The Grand Scheme of Things

Link to highest income by ethnic group: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_ethnic_groups_in_the_United_States_by_household_income

Apparently this past weekend, some guests at a restaurant in Dallas, TX were behaving in a way that the owner didn't approve of. The owner is caught on camera telling patrons that he doesn't approve of their actions, and that if they didn't like his rules they could “get the f*** out of his restaurant” because he doesn't need their business. In this weeks Twitter Talk, we discuss our thoughts on the matter. Let us know what y'all think @tgsotpod on Twitter.Link to video: https://twitter.com/djgreenvillain/status/1333255578152525827?s=21

Do you know what a personal brand is? Have you taken specific steps to create on for yourself? Whether you answered yes or no to those initial questions, this episode will be important for you to tune in to. Bruce and Deja talk about their personal brands (in the context of both professional and personal lives), and why they're important. Let us know what's key about YOUR personal brand on Twitter @tgsotpod :)

Andddddddd that's a wrap (for season one)!!! In this week's season finale episode, Bruce and Deja go on a quick trip down memory lane. They talk about their favorite and least favorite episodes of the season, as well as the many challenges they have faced throughout the season. They wrap up the episode by discussing some things they want to improve on for season two. Wondering when the two will be back?? Fear not... season two will premiere on November 2nd! See y'all soon

Remember wayyyy back in Episode 8 when Deja and Bruce talked about their theoretical thoughts on shacking up? (If not, go back and listen lol). Well they're back to discuss it again, but this time more realistically! Like many couples, the two were granted the opportunity to live together about six months ago (because of remote work and online school). In this episode, they discuss their experience going from long distance to living together (in quarantine). They reflect on their learnings and challenges, as well. •••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @dejatheexplorer & @brucerantsTikTok - @brucerants

Do you tip every time you go out? Even if the service is bad? Do you even know the history of tipping? (spoiler alert: it's pretty racist). In this episode, Bruce and Deja discuss the history or tipping and our modern-day experiences with it. We touch on whether people should feel entitled to tip, as well as our go to tipping percentages. Let us know on Twitter if you feel obligated to tip every time you go out, and what your go-to tipping percentages are!•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @dejatheexplorer & @brucerantsTikTok - @brucerants

ROAD TRIPPPPPP!! 37 hours and 9 states, Deja and Bruce officially made it from California to Georgia!! Come vibe with them on this week's random episode as hear they talk about their trip. They talk about Joshua Trees, crossing the border into Mexico, and the infamous (and awful) Travel Inn (10/10 do NOT recommend this motel in Tucson, AZ). They also discuss their favorite and least favorite parts of the trip. Spoiler: This was a fun episode for the couple, and there's a lot of laughing hahaha.•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @dejatheexplorer & @brucerantsTikTok - @brucerants

We here, y'all - on time and everything.... PERIODT!! This week Bruce and Deja discuss the concept of good leadership. The two talk about good leaders that they have had and the difference between two common types of leadership. They also discuss good traits of a leader, and how they envision themselves as leaders. Let us know what you all think!"•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @dejatheexplorer & @brucerantsTikTok - @brucerants"

Hey y'all! It's been a minute, we know. But here we are with an episode on deleting social media!! Both Bruce and Deja deleted their major social media apps (IG, Twitter, and Facebook) a couple weeks ago. In this episode, they discuss why they deleted their social media, how deleting the apps has affected them, and how their perceptions of deleting social media have changed. They also talk about what they've been doing with their time without social media, and plans for returning. Please be sure to TAKE CARE of your mental health however necessary!! Also, happy anniversary to the couple — one year down

Content creation has been very difficult for us in the past months. In this week's episode, Deja and Bruce discuss their challenges creating content during the multiple crises we face in the world right now. Are content creators expected to make statements on the racial injustices that are happening? Should travel content creators post during a global pandemic? What happens when quarantine causes writers' block? Should content unrelated to the crises be released? Tell us your thoughts. #blacklivesmatter

Sorry about missing a week, but we're back! Get to know a little bit more about us during this episode :)•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @dejatheexplorer & @brucerantsTikTok - @brucerants

Contrary to last week's episode where we discussed the viral tweet that is guilting people into doing a bunch of things during quarantine, this week Deja and Bruce discuss the concept of rest. What does rest mean to you? How do you know it's time to rest? What do you do to rest - physically, mentally, and spiritually? With everyone (hopefully) staying at home, now is the time to really reflect on those questions. Because when outside opens back up and we can get back (or as close as possible) to normal, knowing when to rest is going to be crucial to your personal success.•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @dejatheexplorer & @brucerantsTikTok - @brucerants

Viral tweet: "If you don't come out of quarantine with x y z: you never lacked time, you lacked discipline." In this week's episode, Bruce and Deja give their hot take on why they believe this tweet is kinda... trash! Did you agree with this statement? Do you believe people *need* to be doing something productive during quarantine? Let us know!Link: https://twitter.com/tgsotpod/status/1250023214094462978•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @dejatheexplorer & @brucerantsTikTok - @brucerants

New intro, what y'all think?

Are you staying productive at home? With stay at home orders in place in many cities across the country (and world), many of us have transitioned to working from home. The shift from in-office work to at-home work has been discussed by (and even pleaded for) many on social media, but it is not nearly as easy as people make it seem. Listen in to this episode as Bruce and Deja discuss the effects environment has on productivity, the challenges working in a new environment brings, and how they monitor their own productivity. Lastly (and most importantly), hear some tips on how to stay productive in a different environment than your usual one (ie: at home). Stay safe out there, people!•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @dejatheexplorer & @brucerantsTikTok - @brucerants

With all of the craziness going on around the world right now, people are likely processing a variety of thoughts and emotions. In this week's episode, Deja and Bruce discuss the power of optimism (and positivity)! They both agree that there is power in words and that we should be mindful of the things we speak into existence, especially in times of crisis. They examine Bruce's theory on faith and the power of the mind, as well as the placebo effect. Additionally, they compare and contrast optimism, pessimism, and realism. Tune in for a great episode about optimism - everyone can use some positivity this week! Special shout-out to all the healthcare professionals and essential workers that are providing services amid this pandemic, you are all very, very appreciated!•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @dejatheexplorer & @brucerantsTikTok - @brucerants

What does it mean to outgrow a friendship? What are the signs of outgrowing friendships? Should you feel guilty for outgrowing a friendship? Questions that are all too common for young people in transitioning phases of their lives (high school to college, college to corporate, etc). This week, Bruce and Deja tackle all of the above (and more). They even open up about friendships they think they've outgrown, and whether or not it was a good or bad thing. •••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @brucerants & @dejatheexplorerTikTok - @brucerants

20 episodes in!!! WOW - who would've thought? HUGE thank you to everyone that has been with us along this podcast journey, and hello to anyone who is just joining us! In this week's episode, Deja and Bruce complete a podcast retrospective. They discuss a number of different statistics on podcasting in general (including whether iHeartRadio is really the #1 podcasting app). They also open up about some of their podcasting challenges/experiences, and provide their pieces of advice for anyone thinking about doing a podcast. Cheers to 20 more episodes!

Viral Tweet: Woman gifts her boyfriend a rental property and he replies: "I wanted like a rolex or like a chain or something..." In this week's Twitter Talk, Bruce and Dejagive their thoughts on that tweet, analyzing from multiple angles. What did you think about the situation? Let us know!Link: https://twitter.com/dnnytf/status/1231649951144345605•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @brucerants & @dejatheexplorerTikTok - @brucerants

Deja felt it was important to know Bruce's love languages so she could plan how to love/appreciate him appropriately. Bruce said she's wasting her damn time. Are love languages an important part of any relationship? Is knowing your partner's dominant language imperative to relationship health? Listen in as Deja and Bruce discuss their love languages, and why they think you should or shouldn't focus exclusively on love languages when looking for (or keeping) a partner.Link: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @brucerants & @dejatheexplorerTikTok - @brucerants

It's almost Valentine's Day!! As opposed to focusing primarily on how we celebrate the holiday today, Deja and Bruce start by discussing the holiday origin(s), which dates all the way back to the 3rd century. As the holiday evolves, the way people celebrate (and the amount of money they spend) evolves as well, which makes for interesting conversations. The two even share some of their best and worst Valentine's Day experiences, including being broken up with just days before the holiday. Tune in to hear all this and more!•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @brucerants & @dejatheexplorerTikTok - @brucerants

This week, Bruce and Deja continue their conversation on the importance of diversity. Bruce pitches his PNP (Priveleged to Non-Priveleged) Agreement, which sparks conversations about what it truly means to 'affect' a group. Questions also arise regarding why some environments foster inclusion while others don't. Listen to find out if the two come to an agreement, or if they should just agree to disagree.•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @brucerants & @dejatheexplorerTikTok - @brucerants

Things get a little intense on this episode where Deja and Bruce express their thoughts on diversity and inclusion. While they both agree on the importance of inclusion, disagreements arise when discussing whose responsibility it is to ensure inclusion in differing environments. The two also question whether people actually want true diversity, or if they just want more people of their specific demographic to be represented. Look out for part two, it's coming next week!•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @brucerants & @dejatheexplorerTikTok - @brucerants

Do you find people outside of your relationship attractive? Is it ‘normal'/OK to have a crush outside of your relationship? Will you admit your celebrity crushes (or crushes on regular people) to your significant other? Is expressing public admiration for a celebrity disrespectful to your partner? Is there a difference between someone who is seemingly unattainable (celebrity) vs someone who is attainable (regular person)? Tune in to hear Bruce and Deja tackle the above questions, and many more. Shoutout to Ndeye for today's podcast topic!!•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @brucerants & @dejatheexplorerTikTok - @brucerants

INTRO MUSICCCCCCCCC!! (took us forever but we finally got it so let us know what y'all think!) This week Deja and Bruce discuss posting your Signifcant Others on Social Media. Originally, Bruce believed there was a positive correlation between post frequency and insecurity in your relationship (as in: the more you post your SO, the more insecure you are). Tune in to hear what the two have to say on the topic (including when to post first post your SO, and feeling obligated to post them). Also, see if Bruce's mind has changed!•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube - BruceRantsIG - @brucerants & @dejatheexplorerTikTok - @brucerants

Happy New Year! Tune in to hear how Bruce and Deja celebrated the new year — from Deja's sequin jumpsuit to Bruce carrying her home. Also, hear pivitol moments of the decade from them both, and their 2020 plans, projections, and points of focus. (P.S. Sorry for going MIA the last couple weeks, we're back and better and ready to put out

Bruce and Deja both have experience as mentors, and Deja has experience being a coach. They both enjoy mentoring heavily and plan on integrating mentorship in everything they do. Listen in as the two open up about good/bad mentoring experiences they've had and challenges when coaching. They also discuss what they think makes a mentor or coach 'good'.•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube- BruceRantsIG - @brucerants & @dejatheexplorerTikTok - @brucerants

The term 'shacking up' is commonly associated with very negative connotations. Both Deja and Bruce's parents have either implicitly or explicitly forbid them from living with a partner before marriage, but is it really that bad???? Tune in to learn what shacking up is and hear our thoughts on shacking up (with a purpose).•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube- BruceRantsIG - @brucerants & @dejatheexplorerTikTok - @brucerants

Bruce: "Isn't cornbread a dessert?" Deja: "LOL what the heckkkkkk???? No, it's not a dessert!!"Tune in to this episode to hear some fun facts and intellectual discourse regarding the beloved November holiday, and learn all about the "first" Thanksgiving. (P.S. The title is a clever double entendre, let me know if you peep.)•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube- BruceRantsIG - @brucerantsTikTok - @brucerants

Deja told Bruce he was favorably attracted to light skinned women, and Bruce (claiming he was not, in fact, more attracted to light skinned women) became incredibly defensive! Listen in as the two discuss the history of colorism and it's prevalence today; and hear their take on whether or not it's “ok” to have colorist preferences.•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube- BruceRantsIG - @brucerantsTikTok - @brucerants

The 1st installment of TGSO[Random]T — where instead of giving you guys a directed topic, we just... talk! Today, we discuss nervousness about meeting SOs family and if it's even possible to have a small wedding. Major shoutout to Simon & Araba on getting married this weekend!! #itsanOFOSUthing•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube- BruceRantsIG - @brucerants

Have you ever told someone something and they a) brushed you off, b) blatantly ignored your statements, or c) maybe even said you were being too dramatic? (Hint hint: That's probably emotional invalidation — and many times, people don't even realize they are doing it.) In this episode, Deja and Bruce open up about some times they have felt emotionally invalidated by individuals they care about. They also discuss what it really means to be invalidated and how we can proactively avoid invalidating other people's emotions.•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube- BruceRantsIG - @brucerants

Historically Black Colleges and Universities. period. Listen in as Bruce and Deja discuss a sometimes very controversial topic in the Black community (especially on Black Twitter) — HBCUs. This is NOT a debate on PWIs vs. HBCUs (because that is old, divisive, and pointless). Instead, this is a discussion about our experiences, *objective* pros and cons, and why WE think people should or shouldn't attend them.•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube- BruceRantsIG - @brucerants

Deja sent Bruce a Facebook post that read: “When a woman is treated right, submission comes naturally,” Bruce said he agrees. Tune in to this episode to hear our take on submission in romantic relationships. You might even see what submission looks like in our relationship — and who the submissive is

Bruce and Deja took a road trip from Indiana to California. People thought they were crazy! They got some pretty negative responses from coworkers/family/friends/etc when they mentioned the plans and even heard some horror stories about completing long road trips with your Significant Other. Obviously, THEY SURVIVED! Listen to this episode to learn about their experience and hear some tips/tricks to surviving an intermediate to long road trip.•••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesYouTube- BruceRantsIG - @brucerants & @lifeofsparkles

Deja and Bruce had a ‘massive' disagreement over their first date and decided they needed an agreement on what their first actually was. Is there a concise, agreeable definition of a date and does it have a place in our modern and future society? While you're listening, tweet us your thoughts #tgsot •••Be sure to follow/subscribe to us:Twitter - @tgsotpod (use #tgsot to tell us your thoughts!) & @lifeofsparklesIG - @brucerants & @lifeofsparklesYouTube- BruceRants