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In this episode we continue our foray into social psychology and breakdown the 1971 Stanford Prison Experiment. Known as the Zimbardo prison experiment, we discuss conformity under threat, learned helplessness, sub-group psychology and more...

Those who have experienced Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) or Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD) will often report the profoundly painful experience of being thrown into past trauma by a particular trigger. Common examples include war veterans who may experience full body activation following a loud explosive noise. Another example is victims of violent crimes being shown content about similar circumstances that can launch them into the past. This experience of being thrown back in time has been thoroughly analyzed utilizing Time Perspective Therapy (TPT) by co-developer and counselor Rosemary Sword. Rose is the co-author of the renowned 2012 book The Time Cure: Overcoming PTSD with the New Psychology of Time Perspective Therapy. She worked on the book with her husband, clinical psychologist Richard Sword, PhD, and Philip Zimbardo, PhD, psychologist and professor at Stanford University. When Richard passed away from gastric cancer a year and a half later, she continued her work on TPT with Zimbardo, eventually coming to their new book Seeing Through the Grief. While it was released in the spring of 2024, Zimbardo sadly passed away in October. Other projects they worked on included a second TPT book titled Living & Loving Better, partnering with Happify.com Premium to offer Overcome PTSD and Heal from Grief and Loss, as well as a Psychology Today column, The Time Cure. This is a fascinating interview. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Where do you find community? Do you feel isolated from others?Philip Zimbardo, a psychologist who taught at Stanford, and by the way was a Christian, says this: "There's nothing more detrimental to a person's life than isolation. There's no more destructive influence on physical and mental health than the isolation of you from me and us from them."Zimbardo believed a primary strategy of the evil one in the times that we currently live is to trivialize human existence by isolating us from one another, so that we lose the power of community. Then he creates the delusion that the reasons for our isolation are merely time-pressures, work demands, economic uncertainties, etc. What can we conclude from these observations? Living in isolation without being in relationship with others is not only detrimental to our mental and emotional health, but it can lead to destructiveness. >>Watch on YouTube

Criminal Behaviorology  Episode # 59 Title:  Remembering Phil Zimbardo: Obedience and Authority in the Stanford Prison Study The entire interview can be found on our YouTube channel:  @criminalbehaviorology - https://youtu.be/VKiItBjp-_c The views of our guests do not necessarily reflect those of Criminal Behaviorology, nor our sponsors.  Donate to Criminal Behaviorology Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=81930699 In October of this year (2024) Philip Zimbardo passed at the age 91. After a legendary career in psychology, he is known for a very innovative study at Stanford University. A group of students, who were about to get quite a surprise, were randomly assigned be either guards or prisoners. In this episode we look back at Zimbardo's life and the surprising outcomes of some of his most controversial research on the dynamics of incarceration. Show Highlights: The life and career of one Philip Zimbardo. The BBC special on the Stanford Prison Study. Zimbardo's inspiration from the Attica Prison uprising. Students randomly assigned to be “guards” and “prisoners.” The Stanley Milgram experiment on obedience to authority. Shocking results. Guards who became sympathetic, and those who become “hardliners.” Controversies and conclusions about this infamous study. Links for this podcast: Psychology: The Stanford Prison Experiment - BBC Documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4txhN13y6A - Found on this Channel on YouTube (Patricia Im): https://www.youtube.com/@patriciaim4861 Zimbardo: https://zimbardo.socialpsychology.org/contact Obituary of Philip Zimbardo: https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/legacyremembers/philip-zimbardo-obituary?id=56549140 https://www.prisonexp.org  The Man Who Shocked the World (about Stanley Milgram): https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/articles/200203/the-man-who-shocked-the-world Look up CrimBehav on Facebook:  facebook.com/CrimBehav. Criminal Behaviorology on Blogger.  CB Podcast Sites: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/dashboard/episodes https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/criminal-behaviorology/id1441879795?mt=2&uo=4 https://www.google.com/podcasts?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83MzY4OWFjL3BvZGNhc3QvcnNzhttps://open.spotify.com/show/5VM7Sjv762u7nb91YWGczZ https://www.breaker.audio/criminal-behaviorology https://overcast.fm/itunes1441879795/criminal-behaviorology https://pca.st/Q38w https://radiopublic.com/criminal-behaviorology-GEv2AZ https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/anchor-podcasts/criminal-behaviorology On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKSVoZOBwCG28xMnuPq_Gtw On Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-1826027 On Locals Social Media: https://criminalbehaviorology.locals.com/?showPosts=1 https://criminalbehaviorology.locals.com On Twitter: https://twitter.com/CrimBehav On Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=81930699 Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/a3604516-0645-4341-a792-75d10754556d/criminal-behaviorology Please write a review on any of our podcast sites listed above.  Questions, comments, and requests for transcripts to: criminalbehaviorology@gmail.com Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/criminalbehaviorology/support

Zimbardo'nun 'Stanford hapishane deneyi' neydi? Milgram'ın 'itaat deneyi' ile ilişkisi. Zimbardo ve Milgram neyi göstermeyi hedefliyorlardı? Önceki ay aramızdan ayrılan Zimbardo'yu anıyoruz. 

Deugen mensen van nature? Psychologie professor Philip Zimbardo is onlangs overleden en deed onderzoek naar alles rondom dit onderwerp. Bekend van het Stanford Prison Experiment, wat behoorlijk onder vuur is komen te liggen, ook door Rutger Bregman die met zijn boek De Meeste Mensen Deugen probeerde aan te tonen dat Zimbardo het mis had. Maar is dat wel echt zo? Deugen mensen echt? Of in sommige omstandigheden juist niet? Duik mee in al deze thematiek met Thijs Launspach en Lennard Toma! Bronnen en ander lees- en luister- en kijkvoer: - Philip Zimbardo lees je over op z'n wiki pagina: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philip_Zimbardo - Check Meeste Mensen Deugen van Rutger Bregman - Stanford Prison Experiment kun je genoeg info over vinden, zoals deze van VSauce: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KND_bBDE8RQ - VSauce ook met Zimbardo over hoe je van iemand een held kunt maken: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMpuxLIgjPs - Luister naar onze oude podcast over de Dark Triad: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7l5Rvfvcgp9v8ytdKp4vI6?si=85f5f13578cf4ddd Nerd-literatuur: - Franco, Z. & Zimbardo, P. (2006–2007) [The banality of heroism](http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/the_banality_of_heroism) [Archived](https://web.archive.org/web/20120618102406/http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/the_banality_of_heroism) June 18, 2012, at the [Wayback Machine](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wayback_Machine). Greater Good, 3 (2), 30–35 - Franco, Z. E.; Allison, S. T.; Kinsella, E. L.; Kohen, A.; Langdon, M.; Zimbardo, P.G. (2018). "Heroism research: A review of theories, methods, challenges, and trends". Journal of humanistic psychology. *58* (4): 382–396. - Franco, Z.E.; Zimbardo, P.G. (2016). Miller, A.G. (ed.). "The psychology of heroism: Extraordinary champions of humanity in an unforgiving world" in The Social Psychology of Good and Evil. New York: Guilford Press. pp. pp. 494-523. [ISBN](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ISBN_(identifier)) [9781462525409](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:BookSources/9781462525409). - Franco, Z. E., Blau, K., & Zimbardo, P. G. (2011). Heroism: A conceptual analysis and differentiation between heroic action and altruism. Review of general psychology, 15(2), 99-113. - Bocchiaro, P.; Zimbardo, P.G.; Van Lange, P.A. (2012). "To defy or not to defy: An experimental study of the dynamics of disobedience and whistleblowing". Social Influence. *7* (1): 35–50. - Bocchiaro, P.; Zimbardo, P.G. (2010). "Defying unjust authority: An exploratory study". Current Psychology: A Journal for Diverse Perspectives on Diverse Psychological Issues. *29* (2): 155–170. - Fischer, P., Greitemeyer, T., Pollozek, F., & Frey, D. (2006). The unresponsive bystander: Are bystanders more responsive in dangerous emergencies?. European journal of social psychology, 36(2), 267-278. - Grevet, E. H., Bandeira, C. E., Vitola, E. S., de Araujo Tavares, M. E., Breda, V., Zeni, G., ... & Bau, C. H. D. (2024). The course of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder through midlife. European Archives of Psychiatry and Clinical Neuroscience, 274 (1), 59-70. - Sibley, M. H., Kennedy, T. M., Swanson, J. M., Arnold, L. E., Jensen, P. S., Hechtman, L. T., ... & Hinshaw, S. P. (2024). Characteristics and Predictors of Fluctuating Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder in the Multimodal Treatment of ADHD (MTA) Study. The Journal of Clinical Psychiatry, 85(4), 57313.

What makes ordinary people do evil things? It was a question that long fascinated the psychologist Philip Zimbardo, who died in October. Zimbardo was best known for the controversial Stanford prison experiment, in which he created a simulated prison in the basement of a university building and recruited volunteers to act as prisoners and guards. This week, we explore how Zimbardo came to create one of psychology's most notorious experiments – and inadvertently became the poster child for the human weaknesses he was trying to study.  We're bringing Hidden Brain to the stage in San Francisco and Seattle in February 2025! Join our host Shankar Vedantam as he shares seven key insights from his first decade hosting the show. Click here for more info and tickets. 

In 1971, Stanford psychologist Philip Zimbardo conducted an experiment with college students to evaluate behavior in a mock prison. Within days, the guards were abusing their power and mistreating the prisoners so badly the study was shut down early. The “Stanford Prison Experiment” was heralded in academia and in pop culture as a landmark study into the corrupting power of authority. But a re-examination of Zimbardo's methods questions whether he manipulated the subjects into those behaviors, challenging whether its shocking results - and its legacy - should be discredited.The three-part series “The Stanford Prison Experiment: Unlocking the Truth,” is produced by Nat Geo and is available on several streaming services. It unearths Zimbardo's scientifically dubious methods that steered the study toward its violent conclusion. It also reunites the former guards and prisoners - some for the first time - to explain what was really driving their actions.OUR SPOILER-FREE REVIEWS OF "THE STANFORD PRISON EXPERIMENT" BEGIN IN THE FINAL TEN MINUTES OF THE EPISODE.In Crime of the Week: If the shoe splits... For exclusive podcasts and more, sign up at Patreon.Sign up for our newsletter at crimewriterson.com.

After spending over a month in the "Golden State," Gus T. debriefs on his California Counter-Racist Sojourn. We hear details on Gus' November 18 visit to Evergreen Cemetery in Oakland, the mass burial cite for the Victims of the Jonestown slaughter. Gus spoke with relatives of those who were killed in Guyana and was able to ask a group of these black people if they thought Rev. Jim Jones was a Racist. Gus also details the experience of visiting the special collections libraries at Stanford University and the University of California at Berkeley. Gus did not encounter any black librarian employed with special collections at any of these California libraries he visited. White professors like Dr. Phil Zimbardo, who conducted the infamous Stanford prison study, has massive boxed of files on the Peoples Temple and Jim Jones - including years of interviews he conducted with survivors of the Guyana slaughter. Dr. Zimbardo taught his White Stanford students about Jonestown in connection to Nazi Germany. While on this massive counter-racist business venture, Gus saw Erykah Badu, visited Stanford 8 times, Cal-Berkeley 7 times, UCLA twice and USC once. He visited the beach 5 times, hiked San Francisco's Land's End Trail, visited the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art three times, heard Kara Walker discuss her amazing new exhibit, got a haul of farmer's market goodies (yellow watermelon), and looted gigabytes worth of Jonestown material. #TheCOWS15Year INVEST in The COWS – http://paypal.me/TheCOWS Cash App: https://cash.app/$TheCOWS CALL IN NUMBER: 605.313.5164 CODE: 564943#

Het is 15 augustus 1971, nabij San Francisco, California, worden twaalf jonge mannen in de boeien geslagen en door de politie van Stanford afgevoerd naar Stanford County Jail. Nadat ze zijn ontluisd, krijgen ze gevangeniskleding met daarop een nummer, hun nieuwe naam. Twaalf andere jonge mannen, allemaal in een kakikleurig uniform met zonnebril en wapenstok bewaken de gevangenen. Gedurende twee weken zal het gedrag van deze 24 mannen in het kader van de wetenschap in de gaten worden gehouden. Althans, dat was de bedoeling. Op dag zes werd deze wereldberoemde studie noodgedwongen afgebroken. Al vrij snel zijn er kritische geluiden te horen. De studie zou niet ethisch zijn, de resultaten frauduleus en niet repliceerbaar. In deze aflevering bespreken we de opzet van, de fascinatie met en de (niet malse) kritiek op het Stanford Prison Experiment. Presentatie: Rolf Zwaan & Anita EerlandMuziek: Rolf ZwaanBronnenClark, H.H., Richard J. Gerrig, R.J. (1983). Understanding old words with new meanings. Journal of Verbal Learning and Verbal Behavior, 22(5), 591-608. https://doi.org/10.1016/S0022-5371(83)90364-X.Le Texier, T. (2019). Debunking the Stanford Prison Experiment. American Psychologist, 74,823-839. http://dx.di.org/10.1037/amp0000401Zimbardo, P., & Haney C. (2020). Continuing to Acknowledge the Power of DehumanizingEnvironments: Responding to Haslam et al. (2019) and Le Texier (2019). AmericanPsychologist, in press. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/340470915_Continuing_to_acknowledge_the_power_of_dehumanizing_environments_Comment_on_Haslam_et_al_2019_and_Le_Texier_2019Reactie Le Texier op Zimbardo & Haney (2020) https://www.letexier.org/?The-SPE-Remains-Debunked-A-Reply-to-Zimbardo-and-Haney-2020Meer over het Stanford Prison ExperimentOfficiele website: https://exhibits.stanford.edu/speDas Experiment (Duitse film uit 2001 van Oliver Hirschbiegel over het Stanford Prison Experiment): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0250258/The Stanford Prison Experiment (Amerikaanse remake): https://www.prisonexp.org/movieTrailer documentaire National Geographic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=igUQwX6vZRUEen compleet overzicht met alle thema's uit de podcast en de bijbehorende afleveringen vind je hier. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Poslušnost platila tradičně za ctnost, nejen náboženskou, ale i intelektuální. Být disciplinovaný se většina z nás učí tím, že nejprve poslouchá druhé, teprve poté se naučí poslouchat sebe sama. Ostatně i osobní autonomii, tuto nejvyšší moderní ctnost, chápe Immanuel Kant jako schopnost být poslušen mravnímu imperativu, svému lepšímu já, dát mu přednost před svým nejmilovanějším já, jinými slovy před sobectvím. Na poslušnosti stála i moderní idea univerzity: student se měl stávat vzdělaným tím, že následuje předobraz svého učitele. Ideoví otcové moderní univerzity, jejichž spisy zakládaly západní univerzity mnohdy hovoří o tom, že vzdělání stojí na „násilí“ či „omezování“.            V průběhu dvacátého století se poslušnost pro někoho stala ctností spornou, nezřídka kdy byla zahrnuta výsměchem i odsudky. Odkaz na poslušnost nacistům je snad laciný, ale ne neefektivní způsob, jak původní ctnost znemožnit. Je faktem, že se mnozí nacisté na poslušnost odvolávali. Proslul zvláště Adolf Eichmann. Pojem poslušnosti dále zpochybnily i tzv. testy lidskosti, které navazovaly na zděšení z konformismu moderních vzdělaných společností. Mezi tyto testy bývá řazen Milgramův i Zimbardův experiment. Philip Zimbardo, jeden z nejvlivnějších sociálních psychologů druhé poloviny dvacátého století, se poslušností zabývá i na pozadí druhé světové války. Spíše než že by poslušnost odmítl, nabízí novou interpretaci Kantova pojetí. Ve Stanfordském experimentu i svých studiích k vandalismu ukázal, jak snadno podléháme situačním podmínkám i autoritám a jak snadno se dopouštíme zlých činů.Vysmívat se poslušnosti přesto není cesta. Jedině díky ní si budujeme disciplínu, která je základem dobra i naplněného života. Nedisciplinovanost ústí v rozplizlost, která je nezřídka kdy souznačná se zoufalstvím. Zimbardo to zvláště ve svém pozdním díle sleduje na mladých lidech v tzv. post-disciplinární společnosti. Tradiční hierarchické vztahy dítěte a rodiče, žáka a učitele, studenta a profesora jsme redefinovaly na vztahy partnerské, ne-li „parťácké“. Tuto redefinici považujeme ne zřídkakdy za ctnost, za znamení vlastní velkorysosti. V tom se podle Zimbarda pleteme. Chápat hierarchické vztahy výlučně jako místa mocenského zneužívání je znamením infantilního nepochopení, které je jedním z důvodů, proč děti a mladí lide dnes neprospívají.  Kapitoly I. Jeden problém je zneužívat moc, druhý neumět ji unést [začátek až 19:20] II. Hanebná poslušnost? [19:20 až 32:18] III. Zimbardo: Chlapec z ulice i nejproslulejší psycholog své doby [32:18 až 45:20] IV. Zlo bývá banální. Ale možná existuje i banální dobro? [45:20 až 56:15] V. Nedisciplinovanost k uzoufání [56:15 až konec]  Bibliografie Hannah Arendtová, Eichmann v Jeruzalémě, přel. Martin Palouš, Praha: OIKOYMENH, 2019. Hannah Arendt, Vom Leben des Geistes, München: Piper Verlag, 2006. Axel Honneth, Právo svobody, přel. Břetislav Horyna, Praha: Filosofia, 2018.Philip Zimbardo, Rosemary K. M. Swordová, Lépe žít a milovat díky terapii časové perspektivy, Praha: Academia 2022. Philip Zimbardo, Luciferův efekt: Jak se z dobrých lidí stávají lidé zlí, přel. Radek Kašpar,  Marika Králíková, Praha: Academia, 2021. Philip Zimbardo, Nikita Coulombe, Man Disconnected: How the Digital Age Is Changing Young Men Forever, London: Rider Publishing 2016. Philip Zimbardo, Paměti psychologa. Rozhovor s Danielem Hartwigem, přel. Linda Bartošková, Praha: Portál, 2021.

In fast keinem Format benehmen sich die Teilnehmenden so aggressiv wie im Sommerhaus der Stars. In dieser Folge fragen wir uns, woher die Aggression kommt und schauen uns dafür 100 Jahre Aggressionsforschung im Schnelldurchlauf an: Die Frustrations-Aggressionstheorie, die Rolle der negativen Emotionen, Freud, Banduras Bobo-Doll und das Stanford Prison Experiment von Zimbardo (was wir nebenbei auch noch kurz debunken müssen). Ausserdem geht es in dieser Folge nochmal ausführlich um Umut und Emma und wir besprechen, ob wir bis jetzt zu wohlwollend waren, wie wir Emma's Verhalten bei usneren eigenen Freund*innen einordnen würden, und ob Marijuana gegen irrationale Wut hilft. Übergeordnet stehen natürlich wie immer die Fragen: Was können wir von Trash-TV über uns selber lernen? Welche Beziehungsdynamiken und Konflikte können wir bei den Teilnehmer*innen beobachten, die uns vielleicht auch im alltäglichen Leben begegnen? Was können wir durch die Formate über Romantik, Vertrauen und Liebe lernen? Was sagt die psychologische Forschung zu den Themen die wir beobachten? Und vorallem: Sind uns die Protagonist*innen, die wir am aller schlimmsten finden, am Ende vielleicht doch ähnlicher als wir gerne glauben würden? #Dating #Psychologie #Psychologin #Reality-TV #Beziehungen #Paare #dating-Erfahrungen #Sommerhaus #DasSommerhausderStars #KampfderPromiPaare #sam #rafi #theresia #emma #umut #Konflikte #Streit #TrashTV #PodcastLiebe

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Each weekend on Best Of The Gist, we listen back to an archival Gist segment from the past, then we replay something from the past week. This weekend, we do neither. Instead, we listen back to Mike's 2008 NPR interview with Philip Zimbardo, the psychologist who became famous for his Stanford Prison Experiment. Zimbardo died earlier this month. Then we listen to Mike's recent interview with NewsNation's Dan Abrams about Kamala Harris' 60 Minutes interview, in which editing occurred.    Produced by Joel Patterson and Corey Wara  Email us at thegist@mikepesca.com  To advertise on the show: https://advertisecast.com/TheGist  Subscribe to our ad-free and/or PescaPlus versions of The Gist: https://subscribe.mikepesca.com/  Follow Mike's Substack: Pesca Profundities | Mike Pesca | Substack  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Philip Zimbardo, the psychologist who's best known for running the Stanford Prison Experiment in 1971, died last week. That's a good excuse to discuss his legacy: what did his famous experiment tell us about the power of the situation to make normal people commit evil and sadistic acts?In this episode of The Studies Show, Tom and Stuart go back to the original report of one of the most famous psychology studies of all time, and then see how the experiment is looking after more than 50 years of discussion and debate (spoiler: not good).The Studies Show is brought to you by Semafor. You can sign up for their variety of online newsletters that give you in-depth information in digestible chunks. This week, we discussed the Semafor Business newsletter with Liz Hoffman, which included an interview with an electric vehicle company CEO who's making a bet, after something of a downturn, that EVs really are the future.Show notes* The first academic paper to describe the Stanford Prison Experiment, from 1973* More details on the study, including the prisoners' “rebellion”, on Zimbardo's website* The first critique from 2019, from social psychologists* The second critique from 2019, from Thibault le Texier* Zimbardo's response to the critiques* Zimbardo on the Abu Ghraib prison torture during the Iraq War* Zimbardo's cringeworthy BBC interview on the effects of videogames* Guardian critique of Zimbardo's videogame claims by Pete EtchellsCreditsThe Studies Show is produced by Julian Mayers at Yada Yada Productions. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.thestudiesshowpod.com/subscribe

Dans la Bible, Lucifer était l'ange préféré de Dieu. Il a été déchu après avoir refusé de s'agenouiller devant l'ultime création de son créateur : l'Homme. Après s'être vu claqué au nez la porte du paradis,  il est devenu le maître de l'enfer. C'est d'après lui que le psychologue Philip Zimbardo a nommé l'effet Lucifer. C'est un processus de transformation à travers lequel une personne parfaitement intégrée en société, et même considérée comme gentille, peut commetre des actes atroces. Pour étudier ceci, Zimbardo a mené une expérience effrayante et aujourd'hui très connue : l'expérience de Stanford. Qu'est-ce que l'expérience de Stanford ? En quoi consiste-t-elle ? Comment Zimbardo explique-t-il ces résultats ? Écoutez la suite de cet épisode de "Maintenant vous savez". À écouter aussi : Qu'est-ce qu'un vampire énergétique ? Qu'est-ce que l'effet Proteus ? Qu'est-ce que le paradoxe de Fermi ? Date de première diffusion : 29 novembre 2022 Retrouvez tous les épisodes de "Maintenant vous savez". Suivez Bababam sur Instagram. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The social science that supports our work with cults has been questioned in the last decade. We discuss the complaints about Zimbardo's Stanford Prison Experiment, Stanley Milgram's Yale shock machine studies, and Sherif's Robbers Cave Experiment. Note: this was recorded a few days before Dr. Zimbardo passed. He was truly a titan of our field and will be sorely missed. Links: Dr. Zimbardo's Heroic Imagination project At the center of 'Veneer Theory': Are people fundamentally good or evil? Jane Eliott's brown-eyed/ blue-eyed study on racism Muzafer Sherif's Robbers Cave Experiment A Painful Reminder #Zimbardo

Some podcast apps may not display links from our show notes (see below) properly, so we have included a list of links at the end of this description. * The Zapatista movement emerging from Chiapas, Mexico over the past three decades has impacted people all over the world who struggle to liberate themselves from colonial capitalism and Cis-Heteropatiarchy. * Between 2012 and 2019, several delegations of CIIS students, staff, and faculty traveled to Chiapas. There they attended various educational encounters that compose part of what CIIS faculty Charlotte María Sáenz calls “Zapatista Seed Pedagogics,” a way to describe the mutual education between Zapatistas and those outside their autonomous territory. * In this episode Charlotte is joined by fellow CIIS faculty member Zara Zimbardo for a conversation exploring the ways the Zapatista movement bridges different worldviews, politics, and geographies to collectively revision and remake “a world in which many worlds fit,” an oft-repeated Zapatista slogan. * This episode was recorded during a live online event on November 11th, 2023. You can also watch it on the CIIS Public Programs YouTube channel. A transcript is available at ciispod.com. To find out more about CIIS and public programs like this one, visit our website ciis.edu and connect with us on social media @ciispubprograms. * We hope that each episode of our podcast provides opportunities for growth, and that our listeners will use them as a starting point for further introspection. Many of the topics discussed on our podcast have the potential to bring up feelings and emotional responses. If you or someone you know is in need of mental health care and support, here are some resources to find immediate help and future healing: * -Visit 988lifeline.org or text, call, or chat with The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline by dialing 988 from anywhere in the U.S. to be connected immediately with a trained counselor. Please note that 988 staff are required to take all action necessary to secure the safety of a caller and initiate emergency response with or without the caller's consent if they are unwilling or unable to take action on their own behalf. * -Visit thrivelifeline.org or text “THRIVE” to begin a conversation with a THRIVE Lifeline crisis responder 24/7/365, from anywhere: +1.313.662.8209. This confidential text line is available for individuals 18+ and is staffed by people in STEMM with marginalized identities. * -Visit translifeline.org or call (877) 565-8860 in the U.S. or (877) 330-6366 in Canada to learn more and contact Trans Lifeline, who provides trans peer support divested from police. * -Visit ciis.edu/ciis-in-the-world/counseling-clinics to learn more and schedule counseling sessions at one of our centers. * -Find information about additional global helplines at befrienders.org. * LINKS * Podcast Transcripts: https://www.ciispod.com/ * California Institute of Integral Studies (CIIS) Website: https://www.ciis.edu/ * CIIS Public Programs YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ciispublicprograms * CIIS Public Programs Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ciispubprograms/ * Mental Health Care and Support Resources: https://988lifeline.org/ https://thrivelifeline.org/ https://translifeline.org/ https://www.ciis.edu/ciis-in-the-world/counseling-clinics https://befrienders.org/

Genevieve Everell nous parle de sa nouvelle passion qui lui donne des ailes, Rémi-Pierre Paquin parle des expériences psychologiques qui ont mal viré et Ève Côté parle de camping ! BONNE ÉCOUTE !

In 1971, Philip Zimbardo recruited participants to take on the roles of “prisoners” and “guards” to investigate the psychological effects of perceived power; Zimbardo's primary reason for conducting the experiment was to focus on the power of roles, rules, symbols, group identity and situational validation of behavior that generally would repulse ordinary individuals. But the experiment had to be terminated over a week earlier than expected due to how the participants began to act. Today, the findings of Zimbardo are debated, as is the methodology and ethical considerations of the actual experiment. Click here to join our Patreon.  Connect with us on Instagram and join our Facebook group.  To submit listener stories or case suggestions, and to see all sources for this episode: https://www.inhumanpodcast.com/

Władza opiera się nie na tym, co napisane, lecz na tym, w co wierzą ludzie. Przekonają się o tym siedemnastowieczni żeglarze podróżujący statkiem „Dżakarta” do Indii. Niektórzy podróżujący są wierni Holenderskiej Kompanii Wschodnioindyjskiej, inni realizują osobiste cele, a jeszcze inni jedynie uciekają od dotychczasowego życia. Napięcia między oficerami i marynarzami mogą doprowadzić do krwawego buntu. Co wyróżnia materialną stronę pierwszego tomu komiksu „1629 albo przerażająca historia rozbitków z Dżakarty”? Dlaczego Xavier Dorison we wstępie wspomina eksperyment więzienny Zimbardo? Czy „1629” to opowieść tylko dla fanów historii i marynistyki? Czego o kupieckich wyprawach uczy nas ten komiks? Który z nas rozważa inwestowanie w „Wielkie bitwy morskie” od Scream Comics? Jaki poziom reprezentują ilustracje Thimothéego Montaigne'a? Czy po „bezczelnym” finale czekamy na drugi tom? Posłuchajcie.

Behavioral health is certainly within the bounds of medicine and, thereby, medical history. The Stanford Prison Experiment asked the question of whether the environment of prison compelled bad behavior from those within the system. In order to study this, this 1970's university psychology experiment went to extreme lengths to turn its research subjects (students) into faux prisoners and prison guards in the basement of the department's building. It might not surprise you to find out that it did not go well. Ethics in research are indeed important, as you'll appreciate after listening to this one.References:Wikipedia Page on the Stanford Prison Experiment: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanford_prison_experimentPDF of original publication of the Stanford Prison Experiment: http://pdf.prisonexp.org/ijcp1973.pdfPsychology Today interview with Philip Zimbardo: https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/articles/200009/emperor-the-edgeWikipedia Page on Philip Zimbardo: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philip_ZimbardoIncarceration Rates Reference: https://www.prisonpolicy.org/global/2021.html?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiAiP2tBhBXEiwACslfnvW5miAa1VS0WqISsYuBYwIY52hMWPMlcVUG3Kbs_xNgzE4pG2DAuxoC6gMQAvD_BwEFor further reading: The Milgram Experiment Wikipedia page: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Milgram_experiment“The Stanford Prison Experiment” website: https://www.prisonexp.org/New Yorker Magazine Column, ‘The Real Lessons of The Stanford Prison Experiment': https://www.newyorker.com/science/maria-konnikova/the-real-lesson-of-the-stanford-prison-experimentOne of many bootlegs on YouTube of a BBC documentary on the experiment containing actual video footage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4txhN13y6AHawthorne Effect, wikipedia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hawthorne_effectPDF of October 1971 Congressional Testimony by Zimbardo: http://pdf.prisonexp.org/congress.pdfPreprint of Haslam's Article, “Identity Leadership in the Stanford Prison Experiment”, in press in American Psychologist: https://osf.io/preprints/psyarxiv/b7crx to avoid paywall, noted on PubMed here: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31380665/#medicalhistory #medicine #history #podcast ----- Patreon Page (support the show) -----Submit a Question for Mike's Trivia Challenge Segment (website form with instructions)-----Podcast Linktree (social media links / reviews / ratings)-----DrMaxwell_MKE (gaming on Twitch.tv) - Dr. Max's side project playing retro games and a few modern games on Tuesdays and Thursdays (8pm CST). Stop by, hang out, chat about medicine or any other things.

Unravel the complexities of human behavior, dissecting cultural, social, and psychological influences. Dive into renowned studies like Asch's Conformity and Zimbardo's Stanford Prison Experiment, exploring the impact of environment, personality traits, and societal norms on decision-making. Discover the nuanced interplay between agency, social pressures, and observational learning, shedding light on the intricate fabric of human actions and motivations.

Nghe trọn sách nói Hiệu Ứng Lucifer - Tập 2 trên ứng dụng Fonos: https://fonos.link/PodcastFonos--Về Fonos:Fonos là Ứng dụng âm thanh số - Với hơn 13.000 nội dung gồm Sách nói có bản quyền, Podcast, Ebook, Tóm tắt sách, Thiền định, Truyện ngủ, Nhạc chủ đề, Truyện thiếu nhi. Bạn có thể nghe miễn phí chương 1 của tất cả sách nói trên Fonos. Tải app để trải nghiệm ngay!--Phần tiếp theo của tập 2 viết về thí nghiệm nhà tù Stanford kể lại chi tiết nghiên cứu về sự biến đổi của các sinh viên đại học khi họ được phân công ngẫu nhiên đóng vai tù nhân hoặc cai ngục trong một nhà tù giả. Chúng ta cũng sẽ vượt ra ngoài môi trường thí nghiệm để tìm hiểu về hiệu ứng Lucifer trong thực tế, đặc biệt là câu chuyện về những vụ ngược đãi và tra tấn khủng khiếp các tù nhân tại nhà ngục Abu Ghraib, Iraq, từ đó đưa ra kết luận về nguyên nhân dẫn đến hành vi tàn bạo ở những con người bình thường.Hành trình khắc nghiệt đào sâu đến tận cùng bóng tối sẽ kết thúc trong chương cuối cùng. Khi đó, ta tìm hiểu một số thông tin tích cực về bản chất con người, về những gì mà mỗi cá nhân có thể làm để đương đầu với sức mạnh của hoàn cảnh và hệ thống. Trong tất cả những nghiên cứu và các ví dụ thực tế, luôn có một số cá nhân phản kháng và không chịu khuất phục trước cám dỗ. Thứ giúp họ thoát khỏi cái ác không phải là bản tính thiện lành bẩm sinh, mà do hiểu biết của họ (dẫu còn khá bản năng) về các chiến thuật phản kháng về mặt tinh thần và xã hội. Cuốn sách cung cấp một số chiến thuật có thể giúp mọi người chống lại những ảnh hưởng xã hội không mong muốn, dựa trên sự kết hợp giữa kinh nghiệm của tác giả cùng các cộng sự trong chuyên ngành tâm lý xã hội.Trái ngược với “sự tầm thường của cái ác” - lý thuyết cho rằng những người bình thường đều có thể suy đồi và trở nên tàn ác, tác giả Zimbardo đặt ra thuật ngữ “sự tầm thường của chủ nghĩa anh hùng” để nói rằng mỗi chúng ta đều có thể trở thành anh hùng. Ông kêu gọi đề cao những phần tốt đẹp nhất trong bản chất con người, vượt lên trên những áp lực mạnh mẽ của hoàn cảnh và hệ thống như một lời khẳng định rằng, phẩm giá con người đủ khả năng để chống lại cái ác.--Tìm hiểu thêm về Fonos: https://fonos.vn/Theo dõi Facebook Fonos: https://www.facebook.com/fonosvietnam/

Právě kvůli dvěma válkám a bestiálním krutostem páchaným na obyvatelích Ukrajiny, Izraele a Gazy jsem si vzpomněl na více než 50 let starý tzv. vězeňský experiment. Vymyslel ho americký profesor psychologie z prestižní Standfordské univerzity Philip Zimbardo. Všechny díly podcastu Názory a argumenty můžete pohodlně poslouchat v mobilní aplikaci mujRozhlas pro Android a iOS nebo na webu mujRozhlas.cz.

Chapter 1 Understand the idea behind The Lucifer Effect"The Lucifer Effect" is a book authored by Philip Zimbardo, a renowned psychologist and professor emeritus at Stanford University. Published in 2007, the book delves into the psychological dynamics that lead to the transformation of ordinary individuals into perpetrators of evil acts. Zimbardo draws on his famous Stanford Prison Experiment, where he simulated a prison environment to study the effects of power on individuals, to explain how situational and systemic factors can affect human behavior."The Lucifer Effect" explores the question of how good people can be led to do bad things, and it examines the role of social influences, deindividuation, conformity, obedience, and other psychological processes that contribute to such behavior. Zimbardo also analyzes various historical events and case studies, such as the Abu Ghraib prison abuses, to highlight the dangers of situational power and how it can corrupt individuals.Overall, "The Lucifer Effect" attempts to shed light on the potential for human beings to engage in evil actions when placed in certain contexts and how understanding these dynamics is vital for prevention, intervention, and the promotion of ethical behavior.Chapter 2 Is The Lucifer Effect Worth the Hype?Many readers consider "The Lucifer Effect" by Philip Zimbardo to be a thought-provoking and impactful book. It delves into the psychology of evil, using Zimbardo's famous Stanford Prison Experiment as a case study. The book explores how seemingly ordinary individuals can be influenced by situational factors to commit acts of cruelty and violence. Zimbardo's writing style effectively combines academic research with personal anecdotes, making the book engaging and accessible. However, some critics argue that the book oversimplifies complex issues and places excessive emphasis on individual disposition. Overall, "The Lucifer Effect" is widely regarded as a valuable and insightful exploration of human behavior under extreme circumstances.Chapter 3 Overview of The Lucifer EffectThe Lucifer Effect by Philip Zimbardo is a book that explores the psychology of "evil" behavior by examining the infamous Stanford Prison Experiment and other instances of dehumanization and destructive behavior.The book begins with an introduction to the Stanford Prison Experiment, a study conducted by Zimbardo in 1971 that aimed to explore the psychological effects of perceived power and authority on individuals. In the experiment, college students were randomly assigned to either the role of prisoner or guard in a simulated prison environment. However, the experiment quickly spiraled out of control as the guards began exhibiting abusive and sadistic behavior towards the prisoners, leading Zimbardo to prematurely end the study after only six days. Zimbardo uses the findings from this experiment and subsequent research to shed light on the underlying psychological processes that contribute to oppressive behavior and the abuse of power.Zimbardo then delves into a discussion of situational and dispositional factors that influence human behavior. He argues that under specific conditions, even the most moral and well-intentioned individuals can engage in acts of cruelty and violence. The book examines historical events and case studies, such as the abuse at Abu Ghraib prison in Iraq and the atrocities committed by soldiers in the My Lai Massacre during the Vietnam War, to illustrate the power of situational influences in shaping behavior.The concept of "deindividuation" is also explored in The Lucifer Effect. Deindividuation refers to the...

Selon la Bible, Lucifer était l'ange préféré de Dieu. Mais un jour, il s'est rebellé contre lui. Déchu du Paradis, il est devenu le maître de l'enfer. Le psychologue Philip Zimbardo s'est inspiré de ce mythe pour nommer l'Effet Lucifer, auquel il a consacré sa vie. C'est un processus de transformation selon lequel une personne a priori considérée normale, intégrée socialement voire gentille, sans traumatisme ou trouble mental, peut commettre des actes atroces. Pour étudier le phénomène, Zimbardo a mené l'une des expériences les plus connues de la psychologie à ce jour : l'expérience de Stanford. Elle continue de susciter la fascination aujourd'hui et est encore citée comme exemple dans les tribunaux du monde entier. En quoi consiste-t-elle ? Comment Zimbardo explique-t-il cela ? Écoutez la suite de cet épisode de "Maintenant vous savez". Un podcast Bababam Originals, écrit et réalisé par Antonella Francini.  À écouter aussi : Peut-on vraiment se faire hypnotiser ? Faut-il payer pour trouver l'amour aujourd'hui ? Pourquoi change-t-on encore d'heure ? Retrouvez tous les épisodes de "Maintenant vous savez". Date de première diffusion : 29 novembre 2022 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's perhaps the most famous psychological study ever but what does it really tell us? And what might it tell us about cults? In the 1970s Professor Philip Zimbardo created a simulated prison in the basement of a college building, separating volunteer students into the roles of prisoners and guards to observe their behaviour. What happened next is disturbing, and led to a view that when it comes to behaviour, more important than the individual's ethics and morality, it's the situation that really matters. In addition to the obvious ethical issues raised by the study there have fairly recently been challenges to its claims and the scientific methodology. Stephen and Celine go deep into what it really tells us and it's not what was claimed. Zimbardo article about cults https://www.lucifereffect.com/guide_cults.htm Recording of instructions to "prison guards" https://purl.stanford.edu/wn708sg0050 Video recordings  https://exhibits.stanford.edu/spe/browse/video-recordings British Psychological Society article https://www.bps.org.uk/psychologist/time-change-story Share this podcast with a friend https://pod.link/1540824671 To reach out to us: https://www.culthackers.com/ To become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/culthackers/posts Witness Underground Kickstarter: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/witnessunderground/431102735?ref=akkj92&token=3e50ed5a  

In this episode we briefly introduce the social psychology perspective of parental alienation. Spinning of the work of Dr. Zimbardo, a social psychologist who examine the evil doings of some ordinary people, we explored the notion that parental alienation can go beyond just the individual.  Please visit www.naopas.com or www.drbobevans.com for more information on parental alienation and Dr. Evans.

¿Qué pasaría si abandonas un automóvil en un barrio de alta criminalidad? ¿Qué pasas si abandonas el mismo vehículo en un barrio de altos ingresos? En este capítulo, Andrés Kalawski y Paula Molina cuentan la historia del controvertido experimento que inspiró políticas de seguridad en New York y el aumento de los abusos policiales.

THE TIPPING POINT: HOW LITTLE THINGS CAN MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE by Malcolm Gladwell The tipping point is the catalyst for any epidemic. Gladwell explains the science behind word of mouth & Paul Revere's successful journey; the power of context & the Zimbardo experiment; and the stickiness factor & Sesame Street's successful curation. Ultimately, the Tipping Point preemptively foretold why Social Media Influencers would be successful & necessary for  the corporate ecosystem. All Episodes currently streaming on most podcast platforms.   Want to stay in touch? IG: @A.IdlePodcast Gmail: A.IdlePodcast@gmail.com   Thank you!

In 1971, Dr. Phil Zimbardo, a new professor at Stanford University, decided to do an experimental two-week study in which he put good people in bad places. This (now) infamous study is known globally as The Stanford Prison Project. “[We] walked them down to the basement where the prison was, and then stripped them naked and took off the blindfold. The first thing they see is themselves, we had a big mirror for this reason, and they see themselves standing helpless and naked. And [the ‘guards'] say: Welcome to Stanford Prison.” Volunteer students were assigned the role of either prisoner or guard - a role about which they knew nothing. The experiment didn't last the two weeks; Phil ended it after just six days when five of the prisoners had broken down. In this episode of Into The Magic Shop, Phil explains why this first-of-its-kind experiment was so insightful in revealing how easily intelligent participants can change their perception and mentality simply as a result of the social situation they're in. To find out more, download and listen to this latest episode.On today's podcast: The Stanford Prison Experiment Why one negative event can change your perception of a person forever What we can all learn about compassion from Ted Lasso

Every single one of us has the ability to be a hero every day, says extraordinary psychologist and Professor Emeritus at Stanford University, Dr. Phil Zimbardo, who is most well known for what's been described as the Stanford Prison Experiment.More recently, Phil has founded a nonprofit - The Heroic Imagination Project, where he works tirelessly to promote compassion in the world. “Simply put, a hero is someone who comes to the aid of someone else in need. It could be by giving money, but typically it's helping somebody who's been in an accident, or who has some sudden medical problem that needs to be taken to the hospital.”In part one of this episode of Into The Magic Shop, Phil talks about his extraordinary career, the work that he continues to do, and the reality that within all of us is the ability to be kind and compassionate, not only towards ourselves but others as well, and how each of us has the ability to live a more compassionate life. To find out more, download and listen today. On today's podcast: What the Heroic Imagination Project does Why we get struck by the bystander effect Why egocentrism is the enemy of socio-centrism The results of the Good Samaritan Study

Episode 296 - Dr. Gilbert @ the BSE Conference, Vancouver, WA - August 2022 Presentation @ the  "Biblical Sexual Ethics & Integrity Conference for Parents"  Vancouver, WA August 2022   Episode 296's video link: https://youtu.be/LtE7gsZ0UAU       Welcome to HealingLives with Corey Gilbert, a podcast sponsored by the healing live center, discover how to love and lead your family well and biblically God created sex marriage and the family for our stewardship growth and benefit my heart and passion is to teach, train, educate and disciple christians that want strong marriages and families. The HealingLives Center has been serving Christians since the year 2000. Its mission is to be a center for sex, trauma and marriage education and transformation, where we offer counseling, coaching courses and speaking services to you, your church or ministry check us out at HealingLives.com. I had the honor of this past year to present at a conference entitled the Biblical sexual Ethics and integrity Conference for parents. The subtitle was inspiring and equipping parents to wrestle with and live out a biblical sexual ethic model, sexual integrity and grow the parent child connection by a host of the conference was Julia Garrison. Um you'll see here in her in the beginning um and her links to her work is might make level paths dot org, there'll be links in the description. Um so here is my presentation, so some of you, um most of you wouldn't know this actually not some, most of you would not know this uh that this conference was actually gonna be last spring. Um I was gearing up for it uh and the name of that conference again, I love long titles, I don't just the name of that conference was going to be going beyond the sex talk, how to disciple your child sexuality. Okay, A mouthful, right? But that was the whole thing, right? It was like, it was catchy, I had sex in it. Okay. Yeah, so that was gonna be the title. I had all graphics done, I was about to launch it and um, a week before launching and promoting uh, schedules changed and it was put on pause now, like any of you, you might think does God not want me to do this? That was one of the things that went through my mind, right, was like, okay, does this mean I shouldn't do it? Like, you know, you're kind of wrestling with that and in the middle of wrestling with that. Um, I decided I need to re look at this and one of the things that I was re looking at is I want a psychologist. I want, I want someone who's familiar with human and child development with human sexuality, who has, who has a different view or a different look on this, not just biblical, but also with the human development piece. Um I, I know there's a lot of stuff out there about the psychology field and it's been used in negative ways, but did you know the root word is soul care, right? Like it was something that was ours before it got changed. Okay, so it, it's a good thing. Um it can be a good thing, I should say it that way. I wanted someone who had strong biblical ethic and who had life experience. So not only the psychology background in the human development, but also the biblical ethic and the life experience. I wanted a professional who was well seasoned and working in the trenches of human suffering. That was really important to me and with parents, fears also really important to me, someone who got the context while knowing hope was alive. So I started asking around how many of you know that God's a provider. Soon after I caught wind of the name. Dr Cory Gilbert, a psychology professor at Corbin University. So I googled it and of course I'm scrolling his page and I see PhD in family psychology. I see over 22 years devoted to counseling individuals, couples and families struggling with past abuse, especially in the areas of trauma, adultery, struggles with sex, sexuality and gender identity. If my mouth wasn't open at this point, I was like, oh I see published books, workbooks uh specifically on teaching parents went right to amazon ordered it. It's out there um about biblical sexual ethics and being uh spiritual authorities in their home. He's even the founder of the healing live center, which is focused on sex trauma and marriage education and training. Then this is a big dramatic pause. Then I see his newest book and take a guess of what it's called, going beyond the talk, a teen and preteen guide. So I'm all fired up at this point. Um and so after I dug a bit deeper, listened to some things, I was like, this is this is the guy. So I reached out and eagerly waited his response. Uh, he wrote back in capital letters. Absolutely. So ladies and gentlemen, please welcome an answer to my prayer and a devoted and godly expert in the area of biblical sexual ethics. Dr Cory Gilbert set the bar high right there. Okay, I am so honored to be here. Um, this is, this is what I love to do, which is also sounds weird. Um some of my favorite counseling is actually with abuse and trauma and adultery. Why? Because God's the Redeemer and it's all about that. Why would I teach classes at Corbin about trauma and human sexuality? When I know when I get to certain topics, I'm gonna lose half the class because it hits them in their heart because God's there restore, there's a reason for it. Without it. I would, I would go be a truck driver or something. It's always been my backup job. It's not, it's not logical actually to even talk about this stuff yet. As I, as I left college and actually rewind there, I went to college to be in music, but I found out you have to have talent. That was a hard one. My junior year. They sat me down and said, you're not graduating, you're not good enough. I cried, they cried, it was a moment. Um and I had to switch my major and I was like, I'm not gonna major in spanish. I grew up in south America, not gonna major in my dojo mech. Actually, that was my, I might do that one, so art, I love art, love and stuff like that. And so then I just decided to try this christian counseling class, one class changed my whole life, my heart and desire is ministry, my heart's desire is to serve. And I never realized that I would be doing that um that I'll be switching from this passion of music into counseling into these in the areas that were to come. I'm glad, doesn't, God doesn't give us a preview, God glad that God kind of goes, you know what, I'm gonna give you this little piece because you're not gonna unnecessary like what's around the corner and we'll get to that in a little bit. But um today, as we kind of go through this definitely as Julia said, pay attention to yourself because some of this is, can be difficult, but today, what I really want to focus on is scripture, the foundation. Why are in the world are we talking about this? What do we stand on? Um the QR code here, it's here and it's also throughout the slides, just so you can grab it if you need it, but it will have the handouts and the videos and all this stuff on that page after in a few weeks in a few days. Um just so you can grab it later. But um this is what we talked about. We get to talk about sex, it's supposed to be redemptive and I bet you half or more of us, it's not necessarily how it feels inside your hearts, especially in your experiences, young people, glad you're here. We need to be able to talk about this in a way that's redemptive. There's a lot of um stuff inside of us that's actually messed up and twisted that we need to actually reexamine think through um really, really important. This is a quote that I heard from Preston Sprinkle and just really hit me said people of faith who are navigating gender identity issues. Are our people not careful, we're talking about them. No, you and I are struggling. Every single one of us is actually wrestling with something. It just may not be that piece. We're all questioning things about who God is and why he did this or why he did that. And especially after the last few years we went through, there's so many questions we have but I love that statement. They are our people. So hold on to that as we kinda walk through some stuff that's not gonna necessarily feel good. Always. This is where I'm from Temuco Chile Chile. No um I grew up in Chile grew up in the Chilean school system, the private schools missionary family missionary kid. Um so I came to America at 17 years old. I'm not liking this country because my grandmother had died right before he came to visit not knowing the culture. I mean your culture in chile was all I knew even though when I looked in the mirror I realized oh wait I'm not like them. Um but until I looked in the mirror I didn't, I wasn't treated different white redhead with a very different culture is beautiful actually, that's what I knew and I actually being someone who kind of stood out when I moved to the United States, I didn't realize that I was actually trying to stand out And didn't know why I was doing that. This is what I looked like in 92 and 93. Um mullets are awesome and I was on a mission trip to Dominican republic and a missionary there, she said cory you're doing everything you can to stand out because you grew up your whole life standing out and now you're nobody and I was like oh shoot called it and I had to kind of re examine myself but everything I liked with pink and purple and girly and I mean I crochet and I cross stitch and I do art and I um music major not realizing that in all of that. There's also certain assumptions that I just was clueless about because of cultural things, not realizing what friends were saying about me when I was actually after seminary, even I was getting new glasses and I put a purple tint to the, to the lens. It was kinda cool not realizing what I was saying, what people were interpreting from that were for a couple years later, some friends were like, yeah, we thought you were gay but really didn't say anything. I never really had girlfriends and um, so what does that mean? Well what's sad is we're constantly sending messages. Everything. We do everything, we say how we dress, everything sends a message. Even if we aren't quite clued into what that means. Um, this was me. This is me now. It's funny cause I actually, I motorcycles became a piece for me to leave where I was before. Um, I grabbed onto a pride for the wrong reason. Even I didn't want to be known as that person. And so I grabbed onto this identity. I, well the first part was I moved to America and all of a sudden there's no public transportation so I need my freedom. Got a job at Mcdonald's. So I'm making 4 25 an hour and I'm rolling in the dough. So I need freedom. And so I bought a motorcycle and that became me. Well that's just the beginning of that where it's like, that's not necessarily who I am, There's so many layers, but the world then was so different and as laura talked about last night if I were born today and being a teenager today, I worry where I would be today because of the pressures from our culture and the questions being asked by our teams that should not be being asked, which we'll talk about today. Um I had better pipes on that one. So yeah, I laugh when I'm next to a Tesla because I make them rattle a little as I go by. But um, so there's parts of me that came out that I didn't know exist and here's the coolest thing. I'm this kind of more girly girl inside and I meet this amazing woman And I have the best day of my life when I married my, my bride Kelly 19 years ago and she is such a guy inside Legal field, like analytical, her version of counseling is a two x four across the head get over it, I'm like, that's why you do your thing and I'll do my thing. Like, um and I meet this woman who I still can't believe I've been online by the way, equally yoked dot com. 10 months later we were married, I was walking with a cane at the time and doctors said I would never have a job and I would never work, I have Crohn's and I was just dying inside my body was um decaying. I was on high doses of predniSONE and other stuff and I was a mess. What's interesting is when we got married um in those 10 months, I've been in the hospital three times and my wife and her mom had talked about in marrying him. You will probably take care of him the rest of your life. Are you willing to do that? She's been a stay at home mom in the last 14 years to our kids and home schools, our kids. Well I work 2-4 jobs because God is awesome. That story didn't play out. We actually through lots of stress and struggle as a couple found other answers and got help outside of medicine and I've learned to take care of myself and I ride a Harley and I go backpacking and I go snowboarding and I do stuff I never thought I could do because God is incredible. And every time I even get on my bike, it's just from reminder of I'm not in a wheelchair. We spent our first year of marriage with a handicapped sticker and shopping for one of those motorized carts because that's what we thought we were kind of into. And um God is a redeemer. Does he always, does he fix everything? No, I actually, my own stuff started flaring up two weeks ago, Why? We started back meetings at Corbin and getting ready for school year as the stress goes up. Things go downhill every time about november, it gets worse and then depression sets in when my college students leave me in december and it hits me again in May. Um I'm human, but I'm gonna actually fight what happens with these three guys. I also couldn't have kids is what we thought too. And I married someone who was like, I don't know if I really want kids, but it's okay if we have kids. And so when she found out she was pregnant the first time, she was kind of mad because she had already given her heart kind of gone, no, we're not gonna open that door. And um so it's just kind of neat to have, I call my experiments. They would normally be here with me right now. But um my my wife's grandfather just passed away. So they're dealing with all that. But um these guys make me who I am, I only wanted daughters by the way. And so then we found out we were having a son and I cried and I was depressed for two weeks. I don't know what to do with a boy. And then we found out we're having a second sun, God, what are you doing to me? And then I had my little girl who's just my doll. I love her to death. If she had been born first, I would be a horrible dad because she would have me wrapped around her finger and she does not have me wrapped on her finger and I look at that and realized that even some of those things of who I was and who God gave me his two sons. it forced me into things that I never would have actually honestly tried and to see how Moldable and shape a ball we are that um all my shirts say Harley on them mainly because my wife was like stop complaining about the prices on at the store because they're crazy and they're all from Ebay, but it was a change from my previous clothing, if you will. Why? Because I loved her and realize that it's so funny how easy some of these decisions are to change, but why don't we? Because we dig our heels in and we actually kind of claim some identity if you will and if we're not careful, it's one that's actually us at the center which we're gonna talk about. So the topic or the more pictures you, my kids, yes, loved doing adventures with them. Um what I want to do today is this, I'm gonna walk through this. Um these are the old slides actually, Oops, okay, we'll do this anyway, create order disorder. This is the model of kind of how I'm thinking about this and we're gonna look at a lot of scripture. I'm a college professor. So, good luck keeping up again. The slides will be online. But um, we're gonna look at this kind of 33 pieces, so create order disorder and then who you are, how does this fit in with you um which is really, really, really important. So the first passage of scripture and we're looking at a created order. We're gonna go back to genesis Genesis 1 27. So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them male and female. He created them. This is the foundation. We start with that God created us male and female. And there is no other alternatives to that. That's how we're made. And we're gonna look again further at that. But there's another cool thing about the order of this. He created man. But there's something that some of us do. It's called work. But if we're not careful, we put it in the wrong order. Work did not come after the fall, work came before the fall. The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and take care of it. Remember that that actually you are meant to work. I look at this word retirement and I laugh. It's one thing to retire from a job to start something new or to go invest in something different. But how many quit living? They lose themselves or they watch jeopardy reruns I guess. I don't know. Um They lose themselves, you were called to something greater than just punching a clock in death and taxes to work. Work. Work beautiful thing. So put it in the right order. But then God even did something more incredible than creating man. He actually created this incredible person called woman. The Lord um Lord God said it is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him. The model of even marriage that we're gonna get to later starts right here and society right now basically has been saying and emphasizing even marriage is just a societal contract, it's a societal construct. It's like look at the bible, go look at the bible, no, it's not, it's from design prior to even the fall, we haven't gotten gotten to that yet. So the man gave names to all the livestock. Can you imagine that? I think about what God did to Adam, He goes, I'm gonna have you try to figure out if any of these are like you in my mind, I picture this taking days and maybe weeks if not years of Adam every day going, nope, not like me, nope, not like me, God, I'm in perfect communion with you and I still have a void, this is pre fall, remember that? How incredible I feel like it was God kind of emphasizing I'm gonna make someone that's gonna be so incredible, that's gonna be a helpmate and fit with you in a way that is gonna blow your mind. Adam found no suitable helper helper. Um and then he created marriage. The man said this has been a bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh and she shall be called, wow man, she was taken out of man, This is the design, this is the start, this is the foundation, this is why a man will leave his father and mother and he has united to his wife and they become one flesh still in the pre fall. The design is beautiful what the created order is beautiful and we have to say it two sexually different people. A marriage between two men and a marriage between two women is not a marriage, I don't care what you do. Society wise you can have contracts but nothing is sealed in heaven and nothing is sealed on earth. A wedding, a same sex wedding by the way is an expensive party. Think of it that way changes kind of how you feel about it because nothing is sealed in heaven, nothing is hell on earth and someone who comes to christ and there they find themselves in that space, do I leave my husband or leave my wife, they're not your husband or wife. We have to honor God and are now now the messy part gets kids that's another and it's sad to say I hear it all the time and counseling how many all my kids are resilient. Yeah, they actually kinda are but they're still gonna be harmed by your decisions actually. Even your decisions to move across town to switch schools to leave that church and go somewhere else. Our decisions actually do cause damage and or character maybe but it's life and it's part of us teaching our Children how to handle that. And so sometimes the delusion of our kids are resilient. They'll be fine. No, they're gonna be hurt, they're gonna be harmed. So lean into that and love them and expect that all of our decisions do. Adam and his wife were both naked and they felt no shame. Do you know what that's like? I would like to say that we actually don't know what that's like. We feel shame even now we feel shame. We don't, we can't even comprehend prior to the fall what that feels like to have actually have no shame. And then God didn't stop there. He brought them together. They felt no shame. And then now enters the picture of Children procreation Proverbs 17 6 children's Children are a crowned the aged and parents are the pride of their Children. It's sad to me to think of how we even think about Children nowadays. They're a nuisance. They're, they're a problem. They're, they're a little messy and dirty and loud and actually, no, you were called to be parents in the sense of how we're designed, it doesn't mean we all get to be, there's trends right now and some couples who they come together and they want kids and then they found out one of them can't. And so they divorce because, well you deserve to have Children? No, you do not. I deserve hell actually. And so what do I do with that? How do I lean into my spouse now that we've discovered that we can't have Children And yes, there might be other ways we can try if you can afford some of that. But we lean into that new us just like you can't, you can't, there's no guarantee when you get married that that person is gonna be healthier a year later or two years later, Laura laura story that beautiful song blessings her husband ends up in a brain is a brain tumor injury and wakes up. I don't even remember her accident. It's amazing to think about. We don't have any guarantee. I know part of what shaped me as a young boy was watching my mom have cancer and how my dad loved my mom. That was a young boy. We were living in Costa rica at the time. But then at 8 18, so 10 years later at 18 I watched my parents navigate through it again and watch. My dad loved my mom and shapes us. But also think about how many of us don't have that shaping from our family. We didn't get good examples of how to love how to surrender how to sacrifice. And so we really do learn how to be about ourselves. So what do we do here? We have this created order? Well, there's the disorder. Where does disorder come in? Well, it comes in with one word and it's sin senators the picture and it all goes downhill. We're in trouble. That's where we're at now. If you think of the things getting in the way that sin the places where we get stuck at Sin Genesis 3 6-7, then the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye and also desirable for gaining wisdom. She took some and ate it and noticed he was hanging out right next to her. She also gave some to her husband who by the way, was given the command and was given the instruction and he was silent. Um, and he ate it in the eyes of both of them were opened and they realized that they were naked and they went to Kmart sending her the picture and everything changed. There's an awareness they got what they wanted they see and they actually also now have to grieve, have to hurt that to face. But here's the word that I think comes into the picture at this point when Senators the picture, this next word is where you and I actually tend to struggle. It's actually blame 3 12. The man said the woman you put here with me, she gave me some fruit from the tree and I ate it dude punk right there And what are we doing now all the time. We want to find blame for everything. It's always someone else's fault that this that or the other happened. And it's actually no, I I own my reactions and I own who I am and I own how I handle all this, even the insanity of the last two years. But we want to blame. And what's so hard is there some stuff that has happened that we have very clear blame? Some of the processes that I walk young people through that when I worked at college and stuff, that age 20s is hard step where I actually looked through. So sexual abuse, I looked through what has happened to them when they were younger and I go, who was supposed to be your protector? Mom and dad. And I go, did they? No. So where should the shame be? This is scary. This is actually kind of scary shame on them for not protecting you. And I go, well hold on, don't stay there. You even land. If you stay there for even a few more minutes, you're gonna actually just spiral Why do I say that? Why? Because you're carrying a shame that you can't bear, that's actually not yours. And when I put it in the right place, I can enter the most beautiful place. And it's called forgiveness. But if I don't tell the truth, I can't forgive. And a lot of places I find people stuck is they haven't told the truth. They're still carrying a lie. And then fighting with a lie over and over and over and over for years. And when they tell the truth, they can go and I forgive and they feel very different towards even their their parent shame on the person that harmed me. Why not to get angry and get mad And and actually now seek vengeance is to then be free. I'm so tired of that controlling me and I can be free when I put truth capital t truth in place. But a lot of us are living and playing with and dancing around in our unconscious lots and lots of lies. We're trying to make sense of things we can't make sense of and trying to believe things that are not true. Now here's what happened with blame here in the garden at this point in time. Help the helper fail. Eve, here's how she failed to the woman. He said, I will make your your pains and childbearing very severe with painful labor. You will give birth to Children and your desire will be for your husband and he will rule over you the consequences of who she was supposed to be with her with her husband at the time. But this is a scary one. Leadership failed for Adam. He was meant to be someone who actually was leading his wife and he did not, he failed here to Adam he said because you listen to your wife and ate fruit from the tree which I commanded. You must not eat from it, cursed is the ground because of you through painful toil. You will eat food from it, holidays, your life. And if you think of the picture of this, it's one of your work is going to turn into something that can actually be somewhat of a burden. It's gonna be hard to be difficult. You're gonna be stressing, it's gonna be something that's different than the way I designed it to be which all of us can probably attest to what were we supposed to be? Adam was supposed to be that that partner with his wife and she was supposed to be a partner with her husband in design. Where do we find the working of this out Now for all of us in our marriage relationship, there's this back and forth and kind of pull of helper and leadership and what does this mean? Um questions I asked Premera couples all the time. I'm like, so what does it mean to be head of the house? And then I watched the husband or the boy, the guy who's getting married dig a grave. I'm supposed to make all the decisions. I was like, okay, I'm not sure where you got that one. Well from the church sometimes, but what does it mean to be the head of the house husbands? What does the require the the burden placed on you? It is you're gonna partner with this person who is so different than you has such a different way to see the world and you are responsible for her and your kids at judgment day. That's what it means. That should make you shake in your boots. It's not telling her what to do. It's not her obeying and you spouting off stuff. Absolutely not. You're partnering and what an incredible relationship when you actually really are linking arms and making decisions together and wrestling together and seeing things different but actually coming to agreements. That is not easy. That's what a lot of us counselors are spending a lot of time helping people do and it is so beautiful from this, these leadership and and helpmate fails. What comes what comes is this man will struggle with and return to the earth but The one We have pain and childbirth and struggle with man. Now again pause and look at society and look at marriages and look at families. This is exactly what's happening. There's a constant wrestling and struggling between who's gonna be in charge. Like what do we do some for some families as if mama ain't happy ain't nobody happy and we actually almost think that's a good term, a good phrase or a good thing and it's like no, this is unhealthy actually I would say it's downward unbiblical as a partner, their husbands that walk in the house and they don't even know what to do anymore because it's like this isn't their territory, it's hers and the kids and their they feel like an absolute outsider because of a lack of this, What was designed in marriage was broken through sin. And so we have a lot of working this out. So how do we apply this to us? What do you look about you? And I'm gonna I'm looking at this through the lens if you got the created order disorder and then then you there's a certain word I'm gonna get to in a little bit as to what it means for you and me when it comes to all of this mess was what it seems like. But also the beauty in the book I wrote. Um I can't say that for parents. There's this chapter I put in there that my wife was like you need to delete that chapter. That's just but it was the one on the neuroscience side. So all of the way that God made our chemistry and our neurobiology and hormones. And it's fascinating because it shows a perfect design of husband and wife male and female coming together and how we're meant to be by design. Yet for so many of us we just don't understand how that how they can think this way or how they can act this way or why are they so emotional or why are they so heartless or why are they so this or that and we gets lost. But yet again God's design is perfect and sin enters the picture, we lose each other. I had a client recently. He just said you know what When I'm gone to work, we should just expect when I come home that we're gonna have to get back on the same page because when I'm gone out during these, you know, 8 to 10 hours a day, of course we're not on the same page yet. The assumption was before were always supposed to be on the same page. It's like, so what needs to happen is you come home and there's a committee meeting, we get back on the same page every day. Yeah. What is the average that couples talk per week, anybody know? Yeah. It's just actually a handful of minutes per week. Sometimes I've seen some studies that say maybe an hour total a week kind of terrifying. Think of all the little exchanges. And it adds up to just a little bit of time and you're supposed to know me with that. No, you're not gonna know me. It's it takes intentionality. It takes investment. Yet we're so busy. So I want to kind of switch gears with this and look at it through the lens of gender and sexuality. Then so psalms 1 39 30 13 for you created my innermost being you knit me together in my mother's womb. There's a design from the beginning from the beginning of when you were conceived, we know that a baby in utero experiences the world, you adopt a child from this the day they're born and they have trauma based off what happened inside that mom in her life chemically and then also around her we know that that's not even a question. Yeah we still have questions about where life begins which I think is such an interesting, I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made, how many of us don't believe that through our actions, every one of us can actually probably list some things we don't like about ourselves and God's up there going, I made you, you're dissing me. I haven't talked to a woman in my office ever who hasn't had a list of what they don't like about themselves breaks my heart. That's not what it's about having the perfect body or having the perfect mind or having degrees or having status or having the perfect person on your arm isn't gonna make it. Remember this lady that I was a single lady that lived next to in Kansas, she was so excited she brought me down to the garage because she had the first ford um escape the only one in the state just so proud of this thing and I just laughed was like there'll be like 1000 of them in like two weeks but we do that plus it was a ford escape anyway. Like we get all excited about. I have, I've had Hondas and Yamaha's and Kawasaki's and different bikes and Finally finally finally sold sold the one I had and I got a Harley that one you saw and I remember after a few weeks I was kind of depressed because you realize it's just a stupid bike and I missed my Honda because it started this year and it was very humbling. It is, it doesn't matter what you get of stuff. It's amazing how many of us have vacations and then we have to have a vacation from the vacation after the vacation because it was so exhausting. American version of vacations is just whack to me. Just, you're so exhausted and you have to go back to work and you're worse off than you were before and in debt. Um, do I believe that I am fearfully wonderfully made my life and my actions will show that this is still that foundation of even who we are that were either living from or we are making my own path Colossians 3, 5 put to death therefore whatever belongs to your earthly nature, sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry and think about any of these lists here in in other passages, a list of these things and sometimes we look at it and we can, we just go right into one and we obsess, we don't see the other two or three that are pointing right at us and we need to deal with. Um, but they're also not exhaustive trying to call out something and say, hey, these are some of the things they need to think about to consider. We don't think this way put to death, we're in a place in our culture where it's, don't you tell me what to do first of all? But also, if I claim this is who I am, well, it's that word identity. This is who I am. This is not how God designed us to be. And we actually have losses there. Well, here's two of those areas, the actually idea of attraction and desires. I think we put these in the wrong place Galatians 519 when you follow the desires of your simple nature, the results are very clear. There's a list against sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures, idolatry, sorcery, hostility, quarreling jealousy, Alberts finger, selfish ambitions, dissension, division, envy, drunkenness, wild parties and other sins like these. This is what comes from this. Well, right now we have in our culture, attraction has become such a big deal. When I met my wife, I was not attracted to her at all. Why? Because in my mind, she didn't fit what I actually saw as attractive. What's really funny about that is I grew up in a different culture, even though I may look this way again, I was attracted to me was not a white redhead. Just to put it bluntly there. And what's funny is our kids are, there was actually bets when we had our first kids that's gonna be a redhead and he's a little blonde, but um, like that's not what was attracted to me. And I remember the day when I actually, it was like something came over me of, oh my gosh, this woman is amazing and it was so much bigger than just physical beauty. It's who she was, it was her character. It's what she stood for, what she believed in, her christ her God, all of who she was and how big of a deal that is attraction to me is that I'm gonna put it this way, it's bad data. Just to put it kind of in a weird way, but to stand out, it's bad data who you're attracted to great and it changes and it morphs and it it turns into all sorts of stuff. It actually has actually a short shelf life because then I get bored with you and I want something different. Same for your desires. Your desires are fickle, you're fickle. I'm fickle. Kind of scares me a little. How in the world do you last beyond a few years of marriage then? It's that's another whole question. I'm at 19 years of marriage and it's like we're just getting started. It's such a cool thing to see that now and go, wow, it's like we're just just getting going We're at that stage where Miley is 12, so we're like six years in six years, they're all gone and we'll move and like not even give them our address. Just kidding. Like what are they gonna do? Where are they gonna be? I don't know and just how excited us because the executive team, we get to actually decide where we go what we do even though that doesn't always work out that way. I have a sister who's in and out of living on the streets and doing stuff in texas and she's a mess because of choices doesn't always work out that we wanted to work out. It's scary. I remember my kids when they were eight or nine, I would tell them I hate that you have free will. You don't have free will. I hate that you actually have free will. You don't have free will. As in you can walk around the corner and do something that totally is against what we've taught you and that's on you. I will feel it and I will feel responsible for it. But that is on you. You go to a friend's house what you do all these things. The way that we handle our attraction and desires are critical because we want to fit in and we want to be cared, love, we want to be a part of something. It's actually scary what this looks like at times Galatians 5 22 with the Holy spirit produces this kind of this kind of fruit. This is the other side of that coin. Who are we supposed to be love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness faithfulness, gentleness and self control. There is no law against these things. This is who we're meant to be. Don't go look on facebook because everyone else is, everyone's yelling at someone or mad at something and it's probably a space that none of us should actually hang out by the way. Really, really careful with that. What am I attracted to? What are my desires? How much are those shaped by what I've done that I would that sin? How many marriages are impacted by pornography? Yet a lot of sex therapists, most sex therapists would encourage you to look at porn to spice up your sex life. No, no, no, no, no. When I went to my post doc work was in sex therapy, I went back to the Institute for Sexual Wholeness in Atlanta. The only place you can get this training from a biblical worldview, from a godly Godly men and women that that went and did some of the other gross training and we're protecting us from having to do that. I'm so thankful for them. Um, that one of the founders doug Rose and I just passed away a few months ago. I just love him, wrote the book celebration of sex, kind of one of the pioneer books in this area. Um kind of giving a biblical view of sexuality, Who you are is not your desires and who you are not your attractions. That's a really important thing for us to remember because if you're not careful even as a married man, it's easy to look around and be attracted? And the word I like to think about there is, and it's laughable. So what do we do instead? We play mind games and we're like, oh, they're not really attractive and we tell ourselves lies, thinking that's gonna protect us. When really what that actually does is I put it into the darkness and into secrecy. I started and we'll talk about this more this afternoon. But I started with my sons, even when I would see see someone see a girl that I know they noticed, I would point her out so that it moves moves out of their unconscious to the conscious and go, we'll talk about her later. And so then later when their car in the car, I'm like, okay, what's your story? You start talking through who she is and why she's a value and why when he, when my son looked and glanced, what did you do with it? Did you file it away for later or were you a man of integrity? These are conversations I was having with them when they were 5678, not teenagers. Now they're teenagers. Now to be blunt. I ask them every few weeks, So what are your masturbation practices? They don't, they're not honest with me anymore. They were before. Um, but we have the little dialogues that are incredible. Just them going, knowing I'm gonna ask this. They've got to kind of have a reckoning there, what does it do? It moves it out of their unconscious to the conscious and they have to take their thoughts captive. What kind of man are you gonna be? What kind of man are you gonna be? This is a constant. We talk about pornography in our house, almost every meal comes up somehow. I remember the day my daughter realized penis vagina, Like we're all sitting at the table, she's she's 11 at the time and her eyes just like got big and it's just like we all bust out laughing And she kind of put that together, why are we even talking about it since she was one and they'll catch on when they as they get older and as they put pieces together. No pun intended. Um and they they wrestle it out and they're either doing it internally or we are creating the environment for them to do it externally Galatians 5 24, those who belong to Christ Jesus have nailed the passions and desires of their simple nature to his cross and crucify them. There. I need to start there sometimes for some of us where do I need to actually what I need to die to what needs work versus what we tend to do, which is distract distract distract, go, go, go, go, go, go, go why we have a self centered bent. I believe that we are incapable of having relationships, Why you think you're right about everything you believe, just to put it simple, you wouldn't believe what you believe if you didn't think it was right? So the only way to be in a relationship is to find an absolute cookie cutter of yourself and then you get canceled out because when there's two of the same, they fade into oblivion. So what did God do? He designed marriage to be between a man and a woman and two very different people who have very different upbringings and different world views and different, which also means the more different you are in other areas, the more struggles you're gonna have and the more similarities, like I used to, I used to jokingly say I'm only gonna marry a southern baptist girl because I grew up southern baptist. Um and then it was funny when I met my wife through this dating service thing, it had under her name, methodist, and I'm like, I'm gonna marry a methodist, methodist, like jolly, she has challenged me and grown me in ways that God is so incredible why she sees the world different, her dad's a pastor and and being able to come into that with her and where was actually a lot of her own trauma was from southern baptist kids in school, telling her she's going to hell because she wasn't southern, like so then she married one, like, okay, so we've got some growing to do God is incredible and even those pieces of how he opens that door for us to come together. We have a self centered bent, which means we can't do relationships. So how do we do him? It's dying to self, it's learning to withhold being right to be in a relationship, which is really, really difficult, do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit rather in humility, value others above yourselves. We know these passages, but it's like we get lost in the day to day facebook fights and other craziness and we lose each other, we get really stressed out over money, we get stressed out over, you know, life and drama. When I work with couples, uh work with a lot of couples where kids are either transitioning or something's happening with their teens. The first thing I do is I look at the mom and dad and I'm like, how's your marriage? Because one of the first things that I see is on the chopping block is they're about to divorce because they don't handle it the same. How do you be a unified, even though you're not handling the same and I don't want you to expect the other person to be like you, that's not the goal, but how does your perspective add value to me? And how does mine add it to you and how do we work together? And yes, at times we have to come down to a decision that is gonna be difficult. I'm on the deacon board at our church, one of the most beautiful things that has been, I'm one of the young guys to the most beautiful things about the last 2.5 years. I don't speak almost ever in there. I listen and I learn, but to watch this group of men never leave a meeting without being unified. Has taught me so much, especially as we were wrestling, do we stay open and defy the governor's orders And us going to coming to 100% agreement. We are to be incarnation, we have to be in the body as a body of christ, I think of so many friends of mine and even family who have been lost because of a shutting down and because of other support groups shutting down and it was like if I go here I might die, what if I go here, I might die. And so which one do I do? And many are back in their addiction because they had the lack of support, we have to be incarnation all this is so beautiful to even now be um, be together now. One of the things that feeds into this bent nous is, we actually have language is a really important thing, how we talk about things how we understand. And I actually kind of like this the first time I saw this is the gingerbread person. Um, if you haven't seen it, it's quite fascinating how complicated we are honestly for me from years before, I'm like, I didn't see it as complicated. But as I kind of saw these parts parsed out, I'm like, actually I can see that that we have the identity and attraction and sex and expression. And there's even what I was actually sexually attracted to and also romantically attracted to these different parts actually helped me kind of wrestle with more layers, I guess you could say of myself. I like that at first at first gender identity. This one starts has started to worry me more than ever in the last few years. Actually, I heard a person finally say what I've been thinking for a while and afraid to say sometimes is what we've, what's happened with gender identity is basically, it's given permission for narcissism. It's back to that self centered thing. It's all about me versus God has a design that is perfect. And what do I do with that? How do I wrestle with that? Because it doesn't get rid of the actual wrestling. But if I don't have a foundation to stand on, I'm up to my own devices where I end up and I actually end up somewhere based off culture or based off friends or based off online chat forums are based off anything. But the biblical is why it is important gender expression. When I met my wife, I show up to our, it was our second date, second or third date and I'm wearing my purple suede coat. Love that coat and she's so embarrassed to be in public with me. I didn't know this at one point. She was like, are you hot? I'm like, I am, She's like, I'll be glad to carry your coat for you. I'm like, what a nice girl. And I never saw the coat again. She stuffed it in the bag and hit it. And I remember actually previous relationships where I was like this coat, I'm gonna die in this coat. I love this coat because that identity pieces like this is who I am not realizing. Kind of I was standing on something I didn't really want to stand on but also realizing, you know what? It's actually quite easy to change in our, in our history. What's happened is up until when gay marriage was voted in as legal. Everything. And all the conversations was born this way born this way born this way. Thanks lady gaga. That's what it was. Until two weeks after the vote. It was all about fluidity as we heard last night. It's only validity in one direction. But it's it's scary what we're giving to everyone to wrestle with. I wrestled with who I was. I wrestled with understanding why I wasn't like all the other guys and all that. I did wrestle with that. But I'm not asking questions like are being asked today. That's what this is actually opened up, which is scary, really, really scary, what's doing what it's doing. But it's also this piece here that sexually attracted to versus romantically attracted to? What does that mean? If I if I boil things down to the kind of base level, we have this sexual attraction and that we would eliminate all sorts of people because we're not sexually attracted them. We would have this pool of the kinds of things we're attracted to. And I say things on purpose because they're not people, we turn it into something very animalistic, even versus even romantically attracted to. There's a desire to get to know you their desire to have relationship. There's a desire to even nurture that there's something different there. What's funny for me is I am like this hopeless romantic and I married the most unromantic human being on the planet, man. It's hard to know how to love her. God's up there just laughing. And I do believe that, that he's just going, yeah, and the rest of your life, you get to learn to pursue her and whatever like you would naturally do isn't easy. It's kind of like the love languages. If you've seen the love language is the five love languages, it's interesting to see how many, which is most couples I've seen. You don't have the same ones or if they are the same. They're a different dialect, why it means you gotta work at it. My wife's bottom two at the very bottom or words of affirmation in touch. So what am I talked to, which means like if I put my arm around her at church, she's more like get off. But she puts her arm around me, I melt. But I also know that she consciously chose to do this, going, I know cory will like this, so I'm gonna put my arm around him. It was not an act of kind of out of the unconscious, it was a conscious choice when she complements me and she says something I know that it actually took effort and it was thought through. She's an internal processor. One thing that I missed about like today, normally she would be here with me and at the end of this I will go to her and she'd give me a list of what to fix next for next time. Um Like my power points are the wrong ones. And so I'm kind of going, whoa! Um but she's great at that. But what's the other side of that equation I have to receive. It doesn't always work when we were editing my book. So the first one I wrote, I hired a person that actually I would send stuff to them every week. And the number one rule is don't show any of it to your wife Because she'll shut you down tomorrow, which has happened in the past. So 70,000 words later, I hand it to her and she was like, oh my gosh, this is so bad. She's an english lit person. Everything was in passive voice just don't even know what that means. But in spanish everything is reversed the way that the order of it. So everything I wrote was sounds right to me. But she had literally we had to go sentence by sentence and and I remember at one point just having to go, okay any change he gives me, I just submit to because I'm dumb. It was so humbling and it was good for our marriage. Ironically some of the hard things too when I've been hospitalized were hard but they were good for our marriage. The times when we struggled with kids were hard but they were good for our marriage which is really really important. And how do you lean into growing as a couple now? What this has done with our with our culture, society conversations is you've probably seen these the L. G. B. T. Q. Q I A. Plus letters. It's created a mess when it comes to even what's going on culturally, L. G. B. Is actually fighting against T. Right now. I don't want to be a part of that. The experiments you're doing on Children are not okay. There's some that are saying that and hopefully more and more voices will come. It's interesting to think about that sexual identity is. And attractions are coming back to that word bad data, careful where we place these things because what we've done cultural is we've put those front and center as my identity and who I am and in that I lose actually who I am. The marriage is between two sexually different people period. And that's the design from the beginning and where are we at now? We're in the disordered space. We're in the sin space. What is every man or woman, boy or girl who's actually struggling with their gender identity or struggling with gender dysphoria or trying to figure themselves out if they want to be seen, they want to be known and they want to belong. What's really scary about that belonged one is there's now pushes in some schools being gay or lesbian is so old school and so outdated. It's all about trans. That is horrifying. Where is it gonna go next? What's gonna happen next? Now one of the tools that I use to think through and help someone think through where they're at and who they are and how complicated this applies to every one of us in this room is actually this one right here. These six things are parts of who you are. You have your intention, you have your biological sex, you have your gender identity, how you see yourself their persistence and direction, attraction, volition, your behavior and then your value values, your values of framework. If you think of a pie chart, you would make these parts of the pie different sizes based off how much of these, what mattered more and what mattered less. It's neat to think about that because if you did this now and you did this even a few months from now it would change, it would morph it would, it's not kind of set in stone because it's actually very subjective. But when you start thinking about that, you realize for some people for some teens especially they realize you know, their values are actually pretty strong. That keeps them where they're at or their biological sex is even though they feel and how these other parts of themselves and the goal of this is to kind of make it a little more complicated if you will. But at the same time kind of actually pull back a little so you can kind of see it from a different lens and realize I choose who I am, what do I do, who I who I hang out with, how I present myself all of it. That values peace. Am I standing on a biblical foundation? Yes or no. Am I choosing to honor you Lord? Or am I choosing actually a very different god if you will. And I haven't heard very many people speak this way or talk this way, but it is exactly that. And and I'm gonna kind of pit them against each other for a second. If we're not careful, it's either or I am choosing you Lord or I am choosing this as my God I think if you think of it that way, it changes a lot of our conversations because what we're also hearing and some of the conversations and different books and authors is it's also about, well you can be gay christian and then there's a fight about no, you can't use the words gay christian. All these different side a side b all these different kinds of conversations which is for for most of us were kind of going, well you lost me back there For the person in the middle of it. No, they're wrestling and trying to figure themselves out. Go to Facebook and click on gender. I think they're in the 90s now there's 90 something gender options. I can't tell you what 90% of them are. Um, but even if you pick the same word and pull four people that would say that's them, they would give you different definitions. So it's not about that, It's about you and I are trying to wrestle with who am I? We've always been that way by the way that's ever since sin into the world. We're trying to wrestle with who am I. And I think this is actually a really important tool now going back to the gender red person gender identity is a piece of the whole how I see myself is it congruent with my biological sex. Now the research kind of shows this is becoming those that identify as queer or basically non binary is growing by leaps and bounds in our culture. And many of the researchers are even saying it's very much more all around the social contagion piece. And what do you do with that? Actually to me? Great, that's good data. That doesn't tell me how to help, how to love, how to lead, how to guide. Um, some families that I know have actually shut off the internet to the house and they have locked things down, but that's only worked and the ones that I know where the child or the team has been like, I'm hurting and I help and I want you to do this for me. That's where I've seen beautiful things happen. What if they don't want to, I've seen this with husbands and wives even and grown grown siblings where they're wrestling and they're hurting and they're asking questions well, think about this term or this this um phrase, sex is sex is my right. So the conclusion here is that the authority of that, of that of their own experience or intuition. So my foundation of who I am or what I what I um identify as is up to me, which right there, I already kind of go, I don't trust myself on most most things, my emotions especially. So we're already in trouble. But then we have these parts that were supposed to show up separately. But sorry, God has made me and therefore made the desires I have is that foundational, everything God makes is good and therefore my desires are good and then good desires deserve to be and even ought to be fulfilled. It's just scary to think about some of the belief systems that are out there that are actually pushing for claimant grab on, this is who you are now. For me growing up, even the idea of that I'm male was understood understandable. That was not a question, but the working of that out is very difficult for some of us for lots of us. What is the biggest factor there comparison? Uh, Apple, the Apple products added the, the uh screen time feature a few years ago, shareholders of Apple demanded that they do that for one specific purpose. Girls are killing themselves at a higher rate because of social media, that was the purpose. Why did they not say guys too? Because they're doing other stuff which we're gonna talk about a minute. Girls are killing themselves, this is scary what's happening. And us as parents and we talk about this morning this afternoon, us as parents if we're not careful, were left in the dust at what they're facing because a lot of this is the kind of stuff that they believe now part of our job is to help them articulate it at times. So we're having to help wrestle through some of that, help them articulate it. Others have it very well articulated and we're left kind of mouth open and not sure what to do here are the messages that they're receiving from their friends. It used to be tolerance, then it became acceptance. Then celebration. Now it's participation. Think about that. Think about culturally we're at it's not tolerance anymore. That's actually so not even that, that's still seen as subpar. It's even not acceptance. And even celebration is not good enough. And then what do you do as a parent or a sibling of someone who's saying, well, you don't love me. We need to be careful about even how that has been hijacked the term love because the definition of love is kind of where we're gonna end up look at today because loving someone is very different than just accepting whatever they are, whatever they're doing or whoever they are. If we're actually sticking to a biblical view of that. Another quote from Preston Sprinkle, he said we need to create safe spaces where young people can open up, be heard receive godly wisdom and learn about God's expensive vision for what it means to be male and female. Where should that be our homes and our churches. Our church is actually meant to be on the front lines of some of these kinds of places and it should be also also be one of the safest places to come wrestle. But if you think of what culture and others are saying. Um Another study was, was that three of people that that leave the church left because of the theology, 97% of those that left the church left because they felt absolutely unloved and unheard and unaccepted as a person, not because of lifestyle stuff. We've made it and others have made it all about the theology. So we need to change our theology. No, we need to stand on a biblical foundation of truth unapologetically but also not with a big huge bible that were hitting people with a place where people can wrestle and ask questions. Um and not be okay. At first I was at a church one time that just visiting and the associate pastor was preaching and he made the comment. Everyone should be a part of celebrate recovery and I wanted to jump up and go, you there's something true about it. Why celebrate recovery isn't about once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic. Kind of like a it's a let's look at the beatitudes. Who am I to be in christ. He is a very different lens where you can have a table of an alcoholic and a mother dealing with our team and someone whose spouse just left all at the same table because you're not focused on your problem or where you're stuck. We're focused on who you are in christ very different. Do I still need some space to probably work those other pieces out. Yes. Do I sometimes need some serious help. Yes. But um yeah, we need community to get to as well. People of faith who navigate gender identity issues are our people, these are our sons or daughters are best friends. Sometimes our moms, our dads, but where we're going and our culture is kind of scary what's happening with our teenagers and the questions about who I am, something I want you to hear. I'm just gonna kind of plant the seed right now to kind of think about. I spent the last summer wrestling through nancy Pierce's book, loved my body. Really important work. I've read it over and over and over and over the summer. I read it a while back. Um, probably best protestant look at the theology of the body, which the only other one I know of is um, Christopher West wrote it. But from john paul, the second's teachings incredible. Beautiful, redemptive. But she finally helped me see where, how did we get here? And it's this split and it's a split between human, human being human and being a person. How do we get away with abortion? Well, it's a human, but it's not a person where the ethics is saying, well, there'll be a person when I say they are. And some ethicists are saying, by the way, that's around age 12 when they can do algebra. What are the implications there that if you're not a person I can offer you, I can end you, I can kill you. Well that just goes for abortion. It goes for infanticide, which is we're gonna start wrestling and fighting within our culture more than ever. It starts with euthanasia or continue with euthanasia. Or if you are downs or if you are, um, any kind of mental incapacity. But it goes into gender identity and it goes into homosexuality and it goes into um, transgender as well. But how do we end up accepting is when we actually make a duality out of it? There's something my body is a piece of material. It's expendable from the person. How do I have sex with whoever I want to have sex with? And I'm actually living the lie of culture of my body is expendable and we see the research actually shows how many do it and try to and it's empty on the sex part with anyone. How many of those that have transitioned are de transitioning. What I want to start seeing is more lawsuits to these doctors and counselors sue the life out of them. That's to me the next step because it is utter abuse. That's where we're at this duality. If we're not careful, what scares me is you and I actually have elements of belief in this most likely why? Because my body is sinful. We talked about this in the church. And so the body is almost of the devil and then my spirit is of God. So we start talking this way in church and we're careful. We've just done the exact same split that has led to our culture accepting all these things that are absolutely not okay. When I start putting that together, my mind goes okay, I can start understanding why if someone believes what they believe, but we need to put this back together as a whole. Well, here's the coolest part think of when scripture, I think of when Christianity entered the picture in history, Christianity entered the picture in history at a time when men especially you had your wife, she was to make a baby babies with that our boys to carry on the name. That was it. And then you had sex with your concubines and with your slaves, male and female. What did the bible come and do? What does Christianity come and do it. Come came and said, husbands love your wives as christ loved the church Christianity came in and raised the bar in a society that was more debased than we are now. Or maybe we're kind of close to it. Where's the answer? Here is Christianity. Where is the answer? It's christ Where's the answer? It's jesus, where's the answer? It's surrender to all these things. I don't know about you? I start getting kind of excited because we live in a time where we're gonna see jesus work if you haven't already. I have in my own life over and over and over and over and over. Have you heard of the maps this is the new term that we have to learn now. And I guess the letters will be added at some point. Minor attracted person. It's called pedophile, but we can't say that because that's too mean. We have to find they found a term that's acceptable. That can be palatable because it needs to be part of that protected class. This is where

Selon la Bible, Lucifer était l'ange préféré de Dieu. Mais un jour, il s'est rebellé contre lui. Déchu du Paradis, il est devenu le maître de l'enfer. Le psychologue Philip Zimbardo s'est inspiré de ce mythe pour nommer l'Effet Lucifer, auquel il a consacré sa vie. C'est un processus de transformation selon lequel une personne a priori considérée normale, intégrée socialement voire gentille, sans traumatisme ou trouble mental, peut commettre des actes atroces. Pour étudier le phénomène, Zimbardo a mené l'une des expériences les plus connues de la psychologie à ce jour : l'expérience de Stanford. Elle continue de susciter la fascination aujourd'hui et est encore citée comme exemple dans les tribunaux du monde entier. Quelle est l'expérience psychologique qui a démontré l'effet Lucifer ? Comment Zimbardo explique-t-il cela ? Et aujourd'hui, l'Effet Lucifer a encore une utilité ? Écoutez la suite de cet épisode de "Maintenant vous savez". Un podcast Bababam Originals, écrit et réalisé par Antonella Francini. À écouter aussi : Qu'est-ce que l'effet du témoin ? Qu'est-ce que l'effet Yoko Ono ? Qu'est-ce que l'effet Scully ? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode of The Optimistic American kicks off season two – listen to learn about what's to come, addictive technologies, the history of prosecutions in Iraq's and their impact on Dr. Emily Bashah, and what to consider and do to avoid falling prey to “amygdala hijacking”.   This episode discusses what's to come in season 2, as well as the prosecution of Jews in Iraq and how that impacted – and is still impacting – Dr. Emily Bashah's family. Paul and Dr. Bashah's upcoming book Addictive Ideologies discusses the fact that genocides don't happen with just one person nor overnight. They happen with a group of people that begin to fall into a cult-like type of mentality, and when people begin to lose agency. Paul and Dr. Bashah talk about what they consider to be the exact altar side of the spectrum from authoritarianism: agency. Dr. Bashah shares the connection between agency, the theory of mind, and morality. Paul and Dr. Basha touch upon amygdala hijacking, and what you should consider and do to avoid being manipulated. Dr. Bashah brings Dr. Zimbardo's Stanford Prison Experiment into the conversation. The study aimed at looking at what brings the evil out of people. The results were that people aren't inherently evil but they do become if you put them into certain circumstances and conditions. Paul discusses the book In the Garden of Beasts and the four results from studies on obsessive ideologies. Dr. Bashah reads the opening chapter of Addictive Ideologies and talks about the prosecution of Jews in Iraq, how that impacted her family, and the repercussions it still has today. Paul and Dr. Bashah touch upon different key moments in the history of Iraq that led and followed what happened to Dr. Bashah's family and many other members of the Jewish community. According to Paul, ideologies are about power. If you want to keep your agency, he says, the best ideology is rationalism. It's about recognizing that all sides bring benefits and detriments, and about having the ability to sort through the options to figure out what's best – so long as the rule of law stays in place. Paul and Dr. Bashah give a sneak-peek of what's to come in season 2 of The Optimistic American and share the 7 ideals future episodes will revolve around.

Kadın-çocuk-erkek üçlemesinin son durağına, erkeklere geldik. Biramı koydum, sizi bekliyorum.Bugün, Phillip Zimbardo'nun araştırmalarını takip ederek, erkek çocukların eğitimdeki ve sosyal becerilerdeki eksiklikleri ile aşırı dijital eğlence tüketimleri ve okulun akademikleşmesi arasındaki ilişkiye baktık. Ek olarak işsizlik, kendi düzenini kuramama ve babasızlığın etkilerinden bahsettik. Tüm bunlar kadınlar için de sorunken, erkekler için bir kriz haline gelmekte (ortalamada tabii). Devam bölümünde Warren Farrell'ın çalışmalarına odaklanacağız ve amaçsızlık, yalnızlık, evlilik, inceller ve kadın düşmanlığı konuşacağız. Tüm kaynaklar aşağıda..(Not: Patreon'da yüzlerce insan, irili ufaklı katkılarla beni doğrudan destekliyor, onlara bir hayır duası edin)..Bu podcast evimdekipsikolog.com hakkında reklam içerir.FULARSIZENTELLIK15 koduyla bir ay boyunca kullanabileceğiniz %15'lik indirim için tıklayınız..Bölümler:(00:25) Sürreal sosyal medya linci.(03:30) Arşivden: Jordan Peterson bölümü (Spotify | Apple)(03:50) Zimbardo ve Erkeklerin Çöküşü.(06:05) 10,000 saat bilgisayar oyunu.(08:45) Porno tüketimi ve haz erteleme.(12:30) Yuvadan uçamayan kuşlar.(14:00) İşsizlik trendleri. (Arşiv: Dördüncü Dalga)(15:55) Cinsiyet rollerindeki asimetrik değişim.(18:10) Babasızlık.(20:00) Erkek rol model eksikliği.(23:15) Teneffüsün ölümü.(24:55) Özet ve devam bölümü.(26:05) Çağrı Özertem'in anısına..Kaynaklar:Video: The demise of guys? | Philip ZimbardoYazı: Video games probably aren't bad for boys, but it's a different story for girlsMakale: Are There Differences in Video Gaming and Use of Social Media among Boys and Girls?Makale: Trading Later Rewards for Current Pleasure: Pornography Consumption and Delay DiscountingMakale: Does pornography affect delay discounting and executive functions?Video: Why boys are failing? | Philip ZimbardoYazı: Men Are More Likely to Live With Their FolksYazı: The differing impact of automation on men and women's workFularsız Arşiv: Dördüncü DalgaAnket: Living with mom and/or dad: More common for sons than daughtersYazı: Young Men and Society: We Will Only Get Out What We Put InYazı: What Science Really Says About the Differences Between Boys and GirlsYazı: Time to play: Increasing daily recess in elementary schoolsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's the first episode of a new season and the celebration is in full swing! Kurt tells Luis about the accidental genius that tricked the internet, and a strange experiment that led to an even stranger court case. Luis spends most of the episode flirting with cancellation like it's Natalie Portman, meanwhile Kurt can't seem to stop making jokes about psychology in the 60s. Neither of the boys seem particularly interested in talking about the actual stories. Also look out Britain and Dr. Zimbardo, we're coming for you in this episode (apparently?)

Episode 100!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! of our book read/podcast covering major topics in various fields of psychology and we are taking a break to pull back the curtain on the process and what we have learned in 100 episodes. We had bigger plans, but life happens. More religion, guests, and other things in the works as we push forward!!! 12 Rules for Screaming into the Void: An Antidote to Podcasting 1. Plan for Planning Fallacy (editing) 2. But Don't forget to Plan (guests/time zones/planning ahead 3. Time is a construct; record to your heart's content (Zimbardo/Milgram) 4. Research your guests (big names) 5. Create a Podcast Guest Doc: 1-2 Pages, stay still, be comfortable. Try to avoid guests who might hit a bong or do dishes mid recording 6. Don't watch your numbers 7. Do it for you 8. Routine is not bad (recurring Qs/Bias of the Week) 9. See old friends and make new ones 10. Clean your room. 11. Don't Micromanage your Guest; Unless they need you to 12. Fake it till you make it. Some great Episodes: Memes Matter: https://anchor.fm/psychosocialdistancing/episodes/Episode-46-Memes-Matter-Libido--the-Internet--and-Freud-e12rrg2 Milgram and Zimbardo: https://anchor.fm/psychosocialdistancing/episodes/Episode-9-Milgram-and-Zimbardo-ejhb1h Conspiracy Theories w/ Sinan Alper: https://anchor.fm/psychosocialdistancing/episodes/Episode-75-Corruption--Precarity--and-Schrdingers-Diana-w-Dr--Sinan-Alper-e1c7ima The Ig Nobel Prize w/Marc Abrahams: https://anchor.fm/psychosocialdistancing/episodes/Episode-79-Making-You-Laugh--Then-Making-You-Think-w-Marc-Abrahams-e1dvsgn PSD Website: https://psychosocialdistancingpodcast.com/ Thomas' Webpage: https://sexography.org/ Thomas' Twitter: https://twitter.com/TBrooks_SexPsy Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/ScienceInChaos Return of the Bias of the Week: Episode 54 Shout out! Planning Fallacy

Episode 40: In this episode, host Angie Gust talks about our hearts. Advancing age is the primary risk factor for heart problems. The reason for this is due to the dysfunction of our arteries. What can be done? In addition to other lifestyle changes, inspiratory muscle strength training (which is breathing against a resistive load) could be considered. This helps with blood pressure and other respiratory muscles. Turning to the environment, climate change journalist, David Wallace Wells, says countries are not keeping their pledges on climate change. None of the 187 countries that signed the Paris Agreement is on track for emissions reductions in line with the 1.5 degree F target. Let's keep up the pressure and support candidates and organizations who are making solutions to climate change their top priority.   References Brunt, V. E., Howard, M. J., Francisco, M. A., Ely, B. R., & Minson, C. T. (2016). Passive heat therapy improves endothelial function, arterial stiffness and blood pressure in sedentary humans. The Journal of physiology, 594(18), 5329–5342. https://doi.org/10.1113/JP272453 David, H.P. Born unwanted: mental health costs and consequences. Am J Orthopsychiatry. 2011 Apr;81(2):184-92. doi: 10.1111/j.1939-0025.2011.01087.x. PMID: 21486260. Deem, J. June 25, 2022. Roe reversal signals a threat to the fight against climate change, experts say .Winston-Salem Journal. https://journalnow.com/news/local/roe-reversal-signals-a-threat-to-the-fight-against-climate-change-experts-say/article_de770c22-f4b1-11ec-b65a-1709c4849628.html Gallup. 2022. Pro-Choice or Pro-Life Demographic Table. https://news.gallup.com/poll/244709/pro-choice-pro-life-2018-demographic-tables.aspx Konash.D.  Dec 6 2021 Can You Do IMST Breathing Exercise Without Device? https://www.dmitrikonash.com/post/can-you-do-imst-breathing-exercise-without-device Levin, B. Sept 16, 2022. Trump reportedly called white supremacist “My people” in case it wasn't clear he's an abject racist. https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2021/09/donald-trump-white-supremacists-my-people Lewis, T. May 3, 2022. Overturning Roe v. Wade Could Have Devastating Health and Financial Impacts, Landmark Study Showed. Scientific American. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/overturning-roe-v-wade-could-have-devastating-health-and-financial-impacts-landmark-study-showed/ Nowak, K. L., Rossman, M. J., Chonchol, M., & Seals, D. R. (2018). Strategies for Achieving Healthy Vascular Aging. Hypertension (Dallas, Tex. : 1979), 71(3), 389–402. https://doi.org/10.1161/HYPERTENSIONAHA.117.10439 Sword, R.K.M. and Zimbardo, P. May 31, 2022. Traveling Back in Time to Repeal Roe v. Wade. Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-time-cure/202205/traveling-back-in-time-repeal-roe-v-wade Sandalic, D. Abortion Rights and the Role of Values. June 26, 2022The Dobbs ruling violates secular values.https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/tough-choices/202206/abortion-rights-and-the-role-values Wallace-Wells, D. June 22, 2022. Our world is changing, but we don't have the ability yet to fathom how. New York Times.

This episode spotlights Khanak Lashkari, the founder of the organization Project Diversify. When Khanak's exchange program was canceled in 2021 due to the Covid-19 pandemic, she became passionate about finding a way for students around the world to still connect. Over the summer of 2021, Project Diversify hosted it's first event as a virtual exchange program with 90+ students from 10+ countries. Since then, Project Diversify has invited speakers and partnered with organizations such as Dr. Zimbardo's Heroic Imagination Project. Tune into this episode to hear more from Khanak and her impactful organization. To support Project make sure to follow them on their Instagram: @project.diversify

Dzisiaj zapraszam Was do wysłuchania mojej rozmowy z Janem Wyspiańskim ps. Johnny Uraner. Poznaliśmy się w trakcie spotkań męskiego kręgu, gdzie mężczyźni w różnym wieku i z różnych zawodów dzielą się swoimi przemyśleniami. Na co dzień prowadzi kanał video i podcastowy o nazwie: Game cast. Jest aktywnym miłośnikiem jazdy motocyklem. Tak jak ja, uwielbia chodzić na mikrowyprawy na łonie natury. Gra i śpiewa w zespole punkowym. Uprawia boks oraz handluje nieruchomościami. Powodem do zaproszenia go do rozmowy jest jednak jego pasja i zawód eksperta i propagatora gier planszowych.Zdecydowanie można powiedzieć, że jest człowiekiem renesansu, bo tak jak ja lubi się rozwijać i wspólnie z trenerem mentalnym Jarkiem Brzozowskim tworzy z nami cotygodniowego masterminda.Dowiecie się z niego m.in:Które gry bardziej rozwijają umysł? Konsolowe, czy planszowe?Jakie korzyści przynosi gra w gry planszowe?Jacy ludzie chodzą na spotkania z cyklu "Planszówki Johnnego"?Czy grając w gry można przeGRAć życieCzy firmy powinny organizować pracownikom możliwość grania w gry planszowe, jako rodzaj relaksu i integracji?Czy profesor Zimbardo miał rację?W jakie gry sam gra i poleca?Która gra na konsolę ma najpiękniejsze widoki?Jakie gry konsolowe pomagają w rozwoju osobistym?Jakie gry planszowe pomagają w rozwoju zdolności interpersonalnych?Czy gry można wypisać jakie gry na co polecasz? Zdolności interpersonalneKiedy granie w gry idzie za daleko?Czy granie w gry powinno się kontrolować jak używki?W jaki sposób pracuje nad sobą?UWAGA!!!SPECJALNA WYPRZEDAŻ MOJEGO KURSU „NIEZNISZCZALNI”OFERTA OGRANICZONA CZASOWO!KLIKNIJ OBRAZEK LUB LINK PONIŻEJ I SPRAWDŹ SZCZEGÓŁY:HTTPS://IDEAMAN.TV/NIEZNISZCZALNI-50/

This week Abby talks about an Alaskan cryptid, the Nantiinuq, that caused an entire town to be abandoned in the 50s. Ashlyn explains a creepy psychology study called the “Milgram Experiment” that studied conscience vs. authority. This episode has everything: an aggressive what-cryptid-are-you personality test, a brown power ranger, 16,000!!!!!!!!!, a drawing of a chicken, Atlantis lasers, what pain sounded like in the 60s, stress-induced laughing fits, a wordsmith psychologist, recurring characters Zimbardo and Darren Evans, and curtains with our faces on them. Thanks for listening, fellow creeps!Follow us on social media: @iscreamsocialpodcastEmail us: iscreamsocialpod@gmail.comThe Clambake IncidentYour Comedy Tertiary Sports and slice of life in Clam Harbor MaineListen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Best Job NeverFrom dumpster fire companies to wacky memorable coworkers, We all remember that one...Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Join the public lecture of American psychologist and a professor emeritus at Stanford University Philip George Zimbardo. His world-famous Stanford prison experiment in 1971 was exploring how the social role imposed on a person affects his behavior. Zimbardo has authored various introductory psychology textbooks for college students, and other notable works, including The Lucifer Effect, The Time Paradox, and The Time Cure. He is also the founder and president of the Heroic Imagination Project, an organization aimed at increasing heroic behavior among everyday people. KSE Public lectures with top world intellectuals serve to demonstrate solidarity with Ukraine and enhance Ukrainian intellectual sovereignty. More information about project: https://kse.ua/lektsi-na-pidtrimku-ukrayini/ The KSE launched a humanitarian aid campaign for Ukraine. The campaign's objective is to purchase necessary supplies, first aid, and protective kits for the State Emergency Service of Ukraine, the Ukrainian Paramedic Association, and the Ukrainian Territorial Defense Forces. No matter how small, every donation can help deliver essential aid and supplies. DONATE: https://kse.ua/support/donation Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/KyivSchool https://twitter.com/brik_t

(NOTAS Y ENLACES COMPLETOS AQUÍ: https://www.jaimerodriguezdesantiago.com/kaizen/125-dignos-de-ser-humanos/)Hace poco tuvimos un fenómeno metereológico extraño en España. Una masa de polvo del Sahara atravesó la Península Ibérica. A su paso dejó imágenes increíbles con una luz naranja y unas brumas que parecían sacadas de Blade Runner 2049. El año pasado vivimos la mayor nevada de mi vida en Madrid, con la ciudad bloqueada durante días y la gente tirándose en trineos por las calles. Todo bastante surrealista. Si a esto le sumamos dos años de pandemia global y la mayor amenaza de guerra mundial desde la crisis de los misiles lo que me extraña es no ver a gente recorriendo las calles con una campana y un cartel de esos de “Arrepentíos, se acerca el final”, como en el Neo Tokyo de Akira. Hoy me ha dado por las referencias de ciencia ficción. Estoy bastante seguro de que en otra época de la historia, habría muchísima gente interpretando todo esto como señales de un Apocalípsis que luego nunca se da. Supongo que si ahora no pasa es porque tenemos internet para convertir todo en un meme. Que visto así es hasta un avance. El caso es que últimamente tengo cierta sensación de pesadumbre y creo que es inevitable. Me considero una persona optimista y confío en que al final todo saldrá bien y, si no, es que no es el final, como decían en cierta película. Pero eso no es incompatible con que a todos se nos haga bola de vez en cuando este tiempo revuelto que estamos viviendo. Por eso, de vez en cuando, me gusta traer algo de optimismo al podcast. Esa era mi intención cuando te hablé de la fusión nuclear, en el capítulo 119, y ésa es mi intención hoy.Para ello he querido rescatar una lectura que hice hace unos meses, en la que hay muchas cosas sobre las que tengo mis dudas y que me parece algo ingenua, pero que precisamente por eso es un buen contrapunto en estos días. Porque hoy hablamos de la bondad humana.

Join Alex and guest hosts Drs. Keli Braitman and Jen Simonds as the three dissect and discuss the dramatic take on the real life The Stanford Prison Experiment (2015)! The film stars Billy Crudup as the real Dr. Philip Zimbardo, a psychologist who became famous for putting college-aged men in a fake prison in the basement of the psychology building in the summer of 1971, letting guards treat these men as less than humans. We tackle the ethical issues, the psychology of the situation, and how this kind of study would never pass muster in this modern era of psychological research. Zimbardo even said this film is like 90% true to life! Please leave your feedback on this post, the main site (cinemapsychpod.swanpsych.com), on Facebook (@CinPsyPod), or Twitter (@CinPsyPod). We'd love to hear from you! Don't forget to check out our Patreon and/or Paypal links to contribute to this podcast and keep the lights on! Don't forget to check out our MERCH STORE for some great merch with our logo! Legal stuff: 1. All film clips are used under Section 107 of Title 17 U.S.C. (fair use; no copyright infringement is intended). 2. Intro and outro music by Sro ("Self-Driving"). Used under license CC BY-SA 4.0. 3. Film reel sound effect by bone666138. Used under license CC BY 3.0. 4. "Et Voila" used under license.

It's our first two-parter! Rachel just can't keep it short, can she? Today we head down to the depths of a Stanford University basement where Dr. Zimbardo created a mock prison experiment that has lived on in infamy. Why? Listen to find out!Sources:https://www.prisonexp.orghttps://www.newyorker.com/science/maria-konnikova/the-real-lesson-of-the-stanford-prison-experimenthttps://www.nytimes.com/1973/04/08/archives/a-pirandellian-prison-the-mind-is-a-formidable-jailer.htmlhttps://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167206292689Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/hyperfocus/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy