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Best podcasts about logan ury

Latest podcast episodes about logan ury

My First Million
Hinge expert shares dating advice for ambitious nerds

My First Million

Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 77:42


Episode 709: Sam Parr ( https://x.com/theSamParr ) and Shaan Puri ( https://x.com/ShaanVP ) talk to Logan Ury ( https://x.com/loganury ) about how young men can be more successful in dating.  — Show Notes: (0:00) Intro (6:28) The secretary problem (14:43) What's happening with men right now (21:07) How to do the apps right (27:32) Meeting someone IRL (30:03) The power of weak ties (36:56) How to be a better date (40:37) Date like a scientist (45:44) Fuck the spark (49:02) What's your tendency (51:00) AI partners (57:15) Pro tip: join a mens group (1:03:23) Mental Health vs Mental Fitness — Links: • Logan Ury - https://www.loganury.com/  • The School of Life - https://www.youtube.com/@theschooloflifetv • Mating in Captivity - https://tinyurl.com/bddrnw9c  • How to Not Die Alone - https://tinyurl.com/mupe2ntc  • Seven Principles for Making a Marriage Work - https://tinyurl.com/jvz9hhu6  — Check Out Shaan's Stuff: • Shaan's weekly email - https://www.shaanpuri.com  • Visit https://www.somewhere.com/mfm to hire worldwide talent like Shaan and get $500 off for being an MFM listener. Hire developers, assistants, marketing pros, sales teams and more for 80% less than US equivalents. — Check Out Sam's Stuff: • Hampton - https://www.joinhampton.com/ • Ideation Bootcamp - https://www.ideationbootcamp.co/ • Copy That - https://copythat.com • Hampton Wealth Survey - https://joinhampton.com/wealth • Sam's List - http://samslist.co/ My First Million is a HubSpot Original Podcast // Brought to you by HubSpot Media // Production by Arie Desormeaux // Editing by Ezra Bakker Trupiano

TODAY with Hoda & Jenna
May 13, Erin Andrews: Salma Hayek Pinault Talks Sports Illustrated Cover | Relationship Expert Busts Dating Myths | Blake Shelton on New Album

TODAY with Hoda & Jenna

Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2025 30:11


Sportscaster and TV personality Erin Andrews joins Jenna Bush Hager as co-host. The two welcome the newest Sports Illustrated cover star, Salma Hayek Pinault, to discuss appearing on the iconic cover and play a game of “Don't Look Back.” Then, Logan Ury, director of relationship science at Hinge, debunks common dating myths. Plus, country star Blake Shelton stops by to talk about his latest studio album.

The Everygirl Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need, With Hinge's Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury

The Everygirl Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 47:52


#178: If you're swiping endlessly on dating apps, dreading awkward first dates, or wondering how to make a new relationship actually last, this episode is for you. Logan Ury is a behavioral expert, bestselling author, and Hinge's Director of Relationship Science. We dive deep into why so many people get stuck in unfulfilling dating cycles, how to break free from toxic patterns, and the biggest mistakes Millennials and Gen Z are making when it comes to relationships. Logan shares why online dating feels so exhausting (and what to do about it), tips to meet people IRL, and her surprising take on “the spark” and why it might be sabotaging your love life. This conversation is packed with science-backed advice that will completely shift the way you think about relationships—and might just change your dating life forever.For Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

3pm PickUp
MINI: 'The Wardrobe Test' reveals how we REALLY feel about our partners

3pm PickUp

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2025 3:46 Transcription Available


Author of How To Not Die Alone, Logan Ury, has come up with the 'Wardrobe Test' - a kind of odd way to reveal how we feel about our partners. Britt & Laura put it to the test and find out how their partners feel about them as well. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett
Masculinity Debate: Are Dating Apps Creating A Generation Of Incels?! Lonely Men Are More Dangerous Than Ever!

The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 145:56


Are we raising a lost generation of men? Is society failing young boys? In this emergency discussion, Steven sits down with expert guests to explore the recently published ‘Lost Boys Report'. The Diary Of A CEO's masculinity discussion is joined by Scott Galloway and Logan Ury. Scott Galloway is a member of the advisory council for the American Institute for Boys and Men and Professor of Marketing at the New York Stern School of Business. Logan Ury is a behavioural scientist turned dating coach and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge.  In this discussion, Scott, Logan, and Steven discuss topics such as, how toxic masculinity has a grip on young men, whether dating apps are creating a generation of incels, the rising levels of violence among adolescent men, and why young boys are giving up on love and work.  00:00 Intro 02:13 The Lost Boys Report 03:46 Who Is Logan and What Does She Do? 05:07 Who Is Scott 06:12 How Did This Happen? 10:38 Fatherless Homes 14:40 Are Boys Mentally Weaker? 16:51 Is the Education System the Problem? 22:49 Where Are Male Role Models? 30:08 What the Stats Say About Dating 34:42 Dating Standards 44:23 Do Women Really Want Emotionally Attuned Men? 46:16 If They're Okay, Always Go on a Second Date 48:06 Men's Groups: Should We Have Them and What Are the Benefits? 54:57 Ads 55:50 Steve's Supportive Group of Friends 1:02:42 The Dangers of Porn for Young Boys 1:08:01 How Scott Helps Men With Porn Addiction 1:13:12 Men Approaching Women in a Post-MeToo Era 1:15:27 Teens Don't Know How to Ask Girls Out in Person 1:25:22 Do Successful Women Struggle to Find a Partner? 1:28:11 Ads 1:29:14 The Rise of Feminism 1:30:54 Money Equals Identity for Men 1:36:09 Does Money Give Self-Worth to Women? 1:38:42 The Human Dating Boot Camp 1:47:33 How Is the Left Going to Get Men Back? 1:52:16 Advice for Parents of Young Boys 1:55:12 What Scott and Steve Had to Unlearn About Being a Man 2:10:02 Closing Message for the Lost Boys You can learn more about the March 2025 CSJ Report, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/2kI16MnW6Rb  Follow Scott:  Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/iY8VsRwW6Rb  Twitter - https://g2ul0.app.link/mtdT5dzW6Rb  Website - https://g2ul0.app.link/V8ukmVDW6Rb  Follow Logan: Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/z6h5BeGW6Rb  Twitter - https://g2ul0.app.link/jzjDZkIW6Rb  Website - https://g2ul0.app.link/5SIP1FOW6Rb  You can purchase Scott's book, ‘The Algebra of Happiness: The Pursuit of Success, Love and What It All Means', here: https://g2ul0.app.link/gNRRlBCU6Rb  You can purchase Logan's book, ‘How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love', here: https://g2ul0.app.link/4aQGk5EU6Rb  Research document: https://stevenbartlett.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/DOAC-Lost-Boys-Independent-Research-and-Further-Reading.pdf Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes  My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook  Get your hands on the Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards here: https://bit.ly/conversationcards-mp Sign up to receive email updates about Diary Of A CEO here: https://bit.ly/diary-of-a-ceo-yt  Ready to think like a CEO? Gain access to the 100 CEOs newsletter here: https://bit.ly/100-ceos-newsletter  Follow me: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb  Sponsors: Shopify - https://shopify.com/bartlett Perfect Ted - https://www.perfectted.com with code DIARY40 for 40% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Women of Impact
Still Single? Fix These 3 Dating Mistakes to Stop Picking the Wrong Person | Logan Ury

Women of Impact

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2025 60:04


Join host Lisa Bilyeu in another empowering episode of Women of Impact, where she welcomes Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist and dating coach, to delve into the psychological intricacies of modern dating. Logan, author of the popular book "How to Not Die Alone," brings her extensive knowledge from her work at Hinge and her studies on love and relationships to the table. In this episode, Lisa and Logan discuss the fears and challenges faced by singles in the dating world, from facing rejection to overcoming insecurities. They start by exploring common dating blind spots and how societal expectations can affect our romantic pursuits. Logan shares actionable insights on building confidence to approach dating with a healthy mindset and explains the concept of "dating blind spots" that hold many people back from finding love. They underscore the importance of understanding one's dating pattern tendencies and provide techniques to improve relational skills by becoming aware of how personal biases may influence dating behaviors. SHOWNOTES: 00:00 Lisa shares her fear of putting herself out there and the battle between ego and mission. 00:23 Logan discusses the importance of overcoming personal insecurities. 00:44 Discussion on the growth and evolution through challenges. 01:09 Lisa explains the Wonder Woman connection and using icons to build confidence. 01:58 The value of knowing your superhero name as self-empowerment. 02:30 Personal anecdotes on confidence building through habitual acts. 03:32 Introduction of Logan Ury and her impact in the dating coach industry. 04:26 Logan explains why dating is intimidating and the fear of rejection. 05:44 Diving into the concept of dating blind spots and asking friends for feedback. FOLLOW LOGAN: Instagram: Logan Ury Instagram Twitter: Logan Ury Twitter Website: Logan Ury Website CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi  #skimspartner  Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Knowledge Project with Shane Parrish
#219 Logan Ury: The Dating Myths You Need to Stop Believing

The Knowledge Project with Shane Parrish

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 130:51


Most people date the wrong way. They chase the spark, mistake attraction for compatibility, and expect their partners to read their minds. Then they wonder why relationships don't last. Logan Ury thinks about dating differently. As the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, she's spent years studying what actually makes relationships work. Her findings will change the way you think about attraction, communication, and commitment. In this conversation, Logan reveals why the spark is overrated, how to optimize your dating profile, and the one thing (actually, 8) you must do after every first date. We break down attachment theory, orbiting, polyamory, and having hard conversations in a healthy way. We get answers to questions like: "what's an appropriate age gap?" and "what to say if you're not interested after a date?" Plus, Logan shares how she made the decision to be with her husband and the importance of “other significant others.”      If you want to stop wasting time on the wrong people and start building something real, this episode is for you.   (2:49) First Dates and the Slow Burn (8:07) The Post-Date 8 (14:30) Dating Like a Scientist (15:50) The Height thing... (18:56) The Spark vs Lust (26:35) Fear of Rejection (29:01) Understanding Attachment Theory (39:20) Navigating Online Dating (41:36) Effective Communication in Dating (51:58) Texting Etiquette (01:05:33) Dealing with Rejection (01:08:44) Polyamory (01:13:32) Orbiting (01:30:45) Logan's Story of Meeting Her Husband (01:37:12) Navigating Crucial Decision Points in Relationships (01:41:48) Having Difficult Conversations in Relationships (01:50:15) Other Significant Others (01:59:05) Breaking Up Respectfully (02:02:08) Tips for Creating Dating Profiles   Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist, dating coach, and the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge. She's the bestselling author of How Not to Die Alone.  Newsletter - The Brain Food newsletter delivers actionable insights and thoughtful ideas every Sunday. It takes 5 minutes to read, and it's completely free. Learn more and sign up at fs.blog/newsletter Upgrade — If you want to hear my thoughts and reflections at the end of the episode, join our membership: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fs.blog/membership⁠⁠ and get your own private feed. Watch on YouTube: @tkppodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Julie & Jim Traber Podcast

Date your Mate Julie and Jim discuss a podcast with Logan Ury, author of How to not Die Alone. Can we apply dating tips to our marriage to keep things fresh and fun! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Life Uncut
Welcome to Cloud!

Life Uncut

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2025 50:04


Hey Lifers!Over the past 4 months we have been working on this very special project; a brand new 10 part mini series called Cloud, hosted by Life Uncut’s Executive Producer Keeshia Pettit. Cloud is a podcast series created to discuss ADHD and late age diagnosis; a conversation that was sparked after Keeshia’s own diagnosis. The name Cloud is inspired by the experiences of many late-diagnosed women who describe finally feeling like a “cloud was lifted” after learning more about the different ways that their brains work and how they ‘fit’ into society. With all of the content about ADHD on social media explaining what the condition is, I’ve been on quite a journey figuring out the difference between what I thought were personality flaws and what is actually symptomatic of this condition. I realised that there was a bit of a gap of what to do next. What was I meant to do with all of this information? Cloud was created to fill that gap. It explores the intersection of ADHD with identity, relationships, career, and well-being so that we can live more fulfilling and more present lives.Each episode will offer insight into a different aspect of ADHD from guests like Mark Manson, the author of ‘The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, psychiatrist Dr Kieran Kennedy, focus and attention expert Johann Hari and relationship experts Sabrina Zohar and Logan Ury. Today’s conversation is about emotional dysregulation, shame, masking, impulsivity, self criticism and success. We chat: Why I was so hesitant to speak publicly about ADHD The ‘oversaturation’ of ADHD content on social media How ADHD presents differently in girls and women Wondering if I'd have known earlier, would life have been easier? How I've changed since diagnosis How Britt & Laura feel I've changed Rejection sensitive dysphoria, emotional dysregulation, shame, impulsivity and time blindness. Am I a chameleon or am I masking? You can watch us on Youtube Find us on Instagram Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion GroupSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mostly Balanced
231. How To Attract Better Matches & Master The Early Dating Stages with Logan Ury

Mostly Balanced

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 43:26


Welcome back! Today we're joined by Logan Ury, behavioral scientist turned dating coach, director of relationship science at Hinge, and bestselling author of How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. What we talk about: Logan's experience as the dating coach on Netflix's The Later Daters Pros and cons of dating 55+ Hinge's latest features and how to use them to attract better matches Logan's top tips for a great dating app profile Logan's research on the three dating tendencies and how it helped me meet my boyfriend Things you should do before defining the relationship How to have the “what are we” talk without saying “what are we” How to tell someone you don't like the way they kiss& more!You can find Logan on Instagram @loganury and purchase her book everywhere books are sold.Learn your dating tendency here and sign up for Logan's newsletter here.Listen to our previous episode with Logan Ury: Episode 81. How To Not Die Alone.As always, find me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Ready to Level Up Your Dating Game? It's time to make dating exciting again with First Round's On Me! Discover real, meaningful connections that go beyond the small talk. ⁠⁠⁠Grab a FREE month of FROM's premium Terracotta subscription⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with the code MOSTLYDATING.

Sex With Emily
Dating Apps, Red Flags & Bad Habits w/ Logan Ury

Sex With Emily

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2025 51:12


Logan Ury, the author of How to Not Die Alone and director of Relationship Science at Hinge, joins me to share her best tips for all things dating. Logan provides practical tips for avoiding dating blindspots, the drawbacks of unrealistic expectations, and algorithms to live by for finding a satisfying relationship.  We discuss how ‘dealbreakers' may be an excuse for avoiding connection, how attachment styles affect our dating outcomes, the paradox of choice in the dating world, and how to get out of the checklist mindset. She also breaks down the most common dating tendencies, shares strategies behind making the best decisions, explains why ‘the spark' may be B.S., and even offers how-to advice for creating a powerful dating profile. Even if you're not dating, you will learn techniques that will strengthen all your relationships. In this episode, you'll learn: Why the spark is total BS—and what actually makes a relationship last How your dating type (romanticizer, maximizer, or hesitator) is messing with your love life The secret to making better choices in dating—so you can finally find your person Show Notes: More Logan Ury: Instagram | Twitter | Website For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE.   To get 6 bottles of wine for $39.99, head to NakedWines.com/SWE and use code SWE for both the code AND PASSWORD.  Buy Smart Sex New Paperback Cover Now! Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let's text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

The Pulse
Meeting Your Match: Navigating the World of Modern Dating

The Pulse

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2025 54:43


Ahead of Valentine's Day, we explore the modern world of dating — and why so many people are frustrated with it. We talk with a behavioral scientist and dating coach Logan Ury about best practices for online dating, learn about researchers building a new dating app, and hear stories about successful and not-so-successful efforts to find love.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

I Think I Like You
This might be my go to marriage + dating advice for all of 2025 | Ep 129

I Think I Like You

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 28:00


The other week a friend sent me a clip from Instagram, and despite not being the biggest Logan Ury fan, I really got down with what she was saying here."Great relationships are built, they're not discovered."This concept is top of mind as my husband and I work through a new phase in our marriage with the addition of a child. But it's also top of mind as I connect with clients at the forefront of the year and reflect on the inner work that's really calling to them in 2025.Work with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Production by James Jorge

U Up?
Am I Really Undateable? Ft. Logan Ury

U Up?

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2025 67:22


Dating Coach, Hinge Relationship Science expert, and friend of the pod Logan Ury (@loganury) is here to help J & J answer the question haunting single women everywhere: Where are all the guys?!? Her new Netflix show “The Later Daters,” where she coaches singles over 55 on how to get back in the dating scene, is now streaming – and proving that some dating struggles never change, even with age. They really dig into Logan's 2025 passion projects: the gender imbalance in dating, the need for male support networks, and how we can improve the male end of the dating pool. We hear from one listener who wants to know if being single for years makes them undateable, but Logan's here to assure us all that it's never too late to find love. All of this tees up Monday's special Benefits episode: Logan coaching Jared, on air, no holding back. You won't want to miss it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Girls Gotta Eat
The Snack: Later Daters, Controversial Killer, and Is Eras Really Over?

Girls Gotta Eat

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2024 53:11


Welcome back to The Snack – a lighter serving of Girls Gotta Eat. This week, we're talking about: Our thoughts on Wicked + the unhinged press tour The Eras tour is over…or is it?  New stats on female bosses The United CEO shooter Logan Ury joins us to talk about Neflix's The Later Daters Follow Logan on Instagram @loganury and watch The Later Daters on Netflix. Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Thank you to our partners this week: Storyworth: Get $10 off your first purchase at http://storyworth.com/gge. Boll and Branch: Get 25% off + free shipping on your first set of sheets at https://bollandbranch.com/gge.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

The Mel Robbins Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 87:41


Today, you are getting the best dating advice out there for both you and your loved ones.Mel sits down with Logan Ury – a behavior scientist, dating expert, host of Netflix's new dating series “The Later Daters,” and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge – to get her science-backed insights on finding success in dating.If dating apps make you feel hopeless, if you feel like dating is broken, or can't seem to find “the one,” Logan's insights will change your approach to finding love forever.Whether you're single, in a relationship, or supporting a loved one navigating the dating scene, this episode is packed with science-backed insights and actionable tools to help anyone find the love they deserve.For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.If you're in your relationship and want tools and tips on how to make it better, listen to this episode next: 5 Signs of an Incompatible Relationship & 3 Signs You've Found “The One”Connect with Mel: Watch the episodes on YouTubeGet Mel's new book, The Let Them TheoryFollow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast InstagramMel's TikTok Sign up for Mel's personal letter Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ on Apple Podcasts to listen to ad-free new episodes Disclaimer

We Have the Receipts
The Later Daters S1: Golden Singles Ready To Mingle with Justine Joy + Suzanne and Allison

We Have the Receipts

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 68:09


Dating coach Logan Ury is mentoring six golden singles looking for love, companionship or a little fun in Atlanta. And listen up, we are taking notes! Justine Joy and Chris Burns recap all the heartwarming moments – and dating lessons! – from Season 1 of The Later Daters. Our favorite football fan Suzanne and her reliable ride Allison join the pod. Plus, Suzanne updates us on her dating life (spoiler alert: she's still crushing on Matthew McConaughey).  Leave us a voice message at www.speakpipe.com/WeHaveTheReceipts Text us at (929) 487-3621  DM Chris @FatCarrieBradshaw on Instagram Follow We Have The Receipts wherever you listen, so you never miss an episode.  Listen to more from Netflix Podcasts.

The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast
The Dating Expert Logan Ury: Modern Dating Mistakes, Why We're Addicted To F*ck Boys, Why We Stay Single, & How To Find Love

The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2024 63:35


#783: Join us as we sit down with Logan Ury – a Harvard-trained behavioral scientist turned dating coach. As the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, Logan leads a research team dedicated to people finding love! In this episode, Logan unpacks the realities of modern dating, explores how attachment styles can influence your search for love, emphasizes the importance of prioritizing meaningful connections over superficial traits, addresses society's addiction with "F*ck Boys," & and shares tips from her book, How to Not Die Alone!   To connect with Logan Ury click HERE   To connect with Lauryn Bosstick click HERE   To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE   Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE   To Watch the Show click HERE   For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM   To Call the Him & Her Hotline call: 1-833-SKINNYS (754-6697)   This episode is brought to you by The Skinny Confidential   Head to the HIM & HER Show ShopMy page HERE to find all of Michael and Lauryn's favorite products mentioned on their latest episodes.   Visit loganury.com to take Logan's dating quiz, learn about online coaching, & purchase her book “How to Not Die Alone”.   This episode is sponsored by Cymbiotika   Head over to Cymbiotika.com right now for 25% off + Free Shipping sitewide.   This episode is sponsored by Just Thrive   If you're ready to take control and live your healthiest life yet, you can get 20% off your first 90-day bottle of Just Calm & Just Thrive Probiotic today – Visit JustThriveHealth.com and use promo code SKINNY.   This episode is sponsored by Branch Basics    Save 15% on your Starter Kit or their new Hand Soap when you use code SKINNY at branchbasics.com.   This episode is sponsored by Taylor Farms   Taylor Farms Chopped Salad Kits are available at all major grocery stores.   This episode is sponsored by Prolon   Go to ProlonLife.com/SKINNY for 15% off Prolon's 5-day nutrition program.   This episode is sponsored by LMNT   Get your free LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase at drinklmnt.com/SKINNY.   Produced by Dear Media

Everyone Comes From Somewhere
How Not to Die Alone - Logan Ury

Everyone Comes From Somewhere

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2024 49:48


Some relationships feel like a game of emotional tag—you're either chasing or being chased. This week, Jody sits down with Logan Ury, author of How Not to Die Alone, to untangle the complexities of attachment styles, from the anxious-avoidant loop to the quest for secure connections. They unpack the psychology of modern dating, the burnout of endless swipes, and why a little self-awareness goes a long way. Logan shares wisdom on crafting dating profiles that spark conversation and her upcoming Netflix series, The Later Daters, highlighting love stories for those over 55. Whether you're navigating breakups, parenting, or making the first move, this episode is a roadmap to more fulfilling relationships—one mindful connection at a time.Logan Ury is a behavioural scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling book How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She works as Hinge's Director of Relationship Science, conducting research on modern dating. She also writes the popular weekly newsletter — Logan's Love Letter.Find Logan on Instagram:@loganury Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How to Be a Better Human
How to make dating not suck (w/ Logan Ury)

How to Be a Better Human

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2024 40:40


It's natural to romanticize the random meet-cutes we've all seen in romantic comedies, but is hoping for a chance encounter with the next great love of your life the best way to find them? Behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury believes in dating with practicality and intention. Logan joins Chris to share actionable tips on where and how to meet people, making the best of first dates, and how to know when you have found the right person. Whether you're in your 20s or your 70s, Logan's well-researched tactics will give you hope of finding a stable long-term relationship. Her book, How to Not Die Alone, is out now.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Harvard Behavioral Scientist: Routines & Habits For Success In Life And Relationships

The Liz Moody Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 44:49


Do you want to level up your life, friendships, relationships, and more? In this conversation, Liz Moody speaks with behavioral scientist Logan Ury on how to get past surface-level friendships and relationships and spend your time more intentionally, as well as exercises you can use to get past mental and physical blocks and start living your dream life. Logan also discusses her Netflix show The Later Daters, which sheds light on the Baby Boomer dating scene. The show teaches Baby Boomers how to get back into the dating world with the help of their children and other loved ones. Ury coaches the show's participants to help them improve as daters – because while everyone is born knowing how to love, everyone has to learn how to date. 1:16 The Board of Directors Meeting 5:13 Host A Blind Spots Dinner 6:38 Find Spaces to Meet People 9:48 Important Friendship Rituals 12:30 The Four Tendencies 16:30 Strengthening Your Relationships 20:48 Benefits Of Couples Dinners 24:46 Being a Mother 27:12 The Later Daters For more from Logan, find her on Instagram at @loganury or her website, www.loganury.com. Her book, How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love, is available where books are sold. The Later Daters premieres on Netflix on November 29, 2024. Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz's book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!  To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast. Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody, or subscribe to her newsletter by visiting www.lizmoody.com. If you like this episode, check out  How to Be More Attractive, Win At Apps, Flirt Better, And More: Relationship Scientist Logan Ury Answers YOUR Qs Ask The Doctor: Happiness Edition. Feel More Content Regardless of Life Circumstances with Dr. Rick Hanson, PhD Fighting Can Make Your Relationship Better—If You Do It THIS Way with Drs Julie & John Gottman This episode is sponsored by: Molly's Suds: go to mollyssuds.com/LIZMOODY and use code LIZMOODY for 20% off. AG1: visit drinkag1.com/lizmoody and get your FREE year supply of Vitamin D and 5 free travel packs today. The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy. Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast.  This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 285. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Getting Curious with Jonathan Van Ness
How Do We Become Better Daters?

Getting Curious with Jonathan Van Ness

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2024 61:29


It's fall, it's cuffing season, and maybe you're looking for a way to extend that new, cozy relationship to a love for all seasons… Dating can be a mystery to some, but to our guest expert - it's a scientific method! Today, we have Logan Ury from the new Netflix show The Later Daters talking to us all about how to become a better dater - at any age - and how we can say “f*ck the spark!” once and for all. Plus! We're covering the latest Hinge data, ethical non-monogamy, and “other significant others.” Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling book How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She's the dating coach on the new Netflix series — The Later Daters — from executive producer Michelle Obama. She works as Hinge's Director of Relationship Science, conducting research on modern dating. She also writes the popular weekly newsletter — Logan's Love Letter. She studied psychology at Harvard and ran Google's behavioral science team, the Irrational Lab. She lives in the Bay Area with her husband Scott. Later Daters premieres November 29th on Netflix. You can follow Logan Ury on Instagram @loganury. Follow us on Instagram @CuriousWithJVN to join the conversation. Jonathan is on Instagram @JVN. Transcripts for each episode are available at JonathanVanNess.com. Find books from Getting Curious guests at bookshop.org/shop/curiouswithjvn. Our senior producers are Chris McClure. Our engineer is Nathanael McClure. Production support from Julie Carrillo, Anne Currie, and Chad Hall. Our theme music is “Freak” by QUIÑ; for more, head to TheQuinCat.com. Curious about bringing your brand to life on the show? Email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Bookey App 30 mins Book Summaries Knowledge Notes and More
Finding Connection: Insights from Logan Ury's 'How to Not Die Alone'

Bookey App 30 mins Book Summaries Knowledge Notes and More

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2024 4:54


Chapter 1: Summary of How to Not Die Alone"How to Not Die Alone" by Logan Ury is a relationship guide that aims to help readers find and maintain meaningful romantic connections. Ury, a behavioral scientist and dating coach, combines research with practical advice to address common challenges in dating and relationships.The book emphasizes understanding oneself and the psychological patterns that influence dating behaviors. It covers topics such as recognizing one's dating style, overcoming fears of vulnerability, and improving communication skills. Ury discusses the importance of being intentional in dating, advocating for a proactive approach in seeking relationships rather than passively waiting for the right person to come along.Ury also provides strategies for evaluating potential partners, managing expectations, and navigating the complexities of modern dating, including the impact of dating apps. She encourages readers to embrace authenticity and self-reflection while fostering healthy connections with others.Overall, "How to Not Die Alone" offers a blend of research-backed insights and practical tools to help individuals build fulfilling romantic relationships and ultimately avoid the loneliness that can come from ineffective dating practices.Chapter 2: The Theme of How to Not Die Alone"How to Not Die Alone" by Logan Ury is a relationship guide that combines psychology and personal anecdotes to help readers navigate the complexities of dating and relationships. Here are some key plot points, character development aspects, and thematic ideas. Key Plot Points:1. Self-Discovery: The book emphasizes the importance of understanding oneself before seeking a partner. Ury encourages readers to identify their values, deal-breakers, and relationship vision.2. Common Dating Mistakes: Ury outlines common pitfalls people encounter in dating, such as falling for the wrong type of partner or ignoring red flags. She provides practical advice to help readers avoid these mistakes.3. The Science of Attraction: The book delves into the psychology of attraction and offers insights into how compatibility works. Ury discusses the role of chemistry versus long-term compatibility.4. Influence of Technology: Ury addresses the impact of modern dating platforms and how they can distort perceptions of dating and relationships. She provides tips for effective online dating.5. Navigating Commitment: The guide explores concepts such as commitment and the fear of vulnerability, offering strategies for building deeper connections with potential partners.6. Personal Stories: Throughout the book, Ury shares her own experiences and challenges in dating, which adds a relatable and human element to her advice. Character Development:- Logan Ury as a Guide: While Ury herself is not a fictional character, she evolves as a relatable mentor throughout the book. Her personal anecdotes illustrate her growth and understanding of relationships and help to build a rapport with readers.- Readers as Characters: Ury encourages readers to view themselves as the protagonists of their dating journeys. Throughout the book, she prompts self-reflection, urging readers to develop a clearer sense of what they want in relationships. Thematic Ideas:1. Self-Awareness: One of the main themes is the necessity of self-awareness in dating. Ury argues that understanding one's own needs and desires is crucial to find a suitable partner.2. Intentional Dating: Ury promotes the idea of being intentional in dating—making conscious choices rather than falling into patterns of behavior.3. Resilience: The book highlights the importance of resilience, encouraging readers to learn from their dating experiences, both good and bad, to grow and improve their future relationships.4....

Relationsh*t with Kamie Crawford
How To Get More Dates with Hinge Director Logan Ury

Relationsh*t with Kamie Crawford

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2024 69:14


We can all agree, the apps these days are feeling dry, destitute & dark. But hear me out, bestie - what if the problem… is you. Don't all cast your stones at once! Hinge's Director of Relationship Science & Author of the bestselling dating book, How to Not Die Alone, Logan Ury is here to help. We'll talk about ways to make your profile more appealing to the dates you want, when to take things off the apps and make IRL connections and your biggest dating app icks.  Purchase Logan's book “How To Not Die Alone” at the link below: https://www.amazon.com/How-Not-Die-Alone-Surprising/dp/1982120622 Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, Follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sex Ed with DB
You've Got Red Flags in "You've Got Mail" (Rom-Com Vom)

Sex Ed with DB

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 32:29


In this episode of Rom Com Vom, DB and the incredible Logan Ury, dating coach and author, break down You've Got Mail, the 1998 rom-com that taught us all to fall in love through email (or did it?). They dive into the film's exploration of online romance, corporate takeovers, and questionable meet-cute ethics, discussing what still warms our hearts and what belongs in the trash folder.  —— Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling book How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She works as Hinge's Director of Relationship Science, conducting research on modern dating. She also writes the popular weekly newsletter — Logan's Love Letter. —— Want to Win a $100 Lion's Den Gift Card? We want to hear from YOU! Fill out our quick survey to help us improve the podcast and you'll be entered for a chance to win a $100 gift card to Lion's Den—your go-to for all things pleasure and intimacy. It's fast, easy, and your feedback helps us keep bringing you the sex ed content you love. Don't miss out—click the link to get started!

Maintenant, vous savez
Qu'est-ce que la théorie de l'olive ?

Maintenant, vous savez

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2024 3:50


La théorie de l'olive serait apparemment la solution miracle pour trouver l'amour. Devenue virale sur TikTok, elle est tirée de la sitcom américaine How I met your Mother. Comme l'explique Logan Ury, directrice d'un département de l'application de rencontres Hinge dans un article de Elle Australie, cette théorie pousserait à élargir ses horizons. Alors que beaucoup de Français sentent une pression à trouver leur âme soeur, elle serait pourtant à portée de main. Mais quel rapport entre l'amour et ce petit fruit ? Pourquoi aimer ou détester les olives aurait un impact sur l'avenir d'un couple ? Écoutez la suite de cet épisode de "Maintenant vous savez". Un podcast Bababam Originals, écrit et réalisé par Samuel Lumbroso.  À écouter aussi : Que signifient les rêves érotiques ? Pourquoi le cerveau des végétariens fonctionne-t-il différemment ? Sex blues : pourquoi est-on déprimé après l'amour ? Retrouvez tous les épisodes de "Maintenant vous savez". Suivez Bababam sur Instagram. Première diffusion : 20 septembre 2023 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The JTrain Podcast
Mixed Signals & First Date Fumbles with Logan Ury - CHIT CHAT WEDNESDAY - The JTrain Podcast w Jared Freid

The JTrain Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2024 50:16


It's Chit Chat Wednesday and we have dating expert, Logan Ury! Jared and Logan dive into the complexities of dating, discussing how it can often feel situation-dependent. They explore how people's romantic behaviors can shift based on specific interactions, with Jared reflecting on how two seemingly similar dates can result in very different outcomes. Logan suggests that sometimes we get too caught up in making assumptions, noting that people often make decisions based on incomplete information, such as whether to kiss on the first date.Jared shares his frustration with how dating can feel like a "silly dance" of coy behavior, contrasting this with the more open and sex-forward experience he's had on some dates. He admits feeling embarrassment when misreading situations despite being a dating expert, which leads to self-reflection. Logan offers a broader perspective, explaining that more transparency in dating would help, likening it to a process of matchmaking where a third party provides critical information.They also discuss how dating apps give some insight, but there's still a lack of full clarity, often leading to confusion and making people disposable. Logan encourages people to go beyond the surface, suggesting that spending more time with someone might reveal the deeper "iceberg" of their personality. Jared agrees but acknowledges the discomfort of confronting his assumptions.The episode also includes a conversation about Jared's experiences post-Netflix fame, where he touches on the awkward dynamics of receiving invitations for drinks from fans in different cities. While Jared enjoys socializing after shows, he admits to a struggle between temptation and wanting a meaningful connection, all while dealing with the pressure of public expectations. They discuss how dating apps and first-date norms can feel frustrating or limiting, especially when personal preferences and sexual boundaries come into play. Jared reflects on two recent dates: one that felt more sex-forward and liberating, and another where the traditional "no kiss on the first date" boundary left him feeling out of sync with his date. Logan compares this to the structure of Orthodox matchmaking, where clear communication and third-party guidance help navigate such situations, and suggests that in dating, assumptions often obscure understanding. They both emphasize that more dates and open conversations are needed, rather than relying solely on information upfront. Jared humorously touches on his life post-Netflix fame, grappling with dating expectations while on tour, where fans reach out but often misread his willingness to engage romantically. The episode also includes lighthearted moments about feeling awkward in dating ! It's a fun relatable episode that you don't want to miss!SUPPORT THE SHOW, SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS!

The Space
Have you heard of the "post-date eight"?

The Space

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2024 2:28 Transcription Available


Ask yourself these q's after going on a date! It might help you decide if there should be date #2! We love is approach from Behavioural Scientist and Dating Coach, Logan Ury. LINKS See more from Logan Ury here Follow @novapodcastsofficial on Instagram    CREDITS Host: Casey Donovan @caseydonovan88 Writer: Amy Molloy @amymolloy Executive Producer: Anna HenvestEditor: Adrian Walton  Listen to more great podcasts at novapodcasts.com.au   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Angry Therapist Podcast: Ten Minutes of Self-Help, Therapy in a Shotglass for fans of Joe Rogan Experience

In this exciting episode, John hosts a panel with the speakers for the upcoming In Bloom: A Love and Relationships Summit. They talk about everything love and relationships including artificial intimacy, sex as a cultural and relational issue, emotional availability, and the practice of interdependence. The conversation also touches on communication in relationships, the challenges of navigating different attachment styles, the importance of understanding and empathy in relationships, rather than labeling and blaming, and much more. In Bloom: A Love and Relationships Summit April 12-14, 2024 Fairmont Waterfront Hotel, Vancouver BC (virtual attendance is also available) Featuring Dr. Gabor Maté, Rae Maté, Logan Ury, Dené Logan, Shaun Galanos, Dr. Jess O'Reilly, Dr. Jody Carrington, John Kim, Vanessa Bennett, Todd Baratz, and Sophie Grégoire Trudeau. Take your relational skills to the next level. Real Love Ready is putting you in the room with your favourite relationship experts—and the most trusted names in love—for a weekend of learning, growth, and community. Use the discount code INBLOOM25 for 25% off in person and virtual. SIGN UP HERE

The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett
The "Post Date 8" Questions You Need To Ask To Find 'The One' - Logan Ury

The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2024 11:28


In this moment, behavioural expert and dating coach, Logan Ury discusses the 3 fundamental things to look for in a partner. Too often people have a rigid list of exact traits that they want in their future partner in relationship science this is called, ‘relationship shopping'. This is the idea of shopping for your partner like you would do with any product online. However, more often than not, people end up in a long term relationship with someone who has none of these traits. The reason for this is that while people may think they know what they want, they are wrong. Instead, Logan says you need to date like a scientist, experimenting and constantly changing your hypothesis of what you want in a partner. This can be achieved by using Logan's 8 questions to ask yourself after a date, the focus of this is examining who are you around that person, and what side of you do they bring out, as this is who you will be for the rest of the relationship. Listen to the full episode here Apple - https://g2ul0.app.link/sXZ3OZpToHb Spotify - https://g2ul0.app.link/nAu4hnmToHb Watch the Episodes On Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos Logan: https://www.loganury.com https://www.instagram.com/loganury/?hl=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Space
Top tip: What does it really mean to get 'the ick'?

The Space

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2024 3:05


Behavioural scientist Logan Ury is calling bullshit on your 'icks'. Not because you're too picky or shallow. Rather, if you're someone who constantly gets the ick, then there may be something else going on under the surface. Are they icky, or are you scared of getting sticky feelings? Or maybe it's not that deep for you. Take a listen and decide for yourself. LINKS Check out Logan Ury @loganury on Instragram Follow @novapodcastsofficial on Instagram CREDITS Host: Casey Donovan @caseydonovan88 Writer: Amy Molloy @amymolloy Executive Producer: Anna HenvestProducer: Adair SheppardEditor: Adrian Walton  Listen to more great podcasts at novapodcasts.com.au   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Space
Should you trust when you feel 'the ick'?

The Space

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2024 2:37


Behavioural scientist Logan Ury is calling bullshit on your 'icks'. Not because you're too picky or shallow. Rather, if you're someone who constantly gets the ick, then there may be something else going on under the surface. Are they icky, or are you scared of getting sticky feelings? Or maybe it's not that deep for you. Take a listen and decide for yourself. LINKS Check out Logan Ury @loganury on Instragram Follow @novapodcastsofficial on Instagram CREDITS Host: Casey Donovan @caseydonovan88 Writer: Amy Molloy @amymolloy Executive Producer: Anna HenvestProducer: Adair SheppardEditor: Adrian Walton  Listen to more great podcasts at novapodcasts.com.au   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Big Dating Energy
Breaking Up the Right Way with Logan Ury

Big Dating Energy

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2024 72:32


In this episode, Jeff talks with Logan Ury, a brilliant behavioral scientist, author, and dating coach. Logan, who heads up Relationship Science at Hinge and penned How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love, is like your BFF who also happens to have a degree in dating. She breaks down the three dating tendencies, helping us figure out what might be getting in the way of our love lives. She tells us why we should say f*ck the spark—Logan's all about the slow burn of real connection. Plus, she and Jeff tackle the art of the breakup, because let's face it, we could all use some tips on how to do that gracefully. Join Jeff and Logan for a candid chat that'll leave you feeling like you just had a heart-to-heart with your smartest friends about love, life, and everything in between.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Get your copy of Big Dating Energy!

The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett
Moment 150: The REAL (& Usually Unseen) Reason You're Struggling With Love & Relationships!: Logan Ury

The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2024 21:27


In this moment, relationship expert and behavioural scientist, Logan Ury discusses what she thinks is the most important part out of all of relationship science: attachment styles. Logan says these styles help you to understand yourself, your previous dating patterns, and who you are attracted to. Our attachment style also explains we are triggered to push people away, as our brains create negative thoughts and look for flaws in a person as an unconscious way of protecting us from getting hurt. However, Logan says that it is possible for 25% of us to change our attachment style. She says this can be done in 2 parts: firstly by understanding your style of attachment, and secondly, by understanding your unconscious triggers you can override them in order to get out of your own way in finding love. Listen to the full episode here Apple - https://g2ul0.app.link/sXZ3OZpToHb Spotify - https://g2ul0.app.link/nAu4hnmToHb Watch the Episodes On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos Logan: https://www.loganury.com https://www.instagram.com/loganury/?hl=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Should I Delete That?
The Science of Finding Love

Should I Delete That?

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2024 63:22


This week on the pod, the girls are joined by the newly coronated (by Em) Queen of Dating, Logan Ury! Logan is Hinge's director of relationship science and is here to impart all of her dating wisdom. She talks through attachment styles, the problems with modern dating and why you should let go of the ick…You can follow Logan on Instagram @loganury Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?
DBM: Get The Results You Want w/ Logan Ury

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2023 55:40


Meghan and Melisa are joined by behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling dating book "How to Not Die Alone," Logan Ury. They give advice on:Being disappointed in dating prospects on appsMeeting people in a new cityTaking care of your partner's petReacquainting with your situationshipBuy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-meFollow Logan!https://www.loganury.com/https://www.instagram.com/loganuryhttps://twitter.com/loganuryFollow Us!@meghanrienksinstagram.com/meghanrienkshttps://twitter.com/meghanrienks@sheisnotmelissainstagram.com/sheisnotmelissahttps://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa@meghanandmelisahttps://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisaAffordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): tinyurl.com/y64kwdnfNeed Advice?dontblameme.showDomestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett
Esther Perel (Love & Sex Expert): Why Men Love Porn More Than Their Partner! It's Time To Enjoy Sex Again! The Real Reason Men & Women Cheat!

The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 124:07


If you enjoyed this video, I recommend you check out my conversation with dating expert Logan Ury, which you can find here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ow3ao6YsCgQ Why do people have affairs in happy relationships? Why does sex decline in some long term relationships and not others? Esther Perel is here to answer all of the biggest questions in sex and relationships. Esther Perel is a world-leading Belgian-American psychotherapist and relationship expert, best known for her work in human relationships and ‘erotic intelligence'. She is the New York Times best-selling author of, ‘Mating in Captivity' and ‘The State of Affairs', as well as the host of the podcast, ‘Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel'. In this conversation Esther and Steven discuss topics, such as: Why the quality of your life is determined by the quality of your relationships How we discover ourselves in the presence of other people The ways that childhood impact your relationships Independence vs interdependence The negative impact of phones on relationships Why to change someone else you have to change yourself How to know when a relationship has died Why falling out of love doesn't exist The ways that leadership is a relationship How to have better fights in a relationship The 3 things people fight for in relationships The power of eroticism Why you need to be able to tolerate uncertainty How the idea of the soulmate has changed Why sex has become measurable The reason you cannot solve relationships The difference between genders in communication How the meaning of sex changes through time What does it mean when a woman doesn't have desire The appeal of porn Why couples stop having sex The reasons people cheat Why people have affairs in happy marriages How affairs are about feeling alive The moments when people are most attracted to their partner Follow Esther: Instagram: https://bit.ly/3Gx63qy Twitter: https://bit.ly/3T7vN4k Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now: https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Follow me: Instagram: http://bit.ly/3nIkGAZ Twitter: http://bit.ly/3ztHuHm Linkedin: https://bit.ly/41Fl95Q Telegram: http://bit.ly/3nJYxST Sponsors: Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb Eight Sleep: https://www.eightsleep.com/uk/steven/ CODE: STEVEN (save $150 on the Pod Cover) ZOE: http://joinzoe.com with an exclusive code CEO50 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

嗚喵備忘錄
#159 沒有誰是壞人,我們都只是有時候會做壞事的人《以我們告終》It Ends with Us|嗚喵備忘錄

嗚喵備忘錄

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2023 37:24


以我們告終 It Ends with Us 作者: 柯琳.胡佛  原文作者: Colleen Hoover 譯者: 趙盛慈 出版社:大塊文化  出版日期:2023/11/30 語言:繁體中文 博客來:https://adcenter.conn.tw/3219t 哈佛 ✕ Google行為科學家的脫單指南 How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love 作者: 洛根.尤里  原文作者: Logan Ury 譯者: 孔令新 出版社:商周出版  出版日期:2021/07/10 語言:繁體中文 博客來:https://ibanana.biz/3219w --------------------------------------- NeKo嗚喵 youtube▶https://reurl.cc/4ydx3L​​ NeKo嗚喵 IG動態▶https://goo.gl/s2zTrA NeKo嗚喵 粉絲團▶http://goo.gl/AybChp ------------ 麥克風使用:SHURE MV7 #applepodcast ▶ https://reurl.cc/N6QDR5​ #spotify ▶ https://reurl.cc/VXzeR6​ #soundon ▶ https://reurl.cc/Q3RDb0​ #KKBOX ▶ https://reurl.cc/8nv75o​ #googlepodcast ▶ https://reurl.cc/KjddgM​

The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett
The Love Expert: Why Women Are Addicted To F**k Boys & Why You Should "Have A 'Boring' Relationship Instead!" Logan Ury

The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2023 109:40


Are we our own worst enemies when it comes to romance? What if instead, we dated like a scientist, using equations and analysis, rather than feelings and attraction to find love. In this new episode Steven sits down with dating coach and behavioural scientist, Logan Ury. Logan is a behavioural expert, dating coach and Director of Relationship Science at the dating app, Hinge. She is also the author of the book, ‘How To Not Die Alone', which outlines the scientific theories she uses with her clients to help them find love. In this conversation Logan and Steven discuss topics, such as: Why Logan is a dating coach and her work with Hinge How she helps people get out of their own way and find their dating blindspots The ways that modern dating is very new for history Researching the dating habits of Gen Z Hiring a dating coach for herself How Logan found her husband at work Attachment theory and its importance for dating How you can change your attachment style The negativity bias and how our brain runs on ancient software Why you should go for a securely attached person who may seem boring The reasons that securely attached people are the heroes of the dating world Why people are so addicted to f**k boys The importance of taking a break during a fight Understanding our dating patterns and how we can change them The secretary problem and the maths of when to stop looking and choose someone Digital Body Language and how it impacts dating Why people confuse ‘ick's' for dealbreakers Why you should overcome your ‘ick's' The 3 most common dating tendencies and unrealistic expectations Why the dating environment is so important How to date like a scientist Why you shouldn't try to be perfect on a date Vulnerability as a magnet for connection The post date 8 checklist Why you should ignore the spark and focus on the slow burn What things matter less than people think for relationships and what do they underestimate Why you need to be able to fight well in a relationship The tips and tricks to a dating profile why vulnerability is strength The difference between a maximiser and a satisfier Logan's husbands cancer Living on a commune You can find out which of the 3 dating tendencies you are with Logan's quiz, here: https://bit.ly/491O3lj You can purchase Logan's book, ‘How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love', here: https://amzn.to/3Q71QhL Follow Logan: Instagram: https://bit.ly/3SddZUL Twitter: https://bit.ly/46IWMqV Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now: https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Follow me: Instagram: http://bit.ly/3nIkGAZ Twitter: http://bit.ly/3ztHuHm Linkedin: https://bit.ly/41Fl95Q Telegram: http://bit.ly/3nJYxST Sponsors: Whoop: join.whoop.com/CEO Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Emma Guns Show
Logan Ury | How to Not Die Alone

The Emma Guns Show

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2023 63:16


My guest in this episode is Logan Ury, the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, Dating Coach, Behavioural Scientist and author. In her current role at Hinge, she leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love.She regularly receives messages from people who tell her that her advice, via talks, courses and her book How Not to Die Alone is the reason they are married and/or have kids and she admits, ‘it's an unbelievable feeling to know that you've changed the course of someone's life through your work'.But what about Logan's own life? Find out about her stance on dealing with crises, communal living and more...To join the closed Facebook group for the podcast click here >> The Emma Guns Show Forum.To follow me on social media >> Twitter | Instagram.Watch clips from the podcast >> Youtube | The Emma Guns ShowSign up for my newsletter here >> Newsletter.Subscribe now. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Circle Time
expert help from dating coach, Logan Ury

Circle Time

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2023 59:21


Gather ‘round this week as Logan Ury joins the circle! Logan works as Hinge's Director of Relationship Science, is a dating coach and behavioral scientist, and the author of the bestselling dating book How to Not Die Alone. She talks us through first dates, the different types of daters, long distance relationships, and so much more. You will learn so much about dating from an actual professional! Leave me a voicemail here!Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:You can go to JULIECARE.CO/circletime to get $10 your first online purchase for a limited timeCancel your unwanted subscriptions – and manage your money the easy way – by going to RocketMoney.com/circletime Try today at StitchFix.com/circletime and you'll get 25% off when you keep everything in your FixChoose a natural diamond - for more information, visit naturaldiamonds.comProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle
Craig Melton on DATING!!! – with Logan Ury

We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2023 53:41


Logan Ury helps Glennon's former husband and co-parent, Craig Melton, navigate the wild world of dating as a grown up: How to identify your patterns that aren't working for you; how to know if something's really a deal breaker; why dating in your twenties is like “start-up” while dating later in life is a “merger”; an honest audit of Craig's online dating profile; how to ensure you're meeting who you want to meet; and how Craig factors whether or not Glennon and Abby will like who he's dating.  About Logan:  Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling dating book How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She works as Hinge's Director of Relationship Science, conducting research on modern dating. She runs an online community through her weekly newsletter — Logan's Love Letter. She studied psychology at Harvard and ran Google's behavioral science team, the Irrational Lab. She lives in the Bay Area with her husband Scott.  TW: @loganury IG: @loganury IG: @craigmelton14 To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle
How to Make a Friend & Find a Date with Logan Ury

We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2023 62:39


How the hell do grown ups date and make friends? Behavioral scientist turned dating coach, Logan Ury is here to help us make dating and meeting new friends easier: how to identify what you really want; why we should stop searching for “the spark”; why we keep going after the same people that are wrong for us; how to talk to our kids about their first love experiences; why we need to have “other significant others”; and the eight questions you should ask yourself after meeting anyone new.   About Logan:  Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling dating book How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She works as Hinge's Director of Relationship Science, conducting research on modern dating. She runs an online community through her weekly newsletter — Logan's Love Letter. She studied psychology at Harvard and ran Google's behavioral science team, the Irrational Lab. She lives in the Bay Area with her husband Scott.  TW: @loganury IG: @loganury To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Something You Should Know
SYSK Choice: How To Find REAL Love & How Our Ability to Speak Defines Us

Something You Should Know

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2023 52:22


Music can affect us in lots of ways. You may not know that the music playing in a store can impact your spending behavior. This episode begins by looking at how different types of music can steer you to spend more or less. https://www.psychologistworld.com/behavior/ambient-music-retail-psychological-arousal-customers Finding true love can be tricky. Sometimes it seems impossible. Here to the rescue is behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury. She has the latest research on what will and won't work if you want to find love in the 21st century. Logan is author of the book How Not to Die Alone (https://amzn.to/3cWniDK). Humans are the only mammal on earth that can speak words to communicate. That ability to speak words and thoughts and relay messages has been a key reason for our success as a species. Yet, could human speech also be the thing that ultimately destroys us? Listen to my guest John Colapinto a writer for The New Yorker and author of the book This Is The Voice (https://amzn.to/2PBA9m5). When you hear what he has to say, you will have a new appreciation for how amazing human speech is. Estimates are that more than half of working people don't like their job or the place where they work. And while that's a shame for those who are unhappy, what really matters is how much YOU like YOUR job or place of employment Listen as I reveal a way you can discover just how satisfied you are in your work. The website I mention is https://www.iopenerinstitute.com/ PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! Zocdoc is the only FREE app that lets you find AND book doctors who are patient-reviewed, take your insurance, are available when you need them and treat almost every condition under the sun! Go to https://Zocdoc.com/SYSK and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Discover Credit Cards do something pretty awesome. At the end of your first year, they automatically double all the cash back you've earned! See terms and check it out for yourself at https://Discover.com/match Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Girls Gotta Eat
Do You Worry You're Undateable? with Relationship Scientist Logan Ury

Girls Gotta Eat

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2023 105:31


One of our most popular guests – behavioral scientist, dating coach, and author Logan Ury – is back for another incredible conversation. We're discussing the feeling of being “undateable” due to family trauma, past relationship baggage, an STI, being a virgin, etc. and how to own your story and share it with a potential partner. Logan breaks down why vulnerability is the primary thing that makes people feel close to you and how to open up more on dates, and we also discuss her experience living on a commune with her partner and all their friends, and the importance of OSOs (other significant others). Before Logan joins us, we're catching up  on Rayna's hot new neighbor and Ashley's nail journey, and we're sharing our feelings about officially moving from NYC to LA. Plus, we have recs. Enjoy! Follow Logan on Instagram @loganury. Visit her website for her book How To Not Die Alone and more. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: HelloFresh: Get 50% off + free shipping at hellofresh.com/gge50 and use code GGE50. Buffy: Get $20 off your order at buffy.co with promo code GGE. Beis: Get 15% off your first purchase at beistravel.com/gge. Babbel: Get up to 55% off your subscription at babbel.com/gge.

Behavior Bitches
How To Not Die Alone with Logan Ury

Behavior Bitches

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2023 56:30


On today's episode, the Bitches bring on Logan Ury, Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge and author of the best-selling book How To Not Die Alone. We talk about the science behind successful dating, and what matters more and less than we think when choosing a partner. Liat seizes the opportunity to have Logan roast her own dating profile. We also discuss the three dating tendencies from her book and so much more so tune in or miss the F out! SHOW NOTEShttps://www.loganury.com/https://www.loganury.com/quizhttps://www.loganury.com/coachinghttps://www.loganury.com/propelhttps://www.loganury.com/bookBehavior Principles:AdaptationSelectionismBehavior MomentumAntecedent Intervention Positive Reinforcement Preferences Environment Variable RatioBehavioral PlansMassed Trials Support us at patreon.com/behaviorbitchespodcastInsta: @behaviorbitchespodcastFacebook: Behavior Bitches Podcast

Diabetes Digital Podcast by Food Heaven
How to Make Online Dating NOT Suck w/ Hinge Director Logan Ury

Diabetes Digital Podcast by Food Heaven

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2023 50:58


We're talking online dating with a TRUE expert, Logan Ury. Logan is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach AND Director of Relationship Science at Hinge. In this episode we talk about all the secrets of how to be great at online dating. Should you lie about your age if you're over 35? Is it OK to ghost if you're not interested? Listen to find out.    In This Episode We'll Cover: Is dating getting WORSE? What is behavioral science?  How to create the best dating profile What is a “beige” flag? How to pick photos for a dating profile How to make your online dating profile stand out What photos should you NOT have on your dating profile Is it OK to lie about your age on dating apps? Should you video chat someone before going on a date? Low cost date ideas Logan's BRILLIANT strategy for dating Should you be searching for butterflies when dating? How to date if you're struggling with self confidence How to not be awkward when flirting Logan's thoughts on “settling”   3 Ways You Can Support This Podcast: Rate Review Support our sponsors using our unique ‘HOOKUP' codes at https://foodheavenmadeeasy.com/hookup   HOOKUP Codes: Athletic Greens is giving you a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase at athleticgreens.com/FOODHEAVEN  For a limited time, get 20% off the entire InsideTracker store when you sign up at insidetracker.com/foodheaven    For our resources and shownotes, visit foodheavenmadeeasy.com/podcast   Produced by Dear Media

Life Kit
The science of finding a partner

Life Kit

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2023 19:44


Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist at the dating app Hinge, says making dating decisions based on initial chemistry alone is a losing battle. In this episode, dating coach Damon Hoffman speaks with Ury about her book, How to Not Die Alone.

Diabetes Digital Podcast by Food Heaven
The Science of Happily Ever After with Ty Tashiro

Diabetes Digital Podcast by Food Heaven

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2023 44:42


NEW MONTH, NEW SERIES. This time we're talking about relationships. Do you ever wonder what science has to say about maintaining a fulfilling long-term relationship? Today on the podcast, we interviewed acclaimed relationship scientist, Ty Tashiro. His book, The Science of Happily Ever After, shows how our decision-making abilities falter when choosing mates and how insights from social science can help us make smarter decisions.   You don't want to miss an episode of our dating and relationships series! We are going to speak to everyone from Tennesha Wood the founder of the first ever matchmaking firm dedicated to black professionals, to Logan Ury the author of How Not to Die Alone & director of relationship science at the dating app Hinge. And of course we can't talk about relationships without talking about divorce, so we will interview Chaute Thompson, a counselor who helps couples and families grow healthier relationships.   In This Episode We'll Cover: What “happily ever after” really means Why we only get 3 wishes for an idea partner Why most people wish for the wrong things Why the seeds of marital conflict can be traced back to your first dates How to improve the quality of your existing relationship Why is it so hard to date these days? What is wrong with online dating? What is the best age to get married? What is the worst age to get married? How to swipe smarter on dating apps. What traits make a great life partner? What is the number 1 trait to have in a satisfying relationship? Is being “nice” a bad thing in relationships? What is a novelty seeker and why could that be a dealbreaking trait? 3 things to look for successful online dating (hint: it's not compatible zodiac signs). Does wealth really matter in relationships? Are soulmates real? What does it take to make relationships work? Should you feel a spark when dating? 1 thing you can do NOW to improve your relationship.   3 Ways You Can Support This Podcast: Rate Review Support our sponsors using our unique ‘HOOKUP' codes at https://foodheavenmadeeasy.com/hookup   HOOKUP Code: For a limited time, you get 20% off the entire Inside Tracker store when you sign up at insidetracker.com/foodheaven   For our resources and shownotes, visit foodheavenmadeeasy.com/podcast.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.   Produced by Dear Media