz Kelly join me, sharing her journey from fundraising to therapy and the wisdom found within her transformative new book, "This Book Is Cheaper Than Therapy." LIz offers a comforting blueprint for those seeking to redefine their mental health. Liz's insights are a balm for the soul, encouraging us to craft a life experience that aligns with our unique desires for joy and meaning, devoid of non desired societal demands.This discussion is more than an exploration of Liz's powerful narrative—it's a vessel for change, equipped with practical action items and reflection questions designed to engage and empower our listeners. Each chapter of Liz's book, and consequently our conversation, ends with these thoughtful prompts, inviting you to selectively interact with the content that resonates most deeply. So whether you are thriving in your life right now or in a period of struggle, our episode stands as a testament to the personal liberation that comes from embracing life in a manner that nourishes your heart and your individual story.To view the Ted Talk referred in this episode, "There is More to Life Than Being Happy", please click here. To buy Liz Kelly's book, click here. Liz Kelly's website can be reached here.YouTube Channel For The Podcast

This episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast is part of a series where we answer questions submitted by listeners. A listener writes in expressing concern about her boyfriend checking out other women in public, despite repeatedly expressing her discomfort to him. We dive into relationship dynamics, and how sometimes fixating on others' behavior can be a distraction from your own personal growth. Some Takeaways from this Episode:✨Self-Focus Over Partner-Surveillance: When you notice yourself becoming focused on a partner's behaviors it's a clear sign that your energy should be redirected inward and focus on personal development✨ Relationships as a Platform for Growth: Relationships should be a catalyst for personal development, rather than a means to seek external validation ✨Acceptance of Who Your Partner Is: Attempting to change fundamental aspects of a partner's personality or habits, especially if they existed prior to the relationship, is futile ✨Fallacy of Control: Relationships dynamics should be safe for each person to be their full authentic self, with a focus on mutual growth and understanding instead of control

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sat down with Nedra Glover Tawwab, MSW, LCSW - author of three bestselling books, licensed therapist, and renowned relationship expert with 15 years of experience in relationship therapy. She is the founder of Kaleidoscope Counseling, where she aids individuals in cultivating healthy relationships through boundary implementation. Nedra's approach is grounded in the belief that many relationship issues stem from a lack of boundaries and assertiveness.Some Takeaways from this Episode:✨Boundaries are Positive: While boundaries are often seen as a way to keep people out, setting boundaries for yourself within relationships with others creates an innate sense of security and trust, rather than seeking it externally, leading to healthier, balanced, and more authentic relationships✨ Motherhood and Personal Capacity: Becoming a parent reduces the capacity you have for taking on the responsibility of other peoples' problems and creates more invisible labor for your day to day, making it absolutely crucial to have open conversations within relationships, and setting boundaries to take care of your well-being✨ Social Media has Limits: It's important to remember the humanness behind social media and set boundaries for sharing, interacting, as well as consuming to protect our time, mental health, and maintain authentic connections with others

In this episode of Cheaper than Therapy the Podcast, we sit down to address two questions submit by listeners with similar “energies.” One listener wants to know how to stop comparing themselves to their partners ex and feeling insecure in their ability to trust due to past relationships. Another listener is looking for clarification differentiating between an anxious attachment versus being a human seeking safety, consistency, and reassurance in a relationship. Some Takeaways from this Episode:✨ Safety in Self: Having an internal sense of security and interdependence will help to ease the insecurity of self-comparison, rather than repeatedly seeking outside validation to temporarily make you feel safe and secure✨ Boundaries Help Personal Growth: Taking personal responsibility to remain authentically true to Self and maintaining personal boundaries to honor that authenticity over a partner's insecurities ✨ Managing Anxiety: Seeking constant reassurance and validation can create a perception the relationship is unsafe, so take time to actively recognize and appreciate what about the relationship makes you feel good and secure in the attachment

People are drawn to astrology for the same reasons others are drawn to psychology. Both allow us to explore the soul, find the Self with a capital S, and tap into that magic that's beyond what we can comprehend.If you want to learn why psychology and astrology perfectly compliment each other, Vanessa Bennett and Dené Logan, this deep dive is right up your alley!We are all little cups of the universe, and both psychology and astrology allow us to tap into the immaterial essence of what we are, find answers beyond the surface, and make sense of the things that are consistent, timeless, eternal and always there for us.In today's world, this intersection is more vital than ever before. As more faulty structures crumble, and we realize how much we've been conditioned to believe that our bodies aren't safe, these practices allow us to cultivate a sense of safety within.In this episode, you'll learn: