The Oh Crap! Potty Training Podcast

In this episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, we're talking about a question that trips up so many parents: Should you tell your child ahead of time that you're starting potty training? Some kids need a heads-up, while others will use that time to dig in their heels. And what about when your toddler says, I'll potty train when I'm three—do you wait? (Spoiler: No.) Plus, we'll dive into why kids get so attached to diapers and how your language around potty training can make or break the process. Let's make this as smooth as possible—because trust me, drawn-out potty training is not the goal!(00:00:02) "Potty Training and Parenting Integration Podcast"(00:04:26) Positive Language for Successful Potty Training Transition(00:08:30) "Complete Commitment Accelerates Potty Training Progress"(00:14:11) Understanding Child Development Stages for Effective Guidance⁠⁠⁠Peeing Solutions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Pooping Solutions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Withholding Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Bed Wetting Solution⁠⁠

In this week's episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, I'm diving into something I see over and over with parents—how consistency can make or break your potty training journey (and your parenting in general). We chat about how anything done repeatedly becomes a habit, whether it's good or bad. So if your kid is peeing on the floor every day, guess what? That's their new normal. I'm breaking down why we sometimes let these patterns slip, how our toddlers are always watching and learning, and why you need to step into your leadership role as a parent—no asking for permission! We'll talk about shifting from bad consistency to good consistency, and why building that solid foundation in the 0-6 years is key to everything down the road. Rock on, and let's get you out of that pee-on-the-floor phase for good!(00:11:26) Building Foundation Through Consistent Parenting Practices(00:13:14) Consistent Boundaries for Healthy Child Behavior(00:14:09) Boundary Setting for Preventing Entitled Behavior(00:14:55) Stages of Effective Child-Rearing Approach⁠⁠⁠Peeing Solutions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Pooping Solutions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Withholding Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Bed Wetting Solution⁠⁠

In this week's episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, I'm tackling two major potty training pitfalls: potty word salad and empty praise.

In this week's episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, I'm addressing two of the biggest misconceptions about potty training: that it's a three-day process and that your toddler will self-initiate right away. Spoiler alert—it's neither of those things! I'm sharing why modern kids, especially post-pandemic toddlers, often need more time and support to master potty training and why self-initiation usually happens weeks after starting, not days. Plus, I'll dive into the importance of understanding your child's pee signals and patterns and why realistic expectations can make or break this process. Whether you're gearing up for potty training or dealing with daycare challenges, this episode is packed with insights and practical advice to keep you and your little one on track. (00:00:51) Potty Training: Reality of Seven-Day Process (00:05:45) Transition to Self-Initiated Potty Training Success (00:10:38) Child Pee Patterns for Potty Training Success ⁠Peeing Solutions⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Pooping Solutions⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Withholding Group⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Bed Wetting Solution⁠

In this episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, I dive into the ins and outs of transitioning your child from a crib to a bed and why it's essential for successful night training. We're talking about fostering independence, avoiding common pitfalls like sleep sacks and bedtime bottles, and creating a sleep environment that actually works for both you and your kiddo. I'll share practical tips, including how light exposure affects circadian rhythms, and tackle those sleep “crutches” that might be holding you back in the long run. Plus, some thoughts on breaking habits early to make night training smoother. Let's set the stage for better sleep and potty training success! (00:00:49) Floor Bed Transition for Toddler Independence (00:08:25) Visual Aids and Consistent Routines for Bedtime (00:13:17) Optimizing Sleep Quality with Proper Light Exposure (00:16:07) Sheet Cocoon Swing for Bedtime Relaxation (00:18:10) Promoting Independence through Sleep Transition Practices ⁠Peeing Solutions⁠ ⁠Pooping Solutions⁠ ⁠Withholding Group⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Bed Wetting Solution⁠

In this episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, I'm breaking down the four big reasons why potty training before age three makes life easier for you and your child. From avoiding power struggles during the “three-nager” stage to preventing looming preschool deadlines, I'm sharing why early potty training sets your child up for success. I also dive into how waiting too long can disrupt developmental stages, create unnecessary challenges, and make things harder for everyone. And don't worry—if your child is older, I've got tips to help you tackle potty training with confidence. Let's make this process smoother for everyone! (00:00:48) Early Potty Training for Developmental Success (00:08:20) Impact of Play Development on Potty Training (00:11:30) Early Establishment of Potty Training Boundaries (00:14:33) Addressing Pee and Poop Withholding in Children Peeing Solutions Pooping Solutions Withholding Group ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Bed Wetting Solution⁠

In this week's episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, I'm talking about something that trips up a lot of parents: staying authentic during potty training. It's easy to slip into “teacher mode” with a serious voice and extra pressure, but that can put your child on high alert and actually slow down progress. I share how to approach potty training as your real, everyday self—mistakes, messes, and all—so your child feels safe and supported during this big milestone. Remember, potty training isn't a test of your parenting skills; it's a learning process for your child. Let's keep it real and make it work! (00:00:58) Building Trust and Calmness in Potty Training (00:02:52) Impact of Children's Hardwired Nervous Systems (00:06:45) Potty Training Stress and Authentic Parenting ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Bed Wetting Solution⁠

⁠In this week's episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, I'm focusing on the importance of balancing short-term wins with long-term goals in parenting. We'll look at why quick fixes, like keeping your child in a crib or using sleep sacks, might feel easier now but can create challenges down the road—like dependency or bedwetting. I also discuss why proactive steps, like early night training and introducing your child to public restrooms, are essential for building long-term confidence and independence. Parenting isn't just about managing the moment; it's about making conscious choices that set our kids up for success in the future. Tune in for tips on how to shift your mindset and make decisions that benefit both the present and the future! (00:00:36) Bedwetting Prevention and Potty Training Success (00:02:21) Promoting Independence: Transitioning to a Bed (00:04:04) Bedwetting risks and solutions for parents (00:06:19) Progressive approach to children's restroom acclimation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Bed Wetting Solution⁠

In this week's episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, we're tackling the tricky topic of rewards and consequences in potty training—and parenting in general. I explain why rewards can actually lead to more problems, especially with young kids, and how we can shift from a controlling approach to one that supports autonomy and self-mastery. I also share thoughts on natural consequences, why it's so important to give our kids more responsibility, and how these strategies build confidence in their ability to manage their own bodies. (00:00:02) Behavior Management with Toy Timeouts during Potty Training(00:03:45) Empowering Children through Early Potty Training(00:08:04) Effectiveness of Natural Consequences in Potty Training(00:13:16) Empowering Kids for Successful Potty Training ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Bed Wetting Solution⁠

In this episode, I talk about why using toy timeouts during potty training might not be the best move. Taking away a beloved toy can actually make your child feel unsafe and insecure, which isn't what we want when we're helping them learn. For kids under six, immediate and relevant consequences work best, as they can't always grasp delayed actions. I also share why nurturing your child's learning process through connection and curiosity is far more effective than using external rewards or punishment. Tune in for tips on building a strong, supportive potty training journey for your little one! (00:01:34) Immediate Consequences in Potty Training(00:04:01) Nurturing Learning for Potty Training Success(00:08:02) Building Strong Parent-Child Connections through Safety(00:11:01) Nurturing Connection for Positive Child Behavior ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Bed Wetting Solution

⁠We're diving into the world of poop. Yup, we're talking about everything from funky colors to strange textures and how teething, hydration, and fiber all play a role in your kid's digestion. I also share my go-to resource, the Bristol Stool Chart, to help you track your child's digestive health. If you're dealing with poop problems (and let's be honest, who isn't?), this episode is packed with practical tips to make sure your little one's gut is in tip-top shape. Tune in to learn more! (00:00:03) Poop Health Assessment Tool for Children (00:02:44) Neon Green Poop: Teething and Digestive Changes (00:05:49) Enhancing Bowel Health with Healthy Fats (00:11:19) Poop Training: Personalized Online Support for Parents ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠ Bed Wetting Solution

In this episode, I get into the real deal about learning and how it applies to potty training. Spoiler: you're not teaching your child how to pee or poop—they already know how to do that! What we're really teaching is where to put it. I cover why consistency, repetition, and commitment are the keys to success in potty training and why taking shortcuts or expecting quick results can backfire. I also dive into the frustrations that come up when things aren't going as planned and how to know if it's time to hit reset. Whether you're just starting or feeling stuck, this episode will help you get back on track. (00:02:55) Progress Through Repetition and Commitment (00:03:38) Effective Child Learning: Parental Time and Consistency (00:05:06) Effective Potty Training with Consistent Methods (00:11:03) Optimal Start for Potty Training Journey (00:13:14) Importance of Consistency in Potty Training ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠

I shared this episode on Oh Crap Parenting last week but because I think it's so important I couldn't go without sharing it here on Oh Crap Potty Training too. I address what might be the most important topic we've covered to date: the impact of parental exhaustion and the crucial need for connection with our kids. Lately, I've been seeing more and more behavioral issues—meltdowns, out-of-control behavior, even potty training setbacks—and I believe it all boils down to a lack of connection and the frantic pace of our lives. In this episode, I talk about how slowing down, reducing outside activities, and focusing on being truly present with our children can make all the difference. This isn't just another parenting tip—it's about creating a calm, connected family life that helps our kids thrive. (00:02:50) Parental Exhaustion's Influence on Children's Behavior (00:05:16) The Power of Soft Connections with Children (00:12:02) Promoting Well-being through Slower Family Life (00:13:06) Empowering Children Through Autonomy in Parenting (00:25:04) Understanding Children's Panic Response Triggers (00:31:35) Balancing Technology and Parent-Child Bonding Through Activities (00:39:02) Empowering Children Through Holistic Parenting Approach (00:40:54) Individualized Parenting Approaches Based on Child's Needs ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠

In this episode, I dive into some of the pitfalls parents often encounter when potty training, especially when they follow advice from sources that might not be as credible as they seem. I talk about why relying solely on your pediatrician for potty training guidance might not be the best move—they simply don't have the time or specialization needed to tackle this milestone effectively. I also address the issue of pseudonym authors in the potty training world, stressing the importance of checking credentials and trusting advice from those with real, hands-on experience. I caution against those quick-fix, three-day potty training methods that can set you and your child up for failure. With nearly 15 years of experience and almost a million copies of my book out there, I'm here to help you navigate this process with patience, consistency, and credible, tailored advice. (00:05:56) Potty Training: Why Not Rely on Pediatricians (00:07:28) Credible Sources in Potty Training Guidance (00:10:06) Expertise in Potty Training Solutions (00:13:04) Tailored Approaches for Potty Training Success ⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠

Today, I'm talking about when potty training just isn't going well. Ever feel like you're at your wit's end and everything's chaotic? That's when it's time for a Potty Training Reset. I'll explain how to start fresh without sending the wrong message to your kiddo. We'll talk about the sweet spot for starting potty training, ideally between 20 to 30 months, and why waiting until the last minute isn't the best plan. Plus, I'm breaking down the nitty-gritty of night and nap diaper training—yes, it's just as important! We'll go over strategies to help prevent those pesky withholding behaviors and ensure your little one is on the right track. So, if you're feeling overwhelmed, tune in for some sanity-saving tips to get your potty training journey back on course! (00:00:02) Potty Training Refresh: Starting Anew Wisely(00:05:25) Optimal Timing for Potty Training Onset(00:08:06) Early Start Prevents Potty Training Delays(00:10:19) Withholding Behaviors and Nighttime Potty Training ⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠

I'm tackling the big one: expectations versus reality in potty training. Let's get real, folks—unrealistic expectations can mess with your head and make the whole process way more stressful than it needs to be. We'll talk about how to manage those expectations, stay flexible, and keep an open mind. Every kid learns at their own pace, and they're going to hit bumps along the way. I'll share some tips on staying emotionally sober—yes, we need that in parenting too! Think of potty training like learning to walk—it's all about baby steps, mistakes, and gradual progress. Join me as I help you navigate this journey with patience and a sense of humor. You've got this! (00:01:57) Managing Expectations in Potty Training Process(00:01:57) Flexible Parenting Approaches for Child Development(00:01:57) Cultivating Resilience and Grace in Parenting(00:08:45) Progressive Nature of Child Learning ⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠

Hey, hey, you guys! Today, I dive into the concept of the inner 'f it,' where kids might show aggressive behavior due to being sick of the process. It's crucial to recognize when your child is struggling and to provide the right support without overwhelming them with excessive praise or criticism. Acknowledging small wins authentically helps foster self-esteem and confidence. I also emphasize the importance of parenting approaches that avoid burdening children with parental emotions, activating a child's inner pride instead of codependency. Tune in for practical advice on maintaining a balanced approach to potty training, ensuring you support your child through this developmental milestone with patience and empathy. (00:00:57) Resisting Potty Training: Understanding Inner Struggles(00:08:02) Encouraging Genuine Recognition of Children's Efforts(00:10:56) Balancing Emotions in Potty Training Strategies(00:16:23) Oh Crap Cafe and Poop Group Resources(00:21:58) Balanced Approach to Potty Training Success ⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠

I'm diving into the nitty-gritty of summer potty training. Summer is a fantastic time to potty train—less clothing, more time at home—but it comes with its own set of challenges. We'll talk about how travel plans and those beloved pool and beach days can throw a wrench in your potty training progress. I'll be sharing why swim diapers can be a major setback and why it's crucial to manage your little one's fluid intake to avoid those pesky electrolyte imbalances. We'll also cover why fruits like watermelon and grapes might be causing more nighttime accidents than you realize. Plus, I can't stress enough the importance of dedicating enough time to really nail down those potty training skills. Forget the quick fixes and three-day promises—I'm here to help you do it right. Let's make this summer's potty training journey as smooth as possible! (00:02:34) Optimal Summer Environment for Potty Training (00:06:51) Potty Training Challenges on Pool Days (00:11:01) Electrolyte Imbalances from Excessive Hydration (00:13:11) Balancing Electrolytes in Children's Diet (00:18:56) Effective Potty Training Strategies for Parents ⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠

Hey, hey! In this episode, I'm diving into the hot topic of poop withholding, again. Poop withholding isn't about your kid not being "ready"—it's a muscular reaction to anxiety. To help, I've launched a Poop Withholding Course with HD videos, workbooks, and a supportive community. Understanding this issue early is crucial, as it ranges from mild to severe anxiety-driven behaviors. Plus, night and nap diapers can complicate things, as kids might hold it in until they're in a diaper again. Also you guys, I just released the 10th Anniversary Revision of "Oh Crap! Potty Training," and we've added new content on night training and neurodivergence, reflecting the changing parenting landscape! Tune in for insights and strategies to tackle this challenge. (00:00:45) Inclusive Potty Training Guide for Modern Parenting (00:04:10) Effective Strategies for Poop Withholding Challenges (00:09:09) Anxiety-Induced Poop Withholding in Children (00:12:58) Anxiety-Driven Poop Withholding in Children (00:15:19) Bowel Holding Patterns and Diaper Usage Patterns ⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠

Get ready for summer with me in this special episode as we revisit all the essential strategies for transitioning smoothly into the sunny season with your little ones, originally aired on Episode 132 of the Oh Crap! Parenting podcast. From tackling endless snacking dilemmas with protein-packed snack ideas to keeping boredom at bay with creative activities like marble runs and fort building, I've got you covered. Learn how to support your child through dysregulation and overwhelming environments while prepping them for new summer adventures with visual aids and effective communication. Dive into the delicate balance between education and play, and discover the importance of fostering physical and cognitive development through playful exercises and engaging activities. With practical tips for managing screen time and embracing slow summer moments, this episode is your ultimate guide to creating a harmonious and enjoyable summer environment for the whole family. Tune in and get ready to make this summer one to remember! (00:01:40) Protein-Forward Snack Boards for Summer Fun(00:08:30) Engaging Children Through Creative Activity Kits(00:11:38) Supporting Children's Self-Advocacy and Coping Strategies(00:17:54) Visual Aids for Kids' Transition Success(00:21:36) Summer Break: Harmonizing Learning and Leisure(00:27:10) Physical Play Enhances Child Development Skills(00:33:53) Engaging Children Through Balanced Screen Time(00:36:21) Balancing Work and Parenting with Screen Time(00:47:21) Slow Summer Fun for Parents and Kids ⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠

First off: listen till the end. There's lots of great info towards the end. Today, we are entering the world of magnesium with Dr. Barb Woegerer! Dr. Barb Woegerer, a naturopathic doctor based in Vaughan, Ontario, Canada, specializes in women's health, stress management, and inflammatory conditions, with a key emphasis on the role of magnesium in overall health and wellness, especially in treating constipation. Together, we explore the different types of magnesium and their unique benefits. From improving sleep to addressing digestive issues and boosting energy levels, Dr. Barb shares valuable insights into the role of magnesium in overall health and wellness. Discover how magnesium deficiency can impact various health issues, and learn how to choose the right form of magnesium for your specific needs.(00:01:42) Selecting the Right Magnesium Type for Health(00:11:02) Citrate Magnesium for Effective Constipation Relief(00:15:58) Comprehensive Assessment for Magnesium Deficiency Levels(00:18:53) Magnesium Depletion Due to Chronic Stress(00:31:26) Magnesium's Vital Role in Enzymatic Reactions(00:33:51) Optimizing Magnesium Absorption for Better Health(00:37:04) Optimizing Health with Specific Magnesium FormsDr. Barb's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbarbwoegerer/Dr. Barb's Website: https://www.barbwoegerer.comDr Barb's Recommendations:Bisglycinate Powder: https://www.thorne.com/products/dp/magnesium-bisglycinateCitrate Powder: https://www.designsforhealth.com/products/magcitrate-powder/#MGL240Combo Powder: https://www.designsforhealth.com/products/trimag-supreme-night-powder#TRMGNTCanadian Brand, Cytomatrix, Magnesium Powder: https://cytomatrix.ca/products/magnesium-bis-glycinate-400mg-full-chelate/Types of Magnesium Chart: https://www.instagram.com/p/CvGYdXeOmgu/?igsh=OXU2dWR6bDltb2d4 ⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler

Today, we're talking limit testing behavior in potty training. Kids often push boundaries by purposefully having accidents or making inappropriate statements to gauge parental reactions. I stress the significance of setting firm boundaries and remaining consistent in enforcing them, likening it to putting a fence around a yard for safety. It's essential to differentiate between behavior-driven accidents and physical issues like constipation, addressing underlying issues effectively. We explore the importance of establishing consistent parenting boundaries to ensure children's psychological safety and provide strategies for handling purposeful peeing incidents, including the use of toy timeouts. Join us as we navigate the challenges of disciplining and setting clear expectations to guide children's behavior and promote healthy development.(00:00:55) Boundary Pushing in Potty Training Dynamics(00:03:12) Emphasizing Consistent Boundaries for Effective Parenting(00:06:37) Toy Timeout for Purposeful Peeing Incidents(00:09:20) Setting Clear Expectations for Effective Discipline Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠ Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler

I'm coming at you with a little bit of tough love, today. We're talking behavioral issues that often get mistaken for potty training challenges. From playing in poop to uncontrollable diarrhea and refusal to wear clothes, these issues can be more than just about using the potty. I dive into each scenario, highlighting the importance of addressing underlying behavioral and parenting dynamics. Join me as we unravel the complexities and find practical solutions to support both children and parents on their potty training journey.(00:00:53) Behavioral Issues: The Poop Play Connection(00:02:59) Pediatric Uncontrollable Diarrhea: Seeking Medical Help(00:03:42) Setting Boundaries for Children's Clothing Choices Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠ Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler

Transitioning back to daycare or preschool after spring break can be daunting, but fear not! In this episode, we dive into strategies to navigate this tricky phase. From understanding daycare bathroom setups to fostering open communication with providers, I've got you covered. Join me as we tackle the ins and outs of potty training during this transitional period and set your child up for success!(00:00:02) Transitioning Back to Daycare Potty Training(00:00:38) Potty Training at Daycare(00:07:04) Potty Training Communication Strategies for Success Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠ Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler

In this episode of Oh Crap! Potty Training, we delve into the challenges of setting boundaries while navigating children's preferences, especially when dealing with kids who will only use a particular potty. From setting boundaries to navigating parental preferences, I delve into strategies for guiding children's behavior and fostering independence during the potty training journey. We explore how to support children through outings and using different restrooms while maintaining patience and consistency.(00:02:45) Consistent Parenting for Healthy Child Relationships(00:03:45) Setting Boundaries to Shape Children's Behavior(00:08:45) Navigating Potty Training Outside the Home(00:08:45) Potty Training Milestones and Child Empowerment(00:08:45) Flexible Potty Training Approaches for Children ⁠Jamie's Website⁠⁠ Jamie's Courses⁠⁠ Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠ Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠ Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler

I'm covering the key strategies and pitfalls of guiding your child through the potty training journey. From crowdsourcing potty training advice to prompting techniques and dealing with helicopter parenting, we discuss it all. I emphasize the importance of sticking to a solid plan tailored to your child's needs, steering clear of social media until well into the process to avoid conflicting advice overload. We explore the power of using statements, choices, and challenges during training, steering away from direct questioning to prevent power struggles. Plus, we debunk ineffective methods like sticker charts and threatening with diapers, offering insights into effective nighttime training approaches and debunking myths around bedwetting.(00:01:34) Effective Potty Training Strategies for Individual Children(00:06:15) Confident Guidance for Successful Potty Training(00:11:07) The Pitfalls of Overbearing Potty Training(00:13:50) The Pitfalls of Sticker Charts in Potty Training(00:19:14) Effective Potty Training: Rip the Band Aid

Today, I'm diving deep into techniques and advice for tackling the common challenge of pee withholding with your little one. From understanding the levels of withholding to practical release tricks like blowing raspberries or singing, we explore strategies to make the potty a more comfortable place for your child. I also address the importance of knowing when it's time to seek professional help for extreme withholding. With patience, consistency, and understanding, we can help our children navigate the potty training process with confidence and success. Jamie's Website⁠⁠ Jamie's Courses⁠⁠ Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠ Jamie's Patreon⁠⁠ Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠ Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler

Erica's Website: https://www.centerforconfidentparenting.org/ Hey! Today, we dove into the essential topic of establishing solid sleep routines for our little ones. Joined by the insightful Erica Desper, we talked all things consistency, understanding your child's unique temperament, figuring out the right bedtime, and how light and activity impact sleep schedules. You know how vital consistency is, especially with hectic schedules, and we shared tips on maintaining that routine. We discussed understanding your child's temperament, because, let's face it, every kiddo is different. Figuring out the ideal bedtime based on wake time? Yup, we've got you covered. And, of course, we delved into the impact of light and activity on those precious sleep hours. Join us as we navigate the world of healthy sleep routines for your little ones, because well-rested kids are happy kids! ⁠Jamie's Website⁠⁠ Jamie's Courses⁠⁠ Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠ Jamie's Patreon⁠⁠ Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠ Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler

Today we're tackling two major fronts yet again! Night Training and Daycare! I spill the beans on how being a nighttime support for your kiddo isn't about creating dependency but providing the right assistance. Plus, we're deep-diving into the daycare scene – why you may want to jump in and help correct misunderstandings if you can. ⁠Jamie's Website⁠⁠ Jamie's Courses⁠⁠ Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠ Jamie's Patreon⁠⁠ Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠ Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler

Today, we're talking about when the right time is to use a diaper during the potty training journey. With the holidays coming up, there's a lot of events to navigate. Learn the art of balancing life events with consistency, teaching autonomy to foster independence, and addressing concerns without jumping to conclusions. Let's go!

All right! In this episode of The Oh Crap! Potty Training Podcast, we are diving deep into a topic close to my heart – Special Circumstances in potty training. We're talking about tailoring the potty training game plan for your kiddos. From assessing mobility to understanding cognitive abilities, I'll guide you through customizing your approach. I also share my exception to the "no rewards in potty training" rule. Give it a listen, as we explore the specifics for potty training with special circumstances. Let's go! ⁠Jamie's Website⁠ ⁠Jamie's Courses⁠ ⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠ ⁠Jamie's Patreon⁠ ⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠ ⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠

In this episode, we're challenging the conventional use of rewards in potty training. Rewards can be counterproductive, leading to entitlement and a reliance on external motivation, and can even become punishments when a child is not yet capable of achieving the desired behavior. So what do we do instead? That's what we're tackling today! Jamie's Website Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Jamie's Patreon Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler

Today we'll revisit some confusing aspects about poop, withholding, and constipation including: *digestion and food *the wonders of gelatin *too soft snaking food *practicing the negative behavior *why slowing down everything can help Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let's go over the important points of day one of potty training. This first day isn't about judging success or failure. It's about learning your child's pee signal (or pee dance) and their pee pattern. It's data collection and lots of learning. You have to avoid being emotional about this and give your child space to learn a brand new skill. It can be a tough day for parents and we'll talk about why and how to help that. Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we'll run through some possible solutions for what might be happening if your child is struggling at daycare. But first, we'll go over what a reset looks like, as many parents are getting this confused. We'll also touch on a common thing that is happening that I do not recommend: a child who is doing really well for a few months and then parents reset. You should not reset in these situations. Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, let's revisit ways to help autonomy and independence; particularly a few weeks into potty training when you're not seeing much self initiation. We'll also pull apart a few scenarios that are common if potty training didn't go as planned and you have a big event planned. And lastly, the pitfalls of potty training with a friend. Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, let's pull apart the difference between bribing your child and holding off an activity to get a potty run. We'll also tackle the 3 Day Curse and the Day 3 Curse. And finally, what happens when your little one does fine for a good amount of time and then seemingly falls apart. And why you should never rediaper in these cases. Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, I'm talking with Melissa Markus, aka @thekindergartenmom (IG). She lives in Canada where “kindergarten” is akin to preschool in the US. We're talking about not just her own potty training journey but also how to best support your child when they need to be fully potty-trained for school. This was a fun conversation because Melissa's IG is devoted to tips and activities and she asked ME questions from her audience. Kind of like a dual interview :) Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we'll talk about how to ease the schedule for your little one as they may be heading back to daycare or preschool after a break or maybe starting at a new place. The dinner time cluster Daycare expecting self initiation in a diaper Not using a public restroom, ever…and other long term patterns Child who seems to not be getting the “I have to pee” stage Oh! And I have a huge announcement!  Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, we'll literally be talking about time; giving your child TIME to learn this milestone. I'm in a bit of red alarm panic based on the information I'm getting from parents contacting me. Parents are in a panic because they're waiting till they're a week away from school to potty train and it's not going well. You HAVE to give your child ample time to learn this but also to build in time for struggles. We'll also talk about WHY kids in preschool should be fully potty trained. And what to do if you need to rediaper for daycare/school. Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, let's look at some potty training issues specific to summertime. Maybe you're vacationing or maybe there's a temporary camp or preschool situation and your child is having more potty training accidents. We'll also talk a little about why night training can be more challenging with a summer schedule and how to just “survive” parenting and potty training. Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we're going to go back to potty training basics and how to move through the blocks of learning. Each phase of potty training is a specific block with good data points on moving forward or staying right where you are. Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, I'm chatting with Aleksandra who defines supportive potty training help. I know daycares can range in their support. I also know that sometimes you don't have a choice in daycare and have to work with what you have, even if that's not really supportive. I dream of a day when daycares are like the one Aleksandra works at. I have to tell you, I got teary eyed a few times during this interview… she has such a beautiful way of looking at this milestone.  Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Omg, there are so many products associated with potty training! But really… what do you actually need? Today, we'll talk about the the items I believe you can not live without when potty training. And then talk about a few things you might want but aren't necessary—and the absolute do not need things.  Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Busting all the myths: wait till they're ready boys are harder to train than girls put the potty chair out so they can get used to it.  Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Erica is the founder of Confident Parenting. She's not only a sleep expert but also a certified Oh Crap Potty Training Consultant. Today, we're going to discuss the importance of sleep in general but also how vital it is during the potty training process. Erica's website: www.beaconfidentparent.com Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What I love most about this interview with Jenna is how much she learned and leaned into her motherly intuition. We cover a lot of the issues that can go sideways while potty training and how to handle them.  Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Q and A months of naked potty training 21 mos old, getting back to “real life” deep sleepers the very real pitfalls of child led Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Getting your child off a bedtime bottle is crucial at this age. I'll let you in on my fool proof way to do this. We'll also talk about consistent, longer term accidents (well after beginning potty training) and lastly: the kid who sits willingly, can't produce pee, then stands and pees on the floor.  Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I'm interviewing the fabulous Lynette. She's a force of nature and a routine junkie. We'll be going through some real time struggles with night training.  Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let's go over the idea that some children will struggle with ANY given milestone and why that doesn't mean “It's not working”. Also, I'll be answering more questions today, including: child stays dry if napping anywhere but crib, where he wets if you plan on doing night and nap at the same time having to do something that scares the child, while starting potty training Night/nap training when child hangs out in bed/crib for a while. Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram Bristol Stool Chart Jamie's IG slides on Poop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices