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Welcome to Baby Daddy SA, we are a group of young men and women, who are working together to ensure that young men, learn what is important about life. We teach about values more than anything, and we do this through our blog on Facebook @BabyDaddySA. We love storytelling & are huge believers in the power of the Spoken Word and Written. Baby Daddy SA is a platform where men grow, and women learn about men. Our aim is to make men understand some of the traits and behaviors they have and wish to eradicate, to better their lives. We want a nation where women can feel safe.

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    • Aug 27, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
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    #113 - There's no perfect match

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2022 7:29


    It's about time the fairytale ended about the one or the perfect match. I'm not saying that there's no soulmate but I'm saying sometimes you have work extra hard to have that beautiful relationship that you've dreamed of.

    #112 - Why are woman more progressive than men?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2022 4:19


    Let's look at how woman are getting Ahead in life and how can we also become progressive man in our society. This episode is not about habits and complex things but simple language method that can change your life slowly but surely.

    #111 - How to stay emotionally unswayed by a woman

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2022 3:48


    In this episode we look at how you can manage your emotions better And not be moved by your partners emotions.

    #110 - How to positively manage an argument/ disagreement?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2022 5:37


    #babydaddysa #positive #argument #emotionalintelligence #EQ This will change your life if you apply it…

    #109 - How to deal with your trust issue

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2022 6:15


    This a question, I am asked by lot of the gents in secret. In this episode, I explain the simple method that you can use to deal with an insecurity in a romantic relationship, and completely eradicate trust issues in current and future relationship.

    #108 - What to do after that heated argument?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2022 5:09


    It feels awkward right? You just had an argument with your partner and now you just don't know what to do about it, should you apologise or stick it out and feel that silence space? Well I suggest you listen to this episode. It is only five minutes but it will tell you something no one has been telling you. There is healing in silence, which is a controversial thought, because many times it is thought that people have to talk about the issues they encounter.

    #107 - Why quit your job?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2022 5:00


    Life is hard and it comes with a choice of letting go sometimes of things that don't make you happier.

    #106 - What is your fear of making money?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2022 5:28


    Guys I just signed up with audible and I have to say I enjoyed it today, if you would like to join here is the link: https://amzn.to/355Q6br First book I recommend is Think and Grow Rich, it's an old book, but it is amazing.

    #105 - Stages of Emotional blackmail

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2022 5:08


    Guys I just signed up with audible and I have to say I enjoyed it today, if you would like to join here is the link: https://amzn.to/355Q6br First book I recommend is Think and Grow Rich, it's an old book, but it is amazing.

    #104 - Are you unknowingly sabotaging your sphere of influence?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2022 7:11


    Some of us are surrounded by friends and family that seem to be going nowhere, and who look up to us for every issue or problem they face. But do you have someone to depend on? Guys I just signed up with audible and I have to say I enjoyed it today, if you would like to join here is the link: https://amzn.to/355Q6br First book I recommend is Think and Grow Rich, it's an old book, but it is amazing..

    #103- Why you are not achieving your goals (missing piece)?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2022 4:06


    This might be the missing piece, when you fully realise this, who knows how far you can go with your journey this time around. The same journey but a different person. Let's give it a try. Guys I just signed up with audible and I have to say I enjoyed it today, if you would like to join here is the link: https://amzn.to/355Q6br First book I recommend is Think and Grow Rich, it's an old book, but it is amazing.

    #102 - What is a dream on a timeline?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2022 9:23


    In this episode we discuss five ways that help you become a Dreamliner. Guys I just signed up with audible and I have to say I enjoyed it today, if you would like to join here is the link: https://amzn.to/355Q6br First book I recommend is Think and Grow Rich, it's an old book, but it is amazing.

    #101 - Internal Immunity: Building a round table in the year 2022

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2022 11:28


    Welcome back to the year 2022. Guys I just signed up with audible and I have to say I enjoyed it today, if you would like to join here is the link: https://amzn.to/355Q6br First book I recommend is Think and Grow Rich, it's an old book, but it is amazing..

    #100 - When to Pay and when to Play?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2021 9:25


    In this episode we speak about how to make better sacrifices by asking yourself two questions. We hope you enjoy it. As we always say. Makwande.

    #99 - How different is too different ? (The imbalances of a relationship)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2021 8:52


    In this episode we dive deep into the ocean of understanding and language, but honestly typing, we look at compatibility in relationships and what does it mean to have compatibility in a relationship, as well as the chaos of not having it. Ideally, each relationship should "automatically" have it, but if it does not, it is something that can be practised. Listen to this episode and share with your partner or be the understanding partner, when things mentioned in this episode start to happen. Guys we have a great surprise under wraps, so please look at for the link here that will take you somewhere magical. haha I am excited, they said it was things for the fancy, but we did it. Makwande

    #98 - Demand and Supply is the winning strategy w/ Scientist, Neuroscientist, Mathematician, and Pastor Mahlangu

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 3:35


    You can be whatever you like, your identity is bound to change, do not allow your identity to be swayed by your job rather you do the determining. This is the short pause to series. I have some great episodes lined up.

    #97 - How to think about money in business w/ Scientist, Neuroscientist, Mathematician, and Pastor Mahlangu

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 2:05


    This is just a powerful statement that most of us would resonate with. We have to realise that we cannot sell ourselves short because people around us say our services and products are too expensive. Determine how much you want to charge and stay consistent.

    #96 - Know what are costs and what are assets w/ Scientist, Neuroscientist, Mathematician, and Pastor Mahlangu

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 5:05


    You have to move towards having assets, and reduce the liabilities in your life, the sooner you do that, the better.

    #95 - Does your PhD guarantee you independence w/ Scientist, Neuroscientist, Mathematician, and Pastor Mahlangu

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 2:48


    Becoming indépendant is the same road to your Identity. If you understand this, then you are already on your way to understand who you are. You are more capable than what you think.

    #94 - How to deal with the Identify crisis w/ Scientist, Neuroscientist, Mathematician, and Pastor Mahlangu

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 10:05


    If you enjoy this episode feel free to share it with your friends and loved ones. I have divided into it small consumable chunks because it was a long meeting so I hope you enjoy how I have broken it down.

    #93 - How to become a model, stay consistent, and relevant?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 15:23


    I think a lot of us have shunned away from doing a lot of things that make people see us. We decide to blend in, and not let our true colours/ talents be seen because we do not like being 'Visible' my guest Properkotini has done just that. Accepting who he is, building confidence and then entering the modelling industry has taught him a few things that he shared with us on this episode. Whether you are dark, short, tall, skinny, fat, or whatever, it does not matter how people see you, how you see yourself is what counts more. Please drop him a follow on instagram if you like this episode, as well as show support to people who are redefining their lives and inspiring others in the process. Instagram: @properkotini Makwande

    #92 - When does it start to be abuse with the phrase, "Everything happens for a reason"?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2021 5:43


    In this episode I look at when does it start to be abuse when we use the phrase "Everything happens for a reason"? Hope you enjoy it and we can start being responsible people it's our time now.

    #91 - Why should we practice Humility?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2021 9:39


    In this episode I look at the concept of Humility.

    #90 - Why men never say I love you to each other?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2021 5:54


    I'm sorry guys, I was hoping that Dr. Gama would be joining me today but because of the weather (rain) her network wasn't really stable so, I had to move the interview to tomorrow. Hopefully tomorrow it does not rain. With that being the case, I have spoken about one perspective of Why men do not say I love you to each other and this is something that I learned yesterday from Emkay... I hope that you enjoy this episode. Thank you and goodnight.

    #89 - What does space mean for a guy?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2021 3:50


    Most of the time ladies do not understand what it means when a guy wants space? In this episode I try to explain what it means and also revealing that men should discuss what space means for them to their partner instead of chasing them out of the apartment!! I hope that you enjoyed this low-key episode. Tomorrow I have a great Episode coming, hopefully the rain doesn't disturb me.

    #88 - If she is telling you her problem as a guy what does she want/need?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2021 5:35


    Your sister/mother/female-best friend/partner presents you with a problem, what should you do? Do her a favour haha. Sometimes, (HAHA) but this is not always the case. In this episode I talk about one of the biggest mistake men make which is... Her: I have this problem at work and … 5 minutes later ( problem is 30 minutes long) Him: Lets go straight to the solution (au let's finish this problem and move to a new topic please) Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com Makwande

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    #87 - What is the Secret?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2021 5:59


    The secret is the mark of wisdom. To find out what is the mark of wisdom then listen to this episode. Yesterday I fell asleep before I got the chance to make an episode, before the night before I slept for three hours and it was just work, work, and work, but I will make an episode tomorrow to keep on the five episode per week momentum. And, I hope you enjoy this episode. Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com Makwande

    #86 - Why you should have boundaries w/ Chris ?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2021 10:42


    It is all about self-preservation. In this episode we discuss our daily challenges when it comes to building boundaries and something to think about this year. Tommorow I have a fantastic topic!! so please join me. Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com Makwande

    Thank you note!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2021 1:29


    We have grown 300% in unique listeners in our podcast and this is great news. I am grateful to everyone who is sharing these good news to people .I am hoping that it changing you and you are becoming a better person. I know that I am becoming a better person from doing these episodes because I get a chance to reflect on the things that I speak about. So thank you soo much. Peace and Love.

    #85 - What are the things you should have before getting married?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2021 8:03


    Subject Line: To my dearest listener: Latest episode Dear Listener, I hope this episode finds you well and safe. I am very exhausted thank you for asking :) In this episode I share the top three things in my list of should have before getting married, they are inspired by the many interviews I have had with men I have encountered in the taxi, train, road, shop, etc., This list is not the "End-of-all-things"but the "Starter-pack", I hope that you enjoy it. I look forward to sharing the next conversation with you tomorrow, I am excited kehh about tomorrow. So tune-in ngempela (for real). Happy listening in advance. Best regards, Fred Do no forget to leave me a review njalo danko Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com Makwande

    #84 - Relationship hack; The Real Talk w/ Dr. Babe

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2021 9:59


    It takes being REAL to save a relationship. I am joined by Dr. Babe and we discuss one of our relationship that takes less than 4.97 minutes to master. You can save, or build your relationship to be stronger in just 4.97 minutes. Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com Makwande

    #83 - How to make a plan that is easy to stick to?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2021 9:19


    In this episode I share my no.1 productive technique. That is all I can say :). Bon Appétit Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com Makwande

    # 82 - How to stick to the plan?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2021 10:11


    In this episode I speak about three things that are important in sticking to the plan; 1. Actively patient, 2. Delayed gratification, and 3. Competition with self. Trust me you will want to listen to this episode and really think about it. The next episode I want to discuss how to design a plan. I'm sure I would have not been doing this podcast or episode if I had not been sticking to the plan. Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com Makwande

    # 81 - Is being competitive a good thing?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2021 7:19


    Neah! In this episode I share three things that you rather be seeking rather than being in competition with everyone. Competition leads to greed and jealousy. Plus is super unhealthy for most people. So you might find this episode interesting. Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com Makwande #competitive #community #dominance

    #80 - Why do you keep suffering?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2021 6:44


    I had initially thought I was going to name the episode, beginning with the end in mind, but after listening to it, I realised that this is also the reason most people suffer. We have to stop down playing the consequences of not being committed. Commitment plays a crucial role in what is happening in our lives. There are few principles that are coming to my attention as factors that can really change a person's life. These are things I see in the clinical settings from patients trying to change their diet, beat inflammation and bring about health onto themselves. Additionally, same thing happen to a lot of people. If we fail to commit we have to expect the worst than we can imagine, because we cannot really see the future. All is explained in this episode. Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com Makwande

    #79 - How can you change your life by being responsible and accountable?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2021 10:26


    In this episode I share a simple exercise that can be done in a paper to completely change your life. I am very practical and experimental person by creation, and I love trying new methods; applying design thinking in doing things and trying to maximise results. I also explain how man complain about how they aren't progressing in life and looking for external reasons to justify the position they find themselves in. Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com Makwande

    #78 - Building a team?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2021 13:32


    I am not even sure if I answered this question in this episode. But I enjoyed making this episode. #team #building I just wanted to add hastags haha I do not know if they are going to serve a purpose or not. Building a team is hard but at the end of the day, it can be rewarding. First thing to do in building a team is to break cultures that not productive and sometimes it means letting people go. Do it on your own, do not rush to hire people. Hire qualified people. Train people. Do not fear losing them. See yourself a "Leadership manufacturer". Something that I did not mention, is to always ask people what they do not understand about a specific task, what made it hard for them to complete that task, but I guess this more technical and hands on approach. I hope that you enjoyed this episode. I will see you Monday. Enjoy your weekend. Makwande.

    #77 - Did you ever have control of your life?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2021 6:37


    If I told you that you did not what would you say? I guess I have been asking myself, does being born involuntary suddenly give me power to say I have control over my life? Or it is the same life force that brought me here that has control over me. Would you say there is a specific age to have things all figured out? Or it is just better doing time? Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com Makwande

    #76 - What does it mean when you are trying and all you get is a NO?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2021 10:08


    In this episode, I share two lessons that I learned through the "No" I have received in sales (cold-emailing and calling, in-person surveys), job seeking and interviews, trying to date someone, and life in general. If you learn something in this episode or laugh with me, please consider leaving me a review. I truly appreciate it. As my little brother says "Twanks," Makwande Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com Makwande

    #75 - How to maintain friendships in adulthood?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2021 9:29


    Come join me as I share my three best tips for maintaining strong friendships in adulthood. I almost went crazy when I had finished working with the audio but could not find it in my PC, luckily it had been saved just was not appearing on my explorer (small size). I had to enlarge it and there it was, " Ah I'm saved, thought I was not going to re-record and people would say I have broken my promise to see them today, " Naah, I have got you my friend, "do not worry about a thing" Fred sang.... "I'll be standing by..." Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Don't forget to rate us. Thank you. Email: sababydaddy@gmail.com

    #74 - How to become resourceful?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2021 8:49


    In this episode Fred discuss two fundamental basis of becoming resourceful the easy way. Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Don't forget to rate us. Thank you.

    #73 - What you should seek when it comes to a financial status?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2021 13:52


    Just sharing my thoughts on being Rich and Famous, and Rich and Anonymous. Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Don't forget to rate us. Thank you.

    #72 - How much do we worry about what other people say?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2021 10:59


    What other people say syndrome will destroy your life. Do not give away your soul, own it, it is yours. Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Don't forget to rate us. Thank you.

    #71 - Is it being a good person worth it?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2021 9:39


    There is a battle happing inside, where moral obligation is about to be extinct. But we can save it, because it is in us. We are the ones who make it exist. Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Don't forget to rate us. Thank you.

    #70 - Why you should consider doing things for yourself?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2021 10:37


    Listen to us on: Spotify Apple Podcast Google Podcast Amazon Music Podcast addicts for web players Don't forget to rate us. Thank you.

    #69 - Growth Mindset

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2021 6:44


    We have to plan to grow by 1% per month and build micro habits that will lead to our success. In the long run, we avoid setting ourselves up for guaranteed failure and eventually giving up on the habits that we know could help us become better. Please do not forget to review this episode. Thank you Previous episode: https://pod.link/1517221855/episode/c6f020369db1b4bd34e2370e867d149b

    #68 - Am I in the wrong Career path?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2021 5:00


    Please please please leave us a review. We appreciate you.

    #67 - Growth and Routine

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2021 5:46


    Understanding that sometimes being consistence does feel boring and that it feels like routine is a good thing because you are not going to quit. You keep going and each step is worth it.

    #66 - Single Father advice

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2021 7:16


    Allow yourself to experience life as it is. Know that you can change how you feel if you acknowledge it. Seek support if you feel you cannot do it alone. Join a men's group. Get into a routine and stick to it. Wake up and do it all over again if it works. Vulnerability is not weakness, is a step of towards emotional intelligence, and resolution.

    # 65 - Understanding your Financial Personality w/ Senzo & Chris.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2021 86:50


    Join us as we discuss the financial intelligence topics w/ Senzo and Chris. We are going to be having an open seminar at the end of this month please link is provided: https://forms.gle/Ydf7ozKUwNuY5Bkj6 We look forward to having you.

    #64 - How to became a better decision maker

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2021 5:52


    The topic of tonight's discussion is making better decisions Here are three things that will help you make better decisions! No.1. Learn from your mistakes. You can do this by using the Gibbs reflective writing method or any reflective writing method. Instagram At No.2 You can never ever take a shortcut that you have never used before. Shortcuts are created with experience. No.3 Before you do something look at the consequences.

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