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There’s a surprising amount of anti-masturbation content on social media, much of it suggesting that masturbation is bad for your health. In today's show, we're going to delve into whether abstaining from masturbation actually boosts testosterone, whether you can really become “addicted” to masturbating, what science says about the purported health benefits of semen retention, and more. In this episode, we're revisiting a conversation with Dr. Eric Sprankle, which originally aired back in episode 275. Dr. Sprankle is an Associate Professor of Clinical Psychology and the co-director of the Sexuality Studies program at Minnesota State University, Mankato. He’s also a licensed clinical psychologist and AASECT-certified sex therapist, as well as author of the book, DIY: The Wonderfully Weird History and Science of Masturbation. Some of the specific topics we explore include: Why is the concept of semen retention increasingly popular? Are there any health benefits to abstaining from ejaculation? Is an orgasm obtained from self-pleasure really any different from an orgasm obtained through partnered sex? Can women become “addicted” to their vibrators? Is there an objective standard for what constitutes “too much” masturbation? You can check out Eric’s website to learn more about his work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Boost your sexual confidence and performance with Popstar Delay Spray. Save 20% off your first order by using “Justin” as the discount code at popstarlabs.com/justin.  I’m excited to announce a new online course I’m teaching on the topic of fantasies at the Kinsey Institute. Be sure to register for “The New Science of Sexual Fantasies” workshop, which will take place on July 19th, 2025. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Our guest this time is Dr. Margaret Nichols. Dr. Nichols, Ph.D., is a psychologist, AASECT certified sex therapy supervisor, founder, and first Executive Director of the Institute for Personal Growth, a psychotherapy organization in New Jersey specializing in clinical work with the sex, relationship, and gender diverse community. She is the author of The Modern Clinician's Guide to Working with LGBTQ+ Clients: The Inclusive Psychotherapist. Dr. Nichols is an international speaker and author of many articles on LGBTQ sexuality, transgender youth, kink, and consensual nonmonogamy, as well as the co-director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes' Transgender Mental Health certification program. Dr. Nichols has been licensed since 1981 and trained as a sex therapist since 1983. In 1983, she founded the Institute for Personal Growth, and in 1985, she helped found and served as the first Executive Director of the Hyacinth AIDS Foundation, New Jersey's largest HIV social service agency. Since she sold IPG in 2018, Dr. Nichols has maintained a small private psychotherapy practice and a roster of sex therapy supervisees across the country. Resources on ways to support trans and non-binary people: Supporting transgender people in your life - Advocates for trans equality How to be an ally to trans and non-binary people - Trevor Project How to be an ally to trans and non-binary people - George Mason LGBTQ+ center  Dr. Margie Nichols' TED talk  If you want to catch up on other shows, just visit our website and please subscribe! We love our listeners and welcome your feedback, so if you love Our Better Half, please give us a 5-star rating and follow us on Facebook and Instagram. It really helps support our show! As always, thanks for listening!

Let's talk about SEX, baby! Shan Boodram, a renowned sexologist and relationship educator, joins our self-love podcast to share powerful insights on how to feel sexy and confident in a long-term relationship. We explore the nuances of body-image insecurities and relationship dynamics, as Shan delivers her no-nonsense advice on how to feel sexy.You will learn how to...navigate body-image insecurities in the bedroombring up your sexual needs, wants, desires, and concerns without killing the vibenavigate dry spells in a long-term relationshipchannel your sex appeal and feel sexy in your skinhow to handle mix matched desiresreignite the “spark” in your relationshipShan also answers some of the most common questions about sex and relationships, like:They say couples should have sex at least once a week. Is this true?Does scheduling sex kill the mood?Do men have a higher sex drive than women?If the spark is gone, does it mean the relationship is deteriorating?Whether you're committed, married, or want to be one day, this conversation is filled with female empowerment and relationship advice that will boost your confidence. Get ready to FEEL SEXY. Remember: A healthy long-term relationship gives you the freedom to be yourself. And THAT is sexy. Shan Boodram is an AASECT certified sex educator, an American Board of Sexology certified Sexologist, with a M.S. in psychology best known for her work on Netflix's Too Hot to Handle and as the host of Lovers by Shan Podcast. She has mainstream coverage across all major media networks including: The Today Show, ABC Good Morning America, The Talk, The Real, and The View. Boodram hosted The Marriage Pact on The Roku Channel, Hung Up from Headspace Studios, Makeup or Breakup on Watch, Sexology with Shan Boodram on Quibi and she co-hosted Ex-Rated with Andy Cohen on Peacock. Boodram is a best-selling author of, “The Game Of Desire" (HarperCollins, '19) acclaimed by TIME, Apple, Glamour & Refinery29. She's written for Teen Vogue, Cosmopolitan, CBC, Playboy and InStyle. Shan is part owner of Arya - a subscription service for couples, she is also Bumble's sex and relationship expert as well as a longstanding member of the National Coalition for Sexual Health. She recently released a class on MasterClass called The Art of Sex Appeal. Currently she lives in Los Angeles with her two daughters and husband Jared Brady. In the realm of modern intimacy and relationship education, Shan Boodram is not just a leader; she is a pioneer, constantly pushing boundaries since 2009 and inspiring millions to explore, understand, and celebrate the power of intimate connections. Follow Shan on Instagram @shanboodram Learn more about Shan's MasterClass here and her new jewelry line inspired by Kama Sutra And if you're enjoying this self-love podcast, screenshot this episode and share it on social media!Make sure to tag @maryspodcast and @shanboodramMentioned In This Podcast... Taylor Tomlinson's “Do It Like Craig” bit

Indigo Stray Conger has been a therapist since 2008 and has completed over a decade of therapeutic training. She is one of less than ten AASECT certified sex therapists at a supervisory level in the state of Colorado.During our conversation, we delve into what somatic psychotherapy entails and also the role of EMDR in trauma healing, and the challenges of intimacy in relationships.As we discuss, trauma can turn up in relationships in many forms can impact on both the psychological and physical barriers to intimacy, which can prevent singles and couples from fully exploring the many ways to experience sexual pleasure.EMDR is a tool I have used myself to try and overcome phobias and also behaviours that don't serve me well. If you're unfamiliar with the technique, EMDR, or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing is most commonly used to treat PTSD, but now is used to solve a range of issues. It involves recalling the traumatic episode, or the particular fear, and then through specific eye movements and some other type of stimulation (talking, for example), the brain reprocesses the memory and reduces its significance in your mind. It may sound woo-woo, but it's actually not and very quickly can help in situations where the traumatic episode is quite specific (at least, that was my own experience).We also touch on the importance of consent, proper sex eduction and how sexual orientations such as asexuality and demisexuality are gaining recognition.You can find Indigo here:https://milehighpsychotherapy.com/meet-the-therapistsIf you'd like access to exclusive features like personal posts, my new 32 page booklet, Sex Toys & Supplements for Thriving in Later Life, my private chat room, direct messaging for your burning questions, and Substack Live sessions with expert guests, consider becoming a paid subscriber! Your sex life will thank you for it. :)Annual membership is just £49.99 (a better deal than £6.99/month) and supports the work behind creating weekly podcasts, managing social media, collaborating with health professionals, and producing valuable resources. This isn't just a hobby—it's my passion and profession.Thousands of people are finally talking about intimacy, desire and pleasure without shame. Join them - subscribe now and you'll receive my freebie - Top 10 Overlooked Secrets to Better Sex.Your subscription helps empower older individuals to feel sexually confident and access tools for pain-free, pleasurable intimacy.What others are saying:"I just finished listening to your podcast! I felt like I was sitting around the dinner table with friends, finally able to talk about what no one else does."“First of all, let me tell you how awesome I think you are and how valuable I think your Substack is.”“Your work is one of my new found joys. Thank you.” Get full access to Sex Advice for Seniors at www.sexadviceforseniors.com/subscribe

Send us a textWhat's the difference between kink and coercion? How do trauma bonds form—and why do people stay in abusive relationships? In this powerful episode, sex and relationship coach Kiley George sits down with trauma-informed therapist Dr. Emma Smith, PhD, to unpack the ongoing Sean “Diddy” Combs trial and what it reveals about consent, power dynamics, and survival responses.From celebrity influence to “freak-off” parties and nervous system shutdowns, we explore how trauma shapes relationships—especially in non-monogamy—and how to reclaim agency, safety, and self-awareness in the bedroom and beyond.Topics include:The psychology behind trauma bondsWhat real consent looks likePublic gaslighting, kink myths, and the Diddy trialWhy your body might be saying “no” even when your mouth says “yes”Whether you're healing from toxic love or rethinking everything you thought you knew about desire and safety—this one's for you.

Show SummaryOn today's episode, we're featuring a conversation with Dr. Angela Schubert, An Associate Professor and Licensed Professional Counselor whose area of research and clinical interests are in human sexuality and sexual development across the lifespan. During our conversation, we talk about unique aspects of sex, sexuality, and sexual wellness in the military-connected population. Provide FeedbackAs a dedicated member of the audience, we would like to hear from you about the show. Please take a few minutes to share your thoughts about the show in this short feedback survey. By doing so, you will be entered to receive a signed copy of one of our host's three books on military and veteran mental health. About Today's GuestDr. Angela “Angie” Schubert is an associate professor for the Clinical Counseling department. Dr. Schubert's area of research and clinical interests are in human sexuality and sexual development across the lifespan. Human sexuality is expansive and intersectional, and as such, Dr. Schubert is interested in exploring the human sexual experience as it pertains to perceptions of sexuality, gender, sexual behaviors, sexual constructs, and policies that work to support or oppress specific sexual-identified communities. Dr. Schubert's teaching experience and expertise include the following topics: human sexuality, sexual issues, counselor identity, supervision, eating disorders, somatic processing, ethics, and diversity. Dr. Schubert's teaching style is strongly experiential and pulls from social justice and equity-centered pedagogies. Dr. Schubert is the editor of the Clinical Counseling Chronicle. She is also the co-founder and past president of the Association of Counseling Sexology & Sexual Wellness. She is an AASECT-certified sex therapist and EMDR certified. Dr. Schubert is also on the editorial board for the Journal of Counseling Sexology & Sexual Wellness. Links Mentioned in this Episode Association of Counseling Sexology & Sexual WellnessJournal of Counseling Sexology & Sexual WellnessPsychArmor Resource of the WeekThis week's resource of the week is the PsychArmor course, Intimacy and Emotional Disconnect in Military Populations. This course investigates links between emotional disconnect and relationship intimacy issues primarily among Veteran and active duty military couples. Dr. Sarah Nunnink, a psychologist certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples, focuses on how military beliefs and values can affect relationships on an intimate and emotional level. The course discusses signs, symptoms, and treatment modalities that can benefit Veteran couples who feel emotionally disconnected. You can find the resource here:  https://learn.psycharmor.org/courses/intimacy-and-emotional-disconnect-in-military-populations Episode Partner: This week's episode is brought to you by Humana, a leading health and well-being company that has joined forces with PsychArmor to develop campaigns and courses that support veterans and their families in achieving their best health. To learn more about how Humana honors and serves veterans visit healthequity.humana.com/veterans Contact Us and Join Us on Social Media Email PsychArmorPsychArmor on TwitterPsychArmor on FacebookPsychArmor on YouTubePsychArmor on LinkedInPsychArmor on InstagramTheme MusicOur theme music Don't Kill the Messenger was written and performed by Navy Veteran Jerry Maniscalco, in cooperation with Operation Encore, a non profit committed to supporting singer/songwriter and musicians across the military and Veteran communities.Producer and Host Duane France is a retired Army Noncommissioned Officer, combat veteran, and clinical mental health counselor for service members, veterans, and their families.  You can find more about the work that he is doing at www.veteranmentalhealth.com  

In this episode of Real Integrative Medicine, Dr. Jordan Robertson sits down with urologist-turned-menopause advocate Dr. Kelly Casperson, MD to explore the gender gaps in healthcare and why menopause deserves more attention. Kelly shares how one pivotal patient experience shifted her perspective and sparked her mission to champion evidence-based care for women.Together, they dive into the power of integrative medicine, the challenges of accessing hormone therapy, and how technology is shaping the future of patient-centered care. This episode challenges the conventional understanding of hormones like testosterone and estrogen, highlighting their critical role in brain health.Tune in to learn how personalized medicine, patient advocacy, and a shift in how we view women's health can lead to better outcomes for all.----Dr. Casperson is a board-certified practicing urologist interested in the power of the mind and science to change our views of sexuality. After many years in practice, she had a life-changing patient that made her curious to learn everything she could about female sexual wellness. After she learned all she could, she created a podcast called You Are Not Broken, which consistently ranks in the top 10 in the Apple “sexuality” category in multiple countries. It has been nominated for an AASECT award for three years running. She is an engaging and humorous storyteller making people comfortable with often uncomfortable topics and changing lives in the bedroom and out with her practical, valuable tips. She is also the author of the bestselling book, “You Are Not Broken: Stop Should-ing All Over Your Sex Life.”Follow Dr. Kelly Casperson on Instagram----Dr. Jordan Robertson is a leader in naturopathic and integrative medicine. She is dedicated to evidence-based healthcare and founded The Confident Clinician, which empowers practitioners with up-to-date research and practical tools. With over 15 years in clinical practice and experience teaching at McMaster University's Health Sciences program, she bridges the gap between research and real-world application.Follow Dr. Jordan Robertson on Instagram----Do you ever wish there were a knowledge base built just for you?Have you searched for a resource that supported you so you could focus on what really matters for your business?The Confident Clinician is the ONLY medical knowledge base built for integrative practitioners.Over 750 clinician members have simplified their patient care by using our knowledge base and exclusive members-only education.Our knowledge base and clinical topics are updated on an ongoing basis and, and we offer exclusive members-only courses that support you, whatever your clinical focus.Ready to be supported in your work? Learn more about The Confident Clinician hereLearn more about The Magic is in the Visit Webinar SeriesDiscover The Confident Clinician's 5-day AI Smart-Search ChallengeIf you're a clinician and you're loving the content of the show, I'd love to invite you to subscribe to our clinician-focused free magazine called The Stacks. The Stacks offers research focused articles, editorials and opinion pieces on business and practice and unlocks some of our best Confident Clinician content every month.Subscribe to The StacksThank you for listening. Please subscribe and share.

Are You Ready to Level Up Your Sex Life? Join us in this sizzling episode of Shameless Sex as we sit down with the incredible Shan Boodram, AASECT certified sex educator, certified Sexologist, and host of the Lovers by Shan podcast. She also has an incredible MasterClass we love called The Art of Sex Appeal. With over 20 years of studying and experiencing sex, Shan is on a mission to guide and support those who are already on their sexual journey. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • How to navigate your unique body and desires to enhance your sex life • The importance of sex positions tailored to your body and your partner's • How to prioritize women's pleasure and create a more satisfying experience • Tips and tricks from the Kama Sutra to live a more pleasurable and connected life • How to transition from a novice to an "athlete" in the bedroom • A sneak peek into Shan's erotic jewelry line, Kama, and her MasterClass, The Art of Sex Appeal Shan's passion for modern intimacy and relationship education is contagious, and her expertise will leave you feeling empowered and inspired to take your sex life to the next level. Teaser So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode and get ready to unleash your inner sex appeal. As Shan would say, "Let's get lit up and take it to the next level!" And, as a special treat, Shan shares a surprising secret about the cowgirl position... it's not just about bouncing up and down. Want to know the secret to making it more pleasurable? You'll have to listen to find out! Get more Shan: https://www.loversbyshan.com/ Shan's MasterClass: http://Masterclass.com/shameless Kama jewelry line: https://surmeyi.com/collections/kama Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 15% off your curated erotic experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyi Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com For products mentioned in the episode: Womanizer Premium 2 Womanizer Starlet Pjur Lust Clitoral Gel

Episode 75 - Karyn Wittmeyer is an AASECT-certified sex therapist who works primarily with non-monogamous and LGBTQIA+ clients. Disclaimer: Please note that all information and content on the UK Health Radio Network, all its radio broadcasts and podcasts are provided by the authors, producers, presenters and companies themselves and is only intended as additional information to your general knowledge. As a service to our listeners/readers our programs/content are for general information and entertainment only.  The UK Health Radio Network does not recommend, endorse, or object to the views, products or topics expressed or discussed by show hosts or their guests, authors and interviewees.  We suggest you always consult with your own professional – personal, medical, financial or legal advisor. So please do not delay or disregard any professional – personal, medical, financial or legal advice received due to something you have heard or read on the UK Health Radio Network.

Our guests this time are the dynamic duo, mother/daughter team of The Buehler Institute, Dr. Stephanie Buehler and Anneka Buehler. Stephanie Buehler, MPW, PsyD, CST-S, IF, is a licensed psychologist, AASECT-certified sex Therapist and Supervisor, and Fellow of the International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health. She is the President of The Buehler Institute and LearnSexTherapy.com, which provides APA, AASECT, NBCC, and California BRN-approved inclusive continuing education in sex therapy and sexuality counseling. In addition to pelvic pain disorders and using the sexological ecosystemic approach she developed, Dr. Buehler has written about and lectured on the intersection of sexuality and sexual identity, thriving after breast and prostate cancer; neurodivergent sexuality and relationships; post-trauma recovery of sexual function and pleasure; counseling for couples; infertility, pregnancy, and post-partum issues; and menopause and other lifespan concerns affecting women. She provides AASECT individual and group supervision and case consultation to therapists. She is the author of several books, including the third edition of What Every Mental Health Provider Needs to Know about Sex. Anneka Buehler, MEd, is a recent graduate of George Mason University with a master's degree in counseling. She is the Vice President of The Buehler Institute and is a true multi-tasker responsible for directing day-to-day operations, marketing and social media, and content development. Ms. Buehler is an intern at a group practice that serves DC, Maryland, and Virginia. Her areas of concentration include working with neurodiverse clients, trauma, pelvic pain, and kink, and she has extensive experience with the LGBTQ+ population. If you want to catch up on other shows, just visit our website and please subscribe! We love our listeners and welcome your feedback, so if you love Our Better Half, please give us a 5-star rating and follow us on Facebook and Instagram. It really helps support our show! As always, thanks for listening!  

Not sure what's missing from your sex life? Sex educator Emily Nagoski talks about her research on sex and connection, covering everything from common myths about intimacy to why we're so uncomfortable talking about sex. Learn how to figure out what you want from sex and how to bring it up with your partner.  There are so many societal expectations around sex and relationships. We're going to get into the reasons we tend to like sex, how to determine exactly what you like, and Emily answers your toughest questions about sex submitted directly to me by lovely listeners. 0:33 How Men Are Deprived of Feelings 5:31 How Do We Know What We Like? 10:30 How To Talk About Sex 26:14 Turning Off Your Brain 29:40 Sex During Political Collapse  31:30 Why Don't We Talk About Sex? 40:15 Practicing Ecstasy  44:14 Masturbation 56:35 Sex While Managing Disabilities 1:01:51 Sex & SSRIs Listen to Disability After Dark. Find a sex therapist at AASECT. For more from Emily, find her on Instagram @enagoski or online at www.emilynagoski.com.  Order her newest book Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections. Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz's book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!  To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast. Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Subscribe to the substack by visiting https://lizmoody.substack.com/welcome. This episode is sponsored by: LMNT: go to DrinkLMNT.com/LizMoody to get a free LMNT sample pack with any order. The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy. Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast.  This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 315. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we explore how yoga practices such as self-awareness, movement, and breath can help navigate grief. Edy shares her personal journey and how it guided her to develop therapeutic practices for others. The discussion includes how grief manifests in the body, the importance of movement and breath in emotional release, and practical tools for therapists to aid clients. We discuss innovative concepts like the Liberation Protocol and sexual grief, offering listeners insightful strategies to handle grief. MEET Edy NathanEdy Nathan MA, LCSWR is an author, public speaker, and licensed therapist. She is an AASECT-certified sex therapist, hypnotherapist, and certified EMDR practitioner with more than 20 years of experience. Edy earned degrees from New York University and Fordham University, with post-graduate training at the Ackerman Institute for Family Therapy. She practices in New York City. In her expertise as a grief therapist, she interweaves her formal training as a psychotherapist with breathwork, guided imagery, ritual, and storytelling. Trauma, abuse, and grief cause the soul to become imbalanced: The goal of the work is to find emotional calibration or balance to defy the depth of darkness and the grip grief often has on the psyche. She believes that everyone experiences grief throughout their lives. Grief is not just about the death of a loved one, but the losses we experience in life.Find out more at Edy Nathan and connect with Edy on Facebook, X, and InstagramUnmasking the Pain of Loss: Helping Clients Identify & Work with Grief Trauma-Informed Yoga for Therapists: A Practical ApproachUnderstanding how the body holds griefThe concept of sexual griefEmpathy and self-awareness in griefPractical breathing techniques for anxietyUnderstanding anxiety and the nervous system The power of journaling for griefBreath work practices for self-regulationConnect With Me Instagram: @chris_mcdonald58Facebook: Yoga In The Therapy PodcastJoin the private Facebook Group: Bringing Yoga Into the Therapy RoomTikTok: @YogaChris58Rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, TuneIn, and Spotify

Hello everyone! I'm so excited to welcome Dr. Holly Wood to the podcast this week. Yes, her name is iconic, but so is the work she's doing in the world of sex therapy. With a PhD in Human Sexuality and certifications as both an AASECT sex therapist and a clinical psychology sexologist, Dr. Holly brings so much knowledge and heart to her work. As a new mom herself, she's here to share both expert advice and personal experiences around keeping intimacy alive after kids. In this episode:Dr. Holly shares what inspired her to specialize in sex and relationshipsWhy so many couples struggle to stay connected after kidsThe body changes that happen, hormones, and feeling sexy again after pregnancyHow scheduling sex can be important for finding time for intimacyWhy emotional intimacy is just as important as physical connectionHow to own your own pleasure instead of waiting on your partner**This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Luxury Shouldn't Be Out of Reach. Visit CozyEarth.com and use my exclusive code RACHELM for 40% off best-selling sheets, towels, pajamas, and more. And if you get a post-purchase survey, let themknow you heard about Cozy Earth right here.**Thank you so much for listening!  Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode!ResourcesThe Inner Work of Relationships by Mathew MichelettiFair Play by Eve RodskyHunt, Gather, Parent by Michaeleen DoucleffDesire by Lauren Fogel MersyGottman's Bringing Baby HomeConnect with Dr HollyWebsite: TheHollyWoodSexologist.comSocials: @TheHollyWoodSexologistSupport the showConnect with Rachel!Instagram: @The_Rachel_MaineWebsite: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertiseYouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelfFacebook: Rachel MaineEmail: therachelmaine@gmail.com

Sari Cooper LCSW-R CST-S and Kelly Ghweinem LCSW CST, co-founders of the Erotic Intimacy Academy, discuss their new See It Certification program aimed at enhancing general therapists' competency in addressing sexual health issues. Sari and Kelly explain the extensive AASECT certification process and how their streamlined program provides foundational knowledge in sexual health. They cover the importance of sexual health in overall well-being, comfort levels for therapists discussing sexual issues, and the practical application of evidence-based practices through webinars and live case consultations. The program offers rolling admission and aims to create a community of learners from diverse backgrounds. Sari and Kelly invite therapists and coaches to join the program to better support their clients and enhance their own professional skills. Sari Cooper LCSW-R CST-S and Kelly Ghweinem LCSW CST are co-founders of the Erotic Intimacy Academy, a digital educational platform for therapists, and AASECT-Certified Sex Therapists. With over 30 years of combined experience, Sari and Kelly have seen firsthand how addressing sexuality and intimacy can profoundly impact therapeutic outcomes. The SEE IT (Sexuality Educated and Erotically Informed Therapist) certification program is designed to equip therapists with the knowledge and skills necessary to navigate these often-overlooked areas in their practice. Their program is rooted in creating a safe, shame-free environment for learning, allowing professionals to feel confident in discussing these sensitive topics. eroticacadmey24@gmail.com www.eroticacademy.net Subscribe, rate, & review The Shrink Show podcast: Facebook, Instagram , YouTube, X

Felicia Molano, a certified sex therapist and trauma specialist, discussed her extensive training, including 90 credits in sexuality, 50 hours of supervision, and 300 hours of direct client contact and professional membership of AASECT. She specializes in EMDR for trauma, including sexual trauma, and works with adults and older teens. Felicia also counsels sex offenders, emphasizing rehabilitation and prevention. She highlighted common issues like betrayal trauma, libido mismatches, and problematic sexual behaviors. Felicia advocates for comprehensive sexual education and healthy relationships, using tools like the Gottman method and resources like Meet Rosy and "The Great Sex Rescue" for Christian couples.0:00:00 - Intro0:00:21 - Training & Certification Requirements of Sex Therapists0:02:05 - Explanation of EMDR & It's Applications 0:03:39 - Challenges & Emotional Impact of Working with Trauma 0:04:50 - Working with Sex Offenders 0:09:50 - Common Issues for Sex Therapists 0:12:40 - Myths & Facts with Pornography 0:16:10 - Healthy Sex & Principles 0:24:00 - Asexuality 0:25:56 - Working Past Trauma 0:29:30 - Fetishes & Power 0:33:45 - Better Sex for Average Couple 0:35:30 - Resources for Sex Information 0:37:02 - Sexuality, Religion & God 0:40:15 - Female Orgasm & Psychological Blocks 0:42:01 - Single People, Apps & Casual Sex 0:43:05 - Relationships That Go the Distance 0:44:15 - When One Partner Can't Have Sex 0:45:55 - Technology & Sex 0:47:50 - Older Females with Minors 0:52:40 - Trans & Gender Dysphoria 0:57:53 - Erectile Dysfunction, Health & Treatment 1:02:07 - Pacific Behavioral Health 1:04:05 - Outro Pacific Behavioral Health website:https://www.pacificbehavioralhealth.com/therapists/felicia-molanoChuck Shute link tree:https://linktr.ee/chuck_shuteSupport the showThanks for Listening & Shute for the Moon!

In this conversation, Dr. Kelly Casperson explores her journey into female sexual health, highlighting the taboo surrounding women's sexual health education and the lack of training for medical professionals. She discusses key topics like hormone balancing, menopause, and the impact of the Women's Health Initiative on hormone replacement therapy. Dr. Casperson emphasizes the benefits of estrogen replacement therapy and encourages women to be proactive about their health as they age. She advocates for better education, awareness, and research to combat misconceptions and improve women's health outcomes. Key Takeaways: - Urology encompasses pelvic health, including female sexual health. - Many medical professionals lack training in sexual health education. - Sexual health is often considered taboo, leading to misinformation. - Hormone balancing is often a marketing term rather than a medical reality. - Menopause is a natural process, but its implications are often misunderstood. - The Women's Health Initiative has had a lasting negative impact on hormone therapy perceptions. - Only a small percentage of women are currently on hormone replacement therapy. - Estrogen has significant health benefits beyond sexual health. - Women should be proactive about their health as they age. - Education and open discussions about sexual health are crucial for women's well-being. Vaginal estrogen can significantly improve quality of life for women. - Breast cancer survivors may benefit from hormone therapy. - Education is crucial for women to make informed health decisions. - Testosterone plays a vital role in women's health and well-being. - Many doctors lack knowledge about the safety of hormone therapy. - Women often have more testosterone than estrogen in their bodies. - Quality of life should be prioritized in hormone therapy discussions. - The stigma around hormone therapy needs to be addressed. - Research on hormone therapy is extensive but often overlooked. - Women should advocate for their health and seek information. Dr. Kelly Casperson is a board-certified urologic surgeon who believes in the transformative power of science and the mind to reshape our understanding of sexuality and hormones. After many years of practice, a pivotal encounter with a patient ignited her deep curiosity about female sexual wellness, leading her to learn everything she could to help others. Compelled to do more, she realized that helping patients one-on-one in her clinic wasn't enough to address the widespread gap in sexual and hormonal education. Recognizing that women aren't broken in the bedroom but simply misinformed, she launched the You Are Not Broken podcast. The show quickly gained popularity, consistently ranking in the top 10 in Apple Podcasts' “Medicine” category in the U.S., and has been nominated for an AASECT award three years in a row. In addition to the podcast, Dr. Casperson has developed online courses, a book, and a membership that empowers women by teaching them the fundamentals of their anatomy, physiology, and sexual function. Her approach helps women dismantle limiting beliefs and live their best love lives. Combining her medical expertise with certifications from The Life Coach School and the North American Menopause Society, Dr. Casperson uses a holistic, evidence-based approach to help women achieve sexual wellness and confidence. Known for her engaging and humorous storytelling, Dr. Casperson is a sought-after speaker who makes people feel at ease discussing often uncomfortable topics. Like a trusted big sister who's also a doctor, she shares practical advice that's changing lives both in and out of the bedroom. Dr. Casperson's book, You Are Not Broken: Stop Should-ing All Over Your Sex Life, is available on Amazon and Audible. In 2025, she will be opening the Casperson Clinic for hormones and sex medicine, expanding her reach even further in women's health. Find Dr. Casperson here: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kellycaspersonmd/?hl=en Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/you-are-not-broken/id1495710329 Website - www.kellycaspersonmd.com  Facebook - facebook.com/groups/youarenotbroken Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@kellycaspersonmd Bestselling book — You Are Not Broken: Stop "Should-ing" All Over Your Sex Life Follow Dr. Mina here:-  https://instagram.com/drminaskin https://www.facebook.com/drminaskin https://www.youtube.com/@drminaskin https://www.linkedin.com/in/drminaskin/ For more great skin care tips, subscribe to The Skin Real Podcast or visit www.theskinreal.com Baucom & Mina Derm Surgery, LLC Website- https://www.atlantadermsurgery.com/ Email - scheduling@atlantadermsurgery.com Contact - (404) 844-0496 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/baucomminamd/ Thanks for listening! The content of this podcast is for entertainment, educational, and informational purposes and does not constitute formal medical advice.

Our guest this time is Dr. Daniel N. Watter. Dan is an existential sex therapist and he has so much to say about appreciating sexuality as we age instead of extolling the virtues of youthful sexuality. He has a fresh approach to the connection between death anxiety and sexuality. Dan talks with us about the existential importance of the penis and the idea that the penis is speaking but sometimes in a whisper. Dr. Watter is the author of more than 30 professional articles and book chapters on topics such as sexual function and dysfunction, and ethics in healthcare practice. He most recently completed the new book, The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality and a new article about men, sex, and aging for the Journal of Sexual Medicine. Dan has been a practicing clinical and forensic psychologist and certified sex therapist for more than 35 years. He is licensed as both a psychologist and a marital and family therapist. In addition, he is Board Certified in Sex Therapy by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT), and the American Board of Sexology (ACS), of which he also holds Fellowship status. Dr. Watter is an AASECT certified sex therapy supervisor and has been elected to Fellowship Status in the International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health (ISSWSH). In addition to his clinical practice, he is a faculty member at the University of Michigan School of Social Work's Sexual Certification Program and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. He has taught at a number of colleges, universities, and medical schools in the past. Dr. Watter is a member of several professional organizations and has been elected to leadership positions in many including the New Jersey Psychological Association's Ethics Committee, the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR), and AASECT. He's been the Chair of the AASECT Ethics Advisory Committee and President of SSTAR. You can reach Dan Watter here. And you can check out his new book here. If you'd like to read any of the other books we discussed, you can find Irvin Yalom's work here, and Peggy Kleinplatz's book, Magnificent Sex: Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers  here. If you want to catch up on other shows, just visit our website and please subscribe! We love our listeners and welcome your feedback, so if you love Our Better Half, please give us a 5-star rating and follow us on Facebook and Instagram. It really helps support our show! As always, thanks for listening!  

Today we welcome Sex Therapist Dr. Roger Libby Roger is a marriage and relationship counselor who is an internationally recognized sexologist, social psychologist, sociologist and an AASECT-certified sex therapist with two practice offices in Seattle, and in Poulsbo (Kitsap County), Washington. The B.I.STANDER Podcast is a conversational podcast unique to Bainbridge Island and Seattle Washington, that covers the Arts, Society & Culture told through Human Interest stories. The intent is to introduce interesting people, ideas, and conversations. We are not perfect and that's OK! Thank you for your support! The B.I.Stander Podcast is a listener supported show, please consider subscribing.   BE A FRIEND OF PODCASTVILLE AND TELL A FRIEND  The BISTANDER Podcast! Blue Canary Auto NOW ALSO in Bremerton! Sound Reprographics Tideland Magazine Song "Fly on the Wall by LeRoy Bell and available at:  Tower Records! Additional sound effects by: https://www.zapsplat.com/ Support the Show on PATREON "Be a friend, tell a friend!"

In this episode, I sit down with Heather McPherson, a licensed marriage and family therapist and founder of the Sexual Health Alliance, to explore the complexities of sex addiction and its societal perceptions. Why are we so quick to label and judge? Heather dives into the origins of the sex addiction diagnosis and critiques its impact, advocating for a harm-reduction and education-focused approach instead. We also take a deep dive into sexual health, consent in non-traditional relationships like kink, polyamory, and open relationships—are therapists equipped to understand these dynamics? Heather explains why proper training is essential. Plus, she expands on how we define sex itself, pushing for a broader, pleasure-centered perspective. Curious about the future of sexual health education and community? This conversation is sure to make you rethink everything! Let's dive in!About the Guest:Heather McPherson is a licensed marriage and family therapist, entrepreneur, and the CEO and founder of Sexual Health Alliance (SHA), a leading provider of education and certification for sexuality professionals. She is also the founder of the ReSpark Group, a national brand offering group therapy and a non-profit organization. Licensed in Colorado, Washington, and Texas, Heather specializes in sexual health and relationships. An AASECT-certified sex therapist, she's been featured in Playboy, CNN, and Rolling Stone. Heather's passion lies in providing high-quality, evidence-based training for professionals in the field.PLISSIT ModelTimestamps:(00:00:01) Introduction to Heather(00:02:09) What exactly is “sex addiction”?(00:06:11) Sex addiction vs porn addiction(00:14:07) The six guiding principles of sexual health(00:18:19) Integrating religion and sexuality(00:22:35) Gender differences in sex addiction(00:25:53) Evolution of sex therapy(00:28:54) Curriculum development for sexual health(00:31:19) How to become a certified sex therapist(00:35:49) Community importance in sexual healthKaren Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastKaren Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the...

In this episode we interview Dr. Lexx Brown-James, President of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). Dr. Lexx is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an AASECT certified sexuality educator and supervisor. Dr. Lexx is also the Director of the University of Michigan's Sexual Health Certificate Program and is the first Black woman to be elected President of AASECT. Dr. Lexx provides education and therapy from womb-to-tomb through her practice, The Institute for Sexuality & Intimacy, LLC . As a multiple time Amazon best seller and creator of Dr. Lexx's Relationship Tune Up Cards and The Black Girls' Guide to Couple's Intimacy, Dr. Lexx is an international sexologist featured in Essence, The New York Times, Scary Mommy, NPR, multiple news outlets, Vice, Buzzfeed, as well as multiple journal publications and books. You can find out more information about Dr. Lexx Brown-James at https://www.lexxsexdoc.com/. For more information about Dr. Konnie Mccaffree as well as the different organizations mentioned in this episode, check out these links: Konstance McCaffree Obituary SIECUS The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS) The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) If you want to catch up on other shows, just visit our website and please subscribe! We love our listeners and welcome your feedback, so if you love Our Better Half, please give us a 5-star rating and follow us on Facebook and Instagram. It really helps support our show! As always, thanks for listening!  

Elle Fultz is a licensed professional therapist, AASECT certified sex therapist & founder of Fultz Therapy. Elle provides therapy to individuals and couples and she recently launched an at home course for couples to help them with open communication and to explore sexual intimacy. Elle's goal is to help her clients reclaim their sexual purpose, get the pleasure they deserve and learn how to create the relationships they desire.Here's where to find more:Fultztherapy.comRisqueroundtable.comIG @Fultzsextherapy___________________________________________________________Welcome to The Unforget Yourself Show where we use the power of woo and the proof of science to help you identify your blind spots, and get over your own bullshit so that you can do the fucking thing you ACTUALLY want to do!We're Mark and Katie, the founders of Unforget Yourself and the creators of the Unforget Yourself System and on this podcast, we're here to share REAL conversations about what goes on inside the heart and minds of those brave and crazy enough to start their own business. From the accidental entrepreneur to the laser-focused CEO, we find out how they got to where they are today, not by hearing the go-to story of their success, but talking about how we all have our own BS to deal with and it's through facing ourselves that we find a way to do the fucking thing.Along the way, we hope to show you that YOU are the most important asset in your business (and your life - duh!). Being a business owner is tough! With vulnerability and humor, we get to the real story behind their success and show you that you're not alone._____________________Find all our links to all the things like the socials, how to work with us and how to apply to be on the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/unforgetyourself

What if trauma from your past is impacting your health today—and no one's talking about it? Join me and Dr. Heather Quaile as we talk about the essential truths about trauma-informed care and midlife health.Heather, a seasoned nurse practitioner and sexual medicine expert, shares her journey from traditional healthcare to creating a compassionate, patient-centered approach that addresses the real-life challenges women face, especially in midlife.We dive into how trauma—whether it's from childhood, medical experiences, or societal pressures—can manifest in symptoms like severe menopause and chronic pain. Heather breaks down the "big T" and "little t" traumas and explains how acknowledging these experiences can transform patient care. We also discuss the power of the ACE score (Adverse Childhood Experiences) and how it should be a part of every clinician's toolkit.Heather shares her experience working with trafficking survivors, addressing not just the immediate medical needs but the long-term emotional recovery these patients require. Her work highlights the importance of creating safe, empowering healthcare environments that consider the whole patient—mind, body, and history.We also discuss why finding the right provider for midlife care is crucial and how to identify clinicians who prioritize evidence-based, patient-centered treatment. From understanding the principles of trauma-informed care to advocating for your health, this episode is packed with practical advice and deep insights.Join us for an enlightening conversation that challenges the status quo and reminds us all of the importance of compassionate, informed care.Highlights:The connection between trauma and worsening menopause symptoms.What trauma-informed care means and why it's vital in healthcare settings.How ACE scores help identify patients at higher risk for chronic health conditions.Heather's work with trafficking survivors and lessons for all healthcare providers.Tips for finding the right provider for midlife and sexual health.Heather's Bio:Heather's Bio:Dr. Heather Quaile, (she/her) is a renowned clinical and academic leader andentrepreneur. A double board certified, women's and gender health nurse practitionerand advanced forensic nurse specializing in human trafficking and female sexual health.She is a thought leader and creator of the Just Ask podcast. Dr. Quaile is also trainedand certified as a Menopause Society Certified Practitioner, AASECT sex counselor andsexual assault nurse examiner providing sexual health education, trauma-informedcare, and information to patients of all ages. She created and implemented a medicalprogram for emergency stabilization for commercial sexual exploitation of youth inGeorgia. Dr. Quaile has been working in all aspects of women's healthcare for over 23years caring for women of all ages across the health-illness continuum and recognizedthe lack of sexual health awareness not just in her community but in its providers. Shefounded, developed, and implemented her private practice The Sexual HealthOptimization and Wellness (SHOW) Center. Her goal is to help guide patients throughtheir healthcare journey and provide a range of services that address thebiopsychosocial aspects of health, wellness, optimization, and sexuality. She ispassionate about changing the systems and beliefs that have stigmatized women'shealth and female sexuality through a non-judgmental, empathic approach grounded inevidence-based research. She is a Fellow of the International Society for the Study ofWomen's Sexual Health (ISSWSH) and Fellow of the American Academy of NursePractitioners. She is the chair of the ISSWSH scientific committee and past...

“Release yourself from the idea that your relationship needs to fit into anybody's box.”Have you ever wondered if you and your partner are truly compatible? Or struggled to express your needs, feeling lost in a sea of unmet expectations? Whether you're exploring non-monogamy, redefining relationship norms, or simply seeking deeper connections, this episode is for you. Our guest, Dr. Joli Hamilton, is a relationship coach, sex educator, and co-host of the “Playing with Fire” podcast. She's on a mission to help people design non-monogamous partnerships that align with their authentic selves—no more shrinking, pretending, or hiding.Join Erin and Dr. Joli as they delve into what it means to truly know and communicate your needs within a relationship, whatever form it takes. This episode is a bold invitation to reimagine relationships and a reminder that it's never too late to build the life you truly want. Together, we navigate through:Why many people default to monogamy without questioning if it's truly right for them.The role of the Internet in normalizing conversations about non-monogamy.The power of intentionality in defining your relationship goals, whether monogamous, non-monogamous, or something uniquely yours.Unpacking ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, monogamish, and creative monogamy—and the need for accessible language around non-traditional relationships.Why regularly reassessing your relationships is essential to meet the evolving needs of both partners.The value of knowing your “relationship bottom lines” and non-negotiables.Individuation: breaking free from societal norms to uncover your true self and find fulfillment outside the status quo.Why honesty and willingness to do the deep work are essential for any relationship to thrive—monogamous or otherwise.OUR GUEST: Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines & founder of The Year of Opening. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT (pronounced ay-sect) certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Joli's been featured in The New York Times, Vogue, Cosmo, and NPR. Want more Dr. Joli? Learn more about her at https://www.jolihamilton.com/ and take her quiz to see if you are ready to open your relationship happily: www.JoliQuiz.com Check out her podcast Playing with Fire: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/playing-with-fire/id1540852334Follow her on:Instagram: @drjoli_hamilton Facebook: @dr.joli.hamilton LinkedIn: @joli-hamilton-phd Want more Hotter Than Ever? Subscribe to the Hotter Than Ever Substack to dive deeper. Find episode transcripts at www.hotterthaneverpod.com Follow us on:Instagram:

Today on the show, Robin sits down, partially costumed, with guests:Hilary ColeRich Del GrandeErika BondHilary Cole is a lifelong Maryland resident who just moved back to Baltimore with her husband, Ayman, after almost 20 years on the Eastern Shore. An adventurer at heart, Hilary hopes to expand her horizons with her travels, new experiences, and further education. While she works in human resources professionally, her passion lies in sex education, so she's gaining her certification to put her training & public speaking skills to work in an underserved field. In her leisure time, Hilary writes, plays No Man's Sky, enjoys bonfires with Ayman and their friends, and is creating lots of new memories in her new city.Rich Del Grande is a full time teacher and part time performer and professional goofball. He got his start in performing competing in the Red Bull Flugtag followed by almost a decade at the Olney Boys and Girls Club's Field of Screams. He previously appeared on and did social media for the “Now Available on Video Cassette” podcast and was a frequent guest on MET Comedy Nights “The Last Hurrah” improvised talk show. He currently co-hosts the annual Baltimore Krampuslauf in Hampden/Peabody Heights.  He has also appeared in music videos for Frederick area bands “Seaknuckle”, “Double Motorcycle”, and “Sunniva”.Erika Bond is a licensed marriage and family therapist practicing in DC and MD. She's been in practice nearly 20 years and her most recent undertaking is getting her AASECT sex therapy certification. AASECT is the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists. Prior to being a psychotherapist, she worked for many years in the Information Technology field. She worked as tester, business analyst, and content producer.Check out Rich on Instagram@richdelgrande - https://www.instagram.com/richdelgrande/?hl=en@baltimorekrampuslauf - https://www.instagram.com/baltimorekrampuslauf/@hotdog_aficionado - https://www.instagram.com/hotdog_aficionado/Grab tix to Rich's show The Last Hurrah on Nov 30th at 8:30pm at the Maryland Ensemble Theater:https://marylandensemble.org/comedynight/Thank you for your ongoing generous support of the show's select charities:Hurricane Relief Effortshttps://www.redcross.org/donate/donation.html/Light the Night Leukemia & Lymphoma Societyhttps://pages.lls.org/ltn/fdk/Montcomd24/rsmithMovemberhttps://movember.com/m/14654248?mc=1--Become a supporter on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/therobinsmithshowGet in touch: robinsmithshow@gmail.comCall the hotline: +1 (301) 458-0883Got a question? We'd love to hear from you!

Ever wondered why some women experience low libido and what can be done about it? Or what orgasms look and feel like for different women? These questions often go unanswered, but Dr. Maureen Slattery—a board-certified OBGYN specializing in sex and menopause—is here to change that. A leading advocate for women's sexual health, Dr. Slattery joins us in this episode to share her mission of empowering women through education and enhancing sexual well-being during perimenopause and menopause.Join Erin and Dr. Maureen as they dive deep into the complexities of women's sexual health, exploring how reclaiming pleasure and purpose can be a transformative experience in midlife. We discuss:Why comprehensive sexual health education is often overlooked in the medical field, and the consequences for women's health.How puritanical and patriarchal attitudes have shaped women's sexual education and self-understanding.The effects of hormonal changes on sexual pleasure, desire, and overall well-being.Understanding low libido and Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD).Tips for having open, productive conversations about sex and pleasure, especially in long-term relationships.The importance of raising sex-positive children and navigating talks about consent, relationships, and body positivity.OUR GUEST: Dr. Maureen Slattery is a board-certified OBGYN with 20 years of experience, specializing in sexual health and menopausal care. An AASECT-certified sex counselor, she has contributed to AARP and Rochester Regional Health on topics like sexual health and hormone therapy. Maureen teaches medical students and professionals about menopause and sexual health in Rochester, NY, and at the University of Michigan. Her passion lies in helping patients rediscover pleasure and educating healthcare providers about sexuality. She is a sex-positive, kink-aware, and LGBTQIA+ ally.Want more Dr. Slattery? Follow her on:Instagram: @drmaureenslattery LinkedIn: @maureen-slattery-md-csc-abs Want more Hotter Than Ever? Subscribe to the Hotter Than Ever Substack to dive deeper. Find episode transcripts at www.hotterthaneverpod.com Follow us on:Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: @hotterthaneverpod Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts - we're on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, and more! That way you'll never miss an episode. We'd love to hear what you think about the show - it helps us know what stories are resonating with you. DM us on Instagram and write us a review!

This is episode (5) of our special nine-part series entitled Sex is Complicated. Our hosts Julie Flakstad & Dr. Taz Bhatia, welcome celebrated urologist, author, and podcast host, Dr. Kelly Casperon to unravel why sex + intimacy becomes more nuanced as we age. Kelly's direct and approachable style provides valuable perspective and much needed advice on all things adult sex-ed. In this episode, Kelly breaks down:Why sex + intimacy is nuanced + layered as we transition into midlifeWhat's happening physically + emotionally and how to navigate it both in and out of the bedroomAdvice + perspective on how to take charge of your sexual wellness including the importance of vaginal estrogen, knowing your anatomy, and how to talk more openly with your partner and/or spouseThe importance of rethinking sex + intimacy as ‘PLAY'About Our Guest, Kelly Casperson MD.Dr. Casperson is a board-certified practicing urologist interested in the power of the mind and science to change our views on sexuality. After years in medical practice, she had a life-changing patient who fueled not only her interest in learning everything she could about female sexual wellness but ultimately, her passion for educating women everywhere that they are not broken in the bedroom. They just didn't get a proper education (and neither did their partners).She created a podcast called You Are Not Broken which consistently ranks in the top 10 in the Apple “sexuality” category in multiple countries. It has been nominated for an AASECT award for three years running.She went on to develop online courses teaching women the fundamentals of their anatomy and physiology, discussing their limiting beliefs, and normalizing their normal female sexual function, so that they are empowered to live their best love lives yet. She has a premier, private podcast/group coaching experience, which started in July 2022 to help people create desire and agency in their intimate lives.Certified through the Life Coach School and the North American Menopause Society, she now combines her medical knowledge with mind-work to help women have more understanding and agency over their sexuality.An engaging and humorous storyteller, she is a nationally recognized speaker, known for being approachable (like your big sister who is a doctor), making people feel comfortable with these often-uncomfortable topics, and changing lives in and out of the bedroom with her practical and useful tips.She is opening The Casperson Clinic in October 2024Connect with Our Hosts and Conversation Partner!Kelly CaspersonYou Are Not Broken Podcast BookYou Are Not Broken TED TalkThe Casperson ClinicAdult Sex EDWebsite: https://kellycaspersonmd.com/ Instagram: @kellycaspersonmdJulie Flakstadhttps://julieflakstad.com/ Instagram @julieflakstad  Facebook @thejulieflakstadDr. Taz BhatiaYouTube: @DrTazMDInstagram: @drtazmdWebsite: doctortaz.comOrder The Hormone Shift book HEREPractice - Centre Spring MD: https://centrespringmd.com/ Tune in next Wednesday, 10/23, when we drop our next episode in this special (9) part series, called “Friendship Matters” with podcaster and life coach, Paige Nolan. In this episode, our hosts, Julie Flakstad and Dr. Taz Bhatia, get into the ever changing landscape of adult friendships as we age.. Available on Audio and on YouTube!Thanks so much for tuning in! Before you leave, please make sure to subscribe to the show so you'll receive updates on new episodes. Also, let us know how we're doing by providing a rating and review!This series is presented by WomanessCreated by women for women, Womaness (https://womaness.com/) offers clinically and doctor tested supplements, sexual wellness, and skincare products that help you navigate hot flashes, changing skin, vaginal dryness, sleepless nights, and more—empowering you to live your life fully and age well.Just for you… Womaness is offering all our future podcast listeners 20% off any purchase of $50 or more. Use code: Midlife20 and Shop NowProduction:This show is produced by Rainbow Creative with Evy Bjorn and Matthew Jones as Executive Producers, and Nathan Wheatley as Lead Video and Audio Editor. Learn more about them at https://www.rainbowcreative.co. 

Explore the connection between chronic pelvic pain and trauma with sex therapist Rachel Zar. Learn about trauma-informed care, interdisciplinary treatments, and how women can advocate for their health in this insightful Fempower Health episode.Chronic Pelvic Pain and Trauma Episode Summary:In this episode of Fempower Health, host Georgie Kovacs speaks with Rachel Zar, an AASECT certified sex therapist and Ph.D. in clinical sexology, about the complex relationship between chronic pelvic pain and trauma. Rachel shares her personal and professional insights into how trauma manifests physically and emotionally, particularly in relation to chronic pelvic pain. As someone with extensive experience working with patients at Northwestern Medicine's Center for Sexual Medicine, Rachel emphasizes the importance of trauma-informed care, interdisciplinary treatments, and self-advocacy. This conversation is essential for women struggling to find answers about chronic pain and clinicians seeking to better serve their patients.Key Discussion Points:What is the link between trauma and chronic pelvic pain?How does chronic pain manifest in both physical and emotional ways?What role does trauma play in conditions like vaginismus and vulvodynia?How can clinicians provide trauma-informed care for patients with chronic pelvic pain?What are the common misdiagnoses and challenges in the treatment of pelvic pain?How can women advocate for their health when facing dismissive or uninformed healthcare providers?What are the best resources for finding trauma-informed therapists and pelvic pain specialists?How can unresolved trauma impact physical sensations, including pain and pleasure?What does interdisciplinary treatment for chronic pelvic pain look like?"The pain that they're experiencing is real, even if it started off as a psychological issue, our body adapts, and these are real physical things that are happening."— Rachel ZarRelated to this episode:Learn more about Rachel Zar, PhD, LMFT, CSTFollow Rachel Zar on Instagram and LinkedInIf you're passionate about advancing women's health, there are many ways you can support the Fempower Health Podcast. Here's how:Subscribe and Listen: Tune in to new episodes every Tuesday by subscribing to the Fempower Health Podcast on Apple Podcast, Spotify or your favorite podcast platform. Your regular listenership is invaluable!Leave a Review: Help us grow by leaving a review on Apple, Spotify or your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback not only supports us but also helps others discover our podcast.Share with Others: Spread the word by sharing episodes with friends, family, or anyone interested in women's health. Every share helps!Engage with Our Community: Follow us on YouTube,

In this episode, I sit down with Lilith Foxx, a BIPOC, queer, neurodivergent, kinky, and polyamorous marketing professional turned board-certified sexologist. Lilith, an AASECT-certified sexuality educator, professional speaker, coach, and diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging consultant, shares her journey from tech marketing to becoming a prominent figure in the world of BDSM and sexual education. I delve into her personal experiences with BDSM, how it has empowered her, and her professional insights on navigating kink safely and consensually. Whether you're curious about BDSM, looking to explore your own desires, or seeking to understand the intersectionality of marginalized identities within alternative sexualities, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical advice.Timestamps:(00:00) – Introduction(00:32) – Meet Lilith Foxx: BIPOC, Queer, Neurodivergent, Kinky, and Polyamorous Sexologist(01:54) – Lilith's Journey: From Tech Marketing to Sexuality Education(03:42) – Empowering Through Sexuality: Overcoming Assault and Embracing Kink(04:41) – Kink is Not Therapy: The Importance of Mental Health Treatment(06:09) – Reenacting Trauma: Psychological Risks and Rewards(09:16) – Navigating Consent and Communication in BDSM(12:45) – Understanding Kink and BDSM: Definitions and Misconceptions(15:12) – Negotiating Boundaries and Consent in Kink(16:03) – Starting Your BDSM Journey: Tips for Beginners(19:05) – The Appeal of Pain and Masochism in BDSM(22:40) – BDSM and Empowerment: Building Confidence and Overcoming Imposter Syndrome(23:32) – Inclusivity in Kink: Navigating Disabilities and Marginalized Identities(25:30) – Final Thoughts and TakeawaysKaren Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastWhere to Find Lilith Foxx:Website: https://lilithfoxx.com/Instagram, @TheLilithFoxx https://www.instagram.com/thelilithfoxx/Twitter (X): https://twitter.com/thelilithfoxxFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelilithfoxxRegister for my October 9th webinar on sex, hormones, and menopause, and get 50% off with code MENOACCESS before September 30th at

As an older adult, if your doctor is not comfortable asking about your sexual health but you've got questions, this episode is just what you need. Our guest this time is Dr. Jennifer Vencill, an assistant professor, board certified clinical health psychologist, and AASECT certified sex therapist at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota. She is passionate about answering patient questions and teaching her colleagues. She is dually appointed in the Department of Psychiatry and Psychology, as well as the Division of General Internal Medicine, where she spends the bulk of her time providing integrated sexual health care and educating fellows, residents, and medical students about the importance of sexual and gender health. Dr. Vencill's research focuses on sexual health, health disparities and minority stress in marginalized sexual and gender communities, and mixed orientation relationships. She sits on the editorial board of The International Journal of Sexual Health and Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity and is a past president of the Society for the Psychology of Women's Section on Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Concerns. Dr. Vencill received her PhD in Counseling Psychology from Texas Tech University and completed her postdoctoral training as the first Michael E. Metz fellow in Sexual Health at the University of Minnesota Medical School's Institute for Sexual and Gender Health. Along with her co-author, Lauren Fogel Mersy, Dr. Vencill is co-author of the new book, Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences in Relationships. You can reach her at the Mayo Clinic or on Instagram. If you want to catch up on other shows, just visit our website and please subscribe! We love our listeners and welcome your feedback, so if you love Our Better Half, please give us a 5-star rating and follow us on Facebook and Instagram. It really helps support our show! As always, thanks for listening!

Andreya Jones, Ph.D., LCSW, CST - From MK to Sex TherapistDivorced: Fundamentalist ChristianityCW: CSA, sexuality, and Purity CultureAndreya grew up in a conservative, evangelical community and was an MK in Papua New Guinea and Senegal, West Africa. Andreya has a doctorate in clinical sexology, is a licensed clinical social worker, and is an AASECT-certified sex therapist who owns a private practice in Pennsylvania. In the process of deconstructing from Christian evangelicalism and becoming the person she was meant to be, Andreya decided to devote her time and energy to helping other women who have had similar experiences. Passionate about helping clients navigate their relationships, sexuality, and pleasure, Andreya has recently completed a book about purity culture and female sexuality, written for therapists who work with women from this specific population. Andreya has the privilege of living with and loving her two rambunctious kids, bulldog, and wife. FIND ANDREYA:www.andreyajonescounseling.comhttps://www.facebook.com/andreyajonescounseling/Support this podcast by becoming a Member of the CORT YouTube channel! When you Support this podcast by joining our YouTube membership (starting as low as $3/month) you'll get early access to all of our new content, access to badges and special chat emojis, and more. Every dollar helps, so sign up to be a member today by clicking "Join" under the video. Subscribe to the audio-only version here: https://www.divorcing-religion.com/religious-trauma-podcastFollow Janice and the Conference on Religious Trauma on Social Media: Mastodon: JaniceSelbie@mas.toThreads: Wisecounsellor@threads.netTwitter: https://twitter.com/divorcereligionTwitter: https://twitter.com/Wise_counsellorTwitter: https://twitter.com/ComeToCORTFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DivorcingReligionTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@janiceselbieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/wisecounsellor/The Divorcing Religion Podcast is for entertainment purposes only. If you need help with your mental health, please consult a qualified, secular, mental health clinician.Podcast by Porthos MediaCopyright 2024 www.porthosmedia.netSupport the show

Hello hello! I'm back with another amazing guest on the Owning Your Sexual Self Podcast! This week with me is Aubri Lancaster who is an independent AASECT and ANTE UP! Certified Sexuality Educator. As a Greyromantic Asexual person Aubri has lived experience and a connection to the Asexual and Aromantic communities that provides a unique perspective on the issues facing the changing landscape of sexuality and orientation today.In this episode:Aubrey's journey as an educator specializing in aromanticism and asexualityThe difference between libido, desire, and sexual attractionHow asexuality is an orientation, not tied to libido levelsWhy sexual attraction isn't always necessary for a fulfilling relationshipAubrey's unique insights into navigating asexuality and relationshipsThank you so much for listening!  Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode!ResourcesScarleteen Yes, No, Maybe StocklistAce by Angela ChenConnect with AubriWebsite: AceSexEducation.comInstagram: @AceSexEducationSupport the showConnect with Rachel!Instagram: @The_Rachel_MaineWebsite: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertiseYouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelfFacebook: Rachel MaineEmail: therachelmaine@gmail.com

Join us as we welcome Aubri Lancaster, an AASECT certified sexuality educator, to explore the nuanced and often misunderstood realms of asexuality and aromanticism. Aubrey shares her personal journey from conducting adult toy parties to discovering her own asexual and gray romantic identities. We unravel the definitions of asexuality and aromanticism, shedding light on the spectrum of these experiences, including terms like gray romantic. Aubrey's insights challenge societal expectations of romantic relationships and emphasize the importance of understanding and respecting diverse orientations. Listen in as we unpack the complexity of asexuality and aromanticism, highlighting the diversity within these identities through the lens of the Asexual Community Survey. We discuss how self-identification empowers individuals and the need to create space for all experiences on the spectrum. Aubrey also touches on the societal pressures to make asexuality more palatable and advocates for nuanced understanding and open dialogue about personal experiences, moving beyond mere myth-busting. If you buy any of the books from these links the podcast will get a small amount, so it’s a great and easy way to support this work. Please visit Aubri Lancaster at:Her Website - AceSexEducator.comOn Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/acesexeducation/ On Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AubriLancasterSEOn Threads - https://www.threads.net/@acesexeducation People she mentions: Miranda Fricker - Epistemic Injustice: Power and the Ethics of Knowinghttps://amzn.to/4glOryB Lisa Orlando - Author of the Asexual Manifestohttps://asexualagenda.wordpress.com/2019/08/01/lisa-orlando-author-of-the-asexual-manifesto-1972/ Myra T. Johnsonhttps://acearchive.lgbt/artifacts/johnson-asexual-and-autoerotic-women/ Boston Marriages: Romantic but Asexual Relationships Among Contemporary Lesbians Paperback – November 17, 1993, by Esther D. Rothblum (Editor), Kathleen A. Brehony (Editor) https://amzn.to/3z7vQFT Bella DePaulo - Single at Heart - https://amzn.to/3XotpXs Please also visit whatexcitesus.com for more and how to follow Gwyn

Please join us as Sunny describes what her new life is like an expat in Portugal. In 2023, her family got rid of most of their belongings from a lifetime in the U.S. and moved to the Azores, an archipelago in the mid-Atlantic that is part of Portugal. The islands are characterized by gorgeous, dramatic landscapes, fishing villages, green pastures, and hedgerows of blue hydrangeas. It's even more breathtaking than it sounds. The islands can be found right between New York and Portugal, about three hours either way. So, in this episode, Sunny tells us about her journey and what it's like being an ex-pat on a beautiful little island. Is it the little slice of heaven that it seems? And what is it like being far away, as we, here in the U.S., cascade towards our election day with the hopes of maintaining our democracy. We will find out all this and more in this episode. Sunny's bio related to kink: Sunny began teaching about BDSM in 2010. Her area of expertise is the soft skills--which center around things like ethics, cultivating self-awareness, and strategies for effective communication. She received a FROST Certificate of Gratitude in 2020 honoring her service to the kink community, was voted XBIZ sexpert of the year in 2021, and Kinkly's sex blogging superhero in 2017. Her alternative sexuality focused podcast American Sex was awarded the AASECT podcast award in 2020. Sunny also creates curriculum about BDSM for sexuality professionals. Some of her most recent projects include designing & teaching the BDSM unit for a well-known sex educator certification program plus a lesson for the Sexual Health Alliance's Kink Informed Certification Program for therapists and other care professionals. Sunny's first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play is scheduled to be released in 2022. How to find Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Tiktok http://tiktok.com/opendeeplywithkateloree Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as 988.

Sex educators and researchers are often called upon to serve as expert witnesses in legal proceedings. This is particularly true in cases that center around kink or BDSM, consensual non-monogamy, and sexual or gender minorities. The job of the experts is to help judges and juries better understand the sexual issues at hand. In today’s show, I'm going to interview a colleague who has extensive experience serving as an expert witness. We're going to talk about the some of the cases she’s been a part of, what the experience is like, and more. My guest is Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. Dr. Eli holds a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT. She has published four books, over 30 peer-reviewed journal articles and chapters, and is currently editing a series of books on relationship and sexual diversity. Some of the specific questions we answer in this episode include: How do you decide which legal cases to get involved in? What are some reasons why you might not take a particular case? What kinds of legal issues come up for non-monogamous individuals that would require an expert witness? What are some of the legal issues that come up in the context of kink and BDSM? Given that consent is not a valid legal defense for injuries that arise during sex, what do kinky folks need to know with respect to avoiding potential legal peril? You can visit Dr. Eli’s website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Themes: Sex, Partnership, Relationships, ADHD, Neurodiversity, Self Empowerment, Intimacy, Love Charmaine Ensinger LMFT (she/her) - Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, ADHD-Certified Clinical Services Provider, Certified Sex Therapist with AASECT and IBOSP, AAMFT Approved SupervisorAs a certified sex therapist and a marriage and family therapist, Charmaine Ensinger is uniquely suited to understand complex relationships in all areas of life. Charmaine enjoys working with people of every ethnic, gender, and sexual background and finds a special connection with people who feel misunderstood, marginalized, or like an “outsider.” As an ADHD-certified clinical services provider, she is poised to address the complexities of ADHD symptoms and management. Charmaine is currently enrolled in the Clinical Sexology Ph.D. program at Modern Sex Therapy Institutes, where her doctoral project is focused on sex therapy and ADHD.  Additionally, she teaches Human Sexuality as an adjunct professor at Rowan University.For those looking to empower their sex and their relationships!  In this informative and fascinating podcast, host Daniel Cordua speaks with Charmaine Ensinger on these topics:- What is sex therapy?  And how could it be helpful to our lives & our relationships?- Demystifying The scripts about sexuality we learn at a young age- How couples can get stuck into a pattern of a sexless relationship- & How couples can bring sexual connection back into a relationship when it is lost- Sex and ADHD- Creating more mutual pleasure and awareness in our sexuality- Exploring our sexuality with more fullness & play- How our sexuality shifts in a partnership over time - Key sexual empowerment practices ... and so much more!Connect with Charmaine here*Connect with Daniel for your Free Discovery Session -  for individuals + couples who are ready to explore, illuminate + empower their lives & their relationshipsPartnership Full of Possibility for 2024 - for couples ready to up-level their partnership and create more intimacy + deeper connection.Empowered Connection MEN'S CIRCLE starts in-person, in Philadelphia, PA on Saturday September 14th at 2pm.  Email me to register - empoweredconnection.me@gmail.com.  Online Men's Circle starting soon!!Find Daily Relationship Tools + Tips & Self Growth + Empowerment Practices with Damodar on Instagram - @empoweredconnection.me*Sponsored by our adored, organic and hand-crafted with intention healing product line Bhava Wellness - RECEIVE 15% OFF  by using the code EMPOWEREDCONNECTION (one word, all caps) at checkout!EMPOWERED CONNECTION

Dr. Debby Herbenick wants us to know that today's trend for rough sex is different than what we might expect. Her research, as detailed in her book Yes, Your Kid: What Parents Need to Know About Today's Teens and Sex, shows a rise in aggressive and risky behavior, often lacking the crucial communication necessary between partners. Listen in as we unpack the rise in rough sex - specifically choking. We also discuss nude images, digital safety, and the importance of having conversations around all these topics with our teenagers and young adults. Dr. Debby Herbenick is a Provost Professor at the Indiana University School of Public Health-Bloomington, Director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion, and an AASECT-certified sexuality educator. Her research focuses on women's sexual health, US population-representative research, as well as trends in sexual attitudes and behaviors. JOIN my Newsletter Community.FOLLOW on Instagram.VISIT my Website.

Hey Listeners! You may have guessed we are on our summer break. While we're all trying to rest and recuperate and regenerate, we're reverberating with great news! What a season we had last year! So many great guests. So many things we learned. So many laughs. And a few tears, mostly of joy, because we won a coveted award. We won the AASECT award for best podcast of the year. What an honor and what a hoot to not only receive the award from our peers and our own organization, but we got to record an episode in front of a live audience (our first) at the AASECT conference in June. I won't give away too much. You'll hear more soon. It was fabulous! The other great news is we got picked up for Season 10! Yes that's right we will be back with a whole new season in September with Jane, Sabitha, Rosara, and Jayleen. And our wonderful sponsors. And a whole slew of new and captivating discussions and guests. Talk to you soon! If you want to catch up on other shows, just visit our website and please subscribe! We love our listeners and welcome your feedback, so if you love Our Better Half and want to support our show, please give us a 5-star rating and follow us on Facebook and Instagram! As always, thanks for listening!

This episode is dedicated to those of you who celebrated the Week of Visibility for Non-monogamy last week (July 15th-21st). What do you do to work through jealousy in relationships (especially ENM)? And is it something that you can even prevent?  Have you ever said "I'm too jealous to be in a nonmonogamous relationship"? Ever heard of "creative monogamy"? My guest today, Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker bestselling author - we talked about her book Project Relationship - and she's also an AASECT certified sex educator. She co-hosts the Project Relationship podcast with her  anchor partner, Ken, and she's been featured in the New York times. Vogue. NPR and the Atlantic.  Find her at jolihamilton.com and her quiz at joliquiz.com Read my July 2024 Keep Them Coming column via ThePitch.com

EPISODE 248: Podcast Discussion with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, Dr. Heath Schechinger, and Dr. Joli Hamilton.Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. She is the developer of The Bonding Project, a free quiz to help people understand if they want to bond one-to-one, one-to-many, many-to-many, or solo. With a PhD in Sociology (University of Colorado, Boulder, 2005) and certification as a Sexuality Educator from the AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, 2012), Dr. Sheff specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM.  Dr. Heath Schechinger is a therapist, researcher, coach, and consultant, known for his groundbreaking work within the realm of family and relationship diversity. In addition to his role as Co-Founder of the Modern Family Institute, he serves as the Founding Co-Chair of the American Psychological Association Division 44 Committee on Consensual Non-monogamy, Co-Founder of the Polyamory Legal Advocacy Coalition, and Affiliate Faculty at the Kinsey Institute. Dr. Joli Hamilton, is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, and AASECT certified sex educator. She is also the author of the best-selling book Project Relationship: The Entrepreneur's Action Plan for Passionate, Sustainable Love. She has spent the past two decades studying and re-imagining what love can be if we open our imaginations to possibility. Joli helps people create partnerships that are custom-built for their authentic selves, no more shrinking, pretending, or hiding required. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

We are influenced by a lot in our early years that affect our sexual lives. Those who work on college campuses and teach human sexuality have noted that there is a rise in rough sex among the students. Some of what this rough sex involves is choking. Dr. Debby Herbenick has recognized how this can be problematic for many reasons, but one is that any constriction of breath can cause damage to our bodies and our brain. Her book, Yes, Your Kid helps parents navigate the necessary conversations that are needed in the home around sex and the exposure to porn. Often as parents we tend to think, “Not my kid.” However, the reality today is that with social media and 24 hour access to porn, this could very well be something your child has experienced or maybe thought about.  Dr. Herbenick is a Provost Professor at the Indiana University School of Public Health-Bloomington, Director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion, and an AASECT-certified sexuality educator. Her newest book is “Yes Your Kid: What Parents Need to Know About Today's Teens and Sex” which has been highlighted in the New York Times and on CNN.com. Her research focuses on women's sexual health, US population-representative research, as well as trends in sexual attitudes and behaviors. She has published more than 200 peer-reviewed scientific articles related to sexual and reproductive health and serves as Principal Investigator of the award-winning National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, which has been ongoing since 2009. Dr. Herbenick's research, books, and expertise have been featured in the New York Times, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, Vogue, NPR, CBC, the Tamron Hall Show, Tyra, Discovery Health, The Doctors, and in thousands of others media. Learn more: www.debbyherbenick.com www.linkedin.com/in/debbyherbenick www.debbyherbenick.com/books-media  

Explore the emotional intricacies of cuckolding relationships with Dr. Joe Kort in this important episode! Discover invaluable strategies to navigate post-nut regret and the unique vulnerability that can arise in such scenarios. Dr. Kort, a leading expert in sexuality and relationship dynamics, offers profound insights and practical advice on managing emotional pitfalls and improving communication between partners. Psychotherapist Joe Kort, PhD, LMSW, is the clinical director and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health in Royal Oak, Michigan. He is a board-certified clinical sexologist, author of four books, lecturer and facilitator of therapeutic workshops. Throughout his 39 years of private practice, and is the author of 6 books on male sexuality and LGBT issues. Dr. Kort specializes in marital problems and conflicts; mixed orientation marriages; male sexuality and sexual health concerns; “sex addiction,” out-of-control sexual behaviors; sexual identity issues; childhood sexual abuse; LGBTQIA Affirmative Therapy; and Imago Relationship Therapy.Links:Dr. Joe Kort - https://joekort.com/AASECT - https://www.aasect.org/June 17th Queens Quarters Community Live Chat on Interracial and June 18th Live Pillow Talk Event - https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/eventsJoymode: GREAT SEX SOLVED, NATURALLYUse Code VENUS for 20% off your first order at usejoymode.com/venus

Sexual educator and researcher Dr. Debby Herbenick talks with Sarah about the uptrend in concerning sexual conduct among young people today that prompted her latest book, Yes, Your Kid: What Parents Need to Know About Today's Teens and Sex. Listen in as Sarah and Dr Herbenick discuss the shocking trends that Dr Herbenick' s research has revealed and some of the practical, collective solutions we can apply to our collective problem. Silence is not always golden; we all have to talk about the issue if we want to make a change. Dr. Debby Herbenick is a Provost Professor at the Indiana University School of Public Health-Bloomington, Director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion, and an AASECT-certified sexuality educator. Her newest book is Yes, Your Kid: What Parents Need to Know About Today's Teens and Sex. Dr. Herbenick' s research focuses on women's sexual health, US population-representative research, as well as trends in sexual attitudes and behaviors. She has published more than 200 peer-reviewed scientific articles related to sexual and reproductive health and serves as Principal Investigator of the award-winning National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, which has been ongoing since 2009. Learn more at https://www.debbyherbenick.com

Modern psychology has a very complicated relationship with gender. Gender differences have become one of the most contentious areas in the field, and it seems like psychology isn’t entirely sure what to do with men anymore. This is especially true for heterosexual men, who are often viewed through a pathological lens. So in today's show, we're going to dive into some controversy. Some of the topics we’ll discuss include why men are often blamed for their own sexual problems, why it's important to acknowledge gender differences in communication styles, and more. I am joined once again by Dr. Stephen Snyder, an AASECT certified sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist. Dr. Snyder is an Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai in New York City and author of the book LOVE WORTH MAKING: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship. Some of the questions we address include: How have the dynamics of heterosexual relationships changed over time? Why does the field of sex therapy have such a complicated relationship with men and male sexuality? What are some of the key differences in sexual psychology that are important for people to understand? You can learn more about Stephen and his work on his website here. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Xersizer is the world's best-selling penis pump, with over one million satisfied customers. The benefits of using Xersizer include improved erection quality, more staying power, and more intense orgasms. To learn more and get a 20% discount off of your purchase, visit xersizer.com/SAP *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

A lot of sex advice boils down to one popular idea: that good sex is simply a matter of combining the right physical sensations with the right kind of mental activity. In other words, great sex is just friction plus fantasy. However, it's more complicated than that. To have really great sex, we need to start by understanding the true nature of the sexual self. In today’s show, we're going to explore a new way of thinking about  sex, as well as discuss what you really need to know when it comes to having sex that's truly worth having. My guest is Dr. Stephen Snyder, and AASECT certified sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist. Dr. Snyder is an Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai in New York City and author of the book LOVE WORTH MAKING: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship. Some of the questions we address in this episode include: What’s the problem with the “friction plus fantasy” narrative? How can understanding the sexual self as “infantile” help us find inspiration in long-term sexual relationships? What is “simmering,” and what’s the benefit of learning how to do it? Why might it be bad to view sex as work? How can you develop sexual connections that last over time? You can learn more about Dr. Snyder and his work on his website. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you’ll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

In the previous episode, we talked all about how psychedelics can help in treating sexual problems. In this episode, we're going to dive into the ethical and legal considerations of psychedelic-assisted sex therapy. For example, how does consent work when patients are under the influence of a psychedelic drug? Likewise, how do therapists maintain appropriate ethical boundaries when working with clients who are in an altered and potentially vulnerable state? I am joined once again by is Jeff Lundgren, a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, AASECT-certified sex therapist, and a psychedelic-assisted therapy provider. He runs a private practice based in Salt Lake City, Utah and is author of the new book “Unfolding Eros: A Journey into Psychedelic-Assisted Sex Therapy.” Some of the specific questions we address this episode include: What kinds of safeguards do practitioners need to be thinking about in order to minimize the risk of harm when someone is undergoing psychedelic-assisted therapy? What do people need to know about the potential side effects and health risks of psychedelic substances? What is the current legal landscape for psychedelic-assisted sex therapy? How do laws need to change in order to accommodate the practice of psychedelic therapy? What should you look for in a provider, and what are some red flags to watch out for? Check out Jeff’s website to learn more about his work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

We’ve long known that psychedelics have the potential to help treat various mental health issues, but researchers are starting to take notice of the potential therapeutic applications of these drugs for dealing with sexual difficulties. So in today’s show, we’re going to dive into the small but growing world of psychedelic-assisted sex therapy. Some of the topics we're going to discuss include how psychedelics can put us in the right state of mind for enjoying great sex, which psychedelics have the most promising applications for treating sexual difficulties, and what psychedelic-assisted sex therapy actually looks like. My guest is Jeff Lundgren, a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, AASECT-certified sex therapist, and a psychedelic-assisted therapy provider. He runs a private practice based in Salt Lake City, Utah and he is author of the new book “Unfolding Eros: A Journey into Psychedelic-Assisted Sex Therapy.” Some of the specific questions we discuss include: What is a psychedelic anyway? How can psychedelics help create a feeling of presence during sex? What kinds of sexual problems have the greatest potential to be helped through the use of psychedelics? Does cannabis have the same therapeutic potential as psychedelics? What kinds of questions should someone think about before considering psychedelic-assisted sex therapy? Check out Jeff’s website to learn more about his work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you’ll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Imagine that your genitals were in a constant, uncontrollable state of arousal. You might be thinking that doesn't sound too bad, but you'd be mistaken. Persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD) is a highly distressing condition. People who have it live with unwanted arousal that doesn’t bring pleasure, and there's almost no relief from it. This makes it difficult, if not impossible, to concentrate, work, and sleep. In this episode, we're going to dive into what we know about PGAD, including how common it is, what causes it, and how it's treated. I am joined once again by Sue W. Goldstein, an AASECT certified Sexuality Educator and Clinical Research Manager at San Diego Sexual Medicine. Ms. Goldstein co-authored the book When Sex Isn't Good to provide education and empowerment to women with sexual dysfunction. Some of the questions we explore in this episode include: What does PGAD look like in everyday life? What kind of effects does this have on people? How long have we known about PGAD, and how common is it? What causes uncontrollable genital arousal? Are there any treatments that work? To learn more about women’s sexual health issues, check out Sue’s book here and visit Vella Biosciences. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Antidepressants are notorious for their sexual side effects, including diminished sexual desire and difficulties with arousal and orgasm. It was long thought that these side effects were temporary; however, a growing number of people are reporting persistent sexual difficulties after discontinuing the medication, known as Post-SSRI Sexual Dysfunction (PSSD). In today’s show, we're going to discuss what we know about PSSD, including how common it is, what causes it, and what we can do about it. I am joined by Sue W. Goldstein, an AASECT certified Sexuality Educator and Clinical Research Manager at San Diego Sexual Medicine. Ms. Goldstein co-authored the book When Sex Isn't Good to provide education and empowerment to women with sexual dysfunction. Some of the questions we explore in this episode include: How many people experience sexual side effects from antidepressants? What are the most common symptoms of PSSD? Is PSSD a formal medical diagnosis? Why is PSSD controversial? Are there any gender differences in PSSD? Why might SSRIs can cause long-term sexual dysfunction? To learn more about women’s sexual health issues, check out Sue’s book here and visit Vella Biosciences. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Factor's delicious, ready-to-eat meals make eating better every day easy! No matter your schedule for the week, be ready with pre-prepared, chef-crafted and dietician approved meals delivered right to your door. Head to factormeals.com/sexandpsych50 and use code sexandpsych50 to get 50% off your order. Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you’ll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

If you start scrolling through Instagram or TikTok, it's only a matter of time before you'll come across some anti-masturbation content. You're likely to hear that masturbation is bad for your health, that it's addictive, and that you should just say no to self-pleasure. In today's show, we're going to delve into what the science says about popular claims regarding the health benefits of semen retention, whether abstaining from masturbation actually boosts testosterone, whether you can really become “addicted” to masturbating, and so much more. I am joined once again by Dr. Eric Sprankle, an Associate Professor of Clinical Psychology and the co-director of the Sexuality Studies program at Minnesota State University, Mankato. He’s also a licensed clinical psychologist and AASECT-certified sex therapist affiliated with the Minnesota Sexual Health Institute. His latest book is titled, DIY: The Wonderfully Weird History and Science of Masturbation. Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: How (and why) have social media influences brought the idea of semen retention to the masses? Are there actually any health benefits to abstaining from ejaculation? Is an orgasm obtained from self-pleasure really any different from an orgasm obtained through partnered sex? Can women really become “addicted” to their vibrators? Is there an objective standard for what constitutes “too much” masturbation? Make sure to check out Eric’s website to learn more and follow him on the socials @drsprankle. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Private Internet Access VPN is the world's most transparent VPN provider. They let you stay private online by hiding your IP address and encrypting your internet connection. Head over to PIAVPN.com/SexAndPsychology and get an 83% discount! That's just $2.03/month and you get 4 extra months completely free. Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.