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How can you tell if someone needs encouragement?If they are breathing, according to Truett Cathy, founder of Chick-fil-A.Children can easily and quickly become discouraged, especially when tired or stressed, and become negative, self-critical, and depressed.The Bible mentions “encouragement” a lot, including Hebrews 3:13, which tells us to “encourage each other daily.”You can create an encouraging environment for your loved ones by building up and encouraging them more than criticizing and correcting them. Kids will know it is OK and safe to make mistakes and learn that God can use their failures to help them grow.Parents should be their family's CEO — Chief Encouragement Officers.For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Your teen boy is going through a lot of changes. You might need to change a bit, too. Of course, the fundamentals of godly parenting and discipline will stay the same. But as your son matures, it's important to take a step back and prayerfully consider that a change in approach may be helpful. For instance, a teen boy will most likely pull away from his mom and gravitate towards his dad. This is normal and healthy, and experts say to encourage that relationship. Many high school boys are also extremely hard on themselves and sensitive to criticism, so be sure to ramp up the encouragement and empathy. And finally, teen boys are dealing with a lot of hormones and emotions. Encourage your son to pursue healthy outlets, especially outdoor physical activity.To learn about the five critical needs of boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Have you heard the saying, “Life is better together”?The Bible puts it this way in Proverbs 27:17: As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.Here are five ways you can live out being better together as a family.Read together. Read the Bible and other books as a family.Learn together. Share what God is showing you as read His Word. Talk together. Talk about what God is doing in your life.Pray together. Thank God for all He's done for your family and pray for your family and other people.Memorize scripture together. Like the psalmist, let's hide God's Word in our hearts so that we will not sin against Him. For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

What can you give your children and grandchildren that won't cost you any money and will last forever?Parents and grandparents who teach their children and grandchildren to know, love and follow Jesus will leave a spiritual inheritance that will last for generations and into eternity.Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”Have you encouraged your children or grandchildren to follow God? Do you pray for them to know and love Him? If you do not have children, are there any kids in your church or neighborhood for whom you could regularly pray?For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

“What does successful parenting look like?”If you ask a group of parents this question, you would get a lot of different responses.Most parents want their kids to graduate high school and college, get a good job, get married, have children, and live “happily ever after.”As a parent, you can easily become focused on worldly success and helping your kids achieve the “American Dream,” but that's not the goal in Christian parenting.Your goal should be to raise your kids to know, love, and follow Jesus!If you raise your boys to love the LORD with all their heart, soul, and strength, you have achieved parenting success.For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Have you heard this saying? “Don't major in the minors.”We can easily get distracted in life and become consumed by things that don't really matter.Jesus often condemned the Pharisees for this type of behavior, giving them a stern lecture in Luke 11:42.“Woe to you Pharisees, because you give God a tenth of your mint, rue and all other kinds of garden herbs, but you neglect justice and the love of God. You should have practiced the latter without leaving the former undone.”Let's ask God to help us teach our boys to focus on the things that matter most: loving Him and loving our neighbors.For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

What should you do when your son disrespects you or someone else?Try to resist the urge to reprimand or correct him in public.When you are in private, calmly tell him that while you are sad that he chose to show dishonor or disrespect, this is an opportunity for him to grow, and you hope he will make a better choice the next time.Then be sure to commend him the next time you see him showing honor and respect.Remember that the best way for children to learn the value of honor and respect is to see you live it out, especially during disagreements.Values are indeed more caught than taught.Let's follow the Golden Rule by treating others the way we want to be treated.For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

In his book Bringing Up Boys, Dr. James Dobson compares parents of sons to a bug called a processionary caterpillar.  A scientist once tested these caterpillars by making them walk in a circle, with a food source in the middle of their circle. The caterpillars just kept following each other, instead of stopping to eat, and eventually died of starvation, right next to a food source. Dr. Dobson says parents of sons often follow other parents in the same way. They put their son in lots of activities, trying to help him keep up with his peers. But in reality, most of the time, what boys really need is to stop, take a rest, and connect with the source of true life– our Creator God. For more ideas on raising boys to become godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

You know who needs to see your mistakes? Your son. That's right.When you miss a work deadline or hurt a friend's feelings, let your son know. If handled properly, it can be a great training ground for your son. First, manage your emotions. If you're embarrassed or angry, take a deep breath or go on a walk to calm down. Next, explain what you did wrong. Share with your son how you're going to fix the problem, and what you've learned for the future. The world desperately needs your son to grow up to be a humble and responsible man. The best way to encourage that is to model it the best you can. Your transparency  will not only combat perfectionism— you'll also remind him that God's grace is sufficient for all of us. For more ideas for raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Maybe your son just needs a break. You only want the best for your son. You want to make sure he does well in school, eats reasonably well, makes friends, and participates in extracurriculars. And those are all wonderful things. But in this fast-paced society, don't forget to let your son take a break, as well. Schedule “down days,” where you don't have anything planned. Give your son long stretches of time where he can do whatever he wants. You might feel like a neglectful parent, but allowing your son to be bored will give him time to relax, play, and learn to manage his own time. When in doubt, just send him outside– he'll find something to do! For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Our boys are under attack. Boys have fallen behind girls in every academic category. Girls are now more likely to have a college education than boys, and boys are more likely to live at home longer and fail to launch into the world. As a parent, it can be discouraging to raise sons in a world that views masculinity as toxic. But by focusing on the five critical needs of boys, we can help our sons be strong, Godly men. First, boys need clear direction. Second, they need a safe male mentor. Third, they need boundaries. Fourth, they need risk, and finally, they need real-world challenges. With all five, boys have the tools they need to rise up in a world that is so determined to knock them down. To learn more about these five critical needs, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Have you heard this criticism of Christians? “They're so heavenly minded, they're no earthly good.”Focusing on the world to come doesn't mean that we are to leave the present world as it is, but everything we do, say, and teach our boys should be filtered through the lens of eternity. What are the Lord's instructions for you during your time here on Earth? Act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with your God. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and love your neighbor as yourself.Remember the refrain of British missionary C.T. Studd's famous poem: “Only one life, 'twill soon be past, only what's done for Christ will last.”For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

How can you help your children grow spiritually?Here are three ideas:Set an example for them. It's been said that when it comes to children, more is caught than taught. They'll see when you read your Bible and pray (and when you don't). And they'll notice how often you attend church and how important spiritual things are to you.Read with them. This helps kids grow spiritually in a fun and engaging way. Take the time to read books with them, including the Bible, and discuss spiritual themes you see.Pray for them. This is, perhaps, the most important thing you can do for your kids. It's easy to overlook the power of prayer when thinking about how to help your child grow spiritually. Make it a priority.For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Is your son truly delayed…or is he just a boy? Asher, who is six years old, got a letter sent home with him from school saying he is delayed and needs to work on sitting still. Asher's mom took the letter to her son's pediatrician, who shook her head, and said “He's not delayed. He's just being a boy.” The school system is not designed with young, energetic boys in mind– especially since boys develop more slowly than their female peers. When it comes to your son's development, pray for wisdom and seek professional advice. And above all, give your son lots of grace. He has a smart Creator, and he may just need some more time. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

How will you pass your faith on to the next generation?Psalm 78:4 charges us to “tell the next generation about the glorious deeds of the LORD, about his power and his mighty wonders.”In this psalm, Asaph implored Jewish fathers to pass the faith from one generation to the next because he knew people would be prone to forgetting what God had done for them.Good parenting requires us to share helpful instructions worth remembering. You should instruct your family according to God's Word and share stories about what he has done for you. In doing so, God will enable you to impact future generations for years to come.For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Why do boys like to play with cars and trucks? In 2002, a study at Texas A&M University was designed to explore this question. Researchers took male and female monkeys, and gave them equal access to both traditional boy and girl toys. Interestingly, the male monkeys naturally gravitated towards the traditional male toys, like cars, while the females did likewise with the girl toys, like dolls. As much as our society would like to claim that there are no true differences between genders– boys are different from girls! Encourage your son to play with the “boy toys” he wants to– or, better yet, grab a race car and play along with him. You will see God's perfect design playing out right in front of you. To learn about the 5 critical needs of boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Has your son become your idol? That may seem like a ridiculous question. But for even the most well-intentioned parents, their son's happiness and success can consume their entire life, to the point that it becomes more important than their relationship with GOd. Take some time to sit with God and reflect on your relationship with your son. Are you willing to discipline him to develop his character, even if it means he is angry with you? Do you obsess over controlling what he's exposed to?  It may be time to step back, ask the Holy Spirit to influence your son, and exercise your trust in God. It may be the best thing you've ever done for your son. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Being rooted in God's Word, the Bible, is like the Shepherd's tree, native to the Kalahari Desert in South Africa.The Shepherd's tree has the deepest documented roots of any tree, more than 230 feet deep.Jeremiah 17:7-8 says: “Blessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope and confidence. They are like trees planted along a riverbank, with roots that reach deep into the water. Such trees are not bothered by the heat or worried by long months of drought. Their leaves stay green, and they never stop producing fruit.”Let's teach our boys to trust in the firm foundation the Lord provides for His children through His Word.For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Want to help your son manage his big emotions? It starts with you. Researchers have found that– because of something in our brains called mirror neurons– the emotions we display cause our children to feel those emotions, too. As New York Times writer Ashley Abramson put it, “The same part of your brain that lights up when you're feeling happy may also light up when you observe happiness in others.”So the next time your son is feeling angry, overwhelmed, or frustrated, instead of focusing on his own emotions, check yourself first. Say a prayer, adjust your body language and expression, and ask God to help you be calm and at peace. Simply observing that peace in you may help your son learn how to calm down, too. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Do you know how long most people will spend on hold during their lifetime?According to software company RingCentral, people on average will spend about 40 days of their life (or more than 1,000 hours) on hold with a call center.In today's instant-gratification society, most people, especially children, don't want to wait for things, but the Bible calls us to be patient and “wait on the Lord.”Patiently waiting is difficult for us and our kids to do, and we want to take matters into our own hands, but we must trust in God's timing.It's encouraging to know that God is working behind the scenes. So, when the time is right, everything will be in place for us to move forward.For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Wish your son would talk to you more? Take him outside. Since your son can turn to Google for an answer to any question, he may not come to you much with questions in his day-to-day life. But if you get him in an outdoor setting,  he just might start asking you for help. Have him pitch your tent while you're camping. Get on a boat and go fishing, and teach him how to tie his own lure and clean his own fish. At night, ask him to build a fire at your campsite. As he asks you questions about each task, it will open up your conversation. And as you sit around the fire, he just might start asking you about other issues in his life, as well. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Do you remember this old children's nursery rhyme?“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.”While there's some truth to this statement, we've all experienced the pain caused by hurtful things said to us. Words can hurt.The Bible says, “The tongue has the power of life and death,” and “on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak.”We need to set a godly example for boys by how we speak to them and others and hold them to the same standard.Think about it like this: If your speech had a smell, would it be sweet or sour?For information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men,visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

How can you teach your son self control? Self control is, of course, one of the fruits of the spirit listed in Galatians 5. And psychologists say that self regulation skills are the key to avoiding addictions. So how can we develop this essential trait in our son? First, do all you can to model self-control. Do your best to make your words and actions line up, and be sure your son sees that. Second, help your boy learn how to make difficult tasks more fun. Could he listen to music while he cleans his room, or work on his homework outside on a nice day? And third, be sure your son has free time to choose what he wants to do. To learn about the five critical needs of boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Who or what do you look to for help when you need it?If you're a Christian, God has given you a helper, the Holy Spirit.Jesus said, “I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever — the Spirit of truth.”Boys often won't be able to face their challenges on their own, but the Holy Spirit comes alongside them to help them — all they need to do is ask for and accept his help.Instead of trying to solve every problem our boys have, let's point them to the power source that will never fail them.For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

On today's episode of The Coffee Break, Mark Hancock from Trail Life USA talks about the screen crisis among boys. The Coffee Break is the daily Christian talk and local events program on Hope Radio KCMI 97.1FM serving the Scottsbluff, NE area. Tune in for interviews with authors, musicians, pastors, and others in the Christian community and our local area! Visit our website: www.kcmifm.com Like us on Facebook: www.facebook.com/kcmifm

You know your son needs sleep. But do you know just how much it can impact his life?  You've no doubt heard about the studies that link adequate sleep to better school performance and behavior, two things that many boys particularly struggle with. But one study at the University of Maryland actually found that children who slept less than nine hours had different brain structure! The lack of sleep caused those children to have less grey matter in their brains, which, among other things, helps impulse control. So to give your son the best chance at self-regulation, school performance, prioritize his sleep– even if it means missing out on other activities at night. His developing brain will thank you! For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

How can you help make sure your kids keep their faith in God?The following statistics are eye-opening and sobering.According to Barna, nearly 59 percent of youth leave the church after they graduate high school, and only 17 percent maintain a biblical worldview.Common reasons for leaving the church include moving to college, judgmental and/or hypocritical church members, and no longer feeling connected to the people in their church.It's crucial to equip your children to defend their faith. The “why” is just as important as the “what.” They need to know why they believe what they believe.Be faithful to “train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.”For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Maybe our son's safety shouldn't be our only goal. Author Leslie Leyland Fields raised her son in Alaska. One day, her son got injured in an accident, and Leslie boarded a plane with him to get help. But when she felt the pilot pull up hard and turn, she thought they were about to hit a mountain and die. At that moment, Leslie felt regret. She thought she had failed at her one goal as a mom: to give her son a safe childhood. But just as her anxiety grew, a sense of peace from Jesus filled her heart. Leslie realized that, more than just safety, her goal was to raise a boy who could courageously face whatever challenges life brings– knowing that Jesus is always by his side. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Who do your children belong to?The Bible says that once they decide to follow Jesus, they become God's children.“To all who believed him and accepted him, he gave the right to become children of God.” John 1:12It's amazing that God loves them so much and has named them as one of his children.Becoming a child of God comes with security. Being secure in your identity as God's child removes your need for worldly love, praise, acceptance, affirmation, and respect.When the world, people, and circumstances try to bring you and your boys down, remind yourself and them of your secure identity in Christ. For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Dr James Dobson of Focus on the Family once received an interesting letter from a nine-year-old girl. The letter was titled “why girls are better than boys.” The list included everything from “girls are kinder to animals,” to “girls don't smell as bad.” Amused, Dr. Dobson posted the letter in his newsletter, and asked boys to make their own list.  He received a variety of responses, including “boys are better because they aren't scared of scary movies,” and “boys can build better forts than girls.” Unfortunately, our society often leans towards that nine-year-old girls' perspective– celebrating feminine traits and dismissing masculine traits. It's up to us as parents to remind boys that their natural tendencies to be brave, innovative, and energetic should be celebrated, as well. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

What gives you peace?Is it listening to music, spending time outdoors, or meditating?The best source of peace is the Prince of Peace, Jesus Christ.Jesus told his disciples — and us: “I am leaving you with a gift — peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don't be troubled or afraid.”When our boys are worried and scared, we should point them to the Provider of Peace, Jesus.His peace will help change how they respond to scary situations. When they focus on Jesus, he will quiet their fears and give them the peace the world cannot offer.For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Have you had The Talk with your son? That conversation about physical differences between males and females can be awkward and uncomfortable. So awkward, in fact, that some parents postpone The Talk until a later, more convenient time.As a dad, you need to courageously begin that conversation. Today's kids encounter sexuality at school, the mall, and even at sporting events. And because boys are curious and visually enticed, waiting to have The Talk may lead to confusion of what sex is all about.Fortunately, there are excellent resources from Christian organizations to help you talk about sex from a biblical perspective. And even though the conversation may be a little awkward, when your son realizes that you want the very best for him, he'll listen. For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

How can you teach your son to respect women? Romans 12:10 says “Love one another with a brotherly love.” That is a far cry from the values of our culture, where disrespect is the norm. But while boys tend to have a natural respect for older men, they may need help learning how to treat women appropriately. First, lead by example. If you're a man, treat the women in your life with kindness. Second, be sure to filter out and discuss what messages are shown in TV shows. And thirdly, remind your son how much God loves him, and allow age-appropriate levels of responsibility. When your son knows he's a beloved child of God, he's more likely to treat others that way, as well. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Raising a son is a lot like growing a garden. There's a lot of strategy and decision making involved– where to plant your garden and what seeds to put in the ground. There's grunt work– cultivating, planting, and building a fence. There's waiting and watering daily, and dealing with unknowns like weather. There's the stress of predators, and the joy of watching new growth. Even with all that work, in the end, in both gardening and parenting, the results are still completely out of our control. As parents, we have two choices. We can fear that lack of control, and exhaust ourselves trying to do everything right. Or, we can do our best, and trust that it's God who ultimately helps our son grow and bloom. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

When you want to open a package, you use scissors, not a jackhammer. When you want to tame your bedhead, you use a comb, not a pitchfork.Using the appropriate tool for the job is important. Similarly, when it's necessary to correct your son, make sure to use the appropriate technique. A stern gaze might be enough warning for a sensitive boy. Another child may need extra chores or other forms of discipline to remind him that wrong behavior has consequences.As you train your son in the way he should go, be sensitive to his attitude and emotions. By adapting your method of correction, your son will be more likely to respond positively. And as he grows wiser, your relationship with one another will grow stronger.For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Is your son “too cool” for mom's kisses? Here's what you can do. Rhonda Stoppe was sitting in a hospital room with her six year old son Brandon. He was getting a sleep study after having a horrible seizure. Brandon was asleep, and Rhonda walked over and kissed him on the forehead. The technician told Rhonda to go look at the screen. Rhonda was astonished to see that, even though Brandon was asleep, his brain activity actually showed that he knew his mom kissed him. So if your son rolls his eyes when you try to kiss him, kiss him when he's sleeping. And– more than that– remember that, even if it doesn't seem like it,  the little things you do each day to show your son love do make a difference. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Are you an idol worshiper?While most Americans don't worship carved statues, idol worship is still prevalent in our society. We idolize things like money, possessions, and jobs … and people like actors, athletes, musicians, and even members of our own families.A biblical definition of an idol is anything or anyone we value more than God or worshiping someone or something other than God as though it were God.In the first of his ten commandments, God said, “You shall have no other gods before me.” He is a “jealous” God and will not share his glory with anyone or anything.What idols do you need to get rid of? Ask God to help you completely tear them down today. And teach your son the rightful way to value wisdom, talent, conviction, and courage in others without making an idol of them.For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Here's a simple parenting tip– take some time to relax with your boy. Pediatrician Dr. Meg Meeker says that most parents don't realize the importance of “doing nothing” with sons. Even if you only have ten minutes, invite your son to sit down on the front porch with you with his favorite snack or drink. Don't badger him with questions, check your phone, or start lecturing. Simply sit together. Dr. Meeker says this is important for several reasons. It communicates that rest is an important part of life. It shows your son that he's worthy of undivided attention. And it's also an excellent way to get your boy to start communicating his thoughts and feelings. All of those benefits– and you get a short break, too. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Winston Churchill, British prime minister during World War II, said, “Those who fail to learn from history are doomed to repeat it.”And yet, some in our society are trying to change history, to make it conform to their political, social, and anti-Christian beliefs.Don't let unbiblical ideology distort our American heritage. Remind your son that this great nation was founded on biblical principles. Principles like freedom of speech, and freedom of religion.Unfortunately, our nation is increasingly atheistic, in part, because they don't understand God's story—or you might say, His-story—as communicated to us in the Bible. As a parent, teach your son both His-story and history. In this way, you'll help your son be better prepared for eternity. For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

What is TV teaching your son about masculinity? One study about male representation in TV shows studied 25 shows, over three thousand characters, and over four hundred episodes. Researchers found that, across the board, the male characters usually displayed the same negative traits– unhealthy coping mechanisms, aggression, a lack of emotion, and even a lack of care as a father. Without guidance, your son may begin to believe that these behaviors are normal and accepted in men. Make sure you put limits on your son's screen time. When he does watch a TV show, take some time to discuss the male characters and their positive and negative behaviors. Teach your son to be a mindful consumer and to filter everything through a Biblical lens. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Ever heard of the Discovery Channel's show Dirty Jobs? As the name suggests, in the show a man named Mike Rowe tries disgusting and dangerous occupations. He tours sewers, learns from roadkill cleaners, removes chewing gum from sidewalks, and helps exterminators. You'd think such gross content wouldn't make good television. But the show was a hit among men. Not only does Mike's investigation of the jobs appeal to our innate love of adventure, Mike also continuously expresses admiration and respect for the people who do those jobs. This show is a good reminder that every man wants to conquer a challenge and be respected. As you parent your son, be sure he has opportunities for healthy risk and challenge– even if it means he leaves muddy footprints across your floor. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Your son needs a gang. Every young man is asking the same questions– “who is with me, who is in charge, and what is our mission?” Unfortunately, those questions are very clearly answered in violent gangs, which is why so many young men are drawn to such groups. What your son needs is a group that can answer those questions in a healthy way. Sports teams with positive coaches can offer such environments– so can well run youth groups, engineering clubs, and outdoor adventure groups like Trail Life USA. Let your son try out a few different groups and pick one to invest in. The peer interaction, camaraderie, and structure of the group will spur your son along and give him the kind of mission he's searching for. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

What makes you happy? Not just a little happy, but really happy?Maybe it's when your team wins the championship, or when you get that work promotion, or when you slice into that perfectly cooked steak.Those things are fine, but one of the greatest joys in life is seeing your son obediently follow the Lord. Third John 3:4 says, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.”Walking in truth isn't accidental. It takes time and energy—for you and for your son. Set the example by making God your greatest priority. When your son sees your passion to follow God, he'll be much more likely to also walk in truth. And that will make you truly happy.For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Boys need their mom and their dad. As a mom and dad play with their young son, the mom will remind him to “be careful.” The dad will toss the son into the air and encourage him to run as fast as he can. The boy will ignore his mom and hang onto his dad's every word. But when that little boy falls and scrapes his knee, he'll suddenly stop ignoring his mom. He'll run to her, seeking comfort. As they grow up, boys continue to need both the rough, masculine influence of their dad and the comfort of their mom. If either is missing in your son's life, pray that God will fill in the gaps with a positive mother or father figure. To learn about the five critical needs of boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

What's your son's default location? Jackson, a 16 year old, was tinkering on his car in the garage when his mom brought her laptop out and set up a makeshift desk. She didn't say much– just did her work and asked Jackson, once, what he was working on. When she left an hour later, both she and Jackson were smiling. She had keyed into a secret of parenting a teen boy– figure out his default location, and be there. It may be the garage, the gym, the football field, or by a gaming console. Be tactful— don't interrupt, ask annoying questions, or show up every single night. Give yourself a task and a time limit. Done in the right way, this tactic can help your teen boy feel seen and loved. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Has your son experienced the death of a loved one? Maybe a classmate who died. Or perhaps a grandparent who suddenly passed away.Dealing with death is hard for everyone. But for kids, it's especially confusing. A common perception is that boys are tough. But the truth is, we all experience grief and heartache. It's just that we handle it in different ways.As a dad, take time to listen to your son. Evaluate what he knows about death and how much support he needs. Remember the good times with that loved one. Then provide comfort—and time to heal from the loss. Offer a hug whenever one is needed.By being there for your son when life is tough, you demonstrate—in action—your love for him.For more parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

A reporter once asked John D. Rockefeller, “How much money is enough?”Rockefeller, widely considered the wealthiest American of all time and the richest person in modern history, replied, “Just a little bit more.”Sadly, Rockefeller would never have enough money to be satisfied.When it comes to our possessions, the Bible consistently calls us to be content with what God has given us. Contentment leads to thankfulness and discontentment leads to selfishness.Take time to write out all the good things that God has blessed you with. Let's set a good example for our boys by deciding to be content with God's unbelievable goodness to us.For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Do your kids have household chores?Some kids think taking out the trash or washing the dishes is cruel and unusual punishment. But it isn't. In fact, research shows that chores actually help kids in their physical, mental, and social development.When you give your son a job and he successfully completes it, he develops self-worth and self-esteem. This leads to confidence in knowing that he can accomplish other tasks. What a contrast to the entitlement attitude that plagues many young minds today.So do your son a favor. Find age-appropriate chores for him to work at. Not only will these chores help the house run more smoothly, but they'll also keep your son off the couch and more engaged with real life.For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Boys love toys! Some of their favorites are racecars, robots, and rockets. And (according to kids) the louder, faster, and crazier the toy, the better!As a dad, you probably don't play with toy dinosaurs anymore, but you just might have a big-boy toy like a motorcycle or boat.It's fine to enjoy toys. They can even be a way of connecting with your son. But don't let toys consume your time and attention.C.S. Lewis said, “All these toys were never intended to possess my heart. My true good is in another world, and my only real treasure is Christ.”Teach your son that even more amazing than the most extraordinary toy is the Lord Jesus. He, alone, can bring true happiness and joy into our lives.For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

What happens when a former military bomb dog handler turns his attention to raising a family, building businesses, and keeping faith at the center of it all?In this episode, Erik sits down with Adam La Barr — husband, father of three, entrepreneur, and host of the BizDad Podcast. From chasing bombs in Afghanistan to chasing business deals in America, Adam shares how his faith journey shaped his approach to intentional fatherhood and business ownership.They unpack how to raise kids in a world filled with noise without sheltering them, the lessons Adam learned from missed birthdays while serving in the military, and why he's passionate about buying businesses that create freedom instead of consuming family life.Adam also reveals his process for evaluating deals, how real estate led him to small business acquisitions, and why aligning with Christian partners matters in the long run.This one's a must-listen for fathers, faith-driven entrepreneurs, and anyone tired of sacrificing family on the altar of success.0:00 Intro2:30 Adam's faith journey from childhood to Afghanistan6:10 Choosing a Christian spouse and building a family foundation9:55 Raising kids with exposure, not shelter14:30 Lessons from the military on marriage, fatherhood, and time away18:10 Why Adam launched the BizDad Podcast22:20 Shifting from real estate to buying businesses27:50 The escape room deal and learning to evaluate businesses33:40 Superpowers in business: knowing your strengths (and weaknesses)40:50 Faith in business partnerships and being equally yoked47:10 Burner or Bliss: Disney, EVs, Social Media & AI52:25 Final thoughts, where to connect with AdamBizDad Podcast https://www.youtube.com/@thebizdad Active Duty Passive Income (ADPI) https://www.activedutypassiveincome.com/ VidAngel https://www.vidangel.com/ GoBundance https://gobundance.com/ Trail Life USA https://www.traillifeusa.com/ Resources Mentioned:Connect with Adam: https://adamlabarr.com/