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Welcome to another episode of the Book of Love Podcast! In this episode, we're tackling three unique dating questions from our listeners. Jean-eva is here to offer insights and advice to help you navigate the complex world of relationships. Question #1: Torn Between the "Nice Guy" and the Ex with Chemistry In our first question, a listener is dating a great guy who is kind and considerate but lacks the chemistry she's seeking. Her ex, who was hot and cold during their relationship, recently reached out, sparking old feelings. How should she decide between the stable guy and the ex with undeniable chemistry? Jean-eva discusses: The importance of chemistry in a relationship and whether it's enough to sustain a healthy partnership. The value of stability, kindness, and consistency in a long-term relationship. How to assess whether the pull toward an ex is due to nostalgia or genuine compatibility. Strategies to help make an informed decision that prioritizes emotional well-being. Question #2: Managing Jealousy in a Healthy Relationship Our second question comes from a listener who admits to feeling jealous when her boyfriend talks to other women, despite his openness and transparency. She acknowledges her jealousy stems from past experiences of infidelity. How can she overcome these feelings and maintain a healthy relationship with her boyfriend? Jean-eva explores: The root causes of jealousy and how past experiences can influence current relationships. The importance of open communication with a partner to discuss feelings of insecurity. Techniques to build self-confidence and trust within a relationship. The significance of recognizing a supportive partner and how to focus on the positive aspects of the relationship. Question #3: Affection and Its Impact on Relationships The third question comes from a listener who feels her affectionate nature might be scaring off potential partners. After hitting it off with a guy, she noticed a shift in his attitude after they slept together on their fourth date. She wonders if her culture's emphasis on affection might be affecting her dating experiences with Canadian men. Jean-eva discusses: How affection is actually a benefit when dating How sleeping with someone on any date wouldn't matter with the right person. Advice for pacing relationships and setting personal boundaries to avoid confusion. Understanding that each person's journey to find the right relationship is unique and requires patience and self-acceptance. Closing Thoughts Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Book of Love Podcast. We hope our discussions have provided valuable insights into your dating dilemmas. If you'd like your question featured on a future episode, don't hesitate to reach out to us. Remember, love is a journey, and we're here to help guide you along the way. Until next time, keep exploring the Book of Love!

Welcome to The Book of Love podcast, where we unravel the mysteries of modern relationships and dating. In this special segment, "Sean's Corner," your host Sean Aucoin, known as the modern-day hitch, delves into candid conversations with an expert in the field. Lloyd Dixon, believes that everyone deserves to experience fulfilling and meaningful connections. Whether you're struggling to find the right partner, facing challenges in your current relationship, or simply seeking to enhance your dating skills, Lloyd is here to provide tailored support and practical advice. Lloyd offers a compassionate and non-judgmental approach, helping clients identify their goals, overcome obstacles, and cultivate healthier relationships. With a wealth of knowledge and experience, Lloyd specializes in areas such as communication skills, self-confidence building, and navigating the intricacies of online dating. Sean and Lloyd explore the motivations behind their journey into coaching, debunking misconceptions about pick-up artists and emphasizing their mission to help men evolve into their best selves. Join us as we uncover the secrets to fostering genuine connections and empowering individuals to attract the love they deserve. Connect with A Single Guy on Instagram @A.Single.Guy to embark on your own journey towards self-improvement in love and life. Tune in to "The Book of Love" podcast for insights, inspiration, and a sprinkle of romance. Website: https://www.getcoachedbylloyd.com/ YouTube: @thesingleguy

Welcome to our 100th episode of the Book of Love! As a special treat, I brought our in house matchmaker Olivia and event coordinator Brittany to open the Book of Love doors and allow you into our office. We discuss their journey of coming onto the Book of Love team, getting on board with our mission of creating a dating culture based on kindness and respect, and create their own unique niche in the Book of Love. We discuss the spark, how to get better quality matches online or from the book of love, how to rock an event and of course lots of laughs along the way.    We have a lofty goal of creating double the amount of couples in 2024 than previous years. You will see this with all our events, lots of matchmaking dates and our new Empower Her program that includes workshops that are going to make dating fun again! To learn more about our services be sure to visit our website: bookoflovecanada.ca

In this episode, we embark on a heartfelt conversation that dives deep into the intricacies of being single and approaching your 30s. Our guest shares their experiences, insights, and strategies for navigating single life, complete with all its ups and downs.    Join us for a candid, insightful, and empowering conversation on single life in your 30s, and discover the beauty and strength that comes with embracing your independence and enjoying the journey of being single!

In this episode, we dive into the world of modern dating and meaningful connections with the fantastic folks behind Blink Date. With their unique approach to matching, we explore the art of making genuine connections in today's fast-paced dating scene. So, join us for a conversation that might just spark your next great connection. It's time to Blink Date and experience the magic of authentic encounters.

Join us as we delve into the world of intimacy, relationships, and personal growth with the remarkable Serena Haines. With her wealth of experience and compassionate approach, Serena sheds light on the complexities of human connections, guiding us toward deeper understanding and fulfillment.    Serena Haines is a renowned Sex, Intimacy, and Relationship Coach. Serena has dedicated her life to guiding individuals and couples toward deeper connections and fulfilling intimacy. With years of experience and a profound passion for her work, she's here to help you explore the intricate and beautiful world of human sexuality and relationships. Serena's expertise shines through her guidance, creating a safe space to discuss and understand complex subjects with ease and grace.   Tune in to discover more about Serena's insights and how she can empower your journey to deeper intimacy and stronger connections.

Introducing Boss Talk! A live podcast & networking event hosted by us: Confidence Coach Jess Clerke & Matchmaker Jean-eva Dickie. Join us for an inspiring evening as we dive into our stories of business ownership right here in Halifax! Couple that with a networking event of like-minded individuals, and we have a powerful evening of connection, inspiration and laughter. This is part 1 of 3. Part 2 will be launched on Jess's podcast Selfish Confidence. Here is the link to follow us on our Boss Talk Journey https://jessclerke.com/ In this engaging live podcast event, We will discuss the ups and downs of navigating the challenges of entrepreneurship and experiencing firsthand what it takes to grow a business, not through grants & connections, but through grit, blood, sweat and tears. Be prepared to be inspired as we delve into the struggles we faced, the obstacles we overcame, and the strategies we employed to build businesses in our dynamic but small city. We will provide practical insights and actionable tips for aspiring entrepreneurs and business owners. This live podcast event aims to foster a supportive community where attendees can connect with like-minded individuals, network, and gain valuable knowledge. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur, a seasoned business owner, or simply curious about the journey of those in business, this is the podcast episode for you. Gain valuable insights to fuel your own entrepreneurial dreams.

This week we welcome back our men's dating coach Sean Aucoin to The Book of Love Podcast. This segment is for our gentlemen listeners and those ladies that would like the male perspective to love and dating. It wasn't until I came to understand how men think, what they value in partnership and how they show love that I was able to transform my dating life.    In this episode Sean takes the time to answer your questions as if you were in a dating coaching session with him. If you are interested in learning more about working 1 on 1 with Sean, feel free to email him at sean.moderndayhitch@gmail.com or take advantage of a FREE 15 minute phone consultation with Sean to learn more: www.bookoflovecanada.ca/coachingformen 

This week we have another Hotline. We answer three questions from our followers.  Q #1: Hello Jean-eva, I need help, my last partner of seven years was a narcissist. It has been three years since that relationship and I started dating six months ago. I met somebody really great but I think it may be too good to be true. I'm not seeing any signs of him being a narcissist but it is going so well. I have this overwhelming feeling to end it. Am I being crazy? Q #2: I went on the best first date last week, he's so handsome, I was so attracted to him. I felt instant chemistry and we agreed on almost everything we discussed. He walked me to my car and gave me a hug. I said I had a great time and we should do it again and he said me too, let's do it again! and then we went our separate ways. When I got home I texted him and said I had a great time, thank you so much for dinner, and I haven't heard from him since. Did I mess it up by sending that text? Did I seem too eager? Also, why would you say let's do it again and then not reach out and plan something, it's so rude. I don't understand, we had so much chemistry  Q #3: I'm an autistic adult and I have a really hard time online dating, I find first dates hard because conversations with me are different from conversations with a neurotypical person and I can never get on a second date. So I added the fact that I'm autistic to my online dating profile, but my matches went down to almost nonexistent. It was the Hinge prompt that said “something you should know about me” and I said “I'm autistic” almost zero matches then I took it off my profile but would tell someone after a few texts and then they would disappear, what should I do? I'm almost about to give up. If you are interested in learning more about the Compound Dating Technique community created in January, feel free to follow the following link to learn more: bookoflovecanada.ca/cdt   What do you think of this advice? Do you agree? Do you disagree? Feel free to share, I would love to hear your thoughts.

This episode we bring on 'amateur matchmaker' Danielle based in Moncton New Brunswick. Host of Never Not Talking Podcast, we indirectly connected through her podcast and connected on love and connecting people.    She tells her story of becoming a matchmaker, and how the journey has continued. We discuss what holds most people back in dating, and how to prevent blocks and habits from holding us back from amazing connections. We discuss the importance of informal matchmakers, nosey aunties and the local busy body. There aren't nearly enough of them and we want to encourage everyone to continue to matchmake their friends!

This week we welcome Alexandra Harbushka. Her life was sent into upheaval when she received a call from her doctor diagnosing her with herpes. After coming to terms with her diagnosis she launched into sharing her story with people just like her, to let them know that their feelings are normal, natural and that they are not victims. She founded Life with Herpes, and online community consisting of:   Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/6AGCqIUk5tC4E1VhDTzG92 Website - https://www.lifewithherpes.com/ Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lifewithherpes Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lifewithherpes/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw-XqkVAvdl4QFGUzDcZEZg   All dedicated to shattering the stigma of living with herpes. This episode covers all questions you may have on dating as a single with herpes but also how to react when someone discloses that they have herpes to you.

Our fourth and final part of our series on attachment styles. We talk to a woman who resonates with an avoidant attachment style. We discussed qualities that resonate with her, which was very eye opening. Becoming a brick wall, not being vulnerable, being the busiest person in the world and canceling dates last minute. Filling your calendar so full, no romantic connection can ever have the time to truly get to know you. Are you guilty of this?   What did you think of this attachment style series? Did you learn something about yourself, or even someone you've dated in the past?    If this is your first introduction to attachment styles, I recommend reading the book 'Attached' found at any major book store or Amazon. 

Our third episode of our four part series on attachment styles. We talk to a single woman who has done the work to move from an insecure attachment to a secure attachment. Every journey from insecure to secure is different, but it always takes time and hard work. Majority of the population is securely attached, but as single individuals dating, we tend to run into a lot of insecure attached individuals, because an insecure attachment does a great job keeping someone single.    I learned something new with this guest, and how our brain reacts when we are triggered in life. We also discuss how to teach our brain not to react when being triggered. If there is one word that can describe this episode, it would be EMPATHY.   If this is your first introduction to attachment styles, I recommend reading the book 'Attached' found at any major book store or Amazon. 

Our second episode of our four part series on attachment styles. We talk to another single man who resonates with an anxious attachment style when dating. We get an insider look into the mindset of a man who is dating while anxiously attached. We will hear stories of neediness, clinginess, putting women on a pedestal, and what I call the "disney effect". This is where anxiously attached individuals specifically will meet someone and then quickly create the story of what their fairy tail life with that person will look like, while that person is still a basic stranger. Media and culture shows women doing this, but men do it too!   We are still looking for someone with an avoidant attachment for episode three of this four part series. If you, or someone you know want to anonymously join us on the Book of Love Podcast to share your story, please email me at jean-eva@bookoflovecanada.ca   If this is your first introduction to attachment styles, I recommend reading the book 'Attached' found at any major book store or Amazon. 

Introducing the first episode of our four part series on attachment styles. We start with a single man who resonates with a fearful avoidant attachment style. Avoidant men often get labeled as f&%k boys, narcissists or just jerks. Our guest describes what is going on behind the scenes of dating as a man with a fearful avoidant attachment. He mentions one scenario that described a lot of my personal relationships with men, and it was very powerful to hear the other perspective. Join us for this vulnerable episode from a self aware man. We are still looking for someone with an avoidant attachment for episode three of this four part series. If you, or someone you know want to anonymously join us on the Book of Love Podcast to share your story, please email me at jean-eva@bookoflovecanada.ca If this is your first introduction to attachment styles, I recommend reading the book 'Attached' found at any major book store or Amazon.

I'm so happy to be back. Huge apologies for the impromptu four month hiatus, but I'm excited to be back and excited to answer these questions on our Book of Love Hotline. If you are interested in learning more about the Compound Dating Technique community created in January, feel free to follow the following link to learn more:   bookoflovecanada.ca/cdt   Questions answered on today's hotline:   Q#1 : jean-eva I need help. I am a woman in my early 40's and I have created an amazing life for myself. I have a high paying career, my own house and car, a great group of friends and I am very happy. My issue is, when I date, I can't find men at my ‘level'. I meet a lot of great guys, but I have yet to meet someone who makes the same amount of money as me or more (200k+). I have dated men in the past that make less than me and it usually turns into an issue. What should I do?   Q # 2 : I've been seeing this woman for about 3 months. She is my dream woman and I can't believe she is interested in me. Since we started dating we have seen each other about once a week. I like to put together fun dates and we typically spend Saturday night and Sunday morning together. Around the 6 week mark she started asking me if we could see each other more, or if I could maybe text her more throughout the week. She says she feels disconnected from the time we aren't together. I'm super busy, and don't always have time to text, plus I really don't like texting. If I'm being honest I'm also afraid to be spending more time with her. What if we spend too much time together and she gets bored or annoyed by me. I've been told by exes that I can be pretty annoying. What should I do?    Q # 3: Dear Jean-eva, I've been dating a new guy for a few months now and things seem to be going really well. So well, in fact, that I'm starting to get worried that this is the best I'm going to get and I'm going to miss out because I don't feel ready to commit. I've been hurt before and I don't want to relive that. How do I tell if this is the right person for me? I don't want to string him along, but I don't want to break things off either. Help me! What do you think of this advice? Do you agree? Do you disagree? Feel free to share, I would love to hear your thoughts.  Love, Jean-eva

Hello my amazing Book of Love listeners. This episode is an ode to you. At the end of the year, I was experiencing major burnout. So I took the last two weeks reflecting on my year as a matchmaker. I took some time to reflect on all the couples that were created and wanted to share their unique stories that give us hope for 2023. Each couple taught me a lesson, but these specific couples have unique journeys that created a unique mindset to enter 2023 with. 

Friendships in your 30s are HARD. We're not in high school anymore, this stuff takes work! How do we create meaningful friendships as an adult?  Grab your ticket for the upcoming Girls Night Out Roller Disco Night December 1st from 8PM-10PM www.jessicaclerke.com/events Thank you for listening today! If you enjoyed this episode, share it with a friend! Or on your social media and tag me @jess.clerke so I can send you a message to personally thank you! Check out my website at: www.jessicaclerke.com If you're on instagram, come say hi!! My Personal Account ---> @jess.clerke The Podcast Account ---> @selfishconfidence

This week, we welcome Danielle from Foxlow Boudoir to discuss confidence and boudoir. Danielle has dedicated herself to building women's confidence with boudoir photography, a growing social media community, and now an on-demand makeup course.   Alongside photographer Jon Davies, she has created a body positive studio in England that celebrates women of all ages, shapes and sizes with empowering boudoir photoshoots. The amazing women you see on their social media range from 21 to 74 years old, and from UK size 6 to 34, reminding us all that beauty and sensuality have no age or size limits!    Now they've found another way to help women feel confident every day with a new online course: Makeup Made Easy featuring their studio makeup artist Charlotte Severn. Through a series of on-demand video tutorials, she explains ten key makeup skills with simple language and demonstrations, then five timeless makeup looks that you can adapt to any occasion.   https://www.foxlowphotography.com   TikTok - @foxlowboudoir https://www.tiktok.com/@foxlowboudoir   Instagram - @foxlowphotography https://www.instagram.com/foxlowphotography/   Facebook Group - The Vixens of Foxlow https://www.facebook.com/groups/foxlowladies   Makeup Made Easy Course https://www.foxlowphotography.com/makeup-made-easy Launch Offer - Half Price until 30th November 2022.

This week is a special episode! We have created a new segment called Sean's Corner. Our male dating coach Sean Aucoin takes over the mic to answer questions from both men and women from the male perspective.    He answers questions such as:   1. It's official, being called a creep is my worst nightmare, how do I approach women without being creepy?   2. We had an amazing date, but he said there was no romantic connection. What the heck?!    3. Why are women so flakey online dating?   4. How can you find a man who wants to date instead of just getting laid?   5. If he sends reactions to my stories, is that a sign of interest?   If you have any questions you would like answered on the next Sean's Corner, be sure to email Sean at sean.moderndayhitch@gmail.com

This week's episode of the book of love hotline covers a lot of the most asked questions in dating:   Question # 1 - Why do women get angry when using the term "wifey type"? Question # 2 - Who pays for the first date? Question # 3 - What you should know before dating a single parent & what single parents need to know when dating. Question # 4 - What to do when someone is asking hard hitting questions about relationships on a first date?   If you aren't in the book of love yet, follow the link below to fill out a brief form, and I will be in touch shortly with more details.    bookoflovecanada.ca

This week we sat down with Dr. Joli Hamilton who is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT (pronounced ay-sect) certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Project Relationship podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Joli's been featured in The New York Times, Vogue, NPR, and The Atlantic.  She's spent the past two decades studying and reimagining what love can be if we open our imaginations to possibility. Joli helps people create non-monogamous partnerships that are custom-built for their authentic selves, no more shrinking, pretending, or hiding required. We spent time discussing questions asked by you including "How do I know a non monogamous lifestyle is for me?" We also discuss her journey from monogamous to non monogamous, how to set boundaries, communication, and what to do when we see ENM online dating. Check out her podcast called "Project Relationship", to discover more on this topic. What do you think? Should we bring Joli on for part 2?

This week we welcome Amber Duffney, from Amber Duffney Coaching. She helps tween girls develop unshakable confidence so they remain self-assured as they become young women... even when facing the unrealistic expectations society puts on them. She is a Certified Professional Coach and graduated from the Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching in 2018.   We discuss her unique journey to become a coach for tween girls, how our experiences in these formidable years impact the rest of our lives, and what we can do to start our own journey of developing unshakable confidence.    You can reach amber through: Facebook - Amber Duffney Coaching Instagram - grow_empowered   Here is the link to Opt in to her email list about future workshops and events https://mailchi.mp/702a05523103/10-ways-to-validate-your-child-guide?fbclid=IwAR0EZ-aoZMQrUZoHBk4qNepos7gH17NLD0mtcC28MEEzICPP74SOXHufRZg

This week on The Book of Love Podcast, we sat down with Jennifer Calkin, a Masters Level Social Worker registered in Saskatchewan, Manitoba and home province Nova Scotia with 13 years of experience working in both private practice and a charitable organization supporting families of first responders. Both mental health professional and single lady, Jen is here to share her inspiring story and discuss ways to care for your mental health. There are a lot of myths around mental health and seeking out help. We dispel all these myths and also include a few tips on how to maintain our mental health while entering the dating world.    Additional resources include: Crisis Text Line: Text wellness to 741741 Crisis Service Canada: 1-833-456-4566; or Text ‘Hello' to 45645 Talk Suicide Canada  1-833-456-4566 Community based programs: Your community mental health department  Canadian Mental Health Association Pride Organization Mobile Crisis Most employers have Employee Assistance Programs (EAP). Check with your employer to find out more. https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca Jen can be reach via telephone or text 306-690-1799

This week we welcome Jiveny Blair-West, Dating & Attraction Coach and co-author of How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life. As a dating coach, she specializes in teaching singles how to bypass superficial attraction strategies and focus on building the sustainable attraction needed to attract a high-quality partner and build a secure and satisfying long-term relationship. Her signature nine-week course, The Alchemy of Attraction, helps women to develop their relationship wisdom and empower themselves to take action and find true love. You can find all the details and join the program at jiveny.com/aoa   Instagram: @jivenyblairwest  Website: datingforlove.com Quiz: datingforlove.com/quiz Book: https://www.bookdepository.com/How-Make-Biggest-Decision-Your-Life-Dr-George-Blair-West/9780733645013

This week we sat down with dating coach Amie Leadingham, master certified relationship coach. Do you end up with the same type of person, just with a different face? This may mean you have a broken picker. Amie and I talk about what having a broken picker looks like and how to fix it. If we are choosing those we partner up with based on chemistry and physical attraction alone, we will usually end up unsatisfied. Learning how to have more depth and be more vulnerable while meeting and dating people is needed to create better results. To attend a FREE MASTERCLASS with Amie, take the relationship readiness quiz or to work with Amie, check out her website at amiethedatingcoach.com

I am so excited for the release of this episode. This amazing woman Ro is a leader in the discussion of narcissistic love and relationships. Coach, TikTok influencer, mother and narc survivor, Ro answers all our questions about narcissistic abuse.    We discuss the early signs of narcissistic traits when dating, what should be done when we find a red flag, how narcissism manifests and progresses in relationships, how to get out, along with so much more.    To learn more about Ro, or to work with her, be sure to check her out on: TikTok @rollercoasteroflove Instagram @_rollercoasteroflove YouTube @Rollercoaster of Love Website Rollercoasteroflove.ca

This week we sat down with Saskia Nelson, Founder of Hey Saturday, the future of Dating profile photos. Sometimes we think that our photos just need to show people what we look like, but Saskia and I discuss how it also needs to tell a story. Photos are the currency of the dating world, and yet it is what we spend the least time getting right when dating.    The online world is really busy and standing out, visually, on dating apps is becoming more and more challenging. But having good quality profile pictures, in the first instance, is a really good way to drive up engagement with your dating app profile. People are drawn to good quality profile photos over poor quality ones, without a doubt. Having good quality dating app photos also shares the message that you value yourself and that finding a partner is important to you. Both of which are attractive qualities to people who are looking for love on dating apps.   This episode is pure tips and tricks of online dating profiles. If you aren't getting the quality of matches you deserve online, this is the episode for you!   To learn more about Saskia and her business, check out her website at https://www.heysaturday.co/ and you can find her on all the socials at @heysaturday.

We enjoyed our workshop last weekend so much, we wanted to share it with our podcast listeners.   Since bringing a male dating coach onto the J-E Matchmaking team, I learned a lot about the male mindset and psyche when dating. Our men's dating coach Sean and I hostend this free webinar to give our single ladies some insider information about how men think, what they want and translate what they say.   We covered topics such as: - someone's ick, is another person's yum. - Why are men so intimidated by independent women? - How long should you wait to have sex with someone you're dating? - What are men looking for on a first date?

This week's episode of the book of love hotline follows a similar theme. Tribal vetting. What happens when the people you're dating don't get along with your friends and family. What do you do?   Question # 1 - Trying to get my boyfriend out to a family event or friend's birthday is like pulling teeth. If he does come out, he is grumpy and doesn't have a good time, which means I won't have a good time. What should I do?   Question # 2 -  my friends don't like anyone I date. So now I don't bring anyone I date around my friends, and now they complain that I don't make time for them.    Question # 3 -  My girlfriend told me I was the one and tried to break up with me two months ago. But we still hang out, see each other about once a week and act like boyfriend and girlfriend. What should I do?   If you would like to check out any of the upcoming training or events J-E Matchmaking has available, visit my website at jematchmaking.com

In this episode, we look back to episodes 2 and 3, how to be a high value man and woman. If you'd like to get into the Book of Love, check out www.jematchmaking.com

This week we welcome back Haley, Sarah and Sean for the Dating Club! Our main topic this week is online dating and profiles. Join us as we discuss our swiping styles, review a few profiles out there and answer one of the best Am I The Asshole's!   "I'm using a dating app currently and matched with this cute girl. The only issue was that she had on her profile “I don't want to date men who hold this viewpoint.” This is a viewpoint I hold (don't want to be detailed about what it was but it was a social justice type thing.) She messaged me first and I responded that I held that viewpoint, and maybe she should be a little more open about who she dates because clearly she liked something about me and she's just shutting me down right off the bat about one thing. She called me a pretentious ass and unmatched me. My friends are split on the issue. Some think I should have immediately unmatched, but others think I didn't do anything wrong because I was just trying to broaden someone's worldview. Am I the asshole for messaging her?"   What do you think?   If you're interested to learn more about J-E Matchmaking services, the first step is to book a 15 minute phone consultation at jematchmaking.com/services. Here we will discuss you, what you're looking for, pricing and the dating plan for you.

This week we welcome our new male dating coach Sean Aucoin, a modern day Hitch! We discuss his personal journey into becoming a dating coach and how it all started with a book given to him for Christmas, "Dating for Dummies". After begrudgingly reading the book, he realized that dating doesn't always come natural, it's an art! He because fascinated with the psychology and human behaviour around dating. After devouring any dating material he could get his hands on, he decided to take his knowledge and real life experience to teach others.   We discuss if the spark is enough, the value of seeing a dating coach, what is missing in dating coaching for men, what we are excited to provide to the men and women of Halifax, and tips and tricks to dating!   If you are interested in working with Sean, either through a boot camp or 1 on 1 coaching, book in a free 15 minute phone consultation through the link below.    Jematchmaking.com/services

This week we welcome Confidence Coach and podcast host of Self(ish) Confidence, Jess Clerke. Self confidence is a super power...but what if you don't have any? It can be hard to show up as your true self. When we go out, or even scrolling on the couch, it's easy to get trapped in the comparison game - which makes it even harder to be your beautiful self. Self(ish) Confidence is about finding your confidence, shining your light and taking action towards a life you're obsessed with.    We discuss her own confidence journey, myths and misconceptions about confidence, what it looks like working with a confidence coach, and the best first step to take to build your confidence.   When asked of singles who are dating what makes someone so attractive, confidence is their first answer. Can confidence be seen in pictures and on profiles? Jess and I discuss what this looks like.    To follow, listen or work with Jess check out her socials and podcast:   Self(ish) Confidence instagram : https://www.instagram.com/selfishconfidence/   Jess Clerke Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/jess.clerke/   Self(ish) Podcast Spotify : https://open.spotify.com/show/14nHiit1CaWTLVyhID3SYf

This week's episode of the book of love hotline takes all the hottest questions and conversations that I have had over the last couple of months in regards to dating. Buckle up, this is the no bs version of the hotline.   Question # 1 - What to do if I'm dating someone who is still living with their ex?   Question # 2 -  Why is it that those I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me, but those I'm not attracted to are so into me?   Question # 3 -  Don't allow the lowest common denominator to affect your dating life.   If you would like to check out any of the upcoming training J-E Matchmaking has available, visit my website at jematchmaking.com

This week we welcome Rikki Dymond all the way from Calgary, Alberta! In this episode we will be discussing the power of feminine energy. As a woman who lives in her masculine pretty much all day, I've always had a hard time explaining the power of feminine energy which connected me to Rikki and her TikTok's @rikkidymond. Did you know that nagging is actually a masculine act? I sure didn't!   In this episode we define feminine & masculine energy and why the polarity between the two is so attractive when dating. My favourite part of this conversation is how the feminine needs praise and the masculine needs admiration and respect. So often we want to show love by how we feel love, but this is another example of how we need to show our partner love by how they feel loved. We also include tips on how to move into your feminine before going into the dating world.    We didn't have enough time to really get into the depths of this topic and so Rikki and I will be going live on TikTok this Friday night (March 11th) at 9:00 pm. Don't forget to register on TikTok or put it in your calendar to join us. 

The week we welcome Dr Lise Janelle Human Potential Expert & Elite Mindset Coach Transforming Lives Since 1989. It is her life's mission to help as many people as she can to experience the joy, love and fulfillment that comes from living connected with their hearts.  As human beings we can live our lives through three main modes: our mind, our emotions and our heart.  Most people are unaware that they are actually living from their emotions, creating the thoughts that then drive the emotions even more, being stuck in an unending cycle that takes them further and further away from inner peace, love, happiness and true life success.   In this episode, we discuss your first love, and how that impacts relationships for the rest of our lives. Five very powerful tips when choosing your life partner. The importance of love, gratitude, inspiration and wisdom in our lives. And what living in your mind, emotions and heart looks like when out dating.    For more information on Dr. Lise Janelle and all her work, you can visit her website at drlisejanelle.com.

This week on the Book of Love HOTLINE, your local matchmaker and dating coach was inspired by my visit to 103.5 Hot Country. On Friday, we answered a follower's dating questions. This new show will be every Wednesday morning just after 8am, live on Facebook and the radio. Feel free to call in or text with your burning dating question so we can answer it live. On this week's Book of Love Hotline, we answer questions such as:   Question # 1 -  A woman I've been dating went away to Toronto for work for 3 weeks. The texting has really changed and she has pulled away a lot. What should I do to get the energy back?   Question # 2 - How do you not get ahead of yourself when you start dating someone? Like how do you not think too far into the future?   Question # 3 -  Is it okay to come right out and ask someone their stance on the "freedom" convoy right out of the gate?   Question # 4 -  How do I make my long distance boo feel loved on Valentine's day when I can't be there to enjoy it with her?   If you would like to check out any of the upcoming training J-E Matchmaking has available, visit my website at jematchmaking.com

This week we sat down with Sean and Elizabeth for our second book club. We read Chapter 6 - 10 of the best modern day dating book on the market "How Not To Die Alone - By Logan Ury.    We discuss what the difference between a life partner and a prom date is. How to have an amazing first date. The post date eight (8 questions to ask yourself after a first date), and, of course, attachment theory.    If you would like to follow along with this book club series, go grab your own copy of the book on my website jematchmaking.com/podcast. Join us for our next book club, date to be announced soon. We will be covering up to the end of Chapter 15

This week is Part 3 of 3 of the Book of Love LIVE SHOW at the Basement of The Shoe. One Bachelorette and three Bachelors join us on stage for Halifax's first LIVE Dating Game! The Bachelor's answer questions such as:   - What is the name of your car? - If you were a wrestler, what would be your entrance theme song? - The zombie apocalypse is coming! Who are 3 people you want on your team? - What was the best piece of advice you have ever been given? - and one question asked by the audience.   If you want to be one of our future bachelors or bachelorettes, send me an email jematchmaking@gmail.com   Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

This week is part 2 of 3 of the Book of Love LIVE SHOW at the Basement of The Shoe.    Sarah, Sean, and Haley from the Dating Club join me on stage to answer the audience's dating questions, including, "when is it appropriate to send a dick pic". We also go through some Photo Feeler photos that give great examples of the female gaze and the male gaze. We also treat the audience and listeners to one of the best online dating profiles I found while digging for inspiration.    Don't miss next week's episode where we will have the LIVE dating game. One bachelorette and three bachelors! Who will win the date?!

This week is part 1 of 3 of the Book of Love LIVE SHOW last Wednesday at the Basement of The Shoe.    Introduced by Sarah MacLellan, host of Intalksicated Podcast to discuss those dating cliches told to all singles by family and friends. We then start the show where we discuss Match.com 2021 Survey "Singles in America". Why political views are so important when dating, how video calls were necessary during the pandemic and how sex and dating has changed over the last couple of years.    Don't miss next week where we have The Dating Club on stage to answer your questions and review pictures and online dating profiles LIVE!

This week we sat down with Ashley, Elizabeth, Liane and myself for our first Book Club. We read the first 5 chapters of the best modern day dating book on the market, How Not To Die Alone by Logan Ury.    We discuss the paradox of choice and how having too many options is detrimental to our dating lives, also that perfection is a lie and there is no perfect partner out there for us. At some point we will have to choose someone and work towards creating the perfect relationship with an imperfect person. Also we discuss how perfection is a lie and that you can't be perfectly ready to date,    If you would like to follow along with this book club series, go grab your own copy of the book on my website, jematchmaking.com/podcast   Join us for our next book club, coming out January 10th. We will be covering up to the end of Chapter 10.

This week on the Book of Love HOTLINE, your local matchmaker and dating coach was inspired by the questions asked by those who will attend the Live Show on December 1st, while also being live on TikTok and receiving more inspiration from those tuning in.    We answer question such as:   Q1. How do you let someone know you like them more than a friend, without ruining said friendship?   Q2. How do you convey that you want to be taken on dates instead of just a Netflix and chill situation without the man thinking you just want them to spend money on you.   Q3. How to communicate that I'm Demisexual and it may take me longer than most to develop physical attraction for someone.   If you would like to join us for our Live Podcast Show on December 1st, be sure to grab your ticket through the link below.   jematchmaking.com/events

This week's guest, Lana Grant, RTT CHt CSR is a Rapid Transformational Therapist, Certified Hypnotherapist, Emergency First Responder, Singer-Songwriter, Intuitive and Energy Light Worker. She helps people who are ready to live, not just exist - but struggle to connect with their purpose, passions & heart's desire. She does this by helping YOU release your blocks, traumas limiting beliefs and stuck emotions, to activate your healed, empowered, successful, loving, joyful & magical self, within a fresh start mindset and inspired living journey!   We have a very interesting conversation about dating, being sexy and a debate about dating multiple people or just one at a time. We talk about the importance of enjoying the process, having fun and what the courtship dance looks like. You've heard me say how important it is to know what your purpose in life is, and that successful dating will be a bi product of the passion that radiates from someone who lives a purpose driven life. Lana focuses on this in her therapy to help people find what their purpose may be!   Check out Lana's website at https://www.lanagrant.com/

This week we welcome Dario van der Kraken, tuning in all the way from Italy! Dario is a qualified dating & relationship life coach. He believes we all deserve to love and be loved unconditionally - so he helps gay guys struggling with love addiction in toxic relationships create happy and healthy connections. He spent his 20s desperately looking for love in all the wrong places but his many attempts only ended up with more heartache. After being in therapy and doing the work he was able to understand his toxic patterns around love and to eventually change them. He's now in a happy relationship with his boyfriend and helps other gay guys finding love with someone else by finding it first within themselves. We talk about what love addiction looks like, how it can create unrealistic expectations and lead to toxic relationships. To learn more about Dario and the work he does, check out his website, www.dario.coach and his instagram @dario.lifecoach

Join us for this week's fun chapter with Carey, Dating Coach and Matchmaker based in Chicago to discuss dating over 50. I realized very quickly in my matchmaking career that dating over 50 is very different to their younger counterparts. We discuss how dating is different, if age really matters, and where to meet people outside of the online dating world. Take some time to devour Carey's YouTube channel "Coffee with Carey" for some amazing tips and tricks about dating over 50 but also just dating in general!

This week we welcome the amazing Harry Wilmington onto The Book of Love Podcast to discuss the beauty of dating an introvert as well as tips on dating smarter as an introvert. If you think being an introvert is holding you back from dating and meeting your perfect person, this podcast episode is for you. We discuss how being an introvert is actually a benefit when used properly, the difference between being shy and being introverted, why extroverts tend to be very compatible with introverts and why the mysterious introvert can be so sexy.    Harry Wilmington is a Men's Dating Coach who specializes in helping introverted men break out of their shells to attract and date the women of their dreams... while still getting their alone time. A certified introvert who was once unlucky in love, Harry has created podcasts and programs based on his journey from dating failure to success that have helped transform hundreds of men into bold, confident daters. He coaches men on how to use their natural introverted charm to create genuine bonds and connections with the women in their dating lives. Harry resides in Los Angeles, CA, and he can be reached via his website, IntrovertDatingSuccess.com.

This week is a special episode. We recorded a FREE webinar for women a few weeks ago about what is holding us back from dating. It was such an amazing piece of content, I wanted to share it with all of you. We asked each of the 77 women attending, what they think was holding them back from dating. There were 3 main themes: people not meeting their standards, negativity and time.   We discuss the difference between "picky" and having "standards". How negative thoughts will actually repel what we want and attract what we don't want. How to find time to date. Feeling dating burnout and how to find the energy to date properly.    If you're looking for some help in the dating world, always feel free to book in a coaching session with me at jematchmaking.com/services  

This week we are joined by your hype girl Meagan Cole, founder of Rise up Shine Bright. Confidence is something she has always struggled with. She has let fear, doubt and scarcity mindset hold her back from taking action in her life. Often we need reassurance, a reminder and something physical to empower us to be that version of ourselves that we desire to be.     We discuss confidence, limiting beliefs and even dove into Meagan's story of meeting her partner. It was personal growth that allowed her to realize her current relationship wasn't right, and it took leaving that relationship to open her life up to the blessings she has now.    I just got my ticket for her self discovery event on November 13th, and if you too would like to join, you can find all the details at riseupshinebright.ca

This week on the Book of Love HOTLINE your local matchmaker and dating coach Jean-eva Dickie went through our huge list of questions on my TikTok Q&A , emails and instagram to pull out main themes I've seen this month. We answer the questions: Q1. How long should I wait to see if chemistry grows with someone I've been on a few dates with. Q2. How do I get better at setting boundaries in person? Q3. How do I end a date when I want it to be over and not when it naturally ends? Q4. What do you think of large age gaps when dating? I also happened to fit in a quick story of one of the worst pre screening phone calls I had with a potential client.  Hope to see you all soon!