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The Christian life was never meant to be lived alone. In this episode, John and Victor talk about the deep need we all have for spiritual friendships—and why trying to follow Jesus without community leaves us vulnerable to isolation, temptation, and burnout. They share personal stories of how God used brotherhood to strengthen them in their darkest moments, and how real transformation happens when we walk with others who know us, challenge us, and love us enough to tell us the truth. Because, we really do need each other. You weren't meant to carry it all alone. If you've been going through the motions or trying to handle everything yourself, this episode is your invitation to open up, reach out, and walk together. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

What's missing when most Catholic's practice the faith? Care. Love begins with caring, and community begins with accompaniment. In this episode, John challenges us to stop going through the motions and start answering the call to care—for real people, in real tangible ways. If you've ever felt alone, or wondered if you're doing enough as a disciple, this one's for you. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

What if the solution to parish decline isn't another event, but a knock at the door? In this week's episode, John welcomes Austin Habash, founder of Think Catholic and Sent Evangelization, to share his powerful story—from agnosticism to the Carthusian monastery, and now to leading neighborhood evangelization across the country. Austin explains why door-to-door ministry isn't just possible for Catholics—it's vital. And how real transformation doesn't start with a script, but with prayer, presence, and genuine charity. Check out Austin's Ministry: https://www.thinkcatholic.org/ Check out his podcast, Summa in A Year: https://open.spotify.com/show/3esPTruHHZAoZyzrDJ1Dv4?si=7d506c18782c47f1 And follow him on social media: https://www.instagram.com/think__catholic/ https://www.youtube.com/@thinkcatholic. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

Struggle doesn't disqualify you—it prepares you. In this episode, John and Victor talk honestly about the shame men carry and the silent battles they face. Too many believe they're alone. Too many believe they shouldn't be struggling. But the truth is, you're not broken beyond repair—and God is not surprised by your weakness. This conversation is a reminder that you are not defined by your failures, rather by this: that God created you out of love and for love. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

Many of us stay constantly busy—doing good things, even spiritual things—without asking whether our efforts are truly fruitful or aligned with God's will. Join John and Victor in the pew this week as they reflect on the difference between scattered effort and focused, Spirit-led action. No matter what stage of life you're in, it's time to move beyond spiritual autopilot. Pause. Pray. And ask yourself honestly: What am I doing? Why am I doing it? Where is the fruit? And what is God actually calling me to do? Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

We all deal with negative thoughts, but how we handle them makes all the difference. Join John and Victor in the pew this week as they discuss the power of preaching truth to yourself during moments of doubt. When you face negative self-talk head-on and learn to parry those attacks, it can lead to true spiritual resilience. Life isn't easy, but we are called to face each challenge with strength and trust in the Lord. Speak truth to yourself and keep moving forward. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

Values in today's culture are shifting dramatically. Education has replaced faith, financial success has replaced marriage, and comfort has replaced family. Marriage rates around the world are falling at an alarming pace—and this decline isn't just a byproduct of cultural change; it's the driving force behind it. It's a sobering outlook, but all hope is not lost. Rebuilding marriage starts in the home and in authentic, supportive community. Join John and his guest, Damon Owens, as they discuss the state of marriage in today's world. They explore the roots of the crisis, its impact on faith and family, and—most importantly—how we can begin to reverse the trend, one couple at a time. Check out Damon's ministry at https://joytob.org/ https://www.facebook.com/thejoytob/ Follow his work on social media: https://www.facebook.com/damonowensofficial/ https://www.instagram.com/damon.c.owens/ Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

Whether it's from past mistakes, broken relationships, or personal struggles, shame can leave us feeling unworthy, isolated, and stuck. But there's hope. By turning to humility and running toward Jesus—like Peter did after his denial—we can find healing, restoration, and peace. Join John and Victor in the pew this week to unpack the difference between guilt and shame, and share how the Sacrament of Reconciliation, honest community, and God's mercy can help us rediscover our worth. No matter what you've done, you are not beyond the reach of God's love. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

Happy Easter! During this time of joy and celebration, it's all too easy to forget the intense period of reflection and prayer we just experienced during Lent. We might be tempted to return to the old habits or vices that we spent the last 40 days working to overcome. Don't let your life return to “normal.” Through daily prayer, fasting, and small everyday acts of self-giving love, continue allowing yourself to be transformed by the Holy Spirit until the day you are called home. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

Men grow up hearing that they need to be as emotional as a rock—never letting their guard down, never baring their heart and soul. And while it's true that we are called to be strong in our faith and brave in the face of danger, we are also called to show love, compassion, empathy, and even sorrow. Join John and his guest, Jake Khym, for a vulnerable conversation about identity, surrender, and what it means to live as a beloved son of God. True masculinity isn't about being a hero or having it all together—it's about authenticity, humility, and the courage to face our fears. Stop pretending and start living. Take off the mask of worldly masculinity and live in the beauty of God's love. Check out Jake Khym's Ministry: https://www.liferestoration.ca/ Check out Jake's Podcast: https://www.restoretheglorypodcast.com/ Follow him on social media: https://www.instagram.com/jakekhym/?hl=en https://x.com/jakekhym https://www.linkedin.com/in/jake-khym-72617610/?originalSubdomain=ca https://www.facebook.com/jake.khym/ Check out his wife, Heather's podcast: https://www.abidingtogetherpodcast.com/

Sometimes Holy Week can feel like an afterthought. We spend all of Lent looking forward to Easter, just wanting to hurry through this final week to get to the “good stuff.” But we need to remember: there is no Easter without Good Friday. There is no resurrection without the suffering and death. Take a moment to realize that Christ died for you. Even if you were the only person on the planet, He still would have embraced His cross. Don't overlook Holy Week. It's where the transformation takes place. Join us in the pew to reflect on the divine love story of Holy Week. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

What kind of man are you when no one is watching? Do you fall to the temptations of sloth, gluttony, or lust? As Christians, we are called to be more like Christ—but sometimes we forget what that actually looks like. A sure way to evaluate whether we are being Christlike is to ask: Am I the same man when I'm alone as I am at church, with my family, or at my men's group? Join us as we prepare for Holy Week, and challenge yourself to become consistent, just as Jesus was consistent. Follow His example: set your face like flint, feel the weight of the wood on your shoulder, and heave up your cross.

Who is the Holy Spirit? How can we get to know Him? We often find it easier to relate to Jesus and God the Father, having spoken directly in the Scriptures and displayed qualities we can understand. But the Holy Spirit often remains mysterious or distant. Join us in the pew as Fr. Dave Pivonka unpacks why that is—and how we can invite the Spirit into our lives in a real, transformative way. This Lent, we have an opportunity not just for sacrifice, but to grow in our relationship with the Holy Spirit. Stop chasing the world's version of success, and instead, anchor yourself in the power and presence of God. When we stop clinging to control and let the Holy Spirit lead, we discover that true strength isn't found in worldly achievements, but in trusting Him—the One who makes all things new. Check out Fr. Pivonka's Work: https://wildgoose.tv/ https://www.youtube.com/@WildGooseTV https://franciscan.edu/ https://www.youtube.com/user/FranciscanUSteubie Check out Fr. Pivonka's Books: Breath of God: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/breath-of-god?srsltid=AfmBOopelaWqysQWP2t7muKs94kqiX0QVZYJlc94pUB13Pt-XLgrnZIg Spiritual Freedom: https://a.co/d/6x3owrO Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

Sometimes we forget that Lent is more than a season of waiting for Easter—it's a chance to transform our lives. Join us this week as we remember the power of humility and how what the world may call losing will actually bring us closer to true perfection. The cross didn't look like winning to the Apostles, but through His death and resurrection, Christ won for us the greatest reward of all. Fix your eyes on Christ and take the time to listen and learn from Him. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

Lent is a journey filled with challenges, but what matters most is not perfection—it's perseverance. Setbacks and failures are inevitable, but giving up is the easy way out, and you can't expect to grow stronger by always taking the easy path. Whether through fasting, prayer, or simply showing up, Lent is an opportunity to repent and draw closer to the Lord. Join us in the pew this week for a reminder that failure doesn't have to be the end—what truly matters is the courage to begin again. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

This week we welcome Devin Schadt into the pew to discuss the importance of authentic fatherhood, and how embracing the example of St. Joseph can and will transform your life. Devin Schadt is the co-founder of The Fathers of St. Joseph, an apostolate dedicated to the renewal of authentic fatherhood. He is also a host on The Catholic Gentleman podcast. Devin reflects on his faith journey, describing his wayward youth and how God reached him at his lowest point. He explains the four pillars of Josephian Fatherhood—silence, woman, children, and charitable authority—and how they are invaluable tools of sanctity for all fathers and husbands. Check out Devin's new daily Lenten devotional here: https://shop.stewardshipmission.com/products/jesus-way Find more about Devin's apostolate, The Fathers of St. Joseph, here: https://fathersofstjoseph.org/ Listen to The Catholic Gentleman podcast here: https://catholicgentleman.com/ Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

Happy Fat Tuesday! As we dive headfirst into Lent, take a moment to reflect on the things in our lives that we need to let go of. It could be a bad habit or addiction, a fear or grudge, or even our tendency to test God and demand signs and wonders to justify our belief. Take time to consider what you prioritize over God in your life, then find ways to shift that focus. Lent is one of the many gifts the Holy Spirit and the Church have given us to deepen our faith and realign our lives with Jesus. Join us this week as we strive to leave behind our idols, pick up our crosses, and walk with Christ. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

We know what the world considers greatness for men; if you're rich, famous, piling up accolades and running your life on your terms, you're great in the eyes of the world. As men, we have a deep desire for greatness, but at the end of the day, if we're not careful, we can look at our lives and think, “Man, my life is kind of irrelevant.” Now, God bless the guys who can achieve those things. But the Church looks at that and says, “That's good, but it's not true greatness. That's not what is celebrated in Heaven for eternity.” True greatness looks like Jesus, taking the position of a slave, emptying Himself on a cross so that we might have eternal life. Join John and his guest, Renewal Ministries executive vice president Peter Herbeck, as they talk about how to pursue the greatness God values. And be sure to check out Renewal Ministries and the awesome ways they're helping folks pursue true greatness. https://www.renewalministries.net/ Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

Fr. David Aufiero grew up in a troubled home, and after losing his father and grandmother, he reluctantly met with a local priest to talk through his difficulties. That one conversation led him to become the man he is today. Fr. David knows well the struggles that men face and that the only way to overcome them is to bring the things we hide in the dark into the light. But it's hard for men to open up and be vulnerable. How do you even begin to reach a whole parish? That's when he came across Just a Guy in The Pew. We were able to provide him with the tools and resources to get started, and even go in person to his parish to help launch this group for men. Now, more than a year later, Fr. David testifies to the positive effects that come from creating a space for men to support and challenge each other to grow in holiness. Join John and Fr. David this week as they talk about the fruits and transformations they have seen firsthand from developing strong men's groups. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! ⛪️ http://www.justaguyinthepew.com Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

Here's something you can count on: When you step away from the world, the flesh, and the devil, they're going to want you back. We just finished our series on True Transformation, and the sort of radical changes to our lives that happen when we grow closer to the Holy Spirit through fasting, prayer, and the Sacraments. Those changes are sure to draw the enemy's attention. Our growth in holiness angers the devil, and he'll do whatever he can to try and slip you up. But no matter how hard he might try, we don't need to fear him or anything he throws at us. The truth is that the devil has no authority over us — unless we give it to him. Join John and Victor in the pew this week as they talk about the realities of spiritual warfare and how to avoid dancing with the devil. Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

If you've ever been to a big conference or a really inspiring parish mission, you might've had a moment of encounter that set you on fire for Jesus, only to grow discouraged a little while later when you don't see immediate progress in your spiritual life. We've had that experience too.  God doesn't work on our time though. Instant gratification is what we've grown to expect in our culture,  but it's not that way in the spiritual life.  The devil loves to lean into the discouragement that comes from expecting instant growth. It's a slow process, and it's easy to forget just how beautiful this long process of spiritual growth is. God knows what He's doing and it's up to us to be patient and to persevere.  Join us in the pew today as John talks about how to put aside our need for instant gratification and the beauty of playing the spiritual long game. Launch a Life Changing Group for Men in Your Parish! - www.justaguyinthepew.com Join us in Greece and Turkey - https://selectinternationaltours.com/product/footsteps-of-st-paul-pilgrimage-to-greece-with-john-edwards-and-fr-james-clark/ Become a Partner in the Pew! - wwww.donorbox.org/pew

We talked last week about prayer, and how to start building up a solid prayer life. It's no easy feat; even the greatest of saints have had difficulties in their prayer lives. If we want to experience the True Transformation we've been talking about in this series, how do we sustain it? As Catholics, we are blessed to have the Sacraments, the most effective way to receive God's grace. The Sacraments are an outward sign of God's love for you. They are gifts that He died for you to receive. Join John and his co-host, Victor Adams as they dive into the Sacraments, how they have sustained transformation in both of their lives, and how they will do the same for you. Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

The Holy Spirit is at the heart of everything we've talked about so far in this True Transformation series. It's the Holy Spirit who gives us the strength to fast, the desire to pray, and every grace that flows from the Sacraments. And yet, when we decide we want to make a change and seek to be transformed by God, we so often try to take it all on ourselves, and we can become self-reliant. Jesus didn't want that for us; He told us He'd send the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, to give us the power and peace that we need — if we let Him. Join John and Victor as they talk about the ways in which the Holy Spirit has ushered true transformation into their lives, and how you can do the same. Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

We are in the midst of a series about True Transformation, and we kicked it all off last week talking about fasting. While fasting is one of the great gifts of the Church that can help us to elicit change, it's never going to reach its potential unless it is yoked with a solid prayer life. They are two sides of the same coin. Whenever you see fasting in the scriptures, prayer is not far behind. One allows the other to bear lasting fruit. The problem for so many of us, though, is that we don't have a meaningful prayer life. Sure, we go to church and we check the boxes, praying while at Mass or before meals, but so many of us just haven't made establishing and growing our prayer life a regular priority. It's just the truth. If we want to become the men that God calls us to be, then we have to build an intimate relationship with Christ through prayer. Listen in this week as John shares about the importance of building a powerful life of prayer and the effect it can have on sustaining lasting change. Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

New Year New Changes Right? That is the hope of most people at the start of a New Year. Often times we find ourselves giving up hope before we begin. We all know the obstacles and impediments that fill our hearts and keep us from becoming the men that Christ calls us to be. So why do we so often fail? The lack of action. True transformation calls for a plan. It can't just be about desire. When desires meet action true transformation becomes a reality. Listen in this week as John and Victor start a series on True Transformation and focus on one of the gifts of the Church that can help: Fasting. If we are going to be rid of the things that keep us from Christ we must be willing to make an act of the will to choose the better part. Grab a seat as the guys discuss fasting as one of the most powerful ways to find lasting transformation in your life. Learn more about our pilgrimage: Walk in the Footsteps of St. Paul in Greece and Turkey with John

Welcome to the final episode of 2024! As we wrap up the year, Victor and I reflect on what it means to desire change and align those desires with God's will. In this episode, we dive deep into the importance of not just having holy desires but taking actionable steps to fulfill them. From personal growth goals to the incredible opportunities God gave us this year through our ministry, we discuss victories, challenges, and the practical ways we can all begin 2025 with purpose and clarity. Let's make this new year different—not by setting fleeting resolutions, but by recognizing the desires God places in our hearts and working intentionally to live them out. Ready to go all in with us? Let's take that first step together. Learn more about our pilgrimage to Greece & Turkey

In this special Christmas Eve episode, Victor and I reflect on the true meaning of giving your whole heart to God. Too often, we hold back out of fear—fear of being hurt, fear of what surrender really means, or even fear of giving up the “worldly things” that we think will satisfy us. But here's the truth: the heart is where transformation happens. When God calls us to follow Him, He doesn't just want our minds or our actions—He wants our hearts, fully and completely. We dive deep into what it means to stop hedging your bets and go all-in with Christ, trusting Him with everything. This isn't about perfection; it's about choosing Him each day and giving Him access to every part of your life, even the messy places. From scripture to the wisdom of the saints, we explore why the heart is so central to our faith: - Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart.” - Ezekiel 36:26: God promises to replace our hearts of stone with hearts of flesh. - Psalm 16: David's example of choosing God as his “portion and cup.” We also talk about the powerful reflections from Archbishop Fulton Sheen and St. Augustine: - Fulton Sheen reminds us that part of our hearts are with God in heaven, and we'll always feel incomplete until we turn back to Him. - St. Augustine famously said: “You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our hearts are restless until they rest in You.” And let's be honest—this hits home for all of us. So many of us try to “play it safe” with God, hedging our bets and keeping one foot in the world. We share personal stories and struggles with this, and how we've learned (the hard way) that true joy and peace only come when we surrender fully to God's love. And hey, this isn't just for “perfect Christians.” We talk about how the journey to giving God your whole heart is ongoing—there are ups, downs, mistakes, and grace-filled moments along the way. Jesus doesn't demand perfection; He asks for our trust, our surrender, and our love. On this beautiful Christmas Eve, we're reminded that God gave everything for us. He sent His only Son to take on flesh, to live among us, and ultimately to give His life for ours. If God has already given us His heart, how can we not respond by offering Him ours in return?

Today we're talking about something we see far too often: living with one foot in the world and one foot in the faith. It's time to make a choice, to stop hedging our bets, and go all in with Christ. In this episode, we share our own struggles with lukewarm faith and explore what it means to commit fully to God. We look at examples from Scripture—like Elijah calling out the people on Mount Carmel and David's heartfelt psalm of trust—to remind us that God doesn't want a half-hearted relationship. Advent is a time to prepare, reflect, and decide: Will we give our all to Him, or keep clinging to the distractions of the world? Victor and I are passionate about helping you find the joy, peace, and purpose that only Christ can bring. This episode is a wake-up call for anyone who's ready to stop living a "safe" faith and start living a fulfilled one. Don't miss this one, and as always, share it with someone who might need to hear this message. God bless! Join us for our 2025 Footsteps of St. Paul Pilgrimage to Greece and Turkey! Get ready for an incredible journey through biblical history, breathtaking views, and moments of spiritual renewal.

Victor and I are diving into something really close to my heart—what Advent is truly about. It's so easy to let this season slip by in the rush to Christmas, but Advent is such a gift if we really lean in. It's not just about lighting candles or decorating—it's about inviting Christ into the deepest parts of our lives. We talk about how Advent challenges us to open the doors we've kept locked for far too long—the places of shame, hurt, and brokenness. Jesus came into the world as a baby, humble and vulnerable, and He's waiting to come into our hearts in the same way. In this episode, we break open scriptures like John 1 ("The Word became flesh"), Isaiah 61 ("He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted"), and Philippians 2 ("He emptied himself...") to explore why Christ came and how we can prepare ourselves to welcome Him fully. We also share personal stories about letting Jesus into the messiness of our lives and what happens when we do. I'm praying this episode inspires you to make this Advent more than just a countdown to Christmas. Let's prepare our hearts, invite Him in, and let His light shine in our darkest places.

This week, I'm thrilled to have Heather Khym, co-host of the Abiding Together Podcast, join me for a special episode. With Advent in full swing, Heather and I dive deep into the meaning of this beautiful season and how it's so much more than just a countdown to Christmas. Heather shares the inspiration behind her Advent journal, Encountering Emmanuel, and how Jesus wants to meet us in our “messy stables”—the broken, vulnerable places we often hide. We reflect on the importance of slowing down, making space for Christ, and letting Him enter our hearts to bring healing and freedom. In this conversation, we explore some powerful truths:

This week, Victor and I dive into the heart of Thanksgiving—not just the turkey and football, but the true meaning of living a life of gratitude every single day. In this special Thanksgiving episode, we reflect on the importance of being thankful for everything—both the joys and the hardships—and how gratitude can transform our lives, bring us closer to God, and even unlock true joy.

This episode is for anyone who feels like they're silently carrying the weight of the world—brokenness, shame, or wounds you've never been able to share. You're not alone, and you don't have to carry it by yourself anymore. Last weekend, the @JPIIHealingCenter hosted the first-ever Restored Men's Healing Conference, and it was powerful. Men from all over the country (and even other countries!) showed up with open hearts, some for the very first time. These were men who had been silently suffering for years—dealing with wounds from abandonment, addiction, rejection, or just feeling like they're not enough. Over the weekend, we watched God work in incredible ways as men opened up, shared their stories, and allowed Christ to step into those broken places. It was humbling and hopeful. In this episode, Victor and I unpack some of the key takeaways from the conference and dive deep into the struggles many of us face but rarely talk about. We'll cover why we feel like we need to hide our pain, how self-reliance is a trap, and most importantly, how God's grace can reshape the broken parts of our lives. Here's the truth: Healing is possible. You can start today. You don't have to have it all figured out; you just have to take one step forward. Let's talk about how. PS - Advanced giving with #igivecatholic on #givingtuesday is now LIVE

Today, Victor and I dive into one of the biggest struggles we all face—trusting in God's provision. It's not always easy to let go, especially when anxiety and fear kick in, but we're here to share some inspiration, a few laughs, and even some of our personal struggles with letting go and trusting that God has us covered. In this episode, we go over the importance of surrender, how to recognize God's provision in our lives, and why faith isn't just about saying we believe—it's about showing it with our actions. We also reflect on how the Bible reminds us that God knows what we need and always has our backs, even when we're tempted to take control ourselves.

In this episode, Victor and I get real about those tough, cloudy moments we all face. From intense travel to unexpected challenges, I found myself needing a reminder that even in the storm, God's light is there for us

Today's episode is a special one—it's a heartfelt look at the power of vulnerability, the journey of healing, and the courage it takes to truly cry out to Jesus. This week has been full of travel and connection as I visited multiple cities, witnessing firsthand how God is moving through men's ministries and drawing us all toward healing and restoration. We dive into the story of Blind Bartimaeus in the Gospel of Mark—one man's encounter with Jesus that reminds us all of the importance of being vulnerable and bold in asking for the help we need. In today's world, we're often told to ‘suck it up' and carry on alone, but Bartimaeus' story calls us to something deeper. When everyone else tried to silence him, he cried out even louder. In that moment, Bartimaeus showed us the true meaning of courage and faith: daring to believe that Jesus wants to meet us in our brokenness and bring us wholeness. Support the Mission

Hey everyone, welcome to a very special milestone—our 300th episode of Just a Guy in the Pew!

In this episode, I'm excited to welcome back Dr. Bob Schuchts, founder of the JPII Healing Center and co-host of the Restoring the Glory podcast. Dr. Bob is a renowned author and spiritual leader, known for his transformative books Be Healed, Be Restored, Be Transformed, and Be Devoted. Today, we dive deep into the power of healing, specifically for men, and how the upcoming Restored Men's Healing Conference is set to impact men's lives.

In this week's episode, I'm diving deep into a question that we don't often ask ourselves: “Are you being kind to yourself?” Not in the sense of pampering or indulgence, but in how we speak to ourselves, care for our mental and spiritual well-being, and confront the challenges life throws our way. After a busy few weeks on the road and dealing with personal struggles—including trying to write a book and battling spiritual attacks—I found myself caught in a cycle of negative self-talk. From questioning my role as a husband and father to feeling overwhelmed by ministry work, it seemed like the devil was hitting me with every doubt and lie he could muster. But here's the truth: God doesn't want us to live in that darkness. He calls us to renew our minds, as St. Paul says, and to take every thought captive to Christ. In this episode, I share the powerful moments when God intervened, reminding me of my worth and guiding me to be kinder to myself. I talk about the importance of resting, leaning on God's grace, and breaking free from the lies that make us feel unworthy or inadequate. We also explore how these personal struggles affect not just ourselves, but those around us—our families, our friends, and our communities. When we're not kind to ourselves, it's hard to love others as Christ calls us to . . . _______________________________________________________________________ BECOME A PARTNER IN THE PEW!

In this episode, John and Victor dive into the importance of taking action in your life and not procrastinating when you hear God's call. We discuss how easy it is to say "someday, Lord" but remind ourselves that tomorrow isn't promised—action is required today. We also share personal stories, insights from scripture, and examples of how to overcome fear, hesitation, and the urge to put things off, whether it's battling addiction, making life changes, or answering God's call to serve.

This week, I'm diving deep into what it means to truly wait on God. We live in a world where we're always on the go, but sometimes, God calls us to slow down and listen. It's not always easy—trust me, I struggle with it too! But the grace we find in that quiet waiting can be life-changing. Join me as I talk about how I've navigated moments of feeling distant from God, and what I've learned about hearing His voice in the stillness. We all need patience, fortitude, and hope, and I hope this episode helps you find some in your own journey. ___________________________________________________________________________

In this episode, Victor and I tackle one of the most relatable topics in faith: spiritual desolation. I open up about my personal struggles with feeling distant from God and how even saints like Mother Teresa faced years of spiritual dryness. Together, we explore what desolation really means and how it can impact our prayer life, mindset, and overall connection with God. Drawing inspiration from St. Ignatius of Loyola and the teachings of Mother Teresa, we break down how to push through these tough times, offering practical advice on perseverance, prayer, and trusting God's will even when it feels like He's far away. If you've ever felt stuck in your spiritual journey, this episode offers a reminder that you're not alone—and that there's a way forward.

In this episode, we're getting real about something I know many of us wrestle with: the fear of fully committing our lives to Christ. Maybe you've felt that pull to go all-in but hesitated because of what it might cost you—relationships, your job, or even just the comfort of staying where you are. Trust me, I get it. But here's the thing: while Jesus never sugarcoated the challenges of discipleship, He did promise something far greater—the eternal reward. We're diving into powerful scriptures like the story of the rich young man who walked away because he couldn't let go of his possessions. We'll talk about why counting the cost is important but how focusing on the reward—eternal life and true peace—can help us overcome those fears. Plus, I'm sharing some practical tips on how to live boldly as a disciple, including ways to deepen your prayer life and bring Jesus into every part of your day.

This week, I'm excited to have my good friend Paul George back on the show! If you caught our last episode, you'll know that Paul is not only the founder of The Art of Living but also the author of some fantastic books like "Rethink Happiness" and "Holy Grit." If you haven't checked those out yet, I highly recommend you do—they've been game-changers for a lot of men, especially in men's groups. Find more here

In this episode, John and Victor dive deep into a topic that affects us all—worry and anxiety. We all have those moments when life feels overwhelming, but what can we do about it? John shares a powerful personal story about how worry was stealing his joy, even during a simple fishing trip. We'll explore what the saints and scriptures have to say about overcoming these feelings and how trusting in God can make all the difference. But that's not all—this episode is packed with inspiration! You'll hear a touching story of a young man who found hope and healing through our men's group, a reminder of the incredible impact community can have. Plus, we're talking about the busyness of ministry life, the importance of prayer, and the ways we can all support each other on this journey of faith. Whether you're new to the show or a longtime listener, there's something here for everyone. Don't forget to like, comment, and consider becoming a Partner in the Pew to help us continue this vital work.

This week, I'm thrilled to welcome my good friend Paul George to the show. Paul is not just an incredible author and speaker; he's a man dedicated to helping others discover the joy of living a life rooted in faith. In this episode, we get into the nitty-gritty of what it means to live as a man of God, facing our wounds and seeking true healing. We talk about everything from Paul's latest book, Holy Grit, to his work with The Art of Living (https://www.discovertheartofliving.com/)—a nonprofit that serves not just churches and parishes, but a wide range of organizations dedicated to making a difference. But it's not all serious talk—we also share some laughs as Paul brings a little piece of Louisiana up to Memphis, surprising me with some authentic boudin and cracklins. We chat about everything from the best Cajun food to our mutual love for the show Swamp People. If you've ever wondered how alligator hunting connects to a man's spiritual journey, you're in for a treat! We also dive into some exciting news about our upcoming Restored Men's Healing Conference, happening this November 14-16 in Ann Arbor, Michigan. If you've been feeling the call to deepen your faith, heal old wounds, or just need a weekend of fellowship with other men, this event is for you. We'll be teaming up with the JPII Healing Center to offer talks, prayer, and plenty of opportunities to connect with God and other men on the same journey. Register for the Restored Men's Healing Conference here

Many of you, after seeing the photos, wanted to know when this powerful conversation was going to be released to the public. I'm so excited to share my conversation with Fr. Malachy from the National Eucharistic Congress in Indy. I was blessed to be one of the 10 podcasters invited to podcast live at the NEC and, as per usual, my conversation with Fr. Malachy was full of joy and tears! Today, I have a heartwarming conversation with my dear friend, Fr Malachy, a devoted Franciscan Friar of Renewal. From our first meeting at the JP2 Healing Center in Tallahassee, Florida, to walking barefoot in reverence during a Eucharistic pilgrimage, our journeys have been nothing short of transformative. In this episode, we dive deep into what it means to live a life filled with the spirit of power, inspired by St. Paul's teachings. Fr Malachy shares his recent experience of carrying the Eucharist from New Jersey to Indianapolis, recounting the grace-filled moments and the profound connections made along the way. His stories are a testament to the power of faith and the radical change it brings to our lives. We explore the importance of daily Mass, the Eucharist, and confession in achieving personal transformation. Our discussion is filled with personal stories, struggles, and triumphs, offering you practical insights and encouragement on your own faith journey. In this episode, you will hear: - The inspiring backstory of our friendship and spiritual journey - The significance of the National Eucharistic Congress in revitalizing faith - Powerful testimonies from the Eucharistic pilgrimage, including the profound act of walking barefoot in adoration - How the spirit of power can lead to radical personal transformation The importance of community, daily devotion, and surrendering to God's will

I'm thrilled to be back in the studio after an incredible week at the National Eucharistic Congress. In this episode, I'm diving into all the amazing experiences and graces from the event in Indianapolis, where over 60,000 Catholics gathered. It was such a powerful moment for our community, and I can't wait to share my thoughts and stories with you. We'll talk about the highlights, the inspiring speakers, and the impact this Congress had on all of us. Plus, I'll discuss what comes next after this revival. Spoiler: we're talking about keeping the momentum going and continuing to strengthen our faith. During the Congress, I had the chance to meet so many of you at our booth. We shared stories, took pictures, and enjoyed some great conversations. A special thank you to those who joined our live podcast session with Father Malachy – your support means the world to us! One touching moment was meeting a young man who shared how a previous podcast episode had helped him return to his faith. It's encounters like these that remind us why we do what we do. I also reflected on the biblical figures we can learn from: Moses, who doubted his ability but led the Israelites out of Egypt with God's guidance; David, the shepherd boy who became a king and defeated Goliath; Gideon, who overcame his fear to lead Israel to victory; Jeremiah, the young prophet who spoke God's word despite his youth; and Peter, the fisherman who became the rock of the Church after his encounter with Jesus.

Today, we have a super special episode because we're welcoming our first female guest in the studio – the amazingly talented Marie Miller. Marie is not just an artist; she's a storyteller who uses her music, humor, and faith to touch hearts. From being signed at 17 by Curb Records to having her songs featured in TV shows like "Dancing with the Stars," Marie's journey is nothing short of inspiring. Her independent album "Little Dreams" is a testament to her faith and talent, with its single "Imaginary Friend" streamed over 1 million times! In this episode, Marie shares her incredible journey – from performing for Pope Francis to opening for big names like the Backstreet Boys and The Wallflowers. We'll dive into her faith, her upbringing in a big Catholic family, and her new album "The Way of Love." Plus, you'll get to hear Marie perform some of her beautiful music live. This episode is packed with heartfelt conversations, faith-filled stories, and a lot of fun. Marie's story is a beautiful reminder of how God's love can guide us through every twist and turn in life.

I'm super excited to have my co-host Victor Adams back with me! This episode is all about real-life challenges and finding God in our everyday moments. Victor and I chat about the ups and downs of life, how to stay true to our faith in today's world, and why being present for our loved ones is so important. We share some personal stories—like my solo episodes, our recent travels, and a special moment I had with my son Jacob during a fireworks show. Spoiler: it wasn't about the fireworks . . . We dig deep into how we often look for God in big, flashy moments when He's really there in the everyday stuff—our wins, our struggles, and everything in between. Victor talks about the pressure to make everything perfect and realizing it's the time spent with loved ones that truly counts. We've been blown away by the support from our listeners! Your feedback and generosity keep us going. From writing a new book to organizing parish missions and leadership summits, your support helps us reach and help more people in meaningful ways. A big shoutout to everyone who's reached out and supported us. If our show has touched your life, consider joining us as a Partner in the Pew (www.donorbox.org/pew). Your contributions make a huge difference and help us expand our mission. Jump into the conversation in the comments below and let us know your thoughts! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit that notification bell so you never miss an episode. _______________________________________________________________________ ✈️ Join us for one of our 2025 pilgrimages: March 10-15: Visit the Shrine of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Mexico with Father Zachary, a fantastic priest and friend. This affordable trip is perfectly timed for most school spring breaks. (https://selectinternationaltours.com/product/our-lady-of-guadalupe-pilgrimage-to-mexico-with-john-edwards-and-fr-zach-mabee-march-10-15-2025-25ja03mxje/) May 12-23: Join Father Larry and me on a spiritual journey to the Holy Land. Walk in the footsteps of Christ and experience an unforgettable pilgrimage. (https://selectinternationaltours.com/product/walking-in-the-footsteps-of-christ-with-fr-larry-richards-and-john-edwards-may-12-23-2025-25ja05hlje/) _______________________________________________________________________

First off, HUGE thanks to everyone who tuned into last week's solo episode and sent in those heartwarming messages. Your support means the world to me, especially since going solo isn't easy without my friend or guests around. This week, we're diving into "Handling the Hard Stuff." Life throws some real curveballs, right? From tough medical diagnoses to personal losses, how do we cope? I'll share insights inspired by a recent episode of The Chosen and some things the Lord put on my heart. Plus, exciting news! If you're heading to the Eucharistic Congress, come find us at booth 1332 from July 16-21. We'll have merch, info on our ministry, and a chance to meet you all in person. Don't miss our live podcast on Thursday with Father Malachy, chatting about the Holy Spirit and the Eucharist. Thanks for being part of this journey. Let's get into it!

This week, John is flying solo in the studio after his recent Italy trip and a refreshing visit to his dad's farm in Mississippi. In this vulnerable episode, John shares his personal struggles and reflections on finding hope and direction in life's challenges. While riding the mower at his dad's farm, John starts thinking about his failures and struggles. He reflects on the powerful message from Matthew 7:13-14 about the narrow road and how being a Christian is hard—really hard. He shares how, when life feels easy, he often finds himself on the wide road full of curves, sharp edges, and dangers. John also dives into a story about getting lost despite having a map and knowing the destination, drawing a parallel to our spiritual journeys. He emphasizes the importance of keeping the end in mind— knowing that the end is heaven and that there's always a place to get back to. In this episode, John talks about the peace he found listening to a Zach Bryan song while on the mower and how it reminded him that, even when we feel lost, we know where we're going. If you've ever felt like you're in a box you can't get out of or struggled with your faith, this episode is for you. Remember, it's okay to struggle — what matters is knowing where you're headed and keeping faith along the way. The closer we get to our spiritual goals, the more we see and understand the journey. _______________________________________________________________________ ✈️ Join us for one of our 2025 pilgrimages: March 10-15: Visit the Shrine of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Mexico with Father Zachary, a fantastic priest and friend. This affordable trip is perfectly timed for most school spring breaks. (https://selectinternationaltours.com/product/our-lady-of-guadalupe-pilgrimage-to-mexico-with-john-edwards-and-fr-zach-mabee-march-10-15-2025-25ja03mxje/) May 12-23: Join Father Larry and me on a spiritual journey to the Holy Land. Walk in the footsteps of Christ and experience an unforgettable pilgrimage. (https://selectinternationaltours.com/product/walking-in-the-footsteps-of-christ-with-fr-larry-richards-and-john-edwards-may-12-23-2025-25ja05hlje/)