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Does assisting the other penis with lube application just feel like the polite thing to do? Burlesque Performer and Kinesthesiologist Jet Noir grew up rejecting the label ‘Bisexual', because although his mother and father raised him shame-free, the world isn't quite so openminded. Moving out on his own at 18, he started dating with intention, trying on prospective partners with the intent of recreating the ‘wife and babies' life that had surrounded him. But as he stood at his father's grave and watched his mother wave goodbye to the casket, Jet came to a life-changing realization: That was their story, not his, and he never wanted to go back to ‘normal' ever again. #ShameFree #NoLabels #BeWhoYouAre #DiscoverYourself #MentalHealth Song: 'No Matter What' (Calum Scott) Bisexual l Queer | Gay l Pansexual l Family l Death l Wife and Kids l Shame | Evaluating Life Partners l Fire and Brimstone Church l Gay is Serious l Buy You a Woman l Best Friends l Label It l Manhood | Molesting l Marriage l Dad Jokes l Dating with Intention l Queer Lifestyle l Reassurance l l The Nod l Funeral l Their Story l Let Go l Changed Everything l Attracted to Everyone l Lubrication l Am I Straight l All Inclusive l Out l Pride l Every Gender l About our Storyteller: Jet Noir has been involved in sex positive communities since 2002 when he lived in Atlanta and wandered into the now defunct Club Venus. As a Kinesiologist, educated in the study of human movement and sport psychology, he has spent years coaching people to improve their perception of their bodies. He has taught workshops on improving the relationship we have with our five senses (interoception). He's lectured on unpacking racial fetishization, humor in sex education, and navigating consent, internationally. He's done clip work and education workshops for Kink dot com. He worked as an organizer for Express Yourself, a play party for people of color by people of color, in Oakland and as the emotional support “Angel” for a few other Bay Area sex positive communities. Jet is a writer who reviews sex toys and porn. Jet lives in Oakland, CA with his partner and their three cats. Episode links: SUBSCRIBE: Social Media is shutting me down, and the only way to be sure we can connect is by signing up for Bawdy's email newsletter. 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Last week we had some real talk on Sexpectations with our muse, Jet Noir (@jetnoirmuse on Instagram). Jet has been involved in sex positive communities since 2002 in Atlanta. As a Kinesiologist, educated in the study of human movement and psychology, he has spent years coaching people to improve their perception of their bodies. He has taught workshops on improving the relationship we have with our five senses, otherwise known as interoception. Jet has lectured on a wide variety of topics, including unpacking racial fetishization, humor in Sex Education, and navigating consent, internationally. He's done clip work and education workshops for Kink dot com. He's a co-organizer of Express Yourself, a play party for people of color by people of color, in Oakland and frequently volunteers as an emotional support “Angel” in support of sex positive communities. In his spare time (ha), he's a part of the BIPOC Collective's Wellness Committee. Jet is a published author and enjoys writing reviews for sex toys and porn. Jet lives in Oakland, CA with his two cats. You can follow and support Jet's work at https://linktr.ee/JetNoir We need your help! Support our day to day operations behind the podcast from production to editing and marketing so that our team can continue to provide you quality content and community events geared towards ending shame. By joining our Patreon, you will be supporting our mission and will also receive exclusive access to bonus content, event discounts, and so much more! We have multiple tiers created for accessibility at patreon.com/nikacherrelle. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/nika-cherrelle/support
Guest: Jet Noir, Burlesque dancer Jet Noir joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about burlesque, inspiration, living in iconic cities, and being raised in a sex-positive family in Detroit in the 1980s. As a Black, cis-male dancer, Jet has a different journey and experience with the art form that the other artists featured in the Erotic Performer series. One of my most interesting interviews! Social Media: Linktr.ee/JetNoir Shows: June 18th, Moist: An All-Black Caberet, Oasis Cafe, San Francisco ----more---- Want to listen to the internet instead of read it? Try the Newsly App. For a FREE one-month premium subscription use the code FC0T
Today, two POC folks discuss monogamy, polyamory, autonomy, and agency. Jet Noir shares a story of his parents’ and how they dealt with extramarital adventures. I discuss relationship anarchy and how it relates to Jet’s identity within non monogamy. Enjoy! https://linktr.ee/JetNoir What flavour of polyamory do you identify with? How did you get into polyamory? (Story about my parents and their DADT brand of non-monogamy.) What sorts of monogamy hangups did you unlearn? Could you fill in folks on what the relationship escalator is? What realizations or values did you arrive at that helped process through that? How has polyamory changed your relationship to yourself? How has polyamory affected communication in your relationships?
Jet Noir is back to talk about racial fetishization. We talk about dating, conventions, and other stuff in how it relates to race. As a former fitness coach, Jet has some experience as, what he calls, a body image coach. We talk a bit about tea to ease into the conversation as well as how we met before diving into the topic. I mention “Love is Not Colorblind,” a book written by Kevin Patterson about non-monogamy as experienced by a person of colour. That book is useful in my opinion for any folks wanting to see more representation by people of colour in their currently mostly white space. Let’s hear from Jet himself on Intimate Interactions. https://linktr.ee/JetNoir https://www.kcnerdfest.com/
There’s a fascinating distinction between the way we see ourselves and the way others see us. Those might be the same. Those might be radically different. For public facing folks like Jet Noir or even myself, it might be intentional that we show part of who we are to make art, construct a performance, or for a host of other reasons or pressures. I love events like burlesque and related but quite different events like drag. They often have something valuable to say about sex, sexuality, and identity. What that is differs by performer, act, and the audience experiencing it. I encourage you to experience both burlesque and drag for different reasons, but what they both have in common is you will possibly learn a lot about other people if you don’t also learn something about yourself. Jet Noir is a Black, cis-gender, non-monogamous, pansexual burlesque performer and sex educator from the Bay Area. This was recorded on April 12th, on day 27 of self isolation for him during the Covid-19 crisis. https://linktr.ee/JetNoir How did you first get into burlesque? Why is burlesque important to you? What function do you think burlesque serves in society? How does your identity as a burlesque performer relate to dating? How is your dating life impacted by your identity? What are “sexpectations” as you use the word? How do you manage expectations others have of who you are in relationships?
In this exciting episode, I interview Burlesque legends Jet Noir, Lou Lou la Duchesse de Rière, and Una Osato about the political, spiritual, subversive, and revolutionary aspects of this radical artform. Lou Lou la Duchesse de Rière, known as the stripping sensation from the Mohawk nation, has been performing her brand of balls to the wall burlesque for well over a decade. Thrice voted into the Burlesque Top 50 by 21st Century Burlesque (#11 worldwide and #1 in Canada) 2018 Queen of New Orleans Burlesque Festival, She is an internationally recognized performer who has shimmied her way across the stages of New Orleans, Las Vegas, New York, Texas, Detroit, and Chicago. https://linktr.ee/NationalResourcesList Creator of The Black Manifest, the all Black, all masculine burlesque revue, Jet Noir is a sex educator and was the first man hired to dance for the infamous Mitchell Brothers O'Farrell Theatre in San Francisco. He has a reputation for stunning audiences with performances that are joyous, playful, and will have you screaming for more. He's known as the obsidian obscenity here to disrupt your memories. He dances for work, joy, meditation, and has been heating up stages, internationally, since 2010. http://linktr.ee/JetNoir Una Aya Osato aka exHOTic other aka Norms, is a performer, writer, sex educator, CareBear, clown, and stripper from NYC. They are an award-winning actor and playwright who tours their original work nationally and internationally. They are also a co-founder of the queer BIPOC performance company brASS Burlesque. Venmo: @UnaOsato, Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ThisIsUna
EPISODE 39 - Consensual Sex?Guest: Jet NoirBurlesque dancer, producer, MC and sex educator Jet Noir returns to share his very candid and unapologetic explanation of consentual sex. Listen in as he preaches and teaches us the correct way to behave. For those of us who like to get a little naughty, there are new rules - Listen up!Want to connect with Jet?InstagramTwitterFacebookReach out to us here…WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterEmailYou can reach Sergio Novoa personallyInstagramTwitterFacebookVanessa WilkinsFacebookIGTheme song by: http://djolgat.netMentioned in PodcastBinary vs. Non BinaryConsent and What We Learned TodaySTIA sexually transmitted disease (STD) is a disease which spreads by having sex. STDs can spread through oral sex or anal sex, or when two people's genitals touch. Today, STDs are usually called sexually transmitted infections (STIs).Play PartyA play party in this podcast refers to sex parties where consenting adults gather to play. For great information on consent and play parties check
34 - Sex-planationsGuest: Jet NoirBurlesque dancer, personal trainer, producer, MC and sex educator Jet Noir shares his journey of masculinity and the burlesque world. Want to connect with Jet? Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jetnoir/Twitter: https://twitter.com/jetnoirmuseFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/JetNoirMuse/ You can find us here… Website: https://sergiothecomic.com/mlv-podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pg/mlvpodcastTwitter: https://twitter.com/MLVPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mlvpodcast/Email: MLVPodcast@gmail.comTheme song by: http://djolgat.net
Dancer, speaker, teacher, and performer MissAuroraBOOBrealis is also one third of brASS Burlesque's producing team, which brings New York City a "RadicalASS Cabaret to Deal with the World." topics: flavor, dancer-dancer, power, 25 vs 44, outward spirals, Saratoga, learning from the past self, Sleep Chamber, back when the Limelight was the Limelight, agency, 5 Movements Towards Freedom, Dawn's Mind, teaching, being upfront with burlesque, poetry, take 31, Prince for Halloween and forevermore, 1999 sexuality, St Regis Folk Band, stripping, hello neoburlesque, Bad Ass Burlesque, all the fun bits, Combost Bin, POC burlesque stages, Texas Burlesque Festival, Melinated Menagerie, Coney Island, plates in the air, adhd, MrDonDICKrealis, toxic and hyper-masculinity, learning from mistakes and apologizing when you screw up ... shoutouts: Teasy Roosevelt, Abby Fantastic, Lottie Ellington, Velocity Chyladd, Darlinda Just Darlinda, exHOTic Other, Sister Selva, Essence Revealed, Coco Letric, Sugar Shack, Briq House, Iva Handful, Jeez Loueez, Jet Noir, Bambi the Mermaid, Miss Cherry Delight, Joey Hateley, Nyx Nocturne ... recorded: April 22, 2019 ... notes: see the Prince 1999 insert photo here: https://www.discogs.com/Prince-1999/release/10258354 ... intro/outro music: "On A 45" This Way to the Egress (http://www.thiswaytotheegress.com) ... used with permission ... download it at: https://www.amazon.com/This-Delicious-Cabaret-Explicit-Egress/dp/B005D1GROO ... interlude music: "Werq" "Bebop for Joey" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/ ... Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/weburlesque .. see us live: http://www.weburlesque.com/upcoming-shows ... follow us: @weburlesque @viktordevonne on instagram and twitter; MissAuroraBOOBrealis is at IG @dawnsmind & https://www.facebook.com/brASSburlesque ... talk to us: https://www.facebook.com/groups/157673948280099
Dancer, speaker, teacher, and performer MissAuroraBOOBrealis is also one third of brASS Burlesque's producing team, which brings New York City a "RadicalASS Cabaret to Deal with the World." topics: flavor, dancer-dancer, power, 25 vs 44, outward spirals, Saratoga, learning from the past self, Sleep Chamber, back when the Limelight was the Limelight, agency, 5 Movements Towards Freedom, Dawn's Mind, teaching, being upfront with burlesque, poetry, take 31, Prince for Halloween and forevermore, 1999 sexuality, St Regis Folk Band, stripping, hello neoburlesque, Bad Ass Burlesque, all the fun bits, Combost Bin, POC burlesque stages, Texas Burlesque Festival, Melinated Menagerie, Coney Island, plates in the air, adhd, MrDonDICKrealis, toxic and hyper-masculinity, learning from mistakes and apologizing when you screw up ... shoutouts: Teasy Roosevelt, Abby Fantastic, Lottie Ellington, Velocity Chyladd, Darlinda Just Darlinda, exHOTic Other, Sister Selva, Essence Revealed, Coco Letric, Sugar Shack, Briq House, Iva Handful, Jeez Loueez, Jet Noir, Bambi the Mermaid, Miss Cherry Delight, Joey Hateley, Nyx Nocturne ... recorded: April 22, 2019 ... notes: see the Prince 1999 insert photo here: https://www.discogs.com/Prince-1999/release/10258354 ... intro/outro music: "On A 45" This Way to the Egress (http://www.thiswaytotheegress.com) ... used with permission ... download it at: https://www.amazon.com/This-Delicious-Cabaret-Explicit-Egress/dp/B005D1GROO ... interlude music: "Werq" "Bebop for Joey" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/ ... Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/weburlesque .. see us live: http://www.weburlesque.com/upcoming-shows ... follow us: @weburlesque @viktordevonne on instagram and twitter; MissAuroraBOOBrealis is at IG @dawnsmind & https://www.facebook.com/brASSburlesque ... talk to us: https://www.facebook.com/groups/157673948280099
Tuesdays, 9 pm Eastern, 6 pm Pacific: "Leading Edge Love," host Sumati Sparks: This week, her guest is Jet Noir, Burlesque Performer and Fitness Coach (jetnoirmuse.com). Sumati Sparks, The Open Relationship Coach, (www.SumatiSparks.com) offers coaching sessions via video conferencing, telephone or in person in the San Francisco Bay Area. SUMATI WORKS WITH: • Professional Married Men & Women who have little or no intimacy in their long-term relationship. • Single or Divorced People who do not wish to have another traditional relationship. • Couples who want to successfully open their relationship. • Singles & Couples who don’t know where to find other polyamorous people to meet & date. • Heterosexual as well as Queer, Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgender, Intersex & Questioning Persons. COMMON CHALLENGES HER CLIENT'S FACE: • Frustrated and fed up with the loss of vitality that comes from being in a relationship with no intimacy. • Feeling like their partner would never go for it. • Confused, nervous and a little scared about how to open their relationship. • No idea where to meet other polyamorous people to potentially date. • Eager and hopeful but want to do it right. WHAT SHE DOES FOR HER CLIENTS: • Get CLEAR about what they want. • PREPARE to ask their partner for it, then SPEAK THEIR TRUTH. • CREATE the relationship of their wildest dreams. • Have FUN in the process. HOW SUMATI SERVES HER CLIENTS: With her signature program called: ADDING MORE LOVE, PASSION & JOY!
Gary Lee Vincent, actor, publisher, writer, super hero (no?) talking upcoming HORROR with the legendary John Russo, of Night of the Living Dead fame and his new film my "My Uncle John is a Zombie" and of course music from Idiot Stare and the lovely Jet Noir rockin"your ear holes.
Jet Noir is one of the few men in the Burlesque industry. He shares his unique perspective and tells us what what is behind the creation of his persona, burlesque acts, and what being a straight male in this industry allows for him. Don't miss it, he's fabulous!
Jet Noir is one of the few men in the Burlesque industry. He shares his unique perspective and tells us what what is behind the creation of his persona, burlesque acts, and what being a straight male in this industry allows for him. Don’t miss it, he’s fabulous!
Joined by Jet Noir, KWR gives you four bands and four tunes. New release (today) by 80's band Shatoo. Jet Noir's NAKED LUNCH remix of their song "GLOW". Christy Drummer of WINGS FOR ARMOR sent us the track "CHASE THE LIGHT" from her new band SHUTTERDOWN and things start off with I,Parasite, a show favorite!
Meet Tony Mayo, founder and legendary musician from NAKED LUNCH. A return visit by Goth Pin Up Princess, JET NOIR, a show favorite! And hear how she joined with Tony to form the new line up composed of UK veteran musicians!
Dave & Lydia talk with Horror Director Brian Cottington & Macabre Noir regarding their documentary film HOUSE OF ODDITIES. Dive into the dark side of vaudeville right here with friends, fiends and family! Music by Jet Noir's project NAKED LUNCH and Jim Semonik's ELECTRONIC SAVIORS II. (NACHTMAHR's "CAN YOU FEEL THE BEAT").
The Slumber Party of Podcasts is back again, and this time, the Slumber Party is both nerdy and sexy. It's a packed show, but does that mean it's a boring show? First up, Solid Cat is now a proud member of the Wicked Radio Network. In a related story, Solid Cat is a member of the Broadcast Basement Fantasy Football League. Lots of podcasting love all around. Back at the show, we order up a plate of Fettucini I-Knew-It-Was-You-'Fredo. We chastise people who don't exercise their fashion responsibility to their friends. We learn that even if you're dead, you might not be. We might get a visit from Child Protective Services. Zoe is not a Latina. Pico Rivera: come for the salsa, stay for the menudo. A single ninja > many ninja. We have Final Friday reference two weeks in a row. To kill crazies, we learn you need to cut off the heart, stake the heart, and burn the body (safety first!). In our new segment, Sexytime with D-mo & Val, we investigate dudoir photography. Jet Noir. Stop duck facing. We learn D-mo's legs are awesome. And we finish with a Double Paws Up! Told ya. Packed show. And a full moon. OH MY!
Fresh off their time working at Phoenix Comicon (Jacob) and drinking with the Abnormal Entertainment crew (Ryan) comes Episode 12, and it is packed with music... so much so they actually didn't talk for four songs straight. But when they did, it was about Ryan's foray into Doctor Who, the con crud and driving a taxi. They also played their first rap song on the show. Give it a listen.Full Blown Chaos - DoomageddonChicksy Dicks - Evil CrowNeato - A2CElectricJezus - FeedEthan 103 - 500Jet Noir - WTMDreaming Awake - My Best Friend PlankBreyo - Pay DayStone Mary - Shine OnFailing To Fly - SolitudeVenomous Pinks - Fight NightThrob Zombie - Let GoIf you would like to be featured on a future episode, you can contact us at podcastunderground@gmail.comDrop us a line if you have any suggestions, comments, criticisms or anything else... unless it's a picture of male genitals. Those go to Camm from Raise Your Spirits (ryspodcast@gmail.com). Make sure you "like" our Facebook page - http://facebook.com/UndergroundPodcastFollow us on Twitter at www.twitter.com/PodFromUnderRead Jacob's occasional ramblings on his blog - http://robotvampireproductions.wordpress.comNeed help booking a show? Contact Ryan - somethingwickedent@gmail.comClick here to listen or right click and choose "Save As..." to download.Please support our show by clicking the links to our Sponsors.
A discussion with the dark and charming lady of the night JET NOIR; solo artist, model, and mysterious woman of the dark trance sound with a good bit of wit and charisma!