In Bed with Dr Sue

I'll be doing my first live show in ages. This gives you the chance to call in and ask me your questions directly. All topics, nothing is off-limits. Ask anything you like. freeBBCCuckoldingFinancial DominationChastityANYTHING YOU WANT! I'll be answering all your Kinky Questions so if you won't be able to make the live show or you're too shy to call in then send in your Questions HERE ahead of the show. Also to make things a little interesting I'm asking the question: WHAT IS THE KINKIEST – WILDEST SEXUAL THING YOU'VE EVER DONE? Call in with your answer or send your answer in ahead of the show HERE. CALL IN during the show 657-383-0031 JOIN US IN THE CHATROOM

On this show I'm going to go over all the reasons why being free is actually a great idea for many men. I know, I was pissed when I first heard the concept but after doing a deep dive with these gentlemen, I can now say that my mind has been changed. There are so many fabulous benefits to being free and I'm going to go over each one in depth on this show. So if you're on the fence about moving to this type of lifestyle, listen in, because these bodacious benefits could just help you make up your mind. I'll even be giving you several real examples of how this is working for men everywhere. PLUS! All your Kinky Questions answered! Be sure to sign up for Patreon to hear the entire show

I am thrilled to bring you this show with my very special guest Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers. Dr. Tina is a licensed sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, best-selling author, researcher, emeriti professor, and media personality whose expertise spans sex therapy, spiritual intimacy, parenting, medicine, and social justice. Known for exposing the impact of patriarchy and sexual shame on our ability to securely attach to our partners, and instruct our children to attach to theirs, Dr. Sellers' book Sex, God, & the Conservative Church – Erasing Shame from Sexual Intimacy has had a global impact. Her latest book, Shameless Parenting – Everything You Need to Raise Shame-free, Confident, Kids and Heal Your Shame Too! was a New Release Bestseller in eight categories. She speaks throughout the world on how to heal, and how to raise shame-free relationally confident children. In 2023, Dr. Tina founded InannaRising.org – A private membership community for psychedelic assisted therapists and medical providers to get ongoing clinical consultation, collaboration, training, and support in creating scholarships for the under resourced, and participation in an indigenous reparation fund. In my interview Dr. Tina explains the role of the patriarchy and gives you all the beginning tools you need to move past your shame and embrace a guilt-free life. Link to reference materials discussed in the interview https://bit.ly/NoSexShame

Perception is everything. And when it comes to dominant and submissive relationships the perception is that Dominant = Bitch and submissive = weak. When we think about how we think about our hands for example, the question is asked, what is your dominant hand? If you're right handed that would mean that your dominant hand, your right hand, is stronger than your left hand. This same perception runs through everything we do. Men are only allowed to be strong, dominant, alpha males. Women are only allowed to be sweet, kind, submissive females. It's archaic thinking that needs to stop. Enter Chris Lyon. Chris has spent countless hours researching and interviewing folks to see how successful dominant and submissive relationships really work. Chris is an admitted dominant herself in her relationship and finds that although it wouldn't seem like it, it makes the relationship more balanced. Tune in Tues May 14 and listen to my interview with Chris M. Lyon and learn about smashing the stereotype of dominant and submissive roles in relationships. Followed by: Kinky Questions

Those of you who are obsessed with BBC, cuckolding, and the BNWO will be blown away when you hear Paul's story. Paul got in touch with me through some The Review comments and once I read these comments I knew I had to bring you his story, and luckily for my listeners he did. Paul spoke with me over a couple of days, telling me his personal story that begins with a troubled and frightening childhood and the terror and violence follows him to this day. Paul's story will, of course be followed by Kinky Questions & Confessions. This show's questions include: Can a lack of intimacy lead to depression?Erectile issues and BDSMCan lesbians have a cuckold relationship?What is mind fucking?What is a snow bunny?How to have a prostate orgasm **WARNING** Paul's story is one that depicts sexual violence, sexual violence towards children, references to bestiality, rape, torture and sexually explicit language that some may find upsetting. If you are the survivor of childhood trauma you may find this story triggering. Listener discretion is very much advised.  

On this show I walk you through how cuckolding has changed from being female empowering to something that is unrecognizable, destructive, and dangerous. I explain to you how free whitebois factor into cuckolding, how bull life has changed, and how white men continue to walk the path of self-destruction. Plus how BBC ended up being woven into cuckolding because of the weakness of white males. It's a fascinating topic and to hear how it's actually devolved is pretty shocking. PLUS All your kinky questions & confessions.

In this episode I answer all your Kinky Questions and expose all your Kinky Confessions. You'll hear answers to such questions and topics as: My thoughts on Kink and AgingHow to help an abused wife gain confidenceCringey male behaviorHow to know if your Sub, Switch or Domme/DomIs small penis obsession okay?Cuckolded by another coupleWhat's up with FEET PHOBIA?and MORE!

Tuesday January 16 In Bed with Dr Sue is BACK! And I'm bringing you a yummy story I know all of you boys and girls will just love. It's a story based on a client of mine who thought he could outsmart the cuckold scene. He was sure he could control everything. But even though I cautioned him, he didn't listen and he and his wife ended up so far down in the deep, that they couldn't see light. These stories are happening every day. And I can warn you, but you won't listen. So sit back and enjoy this story based on a real couple. Plus! I'll be answering your questions at the end of the show.

We've all heard of Kegels, and I shouldn't have to tell you ladies about the importance of a strong pelvic floor but what if you could learn a set of techniques that could not only strengthen your pelvic floor but also turn your vagina into an amusement park. Imagine not only making any incontinence, for those of you who have it, disappear but then taking it to the stratosphere by having a vagina that can squeeze, pull, tilt, suck, lock, grip, twist and even milk a penis. I don't have to tell you that it would make you one memorable fuck, that's for damn sure. My guest Belle Di Lorenzo studied the art of pompoir for decades, tracing it's history and learning from the Indonesian ladies who had created and mastered the ability to manipulate their vagina's in over 27 different ways and she's going to teach you how to do it to.

This show is an important one if you're married or with a significant other. I talk to you about the dangers of being too submissive in front of your wife. It's a very slippery slope even though I understand that sucking a cock or for you gentlemen who love crossdressing or being feminized, dressin up or being dressed up in front of her is a huge turn-on, but it's not necessarily something you want her to see. I explain to you how it feels for a woman in your wife's position. What her thoughts are when she sees you do this. How it can go south very quickly and MORE! Also on questions I discuss selective breeding and extreme kink.

This is the series of shows so many of you have been asking me for. “Kevin” from the Extreme Cuckolding show is back to update you about his life in his own words. You're not going to want to miss this series, that is available right now on Patreon, when you hear what Kevin has been up to since 2017. Kevin answers all the questions you guys sent in as he walks you through what his life has become and how he has ended up where he is today, living the life of a true, reformed, privileged, white man who only serves black kings, not by wanking off in Discord rooms but in the only way he can, through the use of his warm, wet, holes. Listen to all 3 hours of Kevin's life NOW ONLY on PATREON Part 1 – We recap with Kevin about how he got to where he is and we go deeper into the power dynamic and how it changed. We also discuss the pivotal moments in his marriage that cause it to start to dissolve and how he chose to ignore them for the sake of his own arousal. Part 2 – Kevin describes how hypnosis was used to control is ability to orgasm, how his wife decided to use selective breeding, what happened at BLM, giving up your right to vote, and the problem with . Part 3 – How Kevin lives his life now. What he does for a living, how he makes ends meet, how, much he is controlled by strong, black, men, what happens once you're down the rabbit hole, Kevin's son and how he lives his life, and Kevin's advice for anyone who wants to do this and further stories of other men he knows and what has happened to them.

In my last show that I did with the ever amazing Naima The BBC Dealer we discussed this rather new phenomenon of white men choosing not to have sex with women and opting to instead, masturbate to interracial as their chosen sex life. But I was approached by “Steven,” who inadvertently found this group but was then quite literally was recruited to join this growing number of men on Discord/Twitter who feel they are helping the racism and cultural issues of the world by diminishing women. What follows is his tale of secreted debauchery and cult-like programming tactics that keep these weak-minded males coming back for more until there is no getting out.

I'm back! And I couldn't think of a better person to share my return with than the ever amazing Naima. The Free movement has become a ‘thing' and it doesn't look to be a flash in the pan either. Is this white male obsession with BBC and the subsequent reliquishing of hetero sex something intentional? Some say it's just typical white men and their infatuation with both their dicks and . Still others think it could be anthropological. Either way this is a growing movement of men hell bent on jerking to BBC and giving their lives to black men with large penises. Naima and I explore these ideas after a listener sent me an email asking just these questions. Now there is also an upcoming series of shows that will explore this as well with a free white boy.

Phone sex operators, cam show producers, escorts, pretty much all realms of sex work have blacklists. Why? Because the behavior of clients can get very, very, weird and in some cases downright dangerous. Some men feed off of doing whatever they can to screw with sex workers for a variety of personal, twisted reasons. But sometimes even the most innocent of clients can get entangled in misbehavior of his own doing, although he doesn't understand what he did. That's where Amelia Divine and I come in. We're going to do two things for all of you boys ‘out there' who find yourselves swimming in the sea of wtf-edness that is navigating the world of sex work and BDSM.  We're going to point  out common types of misbehavior that can get you in trouble AND we're going to go to the sex workers themselves and ask them what their pet peeves are so that you will never find yourself in deep doo doo. Well unless that's you're thing…

Bitch Talk turns into Witch Talk for our Halloween show and on this show Amelia Divine and I will be discussing all things witchcraft. Both Amelia and myself have practiced witchcraft also known as Wicca for years so this is your opportunity to ask us anything you want about being a Witch. But that would be just downright boring so we're not going to leave you with a Wicca for Dummies, nay nay my friends. We're going to teach you how to do SEX MAGICK. So be sure to tune in and call in with your questions. We'll be bitching to you about: Witchcraft/Demoness/Succubus FetishSex Magick - What it is and how to do itWhat the Sweet Fuck Halloween Edition with stories that will keep you in bed and under the coversThe Satanic Temple takes on the State of Texasand maybe, just maybe I'll do a few quick tarot readings for callers... This is our favorite time of year and we want to celebrate with all of you so join our Discord chat group to talk to us during the show

OnlyFans™ ruffled a bunch of feathers over the last week by deciding to abide by alleged payment processor demands and removed from the OnlyFans™ site. This after it was sex workers who basically made the site what it is.  Although OnlyFans™ has since reversed their decision to ban from it's site for now it's not clear on what they plan to allow and not allow. But how does this tie in with the Marquis de Sade one of the most twisted minds of the 18th century? That's exactly what we plan to explain on this show. And it's not just OnlyFans™ there are many other sites and providers that are shockingly catering to what can only be described as sexual deviances. What do you think? Are you a provider who found yourself in the middle of the OnlyFans™ shit show?Are you going to stay with a platform that is clearly trying to get rid of your content?Are you a provider who caters to sexual deviance (aka taboo topics)? CALL IN THE NIGHT OF THE SHOW 657-383-0031

Welcome to the premiere episode of Bitch Talk with my co-host the Sissy Whisperer herself Ms. Amelia Divine. Where a wide range of topics including sex, BDSM, current events and news will be discussed and bitched about. Think of it as The View for Sex.  In tonight's show we'll talk about Addiction. Is it a real thing or is it just hype?What is the psychology of and what are its effects on relationships?Why do some women find some threatening?Is there such a thing as positive ? What do you think? Be sure to call in during the show with your opinion. Can't make the show? You can send in your story, comment or question right HERE. CALL IN THE NIGHT OF THE SHOW 657-383-0031 ***Blog Talk is removing "that word" 

On this show we are all blessed to be able to hear the story of J a man who has had to come to terms with who he is deep inside. And why are we blessed? Because it’s not easy to discuss these feelings in a public forum but J was more than willing to discuss his journey of self-discovery and the realizations he has gone through. You’ll hear how J has gone from a man who thought he might be a little femme to a man who realized that it was so much more. J is kind enough to allow you to learn about yourself through his story and you don’t want to miss his story. You’ll also hear how he has taken the quarantine isolation and turned it into the opportunity to write stories for other sissy babies under the name Christine Kringle. Read Christine Kringle’s many short bedtime stories HERE.  Already in volume 3!

I was asked by several people to do a show on depression, anxiety and motivation. Then I posed the question on Twitter to see if anyone else was dealing with these issues and did they want me to address them?  Well, there was a resounding YES! So what better time than right now to learn some new coping techniques right before the holidays during a pandemic and overall heightened tensions in the world?

And once again my favorite time of year is upon us which means my annual Halloween FreakFest where I bring you tales of the truly weird and twisted. Once you fall down this rabbit hole don’t be surprised if you turn in to the Mad Hatter himself with all the insanity I’m going to be bringing you including: Fake or Fact – Tales of the paranormal sent in by listeners but can you tell which one is real and which one is fake?Peculiar ParaphiliasAnd more What the Sweet Fuck stories to make you wish you weren’t human

Another fun show answering your questions about kink, sex, BDSM and fetish. And once again you guys didn't disappoint. The ladies really served it up this time with some great questions about submissive hubby behavior. PLUS! Two fabulous real life stories by Duane!! We catch up with Duane after I scolded him for leave us hanging on the last show with those tantalizing tidbits. Well let me tell you he delivered and then some! Wait til you hear the whole story about his first gum job and his first pegging. Not your average sessions I can assure you!

One of the most important keys to a successful relationship is communication. But sometimes the things you want to communicate just don’t come out right. And anything to do with sex will be some of the hardest conversations you’ll have as a couple.  So imagine being in the situation where you not only want to talk about sex but more specifically you want to discuss your fetish or kink. Putting yourself ‘out there’ even with the partner you swore to love to the end and who you trust over anyone else is still very difficult. The risk of being judged can cause even the most open of partners to clam up and try to hide how they feel. Now combine all of that with the fact that you’re a male of our species with certain sociological pressures of what ‘being a man,’ is and if you go outside of those societal norms you are considered a freak regardless, that’s not an easy position to be in. One of the hardest things a man can do is to tell his wife, girlfriend or significant other about his kinks and sexual desires beyond Wednesday night missionary. Because this is a difficult conversation to have and in many cases men horribly fuck it all up causing their partner nothing but grief, because of that I decided it would be better if I spoke for them. I’m going to explain to you everything you need to know to not only understand your partner but to hopefully learn to accept them and their desires AND indulge those desires in such a way that YOU have fun playing with him. I’ll be discussing: What is a fetish?The difference between a fetish and kinkYour husband is submissive; the psychology of male sexual submissionWhat is he really saying?AND MORE!

Many of the issues I talk about on the show are some of the more popular subjects. But perhaps some of the hardest subjects are those that make us face our own issues and perceptions. In this show I’ll be discussing three different topics: Aging and BDSM – in Western society we discard the aging and think of them as disposable. This attitude is even greater in the sex industry.  Many men believe that a woman is only viable if she’s under 30 and let’s face it, men are the primary consumer of ography and sexual services so once you slide over that 29 year old benchmark does that mean your business is no longer viable?Disability and BDSM – just like againg we tend to disregard or even ignore those who have disabilities as not having a sex drive let alone a kink or two or four. Those who are disabled and in some cases confined to wheelchairs are epidemically ignored in BDSM as if they are too fragile to interact with. I’m joined by Duane Smith for a discussion about disability and BDSM and how many Dommes/Doms are leaving this segment of the population to fend for themselves.Female Supremacy – I’ll be discussing the logistics of female supremacy and how it applies to where we are in society today. PLUS ALL YOUR KINKY QUESTIONS AND CONFESSIONS ANSWERED!

Cuckolding as a lifestyle can do one of two things for your relationship. It will either make it or break it and much of that is dependent upon your own knowledge of how it should work. Too many times men watch a shit load of cuckold and think that’s what cuckolding is all about. But the problem with basing your lifestyle on a movie is that you’re basing it on entertainment. It would be the same as if you based your lifestyle on an Oscar winning movie. It’s not realistic. In this show I’m going to discuss some of the things that can and WILL come up if you choose to implement cuckolding in to your relationship. It’s always smart to go in to something new with your eyes open, not blurred by the stiffy in your pants. PLUS I’m answering all of your spectacular kinky questions and revealing all your naughty confessions. 

Yes, I know I was going on hiatus BUT I had so many listeners ask me not to leave I decided to bring In Bed back earlier than I expected but instead of LIVE it’ll be in podcast form. So Tues May 26 I’ll be dropping the first of what I hope are many Kinky Question shows. I am answering all of your questions on sex, kink, bdsm and fetish along with revealing all of your naughty confessions. And boy did you guys not disappoint. And in the primiere of Kinky Questions & Confessions I’ll be discussing such subjects as: Age Play or Ped*philia?I’m the Melon with the BandIs Cuckolding Still a Viable Relationship?Look, Under that Skirt, it’s a Bird, it’s a Plane, no, it’s a CockAchy, Breaky, BallsTo Do Your Sister or NOTIt SOUNDS Like a Urinary Tract Infection to MeAlways Let a Domme Sniff Your Hand First“Honey the SpitRoast is Done!”The Accidental TriggerJust What IS the Kinkiest Thing You’ve Ever Done?and MORE!

Everyone’s favorite sub proposed an idea for a show where several Mistresses get together and do something similar to The Talk. So for this show I have three of your favorite Dommes; Angela St. Lawrence, Naima and Domina Kiara and we’ll be talking all about some of your favorite things: Raindrops on RosesWhiskers on KittensHumiliation (all kinds)PENIS SIZE (you all love that one)What we do in our vanilla livesPLUS all your questions answered AND… IF YOU ARE A MISTRESS WHO WANTS TO CALL IN DURING THE SHOW AND JOIN US PLEASE DO SO! You can CALL IN your question to your favorite Domme LIVE the night of the show

Join me for 50 Shades More Powerful™ as I take wives and girlfriends even further in to the fun that we started on the last show. So ladies now that I have you wearing your crown again and you’re starting to really feel your power, what else can we do with it? Check it out… Got a man who keeps eye-balling other women? There’s a cure for that.Sick of always being Queen of the Kitchen? I’ll show you how to drop the toilet brush and pick up a nail file.Thousands of couples, including your friends and neighbors, are playing this kinky game and putting the fire back in to their relationships. I’ll teach you common fetishes and how to exploit them including: FeetStockingsShoesNailsLeather & Latex More extreme play such as: BondageSpankingCBTChastityStrap-onHumiliationFeminizationCuckolding Plus I’ll be discussing issues that can come up for example, “I don’t want to hurt my husband.” So join me Tuesday Feb 11 at 10pm ET for 50 Shades More Powerful™ LIVE

As women we learn to make sacrifices from a very young age. We’re taught to put our own needs beneath those of the people we love. We learn shelve our feelings for the greater good. And to always be little ladies both in the bedroom and out. 5 years ago I did a series of radio shows for The N’Tuned Show exclusively for women called 50 Shades of Power™. But even in that short amount of time many things about being a woman has changed. The Me Too movement gave many women a voice where before sexual assault was yet another area where we learned to just, “shut up and take it.” I decided it was time to bring 50 Shades of Power™ back; bigger, better and with even more information. Ladies… Is your relationship on life support?Do you find yourself going through life on auto-pilot?Is your sex life non-existent?Do you feel as though there’s nothing to look forward to?Ever wonder if there’s something more?Want to either find or take your power back? This show is for average women who are tired of the ‘same old – same old’ and want to explore what else is ‘out there’ sexually in a non-threatening, fun way. Ladies, I’m going to wake you up and shake you up and show you that with just a few changes in the way you think, you can move yourself from humdrum to fun and get your zest back for sex and life. For you gentlemen who crave to have a little more power exchange in your relationship – THIS is the series of shows you WANT your wife or girlfriend to listen to.

Join me for In Bed’s year end wrap up show! We’ll be talking about the hottest shows from 2019Catch up on the boys from the Extreme Cuckolding showDoes cocksucking make you gay?How to find the perfect Domme for 2020AND ALL YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED! JOIN US!!  

Join Amelia Divine and myself as we delve in to the world of Sissies! Those wild and wacky gurls who just wanna have fun! But just what is a sissy? What makes a sissy, a sissy? Well Amelia & Master Blackrod are here to school us all, including all you sissies out there on ALL THINGS SISSY! What is a sissy?What is the difference between a sissy, a cross dresser, a Drag Queen and a transsexual?The difference between feminization and being a sissyUsing the female or feminine as punishment or humiliationFetish vs. realityThe ups and downs of purgingWhy sissies are considered HIGH MAINTENANCESissies and humiliationFLR & sissies We’ll learn all this and MORE! WE WILL ALSO BE JOINED BY SPECIAL GUEST MASTER BLACKROD 

It’s that time of year when we all want to be scared and have some fun so that’s exactly what we’ll be doing on this show. This should actually be called the all What the Sweet Fuck Show. Call in your freakiest fetishes and scariest stories the night of the show. Whether you’re a phone sex operator, companion, clip producer or client WE HAVE ALL had freaky requests and heard spine tingling stories and I WANT TO HEAR THEM ALL! Creepy ClientsStrange RequestsFreaky FetishesDiabolical DominationWhatever has made you say, WHAT THE SWEET FUCK?!

One of the most popular articles I ever wrote was Are You a Needy Sub? In this article I cover what what many submissives are guilty of – being overly needy and time consuming. Sometimes one of the hardest things to figure out is just what type of sub you are. And the answer to that is… a delicious mixture of many different types of submissive behaviour to make you uniquely, YOU. On this show I’m going to cover some of the different types of submissive behaviours that you might exhibit. But why do you need to know what type of sub you are? Well, because self-awareness makes for a better submissive experience with your Mistress or Master. It helps YOU to select the right Domme/Dom with which to play if you know who and what your needs are. I’ll be discussing such submissive behavior types as: Flyby’sThe Body SnatcherNeedy Equals GreedyBall of ConfusionIt’s All About Me The best thing you can do to move yourself forward with your submission is to know yourself. But that also means being honest with yourself. Listen in and perhaps a light will be shone on some improvements you can make in your fetish journey.

Head Games is a new fun sex trivia game from In Bed with Dr Sue, hosted by Dr Sue and Amelia Divine. In this LIVE radio trivia game 3 contestants answer sexual trivia questions correctly to work their way to bigger and better sex toy prizes. Questions will cover such topics as:  Sexual HealthBDSMFetishSex in Pop Culture OUR CONTESTANTS WILL BE Naima - The BBC Dealer Wicked Ashlynn    

More and more the lifestyle of cuckolding has become completely crazy. Cuckolding extremes created, in part, by the community has distorted what cuckolding was meant to be. On this show I’ll be discussing how an average couple with no background in BDSM or Female Led Relationships can integrate this lifestyle successfully in their relationship. I’ll be discussing such topics as: How to startWhat games to play in the bedroom to get used to another person in the roomBecoming the Queen of the houseWhat is a hot wife?Are you a voyeur or a cuckold?Should the wife ‘date?’Must the husband watch?The true meaning of a cuckold Join me for this eye-opening tutorial of what a COMMON SENSE CUCKOLDING lifestyle can actually be.

People have a misconstrued notion about Dominatrixes and what they do. We’re seen in the media as being bad ass bitches with no feelings who HATE MEN. When in fact, nothing could be further from the truth. We are bad ass bitches but we certainly DON’T HATE MEN. About 7 years ago I did a show by the same name as this one and we discussed what just what it says, what Dommes really think of their subs. Well after posting the last show about submissive behavior I was approached by Incognito Thomas about possibly doing a show where subs could hear about the good things they do and what Dommes really think about their work and the gentlemen they interact with. On this show I’m hoping I can count on ALL YOU LADIES to CALL IN so we can talk about what you love about your subs and how they enrich your lives.

Head Games is a new fun sex trivia game from In Bed with Dr Sue, hosted by Dr Sue and Amelia Divine. In this LIVE radio trivia game you answer sexual trivia questions correctly to work your way to prizes. Questions will cover such topics as: Sexual HealthBDSMFetishSex in Pop Culture HOW TO PLAY You must call in and answer 5 trivia questions correctlyAfter each correct answer you win a prizeBefore each question you will be asked if you wish to continueIf you choose to continue you will risk losing all your accumulated prizes if you answer incorrectlyYou will have 5 seconds to think about your answer

I'd love to say that all you boys get submission perfectly right out of the gate but let's face it, it can be hard navigating the world of domination and submission especially when you're dealing with WOMEN! It seems that due to a ton of misinformation online, the lack of training in the women who enter this world as dommes and your lack of knowledge and/or common sense, many of you are simply...getting it all wrong! In this show I'm going to walk you through a few of the basics of submitting to a powerful woman. I'm sure some of you will think, "well that's not hard, I've been doing it for years," but have you been doing it right or well? I'll be going over topics such as: What is submission? - It might not be the way you have it in YOUR mindWhat type of sub are you? - You can't submit until you know yourselfCommunication - The proper way to approach a female dominant for the first timeNeedy = Greedyand MORE! Whether you're entering in the Femme Domme world for the first time or you consider yourself an expert I have no doubt you'll come away with a few new tidbits of information that will further your journey. Amelia Divine and I will also be playing a mini version of HEAD GAMES our new Sex Trivia Game so be sure to tune in and listen for your chance to play. 

When one thinks of the word ‘poly’ in conjuction with relationships the first thing that jumps in to mind is what the media shoves down our throats with t.v. shows such as Sister Wives, My Five Wives and Escaping Polygamy.  We’re bombarded with the patriarchal model of a guy with five wives but polygamy isn’t the only poly on the block. My guests to help guide us through the poly world are Domina Kiara and Daddy Matt both of whom are in poly relationships but each of their relationships is quite unique. We’ll be discussing: What is the difference between polyamory and polygamy?Is it illegal?How can you love that many people at one time?How do you get past jealousy?Does D & s enter in to the relationship and if so, how? So come with us and learn about REAL POLYAMORY by folks who live it!

In this show we’re going BALLS TO THE WALL, no wait, that would be a CBT show. One of the most common questions I get asked is how big does a woman want a man’s dick to be? So I’m going to be discussing all things penis. Size, statistics but more importantly we’ll hear from the ladies themselves about their size preferences without the pressure of ‘being nice.’ I also find it interesting how no one asks what guys like? WTF? We’ll talk: What do women really want?Penis size statsWhy you love being humiliated about your sizeWhat is a micropenis?Does surgery or exercise really increase size?How to come to terms with your sizeIs bigger really better? PLUS Dr Sue’s Erotic Book Club! LADIES who love the D, I really need you to CALL IN to the show LIVE with your preferences about penis size to give an overview of what women want.

Let’s face it there’s plenty of what could be considered taboo fetishes ‘out there’ but isn’t deciding what is taboo subjective? Relative to whomever is discussing the subject? But at what point do we draw the line? Yes your Queen of Kink Shaming, that would be me, and the amazing Angela St. Lawrence will be discussing the pro’s and con’s of such esoteric fetishes as: ABDL Beastiality Incest Scat Play/Golden Showers Bug Chasing/Gift Giving Furries Breath Play Pedophilia Castration Forced Intox Race Play and MORE!

It's BLACK HISTORY MONTH so when Naima asked if I'd like to do a show on BBC I thought, what could be better?! So the lovely Naima will be joining me to discuss BBC or Big Black Cock. If you didn't know, YES it's a 'kink' within the fetish community and Naima is here to school us all. We'll be discussing: What is the 'obsession' with BBC?Why do white men find themselves drawn to it?Has the black man been reduced to his penis?The book "A Mind of It's Own - A Cultural History of the Penis" by David M. FriedmanIs BBC about misogyny?And MUCH MORE!

I thought it might be a good idea to give some new folks information on erotic hypnosis and really hypnosis in general. There is still quite a bit of misinformation regarding hypnosis that I believe needs to be rectified.  I’ll be covering such info as: Does hypnosis actually work? What are the different types (modalities) of hypnosis Does subliminal messaging work? What is hypnosis good for? What makes erotic hypnosis different from other types? IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS ABOUT HYPNOSIS CALL IN THE NIGHT OF THE SHOW 657-383-0031

Tuesday December 11 The Year End Wrap Up Show 2018 is already coming to an end in what could be argued as one of the most contentious years in sex work in decades. From FOSTA/SESTA to Stormy Daniels our business has been under attack even more than is normal. But we made it through. THAT’S WHY THIS IS YOUR SHOW! I’m opening the phone lines for YOU to talk about ANYTHING YOU want. CALL IN &… ?PROMOTE your business! ?Wish your friends a happy holiday ?Tell us what you plan to do in 2019 ?ASK ANY QUESTION on ANY FETISH THE PHONE LINES ARE ALL YOURS! 1-657-383-0031 ALSO: Chris from the Extreme Cuckolding show will update us on how he’s doing (I’m working on getting Kevin)Amberly Rothfield will be giving you TIPS to JUMP START your business in 2019How to keep your business SAFE in 2019 including WHAT SERVICES NOT TO USE if you plan to STAY in this business.Find out all the EROTIC BOOKS you should be ready over the holidaysand MORE!

Humiliation. When it comes to fetish and submission, humiliation is a given. But is it okay? At what point does humiliation start to cross the line to bullying and become detrimental to your mental health? Why is humilation part of submission?Why do I like to be humiliated at all?When does humiliation become hate?Can humiliation actually help your self-esteem?How can I play but still maintain my self-esteem?How to humiliate without damaging your sub What are your thoughts on humiliation?

Join me Tuesday October 16 at 10m ET when my guest will be author and researcher Key Barrett and we'll be going over everything about chastity and female led relationships. Key has been researching FLR's and is the author of two books we'll be going over; Surrender, Submit, Serve Her.: The definitive guide to enacting Female Leadership and embracing the Female Dominated Household and Locked-In Love: How two weeks in chastity can end the barter system, renew courtship and make a better husband We'll be chatting about: What are the psychological changes a couple will go through when the husband is locked?What are the benefits of being in chastity for both husband and wife?What is a female led relationship?What is required to create a good FLR?The common myths of both chastity and FLR'sWhat men can do to be more supportive of women in our changing societyand MORE! CALL IN WITH YOUR QUESTIONS 657-383-0031

Has financial domination died? Yes! It died ages ago yet some of you women keep trying desperately to shock the life back in to it. Several years ago I wrote a very controversial article stating that indeed financial domination is DEAD. It pissed off a lot of women but it was the truth. On this show I’m going to be going even deeper in to the frigid, hard reality of this particular kink. Financial domination, just what is it and how did it get so incredibly fucked up over the last decade? I’ll be discussing: What exactly is REAL financial dominationWhy calling yourself a rinser makes you look like a corner hooker with a needle in your armThe impact of online media and it’s complicity in the deterioration of the kinkHow, because of FOSTA/SESTA, calling yourself a findom openly could get your ass brought up on federal chargesWhy many Domme’s don’t get involved in findom and actually find it distastefulIf you insist on calling yourself a findom, how to protect yourself and your moneyHow men get so addicted to this kinkIs money the ultimate control? What do you think? Is Financial Domination Dead? CALL IN with your thoughts the night of the show 657-383-0031

In the first of many new shows I'll be doing with no guest, I will be uncovering the lies, deception and utter bullshit that has taken over the cuckold world in recent years. I will be taking you through what cuckolding REALLY is and exposing the lies and ridiculous practices that have infiltrated the cuckold scene. I'll be discussing What the true definition of cuckolding isWhy the term 'hot wife' has nothing to do with cuckoldingWhy men are shaming women who practice this lifestyleWhat is a female led relationship (FLR)What's the deal with 'professional bulls'And a TON MORE! You probably won't like what I have to say on this show and subsequent shows and I expect you to CALL IN with your own opinions and observations and to debate mine in a respectful way. The BDSM scene is falling apart and I'm taking names and calling out the bullshit. CALL IN THE NIGHT OF THE SHOW 657-383-0031

Join me for a frank discussion about the history of sadomasochism with author and kinkster Peter Tupper and the release of his book A Lover’s Pinch, A Cultural History of Sadomasochism. Peter has been researching and blogging about the history of consentual sadomasochism since 2005. Peter is the co-founder of Metro Vancouver Kink, a non-profit BDSM community organization in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada and remains active in the BDSM lifestyle. He has lectured at numerous conferences throughout the U.S. and Canada and has appeared on many kink related podcasts. From publisher Rowman & Littlefield about A Lover’s Pinch “A worldwide subculture that influences everything from fashion to advertising, sadomasochism has a long and lively history. A Lover’s Pinch tells the story of consensual sadomasochism, from a controversial religious practice to a secretive sexuality branded a perversion. The origins of kink and fetish culture have been shrouded in secrecy and myths, until now. Here, Peter Tupper reveals the true story of sadism and masochism, dominance and submission.”

One of the most difficult aspects of working in the adult industry is dealing with the mental health issues we all face. Whether it’s dealing with clients, haters, competitors, family, friends, or the isolation of working online sex industry can wear even the most stable of us down. The legendary Kimmie Kaboom is joining me to discuss how we can keep our sanity in the crazy and not always fun work we do. Suicide has become even more prevalent in our industry with the passing of FOSTA/SESTA and the feeling of being alone and the world being against us is real. Kimmie is going to give us the tools needed to deal with such issues as: Bullying, cyber stalking and keyboard warriors How to keep your social media in compliance Dealing with trolls and negative feedback How not to get sucked in to trolls/fans that demand your time I will discuss: The importance of self-care and how to actually do it Meditation And we will both tell you about the new support platfrom for sex workers Pinapple Support and how YOU can help a fellow provider in your spare time like we do. ARE YOU A FAN OF KIMMIE?  CALL IN THE NIGHT OF THE SHOW AND SAY HI! 657-383-0031

In what we know will be a contentious issue and show I am joined by Mistress Mia Darque and Master Blackrod. Mistress Mia you will remember from the show on Giantess fetish where we touched briefly on this very topic of race play and decided then that we would have to do an entire show on the subject.  Master Blackrod has some very definite ideas regarding the racist aspects of sex play and when it crosses the line. A brief history of African American slursDoes me indulging in raceplay for profit make me a sell out to my race?What am I? (A look into what the provider is comfortable with for themselves)If I'm the dominant don't I run the show? Being a top in raceplay.Can a white couple (cuckold scene) use the term Queen of Spades?Can a white person indulge in race play?and MORE! What are your thoughts?

Whether you are a proud sex worker, you support sex workers, or you are not empowered or proud but you are working it for your own reasons, this is your chance to be heard. June 2 is International Sex Worker Day and in light of the recent passing of FOSTA/SESTA ~ The Cloud Act and End Banking for Human Trafficking Act this day of celebration is even more important this year as we all stand up to fight against descrimination of LEGAL SEX WORK. If you can't join a local march or rally I want to give you a chance to call in and tell the world how you feel about legal sex work and how this law is affecting your life. In this OPEN LINE LIVE CALL-IN SHOW the mic is all YOURS!  657-383-0031