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Want to have 3somes, learn BDSM, and build an elite sex life? Hell yeah! Join Andy & Imogen on a 365-day-challenge to help you build the best life you possibly can and bring out your inner winner, from someone who was suicidal, obese, and turned it all around. You'll learn killer self-improvement advice, how to get dates, improve your sex life, build strong relationships, start your own business & get into content creation, improve your mental health and explore a little philosophy along the way. If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.​

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    Bridging the Gap: Building Connections Between Men & Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2025 28:47


    If you're a woman who'd like to have one of these conversations (you can remain anonymous, and just do audio-only with me), email me:https://kyil-extra.com/contact

    Andy Gets Back into Dating & Meets a MAN-HATER ???

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 50:57


    CONSENT: The Simplest Guide You'll Ever See: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Q6NeQ7E1GACoaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)

    COLD APPROACH MOTIVATION: EVERY SECOND ON THE FRONT LINES IS A VICTORY!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2025 21:14


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)The Play to Win video course I mentioned: https://playtowinmindset.com/

    Future Plans (& a $200 Coaching Program?)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2025 25:10


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)

    Andy's Breakup - How's He Feeling?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2025 28:32


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)

    Does Andy Ever Listen to Cam?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2025 18:31


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)

    Why Don't Men Approach Women?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2025 18:27


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)

    Update on My Breakup + AN AFFORDABLE COACHING PROGRAM?!?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2025 33:30


    Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9uohpi-XVLkCoaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)

    Heartbreak is a Privilege (w/ Ravi, Ralph Anthony & Coach D)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2025 63:47


    Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/QOFCBR5-7BwRalph Anthony: https://www.instagram.com/realralphanthony/?hl=enRavi & Coach D: https://www.youtube.com/@CM-UniversityMy microphone audio quality went down a bit towards the end (it has a crackling sound), but I don't think it's a dealbreaker. The podcast was such a powerful chat, I felt compelled to share it, even with the audio issue at the end.(Audio will be fixed next time! Just bought a new microphone.)Much love to you all.

    We Don't Have to Be Alone (I'm Still Learning this Lesson Myself)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 7:15


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)How to make friends guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround-yourself-with-good-people/▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Abundance, BDSM & Andy's Breakup | TAYLOR TIME

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2025 85:44


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Why I Believe in You (Even if You Don't Yet)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2025 3:39


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    It's Your Turn (Finally)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2025 4:01


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)  ▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Immy & I are Going Separate Ways (Breakup Survival Guide)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2025 71:22


    Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/8L1VZkCwvzE▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    How to Approach a Woman [Full Guide / What to Say]

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 7:32


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    How I Play The NUMBERS GAME Relentlessly

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 47:53


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY) TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Dating11:04 Business37:55 Takeaways▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Celebrate SMALL WINS (More Important than You Think)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 5:53


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    How to go on dates if you're an INTROVERT or struggle SOCIALLY

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2025 13:55


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    She STRIPPED NAKED for Him & He STILL Didn't Make a Move!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2025 11:01


    Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/tSvmJ-dvWe4Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Stop trying to do this alone.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2025 11:08


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    How to Let Go & Trust in the Process

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2025 17:25


    Coaching deal - $2000 off the usual price + an extra 4 WEEKS of coaching! Just mention this deal when you apply here: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching(LIMITED TIME ONLY)▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    It's gonna be ok. I promise.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2025 7:59


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    If you play games with women, they'll play games with YOU (You get what you give)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 34:16


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    How I Stay OPTIMISTIC & RESILIENT after Back-to-Back Rejections

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 38:17


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    How to have your first hookup (for inexperienced guys)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2025 46:37


    00:00 Intro00:52 Mindset06:01 Online Dating33:02 Approaching during the day37:17 Nighttime approaches40:17 The Takeaway▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    The Universe is a Mirror (Words are Magic Spells)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2025 48:30


    Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/CN0_JYOrdWE▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    You're Allowed to Rest (Let Go of Guilt for Taking a Break)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 3:43


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    Unique Selling Points (USP) are a GAMECHANGER for Dating & Business!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2025 43:11


    Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/J30j_101B-k▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Not Getting Results? HOW TO FIX IT!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2025 29:55


    Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qkRxxnPmStc▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Women Hate when Men are UPFRONT About SEX: TRUE or FALSE?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2025 31:11


    Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/aKU7kRJ_VDk00:00 Intro02:01 A lot of women LOVE honesty & vulnerability06:43 Women also want sex08:30 Being direct saves you both time09:12 Rejection is better than regret10:28 Women are adults, they're not fragile13:13 Most women dislike CRUDENESS, not directness15:07 You're allowed to flirt when being direct16:47 Ask what she wants too18:46 Practice over text20:05 Honesty gets you what you want, faster21:16 Fear of judgement24:59 You'll like yourself more if you're direct25:55 Societal programming encourages lying27:56 Get clear about what you WANT29:25 Want more help? (Coaching)▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    How to handle REJECTION like a BOSS

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2025 28:45


    Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/K5WqzxNIxrM▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    6 TINDER RULES For Guys in 2025 (Essential Tips for Online Dating)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2025 23:59


    Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/sv97WsdwqNU00:00 Intro00:58 1. Give yourself permission to suck03:45 2. Take good pics06:49 3. Play the numbers game07:46 4. Get off the app & meet ASAP!11:00 5. Improve yourself16:01 6. Keep going (don't quit)19:10 BONUS: Find some accountability21:28 More help▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    She Told Him: "It's WRONG to Hit on Girls!"

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2025 47:03


    Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ctSQq9B1Hfo▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    He Tells Women "I want to Exchange Orgasms w/ You"! [Client Interview]

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 119:17


    00:00 His accomplishments02:17 Autistic Honesty08:14 "I have no doubt you want this dick"18:22 Paying over $20k for a PUA Bootcamp that didn't work50:01 Sleeping with an 18yo56:41 Being kicked out by security59:30 "Would you like to exchange orgasms with me?"01:01:18 Advice for guys who want to be more direct01:22:33 He's not super attractive (he's an average guy)01:29:12 "No woman would ever find me attractive"01:46:26 His most memorable 'rejection'01:49:05 If you play games with women, they'll play games with you01:50:57 What's next for him?01:53:29 What benefits did he get from our coaching?▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Guys: If you think you can't hit on women, listen to this.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2025 5:43


    A motivational speech for you guys who think you're not good enough to start approaching women & building the sex & dating life you truly want.Full interview here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/episodes/16675770▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Have You Ever Tried Just Letting Yourself be Happy?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2025 6:08


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    Get Off the Internet & TAKE ACTION! (Motivation)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2025 2:49


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    5 Dates in 2 Weeks + Telling Girls "You're Sexy"!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2025 94:16


    Big shoutout to this legend for coming on and sharing his story! If you want to be part of an epic group of guys crushing their goals, having tons of sex, building awesome businesses, improving themselves as well as the people around them, and discovering true happiness, come join the coaching program (payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coachingSee you there!TIMESTAMPS:00:00 His achievements04:49 "You're sexy" & "Can I kiss you?"11:13 Approaching in bars20:45 5 dates in 2 weeks!22:12 Taking pics for online dating29:05 Persevering with a woman33:30 Autistic Honesty45:16 How to start approaching57:26 Women appreciating being hit on01:01:23 Improving self-talk01:05:29 Being happy makes dating WAY easier01:11:39 "Now's not the right time"01:15:49 Limiting beliefs around dating01:18:46 Stoicism01:22:17 Building solid friendships01:29:20 Autistic honesty (again)01:31:46 Want your own coaching?▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    How to TALK DIRTY & BLOW HER MIND!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2025 14:07


    Watch the full episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/KiNVoQSd0dYDirty talking is not complicated... you've just been MAKING it complicated.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    How to Be Happy in 10min59s [Guided Meditation]

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2025 10:55


    Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qzNo0jga4wQ▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Why My Girlfriend PREFERS Older Men

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2025 25:49


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    How You REACT to REJECTION is What Defines You

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 13:01


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    "It's TOO LATE for me. I'm TOO OLD"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2025 38:21


    "The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago. The 2nd-best time is right now."▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Socrates was Short & Ugly

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 4:53


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    Slapped in the Face... Now He's Dating 3 Women at Once! [Client Victories!]

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2025 70:42


    Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/HOeD878EWQQ00:00 His Achievements03:47 His original goals05:41 Running towards fear12:57 Dating/Sex35:31 Quitting porn, drugs & more37:17 Mindset changes45:21 "Having sex while her friend is crying in the other room"47:25 Face-slap story!53:12 His advice for you (yes, YOU)01:06:46 Want coaching yourself?▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    "I Felt LOST in My Dating Life.. Until I Asked for Help" [Coaching Victories!]

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 62:21


    Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J_fSv4Wi7T8▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Don't Give Up. Have Faith.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 27:38


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    How to Get More SEX, MONEY & a Killer Life (by GIVING)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2025 45:16


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    It's 2025. Relax. You're Gonna Make It.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2025 6:16


    My coaching program: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

    Full of Regret? GOOD! Now Use it as Fuel to CRUSH YOUR GOALS.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 9:53


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    Afraid of Being Rejected, Cheated On, Broken Up With, or People Dying?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 40:12


    Vids mentioned:Scared of DYING with regrets? How to make peace with death: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWOPgVgJ4n4Are You Afraid of Death: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFZ5AKkgZgwYour Goals Will Never Be Completed. You'll Die Before You Get There: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/episodes/15878125▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

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