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Want to have 3somes, learn BDSM, and build an elite sex life? Hell yeah! Join Andy & Imogen on a 365-day-challenge to help you build the best life you possibly can and bring out your inner winner, from someone who was suicidal, obese, and turned it all around. You'll learn killer self-improvement advice, how to get dates, improve your sex life, build strong relationships, start your own business & get into content creation, improve your mental health and explore a little philosophy along the way. If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.​

Andy


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    Latest episodes from The Kill Your Inner Loser Show

    Men Get Emotion-Shamed, Women Get Sex-Shamed

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2026 21:05


    She's Not REJECTING You, She's WARMING UP

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2026 23:45


    How to Juggle Multiple Women (Dating)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2026 29:03


    TIMESTAMPS:00:00 "Hey sexy" on dating apps00:55 Being calmer15:25 Juggling multiple women

    From Virgin to 4 Orgasms!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2026 12:13


    TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Virgin to 4 orgasms!06:59 Secretary Roleplay09:20 Instadate & a night of passion

    If You're Lonely on Valentine's Day… This Is For You

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2026 25:47


    7 Dates in 3 Weeks!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2026 13:59


    How to Be More Kind, Generous & Honest

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2026 32:04


    The Real Reason We Chase Unavailable Women (Addicted to DRAMA)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2026 57:57


    “She Told Me Her Body Count…" (Insecurity)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2026 29:00


    Maculine Leadership & Reading Between the Lines

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2026 50:56


    TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Hello dingdongs00:17 How do I lead without being controlling?18:05 How do I read between the lines with women?

    What if I Don't Find "The One"?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2026 15:45


    How Many Approaches to Get Laid? (& Overcoming Society Programming)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2026 27:47


    TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Intro00:13 How many approaches to get laid?17:19 Overcoming societal programming?

    A Message for Anyone Who Feels Behind

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2026 16:18


    Why Women Hide Their Sexuality (& How to Help Her Open Up)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2026 32:18


    Why Rejection & Feeling Alone HURTS So Bad

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2026 8:59


    It's Not the Pickup Lines - It's the Man Saying Them

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2026 7:37


    Pickup Artist Techniques Make Connection HARDER?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2026 12:38


    You Can't Get Feelings in CASUAL Relationships?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2026 38:35


    The Truth About Feeling Lost (No One Tells You This)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2026 15:37


    It's 2026. Time to Dominate Your Goals.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2026 3:16


    You Are Enough. (Merry Christmas)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2025 0:08


    Stop Trying to Fix Everything Today

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2025 3:23


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    Your Future Self is Proud of You

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2025 1:48


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    I Love You Guys (No, Seriously)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2025 3:43


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    It's Ok If You Get Nervous( I Do Too Sometimes)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2025 14:39


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    Nothing Is Ever Wasted (A Little Story From Today)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2025 8:45


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    Negativity Is a Shield You're Allowed to Let Go Of

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2025 27:39


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    Human Beings Bloom in the Soil of Acceptance

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2025 34:55


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    You're Allowed to Be a Beginner.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2025 11:29


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    One Tiny Win Today is Enough

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2025 3:30


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    Getting Laid Isn't that Complicated (And I'm Just a Dating Coach Who's Nice to You)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2025 24:20


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    The World is Cynical - So I Became a Hope Merchant.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2025 20:26


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    Radical Vulnerability Makes You UNHURTABLE

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2025 26:11


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    Most Dating Advice is ABCs. I'd Rather Teach You Poetry.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2025 18:55


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    Anger Towards Women is Usually Just Fear

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2025 51:45


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    Tactics without Heart often become Manipulation (Pickup/Dating)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2025 39:52


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    10 Things I'm Grateful For About You (Happy Thanksgiving!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2025 24:31


    Coaching deal (50% off! Don't miss out) - https://kyil-extra.com/coachingTIMESTAMPS:00:00 Happy Thanksgiving!00:16 1. I'm grateful you trust me.01:16 2. I'm grateful you keep showing up.01:55 3. I'm grateful you're honest with me.02:53  4. I'm grateful you let me be imperfect.04:58 5. I'm grateful you support the mission.07:23 6. I'm grateful you're kind to each other & to women.10:08 7. I'm grateful for your patience.12:12 8. I'm grateful you let me into your struggles.14:57 9. I'm grateful that you try.19:39 Upcoming livestreams (free coaching/hangouts)23:19 10. I'm grateful you're here — genuinely.

    Be NICE to Yourself (Self-Love & Compassion)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2025 28:14


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    Be PROUD of Your Masculinity (Men are Actually Really Nice)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2025 28:30


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    "I Desire You, But I Do Not Require You" (Non-neediness)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2025 28:07


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    I Outgrew Fear-Based Motivation (& You Can Too)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2025 25:18


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    Stop Calling Me the Best Coach. YOU'RE the One Doing the Hard Work.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2025 26:26


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    Women Aren't Mysterious, Unknowable Creatures — They're Just Like You.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2025 25:22


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    From Virgin to Sleeping w/ Over 30 Women + Building a Business! [Client Interview]

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2025 64:25


    VIP Coaching Program (currently 50% off, LIMITED TIME ONLY) - http://kyil-extra.com/coaching00:00 His achievements!01:13 Seeing 8 girls in 8 weeks04:10 What was life like as a virgin?10:18 Sleeping with 12 women as a virgin15:08 "If she hates my honesty, I'll go talk to more girls"18:12 Getting rid of limiting beliefs21:52 Masculinity & bedroom confidence27:18 Messaging girls "I want to go down on you"32:49 What are you OFFERING women?36:48 His message for any virgin guys38:29 Building a profitable business in 6 weeks!41:09 Starting a business yourself50:21 Dealing with rejection53:17 Advice for his younger self54:53 Where would he be without coaching?

    Yes, You Can Still Cold Approach in 2026 (and 2035, and 2075…)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2025 29:35


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    How to Not Care About Rejection (Her Reaction is None of Your Business!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2025 32:07


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    7 Dates in 3 Weeks! [Client Wins!!!!]

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2025 10:07


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    The hardest part of being here for you guys (being a coach)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2025 45:37


    00:00 Intro00:33 1. You can't save everybody07:04 2. I feel your pain21:43 3. They outgrow you (& that's that point)26:44 4. You have to keep growing too.29:22 5. Being honest with people when it might hurt31:16 6. People project their pain onto you34:13 7. You fall in love with humanity39:13 8. You have to let go of ego42:50 The rewards make it all worth it.$200 coaching call with Andy: https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

    Virgin? How to Turn Your Inexperience Into an Advantage

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2025 27:37


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    It's Ok to Ask for Help (Don't Do This Alone)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2025 16:48


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    Feeling Like You Missed Out on Your 20's?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2025 33:14


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