The Original Hardcore Self-Improvement Community

I'm a successful entrepreneur (many times over). Take your first year expectations and cut them into 1/3. Have realistic 1 year expectations so you don't underachieve and quit. This insight might be the most important one you ever hear if you are an aspiring entrepreneur (or plan to be someone in life). http:://www.gll-getalife.com

How I have evaluated my relationships since age 25 - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/friendship-defined-true-friends-vs-fake-friends

Short stories: 1) Chris is not listening to girl take a shit (just looks that way) 2) Girl tries to pee on me while I'm having sex 3) Beach week girl never flushes the toilet 4) Girl takes a 10lb dinosaur shit a Nevada highway http://www.goodlookingloser.com Good Looking Loser - Self-Improvement For Douchebags

GLL Short Random Video. I had to get naked for TSA. I think I'm on a watchlist. correction: I bought the burka last year http://www.goodlookingloser.com

Random Video - My biggest weakness, how I cheated on tests (probably 100x in high school, 50x in college) and some other random stuff http://www.gll-getalife.com

Here's the Post & Click 'Show More' for table of contents http://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-t... 2:00 Approach Anxiety Doesn't Exist (Introduction) 4:00 Can Everyone Beat Approach Anxiety? Who is Successful? 8:00 Beat Approach Anxiety by Simply Having Some Self-Respect 16:50 Beat Approach Anxiety by Actually Wanting to Get Laid (Scotty) 21:04 Try Your Best to Forget About AA and Just Get Laid 26:46 Don't Try to Be Smooth 31:13 Try to Stop Caring About "Feeling Social" 36:15 Social Freedom is Earned (Be Proud of Yourself) 38:50 Conclusion (Have Some Self-Respect and Be a MAN)

Some guys can do nothing but chase pussy and party and not feel guilty. That wasn't me and that's not you either. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/confidence/how-to-stop-feeling-guilty-for-prioritizing-your-sex-life-when-you-think-you-should-be-doing-other-things

http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-paid/entry/how-to-make-money-online-podcast-1

It's time to stop worrying about what your self-esteem is or isn't yet. It doesn't really matter. You can be plenty (if not more) successful if you have low self-esteem. Self-esteem will come. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/my-advice-for-guys-with-low-self-esteem

Guys who haven't been Getting Laid know that they need to "lower their standards" and get more action/experience, but just it's not that easy. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/picking-up-women/how-to-lower-your-standards-and-keep-your-dignity-and-boner

Good Looking Loser and Hunk discuss how to Get Laid in college if you are an 'outsider' who isn't part of the major social scene.

How to Get What You Want (Most Of The Time) http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/how-to-get-what-you-want-most-of-the-time

"How to Pick Up Girls Efficient (If You Don't Have the Time/Desire To Hit On Lots Of Girls" http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/picking-up-women/how-to-pick-up-girls-efficiently Good Looking Loser - Self-Improvement For Douchebags

Prioritize Getting Laid for a little while so you don't sweat women/sex ever again. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/picking-up-women/getting-laid-how-it-should-actually-fit-into-your-20s Good Looking Loser - Self-Improvement For Douchebags

The key to being productive is to stay productive and quickly refocus when you get distracted - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/success-principle-12-the-real-golden-rule-how-to-be-productive "I Must Do the Most Productive Thing At Every Given Moment"

#11 from Good Looking Loser's Success Principles - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/success-principle-11-have-accessible-role-models-and-follow-these-rules 00:00 Why Mentors are better (Part I) 26:00 How to actually find Mentor (Part II)

Chris discusses why trusting your instinct is a good mentality to live by. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/confidence/dont-be-reactive

Failure won't eat you up inside, but not trying will. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/not-trying-will-be-your-biggest-regret

"Everything in Moderation" is a favorite saying of underachievers. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/nothing-in-moderation

http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/be-a-lawyer I went to Law School for about 10 days (stayed in San Diego for a good 4 months after) and I actually learned something helpful.

Good Looking Loser's Non-Mainstream-ish spin on "Taking Action", the secret to the university.

Most blame a lack of work ethic, opportunity or talent for underachievement. The real reason is far more pathetic. For age 20 and 30-something men, 21st century mediocrity isn't particularly uncomfortable. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/the-comfortable-life-of-the-undersexed-male Good Looking Loser - Self-Improvement For Douchebags

From 2002-2006, I spent almost every Saturday Night alone, by myself, in my apartment, wondering where I went wrong and if better days really to come, blog post -- http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/remembering-those-lonely-saturday-nights-when-i-was-by-myself-comfortable-depression "Lonely Saturday Nights" (Me, Myself and Reality Living in a One-Bedroom Apartment)

My bi-weekly ritual to make sure I have somewhat of a decent life. Blog post - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/success-principle-9-take-good-looking-loser-s-life-or-death-test

Insecurity is the best motivation when you are trying to change your life. Use it to your advantage. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/success-principle-10-mr-insecurity-is-your-best-friend

Here's 2 socially acceptable ways to ask/suggest sex that emotionally healthy girls will respond well to. 4:10 and 7:25 Common sense, but seldom used by guys that look for dating/sex advice. Applies to online dating too, at a lower success rate since most girls online are looking for boyfriends. http://www.goodlookingloser.com

Unlike some goals, beating approach anxiety is doable and you know it. Not accomplishing this "doable" major goal in your 20's can be very deflating. It may just effect how you see yourself for the rest of your life. I used to think it was an exaggeration but now believe otherwise. http://www.goodlookingloser.com

Your pride and moral victories will help you beat Approach Anxiety. Approach Anxiety is not a choice but approaching always is. http://www.goodlookingloser.com

The Most Important Concept On GLL - DON'T TRY TO BE SMOOTH by Good Looking Loser

How To Talk To Girls - Make Statements Instead Of Asking Questions (CEO -Frame - -Mindset) by Good Looking Loser

Your Insecurities Everyone Else's Normal (You Aren't a Big Mess) by Good Looking Loser

How To Know If You Are Successful With Women by Good Looking Loser

Good Looking Loser discusses the ONLY THING THAT REALLY MATTERS to have a successful business. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-paid/entry/the-only-thing-that-really-matters-to-have-a-successful-business-and-6-things-that-dont-as-much

The flip-side of Sexual Availability. Are You Really In?

Chris Lenahan talks about how he and Kratom fixed his shit.

How To Still Pickup Girls If You Are Nervous (Comprehensive Nervous Guy Game Discussion) by Good Looking Loser

Why Texting Girls Is Worthless And What You Should Be Doing Instead by Good Looking Loser

What To Say If Girls Or People Are Mean To You by Good Looking Loser

Chris discusses 'Swag Factor' (coolness) and how your social status/skills impact your success with women. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/swag-factor-explained/

Chris discusses 'Swag Factor' (coolness) and how your social status/skills impact your success with women. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/swag-factor-explained/

Chris discusses 'Swag Factor' (coolness) and how your social status/skills impact your success with women. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/swag-factor-explained/

Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2

Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2

Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2

Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2

Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2

Good Looking Loser talking to Brian (bendenherover) about his major success in 2014. 0:00 Welcome 'bendenherover' aka Brian (not Scotty) 2:00 What was he like just one year ago? 3:25 Bendenherover weighed just 120 lbs a year ago (5-10 height) 5:25 How did he get started on fixing his shit? 7:20 Kratom was huge for anxiety and well-being for him. 11:35 Why people do the work and give Chris the credit. (Thanks guys!) 12:20 When did he start getting laid? 14:45 One significant thing he learned - Good Looking Loser Killer Instinct Move 16:00 Major goal/accomplish - being able to move to a new city and make friends/Get Laid 20:45 His experience with 'New Guy Game' and making friends right away 23:55 Bendenherover's thoughts and experience with Scotty and getting permission to claim pussy. 28:40 Bendenherover talks college and plans to join a fraternity as a Junior.

I hardly ever recommend any self-improvement books. They are too long and you will only remember, at best, 10% of what you read. You will apply even less. Read these instead - http://www.amazon.com/mn/search/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&field-keywords=tom%20butler%20bowden&linkCode=ur2&tag=lifestyle0bc-20&url=search-alias%3Daps&linkId=MP2G66J465IKFGED Here is my full post on this subject - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/the-best-self-improvement-books-youve-never-heard-of

How Bodybuilders Suck With Women, Why They Shouldn't and How To Fix It - http://www.goodlookingloser.com/tags/tag/lonesome-bodybuilder-series Table of Contents 0:00 Make 2015 your year - this resource might be a helpful start. 2:50 Who is the 'Lonesome Bodybuilder'? 6:40 Gym life kept away from depression but kept me in denial. 8:40 Get a good body and move on 10:40 How I escaped 'Lift, Eat, Sleep' 11:15 Terrible knee injury in 2006 in insane football game 15:05 Hair loss caused by steroids 17:00 If you trying to Get Laid, women prefer an "athletic" or "toned" bodies. (read number #18) 20:40 I thought I should be getting a lot of pussy. (Sense of Entitlement) 23:25 Admitting I couldn't talk to hot girls that I didn't know. 24:30 Found the PUA Community which gave me hope.

http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/be-a-hypocrite-not-a-follower

http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/work-smarter-not-harder