My Sister Said with Uche Amuneke

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I'm just a young lady with a touch of ADHD, zero chill, and a love for Jesus. With this podcast I wanted everyone to have access to a community of different experiences and perspectives filtered through God's word.

Uche Amuneke


    • Apr 10, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 17m AVG DURATION
    • 41 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from My Sister Said with Uche Amuneke

    2 Ways to Heal Triggers (without therapy) & Identify the Dog Whistles of Emotional Abusers

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2023 24:19


    Let's talk about healing triggers without access to mental healthcare & handling the intentional dog whistles of emotional/spiritual abusers. The aftermath of spiritual abuse and religious trauma. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Benson Part 3| "Christian" Master Manipulators & Their COVERT Emotional Abuse Tactics

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2023 34:44


    Let's talk about more COVERT Emotional Abuse Tactics, word salad gaslighting, insults, deflection, moving the goal-post, withholding. This is spiritual abuse. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Uche Part 1 | What HOOKED & Reeled Me Into The TOXIC World Of My Predatory Church

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2023 15:30


    What brought me to Watermark Community Church Dallas, and started my spiritual abuse journey. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Benson Part 2 | How To Identify GASLIGHTING , 'Positive' Manipulation & Spiritual Abuse

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2023 17:19


    Let's talk about GASLIGHTING , 'Positive' Manipulation & Spiritual Abuse. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Benson Part 1 | How Manipulators Find Your Weaknesses & Vulnerabilities

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2023 17:01


    Let's talk about word salad & data mining within a seemingly "harmless" email. Emotional manipulation & Abuse can be really subtle. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    FIRING Christians? The DIFFERENCE Between 'Members' & 'Non-Members' Of A Church

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2023 15:49


    Lessons From A Predatory Church Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Uche Part 2 | 5 Reasons Why I STAYED At My ABUSIVE Church

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2023 19:31


    "Uche, why don't you just leave?" :) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How they turn your friends against you, with only ONE conversation

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2023 28:12


    Shunning and isolation after spiritual abuse is TEXTBOOK toxic church behavior. While a normal person would try to resolve conflict, manipulators are poisoning every potential support system someone has. Smear-campaign 101. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    TOXIC PEOPLE : 3 Ways They Use "FORGIVENESS" to Manipulate You

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2023 14:19


    Not everyone who reminds you to "just forgive", has your best interest in mind. Here's 3 ways manipulators will use "forgiveness" to gaslight and blame-shift. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Difference Between Church Hurt And Spiritual Abuse...AND Why It Matters

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2022 13:06


    In this episode Uche breaks down the concepts of spiritual abuse and church hurt. For some reason they are topics that are completely avoided in MANY churches, but the reality and trauma associated with being betrayed by a religious institution or people within a spiritual community is, DEVASTATING. This needs to be talked about...so lets get into it, yuh. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Fighting the Buzzwords of Spiritual ABUSE & Emotional Blackmail

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2022 11:40


    There's only one way. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    What Gaslighting FEELS Like & WHY It Works!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2022 14:49


    Uche talks about exactly what the title says... See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dress Like A Christian WITHOUT Shaming Your BODY

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2022 17:54


    What is Modesty? & 3 EASY WAYS To "Dress Like A Christian" See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    STORYTIME: Chased-down, Baited, and Banned By Church Security...After Exposing Abuse

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2022 67:56


    This is what happens at Toxic/Predatory Institutions.BEWARE of: Watermark Community Church Dallas, Onward Community Church, CityBridge Community Church & Kanakuk Kamps  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    GUILT-TRIPS, SHAME, & BLAME-SHIFTING: How Churches Weaponize Reconciliation| Lessons from the Predatory Church

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2022 18:05


    In this episode, Uche shows you how to recognize the difference between TRUE reconciliation and TOXIC manipulation.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Spiritual Abuse: How To Heal WITHOUT Closure & Why Boundaries are EVERTHING | My Sister Said Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2022 27:43


    Recovery from spiritual abuse and religious trauma is hard, but doing it without closure seems nearly impossible!In this episode Uche talks about the ACTION-STEPS that helped her recovery process. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    The ONE Thing That FAST TRACKED Healing From Spiritual ABUSE & What HEALING From Spiritual Abuse Looks Like!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 29:39


    Uche reveals how and WHY answering three questions while listening to the Narcissist Apocalypse Podcast was a GAME CHANGER!   2021 Ep.Cassandra-Nov 14NXIVM- Oct 21Roman-Dec 12Shilo- Jul 11 See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Unlearning A ”Conservative Christian” LIE: Countercultural ≠ Christ-Like

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2021 21:41


    Pastors STOKE Division By Making "The Culture" A BOOGEYMAN. It Needs to Stop.

    LFPC | 6 Ways For Black People To Guard THEIR HEARTS From Ignorant ‘Christians‘ or Racist People

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2021 23:46


    In the first episode from the Lessons From The Predatory Church Series, Uche dives into the ways for black people to guard their hearts from spiritual abuse in the form of racism and neglect. 

    Why ”Dressing Like A Christian” Is IMPOSSIBLE & SUPER Unnecessary | Modesty Myth Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2021 23:33


    "Modesty" sermons assume God HIMSELF cares about your appearance and that your Christian faith is "proved" by how you dress. In this episode Uche shows how God & Jesus's ACTUAL words and Character debunk this myth...It'll make you wonder why pastors keep teaching this stuff!

    My Sister Said Podcast Is Back With New Episodes

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 0:55


    Uche is back with new episodes and a BRAND NEW Series tackling HEALING Religious Trauma and FIGHTING spiritual abuse/religious abuse!

    Coping With Depression...Hey Girl, Can I Pray For You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 10:16


    Uche prays for women dealing with the darkness of depression.

    Loss Of A Loved One (I am soo sorry!)…Hey Girl, Can I Pray For You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 6:54


    Uche prays for women coping with the death of a loved one.

    Struggling or Discouraged with Singleness?... Hey Girl, Can I Pray For You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 7:19


    Uche prays for women discontent with singleness.

    Job loss or Unemployment Stress/Discouragement?... Hey Girl, Can I Pray For You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 6:36


    Uche prays for women experiencing the burden of job loss & unemployment

    Impossible Perfectionism & Legalism?... Hey Girl, Can I Pray For You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 7:28


    Uche prays for women overwhelmed with striving to be and look perfect.  

    ADHD Challenges & Disappointment?... Hey Girl, Can I Pray For You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 7:28


    Uche prays for women struggling with ADHD and its life altering symptoms...she knows them ALL too well.  

    Good Morning!... Hey Girl, Can I Pray For You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 2:56


    Uche says a short prayer to bless your morning!  

    Overwhelmed & Anxious?... Hey Girl, Can I Pray For You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 6:31


    Uche prays for you: If you're a women, dealing with anxiety.

    Why Your Body Is NEVER A Stumbling Block...Are Foot Fetishes In The Bible? Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2021 15:52


    In this episode Uche starts unraveling the MYTH, that nakedness is a sin and our bodies are stumbling block. A look at God's character and simple biblical truth will help Christians (ladies especially), unlearn the anxiety of false MODESTY. 

    Faith, Fear, and Anti-Depressy Meds: 6 Things I WISH I Knew BEFORE Taking Anti-Depressants

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2021 19:06


    In this episode Uche talks about her fears and misconceptions about taking anti-depression medication. She also reveals why she had to be diagnosed with depression TWICE! 

    STOP Seeing Your Body As A "Stumbling Block"... MYTH: "Nakedness is a sin"--Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2021 19:33


    Uche said, what she said...and the bible backs it up. Let me know if you agree or disagree.

    When To Tell Your Christian Friends To “Shut The Hell Up” (Mark 8:31-38)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2021 10:14


    In this episode, Uche describes her “Get behind me, Satan” situations with some of her close friends. Even Jesus had to tell His friends to shut up.

    Faith Interrupted | My Friend Is Having Suicidal Thoughts...HALP!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2021 21:10


    How my best friend helped save my life...Christian Style!It's easy to forget our PURPOSE on earth, and why Christians shouldn't put their hope in this world.Depression and Mental health issues are a part of the brokenness and sin, God cares about it.

    A Tale Of TWO Disciplinary Systems At Watermark...In Case You Needed An Example Of Partiality.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2020 10:05


    When a 31 year-old black women is held to a DIFFERENT & HIGHER standard than a white Elder in their 50s-60s...it says something. On Sunday September 6th most Watermark members had no idea they were witnessing the "sin of partiality" happen in REAL-TIME. 

    Calling Out Racism & Hypocrisy Got Me Kicked Out Of Church...It's A HUGE Deal | My White Church Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2020 27:22


    I've been going through a lot with my church, which has impacted my mental health. I've posted some of my story on my YouTube channel UcheonPurpose. I'm posting that series on my Podcast now...And I'm Thankfully back to invest time in this podcast. 

    Faith Interrupted: Think Christians Are Immune To Suicidal Thoughts?...Think Again.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2020 27:12


    It's the most wonderful time of the year... for some. In this episode Uche interviews herself (yes, you read that correctly) about her misconceptions on suicidal ideation AND addresses her firsthand experience. Uche also reveals how one friend in community group was ESSENTIAL in saving her life. It's easy to forget our PURPOSE on earth, and why Christians shouldn't put their hope in this world. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (for those without Christian community)Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. Learn more800-273-8255

    Singleness Pt 4/4: Singleness Is Just A NOUN. Here's The CORRECT Way To Respond To It

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2020 15:32


    Singleness already has a definition, but there IS a correct way to respond to it. How would you describe your 'noun' of singleness? Passive, apathetic, sad?...Let's change that today!

    Singleness Pt 3: How To Return That 'Gift' of Singleness (No Receipt Needed Y'all)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2020 18:33


    THERE IS, a biblical way to deal with being discontent with singleness. You won't find any rose colored glasses here:)

    Singleness Pt 2: Why You Should NEVER Feel Guilty About Wanting Marriage Or A Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2020 21:15


    Its time to expose a myth about Christian singleness, and discuss what "gift" Paul is actually talking about in 1 Corinthians 7.  

    Singleness Pt 1: The Truth About That "Gift" of Singleness

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2020 16:02


    For years I've read books and heard sermons that say "singleness is a gift" and steward "the gift of singleness".  All the while, my singleness never felt like a gift. SPOILERS! When I read God's word and understood the biblical definition of a "gift from God"... singleness or being unmarried don't quite meet that criteria.

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