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Want to have 3somes, learn BDSM, and build an elite sex life? Hell yeah! Join Andy & Imogen on a 365-day-challenge to help you build the best life you possibly can and bring out your inner winner, from someone who was suicidal, obese, and turned it all around. You'll learn killer self-improvement advice, how to get dates, improve your sex life, build strong relationships, start your own business & get into content creation, improve your mental health and explore a little philosophy along the way. If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.​

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    Latest episodes from The Kill Your Inner Loser Show

    Negativity Is a Shield You're Allowed to Let Go Of

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2025 27:39


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    Human Beings Bloom in the Soil of Acceptance

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2025 34:55


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    You're Allowed to Be a Beginner.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2025 11:29


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    One Tiny Win Today is Enough

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2025 3:30


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    Getting Laid Isn't that Complicated (And I'm Just a Dating Coach Who's Nice to You)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2025 24:20


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    The World is Cynical - So I Became a Hope Merchant.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2025 20:26


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    Radical Vulnerability Makes You UNHURTABLE

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2025 26:11


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    Most Dating Advice is ABCs. I'd Rather Teach You Poetry.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2025 18:55


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    Anger Towards Women is Usually Just Fear

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2025 51:45


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    Tactics without Heart often become Manipulation (Pickup/Dating)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2025 39:52


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    10 Things I'm Grateful For About You (Happy Thanksgiving!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2025 24:31


    Coaching deal (50% off! Don't miss out) - https://kyil-extra.com/coachingTIMESTAMPS:00:00 Happy Thanksgiving!00:16 1. I'm grateful you trust me.01:16 2. I'm grateful you keep showing up.01:55 3. I'm grateful you're honest with me.02:53  4. I'm grateful you let me be imperfect.04:58 5. I'm grateful you support the mission.07:23 6. I'm grateful you're kind to each other & to women.10:08 7. I'm grateful for your patience.12:12 8. I'm grateful you let me into your struggles.14:57 9. I'm grateful that you try.19:39 Upcoming livestreams (free coaching/hangouts)23:19 10. I'm grateful you're here — genuinely.

    Be NICE to Yourself (Self-Love & Compassion)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2025 28:14


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    Be PROUD of Your Masculinity (Men are Actually Really Nice)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2025 28:30


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    "I Desire You, But I Do Not Require You" (Non-neediness)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2025 28:07


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    I Outgrew Fear-Based Motivation (& You Can Too)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2025 25:18


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    Stop Calling Me the Best Coach. YOU'RE the One Doing the Hard Work.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2025 26:26


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    Women Aren't Mysterious, Unknowable Creatures — They're Just Like You.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2025 25:22


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    From Virgin to Sleeping w/ Over 30 Women + Building a Business! [Client Interview]

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2025 64:25


    VIP Coaching Program (currently 50% off, LIMITED TIME ONLY) - http://kyil-extra.com/coaching00:00 His achievements!01:13 Seeing 8 girls in 8 weeks04:10 What was life like as a virgin?10:18 Sleeping with 12 women as a virgin15:08 "If she hates my honesty, I'll go talk to more girls"18:12 Getting rid of limiting beliefs21:52 Masculinity & bedroom confidence27:18 Messaging girls "I want to go down on you"32:49 What are you OFFERING women?36:48 His message for any virgin guys38:29 Building a profitable business in 6 weeks!41:09 Starting a business yourself50:21 Dealing with rejection53:17 Advice for his younger self54:53 Where would he be without coaching?

    Yes, You Can Still Cold Approach in 2026 (and 2035, and 2075…)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2025 29:35


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    How to Not Care About Rejection (Her Reaction is None of Your Business!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2025 32:07


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    7 Dates in 3 Weeks! [Client Wins!!!!]

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2025 10:07


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    The hardest part of being here for you guys (being a coach)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2025 45:37


    00:00 Intro00:33 1. You can't save everybody07:04 2. I feel your pain21:43 3. They outgrow you (& that's that point)26:44 4. You have to keep growing too.29:22 5. Being honest with people when it might hurt31:16 6. People project their pain onto you34:13 7. You fall in love with humanity39:13 8. You have to let go of ego42:50 The rewards make it all worth it.$200 coaching call with Andy: https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

    Virgin? How to Turn Your Inexperience Into an Advantage

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2025 27:37


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    It's Ok to Ask for Help (Don't Do This Alone)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2025 16:48


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    Feeling Like You Missed Out on Your 20's?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2025 33:14


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    INSANE DEAL: I'm Offering a 1-on-1 Coaching Package Again?!?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2025 1:30


    3 Years of Struggling with Women, FIXED IN 2 WEEKS!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2025 26:14


    Yes, Dating is Unfair for Men.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2025 23:46


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    You Deserve Better than a "Maybe" from Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2025 11:30


    VIP Group Coaching with Andy (currently 50% off the marked price, payment plans available) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching1-on-1 coaching with me (50% off!) - https://killyourinnerloser.com/apply-1on1Use this link for 75% off your first month in The Abundance Collective, our Coaching Program: https://abundancecollective.circle.so/checkout/the-abundance-collective-coupon?coupon_code=150OFFPlay to Win video course: https://playtowinmindset.com

    You Don't Need to Go Fast - You Just Need to Keep Going

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2025 17:04


    VIP Group Coaching with Andy (currently 50% off the marked price, payment plans available) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching1-on-1 coaching with me (50% off!) - https://killyourinnerloser.com/apply-1on1/The Abundance Collective (our more affordable coaching program $200/month) - come join our brotherhood of men changing their lives every day! https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollectivePlay to Win video course: https://playtowinmindset.com/

    33 Approaches in a Day + He Got Laid!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2025 7:39


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    I want you to build a life you're actually proud of.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2025 34:03


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    Feeling Stuck/Lost? Ask Yourself These 5 Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2025 18:19


    1-on-1 Coaching Deal (50% off, ONLY 1 SLOT LEFT!) - https://killyourinnerloser.com/apply-1on1/Play to Win video course: https://playtowinmindset.comTIMESTAMPS:00:00 We all feel stuck sometimes01:19 1. What am I avoiding?04:56 2. What story am I telling myself?07:58 3. Am I trying to do this alone?09:54 4. What's the smallest step I can take right now?11:39 5. Am I being kind to myself right now?15:58 The Takeaway

    You're Not Lazy - You're Just Scared (& Here's the Solution)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2025 16:03


    VIP Group Coaching with Andy (currently 50% off the marked price, payment plans available) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching1-on-1 coaching with me (50% off!) - https://killyourinnerloser.com/apply-1on1/The Abundance Collective (our more affordable coaching program $200/month) - come join our brotherhood of men changing their lives every day! https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollectivePlay to Win video course: https://playtowinmindset.com/TIMESTAMPS:00:00 You're not actually lazy00:31 You're just trying to protect yourself03:44 Why we avoid discomfort05:29 How to break the cycle13:19 Give yourself permission to suck14:34 If you want help with this15:30 The Takeaway

    Want to Approach Women? HERE'S YOUR MOTIVATION

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2025 7:50


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    I'm Autistic — Here's How I Stopped Faking It (& Finally Got Dates)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2025 14:56


    1-ON-1 Coaching Deal (50% off, ONLY ONE SPOT LEFT! Payment plans available) - https://killyourinnerloser.com/apply-1on1/GROUP Coaching Deal (also 50% off the listed price! Payment plans available) apply here - http://kyil-extra.com/coaching00:00 Intro00:31 What masking looks like02:07 Authenticity is attractive04:07 Practical tips07:06 Reframe rejection09:22 Love without pretending11:02 Surround yourself with a brotherhood14:06 The Takeaway

    I'll Never Forget What It Felt Like to Be Alone.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2025 23:08


    What It's Like to Not Work a Normal Job

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2025 36:38


    You Can Be Honest and Get Laid. Here's How.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2025 21:26


    The Truth About Women that The Red Pill Gets Completely Wrong [Client Interview]

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2025 101:52


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    You're NOT a Creep for Liking Younger Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2025 21:59


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    Worried About Harassing Women? Do THIS Instead.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2025 38:14


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    My Mentor Good Looking Loser is the Reason I Am Here

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2025 14:49


    How To Ask a Girl Out over Text

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2025 30:57


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    How to Handle ANY Confrontation: "In Their Opinion"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2025 12:53


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    Stop Doing it Alone (The Value of Online Communities!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2025 19:25


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    Real Talk: I Feel Guilty About Making Money

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2025 10:56


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    You're doing a good job. You're gonna make it.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2025 8:52


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    Sex: How to Have MORE by Changing Your MINDSET (Map of Consciousness)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2025 39:52


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    Complaining Doesn't Help You! (It's a Shortterm Solution to a Longterm Problem)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2025 19:47


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    How Many APPROACHES Before You Know Something Needs Fixing?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2025 17:39


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