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    3 Great Questions to Ask in Early Stages

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2022 6:19


    Would you ask these all 3 of these questions on the first date? SOCIAL CONTACT INFO IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexy/ TIKTOK: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhVTmcY/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/healingislife/ Private FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/?ref=share Website: www.healingissexylife.com Blog: https://dearblackpeople.blog Email: melwilliams@healingissexylife.com

    Dating 101: How To Approach

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2022 7:34


    Here are 2 tips on dating approach

    If You're Not Living Your Best Life You're FAKE

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2022 22:36


    Living your best life doesn't mean everything is perfect. It will never all be perfect. But you do need to wake up nearly every day EXCITED about living life because you are doing what you love to do!

    A Word On Colorism & Fatherhood

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2022 10:58


    A Word On Colorism & Fatherhood SOCIAL CONTACT INFO IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexy/ TIKTOK: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhVTmcY/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/healingislife/ Private FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/?ref=share Website: www.healingissexylife.com Blog: https://dearblackpeople.blog Email: melwilliams@healingissexylife.com

    We Are NOT All Works In Progress!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 6:55


    SOCIAL CONTACT INFO IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexy/ TIKTOK: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhVTmcY/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/healingislife/ Private FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/?ref=share Website: www.healingissexylife.com Blog: https://dearblackpeople.blog Email: melwilliams@healingissexylife.com

    Logic vs. Emotion: Is One Better Than the Other?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 18:36


    Logic vs. Emotion: Is One Better Than the Other?

    3 Mind Hacks for Love & Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2022 28:11


    SOCIAL CONTACT INFO IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexy/ TIKTOK: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhVTmcY/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/healingislife/ Private FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/?ref=share Website: www.healingissexylife.com Blog: https://dearblackpeople.blog Email: melwilliams@healingissexylife.com

    Women Feel Unsafe & How This Impacts Dating/Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2022 21:27


    Continuation from the Blog: "Have Women Normalized Feeling Unsafe in General & Relationships and what we need to do about it.

    Black Fatherhood Reality - We Need More to Embody GOOD Leadership

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2022 24:36


    Black Fatherhood Reality - We Need More to Embody GOOD Leadership

    Are You Date Material?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2022 9:06


    What qualifies you, me, or anyone as dating material? SOCIAL CONTACT INFO IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexy/ TIKTOK: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhVTmcY/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/healingislife/ Private FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/?ref=share Website: www.healingissexylife.com Blog: https://dearblackpeople.blog Email: melwilliams@healingissexylife.com

    The Big Lie: Independent Women Are a Bad Thing Pt. II

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2022 13:23


    Sometimes you're required to become independent in a variety of life situations. But that doesn't mean you have to continue to operate or suffer from the traumatizing experiences that made you self-reliant. Here I share some of my experiences. Make sure you visit this link if you need help healing and experiencing healthier relationships: https://www.healingissexylife.com/#/

    The Big Lie: Independent Women Are Bad!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2022 9:40


    In this episode BLR with H.I.S. "The Big Lie" let's break down what it really means to be an independent woman and experience interdependence. Especially for Black relationships. Make sure you visit this link if you need help healing and experiencing healthier relationships: https://www.healingissexylife.com/#/

    TBC on YouTube, FB, & IG

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2021 5:14


    Hey guys I'm consolidating down to my top 3 platforms. Make sure to connect with me there for more updates, content, and exciting news! YOUTUBE: Healing Is Sexy. FB: Black Love Recovery for Black Singles and Couples. IG: @healingissexylife. Hope to connect!

    We Are Not Traditional

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2021 12:23


    Food for thought: Can Black people really say we are traditional or what “traditional” relationships? Traditionally, I believe our references are different than how we are describing it today. Yes, men and women had roles even way back then, but I feel there were still differences from how we define things today. Follow my IGs: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/

    Wigs & Desperate For Love Misconceptions

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 11:41


    Let's talk briefly about the history of wigs and also a misconception of someone who may express desiring love. Don't forget to enter for your chance to win some awesome prizes on the website! Follow my IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/

    GET READY! Taking Your Healing Journey To A New Level of FUN

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2021 6:56


    In this episode I share insight on the upcoming “Marry You First” books I've been working on for Men and Women as well as how you can enter to win several cool prizes! Be sure to visit my website at www.healingissexylife.com and subscribe to the newsletter mailing to stay in the know. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Podcast: https://anchor.fm/healingissexy/episodes/Stop-Paying-For-Place-Holders-in-your-Love-Life-e17gurt Follow my IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/

    READ THIS BOOK: The Attachment Theory Workbook

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2021 11:05


    You guys! I have found another winner! This book is an excellent resource to add to your self-healing inventory. You will learn more about 3/4 attachment styles and better understand how and why you and the people you care about behave the way you/they do. Highly recommended! Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Podcast: https://anchor.fm/healingissexy/episodes/Stop-Paying-For-Place-Holders-in-your-Love-Life-e17gurt Follow my IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/

    Correlating Manhood & Leadership

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2021 18:19


    I feel like there's a distinction between good manhood and being a good leader and that shouldn't be the case. A man who is a good man is generally going to be making strides to be a good leader in his circles of influence. A man who leads doesn't point blame or shuts down and avoids situations. We NEED more men to be GOOD LEADERS. We need more men to correlate manhood with being good leaders and leading by example. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Podcast: https://anchor.fm/healingissexy/episodes/Stop-Paying-For-Place-Holders-in-your-Love-Life-e17gurt Follow my IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/

    Live Your Truth & Let Others Live Theirs!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2021 9:46


    Yesterday I caught a Live where several of the viewers were trashing the character of one on the interviewees. It's sad so many people had that type of energy to focus on someone who was living her truth. Let people live their truth! And also, let's stop normalizing our trauma! Remember, healing is a process and a journey. It's a choice we make each and every day. You got this and I'm rooting for you! Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Follow my IGs: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/

    He Who Finds A Wife

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2021 8:48


    Bible said he who finds a wife. Not he who makes a woman his wife. It means you as a woman already are. You aren't supposed to be waiting for a man to make you into a wife. You're that already. Becoming a wife is different to everyone and every man's needs. Take a listen. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Podcast: https://anchor.fm/healingissexy/episodes/Stop-Paying-For-Place-Holders-in-your-Love-Life-e17gurt Follow my IGs: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/

    UNLOAD: Outgrowing Placeholders & the Reality of Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2021 23:51


    If you're hurt and broken you won't know HOW TO KEEP a good thing even if you're fortunate to find it. You're normal of hurt and brokenness and complacency isn't grounds for growth so all you reciprocate into your relationships are hurt and brokenness. A healthy person isn't going to stay or be able to even grow with you in that. YOU have to be willing to fix you and do the work for YOU to be able to be fertile soil to be planted into and have something productive grow: a healthy relationship. If we really knew what healthy relationships looked like mind games wouldn't work. Ppl who use ghosting are using abandonment issues to trigger attachments. People who use berating or arguing or destroying behaviors are using toxic issues or styles to condition the other person to normalize that abuse. Ladies I've done a few videos on this before but we've got to get out of the mind frame of forecasting the future and wanting to be found and married sooo bad that we are willing to waste time with the wrong person. He's not going to be different or change if he's shown you such. Fellas, same thing. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Follow my IGs: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/

    Stop Paying For Place Holders in your Love Life!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2021 9:52


    Stop paying for placeholders in your love life! Takers are opportunists. It means they don't know how to appreciate you going above and beyond, they don't know how to reciprocate it, they don't know and they don't care. You can walk on eggshells to keep them happy and they will still find a way to find something wrong and make it your fault and throw everything you've ever invested in them out the window and say you were the one wasting their time! Stop settling for less. Remember, healing is a process and a journey. It's a choice we make each and every day. You got this and I'm rooting for you! P.S. Fellas this does actually apply to you as well!!! I think I said it didn't but I was wrong. It sure does! Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Follow my IGs: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ https://www.instagram.com/blackvixensociety/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/

    New Changes & Starting Your Healing Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2021 18:28


    Ask Black Love, Episode 8

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2021 34:19


    The Ask Black Love Panel answers questions about a spouse changing their mind about having kids after an agreement, how a couple should address baby mama drama, and when one should share any intense trauma in a relationship with their partner. Submit your questions to the panel for a chance to have them answered by visiting this link to learn more about each couple: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/ask-black-love.html#/ LEARN THE COUPLES! On this episode we have The Fowlers: The Fowler family resides in Southern California where they enjoy hiking, traveling, trying new restaurants, and creating new memories with family and friends. Glenn and Cherie have recently started a podcast called “Through the Fire” where they share their love story and discuss some of the unspoken challenges in marriage, that are often left unspoken and unresolved. You can follow them on IG at: @fowlerfamilyvoyage and @throughthefire2010. The Mulendas: We are Danny and Briana Mulenda. We reside in Dallas, TX, and enjoy traveling, trying new restaurants, and making memories with each other. We both work in the IT industry and Danny owns a web-developed business called Mulenda Tech. You can follow us on IG Couples page: @dbmulenda Danny: @danny.thebest01 Briana: @briana.leah_

    Ask Black Love, Episode 7

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2021 36:25


    The Ask Black Love Panel answers questions concerning a wife's concerns of love and attractiveness with her husband after pregnancy, a couple's discussion on finances, and a husband's frustration with his wife's drive for personal growth. Submit your questions to the panel for a chance to have them answered by visiting this link to learn more about each couple: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/ask-black-love.html#/ LEARN THE COUPLES! On this episode we have: The Gothies: Chris and Tori Gothie from Charlotte, NC! We enjoy traveling, trying new foods, and spending time together doing any and everything spontaneous. We are currently working on starting a YouTube channel called The Gothie Way. We will be reviewing new and up and coming restaurants in the charlotte area. Our IG is @goodteats. The Howards: Greetings, We are Nicole and Kam Howard. We are an example of love after divorce-this is the second marriage for both of us...Together we have 4 adult children. We live in Maryland, where we love spending time with each other and our family, watching movies, traveling and we like to volunteer giving back to the community by helping those who are less fortunate. Kam is a school Administrator and Nicole is a Legal Project Specialist. We also work our Respect My Royalty LLC business together by traveling for speaking engagements, creating the Queen Up! Podcast which is currently on YouTube and iHeart Radio. We also have an interactive relationship page on Facebook called Caramel & Chocolate. Follow us on: IG: @ladynicole.1 and @Brooklyn_Kam06

    Dating Without Expectations (Expectations = Manipulations)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2021 11:45


    Our society conditions us to always have expectations in our dating interactions, but I want to present (and show) that having expectations are really the death of you experiencing happy and fulfilling relationships. Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @purplemansionxofficial for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! FOR MEN: Learn more & Join A Lady's Man Academy Program: www.aladysmanacademy.com Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles (Men & Women) by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ For Black Men, be Interviewed on Black Mind: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/black-mind.html#/ Submit photos or be a model for THE STANDARD magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/magazine.html#/ Connect with me IG: https://www.instagram.com/purplemansionxofficial/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/ Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    Ask Black Love, Episode 5

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2021 27:11


    To catch all of BLR videos please subscribe to the YouTube channel to ensure you don't miss any content! Due to length we are unable to upload every video. The Ask Black Love Panel answers questions about resentment, defining boundaries when it comes to flirting, and dating outside your normal type. Submit your questions to the panel for a chance to have them answered by visiting this link to learn more about each couple: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/ask-black-love.html#/ LEARN THE COUPLES! On this episode we have The Fowlers: The Fowler family resides in Southern California where they enjoy hiking, traveling, trying new restaurants, and creating new memories with family and friends. Glenn and Cherie have recently started a podcast called “Through the Fire” where they share their love story and discuss some of the unspoken challenges in marriage, that are often left unspoken and unresolved. You can follow them on IG at: @fowlerfamilyvoyage and @throughthefire2010. The Mulendas: We are Danny and Briana Mulenda. We reside in Dallas, TX, and enjoy traveling, trying new restaurants, and making memories with each other. We both work in the IT industry and Danny owns a web-developed business called Mulenda Tech. You can follow us on IG Couples page: @dbmulenda Danny: @danny.thebest01 Briana: @briana.leah_ The Muganzo Murphys: The Muganzo Murphy family resides in Sacramento, California where they enjoy their fitness activities and traveling adventures. They love spending family time with their teenage daughter and are in full swing with their community organizing efforts and social justice platforms. You can follow them on Instagram at @muganzoentertainment and on Twitter at @jazzie_murphy.

    being in successful relationships require certain skill sets, to heal black love

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2021 11:34


    In this video we dive into skill sets needed to experience more success and happiness in relationships, regardless of age. Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ SIGN UP for dating programs & coaching: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-program.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    Ask Black Love, Episode 4

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2021 46:12


    The Ask Black Love Panel answers: 1. If while dating things go south in the relationship, should women wait for the man to get back at her? Or is it okay for her to reach out or would that be seen as chasing? 2. What's something about Black marriages we don't see or hear often enough that more married couples and even singles should be aware of? 3. During a heated moment my husband told me his mother would always come before me. Am I wrong to feel some type of way and consider leaving? Submit your questions to the panel for a chance to have them answered by visiting this link to learn more about each couple: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/ask-black-love.html#/ LEARN THE COUPLES! On this episode we have The Gothies: Chris and Tori Gothie from Charlotte, NC! We enjoy traveling, trying new foods, and spending time together doing any and everything spontaneous. We are currently working on starting a YouTube channel called The Gothie Way. We will be reviewing new and up and coming restaurants in the charlotte area. The Howards: Greetings, We are Nicole and Kam Howard. We are an example of love after divorce-this is the second marriage for both of us...Together we have 4 adult children. We live in Maryland, where we love spending time with each other and our family, watching movies, traveling and we like to volunteer giving back to the community by helping those who are less fortunate. Kam is a school Administrator and Nicole is a Legal Project Specialist. We also work our Respect My Royalty LLC business together by traveling for speaking engagements, creating the Queen Up! Podcast which is currently on YouTube and iHeart Radio. We also have an interactive relationship page on Facebook called Caramel & Chocolate. Follow us on: IG: @ladynicole.1 and @Brooklyn_Kam06

    stop using your wallet as leverage (retired NFL player sent me this DM)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2021 6:10


    Leading with your wallet is not the way to go in today's dating society with modern women. That's the old way of doing things. Modern women are looking for more meaningful connections and are capable of showing themselves a good time and maybe even treating men worthy of her time too. Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ SIGN UP for dating programs & coaching: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-program.html#/ The STANDARD: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/yearbook.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    Black Men need healing too

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2021 14:08


    It's easy and even the narrative to point out the angry or strong Black woman with underlying trauma, but the Black traumas our communities have experienced isn't limited to just Black women. We don't hear or talk enough of the constant struggles of Black men and how this impacts their daily lives and relationships with Black women. At the end of the day more of us, both Black men and women need to tap into more resources, do the work on self, and learn to have better interactions with one another. Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ SIGN UP for dating programs & coaching: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-program.html#/ The STANDARD: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/yearbook.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    modern dating 101 & defining the modern day man

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2021 12:15


    In this video we dive into distinguishing between the traditional and modern man and woman in the current dating world. Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ SIGN UP for dating programs & coaching: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-program.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    FOR MEN: how to level up your EQ to better understand women

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2021 7:26


    SUBSCRIBE TO YOUTUBE TO SEE ALL VIDEOS: https://youtu.be/XcOKo6Zmfqg Hey guys, this video is to break down how to get to the root of cause when dealing with a woman's emotions. Take leveling up your EQ seriously if you want to be in a serious long-term relationship someday. Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ SIGN UP for dating programs & coaching: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-program.html#/ The STANDARD Magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/yearbook.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    FOR WOMEN: how to win his heart

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2021 12:27


    SUBSCRIBE TO YOUTUBE to see ALL Videos: https://youtu.be/xa5DeHG9014 There are TWO (2) essential skills every woman must learn in order to better understand men and ultimately win his heart. Let's discuss. Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ SIGN UP for dating programs & coaching: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-program.html#/ The STANDARD Magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/yearbook.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    Black Love History 101: why we're still suffering today

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2021 23:22


    In this video we dive into the historical root cause of division in our communities. Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ SIGN UP for dating programs & coaching: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-program.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    FOR WOMEN: what men REALLY want ISN'T necessarily more feminine women

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2021 9:38


    Today we see countless video advocating for women to be more feminine and more submissive (whatever that means as it's subjective to each person's interpretation). As always, I'd like to offer a different perspective. There are too many untold stories of happy, successful relationships (even celebrities) of women who aren't so feminine, and are in fact pretty masculine. Can you name a few power couples? Ladies, don't fall for the hype. Be true to who you are as long as it's healthy. Tune in. Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles (Men & Women) by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ For Black Men, be Interviewed on Black Mind: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/black-mind.html#/ Submit photos or be a model for THE STANDARD magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/magazine.html#/ Connect with me IG: https://www.instagram.com/2loveablackwoman/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/ Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    FOR MEN: How To Attract & Keep A Woman's Interest (Level Up THIS Skill)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2021 8:27


    There is ONE unique gift men can use to attract beautiful women, but it will take a certain level of practice and confidence to become fluent. Here are a few tips to help you improve your interactions with women. Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles (Men & Women) by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ For Black Men, be Interviewed on Black Mind: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/black-mind.html#/ Submit photos or be a model for THE STANDARD magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/magazine.html#/ Connect with me IG: https://www.instagram.com/2loveablackwoman/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/ Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    he's looking for his mama, not you (and vice versa)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2021 7:17


    In 2021 we have to evolve and adapt. The dating world and our society has changed SO much in so little time and it's not slowing down or ever going back to the old ways... so men and women have to adapt and get out of our comfort zones in order to be a part of shaping a new norm in which we find happiness together. Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles (Men & Women) by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ For Black Men, be Interviewed on Black Mind: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/black-mind.html#/ Submit photos or be a model for THE STANDARD magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/magazine.html#/ Connect with me IG: https://www.instagram.com/2loveablackwoman/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/ Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    Natural Model Search

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2021 0:51


    Are you a natural beauty? Enter my contest and tell me what you LOVE most about your natural hair for a chance to be published as a feature in my magazine! Visit this link to enter: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/magazine.html#/

    Are You Tired of Being Single?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2021 0:29


    Join my 30 day Date Smarter Challenge this July! Sign up by visiting this link: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/

    Men, DON'T Ask Her To Do THIS Instead..!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2021 8:14


    Most men make this common mistake often. Here's what not to do and better alternatives to experiencing better connections with women. Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles (Men & Women) by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ For Black Men, be Interviewed on Black Mind: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/black-mind.html#/ Submit photos or be a model for THE STANDARD magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/magazine.html#/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/2loveablackwoman/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/ Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    My Why - Healing Isn't Going To Be Easy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2021 4:49


    This video is about why I created BLR. The process of healing is never easy. It involves facing undesirable truths about ourselves and holding ourselves accountable to making progress. This channel isn't all rose petals and glitter. There are some hard conversations we need to have... Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ Be Interviewed on Black Mind: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/black-mind.html#/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/2loveablackwoman/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/ Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    for men who think women need to compete for their attention (competition isn't genuine love)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2021 12:11


    Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    what can a BM or BW offer me if I have a job, my own car, and place? (why this is a dumb question)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2021 7:53


    Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    financial dynamics: dating a BM who makes less

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2021 10:47


    Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    Ask Black Love Panel, EP 2 Every 2nd & 4th Sundays 11AM EST

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2021 33:15


    The Ask Black Love Panel answers: 1. what's the best way to handle when your significant other says something hurtful to you in anger? 2. how do you deal with finding out something troubling about your spouse once you get married? For example, an insecurity or trauma they have that they may have downplayed in the beginning? 3. what's the difference between girlfriend and wife responsibilities? what's the difference between boyfriend and husband responsibilities? Submit your questions to the panel for a chance to have them answered by visiting this link to learn more about each couple: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/ask-black-love.html#/ LEARN THE COUPLES! On this episode we have The Gothies: Chris and Tori Gothie from Charlotte, NC! We enjoy traveling, trying new foods, and spending time together doing any and everything spontaneous. We are currently working on starting a YouTube channel called The Gothie Way. We will be reviewing new and up and coming restaurants in the charlotte area. The Howards: Greetings, We are Nicole and Kam Howard. We are an example of love after divorce-this is the second marriage for both of us...Together we have 4 adult children. We live in Maryland, where we love spending time with each other and our family, watching movies, traveling and we like to volunteer giving back to the community by helping those who are less fortunate. Kam is a school Administrator and Nicole is a Legal Project Specialist. We also work our Respect My Royalty LLC business together by traveling for speaking engagements, creating the Queen Up! Podcast which is currently on YouTube and iHeart Radio. We also have an interactive relationship page on Facebook called Caramel & Chocolate. Follow us on: IG: @ladynicole.1 and @Brooklyn_Kam06

    a BM's fears dating BW, & how BW can respond

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2021 7:50


    Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    how black women may be setting themselves up to stay single FOREVER...and men's double standard

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2021 14:03


    Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    challenges of dating BW PT 2., why BW are single

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2021 13:32


    Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    challenges of dating BW PT 1., why BW are single

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2021 11:39


    Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you! Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/ Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

    Ask Black Love Panel, EP 1 Every 2nd & 4th Sundays 11AM EST

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2021 33:57


    The Ask Black Love Panel answers: 1. how long should a woman wait for a man to propose? 2. how exactly do you tell your man you have an issue and you need him to step up? 3. do you think more people should embrace the idea of when you love someone you're going to be exposed to the worst in them and probably of hating them? Submit your questions to the panel for a chance to have them answered by visiting this link to learn more about each couple: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/ask-black-love.html#/ LEARN THE COUPLES! On this episode we have The Fowlers: The Fowler family resides in Southern California where they enjoy hiking, traveling, trying new restaurants, and creating new memories with family and friends. Glenn and Cherie have recently started a podcast called “Through the Fire” where they share their love story and discuss some of the unspoken challenges in marriage, that are often left unspoken and unresolved. You can follow them on IG at: @fowlerfamilyvoyage and @throughthefire2010. The Mulendas: We are Danny and Briana Mulenda. We reside in Dallas, TX, and enjoy traveling, trying new restaurants, and making memories with each other. We both work in the IT industry and Danny owns a web-developed business called Mulenda Tech. You can follow us on IG Couples page: @dbmulenda Danny: @danny.thebest01 Briana: @briana.leah_

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