Podcast appearances and mentions of stella harris

Sarah interviews Stella Harris, certified intimacy educator, sex coach, and author. Stella gives the 4-1-1 on how to ACTUALLY listen, hear, and be a safer person when it comes to communication, especially about some of the scarier stuff - sex, relationships, and kink. Stella's tools will help you put language to what you want and share it. Stella Harris is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. You can find Sarah on instagram @psychandthecitybk & @psychandthecity.bsky.socialand Stella at www.stellaharris.net@stellaharriserotica on Instagramor @stellaharris.bsky.social

You deserve to have all your kinky little needs met, so in this episode, we're learning how to talk the talk and ask for what we want. Stella Harris, an intimacy educator, coach, mediator, and author of "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" is here to help us dig into the nitty gritty and develop our sexy communication skills. We cover: Sexual communication basics How to introduce and negotiate your kinky desires Navigating shame around sexual interests How to control your own "yuck" so you don't shame a partner How to tell a partner you didn't like something you tried How to make these conversations more fun Connect with Stella: On her website Get her books Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Stella Harris, a certified intimacy educator and professional coach. They talk about pleasure rituals, how important masturbation is for your personal sexual development, and why you must be patient with those new to the ENM lifestyle. Learn more from Stella Harris here. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/monogam-ishpodcast/message

Welcome to episode 279 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Stella Harris to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can have a successful threesome, looking at cuckolding and hotwifing and how you can first bring up with your partner you want a threesome.    Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, and regularly provides workshops and guest lectures to colleges and universities.     Stella's writing has appeared widely, including a weekly sex advice column in her local paper. Highlights of her media appearances include speaking as an expert on Banana Slug sex and appearing on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools.    Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes.        In this episode, you will hear:     What do we mean when we say threesome?  Looking at cuckolding and hot hotwifing  Why it's important to plan your threesome   The importance of clear communication and agreements when negotiating a threesome  Looking at play party spaces   How you can first bring up with your partner you want a threesome  Understanding that a threesome in real life is not what like you see in porn  The importance of aftercare after a threesome   Engaging in other activities after a threesome such as a coffee or meal  Why you should take things very slowly and test the waters before going deeper    Find Stella Harris Online  https://www.stellaharris.net     Survey  Please fill out this brief survey to help us know the content you want to hear: https://help373205.typeform.com/to/PfsEolrp   101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot  https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/     Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast     Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  

EPISODE 187 Interview with Stella Harris. Stella Harris is a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella is the author of two books, “Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink”, and “The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes”. Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow her on Instagram:@stellaharriserotica and Twitter: @stellaerotica If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries 

Jonathan Bradley Welch, Stella Harris, and Emily Krauser share stories about bros in the closet, a fisting party, and keeping a medical secret.                                 Support RISK! on Patreon at Patreon.com/RISK Make a one-time donation to RISK! at PayPal.me/RISKshow Get tickets to RISK! live shows at RISK-show.com/tour Get the RISK! book at TheRISKBook.com Take storytelling classes at TheStoryStudio.org Hire Kevin Allison to make a personalized video at Cameo.com/TheKevinAllison Hire Kevin Allison as a coach at KevinAllison.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Stella Harris joins Tristan Taormino and they chat about a favorite subject: threesomes! Harris has the goods in her new book The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes which explores everything from myths and common pitfalls to logistics and power dynamics. Tristan and Stella do a deeper dive into the subject, talking about how to take baby steps, setting expectations, finding other folks, and unicorns. Stella even tells us how to explore a threesome fantasy without other people! Stella Harris is a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella is also the author of Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships. Special thanks to Pour Moi and Dipsea for their support of this episode.  

Threesomes - treble the fun? Sometimes, sometimes not. Threesomes can be a great experience or a negative one, and to guide us along the process is sex educator and author Stella Harris, who has just written a book on threesomes. She explores the logistics you need to consider, why it's the most common fantasy for many people around the world, how to communicate around this. Support us at patreon.com/tortoiseshack

Chris chats with a variety of threesome enthusiasts including sex educator, sex coach, and author Stella Harris, whose brand new book is The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Check out StellaHarris.net for more information about her coaching and other services. Articles mentioned in the show include What You Can Do to Fight Violence and Racism Against Asian Americans by Vignesh Ramachandran, Don’t Forget — the Georgia Shootings are a Hate Crime Against Sex Workers by Tracy Quan, and What an Expert on Evangelicals and Sex Says About the Atlanta Shooter's Claim He Had a Sex Addiction by Belinda Luscombe. Check out AASECT.org to connect with qualified sexuality educators, counselors and therapists. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at chris@sexwithstrangersshow.com. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa. Instagram: chrisinamerica. And Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Go to sexwithstrangersshow.com if the links in these show notes are not compatible with your podcast platform.

Author Stella Harris has a lot to share on the topic of threesomes as it is the subject of her most recent book "The Ultimate Guide To Threesomes" (Simon & Schuster). As a certified intimacy educator and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. Comedian Host Nicole Aimee Schreiber digs deep into the top of kink, BDSM, threesomes and communication skills. She has a few questions to ask herself. Book is available here: https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Threesomes-Stella-Harris/dp/1627783075 CONNECT WITH STELLA ONLINE Official Website: StellaHarris.net Instagram: @stellaharriserotica Facebook: /stella.harris.509 Twitter: @stellaerotica Classes and Events: https://stellaharris.net/upcoming-events/

Curious about threesomes? Or ways to make your next one better?    Stella Harris, a Certified Intimacy Educator, Sex Coach and author of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, is expert at ways to effectively become “a threesome person,” benefits of thoughtful threesomes and how to decide whether or not to bring this type of play into an existing relationship or your life in the first place.   A few things you’ll learn in the episode:   What many folks get wrong about threesomes Questions to consider before deciding on a threesome Why jealousy isn’t the worst thing (or unusual)  How intoxication can impact threesome play Ways to more comfortably ease into your first one Where to meet people for a threesome Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who’s struggling after a threesome didn’t go as she had hoped   Register for Stella’s book launch party with SheBop here!   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Free, discreet shipping over $75.   Join August on Patreon at patreon.com/girlboner.    Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.

Hey there and welcome to Polyamory Uncensored, a podcast where your hosts Lyndzi Miller and Katie Williams interview a poly person each episode and try to answer the 5 basic tenets of journalism: who, what, when, where, and why as it pertains to our poly lives. Welcome to Episode 66 of Polyamory Uncensored, in which we chat with liberated love coach Ellecia Paine about group sex, stigma, what makes a scene good, and what to know to design your own group scenario. Check her and her upcoming classes out on Facebook here! During this episode we also discussed Reid Mihalko's Safer Sex Elevator Speech and Stella Harris's new book, "The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes" (which is available for pre-order now to be released March 9th, 2021). Stay tuned as we delve into the good, the bad, the ugly, and the just plain complicated truths about our poly lives. If you would like to support the podcast with a one-time contribution, we have set up a PayPal link to make it super easy! Please show your support in any amount you can here: PayPal.me/polyamoryuncensored. Thank you so much for any amount you can manage. If contributing in a monetary fashion isn't your thing or you just aren't able to, that's fine, you can help us out for free by giving us an iTunes review, liking and following us on Facebook and Instagram, sending us a voice message to play on the podcast (https://anchor.fm/polyamoryuncensored/message), or just telling your friends about us! Stay safe, wash your hands, and we love you, bye! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/polyamoryuncensored/support

How can people navigate threesomes smoothly and ethically (and pleasurably!)? What about aftercare post threesome - what are the protocols? And how do you find that third person? Stella Harris answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question about HPV.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guest: Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. As a certified intimacy educator and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes discusses some of the most frequently asked questions she’s experienced in her work around one common topic: threesomes. A national and international speaker, Harris teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. To learn more visit stellaharris.net Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 15% off our favorite cute and compact safety alarm at shesbirdie.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast    

Stella Harris is a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella teaches at venues and conferences across the US (and Canada!) while maintaining a private practice in her adopted hometown of Portland, Oregon. Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Click on the link to read more about the book. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/368---stella-harris---the.html

HAPPY SELF-LOVE MONTH! Riddled with shame, secrecy, and stigma, can masturbation be reclaimed as a self-care and self-love experience? Too often a utilitarian act for relaxation or release, masturbation wields the power to connect us with ourselves physically, emotionally, and spiritually.In celebration of Self-love Month, we are reposting this interview with Stella Harris where Effy, Jackie and Stella talk about all of the ways in which we can indulge ourselves through self-touch and exploration – from laying in the sun, to massaging oil on our body, to sexual touch. We also included some updates on Jackie's sex next and Effy's controversial thoughts on self-love as a concept. To learn more about Stella Harris visit www.stellaharris.net or follow @stellaerotica on Twitter or @stellaharriserotica on Instagram. She is offering coaching and classes online, use promo code STAYHOME for 20% coaching!To find more about Effy Blue and Jacqueline Misla, follow them at @wearecuriousfoxes, @coacheffyblue, and @jacquelinemisla on Instagram.If you would like us to answer your question on a future episode, you can share a question with us by taking a voice memo on your phone and emailing it to listening@wearecuriousfoxes.com or you can record a question for the show by calling 201-870-0063. Follow us on social media for further resources on this topic:fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxesinstagram.com/wearecuriousfoxesJoin the conversation: fb.com/groups/CuriousFoxSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/wearecuriousfoxes)

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Stella Harris about threesomes!  Plus they blow up on YouTube PLUS Dan isn't much for flogging?  Become a Patron!    

Riddled with shame, secrecy, and stigma, can masturbation be reclaimed as a self-care and self-love experience? Too often a utilitarian act for relaxation or release, masturbation wields the power to connect us with ourselves physically, emotionally, and spiritually.Effy and Jacqueline sit down with Stella Harris to discuss all of the ways in which we can indulge ourselves through self-touch and exploration – from laying in the sun, to massaging oil on our body, to sexual touch.In celebration of Masturbation May and in collaboration with Stella's May 20th workshop, we have partnered with our friends at Dame to bring exploration back into self-care. Visit www.dame.com/curiousfox to enjoy 15% off their amazing products!To learn more about Stella Harris visit www.stellaharris.net or follow @stellaerotica on Twitter or @stellaharriserotica on Instagram. She is offering coaching and classes online, use promo code STAYHOME for 20% coaching!If you have a question that you would like to explore on the show, reach out to us and we may answer your question on one of our upcoming episodes. Leave us a voicemail at 201-870-0063 or email us at listening@wearecuriousfoxes.comFollow us:fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxesinstagram.com/wearecuriousfoxesJoin the conversation:fb.com/groups/CuriousFoxSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/wearecuriousfoxes)

Talking about sex is not always comfortable...particularly in the midst of a pandemic.Effy and Jacqueline speak with Stella Harris, a certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach, about how the current pandemic is affecting the way we communicate with our partner(s), how to navigate having difficult conversations, and how to have intimate conversations that may feel uncomfortable.To learn more about Stella Harris visit www.stellaharris.net or follow @stellaerotica on Twitter or @stellaharriserotica on Instagram. She is offering coaching and classes online, and you can use promo code STAYHOME for 20% coaching. If you have a question that you would like to explore on the show, reach out to us and we may answer your question on one of our upcoming episodes. Leave us a voicemail at 201-870-0063 or email us at listening@wearecuriousfoxes.comFollow us:fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxesinstagram.com/wearecuriousfoxesJoin the conversation:fb.com/groups/CuriousFoxSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/wearecuriousfoxes)

Sex educators Stella Harris and Amory Jane sit down with Miranda Selinger of XRAY to discuss sex ed in the context of International Women's Day 2020.

It's the Hearts and Other Sex Parts relaunch! After some time on hiatus they are back with a new host Stella Harris! This episode begins with introductions and some background information on Keely and Stella. The second part of the episode is an interview with Jaiden Love. Jaiden is here to "bring more love into the world by teaching the essentials of gender identity and support".

Stella Harris, sex coach and author of Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, co-pilots this episode, which addresses the idea that in dating, pickings are slim, that you have to settle when you get to a certain age, and that being in an unhappy relationship is better than no relationship at all. Mo makes tired all-you-can-eat buffet jokes and disses a specific Midwestern buffet restaurant, but there is a happy ending!

We all know communication is essential for healthy relationships and great sex – but how do we begin to level up our erotic communication skills? How do we break through the fear and shame to start talking openly about what we want in bed? Sex coach and author Stella Harris joins us to explore the […] The post Expanding Erotic Communication with Stella Harris appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

Join Mistress Viola and Mona Darling of Subrosa PDX as they explore sex education with Stella Harris, author, speaker, sex educator, intimacy coach and BDSM instructor

In this episode Keely talks to Stella Harris about her new book Tongue-Tied, Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink and Relationships. Stella Harris is an author, speaker, sex educator and BDSM instructor in Portland OR.

A step by step guide to getting a little kinkier in your relationships. It all starts with communication. Everyone has a freak flag; it's okay to let yours fly. Relationship and kink expert Stella Harris gives some stellar advice on opening up and enjoying sex without all the anxiety. If you don't ask, the answer is always no, so buck up and admit your kinks. Stella's website: http://stellaharris.net/ Stella's book: https://www.amazon.com/Tongue-Tied-Untangling-Communication-Relationships/dp/1627782664 Design and Logo by Black Bulb Creative https://www.blackbulbcreative.com/ Theme: "I Believe" by Three Legged Fox Music by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com) License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode Amy chats with sex educator, coach and author Stella Harris about the G-spot, female ejaculation AKA squirting, and vulva mapping. Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. As a certified intimacy educator and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. A national and international speaker, Stella teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella writes a weekly sex advice column for Portland's Willamette Week newspaper, and her erotic fiction has appeared in more than a dozen anthologies. Check out her latest book, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, as well as her website at stellaharris.net References: OmgYes.com/shameless - $5 off Bijoux Indiscrets Horoscope line - Use code SHAMELESS for 15% off  

Brianna Rader gives us a behind-the-scenes look at the sex tech startup world. It turns out it's not as easy as it seems. Facing restrictions at every turn and nonsensical business standards (i.e. promoting penile erectile solutions is allowed but discussion of vaginal sexual function is not), Brianna stopped at nothing to bring her revolutionary idea, Juicebox, to life. We talk about how she got started in sex ed--as a college student trying to bring sex week to her university who ended up in the middle of a media firestorm. Brianna also breaks down sex coaching for us-- how it differs from therapy, what essential skills you can acquire from it, and how it’s transformed sex lives in surprising ways. She tells a secret too--how to score free (yes, free!) 1-on-1 sex coaching from trained professionals. ____________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 67 Links Juicebox sex coaching website: https://www.juiceboxi t.com Juicebox sex coaching app: https://itunes.apple.com/ us/app/juicebox-love-life-expe rts/id1086096282?mt=8 Brianna Raider Instagram https://www.instagram.com/brirader/ Juicebox Instagram https://www.instagram.com/juiceboxapp Brianna Raider Twitter https://twitter.com/brirader Juicebox Twitter https://twitter.com/Juiceboxit Email info@juiceboxit.com for more information or to connect with Brianna. All listeners will receive a free 5-day trial of 1-on-1 coaching on Juicebox with the promo code SUNNY. Our episode with Juicebox coach, Stella Harris http://sunnymegatron.com/stella-harris-tongue-tied-podcast/ Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Submit your 69 sex position related questions, thoughts & stories for our 69th episode to americansexpodcast@gmail.com Clown Play article featuring Sunny & Ken in Playboy https://www.playboy.com/read/the-emergence-of-coulrophilia Cale Storer for jingles/music calestorer@gmail.com Episode 67 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric Enter to win a We-Vibe Discover Gift Box & other goodies valued at $350 from babeland.com by filling out our Pleasure Podcasts listener survey. Winner will be randomly drawn the last week of December. Good luck! http://bit.ly/americansexsurvey 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 15% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

S2E52 - Fetish World Podcast - There's A Lot Of Sphincters Involved This week Ivan and Irony chat with certified intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Harris about her new book Tongue Tied which gives readers straightforward advice on how to conquer their fears, identify their needs, and feel positively empowered. Website: stellaharris.net Twitter: stellaerotica Instagram: stellaharriserotica

Intimacy Coach Stella Harris is a healthy communication rockstar and just released a new best selling book on the subject. In this episode Stella teaches us: what to do when one partner isn’t putting in the effort, boundary & expectation setting in the early part of relationships, how communication differs for vanilla & BDSM situations, navigating consent without ruining the mood, sexual improv tips & communication exercises for improving your sex life & more! Sunny shows her appreciation for Bi Visibility Day and endures a lot of pounding while Ken is away. Catch Stella’s bonus story about a very unusual first date on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/21592544   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/tre Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 60 Links Stella Harris’  Website www.stellaharris.net Stella Harris’  Twitter https://twitter.com/StellaErotica Stella Harris’ Instagram http://instagram.com/StellaHarrisErotica Stella Harris’ Facebook http://.facebook.com/StellaErotica Stella Harris’ Book, Exposure: Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink & Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Tongue-Tied-Untangling-Communication-Relationships/dp/1627782664 Screw the Roses Send Me the Thorns book http://sunnymegatron.com/product/screw-the-roses-send-me-the-thorns/ Sunny’s Bi Visibility Day Article http://sunnymegatron.com/happy-bisexuality-day-why-its-so-hard-to-be-bi/ Patreon Wall of Thanks http://sunnymegatron.com/sponsors/ Midori American Sex Podcast episode http://sunnymegatron.com/midori-erotic-roleplay-finding-your-dominance/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Episode 60 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Jimmyjane Love Pod Tre giveaway ($149 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/tre 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY

Sex, particularly kinky sex, is still a taboo subject in our sex negative culture. We're not supposed to talk about it so we don't learn good communication skills around it. It's one of those things that is supposed to just kinda happen. We hang onto a lot of the messages we got about sex growing up and even those of us who consider ourselves very open about our sexuality still retain many of the hangups and shame feelings. Learning to talk about what we want in the bedroom from the most vanilla of acts (vanilla is a delicious flavour, by the way) to the most deliciously deviant kinky acts we can think of can benefit us in many unexpected ways. When we learn to ask for what we want, we sometimes even get it. On this episode of On The Wet Coast Flick Morrison and Kat Stark are joined by Stella Harris (@stellaerotica), intimacy educator and sex coach, author of Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships. Buy on Amazon   Buy Kat's new book Yelling In Pasties: The Wet Coast Confessions of an Anxious Slut at Amazon.com Follow us on twitter @onthewetcoast @wetcoastKat @seriousFLICK  Check out www.onthewetcoast.com for blog posts, toy reviews, and more  Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/OnTheWetCoast/ Email your questions or comments to contact@onthewetcoast.com Check out all the other great podcasts on the Swingset.fm network at Swingset.fm   Music in this episode: Theme music - A Naked Gun: Bank Assault by Francesco D'Andrea Episode music - Puzzle Pieces by Lee Rosevere Technical Difficulty Music - Wavy Glass by PoddingtonBear  

Great interview Evie did with Stella Harris for Kink Fest. Enjoy!

Have you been feeling stuck in your relationship, frustrated with your body, or totally disconnected from your pleasure & desire? One-on-one coaching spots are available in my private practice and rates are going up January 1st, 2019, so now is the perfect time to book a discovery call and learn more about how coaching might help you. Check out the clients I work with and my rates today.   Communicating with ease about sex, love, and fantasies with Stella Harris. Stella Harris is a powerhouse in sex education. Her writing has long been something I've admired, and her vulnerability and storytelling are beautiful things. If you haven't seen her Bawdy Storytelling, go check it out. So, this week's chat, to discuss Stella's new book, "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" is one I'm super excited about. You've heard me mention again and again on this show that nearly all the questions I receive are about saying the scary things. Well, Stella is here to help us demystify talking about our fantasies, our boundaries, our needs, and to unpack some of our unspoken expectations and assumptions. Plus, Patreon supporters - If you support the show at the $3 level and above, Stella and I are talking about THREESOMES! How can we set ourselves up for success with threesomes? Why are dudes who try to convince their girlfriends to have threesomes the worst? And how can you meet that elusive person to join in the fun? Listen and support the show at patreon.com/sgrpodcast Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Stella Harris: Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. As a certified intimacy educator and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. A national and international speaker, Stella teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella writes a weekly sex advice column for Portland’s Willamette Week newspaper and her erotic fiction has appeared in more than a dozen anthologies. Stay in touch with Stella on Instagram and Twitter. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

Jen takes a crash course in Kink 101 and Elle has some tips on how to avoid disassociating when you eff your partner.

Jen takes a crash course in Kink 101 and Elle has some tips on how to avoid disassociating when you eff your partner.