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Good Looking Loser - the Original 'Hardcore' Self-Improvement Community. The community includes in-depth discussion on how to get laid, beat anxiety/depression, get ripped in the gym, get rich (from online business) and a "Nothing in Moderation" approach

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    • Dec 5, 2016 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 36m AVG DURATION
    • 65 EPISODES


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    My #1 Tip For Aspiring Entrepreneurs (The Reason That Everyone Else Quits)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2016 47:19


    I'm a successful entrepreneur (many times over). Take your first year expectations and cut them into 1/3. Have realistic 1 year expectations so you don't underachieve and quit. This insight might be the most important one you ever hear if you are an aspiring entrepreneur (or plan to be someone in life). http:://www.gll-getalife.com

    Who Are Your True Friends In Life- (Good News - Friendship Standard)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2016 14:56


    How I have evaluated my relationships since age 25 - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/friendship-defined-true-friends-vs-fake-friends

    4 Female Piss & Shit Stories (Short Stories From My Life)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2016 15:25


    Short stories: 1) Chris is not listening to girl take a shit (just looks that way) 2) Girl tries to pee on me while I'm having sex 3) Beach week girl never flushes the toilet 4) Girl takes a 10lb dinosaur shit a Nevada highway http://www.goodlookingloser.com Good Looking Loser - Self-Improvement For Douchebags

    TSA Made Me Strip Naked For Them (Airport Security Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2016 15:15


    GLL Short Random Video. I had to get naked for TSA. I think I'm on a watchlist. correction: I bought the burka last year http://www.goodlookingloser.com

    My Most Embarrassing Weakness (&Cheating On Tests & Childhood Stories) [Random Video]

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2016 41:37


    Random Video - My biggest weakness, how I cheated on tests (probably 100x in high school, 50x in college) and some other random stuff http://www.gll-getalife.com

    How To Beat Approach Anxiety By Being A Man (My Final Thoughts On Approach Anxiety)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2016 42:08


    Here's the Post & Click 'Show More' for table of contents http://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-t... 2:00 Approach Anxiety Doesn't Exist (Introduction) 4:00 Can Everyone Beat Approach Anxiety? Who is Successful? 8:00 Beat Approach Anxiety by Simply Having Some Self-Respect 16:50 Beat Approach Anxiety by Actually Wanting to Get Laid (Scotty) 21:04 Try Your Best to Forget About AA and Just Get Laid 26:46 Don't Try to Be Smooth 31:13 Try to Stop Caring About "Feeling Social" 36:15 Social Freedom is Earned (Be Proud of Yourself) 38:50 Conclusion (Have Some Self-Respect and Be a MAN)

    How To Stop Feeling Guilty For Wanting To Chase Pussy (Lifestyle Guilt)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2016 64:31


    Some guys can do nothing but chase pussy and party and not feel guilty. That wasn't me and that's not you either. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/confidence/how-to-stop-feeling-guilty-for-prioritizing-your-sex-life-when-you-think-you-should-be-doing-other-things

    How To Make Money Online FAQ (December 2015)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2015 132:54


    http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-paid/entry/how-to-make-money-online-podcast-1

    My Advice To Guys With Low Self - Esteem

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2015 14:31


    It's time to stop worrying about what your self-esteem is or isn't yet. It doesn't really matter. You can be plenty (if not more) successful if you have low self-esteem. Self-esteem will come. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/my-advice-for-guys-with-low-self-esteem

    How To Lower Your Standards And Keep Your Dignity

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2015 46:22


    Guys who haven't been Getting Laid know that they need to "lower their standards" and get more action/experience, but just it's not that easy. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/picking-up-women/how-to-lower-your-standards-and-keep-your-dignity-and-boner

    How to Get Laid In College (If You Aren't Part of the Establishment) Podcast w/ Hunk

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2015 45:50


    Good Looking Loser and Hunk discuss how to Get Laid in college if you are an 'outsider' who isn't part of the major social scene.

    How To Get What You Want (Everything Happens For A Reason And It's All Your Fault)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2015 27:40


    How to Get What You Want (Most Of The Time) http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/how-to-get-what-you-want-most-of-the-time

    How To Pick Up Girls Efficiently (If You Don't Want To Hit On Lots Of Chicks)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2015 28:14


    "How to Pick Up Girls Efficient (If You Don't Have the Time/Desire To Hit On Lots Of Girls" http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/picking-up-women/how-to-pick-up-girls-efficiently Good Looking Loser - Self-Improvement For Douchebags

    How Getting Laid Should Actually Fit Into Your 20's (Prioritizing Women So You Don't Have To)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2015 29:50


    Prioritize Getting Laid for a little while so you don't sweat women/sex ever again. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/picking-up-women/getting-laid-how-it-should-actually-fit-into-your-20s Good Looking Loser - Self-Improvement For Douchebags

    The Key to Being Productive is STAYING Productive -The Golden Rule (Success Principle #12)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2015 16:06


    The key to being productive is to stay productive and quickly refocus when you get distracted - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/success-principle-12-the-real-golden-rule-how-to-be-productive "I Must Do the Most Productive Thing At Every Given Moment"

    Role Models Are Good But Accessible Mentors Can Change Your Life (Success Principle #11)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2015 47:09


    #11 from Good Looking Loser's Success Principles - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/success-principle-11-have-accessible-role-models-and-follow-these-rules 00:00 Why Mentors are better (Part I) 26:00 How to actually find Mentor (Part II)

    Do What You Want - The Mentality To Live By - It's The Correct Decision 100% Of The Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2015 32:28


    Chris discusses why trusting your instinct is a good mentality to live by. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/confidence/dont-be-reactive

    Success Principle #8 - Not Trying Will Be Your Biggest Regret

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2015 28:41


    Failure won't eat you up inside, but not trying will. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/not-trying-will-be-your-biggest-regret

    Success Principle #7 - Nothing In Moderation

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2015 23:26


    "Everything in Moderation" is a favorite saying of underachievers. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/nothing-in-moderation

    Success Principle #6 - Be A Winner, Not A Perfectionist (What I Learned In 10 Days of Law School)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2015 25:19


    http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/be-a-lawyer I went to Law School for about 10 days (stayed in San Diego for a good 4 months after) and I actually learned something helpful.

    Success Principle #1 - Secret To The Universe (Take Action)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2015 21:34


    Good Looking Loser's Non-Mainstream-ish spin on "Taking Action", the secret to the university.

    The Comfortable Mediocre Life Of The Undersexed Male (Why Most Guys Won't Get Much Action)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2015 16:53


    Most blame a lack of work ethic, opportunity or talent for underachievement. The real reason is far more pathetic. For age 20 and 30-something men, 21st century mediocrity isn't particularly uncomfortable. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/the-comfortable-life-of-the-undersexed-male Good Looking Loser - Self-Improvement For Douchebags

    Lonely Saturday Nights - The Hardest Nights Of My Life (Comfortable Depression)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2015 40:48


    From 2002-2006, I spent almost every Saturday Night alone, by myself, in my apartment, wondering where I went wrong and if better days really to come, blog post -- http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/remembering-those-lonely-saturday-nights-when-i-was-by-myself-comfortable-depression "Lonely Saturday Nights" (Me, Myself and Reality Living in a One-Bedroom Apartment)

    Life Or Death Test (Good Looking Loser Success Principle #9)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2015 10:03


    My bi-weekly ritual to make sure I have somewhat of a decent life. Blog post - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/success-principle-9-take-good-looking-loser-s-life-or-death-test

    Insecurity Is Your Bestest Friend (Good Looking Loser Success Principle #10)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2015 10:54


    Insecurity is the best motivation when you are trying to change your life. Use it to your advantage. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/success-principle-10-mr-insecurity-is-your-best-friend

    How To Ask A Girl To Sleep With You (Socially Acceptable)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2015 17:58


    Here's 2 socially acceptable ways to ask/suggest sex that emotionally healthy girls will respond well to. 4:10 and 7:25 Common sense, but seldom used by guys that look for dating/sex advice. Applies to online dating too, at a lower success rate since most girls online are looking for boyfriends. http://www.goodlookingloser.com

    Can Everyone Beat Approach/Social Anxiety?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2015 22:47


    Unlike some goals, beating approach anxiety is doable and you know it. Not accomplishing this "doable" major goal in your 20's can be very deflating. It may just effect how you see yourself for the rest of your life. I used to think it was an exaggeration but now believe otherwise. http://www.goodlookingloser.com

    Is Approach Anxiety Optional? (La Résistance)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2015 37:56


    Your pride and moral victories will help you beat Approach Anxiety. Approach Anxiety is not a choice but approaching always is. http://www.goodlookingloser.com

    The Most Important Concept On GLL - DON'T TRY TO BE SMOOTH

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2015 14:16


    The Most Important Concept On GLL - DON'T TRY TO BE SMOOTH by Good Looking Loser

    How To Talk To Girls - Make Statements Instead Of Asking Questions (CEO -Frame - -Mindset)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2015 15:18


    How To Talk To Girls - Make Statements Instead Of Asking Questions (CEO -Frame - -Mindset) by Good Looking Loser

    Your Insecurities Everyone Else's Normal (You Aren't a Big Mess)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2015 15:29


    Your Insecurities Everyone Else's Normal (You Aren't a Big Mess) by Good Looking Loser

    How To Know If You Are Successful With Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2015 58:31


    How To Know If You Are Successful With Women by Good Looking Loser

    The Only Thing That Really Matters For a Business to Be Successful (and the stuff that doesn't)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2015 41:47


    Good Looking Loser discusses the ONLY THING THAT REALLY MATTERS to have a successful business. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-paid/entry/the-only-thing-that-really-matters-to-have-a-successful-business-and-6-things-that-dont-as-much

    Are You Sexually Available? (The REAL Law Attrcation)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2015 35:18


    The flip-side of Sexual Availability. Are You Really In?

    How Kratom Changed Everything (Podcast with Chris Lenahan/KingKratom)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2015 50:14


    Chris Lenahan talks about how he and Kratom fixed his shit.

    How To Still Pickup Girls If You Are Nervous (Comprehensive Nervous Guy Game Discussion)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2015 43:30


    How To Still Pickup Girls If You Are Nervous (Comprehensive Nervous Guy Game Discussion) by Good Looking Loser

    Why Texting Girls Is Worthless And What You Should Be Doing Instead

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2015 22:30


    Why Texting Girls Is Worthless And What You Should Be Doing Instead by Good Looking Loser

    What To Say If Girls Or People Are Mean To You

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2015 22:26


    What To Say If Girls Or People Are Mean To You by Good Looking Loser

    Swag Factor (Status - Coolness) 2 - 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2015 43:01


    Chris discusses 'Swag Factor' (coolness) and how your social status/skills impact your success with women. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/swag-factor-explained/

    Swag Factor (Status - Coolness) 3 - 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2015 36:01


    Chris discusses 'Swag Factor' (coolness) and how your social status/skills impact your success with women. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/swag-factor-explained/

    Swag Factor (Status - Coolness) 1 - 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2015 33:43


    Chris discusses 'Swag Factor' (coolness) and how your social status/skills impact your success with women. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/swag-factor-explained/

    Sense Of Entitlement (Advanced Confidence) 5 - 5

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2014 32:09


    Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2

    Sense Of Entitlement (Advanced Confidence) 4 - 5

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2014 28:20


    Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2

    Sense Of Entitlement (Advanced Confidence) 2 - 5

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2014 31:24


    Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2

    Sense Of Entitlement (Advanced Confidence) 3 - 5

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2014 34:05


    Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2

    Sense Of Entitlement (Advanced Confidence) 1 - 5

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2014 30:31


    Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2

    How 'Bendenherover' Fixed His Entire Life in 2014

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2014 35:04


    Good Looking Loser talking to Brian (bendenherover) about his major success in 2014. 0:00 Welcome 'bendenherover' aka Brian (not Scotty) 2:00 What was he like just one year ago? 3:25 Bendenherover weighed just 120 lbs a year ago (5-10 height) 5:25 How did he get started on fixing his shit? 7:20 Kratom was huge for anxiety and well-being for him. 11:35 Why people do the work and give Chris the credit. (Thanks guys!) 12:20 When did he start getting laid? 14:45 One significant thing he learned - Good Looking Loser Killer Instinct Move 16:00 Major goal/accomplish - being able to move to a new city and make friends/Get Laid 20:45 His experience with 'New Guy Game' and making friends right away 23:55 Bendenherover's thoughts and experience with Scotty and getting permission to claim pussy. 28:40 Bendenherover talks college and plans to join a fraternity as a Junior.

    What Books To Read If You Hate Reading Books

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2014 12:27


    I hardly ever recommend any self-improvement books. They are too long and you will only remember, at best, 10% of what you read. You will apply even less. Read these instead - http://www.amazon.com/mn/search/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&field-keywords=tom%20butler%20bowden&linkCode=ur2&tag=lifestyle0bc-20&url=search-alias%3Daps&linkId=MP2G66J465IKFGED Here is my full post on this subject - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/the-best-self-improvement-books-youve-never-heard-of

    Why Some Bodybuilders Suck With Women, Why They Shouldn't and How To Fix It

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2014 31:08


    How Bodybuilders Suck With Women, Why They Shouldn't and How To Fix It - http://www.goodlookingloser.com/tags/tag/lonesome-bodybuilder-series Table of Contents 0:00 Make 2015 your year - this resource might be a helpful start. 2:50 Who is the 'Lonesome Bodybuilder'? 6:40 Gym life kept away from depression but kept me in denial. 8:40 Get a good body and move on 10:40 How I escaped 'Lift, Eat, Sleep' 11:15 Terrible knee injury in 2006 in insane football game 15:05 Hair loss caused by steroids 17:00 If you trying to Get Laid, women prefer an "athletic" or "toned" bodies. (read number #18) 20:40 I thought I should be getting a lot of pussy. (Sense of Entitlement) 23:25 Admitting I couldn't talk to hot girls that I didn't know. 24:30 Found the PUA Community which gave me hope.

    Success Principle #4 - Be A Hypocrite Not A Follower (Lifestyle)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2014 40:55


    http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/be-a-hypocrite-not-a-follower

    Success Principle #2 - Work HARDER NOT Smarter

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2014 31:04


    http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/work-smarter-not-harder

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