Podcasts about perfectionists

Today we're joined by Jennie Monness: early childhood educator, entrepreneur, podcast host, and founder of Union Square Play and Charmspring, for a raw and refreshing conversation about modern motherhood. Jennie opens up about her journey as a recovering perfectionist: how she's learned to let go, embrace her imperfections, and offer herself the same grace she hopes to model for her kids. We dive into the importance of routines (and when to let go of them), how to navigate public meltdowns, and what it really means to parent with intention vs. not pressure.This episode is full of bite-sized wisdom: from why simply asking your child ‘why' can be a game-changer, to what she learned about socialization while parenting during COVID, to why it might be time to stop emphasizing “sharing” with toddlers. Jennie offers grounded, actionable advice that will leave every mom feeling seen, supported, and just a little more confident in doing things her way.Instagram: @wearemorethanmomsPatreon: More Than Moms Guides & Resources Join our IRL LA communitySubscribe to our NewsletterProduced by Peoples Media Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a textIf you've ever avoided a hard conversation until everything was on fire— hi, me too. No one hands us a playbook for how to speak up with courage...but over the years, I've learned that if I want to grow a business with integrity, I can't keep tiptoeing around the truth.In this episode, I'm sharing the exact mindset shift and 5-step framework I use to lead difficult conversations—whether it's with a team member, a client, or someone I love.Episode Highlights:

Have you ever received a compliment or acknowledged a success, only to immediately deflect or downplay it? Or perhaps you've accomplished something meaningful but instead of feeling proud, you start to focus on what could have been better? This tendency to minimize our strengths and dismiss our progress can be so automatic that we don't even realize we're doing it.   In this episode, I explore why we minimize ourselves and how to relate to this habit differently. What I once saw as just a bad mental habit to fix, I now understand as a protective strategy—a part of us trying to keep us safe from vulnerability, judgment, or failure. Through the lens of Internal Family Systems, embodiment, and nervous system regulation, I'll show you how this tendency serves a purpose and how we can start to shift it.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/180

Quand on doute, on a souvent le réflexe de chercher une nouvelle stratégie entrepreneuriale. Mais parfois, la seule vraie question à se poser, c'est : qu'est-ce que j'aime faire ? Dans cette Minute Marine, je rebondis sur une citation extraite du livre The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control de Katherine Morgan Schafler. Je t'explique pourquoi cette question, en apparence perso et gnangnan, peut en réalité devenir un véritable atout business. Et comment, moi, elle m'a aidée à réajuster ma stratégie de communication autour du podcast. (Pour me répondre, envoie-moi un mp sur Linkedin

Ever wonder why you can crush it at work but fall apart when it comes to your health goals? This episode exposes the sophisticated saboteur living in your head and reveals why self-sabotage intensifies right before breakthrough moments. You'll discover the five most common self-sabotage patterns, learn strategic intervention techniques that actually work, and walk away with a practical anti-sabotage action plan you can implement today.Key TakeawaysYour brain views weight loss as a survival threat, triggering emergency protocols that manifest as self-sabotage behaviors Self-sabotage follows five predictable patterns: Stress Eater, Perfectionist, Comfort Zone Guardian, Self-Worth Saboteur, and Control Paradox Strategic journaling that tracks emotions and thoughts (not just food) reveals your personal trigger patterns Environment design is more powerful than willpower for creating lasting change Self-compassion, not discipline, creates sustainable transformation Implementation intentions using "if-then" planning increase goal achievement by 300% Identity-based habits ("I am someone who nourishes their body") outperform outcome-based goalsResources Mentioned• Dr. Judson Brewer's research - Brown University studies on neurological patterns and food coping mechanisms • Dr. Kristin Neff's self-compassion research - Studies showing faster recovery and reduced repeat mistakes with self-kindness • Stanford implementation intentions research - Evidence supporting "if-then" planning effectiveness • STOP technique - Stop, Take three breaths, Observe feelings, Proceed with intentionActionable Steps for ListenersImmediate Action (Next 5 minutes): Write down your primary self-sabotage pattern from the five discussed. Physical writing activates different brain pathways than thinking.This Week: Implement one environmental change today. Move trigger foods to hard-to-reach places, put your water bottle on your nightstand, or delete food delivery apps.This Month: Start strategic journaling for seven days. Track what you ate, what you felt before eating, and what you thought about while eating.Next Three Days: When your primary trigger appears, pause for five seconds and ask: "What would someone who truly cares about themselves do right now?"Create your trigger map: Identify time-based (3 PM crashes), emotion-based (stress, boredom), location-based (kitchen counter), and people-based triggers.Design implementation intentions: Create specific "if-then" statements for your biggest triggers.Relevant Links and CitationsBrown University - Center for Mindfulness and Compassion Stanford Psychology Department - Implementation Intentions Research Self-Compassion.org - Dr. Kristin Neff's research and resources Journal of Personality and Social Psychology - Implementation intentions studies

Have you ever been so angry about something, voiced your concerns, advocated for a solution, maybe even cried over it, only to have nothing change? The situation remains the same, the person doesn't budge, and your anger lingers, leaving you stuck. What now? In this episode, I explore the exhaustion that comes when we're angry about something that won't shift.   You'll discover why anger becomes exhausting when there's no external resolution, what emotions typically hide beneath it, and how to redefine resolution as an internal process rather than an external outcome. You'll also learn practical ways to work with your anger so you can continue advocating for what matters without being undone by what you can't control.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/179

Perfectionism is one of those things that can seem like a strength on the surface, but often masks things like fear of rejection, anxiety, and a deep exhaustion from always striving. In today's episode, I'm joined by Dr. Tara Cousineau, a Harvard University clinical psychologist and author of The Perfectionist's Dilemma who has worked with high achievers for over two decades.   Tara brings both clinical expertise and personal experience to this conversation as we explore what perfectionism really is, why it shows up, and how we can begin to shift out of the cycle of never feeling enough. If you've ever felt stuck in the pressure to perform or found it hard to rest without guilt, I know this conversation will resonate with you deeply.   In this episode, you'll learn: The different types of perfectionism How to meet perfectionist parts of you with compassion instead of resistance Using IFS (Internal Family Systems) to heal perfectionism How body-based practices support healing from high expectations A simple mindset shift to soften your inner critic daily   Connect with Tara and learn more about her book, The Perfectionist's Dilemma: www.taracousineau.com www.perfectionistsdilemma.com   ——————— Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ———————  

Claire Allen joins us this week as she and Christine Goodner kick off a series about the crossroads between excellence, perfectionism, and learning music. Whether or not you identify as a perfectionist, this is a helpful topic to understand more about if we have a role supporting young musicians.  Links in this Episode Resources About Supporting Perfectionists in the Private Studio Quotes about Adaptive and Maladaptive perfectionism come from this article:  Kamushadze T, Martskvishvili K, Mestvirishvili M, Odilavadze M. Does perfectionism lead to well-being? The role of flow and personality traits. Eur J Psychol. 2021;17(2):43-57. doi:10.5964/ejop.1987 Episode 18: The Secret to Practice is Understanding Yourself with Claire Allen Request a Parent Talk, Presentation, or Book Club Discussion with Christine  Google Form to submit your practice tip for a future podcast You can email Christine here: Christine at SuzukiTriangle.com Or connect with her on Instagram Find Claire Allen on Instagram HERE and HERE Transcript  

 What happens when a rigid devotion to rules, order, and perfection replaces our ability to feel, connect, and live? In this episode, we explore two moving character studies from Fredrik Backman's novels A Man Called Ove and Britt-Marie Was Here. Through Ove and Britt-Marie—both fictional but deeply familiar—we see the beauty, heartbreak, and potential of the obsessive-compulsive personality. These stories show what can go wrong when emotional life is outsourced or buried—and what can go right when we begin to reclaim it. From tragic emotional isolation to unexpected transformation, this conversation offers insight, humor, and hope for anyone trying to loosen the grip of perfectionism. 

Welcome to Episode 124 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! For the next two months I'm going to replay some of the most popular episodes we've had over the past five years. Today I'm sharing an episode from the friendship summer series my friend Stacey Morgan and I recorded a few years ago. This is the introductory episode to the series and I highly recommend listening to all of the episodes! (Episodes 51-58). Next time I will replay another episode from that series because it is also one of my most popular episodes.  For these replay episodes, keep in mind that they were recorded a few years ago. But the advice and encouragement in them are timeless, so I hope you will be encouraged and inspired to apply it to your life and motherhood. I hope you enjoy!Pre-order my book, Two-Minute Timeouts for New Moms: 100 Devotions for Weary and Wonderful Days.*Join my book launch team.*Affiliate Link

Is your summer not feeling how you imagined? You might be self-sabotaging without realizing it.Ready to break free? The Energized Summer Challenge starts Monday - but registration closes THIS Friday, July 4th, for podcast listeners. Get details + join here → www.samanthapenkoff.com/energized-summerIn this 5-minute journaling session, I'll guide you through four specific sabotage patterns that might be stealing your summer joy: Hyper-Achiever, Perfectionist, Procrastinator, and Restless. You'll get targeted journal prompts to create awareness around these patterns - because awareness is what leads to those aha moments, simplifications, and real solutions.Whether you're traveling this holiday weekend or at home, you can either journal through these prompts or simply think through them as I guide you.What you'll discover:Which of the 4 sabotage patterns you recognize in yourselfSpecific ways these patterns show up during summerHow to start breaking free from the cycles that keep you overwhelmedPerfect for: Working moms, ambitious women, anyone feeling like summer is more stressful than restfulEnergized Summer challengeReady to break these patterns before they steal your entire summer?The Energized Summer Challenge starts Monday, July 7th - but registration closes THIS Friday, July 4th for podcast listeners.We'll go deeper than awareness into actually disrupting these sabotage patterns so you can release overwhelm and create more energy for what matters most.7 women are already inside. 5 spots left.Get all the details and join here → www.samanthapenkoff.com/energized-summerConnect With MeWebsite: www.samantha-says.comInstagram: @samantha.s.saysFree journal prompts via the Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-podLoved this episode? Please share it with a friend who needs to hear this message. Screenshot and tag me on Instagram (@samantha.s.says) - I love seeing your A-HA moments!New to Journal Entries? Welcome! Hit subscribe so you never miss a 5ish-minute session designed to help you get clarity and feel more like yourself.

Have you ever noticed a behavior or pattern that you know you should change, but you just can't seem to? Whether it's scrolling aimlessly on your phone or saying yes to commitments you don't want, that moment of recognition is where change begins. But what if that moment of awareness, even without immediate change, is more powerful than you think?   In this episode, I revisit one of the foundational concepts in behavior change: awareness precedes change. While this idea was introduced in an early episode, my understanding has evolved significantly. You'll learn practical ways to expand your awareness beyond just cognitive observation, including a simple practice you can use anytime.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/178

Do you struggle with procrastination, fear of judgement, intense self-doubt or imposter syndrome when it comes to your business? Do you ever wonder why you get in your own way even though you have so much potential? If so, this episode is for you. I'm diving into the perfectionist mindset and talking about where it comes from, how to tell if you've got it and how to move out of it. If you're ready to get out of your own way in your business, you want to join my program called Perfectionists Getting Shit Done (aka PGSD). To find out more about the program and join the waitlist today visit samlaurabrown.com/pgsd. Our next opening begins on 18 July 2025 for one week only.

Ever catch yourself rehearsing every worst-case scenario before a big meeting—then wonder why you're exhausted before it even starts? In this episode we unpack “the worrier's curse,” reveal why high-achievers are biologically and mentally wired to over-anticipate danger, and map out a simple three-step system to shift from rumination to razor-sharp presence.Key takeaways ✅ 90% of your 60k daily thoughts are both negative and recycled—here's how that fuels chronic worry. ✅ The “worry jar” exercise: capture runaway fears, then time-box them for strategic problem-solving. ✅ Train your brain to trust calm confidence (not anxiety) as the real catalyst for top-tier performance.Enroll in BFG: Want to eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking to be more effective, feel better, and create sustainable success in your demanding corporate career? Schedule a free consult here to find out how you can get started in my Breaking Free from the Grind 1:1 coaching program.Take the BFG Quiz: Want to know the biggest reason you're feeling overworked and overwhelmed at work right now, and how you can start feeling better today?Take the 3-minute BFG quiz here to find out which mindset - Overachiever, Overthinker, People Pleaser, Impostor, or Perfectionist - is preventing you from creating sustainable success at work. About AmeliaAmelia Noel is a Master Certified Coach, podcast host, corporate workshop facilitator, and creator of the Breaking Free from the Grind coaching program. After spending over a decade of her career working on Wall Street at a top investment bank and as a global strategy consultant to Fortune 100 companies, Amelia now helps professionals working demanding corporate careers eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking so they can break free from the grind and create sustainable success in their careers.Connect with Ameliawww.amelianoelcoaching.comIG: @breakingfreefromthegrindLinkedIn: Amelia NoelAsk ChatGPT

In this Q&A-style episode of Life Rewired, Kristina answers real questions from clients, DMs, and check-ins covering everything from reverse dieting to hormone health and breaking up with perfectionism. She kicks things off by addressing a common frustration: why your hormones might still be off even when you're "doing everything right." Spoiler: clean eating and workouts are only part of the picture. She dives into the role of stress, blood sugar, and sleep, then transitions into bloat, explaining how gut health issues (like low stomach acid or dysbiosis) can still show up even when your meals are nutrient-dense.Kristina then talks through how to stay consistent without falling into the perfectionist trap, reminding us that the 80/20 rule is where real results happen. She breaks down how to know if a reverse diet is right for you, what a hormone-friendly workout split looks like, and how long it actually takes to feel better. She also answers a nuanced question about healing hormones while on birth control, giving actionable tips for replenishing nutrients and supporting your body.This episode is packed with actionable takeaways for anyone navigating fatigue, plateaued progress, or the pressure to do it all perfectly. WATCH ON YOUTUBE:https://www.youtube.com/@kristinaturnure/podcastsNASH BARS:⁠⁠https://nashnutrition.co⁠⁠BUILT & BALANCED GROUP COACHING:⁠https://builtgroupcoaching.my.canva.site/⁠BUILT AND BALANCED VIP COACHING:⁠⁠⁠Https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScV_IGO2VhRV415iIsiHz6TGr76wuH-loG2eGt068pZG474qw/viewform⁠⁠BUILT & BALANCED NEWSLETTER:⁠⁠⁠https://builtandbalanced.kit.com/dd0f3197cc⁠⁠⁠EVERYDAY ATHLETE COACHING:⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeQvqk2RRjWuM7z59WZFI7KR7UkJSW7THEizsvZBWclkZQKcA/viewform⁠⁠EVERYDAY ATHLETE NEWSLETTER: ⁠⁠https://everyday-athlete.ck.page/55f3c4e52f⁠⁠LIFE REWIRED IG:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/LIFEREWIREDPODCAST/?utm_medium=copy_link⁠⁠KRIS IG:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kristinaturnure/?hl=en⁠⁠ZACH IG:⁠⁠https://instagram.com/zachturnure/?hl=en⁠⁠PTULA: DISCOUNT CODE KRISTINAT ⁠https://www.ptula.com/⁠PROMIX: DISCOUNT CODE KRISTINAKOVACSFITNESS FOR 10% OFF⁠https://promixnutrition.com/KRISTINAKOVACSFITNESS⁠

I'm so excited to have a new pal, Alana Carvalho, a licensed mental health counselor, on the show to talk about two topics we're both passionate about: codependency and perfectionism! We talk about why these two things go together, our experiences of being in recovery from both, what inspired Alana to create The Codependent Perfectionist brand, how to ease up on perfectionism and codependent behaviors, and so much more.  I hope you enjoy our conversation as much as I did! Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/731

Do you resist the label of perfectionist — or wear it like a badge of honor? Either way, this episode is going to change the way you think about perfectionism forever. Because perfectionism isn't just about straight-A report cards or color-coded closets. It shows up in your weight, your relationships, your to-do list — and most importantly, your thinking. In this episode, Dara explores the four most common types of perfectionism and how they shape your emotional habits, your body, and your experience of life:

Should Christians use the Enneagram?Do your own research please! We advise all who use the enneagram to use it as a tool to view through the lens of the Gospel. You can find arguments from all angles, so just pray about what God would ask of you when it comes to using any tool, symbol, teaching, book, etc.Moral Perfectionist/ReformerSupportive Adviser/HelperSuccessful AchieverRomantic IndividualistInvestigative ThinkerResources found atwww.myenneagramcoach.comwww.Enneagramandmarriage.comWhat the Bible says about our unique personalitiesPsalm 139:14 - Embracing Your Uniqueness"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."We are wonderfully crafted by God's hands, each with a unique design and purpose. This verse reminds us to celebrate our individuality and recognize the intricate care God has taken in creating us. Every detail about us is intentional and purposeful. Be encouraged that you are a masterpiece in God's eyes, perfectly made for His plans. [Embrace your uniqueness]with gratitude and confidence.1 Corinthians 12:4-6 - Using Your God-Given Gifts"There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work.”God has given each of us unique gifts and talents. These differences are not just by chance but by God's design to fulfill various roles in His kingdom. When we use our gifts, we reflect God's creativity and wisdom. Take heart knowing your unique abilities are valuable and essential to God's work. Use them to serve others and glorify Him.Jeremiah 1:5 - Your Unique Calling and Purpose"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations."God has known us and set us apart for His purposes even before we were born. Our uniqueness is part of His divine plan and He has specific roles for us to play in His story. Feel encouraged that you are uniquely chosen and known by God for a special purpose. Trust in His plan for your life.Ephesians 2:10 - Uniquely Made for Good Works"For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."As God's handiwork, we are designed with intentionality and purpose to do good works. This verse highlights that our creation was not random but purposeful, with good works prepared for us to accomplish. Rejoice in knowing you are created with a divine purpose to fulfill. Step confidently into the good works God has planned for you.1 Peter 4:10 - Serving Others with Your Unique Abilities"Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God's grace in its various forms."We are called to use our unique gifts to serve others, being faithful stewards of God's grace. Our individuality allows us to reach and impact people in ways others cannot. Be encouraged that your unique gifts can [make a difference in the lives of others]. Serve with joy and faithfulness.Romans 12:6 - Diversity in Gifts"We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith;"Each of us is graced with different gifts that reflect God's creative spirit. This diversity in gifts ensures that all aspects of God's work are covered. Embrace your unique gifts and use them [confidently] in faith. Your individuality is a crucial part of God's plan.Exodus 9:16 - The Significance of Your Unique Purpose"But I have raised you up for this very purpose, that I might show you my power and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth."God raises us up for specific purposes to display His power and proclaim His name. Our unique journeys and experiences are part of how God shows His greatness. Find comfort in knowing your life has a powerful purpose in God's plan. You are part of something much bigger than yourself.Matthew 10:30 - God's Attention to Detail"And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered."God knows every detail about us, even the number of hairs on our head. This level of care and attention shows just how precious we are to Him. Rest assured that God cares deeply about every aspect of your life. You are intimately known and loved by Him.Isaiah 64:8 - Uniquely Shaped by God"Yet you, Lord, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand."As clay in the Potter's hands, we are carefully and lovingly shaped by God. Each of us is molded uniquely, reflecting [God's creativity] and purpose. Trust that you are being molded into a unique and beautiful creation by God's hands. Embrace the process, knowing the outcome is wonderfully made.Galatians 6:4 - Find Joy in Your Individual Path"Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else,"We are encouraged to focus on our own actions and not compare ourselves to others. Our individual paths are unique, and comparison only distracts us from our own journey. Take pride in your individuality and the unique path God has for you. [Celebrate your progress without comparison].John 10:3 - Known by Name"The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out."God knows us by name and leads us personally. This personal relationship is a testament to our unique value to Him. Feel special knowing that Jesus knows you intimately and calls you by name. [Follow His lead]with confidence.1 Samuel 16:7 - Heart Over Appearance"But the Lord said to Samuel, 'Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.'"God values our hearts over outward appearances. This verse encourages us to [focus on our inner character], knowing that's what matters most to God. Be encouraged that God sees and values your heart above all else. Cultivate a heart that honors Him.Proverbs 5:15 - Embracing Your Own Path"Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well."We are called to focus on our own blessings and resources. This verse reminds us to appreciate and nurture what God has uniquely given us. Find joy in the unique blessings and resources God has given you. Cherish and develop your own path.Luke 12:7 - Valued Beyond Measure"Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows."God values us greatly, knowing even the smallest details about us. This assurance of our worth helps us overcome fear and anxiety. Take courage in knowing you are incredibly valued by God. Your worth is beyond measure in His eyes.Romans 8:29 - God's Unique Plan"For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters."We are predestined to be conformed to the image of Christ. This transformation is unique for each of us, reflecting God's design. Be inspired by God's unique plan to [shape you into the image of His Son]. Embrace the journey of transformation.2 Timothy 1:7 - Living Fearlessly"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."_God equips us with a spirit of power, love and a sound mind. Our unique spirit is a gift from Him to overcome fear and live boldly. Embrace the unique strength and courage God has given you. Live fearlessly and love deeply.Psalm 119:73 - Purposeful Formation"Your hands made me and formed me; give me understanding to learn your commands."_God's hands have formed us with purpose and intention. We are encouraged to seek understanding and live according to His commands. Seek understanding and embrace the unique way God has made you. Live purposefully in His design.Jeremiah 29:11 - God's Unique Plan for Your Future"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."_God's plans for us are unique and filled with hope. This promise assures us that God's intentions are for our well-being and future. Take comfort in knowing that [God's unique plans] for you are for your good and future. Trust in His hopeful plans.Genesis 1:27 - Your Individuality Reflects God's Image"So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them."We are uniquely created in the image of God. This fundamental truth affirms our inherent value and dignity. Rejoice in your unique reflection of God's image. Celebrate your divine design.Philippians 2:13 - God's Unique Work in You"For it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose." We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comOr on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_PodcastWe hope to hear from you! Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

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When your emotions feel overwhelming, pushing them away seems like the only option. That familiar tightness in your chest, the urge to fix everything immediately, the exhaustion that comes from constantly suppressing what you feel - these experiences shape how you move through each day.    Through this episode, you'll discover how to relate to your emotions as messengers carrying vital information rather than inconveniences to manage. You'll learn practical ways to shift from reflexively fixing or avoiding difficult feelings to approaching them with curiosity and compassion. By the end, you'll have concrete tools for turning toward your emotions instead of away from them, creating a richer understanding of yourself in the process.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/177

Welcome back to Truth, Lies & Work, the award-winning podcast where behavioural science meets workplace culture — brought to you by the HubSpot Podcast Network, the audio destination for business professionals. Hosted by Chartered Occupational Psychologist Leanne Elliott and business owner Al Elliott, this is your Tuesday news round-up, workplace surgery, and expert take — all in one.

Send Krystal a Text Message.Hannah Soto shares a powerful truth that resonates with many creators and entrepreneurs: "The year I hit 2 million was the year I was the most miserable." This striking confession sets the tone for a meaningful discussion about prioritizing growth over comfort and living a purpose-driven life. After 12 successful years running a production company for Fortune 10 brands, Hannah realized that despite her financial success, something essential was missing.Now, she's embarking on a transformative journey, selling her company, walking the 550-mile Camino Santiago pilgrimage with her husband, and exploring four different cities as potential new homes. This shift from keeping her personal Instagram private to embracing a public brand showcases her commitment to authenticity. Hannah emphasizes the importance of breaking free from fear-based decisions, encouraging creativity and exploration over perfection.For anyone considering a career change, launching a creative project, or feeling stuck in their comfort zone, this conversation offers valuable insights and inspiration. Hannah advocates for making decisions rooted in curiosity and love rather than fear, introducing concepts like "emotional sobriety" and future-casting. Follow her journey on Instagram at Hello Hannah Soto and reflect on how your life might change if guided by love and curiosity.If you've wondered why nothing is working in your business in 2025, you need a clear strategy. Download our free guide, Build Your Business's Strategic Foundation, where I'm walking you through a business model canvas and a customer journey map. You'll see how we use this at Proffitt Media, plus find templates for you to create your own. Go to krystalproffitt.com/strategy to download today. Click the "Send Krystal a Text Message" link above to send us your questions, comments, and feedback on the show! (Pssst...we'll do giveaways in upcoming episodes so make sure you leave your name & podcast title.)

 Is RO DBT a new answer for overcontrol and obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD)? This post introduces Radically Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy, a treatment developed for overcontrolled personalities, and explores how well it fits the traits and needs of those with OCPD. Clinical insights, pros and cons, and personal reflections included. 

Are you a seasoned healthcare professional or entrepreneur feeling stuck and self-conscious about making the leap to online business, or even just showing up on camera? You're not alone. Many women, especially those over 40, find themselves held back by fear of visibility, worries about appearance, and that perfectionist voice in their heads saying they're not ready yet. In this episode, with Host Suzy Wraines, guest Christine Brunelli, a chiropractor, turned image strategist and visibility coach, shares her own bumpy journey from brick-and-mortar healthcare and beauty salons to confidently showing up on camera and thriving online. Christine opens up about the anxiety of her very first Instagram Live (and how a 3-minute "train wreck" video landed her a $2,000 client!). She tackles the mental blocks around image, self-worth, and camera presence that keep so many brilliant professionals from sharing their expertise. Plus, Christine offers straightforward, actionable tips, from simple camera-ready beauty hacks to mindset shifts, that will help you step out from behind the scenes and connect with your audience authentically and powerfully. If putting yourself on video feels intimidating, or you're caught between knowing your stuff and actually being seen, this episode is your permission slip to show up as your best self (not a perfect one!). Tune in, get inspired, and discover how embracing authenticity and a few tricks of the trade can transform your business and your confidence! The first step to leave the healthcare system and start a business is listening to the Starting a Business Simplified Podcast: https://www.startingabusinesssimplified.com/podcast Starting a Business Simplified Website: https://www.startingabusinesssimplified.com/ -- Contents: (00:00) Intro (00:29) Christine's Multifaceted Entrepreneurial Journey (05:36) Nervous Pitch: Healthy Role Models (09:19) "Universal Connection and Oneness" (10:59) "Transitioning from Podcast to Video" (15:14) "Embrace Imperfection in Social Media" (19:24) "Personal Growth Through On-Camera Experience" (22:16) Camera Confidence for Perfectionists (25:01) "Camera-Ready: Taming Flyaway Hair" (28:11) "Dimethicone: Perfecting Skin Primer" (30:01) "Podcasting and Over-50 Beauty Tips" (33:14) Discovering Authentic Self via Podcasting (39:56) Embracing Discomfort for Growth (41:05) Guest Show Conclusion Bonus Episode #54 Get full access to Starting a Business Simplified at startingabusinesssimplified.substack.com/subscribe

Are you frustrated that your business isn't growing as quickly as it should be? Are you working hard yet feeling behind? Do you ever get annoyed that you aren't getting the customers or social media followers that you deserve? If so, today's episode is for you.  I'm sharing what hidden Perfectionist Entitlement is, why it's not necessarily a ‘bad' thing, the ways it's shown up for me and my clients and the practical steps to get into a more empowering and resilient mindset. If you're ready to get out of your own way in your business, you want to join my program for perfectionists who are building businesses. It's called Perfectionists Getting Shit Done (aka PGSD). Click here to find out more about the program and join the waitlist today: samlaurabrown.com/pgsd. Our next opening begins on 18 July 2025 for one week only.

What if your constant overworking isn't proof of your value—but a symptom of doubt? Are you hustling to prove yourself because you've forgotten your worth?3 Key Takeaways from the Episode: • Why overachievers confuse more work with more value • How proving energy leads to burnout and inefficiency • What changes when you trust your presence and ideas are enough

Welcome to Episode 123 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! Today I have the privilege of chatting withWhitney English about her new book Organize First, Decorate Second.*Whitney English believes that anyone can live a beautiful life. She has boot-strapped two businesses to seven figures, has a degree in interior design, studied management at Parsons in New York City, and has had her work featured in Omagazine, The Wall Street Journal, and on the Today Show(twice). One of her favorite dreams-come-true, though, is herhusband David, and their three children. Some of the resources we mention include:The Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon*Killers of a Certain Age by Deanna Raybourn*Flavia de Luce Mystery Series by Alan BradleyYou can connect with Whitney via:https://www.instagram.com/whitneyenglish/https://www.pinterest.com/whitneyenglish/https://www.youtube.com/whitneyenglishhttps://whitneyenglish.substack.com/https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/20802839.Whitney_EnglishJust a reminder that you can connect with me via: ⁠⁠⁠⁠• ⁠Instagram: ⁠@andreafortenberry⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠• ⁠⁠⁠ My website⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠: ⁠andreafortenberry.com⁠• ⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to my free magazine, Restore.⁠⁠⁠ *Affiliate Link

Ever feel like you're only allowed to show up when you have it all together?

Have you actually looked back at your long-term cases to see how layering compares to injection moulding? Is traditional freehand layering still your go-to for anterior composite aesthetics? Are you using it because it gives the best result — or just because that's how you were trained? In this episode, Dr. Marco Maiolino joins Jaz Gulati for a meaty discussion about injection moulding—a technique that's changing the game in anterior composites (and posterior!) This isn't about trends. It's about clinical outcomes. We've all admired the beauty of layered composites—translucency, halo, the “natural” look. But after 5, 7, or even 10 years... do they hold up? Dr. Maiolino brings over a decade of follow-up data—and the results might surprise you. https://youtu.be/wHs8QQkgPhU Watch PDP228 on Youtube Protrusive Dental Pearl When in doubt between two shades (e.g., A1 vs. A2), always choose the lighter shade. Higher-value shades blend better and result in higher patient satisfaction. Techniques: Use the composite button method and black-and-white photography to objectively evaluate shade blending. Outcome: Lighter shades minimize the risk of patient dissatisfaction and rework.

Have you ever had one of those days when things just take longer than you expected? Maybe a task that should have taken 30 minutes ends up consuming hours, and suddenly, you're behind on everything. It's easy to start feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or frustrated when your plans go sideways.   In this episode, I share a simple framework to help you navigate these moments without getting caught in a spiral of self-blame or urgency. You'll learn how to pause, check the context, and realign with what really matters, turning those pressure-filled moments into opportunities for clarity and creative problem-solving.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/176

Perfectionism is sneaky. It whispers that we're not ready, not enough, not doing it right. But what if the pressure to be perfect is actually holding you back from being a truly powerful teacher?In this episode, Hannah explores how perfectionism shows up in teaching—and how to release it in favor of presence, growth, and joy. You'll walk away with real strategies to shift your mindset, reset your inner dialogue, and connect more deeply with your clients (and yourself).Whether you're a new instructor or a seasoned pro, this episode will remind you: You don't need to be perfect to make an impact.What We Cover:The hidden ways perfectionism shows up in teachingWhat clients really remember (spoiler: it's not flawless transitions!)What perfectionism is costing you—and how to reclaim your energyThe mindset shift from fixed to growth (with examples to reframe your self-talk)How to teach with confidence, even when things aren't “just right”Want more?Download the Burnout Reflection & Recovery Guide — a free tool to help you reflect, recover, and reset your boundariesBurnout Spiral Reflection and Recovery Guide---- S3E11 - TPEX Show notes  - 2 JulyPlease add all the regular links and resources to the show note upload.Show NotesWhat's the difference between delivering a class and truly transforming someone's experience through movement? In this episode of The Pilates Exchange, Hannah explores the subtle (but powerful) shift from class leader to coach—and why it matters more than ever in today's wellness world.You'll learn how to deepen your connection with clients, foster long-term growth, and create a movement experience that's about more than just reps and flows. Whether you're brand new or decades into your teaching career, this episode will help you teach with more presence, confidence, and clarity.In This Episode:The difference between class leaders and transformational coachesWhat clients actually remember from a session (hint: it's not perfect transitions)How to use presence, reflection, and intentional cues to guide growthSimple coaching tools you can use in your next classWhy growth mindset is your greatest teaching tool—and how to cultivate itDownload the Free Resource:Need help navigating burnout? Grab your copy of our Burnout Reflection + Recovery Guide here:Burnout Spiral Reflection and Recovery Guide  (edited)Health Workshop link: Optimal Health | Performance Fit OnlineWaitlist Perfitly You Barre Teacher Training: Barre Teacher TrainingWarteliste Barre Ausbildung: Barre AusbildungFree Ebook – 100 Pilates Class Themes: performance-fit-online.com/100-pilates-class-themesFree Ebook – Top Teaching Tips: performance-fit-online.com/top-teaching-tipsFree Creativity Masterclass: mailchi.mp/pilates-studio-nuernberg/creativity-masterclassTrain the Trainers: pilates-studio-nuernberg.com/train-the-trainersConnect with Us: hannah@pilates-studio-nuernberg.comPerformance Fit Pilates:

What if burnout isn't the cost of a high-achieving career—but a red flag that something's off? Are you stuck in stress because of your role, or because you've lost alignment with what really matters?3 Key Takeaways from the Episode: • The five most common warning signs that your career is misaligned • How small, 1-degree shifts can reverse burnout and boost confidence • Practical steps to reclaim your time, voice, and identity—without quitting your job

If you've ever said “I should be doing my spiritual practice” and then immediately felt guilty for not doing it perfectly... this episode is for you! We're talking about the five types of perfectionists (yes, you're probably one of them) and how each one shows up in your rituals and routines with a witchy twist on The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control by Katherine Morgan Schafler.Whether you're a messy witch with 12 open tabs or a people-pleasing Parisian perfectionist, you'll walk away knowing how to stop self-sabotaging and start working with your perfectionism. Bonus: there's a full ritual menu + notes waiting for you on Patreon here!This week's sponsor is Libra.fm: Support your local bookstore and this podcast by grabbing your audiobooks through Libro.fm. Now until June 22 Libro.fm is offering BOGO credits: During the sale, members can get two audiobooks from a curated selection for just one audiobook credit. This is a great time to become a Libro.fm member, scoop up a bunch of great audiobooks while supporting your fave bookshop! Click here to shop the sale!But wait-- there's more!!If you're a NEW Libro.fm member you can use the code SWITCH to get three books for the price of one when you sign up-- that means six audiobooks through the BOGO sale. Click here to start a new membership with the SWITCH code! (*Note: code only works on one credit a month plan and past members are not eligible.)If you're looking for some witchy books to listen to: Our audiobook recs can be found here!Join us IRL for Project Mailstorm on July 6th!

Ever felt like one "imperfect" bite sends you spiraling into a full-blown binge? Yeah, me too. In this raw and real episode, we dive into how perfectionism sets the stage for binge eating and how to stop the cycle. If you've ever said "I already messed up, might as well keep eating," this episode is for you.What to Listen For:The sneaky definition of perfectionism and how it shows up in your daily routinesWhat "perfect eating" really looks like (and how it sets you up to fail)Why one bite of a cookie can feel like a total disasterThe emotional spiral from "I messed up" to "I ate everything"Real-life examples from motherhood, fitness goals, and diet cultureHow rigid food rules create unbearable pressureWhat can you expect from this podcast & future episodes?Bite-size episodes that are binge-able (no pun intended)!Tips to help you stop binging & overeatingA friendly face, hint of sarcasm & touch of tough love to help you be normal around food.Follow me for daily tips on Instagram! @kellylwellnessAre you ready to stop overeating and finally be in control around food? Watch my FREE training How to Stop Binge Eating (Without Cutting Out Your Favorite Foods) to learn how it's possible! Connect with Kelly here: @kellylwellness kellylwellness.com/

Are you truly a high achiever—or just a perfectionist in disguise? The difference could be draining your joy, your energy, and your mental health.As healthcare professionals we pride ourselves on excellence, but underneath that drive is often a deep sense of “never enough.” In this powerful episode, Dr. Kara Pepper opens up about her own battle with perfectionism, how it masked itself as ambition, and what finally led her to change everything.You'll learn:The critical difference between high achieving and perfectionismHow perfectionism shows up in your work, boundaries, and even your restHow Kara created a career and life aligned with her values—and how you can too Listen now to learn how to break free from perfectionist patterns.Register for Pivot Potentials Now >> https://coachchelsmd.com/summit/ Life After Medicine explores doctors' journey of finding purpose beyond their medical careers, addressing physician burnout, career changes, opportunities in non-clinical jobs for physicians and remote jobs within the healthcare system without being burned out, using medical training.

How do perfectionist and compulsive traits shape fatherhood? This post explores the challenges and opportunities for the obsessive father—how those traits can either alienate or elevate, harm or heal. Learn how self-awareness, values, and mindset can help fathers navigate the line between heroic and harmful.

Buddhability Shorts is a series where we break down a Buddhist concept or common life challenge we've touched on in an interview. Today, we're talking about the Buddhist perspective on perfectionism.To ask a question about the basics of Buddhism, you can email us at connect@buddhability.orgResources:On the Perfectionist BentThe Wisdom for Creating Happiness and Peace, part 2, revised edition, pp. 25–29.Perfection Might be Hurting You

Are you afraid to take the leap? Paralyzed by perfectionism or terrified of what others will think? You're not alone — but you can break free. ✨In this inspiring episode of Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, host Kim Gross shares her personal journey of overcoming the fear of failure — including how she found the courage to launch this very podcast and release her book Free to Be.From people-pleasing to perfectionism, Kim explores the inner prisons we build to stay “safe” — and how they quietly rob us of joy, purpose, and authenticity. Through storytelling, reflection, and powerful tools like journaling and inner child healing, she gives you the roadmap to move through fear and take aligned risks in your life.Whether you're starting something new, ending something old, or finally choosing you, this episode will help you reconnect with your truth and take bold, imperfect action.

What is nourishing you these days? In this light and reflective episode, I share a curated collection of simple pleasures and meaningful concepts that are currently bringing joy and stability to my life. From practical travel items to philosophical insights, these are the elements helping me navigate daily life with more groundedness and connection.   As summer approaches, I'm finding deep appreciation in both the tangible and intangible - everything from a cherished gift to the profound teachings of a grief expert. These items, ideas, and practices form a tapestry of support that keeps me feeling human and connected during challenging times.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/175

Most people think ego is the villain - the thing to transcend or eliminate. But what if ego isn't one solid thing at all? What if what you call "ego" is actually a collection of internal characters, each with their own agenda, fears, and strategies for survival?Eastern wisdom points to ego as the illusion of separate self, but modern psychology reveals something even more precise: you're not dealing with one ego - you're dealing with multiple subpersonalities, internal parts that developed to help you navigate different challenges. The problem isn't that you have an ego. The problem is that one of these parts has taken over the show.Your "dominant subpersonality" - whether it's the People Pleaser, the Controller, the Rebel, or the Perfectionist - is running your life from the shadows, making decisions, filtering reality, and shutting down other aspects of your authentic self. Meanwhile, your Creative, your Visionary, your Authentic Self, and countless other capacities remain locked away, unexpressed, waiting.This isn't about eliminating ego. This is about recognizing the internal democracy you actually are, understanding how one part became dictator, and learning to integrate all your aspects into conscious, fluid expression. When you stop being unconsciously run by one subpersonality and start consciously orchestrating your full internal team, everything changes - your relationships, your work, your creativity, your capacity for joy.ANNOUNCING: THE LIMITLESS EXPERIENCEDaniel D'Neuville is a peak performance coach, spiritual teacher, and master life and business coach. A Master Practitioner/Trainer in Neuro-linguistic Programming and a Consulting Hypnotist he has worked with over 10,000 people over the past 30 plus years. LINKS http://yesdaniel.com Daniel's YouTube CHANNEL FACEBOOK GROUPSPODCAST LISTENER'S FBCOMMUNITY EXTREME GRATITUDE PROJECT BassSlap Intro written and performed by bass player & producer: Miki SantamariaMiki'sYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to Episode 122 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! Today I have the privilege of chatting withJen Kacin.Jen is a speaker, writer and content creator on topics that promote confidence and healthy decision making for teensand tweens. As a social worker of 20+ years and support coach in a middle school, she is on a mission to equip parents and teachers with tools to help them engage in meaningful and relevant conversations surrounding the emotionalissues their children face. Some of the resources we mention include:Jen's Compass TalksJen's YouTube ChannelJen's Top 10 Hacks for Parenting Teens and TweensEssential Yoga 15 Years Younger YouTube ChannelThe Queen's Cook by Tessa Afshar*You can connect with Jen via:Her website: compasstalks.comInstagram: @jenkacin_authorJust a reminder that you can connect with me via: ⁠⁠⁠⁠• ⁠Instagram: ⁠@andreafortenberry⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠• ⁠⁠⁠ My website⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠: ⁠andreafortenberry.com⁠• ⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to my free magazine, Restore.⁠⁠⁠ *Affiliate Link

For natural-born fixers and problem solvers, the instinct to tackle every challenge head-on is deeply ingrained. Whether facing procrastination, overwhelm, or late-night scrolling habits, the immediate response is often to search for a solution.   In this episode, I explore why the concept of "fixing yourself" may be counterproductive when it comes to creating lasting change. Drawing from Internal Family Systems theory and real-world examples, I share how shifting from a fixing mindset to one of understanding can transform our approach to personal growth and habit change.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/174

We begin this week's show with The House That Clemont Built, the June 24, 1974, episode of The Zero Hour. (24:18) Our final story is The Perfectionist, by Suspense. That episode originally aired January 21, 1952. https://traffic.libsyn.com/forcedn/e55e1c7a-e213-4a20-8701-21862bdf1f8a/RelicRadio948.mp3 Download RelicRadio948 | Subscribe | Spotify | Support The Relic Radio Show If you'd like to support Relic Radio, please consider a donation [...]

Want to double your ticket average without being pushy? Get access to real-time sales training, scripts, and role-play coaching inside the Blue Collar Closer community — join today before the next live Q&A drops: https://wastenoday.pro/BCC Join the Waste No Day! Facebook group: https://wastenoday.pro/FBgroup In this episode, we talked about serial starters vs. perfectionists, taking action, entrepreneurship…

In this heartfelt episode of Typology, Anthony and I sit down with Elizabeth Husserl—an Enneagram One with a Two wing and the author of the beautiful new book The Power of Enough: Finding Joy in Your Relationship with Money. Elizabeth's story begins over two decades ago when she first encountered the Enneagram. What followed was nothing short of transformational. Her work with the Enneagram didn't just shape her inner life—it helped heal her marriage and completely reframed her understanding of wealth. In our conversation, she invites us to imagine a richer, more expansive definition of money—one rooted in connection, belonging, and wholeness rather than scarcity and striving. Together, we explore: How the Enneagram can deepen personal growth and strengthen relationships Elizabeth's evolving relationship with money and what it's taught her The role of financial “DNA” and how we can begin to rewrite our inherited money stories Grounded practices for living with “enoughness” in every area of life If you're curious about how the Enneagram intersects with your financial story—or simply hungry for a more soulful approach to money—this episode is full of wisdom, vulnerability, and grace. You can learn more about Elizabeth's work at ElizabethHusserl.com, and follow her on Instagram @ElizabethHusserl for more insights.

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How to beat perfectionism without lowering your standards.   Dr. Ellen Hendriksen is a clinical psychologist who will help you calm your anxiety and be your authentic self. She serves on the faculty at Boston University's Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders (CARD) and is the author of HOW TO BE ENOUGH: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists and HOW TO BE YOURSELF: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety.   In this episode we talk about: The relationship between perfectionism and anxiety The definition of perfectionism–and why the word is actually a misnomer Dr. Hendriksen's own struggles with perfectionism, and how they manifested physically The difference between healthy perfectionism and unhealthy perfectionism Changing your relationship with your inner critic  Shifting from rigid rules to flexibility Keeping high standards while making room for mistakes Overcoming procrastination Navigating social comparison And much more   Related Episodes: Strategies for Social Anxiety | Ellen Hendriksen Ellen Hendriksen, Rising Above Social Anxiety The Voice in Your Head | Ethan Kross  How To Move Into The Future With Optimism Instead Of Anxiety | Frederik Pferdt   Join Dan's online community here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel   Additional Resources:   Ellen Hendriksen on Substack