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Some people get paid to do what they love, but most don't. How can we find meaning in everyday work that we don't always love doing? How can we discover our purpose in life? Author Karen Swallow Prior and Amy Julia Becker explore:Why passion is not the same as callingHow vocation centers on service and relationships, not just careerPursuing truth, goodness, and beauty in ordinary lifeHow multiple callings unfold across a lifetimeWisdom for discerning and living into a deeper purposeSubscribe to my weekly newsletter: amyjuliabecker.com/subscribeNew! Take the Next Step podcast: amyjuliabecker.com/step00:00 Introduction02:04 Exploring the Call to Creativity05:39 The Myths of Passion and Work08:55 Defining Calling and Vocation12:32 The Relational Aspect of Calling15:31 Pursuing Truth, Goodness, and Beauty22:28 The Intersection of the True, the Good, and the Beautiful26:04 The Good Life and Purpose31:46 The Role of Suffering in Calling36:55 Navigating New Callings and Responsibilities40:44 Finding Meaning and Calling in Everyday Tasks__MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:You Have a Calling: Finding Your Vocation in the True, Good, and Beautiful by Karen Swallow Prior_WATCH this conversation on YouTube: Amy Julia Becker on YouTubeSUBSCRIBE to Amy Julia's Substack: amyjuliabecker.substack.comJOIN the conversation on Instagram: @amyjuliabeckerLISTEN to more episodes: amyjuliabecker.com/shows/_ABOUT OUR GUEST:Karen Swallow Prior, Ph.D. is the 2025-26 Karlson Scholar at Bethel Seminary. She is a popular writer and speaker, a contributing writer for The Dispatch, and a columnist for Religion News Service. Her writing has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, Vox, The Washington Post, Christianity Today, and many other places. Her most recent book is You Have a Calling: Finding Your Vocation in the True, Good, and Beautiful (Brazos 2025).CONNECT with Karen: karenswallowprior.comFacebook: Karen Swallow PriorInstagram: karenswallowpriorX: @KSPrior Substack: @karenswallowpriorWe want to hear your thoughts. Send us a text!Connect with me: Instagram Facebook YouTube Website Thanks for listening!
Solomon had everything—wealth, wisdom, success—and still felt empty. In this opening message from Under the Son, we begin our journey through Ecclesiastes and discover that a life “under the sun” will always leave us wanting more. Pastor Dave challenges us to stop chasing satisfaction in what's temporary and start living for what's eternal—life “under the Son.”
As an avid reader, I'm always seeking that next great book. The one that allows me to see myself and the world more clearly, comforts me when I'm lost, or inspires me to move through my day differently. This series is my opportunity to pass these remarkable books onto you, as readers of A Mind of Her Own, both for your own enjoyment and also, as a self-serving shout-out to the universe to send me more amazing, life-changing reads. I'm excited to hear what you think, and I'm so glad you're here!Life-Changing Reads: A Series1. Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation, by Parker Palmer“Vocation does not come from willfulness. It comes from listening…vocation does not mean a goal that I pursue. It means a calling that I hear.”I read this book when I was feeling lost, searching for a life that aligned with my values and desires, and doubting myself at every step. I kept hearing this call to write, to create, but I thought it was something I should do in my “non-work” time, because it wasn't a serious activity for a physician. Parker's discussion of his own struggle to find his true vocation, through an altruistic but ultimately unsustainable career path, was a fundamental guide on my journey.2. Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking, by Susan Cain“So when introverts assume the observer role, as when they write novels, or contemplate unified field theory—or fall quiet at dinner parties—they're not demonstrating a failure of will or a lack of energy. They're simple doing what they're constitutionally suited for.”I listened to this book in the car, sitting in LA traffic, during my psychiatry residency. I still remember the feeling of hearing these words, suggesting my tendency to prefer listening to talking, observing to acting, thinking to doing was not because I was lazy, overly shy or antisocial. It was what I was “constitutionally suited for.” This was a revelation.Here I am now, writing books, listening as a psychiatrist and podcast host, and taking time to think about life's great mysteries. Thank you, Susan, for your beautiful writing.3. The Good Life: Lessons From the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness, by Robert Waldinger, MD and Marc Schulz, PhD“Do I matter? Some of us have lived the majority of our lives and find ourselves looking back, others have most of our lives in front of us and are looking forward. For all of us, regardless of age, it helps to remember that this question of mattering, of leaving something for future generations and of being part of something bigger than ourselves, is not just about our personal achievements—it's about what we mean to other people. And it's never too late to start now and leave a mark.”This book, by the directors of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, is a powerful summary of the lives of two generations of individuals from the same families for over 80 years. It's remarkable to read their quotes as they navigate joy, loss, struggles and successes over the years. The reason I've found it so important to read and reread is its powerful reminder of the importance of our relationships in creating happiness. Not money. Not fame. Not a perfect body. Not prizes or rings or medals. It's all about the love and connection we have in our lives.Today, as I try to navigate the overwhelmingly stressful news and constant churn of social media, it grounds me in my day-to-day life to reflect on those in my closest orbit. How can I connect with them today? How do I show my love and interest in ways both silly and sincere? Even if I've been feeling disconnected, I trust that it is never too late to leave my own mark in their lives and remember the joy of having them in mine.4. How Do You Feel? One Doctor's Search for Humanity in Medicine, by Jessi Gold, MD, MS“Sometimes, the heaviest emotional burden is to bear witness or to hold space for someone else's story. To do my job well and be someone whom people can trust, I need to care. I need to be truly empathetic. I need to be raw and available.”This beautiful book, by Jessi Gold, describes so many aspects of my experience as a psychiatrist. She writes about the unique emotional toll of meeting with patients during some of their darkest moments, as they are working to overcome trauma, abuse, loss or grave illnesses. Reading this was incredibly validating. In the past, when I had finished my clinical week, I would look back and wonder, “Why can't I do more? Why didn't I see more patients? There is so much need.”Dr. Gold's book helped me to be self-compassionate, recognizing I could only be truly present if I also took care of myself. This is a message I now try to pass along to the psychiatry residents I teach. We are human, and we have limits. Thank you, Jessi, for generously sharing your life with us. Your work is so important.Listen to Dr. Gold on The Reflective Mind Podcast at https://amindofherown.substack.com/p/speaking-the-quiet-part-out-loud?r=1wdz1l5. Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life: How to Finally, Really Grow Up by James Hollis, Ph.D.“To engage with the summons of our souls is to step into the deepest ocean, uncertain whether we will be able to swim to some new, distant shore. And yet, until we have consented to swim beyond the familiar lights of the port left behind, we will never arrive at a newer shore.”This stunning book, by Dr. James Hollis, a Jungian scholar and prolific writer, shares his own story of midlife depression and his decision to leave the familiar to seek training in Zurich and become a Jungian analyst. He writes beautifully about his struggle to identify his own path with the guidance of Jung's theory of individuation, defined as “the lifelong project of becoming more nearly the whole person we were meant to be.” I read and re-read this book as I was struggling with my own path to meaning in midlife, and I found such comfort in his powerful belief that we all can tap into what we already know: the person we are most meant to be.You can listen to his beautiful description of his path here: https://amindofherown.substack.com/p/a-nameless-longing-when-your-soul?r=1wdz1l6. Shrill, by Lindy West (I also highly recommend the Hulu series by the same name, starring Aidy Bryant )“I am my body. When my body gets smaller, it is still me. When my body gets bigger, it is still me. There is not a thin woman inside me, awaiting excavation. I am one piece.”Thinking back on my training during medical school and beyond, I can summarize any lecture about body size with one phrase: overweight equals unhealthy. This repeated conflation means I now must consciously uncouple one from the other in my clinical work, stepping back from the broad and imprecise shorthand to consider how they are, and are not, actually related.Lindy West's book helped me significantly as I was trying to shift my thinking on this topic. Her frank depiction of life in her larger body was at times heartbreaking (especially in the doctor's office), frequently humorous (with chapter titles like “Are you there, Margaret? It's me, a person who is not a complete freak.”) and overall a powerful motivator for change. I think all health care providers should read it at least once.If this resonates, check out my interview with Dr. Mara Gordon all about the size-inclusive healthcare revolution. https://amindofherown.substack.com/p/the-size-inclusive-healthcare-revolution?utm_source=publication-search7. Words Are My Matter: Writings on Life and Books by Ursula K. Le Guin“Fiction offers the best means of understanding people different from oneself, short of experience. Actually, fiction can be lots better than experience, because it's a manageable size, it's comprehensible, while experience just steamrollers over you and you understand what happened decades later, if ever.”I grew up in a very small town in North Dakota, just a few miles from the South Dakota border. I didn't recognize the enormity of the sky above my childhood home until I returned as an adult, head tipped back, staring upward in awe. I grew up there with a loving family and a surrounding community willing to cheer me on in events from basketball games to theater performances, but I always felt a bit out of place. Reading became my reassurance that the world was as big as the sky overhead, and I would eventually find my own path. Books also helped me recognize the importance of placing myself in another's shoes, virtual empathy-building machines that taught me about those whose lives were so incredibly different from my own.This book of Ursula K. Le Guin's essays, poems and book reviews reveals a grounded, opinionated, brilliant woman who decided to create entire worlds with stunning clarity, illuminating the challenges existing in our own. Readers and writers alike will not be sorry for taking a moment to absorb her work.If this interests you, please feel free to listen to my short essay, Books are Empathy Machines.8. Intimations by Zadie Smith“Talking to yourself can be useful. And writing means being overheard.”This book by Zadie Smith, a collection of six essays, was published in 2020, and provides a glimpse into the author's life during the early months of the Covid-19 virus. I've long been an admirer of her fiction, but this series allowed a much more intimate window into her wandering mind, trying to comprehend her place in a society turned inside out with uncertainty and fear.What does it mean to be an artist when people are being categorized as “essential workers?” Is loyalty to a place something that can outlast a feeling of unique vulnerability? How can writing provide an outlet for survival when the world is so fraught? There was comfort in her struggle to understand and in her feeling of disorientation, which I certainly shared. I emerged from her writing feeling more hopeful and far less alone.If this essay resonated, please feel free to check out this podcast episode Hope is the Best Antidote for Demoralization with Dr. James L. Griffith, MD9. Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi“We grow up believing that what counts most in our lives is that which will occur in the future…[however] since what we experience is reality, as far as we are concerned, we can transform reality to the extent that we influence what happens in consciousness and thus free ourselves from the threats and blandishments of the outside world.”My summary: We are always living for tomorrow, while life only happens right now, in our moment-by-moment experience, which we have the power to shape through our attention.You have likely heard of the concept of Flow, described by Dr. Csikszentmihalyi (here is a googled pronunciation: chik sent mee hai ee) as an optimal experience when a “person's body or mind is stretched to its limits in a voluntary effort to accomplish something difficult and worthwhile.” It is often referred to as being in a “flow state,” so immersed in a particular task that you lose track of time and are able to concentrate in a prolonged and highly satisfying way. He refers to our attention our “psychic energy.” Where we give our attention is quite literally how we experience our lives. This has never been more relevant, each of us tasked with creating our own protective filters from the onslaught of demands on our limited—because we're human—attention spans.This book is a revelation, with insights about the very nature of consciousness, what it means to be happy, and how we can infuse our lives with more pleasure. Flow can emerge in a wide variety of settings, whether it's while listening to or creating music, engaging in satisfying sex or consuming delicious foods. It may also occur when we are working on a challenging problem at the office, pushing past a confusing but compelling problem in school, or out solving problems in the world beyond. I've learned so much from his writing, and have absorbed his ideas which influence many of my own.If the concept of a flow and the quest for a meaningful life is of interest, check out my interview, “What Lights You Up?' with Dr. Jordan Grumet, palliative care physician and writer.10. Ambiguous Loss: Learning to Live with Unresolved Grief by Pauline Boss“In the case of ambiguous loss…complicated grieving can be a normal reaction to a complicated situation—the endless searching of a battlefield by the mother of a missing soldier; a stepchild's angry outbursts when his biological parent is totally excluded; a wife's depression and withdrawal because her husband has suffered a brain injury and is no longer himself.”I've found ambiguous loss to be such a powerful and surprisingly common experience in my psychiatry practice. This idea describes the unique suffering caused by uncertainty or a lack of resolution regarding a missing loved one. This could be psychological absence of someone still in our presence, such as when our loved one is struggling with dementia or severe mental illness, or the physical absence of those we still keep very much present in our psychological lives, including missing persons with unknown whereabouts.After first reading Ambiguous Loss, I reached out to Dr. Pauline Boss, now in her 90s, to thank her for her work and speak with her about this extremely helpful framework, which had a profound effect on me. She shared the origins of the research into this topic, begun with the families of pilots declared missing in action in Vietnam and Cambodia while she was at the Center of Prisoner of War Studies in the U.S. Naval Health Research Institute in San Diego. She spoke about interviewing the wives of these missing pilots and the intense pain caused by the ambiguity surrounding their husbands' whereabouts. This ongoing, often unresolvable grief can lead to depression, isolation, and ongoing family disruption, even generations later. By giving a name to this phenomenon, however, Pauline Boss has helped countless families begin to heal from the unimaginable and move forward into a more hopeful future.11. Can't We Talk About Something More Pleasant? A Memoir by Roz Chast“After my father died, I noticed that all the things that had driven me bats about him—his chronic worrying, his incessant chitchat, his almost suspect inability to deal with anything mechanical—now seemed trivial. The only emotion that remained was one of deep affection and gratitude that he was my dad.”This is the first graphic novel on my list, but it certainly won't be the last. I've been a fan of Roz Chast for a long time, with her quirky but poignant New Yorker cartoons. This powerful memoir highlights something I've found particularly helpful in my work and personal life: difficult truths are much more palatable if we can pair them with humor. My family has always taken this approach, particularly my father, coping with some truly heartbreaking cases in the hospital with an off-color joke about bowel movements around the family dinner table. Humor is also considered one of the most mature psychological defense mechanisms we use to cope with stress or loss in our lives, so way to go, Dad!Roz shares with us a uniquely painful time in her life, as her parents age well into their 90s, experiencing the indignities of increasingly frail bodies and waning independence. She writes with brave candor about the exhausting and expensive path an adult child must walk when her parents can no longer care for themselves, and her conflicted feelings as she watches them slowly fade. Her cartoons throughout provide much-needed moments of levity, as well as a beautiful tribute to the lives of these important people. If you or a loved one is going through this painful, but common, journey, this book could provide some true comfort, and maybe even a laugh or two.12. Congratulations, By the Way: Some Thoughts on Kindness by George Saunders“Be a good and proactive and even somewhat desperate patient on your own behalf—seek out the most efficacious, anti-selfishness medicines, energetically, for the rest of your life. Find out what makes you kinder, what opens you up and brings out the most loving, generous, and unafraid version of you—and go after those things as if nothing else matters.Because, actually, nothing else does.”These words are part of a lovely convocation address George Saunders delivered to the graduating students of Syracuse University, where he is a professor of creative writing. Understandably, it resonated far beyond the campus, and speaks a truly important message for today's world.I should admit, I have a soft spot for George Saunders. I imagine I'm not alone in this. I saw him speak at a New Yorker Festival event several years ago and he did not disappoint: sharp as a tack while also being thoughtful and extremely humble. In addition, he was super funny, which made sense because he's the author of one of the most hilarious short stories I've ever read. In “Pastoralia,” two employees are assigned to a caveman diorama in a fading fun park. One of them, who takes his role incredibly seriously, frequently pretends to scan the horizon for large game and refuses to speak to his cave mate, using only grunts and body language to communicate. The other employee, a chain-smoking, mint-eating mother of a struggling adult child seems to be trying to just get through the day, breaking every rule of proper performance, much to her cave mate's dismay. The story is simply sublime.My dear friend, John, who trained with me in psychiatry residency and became one of my dearest friends, introduced me to this story, along with other memorable cultural experiences such as the show “Broad City” and referring to the bathroom as the “wazzer.” He died in 2020 after a battle with brain cancer, but his legacy lives on, especially in my plan to someday turn “Pastoralia” into a musical (his idea). After all, what better way to honor his memory? Miss you John, but thank you for all you taught me.Thanks for reading A Mind of Her Own! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and hear about upcoming episodes & book events.Find Dr. Reid on Instagram: @jenreidmd and LinkedInYou can also preorder her upcoming book, Guilt Free!Also check out Dr. Reid's regular contributions to Psychology Today: Think Like a Shrink.Seeking a mental health provider? 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In this episode of The Puck, Jim Baer sits down with acclaimed author and journalist Oliver Burkeman, whose books Four Thousand Weeks and The Antidote have reshaped how we think about time, productivity, and perfectionism. Oliver introduces ideas from his forthcoming book Meditations for Mortals, exploring how embracing our human limitations—rather than denying them—opens the path to deeper meaning and accomplishment. From the illusion of “getting on top of everything,” to the paradox of slowing down in a productivity-obsessed culture, Oliver offers insights drawn from philosophy, spirituality, and his own journey. Together, Jim and Oliver reflect on mortality, imperfectionism, and how practices like patience, Sabbath rest, and journaling can help us live saner, more fulfilling lives.
In this episode, Jeffrey Tucker joins Karol to discuss his latest book Spirits of America and the lessons he’s drawn from the digital age and post-pandemic world. Tucker reflects on how lockdowns exposed deep social divides and why rediscovering the value of routine and ordinary life is essential for resilience. He highlights the importance of gratitude in daily tasks, shares concerns about society’s direction after COVID, and offers timeless advice to his younger self about risk-taking, courage, and perseverance. The Karol Markowicz Show is part of the Clay Travis & Buck Sexton Podcast Network - new episodes debut every Wednesday & Friday. Purchase Jeffrey's NEW Book See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Have you ever wondered how grief can completely change the direction of your life—and even help you discover your strength?I had the honor of sitting down with guest Rachel Blatt to explore her journey through sudden loss, the unexpected ways she coped, and how she's found meaning and new purpose. Highlights from our chat include:Rachel's Widow Story: The shocking diagnosis and rapid loss of her husband, Dave, to a rare form of sarcoma, and how she balanced caregiving, parenting, and her own survival during and after his illness.The Early Days of Widowhood: Why she dove into life with a sense of urgency—traveling to Paris, sending her sons to camp, and even adopting a new dog in a moment of “manic” decision-making.Navigating Grief with Kids: The unique challenges and bittersweet solutions she found to help her boys cope, especially around Father's Day and family milestones.Distraction Actions & Dating Again: Rachel's candid take on seeking distraction (including jumping into dating), the guilt and judgment widows face, and the unexpected friendships that blossomed from those choices.Healing Through Writing: How Rachel's lifelong love of writing became a lifeline in her grief, leading to published work in The Washington Post and a supportive writing group.Signs and Spiritual Connection: Fascinating stories about connecting with her late husband through signs, lost-and-found wedding rings, and sessions with mediums.Becoming a Grief Educator: Rachel's journey to becoming a certified grief educator with David Kessler's program, the insights it brought her, and the importance of “witnessing” grief in a safe community.This conversation is packed with wisdom, relatable moments, and hard-earned hope. Don't miss it—follow Rachel at @widow-tales on Instagram and Widow Tales on Substack!Get the newest Widow 180 Workbook, The New To Widowhood? Start Here! Workbook at https://www.widow180.com/newwidow Be sure to join our Facebook group, Widow 180 The Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/312036956454927Also follow us on Insta: https://www.instagram.com/widow_180/Check us out on YouTube at Widow 180: The Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-DK_dl31qMilJ5cE6t9MVQFor more blog posts and resources go to www.widow180.comQuestions? Email me at jen@widow180.com
What truly drives us forward when life feels uncertain? It's not money, status, or luck—it's purpose. In this episode, we explore the power of purpose and why discovering meaning in your life is the key to fulfillment, resilience, and real success. Whether you're searching for direction or just need encouragement to keep going, this episode will remind you that you were created for more. ✨
Starting a ketamine clinic can mean challenging the status quo - and that can feel isolating when colleagues question your vision or patients don't understand the treatment. But here's what's reassuring: every major breakthrough in medicine started with physicians who were willing to stand alone and persist through doubt.In this compilation episode, we're featuring three remarkable doctors who faced the exact same resistance you might be experiencing. Each was told their ideas wouldn't work. Each had colleagues who doubted them. And each proved that individual practitioners can create massive change when they refuse to take "no" for an answer.Dr. Howard Kornfeld revolutionized addiction medicine by advocating for buprenorphine years before anyone believed in it. Dr. Joe Tafur bridges traditional healing with modern ketamine therapy despite skepticism from both sides. And Dr. Mel Herbert transformed global medical education from a single idea that everyone initially dismissed.These aren't just inspiring stories - they're road maps for how to navigate the challenges in the medical space. If you're building a practice or considering taking the leap, their experiences will show you that the resistance you face isn't a sign you're wrong - it's often a sign you're onto something important.What You'll Learn in This Episode・ How medical pioneers overcome institutional resistance and persist through years of colleagues doubting their vision・ Revolutionary approaches to addiction medicine including Dr. Kornfeld's early advocacy for buprenorphine treatment・ Bridging traditional and modern healing through Dr. Tafur's integration of ceremonial medicine with ketamine therapy・ Global medical education transformation and how Dr. Herbert built a company impacting training in 160+ countries despite never wanting to be an entrepreneurEpisode 41 show notes:00:00 Teaser - “I didn't want to be an entrepreneur…”00:23 Welcome To The Podcast01:36 Dr. Howard Kornfeld: The Power of Small Groups & Early Mentorship02:37 Buprenorphine Breakthrough & Early Adoption13:09 Dr. Joe Tafur: His perspective on colleague resistance21:11 Bridging Worlds: First Ketamine Ceremony21:34 Dr. Mel Herbert: The Birth of EM:RAP Vision22:51 Overcoming Initial Rejections23:21 Building Global Impact30:01 Finding Meaning in Simple Medicine30:23 Ending & ResourcesThanks for listeningListen to each of their full conversations:
In this episode of Life's Too Short, I'm joined by Mark Legge, who shares his story of love, loss, and how grief continues to shape his life.We talk about fatherhood, the way grief changes how you see yourself, and the difficult truths you only discover when the life you imagined disappears. Mark's honesty is both raw and grounding - a reminder that there is no one way to grieve, and no timeline for how it unfolds.Mark is also the founder of The Solace, a grief community that offers space, resources, and connection for those living with loss. His work is a continuation of his own journey, helping others find comfort and meaning in the aftermath of loss.If you've ever wondered what it looks like to live with grief and still find purpose, this conversation is for you.
Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, explores how Yom Kippur's themes of reflection, apology, forgiveness, and renewal resonate for gay men. A secular take on the Jewish Day of Atonement, this episode invites you to let go of shame, repair relationships, and embrace bold renewal.
Fluent Fiction - Italian: Magic Beneath Genova: Finding Meaning in Marine Wonders Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/it/episode/2025-09-26-07-38-20-it Story Transcript:It: L'aquario di Genova brillava sotto le luci soffuse, creando un'atmosfera magica.En: L'aquario di Genova shone under the dim lights, creating a magical atmosphere.It: Giovanni camminava lentamente accanto ai grandi serbatoi, ammirando pesci e creature marine.En: Giovanni walked slowly beside the large tanks, admiring fish and marine creatures.It: "Guarda, Luca, un polpo!"En: "Look, Luca, an octopus!"It: esclamò, indicando un esemplare che nuotava elegantemente.En: he exclaimed, pointing at a specimen swimming gracefully.It: Luca era più interessato alle strutture imponenti dell'aquario.En: Luca was more interested in the aquarium's impressive structures.It: Ammirava l'architettura moderna e i giochi di luce riflessa sulla superficie dell'acqua.En: He admired the modern architecture and the play of light reflected on the water's surface.It: Alessandra camminava con loro, cercando un regalo perfetto per sua nonna nel negozio di souvenir.En: Alessandra walked with them, searching for a perfect gift for her grandmother in the souvenir shop.It: Una sciarpa elegante sembrava l'opzione migliore.En: An elegant scarf seemed the best option.It: "Ho bisogno di qualcosa di speciale," pensava Giovanni, passando in rassegna i vari oggetti nel negozio.En: "I need something special," Giovanni thought, browsing through the various items in the shop.It: Il suono della folla e il fragore dell'acqua rendevano l'atmosfera vivace e accogliente.En: The sound of the crowd and the roar of the water made the atmosphere lively and welcoming.It: Giovanni cercava una rappresentazione unica del suo amore per la vita marina.En: Giovanni was looking for a unique representation of his love for marine life.It: Un peluche?En: A plush toy?It: Troppo comune.En: Too common.It: Un magnete?En: A magnet?It: Troppo semplice.En: Too simple.It: Il budget limitato non aiutava.En: The limited budget didn't help.It: Frustrato, si rivolse ad Alessandra.En: Frustrated, he turned to Alessandra.It: "Cosa ne pensi di questo?"En: "What do you think of this?"It: le chiese, mostrando una piccola scultura di una stella marina.En: he asked, showing her a small starfish sculpture.It: Alessandra scosse la testa.En: Alessandra shook her head.It: "Non è abbastanza speciale.En: "It's not special enough.It: Hai bisogno di qualcosa che racconti una storia."En: You need something that tells a story."It: Mentre continuavano a cercare, Giovanni vide una decorazione fatta a mano.En: As they continued searching, Giovanni saw a handmade decoration.It: Raffigurava un polpo, il suo animale marino preferito.En: It depicted an octopus, his favorite marine animal.It: Era dettagliato e sembrava quasi vivo.En: It was detailed and almost looked alive.It: Il prezzo era sopra il suo budget, ma il polpo lo conquistò.En: The price was above his budget, but the octopus won him over.It: "Questo è perfetto," pensò.En: "This is perfect," he thought.It: Consultò Alessandra, che annuì, sorridendo.En: He consulted Alessandra, who nodded, smiling.It: Nonostante il prezzo, Giovanni si decise.En: Despite the price, Giovanni made up his mind.It: Avrebbe speso un po' di più per qualcosa che aveva veramente significato.En: He would spend a bit more for something that truly meant something.It: "Lo prenderò," disse, con un sorriso soddisfatto.En: "I'll take it," he said, with a satisfied smile.It: Alla cassa, Alessandra acquistò la sciarpa per sua nonna.En: At the checkout, Alessandra purchased the scarf for her grandmother.It: Luca trovò un libro affascinante sull'architettura storica dell'aquario.En: Luca found a fascinating book about the historical architecture of the aquarium.It: Uscirono dal negozio, ognuno con un sorriso di soddisfazione.En: They left the shop, each with a smile of satisfaction.It: Giovanni imparò un'importante lezione quel giorno: la qualità e il significato personale superano il costo.En: Giovanni learned an important lesson that day: quality and personal meaning outweigh cost.It: Mentre lasciavano l'acquario, con la brezza fresca dell'autunno che li avvolgeva, Giovanni sapeva che quel polpo gli avrebbe sempre ricordato quella giornata speciale.En: As they left the aquarium, with the cool autumn breeze enveloping them, Giovanni knew that the octopus would always remind him of that special day. Vocabulary Words:the aquarium: l'acquariothe lights: le lucithe atmosphere: l'atmosferathe tanks: i serbatoithe specimen: l'esemplareimpressive: imponentithe architecture: l'architetturathe light: la lucethe surface: la superficiethe gift: il regalothe scarf: la sciarpathe crowd: la follathe roar: il fragorelively: vivacewelcoming: accoglientethe plush toy: il peluchethe magnet: il magnetefrustrated: frustratothe starfish: la stella marinathe handmade decoration: la decorazione fatta a manodepict: raffiguraredetailed: dettagliatothe budget: il budgetto consult: consultareto nod: annuirethe checkout: la cassathe book: il librohistorical: storicathe lesson: la lezioneto envelop: avvolgere
# Finding Meaning in the Book of Ecclesiastes In today's sermon, we delve into the profound and sometimes perplexing book of **Ecclesiastes**. Known for its candid exploration of life's meaning, this book challenges us to reflect on the purpose behind our daily toil and the transience of our earthly pursuits. ## The Theme of Meaninglessness The sermon begins by addressing the stark declaration from **Ecclesiastes 1:2**: "Meaningless! Meaningless!" says the Teacher. "Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless." This refrain sets the tone for the exploration of human endeavors "under the sun," a phrase used to describe life without divine perspective. The Teacher in Ecclesiastes, often thought to be Solomon, examines life's pursuits—wealth, wisdom, pleasure, and labor—and finds them all lacking in true fulfillment. ### Vanity and the Pursuit of Gains The Hebrew term often translated as "meaningless" could also mean "vanity," akin to chasing after the wind. This metaphor illustrates the futility of seeking satisfaction in worldly achievements. The sermon highlights **Ecclesiastes 1:3**, which poses a rhetorical question: "What do people gain from all their labors at which they toil under the sun?" The answer is sobering: without God, there is no true gain. ### Observations from Nature The Teacher uses nature to illustrate the cycle of futility: - Generations come and go, yet the earth remains unchanged. - The sun rises and sets, only to return to its starting point. - Winds blow in circles, and streams flow into the sea, yet it never fills. These observations, as noted in **Ecclesiastes 1:4-7**, underscore the repetitive and unchanging nature of the world, mirroring the repetitive cycles of human life. ### The Illusion of Progress Despite technological advancements and modern conveniences, the fundamental human condition remains unchanged. The sermon cites **Ecclesiastes 1:9-10**: "What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun." Even with the advent of inventions like the light bulb and the internet, our existential questions and quest for meaning persist. ### The Ultimate Destiny The sermon touches on a sobering truth from **Ecclesiastes 9:3**: "This is the evil in everything that happens under the sun: The same destiny overtakes all. The hearts of people, moreover, are full of evil and there is madness in their hearts while they live, and afterward they join the dead." This verse points to the inevitability of death, which renders all earthly achievements ultimately meaningless without a higher purpose. ## A Hope Beyond the Sun While Ecclesiastes paints a bleak picture of life "under the sun," the sermon concludes with a message of hope. It reminds us that true meaning is found not in earthly pursuits but in a relationship with God. **John 14:6** is cited, where Jesus declares, "I am the way and the truth and the life." In this way, the sermon encourages us to seek fulfillment not in the transient but in the eternal. This exploration of Ecclesiastes challenges us to rethink where we place our hope and encourages us to find lasting meaning in the divine rather than the temporary. As we reflect on these teachings, we are invited to live a life grounded in faith, seeking purpose beyond the ephemeral nature of the world.
We talk with James Hollis, a Washington-based Jungian analyst and author of What Matters Most and Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life. Among the topics we cover include: I really hope you enjoy this interview with James Hollis.
In this episode of The Catholic Talk Show, Ryan & Ryan discuss where our society and the exchange of ideas stands after The Assassination of Charlie Kirk. In this episode, we will discuss: • The Legacy of Charlie Kirk • Is There Any Hope For Dialogue? • How The Internet Radicalized The Assassin • The Culture of Victimization Vs. The Divine Victim • and much more 00:00 The Assassination of Charlie Kirk: A Cultural Reflection 08:57 The Power of Ideas and Their Consequences 18:25 The Role of Victimization in Modern Society 28:00 The Impact of Technology on Youth and Family Dynamics 37:32 Finding Meaning in Suffering and the Call to Love Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today, Sam explores how religious traditions can spark wonder and guide us in creating strong, supportive communities. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
I address the critical topic of suicide prevention, particularly during September, which is recognized as Suicide Prevention Month. I share insights on the feelings of hopelessness and the importance of recognizing the choices we have in life, even in the face of suffering. I emphasize that suffering can serve as a forge for personal growth and that finding meaning in our struggles is essential. I encourage folks to reclaim their sense of agency and remind them that their lives have value and purpose. - 00:00 Introduction to Suicide Prevention Month 03:04 The Importance of Choice in Life 05:58 Suffering as a Forge for Growth 08:59 Finding Meaning in Suffering 12:08 The Power of Response Ability 14:03 Conclusion and Call to Action - See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: https://everybodyspod.com/deals/ - Shop For Everybody Use code SFE10 for 10% OFF
In this short segment of the Revenue Builders Podcast, John McMahon and John Kaplan share a thought-provoking segment with Doug Holliday, author of Rethinking Success: Eight Essential Practices for Finding Meaning in Work and Life. Doug explores the significance of vulnerability, owning your story, and fostering authentic communication in leadership and relationships. Learn how asking the right questions, embracing imperfection, and understanding the stories of others can transform both personal and professional connections.KEY TAKEAWAYS[00:00:40] Understanding Team Dynamics[00:01:55] The Power of Vulnerability[00:02:24] The Impact of Social Media on Youth[00:04:19] Owning Your StoryQUOTES[00:01:38] "Instead of looking for answers, why don't we try to identify the 20 best questions that'll help us get to the best answer?"[00:02:03] "People are attracted to our broken parts. Nobody's really attracted to perfection."[00:03:16] "To be nobody but yourself in a world that's trying to make you someone else is the bravest thing you can do." – E. Cummings (cited by Doug Holliday)[00:04:31] "Everybody has a story. Don't think for a minute anyone you encounter doesn't have their own."[00:05:12] "There are no heroes, no victims—just a story."[00:05:39] "What people want to see isn't perfect people, but authentic people."Connect and learn more about Doug Holladay through the link/s below.https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougholladay/Enjoying the podcast? Sign up to receive new episodes straight to your inbox:https://hubs.li/Q02R10xN0Check out John McMahon's book here:Amazon Link: https://a.co/d/1K7DDC4Check out Force Management's Ascender platform here: https://my.ascender.co/Ascender/Force Management is hiring for a Sales Director. Apply here: https://hubs.li/Q02Zb8WG0Read Force Management's eBook: https://www.forcemanagement.com/roi-of-sales-messaging
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What if spirituality wasn't just a belief system but a project—an ongoing journey of discovery, connection, and personal growth? And what if there was a tool designed specifically for those of us who don't fit into traditional religious spaces? The *Empyrean Deck* represents a transformative tool designed for those seeking a spiritual journey beyond traditional religious frameworks. In our conversation today, we have a conversation with with Dr. Asher Walden, a former Zen Buddhist monk who has redefined his path as a philosopher and educator. With his extensive background in world religions and neurodiversity, Dr. Walden offers profound insights into the nature of spirituality as an evolving project of personal growth and connection. He elucidates how the *Empyrean Deck* not only serves as a means of self-exploration but also fosters community engagement and support for individuals who often feel alienated from conventional spiritual spaces. Join us as we delve into the intricate interplay between spirituality, neurodiversity, and the collective human experience.Takeaways: The concept of spirituality as an ongoing journey emphasizes discovery, connection, and personal growth. The Empyrean Deck serves as a tool specifically designed for individuals outside traditional religious spaces. Dr. Asher Walden's unique perspective as a neurodivergent individual enriches the discourse on spirituality. The deck offers a framework for understanding spiritual experiences through relationships and community involvement. Community is essential for personal transformation, providing support and accountability in one's spiritual journey. The integration of diverse spiritual traditions is crucial for creating a more inclusive spiritual practice. Find us on Apple podcast, comma Spotify with your favorite listening platform as well as YouTube; Find everything "One More Thing" here: https://taplink.cc/beforeyougopodcastThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podcorn - https://podcorn.com/privacy
In this episode, Deb interviews Andy Campbell, author of 'Overcoming Life's Toughest Setbacks'. Andy shares his inspiring journey of surviving multiple traumatic events, including childhood abuse, family health issues, his own battle with stage four pancreatic cancer, and the loss of his son. He discusses his 15 core beliefs that provide a framework for resilience and positive change. Andy also highlights the importance of courage, honor, and perseverance in facing life's adversities. The conversation explores deep philosophical insights and practical advice for those dealing with their own setbacks, offering hope and motivation to listeners.00:00 Introduction to Andy Campbell01:29 Andy's Early Life Challenges04:35 Developing Core Beliefs07:00 The Six Foundational Words10:18 Applying Core Beliefs in Life16:19 Understanding Honor and Courage31:01 Facing Pain with Honor31:51 Core Beliefs: No One Outruns the Universe32:14 The Still Small Voice vs. The Loud Voice35:30 Hard Decisions and Hard Consequences35:50 The Journey Through Chemotherapy40:21 Listening to the Quiet Voice45:06 Overview of Core Beliefs48:08 The Importance of Perseverance52:32 Finding Meaning in Life's Challenges55:31 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsTo learn more about today's guest:askandycampbell.comTo learn more about show host, Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS or to be a guest on this podcast:www.InnerSourceTherapy.com
In this episode, we talk with Elizabeth Lotardo about her journey from advertising and marketing to writing and online teaching, and how she helps individuals and organizations create purpose-driven work. She shares insights on emotional engagement, finding meaning even in imperfect jobs, and the role of purpose in leadership and performance. Elizabeth reflects on the power of small shifts in mindset, how to lead yourself with clarity and joy, and why authenticity is central to career growth. She also offers practical advice for early-career professionals and gives us a behind-the-scenes look at the ideas fueling her creative work in 2025.Elizabeth Lotardo is a consultant, writer, and course creator who helps organizations build more purpose-driven and emotionally engaging workplaces. She works with companies like Hilton, DraftKings, and Thyssenkrupp, and her LinkedIn Learning courses have reached over 2 million learners. Elizabeth is the co-author of Selling with Noble Purpose and Leading Yourself, and writes regularly for Harvard Business Review. She holds a Master's in Industrial & Organizational Psychology and is a fellow at the Institute of Coaching.Links from the episode: Elizabeth's articles in HBRElizabeth's book Leading YourselfElizabeth's courses on LinkedIn LearningElizabeth's LinkedIn profileThanks for listening!Visit our homepage at https://disrupt-your-career.comIf you like the podcast, please take a moment to rate it and leave a review in Apple Podcast
Vickie Menendez has faced the unimaginable- the loss of four children, including the loss of two children just days apart. You may be thinking – how can one person endure all of this? Vickie's story isn't just a recounting of different tragedies. As she reveals in her book Crystal's Butterfly Effect, her experiences thrust her into the depths of despair and grief, testing her spirit and willpower in ways few can comprehend. In this powerful memoir, she reveals how she was able to find meaning in her experiences and rebuild her life with passion and purpose. Find out more about Vickie Menendez workshops, retreats, and more Facebook Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Welcome to the Intentional Athlete Podcast with Ross Leppala. In this episode, Ross chats with Theo Harris, a powerlifter and coach, about his transformative journey with lifting weights. Theo opens up about his battles with alcoholism, overcoming personal challenges, and how lifting became his path to sobriety and self-discovery. They discuss the importance of training with intention, how strength training helped Theo reconnect with himself and his family, and the profound life lessons that lifting has taught him. Join us as we explore how pursuing strength with purpose can lead to personal growth and lasting fulfillment.The Intentional Athlete Experience00:00 Introduction to the Intentional Athlete Podcast00:52 Meet Theo Harris: A Lifter's Journey02:28 The Disciples of Steel: A Community of Strength05:18 A Life-Changing Health Scare08:35 The Transformative Power of Lifting15:13 Parenting and Personal Growth28:44 The Role of Therapy in Healing32:45 Finding Meaning and Purpose37:19 Therapy and Self-Discovery38:44 Parenting and Personal Growth41:10 Powerlifting and External Validation41:50 Balancing Life and Training47:20 The Importance of Consistency54:26 Honesty and Vulnerability in Relationships01:00:55 Failure and Success in Training01:05:25 Final Reflections and Gratitude
Episode 209: Work has always been about more than deadlines, meetings and paychecks. The quality of our connections with colleagues often determines whether the office feels like a community or a cold, transactional environment. Hosts Richard Kyte and Scott Rada explore the complex role that relationships play in shaping purpose, belonging and well-being in modern professional life. Drawing on insights from psychotherapist and bestselling author Esther Perel, the hosts explore her four pillars of strong workplace connections: trust, belonging, recognition and collective resilience. They consider why these principles matter more than ever, at a time when many people socialize less outside of the office and rely on their jobs to provide a sense of community. The hosts also debate whether structured tools — like question cards designed to spark conversation — can genuinely help colleagues build trust, or whether such efforts feel contrived. Along the way, they reflect on Kyte’s two decades of teaching courses on community building, offering practical examples of how leaders can foster camaraderie without resorting to blunt instruments. The discussion also ventures into topics many organizations avoid, such as romance between coworkers. Is it ethical to discourage friendships and relationships at work simply because some may turn sour, or does connection outweigh those risks? Technology looms large in the conversation. Remote and hybrid roles may boost productivity and employee satisfaction, but they often lead to reduced engagement and leave individuals feeling isolated. The hosts ask whether organizations have a responsibility to intentionally create opportunities for connection in an age where people may find screens more predictable than people. Links to stories discussed during the podcast: Esther Perel on how technology is changing love and work, with podcast host Scott Galloway 7 questions that can instantly boost your work relationships, by Angela Haupt, Time
Title: “When One Door Closes Another One Opens... But it's Hell in the Hallway"! Vic Verchereau welcomes Mark Sauter, who is Founder and President of GTP Associates, Inc. In 2002, after a 22-year career with Dow Corning Corporation (Midland, MI), Mark established GTP Associates, Inc., Growth Through People, which helps organizations simultaneously improve performance, people, leadership, and cultural vitality. Mark has authored two books, available on Amazon.com: Bringing Meaning into Monday: A Sustainable Approach to Bottom Line Success (2009) and Finding Meaning in a Teeter Totter World (2013). Mark works closely with the Great Lakes Bay Region's Conscious Capitalism movement, helping organizations put concepts into practice. He is a graduate of the University of Wisconsin-Superior (1980), earning degrees in Information Systems, Business Management and Chemistry. Mark currently resides in Midland, Michigan, but Leadership Lowdown host Vic Verchereau asked Mark to share his thoughts and challenge us to grow as leaders. Grab your pen and a notepad and get ready! Mark has much to offer! » Visit MBN website: www.michiganbusinessnetwork.com/ » Subscribe to MBN's YouTube: www.youtube.com/@MichiganbusinessnetworkMBN » Like MBN: www.facebook.com/mibiznetwork » Follow MBN: twitter.com/MIBizNetwork/ » MBN Instagram: www.instagram.com/mibiznetwork/
Why do so many retirees struggle to find fulfillment after leaving the workforce, and how do they break free from the traps of status, constant pleasure-seeking, and busywork? Together, we unpack practical strategies for moving beyond milestones to craft a retirement rich in purpose, connection, and legacy. In this episode, we discuss: The “need for next” mindset Five common non-financial retirement traps The “good enough” principle How to avoid pleasure-only living and flow with life's seasons Today's article is from Mr-Stingy.com titled The Need for Next. Listen in as Founder and CEO of Howard Bailey Financial, Casey Weade is joined by Les McDaniel to explore strategies to embrace purpose, connection, and legacy in retirement. Show Notes: HowardBailey.com/517
Tune in to hear:What is “manufactured desire” and what sinister role does it often play in contemporary life?Why is our tendency to let others' influence our decisions a dramatic outlier from much of the Animal Kingdom?What is French Theorist René Girard's Mimetic Theory and why can understanding it help inform the ways in which we make important decisions?Luke Burgis, one of Girard's disciples, categorizes desires as either thin or thick. What distinguishes the two types of desire and why is this delineation so important?What are a series of questions you can ask yourself to parse whether the desire in question is thin or thick?LinksThe Soul of WealthOrion's Market Volatility PortalConnect with UsMeet Dr. Daniel CrosbyCheck Out All of Orion's PodcastsPower Your Growth with OrionCompliance Code: 2295-U-25234
What were the first words you said to your child when you became a parent? Was there something you needed to say to officially welcome him or her into this world, or was it all just a blur? For longtime Slate journalist and author Aymann Ismail the task was clear: He had to recite a Muslim call to prayer into his newborn son's right ear, a ritual that's been performed by countless Muslim fathers through the generations, all over the world. But was he appeasing God, or his own father? On this episode of Paternal, Ismail discusses a life spent navigating being a Muslim kid who preferred cartoons over daily prayers, and then how his faith influences his role as a father to two young kids now. And all the while he's been trying to somehow live up to the expectations of his father, a devout and educated Muslim man fixated on the kind of man he believes his son should be. Ismail's new book, Becoming Baba: Fatherhood, Faith and Finding Meaning in America, is available now wherever you buy books.
Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). What if our inability to process grief is quietly shaping our culture—and our lives? In this moving episode, Boysen Hodgson sits down with world-renowned grief expert David Kessler to unpack the hidden costs of unacknowledged loss, the transformative power of meaning, and how we can begin to heal—together.David shares the origins of his life's work, including how the death of his mother during a mass shooting—and later, the death of his son—propelled him into a lifelong exploration of grief, healing, and human connection. He offers insights into the five stages of grief, and the powerful sixth stage he added: meaning.Together, they explore:How grief infiltrates our relationships and sense of identityThe harm caused by toxic positivity and “fix-it” cultureWhy healing can't happen in isolationHow the ManKind Project helped David's son begin his healing journeyWhether you're grieving a loved one, supporting someone in loss, or curious about how to live more fully, this episode is a must-listen.
Use code FEEDTHESOUL at https://seoulandsoil.com/ for a discount on the best handcrafted, no BS skincare products in the USA. Psychotherapist Romina Richardson shares profound insights on the emotional labor of therapy, authentic connection in relationships, and staying human in a tech-dominated world. We explore what makes a great therapist beyond credentials and how self-awareness creates the foundation for meaningful connections.• The unseen emotional work of being a therapist – balancing personal resilience while holding space for others• Dating in the digital age and how unrealistic standards affect our ability to form genuine connections• Why loneliness persists despite constant digital connection• Self-awareness as the critical difference between intuition and trauma responses• The importance of finding personal meaning and purpose• How AI and technology are changing human connection and mental health• The balance between setting boundaries and authentic vulnerability• Why authentic human connection requires courage and presenceHead over to https://tangem.com/en/ and use code "feedthesoul" for a large discount on your first Crypto Cold Wallet and start investing in your financial future today.Support the showWarmly,Nico Barraza@FeedTheSoulNBwww.nicobarraza.com
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What if your health issues aren't just physical?In this episode of Single Parent Success Stories, cardiologist Dr. Julius Torelli shares why Western medicine often fails chronic illness sufferers—and how mindset, gratitude, and lifestyle changes can transform your well-being. Discover the Gratefully Well approach, practical tips to manage stress, and why self-worth is the foundation of health.Listen for:✔ The #1 overlooked cause of migraines & IBS✔ Why gratitude can change your physiology✔ The real difference between sick care & wellness careChapters00:00 Introduction to Holistic Health06:21 The Shift from Sick Care to Wellness08:45 Taking Responsibility for Health11:31 Incorporating Non-Physical Dimensions17:12 The Power of Gratitude19:30 Understanding Emotions and Physiology21:36 The Superpower of Self-Worth23:31 Finding Meaning in Life26:11 Creating a Community for Wellness29:31 Daily Non-Negotiables for Health32:07 Upcoming Workshops and ResourcesConnect with Julius:
What makes time go fast for you, and what makes it go slow...It's a powerful question that might just help you find more meaning and heck, yes even more joy in your work.We see a brighter future, but the system moves slowly. This mismatch can lead to frustration and burnout. What if the secret to creating change wasn't about the system, but about you?In this conversation with Martha Edwards, a public sector veteran, we talk about powerful personal habits that keep her effective and optimistic.In this episode we explore topics like:How to find satisfaction in work that might not bear fruit for yearsWhy the energy you bring to a room is one of your most powerful professional toolsAnd how a simple practice like writing "week notes" can be a hack to recognize your small wins and give you the motivation to keep going.This framing takes the pressure off and allows us to be kinder to ourselves, knowing we've contributed a piece to a larger, longer story. I'm curious if this metaphor resonate with you too.Enjoy the episode and keep planing seeds .Be well,~ Marc--- [ 1. GUIDE ] --- 00:00 Welcome to Episode 23404:00 The current state of public sector design07:30 How Systemic Uncertainty Affects Designers08:30 From "Designer" to "Public Servant"09:30 Finding Meaning in Government Work 12:30 How she can find herself still grateful16:00 Big learnings: working as a creative writer18:00 Seeing a "Parallel Universe" at UK's GDS20:00 Avoid the "Design Colonialist" Mindset22:30 How it shifted23:30 government digital service to canadian government28:30 How Sharing Work Waters the Seeds of Change30:30 what she recommends to share36:30 staying patient in a government organization38:00 how do we navigate that?43:30 Exercise to Recognize Your "Small" Wins45:15 Being flexible with your role in the public service industry48:30 How to Make Smart Compromises54:30 Finding Your Joy57:30 Question to ponder59:30 Connect with Martha --- [ 2. LINKS ] --- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marthaedwardscan/ Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/maredwards.bsky.socialWebsite: marthaedwards.ca Readings:Going beyond planting seeds I'm a service designer and I've never done co-design Leading with design at the Ministry of Environment The long slog of public service transformation - by Martin and KaraBarriers to Service Design in Government - Created by Linn Vizard, Marie Serrano and Spencer Beacock --- [ 3. CIRCLE ] --- Join our private community for in-house service design professionals. https://servicedesignshow.com/circle[4. FIND THE SHOW ON]Youtube ~ https://go.servicedesignshow.com/234-youtube Spotify ~ https://go.servicedesignshow.com/234-spotifyApple ~ https://go.servicedesignshow.com/234-appleSnipd ~ https://go.servicedesignshow.com/234-snipd
This week's flagship is different.I'm using this episode to officially launch my new book, Collecting For Keeps: Finding Meaning in a Hobby Built on Hype.This isn't a blueprint. It's a reflection. It's about why we collect, the art of chasing, filtering out the noise, building with intention, letting go, finding community, and collecting in a way that lasts.It's free. It's for every collector — whether you've been here for decades or just ripped your first pack.In this episode, I share why I wrote the book, what's inside, and how I hope it can help ground you in a hobby that's louder and faster than ever.Download your copy at the link in the show notes, read it, and if it resonates — tell a damn friend.Get your free copy of Collecting For Keeps: Finding Meaning In A Hobby Built On Hype Start your 7 day free trial of Stacking Slabs Patreon Today[Distributed on Sunday] Sign up for the Stacking Slabs Weekly Rip Newsletter using this linkFollow Stacking Slabs: | Twitter | Instagram | Facebook | Tiktok
There are plenty of words in the English language that are distainful, hurtful, nasty, & downright awful, but there are two words that are unavoidable and from which we often run: death & dying - no one enjoys grief, sadness, or loss - those words are so dam final! When I was in social work school, I read Elizabeth Kubler-Ross's book aptly titled On Death and Dying, seminol work at that time. Kubler-Ross introduced what is known as the 5 stages of grief: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and Acceptance; a 6th stage was more recently added by a colleague of Kubler-Ross', David Kessler, Finding Meaning. It turns out that this concept may have been in Kubler-Ross' initial model, but her editor told her to remove it, as 5 stages are better than 6, although, as anyone who has experienced grief knows, this is not a linear process. One incredibly gifted creator, producer, and writer decided to take on this subject, but not as a passive project, but a fully engaging, head-on discussion to move us, make us think, and maybe make us less afraid of the inevitable. Grief Dialogues: The Experience brings timely conversations about death, dying, and grief to the stage in innovative, humorous, and touching ways. Part theatre, part therapy, this “edutainment” love that creative name, project began in 2016 with an open call for short plays and was developed from nearly 200 submissions. The original performance was composed of 6 short plays from playwrights across the country. It is a thought-provoking and honest look at the subject of death that invites audiences to reconsider some of the rhetoric and stigmas around the topic. As one of my guests shares: Theatre is the great empathy generator, and out of grief, comes art. Grief Dialogues is also committed to offering accessible and affordable training in compassion for health care providers, counselors and therapists, end-of-life specialists, funeral homes, and at-home caregivers. Let's Write a Musical was born out of this concept of 'out of grief, comes art.' A Musical About Love, Loss, and the Power of Storytelling. A joyous celebration of the power of love and an ode to classic musicals. A heartfelt and inspiring journey that follows David Hamilton and his wife, Lucy (based on Ben and Lawrie), as they write a romantic comedy in the wake of David's cancer diagnosis. As their real-life challenges unfold, so does the story of Olive and Blake, a young couple in the 1950s navigating love, laughter, and misadventures. For more information, check out their website: https://www.griefdialogues.com/ Tickets for Let's Write a Musical are on sale now: https://www.griefdialogues.com/lets-write-a-musical/
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Charlie Colenutt shares his journey from disillusioned lawyer to author, exploring what makes work fulfilling based on interviews with 100 people across diverse professions.You'll learn:•How the most satisfied workers can see clear, immediate results from their efforts• That career satisfaction shows little correlation with income beyond meeting basic needs• Many fulfilled workers had experienced career crises before finding satisfaction• Career paths are rarely planned and usually involve significant randomness or luck• Young workers often face disappointment when workplace rhetoric about meaning doesn't match reality• Being honest with yourself about your motivations is crucial when making career decisionsIf you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to leave us a review – it means the world to us as creators!*Hosted by William Wadsworth, memory psychologist, independent researcher and study skills coach. I help ambitious students to study smarter, not harder, so they can ace their exams with less work and less stress.BOOK 1:1 COACHING to supercharge your exam success: https://examstudyexpert.com/workwithme/Get a copy of Outsmart Your Exams, my award-winning exam technique book, at https://geni.us/exams***As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases on suggested books.Questions? Comments? Requests? Or just want to say "thanks" - send me a text message (I read them all!).
Tune in to hear:What transpired in the apocryphal conversation between JFK and a NASA janitor and what can we learn from this?Why is finding meaning in the mundane such an important part of living a fulfilled life?Why is chasing intrinsic fulfillment often much more fruitful than chasing monetary gain or career advancement?What psychological benefits accrue as a result of seeing your job as a calling rather than a simple means to and end?What is Dr. Amy Wrzesniewski's idea of “job crafting?”What is “minimization,” as a psychological principle, and why is it so detrimental?LinksThe Soul of WealthOrion's Market Volatility PortalConnect with UsMeet Dr. Daniel CrosbyCheck Out All of Orion's PodcastsPower Your Growth with OrionCompliance Code: 2089-U-25216
PLEASE LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE TO ENCOURAGE MORE EPISODES! In this episode of ASKITA, John brings Jennifer R. Levin, PhD, LMFT, FT, to the studio to discuss tragic and sudden loss. Jennifer R. Levin, PhD, LMFT, FT, is a nationally respected grief expert and therapist specializing in sudden or unexpected loss. A licensed therapist, she is one fewer than 300 mental health professionals worldwide credentialed as a Fellow in Thanatology, the top distinction in the field of death, dying, and bereavement. For more than three decades, Dr. Levin has guided individuals and communities through the disorienting pain of traumatic grief — especially after suicide, overdose, accidents, or unexpected illness. Her book is “The Traumatic Loss Workbook: Powerful Skills for Navigating the Grief Caused by a Sudden or Unexpected Death” (New Harbinger Publications, July 1, 2025). Designed to be both gentle and practical, the workbook offers readers clinically grounded tools based in cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, and narrative therapy to stabilize and begin healing. It's a lifeline for anyone experiencing overwhelming grief and for professionals supporting them. Dr. Levin is the founder of Traumatic Grief Solutions, a consultancy supporting companies, nonprofits and schools through proactive grief planning and crisis response; and Therapy Heals, Inc., a private therapy practice supporting individuals living with sudden or unexpected loss.. She hosts the podcast “Untethered: Healing the Pain From a Sudden Death.” Learn more at TraumaticGriefSolutions.com. PLEASE LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE TO ENCOURAGE MORE EPISODES!
Are you overlooking the fastest way to grow your staffing firm? Loss aversion is the most underused yet powerful psychological principle in sales—and this video reveals exactly how to use it to close more deals, upsell existing accounts, and build client loyalty. In this expert-level conversation, presented by Haley Marketing, Brad Bialy sits down with sales strategist Jeff Mariola to dissect how loss aversion psychology and contrast techniques can radically shift your sales approach. If your team is overly focused on chasing new business and missing growth opportunities right in front of them, this episode will recalibrate your strategy. Expect to Learn: How human behavior, decision-making psychology, and relationship dynamics all collide in staffing sales. Why loss aversion should be your go-to strategy with both new and existing clients How to reposition your firm from “just another vendor” to “irreplaceable partner” What elite sales performers do differently in account management How to build and execute a repeatable, psychology-driven sales playbook Chapters & Timestamps 00:15 – The #1 Flaw in Staffing Sales Teams 02:06 – How to Sell More to Existing Clients 03:45 – Loss Aversion in Sales Explained 04:45 – How to Use Loss Aversion with Existing Clients 05:50 – Selling When Your Client Has Multiple Vendors 10:15 – Why Staffing Firms Underinvest in Account Growth 11:00 – Stop Chasing Logos: Start Deepening Client Relationships 12:15 – Creating a Sales Strategy for Existing Clients 13:10 – Identifying Hidden Revenue in Low-Yield Accounts 17:00 – Why Social Proof Works: Science of Influence 19:00 – Nobel Prize Research Behind Loss Aversion 20:15 – Using Contrast to Close More Deals 23:00 – Breaking Out of Outdated Staffing Sales Tactics 24:15 – The Referral Gap: What Most Salespeople Miss 26:45 – Asking for Referrals Without Feeling “Salesy” 28:45 – What Staffing Is Getting Wrong About Sales Today 31:30 – Building a Repeatable Sales System 32:45 – Creating Your Staffing Sales Playbook 38:00 – Key Traits of Top Staffing Sales Professionals 41:00 – Viktor Frankl, Mindset, and Finding Meaning in Sales 45:00 – Closing Thoughts + Connect with Jeff Mariola About the Speakers: Brad Bialy is host of Take the Stage and InSights, two of the leading podcast for the staffing industry, presented by Haley Marketing. He has a deep passion for helping staffing and recruiting firms achieve their business objectives through strategic digital marketing. For over a decade, Brad has developed a proven track record of motivating and educating staffing industry professionals at over 100 industry-specific conferences and webinars. Brad has helped guide the comprehensive marketing strategy of more than 300 staffing and recruiting firms, making him a sought-after expert and speaker in the industry. With more than 25 years of successful CEO leadership experience across two multi-national businesses (Rentokil Pest Control and Ambius) plus two entrepreneurial start-ups, Jeff Mariola has a reputation for creating cultures which consistently outscore other high-performing companies in engagement, growth, empowerment, and leadership. Having recently finished leading the recapitalization of a Brilliant Staffing, LLC to private equity in 2018, Jeff has now changed gears and united with his wife, Michelle, to create Mariola Unlimited – a leadership development advisory service business focused on executive coaching, leadership, management workshops, brand marketing, and keynote speaking. Jeff is certified by Multi-Health Systems in the use of the EQi 2.0 Assessment & EQ 360 Leadership Assessment tools, as well as Stephen R. Covey's, The Five Choices to achieving extraordinary productivity. He has also successfully completed the Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) course and is a certified practitioner for Talent Optimization by The Predictive Index. Offers Heard in this Episode: 30 minutes of strategic marketing consultation with Brad Bialy: https://bit.ly/Bialy30 Special Offers! Our Best Savings of 2025: https://bit.ly/bialyoffer What if your back office fueled your growth instead of holding it back? TRICOM makes it happen! From payroll and billing to accounting and asset based lending, they clear the roadblocks and power your path forward. Your team gets paid, your cash flow stays steady and your business scales like never before. Visit https://www.TRICOM.com to learn more.
In this episode, I talk about how to look deeper into photographs and find their meaning, not just describe what's in them. Drawing from Sylvan Barnet's ideas on formal analysis, I explain the difference between simply listing what you see and analyzing how a photo communicates something more. I also discuss how both photographers and viewers help shape a photo's meaning, and why it's okay if that meaning isn't always clear.
In this episode, Nickolas Butler explores finding meaning through caregiving, loss, and writing. At just 20 years old, Nick became his father's legal guardian after a sudden brain aneurysm — a role he held for 23 years. What began as a family emergency became a long, complex journey that shaped his identity, his values, and his voice as a novelist. In this honest and moving conversation, Nick shares the emotional toll and unexpected wisdom that caregiving can bring, the power of presence, and how life's hardest roles can also become its most transformative. Nick also discusses his latest novel, A 40 Year Kiss — a tender, hopeful story of second chances, aging, and old love — and how paying attention to real people's stories fuels his fiction. If you're navigating caregiving, grieving a loved one, or wondering how to stay open to creativity during hard seasons, this episode offers comfort, insight, and quiet strength.Feeling overwhelmed, even by the good things in your life?Check out Overwhelm is Optional — a 4-week email course that helps you feel calmer and more grounded without needing to do less. In under 10 minutes a day, you'll learn simple mindset shifts (called “Still Points”) you can use right inside the life you already have. Sign up here for only $29!Key Takeaways:Caregiving and the emotional complexities involved in becoming a legal guardian at a young age.The impact of caregiving on personal identity and life experiences over a long duration.The evolution of storytelling and the importance of listening to others' stories in writing.The contrast between Butler's darker previous works and his latest novel, which focuses on themes of love, family, and redemption.The exploration of “old love” and the realities of long-term relationships versus contemporary portrayals of romance.The challenges and nuances of aging, wisdom, and the search for guidance in later life.The personal relationship between the writer and their craft, including the writing process and routines.The complexities of addiction and recovery, particularly in relation to alcohol use.The significance of community and shared experiences, as illustrated through sports and personal anecdotes.The importance of embracing ambiguity and the nuanced nature of human relationships in both life and art.If you enjoyed this conversation with Nickolas Butler, check out these other episodes:How to Embrace the Important Elements of Life with Nickolas ButlerA Journey to Self-Discovery and Sobriety with Matthew QuickFor full show notes, click here!Connect with the show:Follow us on YouTube: @TheOneYouFeedPodSubscribe on Apple Podcasts or SpotifyFollow us on InstagramSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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In today's episode of the Second in Command podcast, Cameron shifts gears to discuss the meaning behind human connection and what truly matters beyond daily tasks and business pressures. You'll hear the story behind a meaningful tattoo inspired by a quote about "walking each other home," emphasizing that despite life's inevitable end, the real significance lies in caring for one another's dreams, fears, and passions. This philosophical reflection invites you to reconsider your perspective on life and the importance of empathy over material success.The discussion then shifts to the inspiring story of a remarkable individual who faced unimaginable adversity but cultivated resilience and wisdom in the face of hardship. Through anecdotes of pain, loss, and perseverance, you'll find out why life's challenges often aren't as bleak as they seem, and that maintaining a lighthearted, hopeful attitude can make all the difference. The concept that things are rarely as good or as bad as they appear encourages a more balanced, enduring outlook.Ready to step back from the hustle and reconnect with what really matters? This heartfelt solo episode will shift your perspective—from success and setbacks to purpose and connection. Don't miss this powerful reflection on resilience, empathy, and what it means to “walk each other home.”If you've enjoyed this episode of the Second in Command podcast, be sure to leave a review and subscribe today!Enjoy!In This Episode You'll Learn:The significance of the tattoo "Walking Each Other Home" from Ram Dass, which serves as a reminder that material success is insignificant compared to human connection. (2:03)The story of Dave Kekitch, who experienced severe back pain during a workout, leading to a slow bleed in his spinal cord and paralysis from the chest down. (2:46)Dave's travels around the world in search of a cure, and ultimately became an advocate for life extension. (4:19)The importance of human connection and caring about others. (6:21)And much more...Resources:Connect with Cameron: Website | LinkedInGet Cameron's latest book – "Second in Command: Unleash the Power of Your COO"Get Cameron's online course – Invest In Your LeadersDisclaimer:The views, information, or opinions expressed during this podcast are solely those of the individuals involved and do not necessarily represent those of The Second in Command podcast or its affiliates. The content provided is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice. We make no representations as to the accuracy, completeness, suitability, or validity of any information on this podcast and will not be liable for any errors, omissions, or delays in this information or any losses, injuries, or damages arising from its display or use. Listeners should consult with a professional for specific advice tailored to their situation. By accessing this podcast, you acknowledge that any reliance on the content is at your own risk.
In a world that often feels chaotic and uncertain, how do we discover what truly matters? In this Hot Pod event episode, you will hear stories about people have been finding meaning through learning, community, service, and more. Whether you're navigating a major life transition or simply seeking deeper satisfaction, this conversation offers insights and ideas for you to hopefully find more meaning.
"Even if no one remembers your name, your work can live on." Notable Moments 00:03 – What gives Jody's life meaning: Chile, conservation, and future purpose 00:06 – The “Find Your Park” campaign and connection to nature 00:08 – Who Jody would bring if marooned 00:10 – Why emotions often drive decisions before logic catches up 00:13 – Upcoming projects Jody is excited about 00:17 – Reflections on past podcasts and learning from collaboration In this episode, Chip Huth returns to ask Jody three unscripted questions. Their conversation dives into legacy, meaning, and the emotional drivers behind our decisions. Jody shares a transformative experience in Chile that reshaped how he thinks about his life's impact and what fuels his future ambitions. They discuss the value of relationships, storytelling, and preparing for what's next. A lighthearted start with a Fresca story leads into meaningful insight on conservation, creativity, and the quiet legacy we all leave behind. Read the blog for more about this episode. Connect with Chip About Chip Huth Arbinger.com/ Listen to the Leading Outward Podcast Connect with Jody www.jodymaberry.com About Jody - https://jodymaberry.com/about-jody-maberry/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sugarjmaberry LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jodymaberry/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/sugarjmaberry/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/jodymaberry
In this political moment where hostility towards immigrants and outsiders is openly espoused, one of our own colleagues has released a book about growing up as a Muslim-American in the post-9/11 era—and raising his own kids now. Guest: Aymann Ismail, Slate staff writer and author of “Becoming Baba: Fatherhood, Faith, and Finding Meaning in America.” This episode is member-exclusive. Listen to it now by subscribing to Slate Plus. By joining, not only will you unlock exclusive episodes of What Next —you'll also access ad-free listening across all your favorite Slate podcasts. You can subscribe directly from the What Next show page on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/whatnextplus to get access wherever you listen. Podcast production by Elena Schwartz, Paige Osburn, Anna Phillips, Madeline Ducharme, Ethan Oberman, and Rob Gunther. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Kathy Oneto offers a sustainable path to achieving your goals in work and in life.— YOU'LL LEARN — 1) The major myths surrounding ambition2) How to overcome inertia to achieve your goals3) How to keep your energy up for the long termSubscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep1075 for clickable versions of the links below. — ABOUT KATHY — Kathy Oneto is a consultant, facilitator, and coach who is passionate about helping ambitious organizations, teams, and individuals explore how to live and work differently for more success, satisfaction, and sustainability. She is the founder and podcast host of Sustainable Ambition and is author of the book Sustainable Ambition: How to Prioritize What Matters to Thrive in Life and Work (June 2025). She helps people get more from work and life without sacrificing their joy or ease. • Book: Sustainable Ambition: How to Prioritize What Matters to Thrive in Life and Work• LinkedIn: Kathy Oneto• Podcast: Sustainable Ambition• Website: SustainableAmbition.com — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — • Study: “Case study: what happened when we took a break at Slack” by Elizabeth Sarasohn• Study: “The Benefits of Frequent Positive Affect: Does Happiness Lead to Success?” by Sonja Lyubomirsky, Laura King, and Ed Diener• Book: The 3.3 Rule: The New Workday Standard of Creating More by Working Less by John Briggs• Book: What You Are Looking For Is in the Library: A Novel by Michiko Aoyama• Book: A Psalm for the Wild-Built: A Monk and Robot Book (Monk & Robot, 1) by Becky Chambers • Book: A Prayer for the Crown-Shy: A Monk and Robot Book (Monk & Robot, 2) by Becky Chambers • Onion Article: Man's Utter Failure In Life A Bit Of A Sore Spot — THANK YOU SPONSORS! — • Strawberry.me. Claim your $50 credit and build momentum in your career with Strawberry.me/Awesome• Plaud.ai. Use the code AWESOME and get a discount on your order• Rula. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at Rula.com/AwesomeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In episode 1888, Jack and Miles are joined by journalist and author of Becoming Baba: Fatherhood, Faith, and Finding Meaning in America, Aymann Ismail, to discuss… ZOHRAAAAAANNNN, M3GAN 2.0 Loses Box Office Race to F1, Disney World’s Trump Animatronic No Longer Looks Like A F**ked Up Hilary Clinton and more! Zohran Mamdani says, "I don't think we should have billionaires because frankly it is so much money in a moment of such inequality" N.Y. Senator ‘Misspoke’ When She Falsely Claimed Zohran Mamdani Condoned ‘Global Jihad’ Box Office: ‘F1’ Zooms to $55.6M Opening and $144M Globally, ‘M3GAN 2.0’ Bombs With $10M U.S. Start Disney Updates Donald Trump Animatronic for The Hall of Presidents Following Hillary Clinton Controversy LISTEN: Grind by Les SinsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of The Rachel Hollis Podcast, Rachel delves into the complexity of forgiveness and the journey through grief. She highlights the concept of forgiveness as a path to personal freedom. Rachel shares her transformative experiences and the significance of subscribing to the podcast. The episode features insights from renowned voices like Anne Lamott, Dr. Edith Eger, and Arthur Brooks on emotional resilience, healing, and purpose.Get your copy of Rachel's New Book Here: Audible, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Books-A-Millon, Bookshop.org, or wherever books are sold!00:44 Welcome to the Show01:42 Healing Forward: Finding Peace and Purpose After Loss03:22 Writing as a Path to Self-Discovery04:15 Overcoming Perfectionism in Writing04:52 The Importance of Self-Respect and Self-Care11:42 The Choice: Embracing Freedom and Forgiveness16:08 Understanding Happiness and Genetics20:37 Defining Happiness21:24 The Role of Pleasure in Happiness21:46 Balancing Pleasure and Social Connections23:14 The Neuroscience of Addiction24:13 The Science of Happiness25:37 The Power of Acceptance28:51 Navigating Unexpected Life Changes34:23 Coping with Loss and Grief36:49 Finding Meaning in Life's Challenges41:33 Embracing the Full Spectrum of LifeSign up for Rachel's weekly email: https://msrachelhollis.com/insider/Call the podcast hotline and leave a voicemail! Call (737) 400-4626Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RachelHollisMotivation/videosFollow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MsRachelHollis To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices.