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Why is talking about what's below the belt so hard? It's not anymore! With decades of combine reproductive health experience, educators Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson use humor and science to empower you to understand human reproduction. Listen to gain a better understanding of your body, gender,…

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    • May 7, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
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    Best Of Clips - An It's Not Human Sexuality Party

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2022 42:38


    Join us for the final episode of season 3, where Dr. B and Mandy Johnson celebrate the entire INHS podcast series by sharing their favorite clips. Listen in for reflections on the value of reproductive health education and behind the scenes footage. And, we say goodbye to producer Hannah Copeland, who is moving on to NPR, Washington DC. Reproductive Health Education: Lookbothways.us Cryo Banking: cryogam.com Production: Peachislander.com

    Cracking The Mystery of Egg Freezing

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2022 45:20


    Just in time for Easter, egg freezing expert Valerie Landis shares her own story to help others interested in starting their egg freezing journey. Join us to learn the cost, health considerations, and emotional factors you need to know when deciding to freeze your eggs.  Valerie Landis: shor.by/valeriedlandis Reproductive Health Education: Lookbothways.us Production: Peachislander.com

    Whiskey D*ck and Getting Randy with Alcohol

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2022 22:55


    Alcohol shapes our sex life in many unexpected ways. Join Betsy and Mandy for this holiday special about the effects alcohol has on sex, just in time for Saint Patrick's Day. Cryobank: Cryogam.com  Reproductive Health Education: Lookbothways.us Production: Peachislander.com

    Cold as a Frozen Sperm

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2022 59:35


    With male fertility on the decline globally and more individuals feeling comfortable preserving their reproductive material regardless of their sexual identify and behavior, the purpose of sperm banks is more important than ever. Join Mandy Johnson in this episode as she interviews her co-host, Dr. Betsy Cairo, owner of the only commercial cryobank in Colorado. Dr. B has owned her cryobank Cryogam since 1990. She dives into the process of storing sperm and how she runs her business.  Cryobank: Cryogam.com  Reproductive Health Education: Lookbothways.us Production: Peachislander.com

    Is planned sex sexy?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2022 8:06


    Media usually portrays sex as spontaneous. But does it really have to be that way in real life? And is spontaneity any better than a good plan? Reproductive biologist Dr. Betsy Cairo and sexuality educator Mandy Johnson share what they think about planned sex! Reproductive Health Education: Lookbothways.us Cryobank: Cryogam.com  Production: Peachislander.com

    Managing Toxic Relationships and Imposter Syndrome

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2022 57:36


    Should we be assertive or aggressive? Should we draw boundaries or open up? There is a time and place for all of this in our healthy and toxic relationships. Author and life coach Linda Bonnar says it's understanding our relationship with ourselves that's most important. Join us as Dr. B and Mandy connect with Linda as she discusses how to improve our self confidence and wellbeing.   Linda Bonnar: LindaBonnarLifeCoach.com   Reproductive Health Education: Lookbothways.us Cryobank: Cryogam.com  Production: Peachislander.com

    BDSM, Kink, and Vanilla Too

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2022 60:46


    Vanilla is the world's most popular flavor, but some people like to go to different dimensions in sex. Bondage, discipline, and kink are all topics Indigo Stray Conger explores with her patients. Indigo is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who trained in San Fransisco, land of inclusiveness and no judgements. Join Dr. B and Mandy as they explore exactly what BDSM and kink are, and how they play a part in different relationships.   Indigo Stray Conger: MileHighPsychotherapy.com   Reproductive Health Education: Lookbothways.us Cryobank: Cryogam.com  Production: Peachislander.com

    Immaculate Conception: Can we do it?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2021 9:45


    Join us for a cup of holiday cheer and reproductive health knowledge as we explore the top ten creatures who can reproduce without having sex. This phenomenon is called parthenogenesis, the development of an embryo from an unfertilized egg cell. Reproductive biologist Dr. Betsy Cairo and Many Johnson will let you know if humans are one of these remarkable creatures on the list.  Content: LookBothWays.US Cryobank: Cryogam.com  Production: Peachislander.com Music: Envir0maniac2, https://freesound.org/people/envirOmaniac2/sounds/478570/  Sound Effects: Juskiddink, https://freesound.org/people/juskiddink/sounds/110158/ 

    Becoming An Everyday Leader with Author Ash Beckham

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2021 56:42


    You don't need a promotion to become a leader. Activist, speaker, and author Ash Beckham joins Dr. B and Mandy Johnson to discuss how becoming an everyday leader in your community creates a more equitable world. As a lesbian, Ash believes that everyone has some type of a closet. She thinks that empathy and openness can help us understand others with different stories and perspectives. Ash has appreciated watching her own kids and youth of today accept and explore gender fluidity throughout the last decade, making the world a more inclusive space. Ash's 2013 Ted Talk has garnered more than 2-million views. The talk inspired her 2020 book, "Step Up: How To Live With Courage and Become An Everyday Leader."   Ash Beckham: AshBeckham.com Reproductive Health Resources: LookBothWays.us Cryo Bank Resources: Cryogam.com Production: PeachIslander.com

    Thanksgiving special: Do sexy foods exist?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2021 9:54


    Even with Thanksgiving right around the corner, reproductive biologist Dr. Betsy Cairo and sexuality educator Mandy Johnson are always looking out for your reproductive health. While you're planning your next big meal, join us on this special holiday episode to learn about sexy foods and fertile foods. Do they really exist?   Recipe: Curry for the ladies Text book: Look Both Ways Production: Peachislander.com

    Ask The Experts: There‘s No G Spot and More

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2021 20:39


    Should you wax your vagina? Is is possible to make your penis bigger? Mandy's high school students want to know, and we know, you do too. Since 2018, Mandy has collected more than 500 anonymous reproductive health questions. Now it's your chance to hear the answers to some you may be afraid to ask yourself!   CryoGam Look Both Ways Peach Islander Productions

    Ask The Experts: Why Pulling Out Doesn‘t Work and More

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2021 16:58


    The anonymous questions are back! Mandy has collected more than 50 reproductive health questions from her high school students since 2018. Now it's your chance to hear the answers to some reproductive health questions you may have been afraid to ask yourself! Learn about the gender binary, hysterectomies, STIs, and more.  CryoGam Look Both Ways Peach Islander Productions  

    Los Angeles Pediatrician and Entrepreneur Makes Puberty Comfortable

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2021 60:38


    Pediatrician Dr. Cara Natterson received a call one day asking which bra she recommended for her teenage daughter. Her answer was, "None! They're all terrible." The call came from her future co-founder of the company which makes puberty more comfortable: OOMLA. Today, Dr. Natterson creates educational content and products that adhere to her business' core values: honoring health, anti fast-fashion, does not exist for the male gaze, committed to inclusion, produce locally and think globally. Join Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson as they dive into how caretakers and kids can create a better puberty experience for everyone.   OOMLA, making puberty more comfortable: Myoomla.com Look Both Ways for Reproductive Health: LookBothWays.us Production: PeachIslander.com

    Exploring the Science and Sociology of Menopause

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2021 50:09


    Dr. Gretchen Frey served as an OBGYN for more than two decades. She has delivered many babies and helped countless people-with-ovaries to achieve comfort and satisfaction as they experience menopause. She supports the benefits of hormonal therapy and works to fight against scientific misinformation surrounding it. Join this deep dive conversation about menopause hosted by reproductive biologist, Dr. Betsy Cairo.

    Gay Disney Artist Grows Up Mormon and Learns To Love Himself

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2021 46:49


    If you have seen "The Little Mermaid", "Beauty In The Beast'', or even Mickey Mouse, you have seen a piece of Dave Woodman, the former Disney animation artist. Dave's childhood was difficult growing up Mormon in a small Colorado town. But, art was his physical and mental escape. He is an active artist today with an incredible story and message of resilience.   Check us out! Dave Woodman Look Both Ways Peach Islander Productions

    Ask The Experts: How To Get Rid of An Erection in Class & More

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2021 17:38


    Mandy has collected more than 500 anonymous reproductive health questions from her high school students since 2018. Now it's your chance to hear what is top of mind for some of today's youth.   CryoGam Look Both Ways Peach Islander Productions

    Jessica Remmele Shares Her Story of Resilience and Recovery From Her Sexually Abusive Childhood

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2021 42:11


    Colorado local 25-year-old Jessica Remmele and former student of Mandy Johnson shares her powerful story of recovery from more than a decade of sexual abuse that took place during her childhood.

    Reproductive Health Education on the Caribbean Island of Saint Lucia with Thea Benjamin

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2021 45:54


    Abortion, contraception, and sexual orientation are restricted topics in schools around the world. Fulbright scholar and educator Thea Benjamin covers what's different from the United States and what's surprisingly the same when teaching reproductive health education in home home country, the Caribbean island of Saint Lucia. 

    Sexuality Therapist and Crossfit Enthusiast Melanie Greenberg Talks About Her Struggles and Triumphs with Eating Disorders

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2021 40:15


    It started as a teenager one halloween when Melanie didn't eat any of her candy. Fifteen years later, Melanie Greenberg has overcome her eating disorders, but identifies as being in recovery from them. Join Dr. B and Mandy Johnson as they explore how our reproductive health can affect how we interact with food.

    The Business and The Science of Fertility in the U.S. and Abroad with Dr. Dean Morbeck

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2021 58:01


    In some countries, government health benefits will pay for in vitro fertilization. This is unheard of in the U.S., where fertility is seen as medically elective. After working in fertility at Mayo Clinic for 10 years, Dr. Dean Morbeck moved to New Zealand to pursue his fertility business in a way that could match his vision. More info: www.lookbothways.us Hosts: Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson Producer: Hannah Copeland, Peach Islander LLC

    Public Health Director Grace Franklin Addresses Broad Issues in a Unique Mountain Community

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2021 28:51


    In early 2020, Grace Franklin began her position as the Director of Public Health for San Miguel County, a gorgeous Colorado mountain community where few locals live and many tourists come to play. She would have never guessed the health crisis that was headed her way!

    How The Law Governs Surrogacy, Your DNA and Reproductive Rights with Ellen Trachman

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2021 55:37


    Join Dr. B, Mandy Johnson, and Reproductive Lawyer Ellen Trachman as she reveal complexities to consider when having a baby through surrogacy, retrieving sperm after a partner's death, and more.

    Simona Spark Immigrates to the US, Escapes An Abusive Marriage, and Becomes An Author

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2021 47:28


    Simona Spark shares her transformational story of self-love and self-respect after leaving her home country of Romania to start a new life in the U.S. Hosts Dr. B and Mandy Johnson guide us through her story from abuse and survival to thriving as a life coach and author.  

    How To Live A Joyful and Colorful Life Despite Sexual Abuse and Trauma with Diann Kissell

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2021 70:16


    As a child, Diann Kissell endured years of sexual abuse from her father and lost many of her family members to murder when she was 13. Against all odds, she's lived a joyful life and raised a loving family of more than 5-children and 25-grand-children. Kissel has told her story in her co-authored biography "A Turquoise Life," on the Oprah Winfrey show in 1987, and here on the podcast hosted by her daughter, Mandy Johnson, joined by Dr. Betsy Cairo. Get Diann's Book

    Creating A Safe Environment for High School Students Learning About Their Bodies with Al Vernacchio

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2021 68:41


    Al Vernacchio is the sexuality education coordinator and chair of the upper school english department at his Quaker high school in Wynnewood, PA. He has developed an entire curricula of reproductive health and sexuality education and successfully implemented it at his school, which is no easy task. Vernacchio has more than 25-years of sexuality education experience. Mandy Johnson and Dr. B explore his work and discuss how it overlaps with their own, especially during the pandemic.

    Pt. 2: Captain Alivia Stehlik's Transition in the Military and Journey to Becoming Herself

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2021 54:17


    Under President Biden's new administration, transgender military members can once again receive their necessary medical treatment. Captain Alivia Stehlik explains why this momentous change may only be temporary, and she expresses how the transgender experience is different for everyone.

    Captain Alivia Stehlik's Transition in the Military and Journey to Becoming Herself

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2021 64:51


    Alivia Stehlik is a proud transgender woman in the US military. Dr. B and Mandy Johnson explore her life's story and her body's response to both starting and pausing hormone therapy.

    Teaching Reproductive Health at an Alternative High School: A Conversation with Ali Ham

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2021 36:56


    Colorado teacher Ali Ham dives into the challenges and triumphs of teaching an entire course that explores reproductive health for high schoolers with hosts Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson. Ali uses Dr. B's textbook "Reproductive Health: The Biology, Psychology and Sociology of Sexuality" which is provided free of charge to schools who adopt the curriculum by the non-profit Look Both Ways. Tune in to hear what it's like to teach what we used to call "sex ed." Now, it's reproductive health and it shapes our whole world.  

    Catfishing, Covid, and 2020 with Sex Therapist Dr. Joe Kort

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2021 40:50


    Dr. B and Mandy Johnson usher in a new era of the "It's Not Human Sexuality" podcast with this new episode featuring sex therapist Dr. Joe Kort. The podcast format now focuses on regular interviews with experts who expand and explore our understanding of reproductive health. Reproductive health affects us all, even when that means being catfished by scammers or navigating hook-up culture while wearing a mask, Dr. Joe Kort explains. Join the INHS crew as we dive into our inaugural guest interview episode!

    S02 E07: When Relationships End

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2020 39:52


    How to break up with someone gracefully is a dark art. To be broken up with is terrible. To lose a partner to death is a tragedy. Reproductive biologist Dr. Betsy Cairo and sexuality education teacher Mandy Johnson explore the cycle of grief we all go through when relationships end.

    S02 E06: There's More Than One Way To Have A Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2020 38:45


    Polyamorous, open, closed, swinging, monogamous, and more: Reproductive Biologist Dr. Betsy Cairo and Human Sexuality Educator Mandy Johnson explore a multitude of relationship and marriage types. The pair use humor and science to help you learn the pros and cons of each, what might work for you, and why people choose their own styles.

    S02 E05: Young Love, and How We Get It Wrong

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2020 20:28


    Even if adults don't understand it, it's important to realize that teenage love, is love. Dr. Betsy Cairo and high school human sexuality education teacher Mandy Johnson unpack all the reasons why adults may discount young love, how harmful that can be to a young person's growth, and how to change that!

    S02 E04: Styles of Communication

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2020 34:23


    Too much eye contact is creepy. But too little is suspicious. Personal space, it's different than intimate space. Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson unpack rules of communication as they relate to relationships, giving you the words you need to define your own communication style. 

    S02 E03: Unrequited Love and Jealousy

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2020 32:23


    Everyone has felt unreturned love, but now is your chance to understand some of the reasons behind it! Reproductive Biologist Dr. Betsy Cairo and human sexuality education teacher Mandy Johnson explain ways that unrequited love and the green eyed monster can sneak into your relationships. 

    S02 E02: Attraction

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2020 23:28


    What gets you going? And...why? Is what you think you like really what's best for you? Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson explore the scientific side of our instinctual attractions to help us better understand our relationship as they relate to our reproductive health. 

    S02 E01: Different Types of Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2020 39:18


    Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson are ecstatic to welcome you to It's Not Human Sexuality Season Two! This episode draws the connection between relationships and reproductive health. Then, we explore the scientific formula for love and the many forms this complex emotion can take! Just in time for Valentines Day, this episode gives you the words you need to understand types of love and its close connection to relationships and reproductive health.Connect with Look Both Ways, the non-profit behind It's Not Human Sexuality:FacebookTwitterInstagram 

    S02 Valentine's Day Debate

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2020 10:39


    Is it heartless commercialism or a day to celebrate love? You decide, after you hear Dr. B and Mandy Johnson discuss that perfect, yet disappointing, day we call Valentine's Day. On Monday, February 10, 2020, Season 02 Episode 01 of "It's Not Human Sexuality" releases! Listen to season two to bulk up your relationship toolbox with the vocabulary and stories needed to understand yourself and other's better. "It’s Not Human Sexuality" is hosted by reproductive biologist and author Dr. Betsy Cairo and certified sexuality education teacher, Mandy Johnson. The show is produced by Hannah Copeland and recorded by Jeff Ratterman of Redstone Sound Recording studio in Loveland Colorado, USA.

    S02 Happy New Year! Seven Steps To Ruin (or save) Your Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2019 10:00


    Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson lay out 7 foolproof steps to ruin a relationship this new year. Of course, if you learn the steps and do the opposite, you can save or sustain your relationships that matter most! Plus, find out exactly when Season 2 will release, and hear what Mandy got for Christmas. Read the full 7-step relationship disaster guide here.

    S02 Preview Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2019 2:18


    Relationships are an integral part of our reproductive health. That's why Dr. B and Mandy Johnson have dedicated our whole second season to the relationship's many complexities. Listen for a sneak peak of what's to come and find out when to catch season two! Submit your relationship questions to info@lkbthwys.org to be answered by the reproductive health experts.

    S01 E06: Teaching Reproductive Health In the Classroom

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2019 23:36


    Dr. Betsy Cairo interviews Mandy Johnson about how she applies what we've learned in her high school classroom. Listen to learn what you can do to be a teacher and advocate for reproductive health. Dr. B and Mandy also want to hear what you what to learn in season 2! Email your suggestions to info@lkbthwys.org.

    S01 E05: Adolescent Behavior

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2019 23:08


    Educators Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson explore the stages of puberty and adolescence and how this time of growth shapes our youth forever.

    S01 E04: Sexual Identity and Sexual Behavior

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2019 23:18


    Can a man have sex with a man and still identify as straight? Can lesbians get pregnant? Or course! Explore sexual identity and sexual behavior with the reproductive health pros, Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson. 

    S01 E03: Sex, Assigned Gender, and Gender Identity

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2019 28:27


    Educators Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson explain the distinct differences between sex, assigned gender, and gender identity.

    S01 E02: Anatomy and Physiology

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2019 30:24


    If below the belt is a pee-pee, then your eye is a blink-blink. Your mouth is a taste-taste. And your elbow is a bend-bend. We need to teach kids about their whole body, and what reproductive health really means. Educators Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson take a bike ride through female anatomy and go to a graduation party for male anatomy.

    S01 E01: It's NOT Human Sexuality

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2019 32:28


    Find out why hosts Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson have dedicated their lives to educating students about reproductive health.

    S01 E00: Trailer for It's Not Human Sexuality

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2019 2:29


    Get the 2-minute scoop on the new podcast that educates the educator about reproductive health. You'll meet reproductive health expert hosts Dr. Betsy Cairo and Mandy Johnson. Plus, hear how reproductive health education can be fun, challenging, and essential for human development at all ages.

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