Gin & Tantra

In this episode we discuss will and Fear, Social cohesion and its costs, solidarity, internal and external dissent as well as social anxiety.

In this episode we discuss the pressure to conform, expressing your authenticity, the cost of being yourself and the importance of dissent.

In this episode we continue our foray into social psychology and breakdown the 1971 Stanford Prison Experiment. Known as the Zimbardo prison experiment, we discuss conformity under threat, learned helplessness, sub-group psychology and more...

In this episode we have on Leslie Garrett and she details her upbringing and life as a Jehovah's Witness and her eventual escape from the clutches of its grasp on her and her family.

In this episode we have on friend of the show Nathan Orchard where he details some of his upbringing in the Mormon church and the insights that helped to set him on his own path.

We continue our discussion on social psychology, cult mentality, critical thinking and the confines we find ourselves currently in.

We continue our discussion on the psychology of cults, conformity and normative influence, social cohesion and the pressure of non-conformity, attachment theory and charisma.

In this episode we introduce some of the main aspects of cult mentality. The problem of conformity, social cohesion and charismatic influence.

We begin a short series on the psychology of cults, social psychology and the cognitive epidemic of our time.

In this episode we have on contributor Faydra Shantel and we discuss the ins and outs of sexual and intimate exploration, kinks, fetishes, consent, safe words, BDSM and more...

In the conclusion to our attachment series we discuss the importance of having a strong base in one's relationship as well as the importance of exploration of oneself, the world and one's partner.

In this episode we have on contributor Dr. Rory to further discuss Taoism, Mathematics, the placebo effect and how the dive into ourselves gives us the keys to understanding life.

In this episode we continue our discussion on attachment theory, the discernment required to make good choices for yourself, the ability to explore from a secure place and more...

In this episode we further discuss the attachment styles in relationships, the effects they have on us, ways in which we can work through them and more...

In this episode we have on Faydra Shantel to discuss attachment styles and how we can break free from the F.E.A.R. of relationships by learning more about ourselves, how we interact in relationships and why.

In this episode we ask the question, Is Spirituality Dead? We discuss the status of spirituality in our current culture and how did we get here...

In this episode we have on contributor Jonathan DOmoleczny. Jon gives an insight into his current work with the title and process of his brain child, S.T.E.P.S. and how this program can help to guide people through difficult times as they look for guidance.

In this episode we discuss grief, the stages of grief, how it is discussed in Taoism and the effects it has on our bodies, minds and our lives in relationship to ourselves and our communities.

In this episode we discuss the balance between security and spontaneity in relationships. How can we balance the sense of familiarity while keeping the newness between each other? We also discuss healthy attachments, bonding types and more...

In this episode we discuss some of the fun, and not so fun aspects of dating in our current climate of online dating and the experiences that teach us and that can make us laugh... at some point anyway!

In this episode we continue our discussion on the psychology of attachment and its roots in childhood, how parenting effects the ways in which we bond, some personal tales and more...

In this episode we begin the discussion on the psychology of attachment and its nascent stages in childhood and how patenting effects our bonding style.

In this episode we discuss ethical non monogamy and compression, dealing with attachments, self acceptance as a means of freedom, not limiting some one to their potential And working with attachments.

In this episode we continue our discussion on holding space. Specifically the ability to do so for oneself, traveling through the darkness as an internal movement of light, earning wisdom and becoming more connected.

In this episode we discuss the modern idea of 'holding space'. What this term means, how does this happen for others, working with empathy and surrendering to the moment.

In this episode we continue our discussion on attachment, repression and expression. We discuss the types of attachment, obstacles having a purpose, and the potential outcomes of repression.

In this episode we discuss attachment theory from the Buddhist writings. We discuss the concept of freedom, mudras and more...

In this episode we ask the question, What is Spirituality anyways? What constitutes a spiritual life? This, and more...

In this episode we have on friend of the show Katie Petersen. We discuss a few questions heading into the new year. Specifically what are we leaving in 2024, what are we bringing into 2025 and what is it that we are wanting to cultivate moving forward. We also dive into decoupling pleasure and shame.

In this episode we detail an upcoming meditation retreat we are leading in March of 2025. What is a retreat anyway? Why would someone want to try or continue on this path and why are we so passionate about bringing some of these teachings to life? We discuss this and more as we get into some of the details of our upcoming venture! For more information... https://events.humanitix.com/diamond-path-meditation-immersion

In this episode we take a look at the hierarchy in the history of Sexual Yoga, Tantra and other related traditions. We share some historical accounts of women as Tantric Teachers and incorporate a few modern views on the subject from some recent publications.

In this episode we discuss the 'Rumi Rule' and the importance of taking advantage of opportunities the universe presents us, multiple types of sexuality, alchemizing the sexual experience beyond physicality, acknowledgement of sexual trauma and mating in captivity.

In this episode we discuss our vies on what we believe to be the world's first corporation... Organized Religion! We also discuss the Tantric personality and using pleasure as a path to freedom, Self-sacrifice and burnout, commercialism, and accumulated bitterness effecting your life.

In this episode, we do a deep dive on the experiences and differences in pleasure, ecstasy and bliss, sat-chit-ananda, using pleasure to develop yourself and re-wiring your software.

In this episode we continue our discussion on the Tantra of relationships and our connections to them. We discuss relationships as a collection of energy that is greater than a sum of its parts, change and the difficulties of existence, dealing with the emotional aspects of our partnerships and more...

In this episode we discuss choosing a partner for practice, for love, perhaps for life, sharing bonds and passions, the necessity for a freedom from pettiness and varying levels of connection in this life.

In this episode we have a discussion on Kamasutra, working with sexual partners and keeping things secret.

We begin a new series on sexuality and spirituality based on the Karmamudra teachings put forth in Dr. Nida's book, Karmamudra; The Yoga of Bliss. In this first episode we discuss the reasons to practice Karma Mudra, starting from ground zero, connecting with bliss and the primordial philosophy.

In this episode we discuss taking your personal practice seriously, the simplicity in messaging, isolating the obstacles that will stop you from being successful and listening to your guides.

In this episode we discuss, overcoming mundane conceptions, coming to terms with yourself, the ground, path and result, the three treasures and the 5 Aggregates from the Buddhist traditions.

In this episode we have on Sureya Leonara. Sureya is a Holistic Sex & Relationship Coach. Most of the work Sureya does today is the result of buried passions, which she has discovered through my her own healing process. This journey inspired her and gave her the tools, compassion and experience to help others along similar journeys. In this episode we discuss psychedelics as an introduction to Tantra religious trauma and being rejected by God, healing with plant medicine and Lyme disease, Chinese medicine changing one's perspective, learning the somatic language and learning to be able to trust herself. We also discuss experiencing sex without an agenda. Sureya can be found at https://www.sureyaleonara.com/

In this episode we talk about fatigue and lack of motivation, distraction and avoidance, what goes with you on to the next life and asking the question... Why do we procrastinate?

In this episode we talk about psychological defense mechanisms, intellectualization and the tolerance of cognitive dissonance, Emotional insulation, rationalization, denial and repression, fantasy and types of projection, regression, identification and the negative internal voice.

In this episode we discuss psychological resistance and remedies, intellectual avoidance, the role of repression and psychological defense mechanisms, externalizing and confirmation bias.

In this episode we discuss the time honored tradition of debate and the pitfalls that come along with it and the duality of the mind, being a spiritual scientist, the value in intellectual engagement, moving from theory to practicality, implementing what we learn into our lives and the 6 perfections.

In this episode we have on Marvin Mendez, Divorce & Family Law Attorney. Marvin Mendez is a principal at Stern Perkoski Mendez and practices divorce and family law. Recognized as a results-oriented counselor, Marvin has the ability to consume and dissect complex financial documents that can strike at the core of some of the most tenuous parts of a separation. Marvin is passionate about creating safe spaces in which his clients can express discreet and personal ideas. A parent himself, Marvin's ultimate goal when children are involved is to maximize the welfare and civility for the family unit. We discuss involving yourself in self-less partnerships, exhausting oneself in a relationship, learning to be mad at the moment, emotions as decision makers, a letter to the forgotten ones and the Social Learning Theory.

In this episode we discuss working with influences and waiting for Mr. Right, using faith as a path towards thievery and a Grifter in Chief. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gintantra/message

We have with us once again friend of the show Dr. Christian Villacres. Christian is a healer, a teacher and a guide. His fields of practice are holistic health, natural medicine, health coaching and personal development. He maintains a clinical practice, leads immersive retreats and facilitates 1 on 1 and group transformation workshops. https://www.buddhahandhealth.com/ In this episode we discuss breaking the cathartic loop in therapy, serotonin and dopamine driving our behaviors, cultivating resiliency and experiencing the body as a vehicle to experience pleasure. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gintantra/message

We have with us once again friend of the show Dr. Christian Villacres. Christian is a healer, a teacher and a guide. His fields of practice are holistic health, natural medicine, health coaching and personal development. He maintains a clinical practice, leads immersive retreats and facilitates 1 on 1 and group transformation workshops. https://www.buddhahandhealth.com/ In this episode we discuss various forms of traditional therapy , looking at ourselves as both empty and full , becoming the conscious author of our own life's story, seeing the world as you see yourself, living as the current rendition of our personal lineage and the book "It Didn't Start with You". https://www.amazon.com/Didnt-Start-You-Inherited-Family/dp/1101980389/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.H9WdeKttUEV_WBzv2eKqMa-_K1Cs3Kc1_lrPWIMW4YlAcitjc9NI8SnmlnpKg1mxWpzJTiV0KvMylJNK27lNojnBXfi_wY3w40S-K-A5F2FYzGQjE0tzDAzc5AoWScRp8F0mc1oW6J_rIYMehTTCZHJeRh0j0x3KzrylgWRo9kzDcDpnDLk5k3TOtcXQvFf6y-Ts33ku9ZnfkhzYq8ywC-riRtHsZ0NMHmNWrSHmgys.sIbEoaF3bcGdQQ_qwhCYxEuSEiK1mr_OgxuAx6dQILE&dib_tag=se&hvqmt=b --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gintantra/message

In this episode we discuss working with shame and guilt, keeping it real, cultivating internal congruency , finding out where your values lay , aspects of emancipation and a cringe story from Daniel's life. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gintantra/message

In this episode we bring the conversation back to the emotional plague or as we called it, the contagion of ideas. We discuss how external forces create a false self, talking to the Matrix, living life as an artist and killing your creativity. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gintantra/message