Podcasts about natural consequences

ABOUT THE EPISODE:At times it can be confusing for parents of teens and young adults who are misusing substances to tease apart the concept of acceptance vs. the act of accepting. In this solo episode, I help distinguish the two and give examples of why it's so important to both accept this part of your life while at the same time keep yourself safe, healthy and sane through being clear on what you will and will not be accepting of. I dive into the complex paradox of balancing love and acceptance with limits and loving our kids unconditionally while setting necessary boundaries. You'll hear a Buddhist parable that may help you reframe some of your suffering, and I share a personal story of a time when I finally got the balance right on acceptance vs. accepting.EPISODE RESOURCES:Episode 138 with Dina CannizzaroTara Brach websitePungent Boundaries, Nancy LandrumThis podcast is part of a nonprofit called Hopestream CommunityLearn about The Stream, our private online community for momsFind us on Instagram hereFind us on YouTube hereDownload a free e-book, Worried Sick: A Compassionate Guide For Parents When Your Teen or Young Adult Child Misuses Drugs and AlcoholHopestream Community is a registered 501(c)3 nonprofit organization and an Amazon Associate. We may make a small commission if you purchase from our links.

Do your kids struggle with tantrums, power struggles, or emotional meltdowns—and you're not sure how to stop the cycle without yelling or harsh discipline?After posting on Instagram about how we raised our 7 kids without yelling, punishments, or power struggles, we received so much interest and questions from parents wanting to know—is it really possible?Yes, it is—and in this episode, we share exactly how we did it.Raising emotionally healthy, well-adjusted kids starts with creating a strong foundation of love, trust, and connection. In this conversation, we unpack the specific things we never do as parents, and why avoiding them has helped our children become confident, competent, and emotionally resilient.From mockery and sarcasm to yelling, punishments, and ignoring big feelings—these parenting pitfalls actually increase misbehavior, power struggles, and emotional shutdown.We also share personal stories—including a controversial ocean swim encounter—that demonstrate how pushing limits (safely and intentionally) builds competence, confidence, and calm under pressure—for kids and adults.Whether you're parenting toddlers or teens, these insights will help you shift your mindset and methods to raise kids who thrive without tantrums, yelling, or power struggles.Key Takeaways:✅ Strong attachment = strong self-worth✅ Small emotional habits shape your child's future✅ Sarcasm erodes trust—kindness builds connection✅ Harshness leads to fragility and misbehavior✅ Family culture and personal growth go hand in hand✅ Confidence comes from challenge, not comfortChapters:00:00 Raising Well-Adjusted Kids on the Move10:39 Understanding Tantrums and Yelling15:45 Prioritizing Connection Over Correction27:41 Investing Time for Long-Term Benefits29:25 The Importance of Connection Over Correction31:15 Understanding the Desire for Connection33:03 The Impact of Parental Engagement35:27 Recognizing Attachment Issues37:10 Daily Intentional Connection39:04 Behavior as a Symptom, Not the Problem41:24 Going to the Root Cause of Behavior43:41 The Investment in Parenting Knowledge47:37 Clarifying Expectations in Parenting50:27 Engaging in Clear Communication53:40 Encouraging Dialogue for Clarity01:00:08 Natural Consequences and Child Empowerment01:06:14 Establishing Family Systems for Smooth Parenting01:12:53 Emotional Co-Regulation in Parenting01:21:33 Building Resilience Through Connection and ChallengeMemorable Quotes:

Have an episode suggestion? Text us!In this powerful episode of Till the Wheels Fall Off, we dive deep into one of the most misunderstood concepts in recovery and relationships: natural consequences. We unpack the difference between allowing natural consequences versus trying to teach lessons or punish, and why intentions matter so much.We share real-life examples - from substance abuse, lying, and emotional unavailability to parenting challenges - to show how stepping back and allowing life to teach people naturally is both critical and gut-wrenching. We also explore why many compassionate, empathetic people struggle with this step and the emotional strength required to truly let go.Plus, we get candid about why telling spouses to "have more compassion" for someone who's repeatedly harmed them can be not only invalidating but dangerous. This conversation is raw, validating, and packed with hard-earned wisdom for anyone trying to navigate recovery, rebuild their lives, or find peace after betrayal.Support the showFind video clips and full length video from this episode on YouTube and our other social media pages!On the web:www.twfo.comOnline Course: www.independentlystrong.comUse code WHEELIES75 for 75% off the entire course!Soberlink Device:www.soberlink.com/wheelsCheck out our blog:https://twfo.com/blogFollow us on TikTok:https://tiktok.com/@twfo_coupleFollow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/twfo_couple/Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/TWFOCoupleFollow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@twfo_coupleFind Taylor Counseling Group:https://taylorcounselinggroup.com/Donate to Counseling for the Future Foundation:Donate Here

Timeout. Natural consequences. Tap in, tap out. There are a lot of ways to go about disciplining our kids. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about dads' role in it all. A child who is not disciplined is a child who grows up without a rudder. Discipline enables kids to thrive. It isn't exactly the most fun part of parenting, but it's necessary. Even good fathers can struggle to do it well. We give a few options that any dad can try in this episode.Why This MattersAll kids need to be disciplined, but if it's not done well, dads can create long-term problems. Key TakeawaysConsistency Matters: Discipline loses its effectiveness if it's not administered consistentlyStrive To Be United With Your Spouse: Differing messages confuse kidsStaying Calm is Always the Goal: Kids receive information better from a calm parentTimeout Loses Effectiveness the Longer it Lasts: Indiana University researchers say timeouts with young children should be limited to three minutes maximum.Important Episode Timestamps00:00 - 00:54 | Introduction & Meet the Hosts00:54 - 02:12 | Big Question: What Are Positive Discipline Techniques?02:12 - 06:45 | What Parents Get Wrong About Discipline06:45 - 10:32 | The Power of Connection Before Correction10:32 - 15:18 | The Role of Natural Consequences in Teaching Responsibility15:18 - 20:04 | Balancing Grace & Accountability in Parenting20:04 - 24:33 | Discipline Strategies That Actually Work24:33 - 29:27 | How to Handle Disrespect & Defiance Without Yelling29:27 - 32:48 | Teaching Kids Self-Discipline for Long-Term Success32:48 - 34:57 | Pro Move of the WeekAPD Pro Move:Talk with your wife about which discipline method would help you maintain connection with your kids. All Pro Dad ResourcesHow to Discipline Children Without Destroying Them22 Discipline Ideas for DadsHow to Discipline a Child5 Good Ways to Discipline Your KidsReferWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Do you ever struggle with correcting behaviors by finding the best consequence that will extinguish the behavior in the future? Today we will discuss some ideas that work with kids of all ages and circumstances. Please let me know your biggest takeaway after hearing about natural consequences.   Also, feel free to reply to this email if you're interested in the Ozlo sleep earbuds or more info on the letter writing side gig and to see if your state is eligible. Check out our sponsor, Ozlo Sleepbuds by going to ozlosleep.com/bestsleepever Subscribe on Apple! Subscribe on Android! Join my FREE parenting bootcamp! Let's Connect! Here's where you can find me: Learn more at https://www.coachingkelly.com. Find me on Instagram! Find me on Facebook!

Send us a textIf you've been reading tons of parenting books that sound great in theory but you just can't make it work for your kids... And they keep not listening, laughing in your face, and doing the wrong thing anyway...Then this Zen Supermom podcast episode is for you.How do you set consistent, healthy boundaries?What are natural consequences - and why do you want to do them, rather than punishing or positive rewards?Dive in.And if these examples are not enough for you, because you have some very specific and extremely difficult situation going on, then reach out and let me know: hi@zensupermom.comSupport the showPrefer watching this podcast on video? Find us on YouTube!Zen Supermom YouTube Channel About the Author:Alena Gomes Rodrigues is a mommy tantrum specialist and the founder of the Zen Supermom method. She's definitely NOT a supermom. But through her own journey as a recovering perfectionist, hyper-achiever, and a 'Momzilla', she discovered the most effective strategy and tools to help busy moms stop yelling at their kids and set & keap healthy boundaries so that they stay calm, at peace, and happy no matter how stressful their life gets.Want to know HOW? Join us for the upcoming free workshop! https://www.zensupermom.com/workshopHave feedback & comments? Email hi@zensupermom.comLearn more about the Zen Supermom Method and the author of this podcast on the Zen Supermom webZen Supermom Cafe FB Community: JOIN US HERE Music by HarumachiMusic from ...

Is punishment necessary when disciplining our children, or are natural consequences enough? In this episode of the Foundation Worldview Podcast, Elizabeth Urbanowicz dives into a listener's question about biblical discipline. How does God discipline us, and how should that shape the way we train our children? Join us as we explore Scripture's wisdom on loving, corrective discipline that prepares our children for a lifetime of walking in truth.

ABOUT THE EPISODEIn this episode, I delve into the concept of allowing natural consequences as a form of 'invisible intervention' in parenting teens and young adults struggling with substance misuse and mental health issues. I share real-life examples and experiences on the benefits of stepping back to let reality teach essential lessons, emphasizing the need for patience and rock solid boundaries. I highlight the challenges parents face in resisting the urge to fix everything and discuss how this approach can profoundly impact a child's journey towards recovery - creating change sooner than later. EPISODE RESOURCES:Hopestream podcast episode 174 with Brenda and Cathy on boundariesChecklist: Ten Parenting Patterns That May Prolong Your Child's Struggle with Substances, And What To Do InsteadThis podcast is part of a nonprofit called Hopestream CommunityLearn about The Stream, our private online community for momsFind us on Instagram hereFind us on YouTube hereDownload a free e-book, Worried Sick: A Compassionate Guide For Parents When Your Teen or Young Adult Child Misuses Drugs and AlcoholHopestream Community is a registered 501(c)3 nonprofit organization and an Amazon Associate. We may make a small commission if you purchase from our links.

The consequences of the original sin of Adam and Eve lead to division and pain, reminding us to honestly acknowledge our own shortcomings by turning to the saving grace of Jesus Christ. (Lectionary #334) February 15, 2025 - Cathedral Rectory - Superior, WI Fr. Andrew Ricci - www.studyprayserve.com  

How can you tell if you're under spiritual attack versus just facing normal life challenges? What's the difference between demonic opposition and natural consequences? Pastors Ron and Hope tackle these deep questions in this episode of Ron + Hope: Unfiltered. Whether you're facing unusual amounts of sickness, financial struggles, or relational challenges, this episode offers practical wisdom on discerning the source and responding appropriately. Don't miss these valuable insights on navigating difficult seasons while staying strong in your faith!   S4E4 (#154)   Are there any topics you'd like us to discuss? Do you have any questions you'd like us to answer? Send them to unfiltered@ronandhope.com.   Follow Ron Carpenter at https://www.instagram.com/ron.carpenter/ Follow Hope Carpenter at https://www.instagram.com/pastorhope.carpenter/   Subscribe to Ron's YouTube page at https://www.youtube.com/user/pastorroncarpenter Subscribe to Hope's YouTube page at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1TUxyS_-elLEOORZ2YiunA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Could doing less for our kids actually help them more? In this episode, you'll learn:What "lighthouse parenting" is and how it differs from helicopter and snowplow parenting.Why letting children struggle, face natural consequences, and solve their own problems is crucial for their developmentHow being a steady beacon of light, rather than a controlling force, can help build more confident, capable, and resilient kidsIf you're a parent or educator ready to step back and light the way instead of paving it, this episode is for you! Tune in to discover how sometimes the best thing we can do for our children is nothing at all.RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Learn more about the Rebel Project Literacy Curriculum, a fully integrated literacy and project based learning curriculum, at  projectup.us or inkwire.co/rplc Get your copy of Rebel Educator: Create Classrooms Where Impact and Imagination MeetLearn more about Rebel Educator, explore our professional development opportunities for educators and students, and check out our project library.Visit us at UP Academy to learn more about our personalized and inclusive learning environment.Connect with Tanya and UP Academy on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram and learn more about her journey here.Enjoying the show? Leave us a rating and review and help more people find us!bit.ly/RebelEducatorApplePodcastsWe'd love it if you could take a few minutes to fill out this survey to let us know how we can bring you the best possible content: forms.gle/JcKHf9DHTZnYUmQr6 Interested in being on the Rebel Educator podcast? Fill out this form and we'll reach out to you if we think you'd be a great fit for an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/CZJXLQDdevPh22ZN7Want to learn more about opening your own UP Academy? Check out the Rebel Educator Accelerator:www.rebeleducator.com/courses/the-acceleratorMORE ABOUT THE REBEL EDUCATOR PODCAST:In each episode of the Rebel Educator podcast, I deconstruct world-class educators, students, and thought leaders in education to extract the tactics, tools, and routines that you can use as teachers and parents. Join me as we discuss how to shift the classroom, the learning environment, the mindset, and the pedagogy, to resist tradition, reignite wonder, and re-imagine the future of education.This podcast is dedicated to all of the educators who work thankless hours to make our next generation the best it can be.  It was designed to begin conversations on how we can redesign education for the future of work and the success of our students.  It is meant for teachers, students, administrators, homeschoolers and anyone who interacts with and teaches youth. We're thrilled to be sponsored by IXL. IXL's comprehensive teaching and learning platform for math, language arts, science, and social studies is accelerating achievement in 95 of the top 100 U.S. school districts. Loved by teachers and backed by independent research from Johns Hopkins University, IXL can help you do the following and more:Simplify and streamline technologySave teachers' timeReliably meet Tier 1 standardsImprove student performance on state assessments

On this episode of Elevate Your Leadership, Rana uncovers the surprising power of consequences in leadership. From "natural" to "logical" consequences, Rana shares how leaders can use these tools to build accountability, boost team morale, and drive performance. Backed by insights from Gallup and B.F. Skinner, this episode is packed with real-life examples and practical tips to make consequences work for you—not against you. Get ready to embrace consequences as a fun, impactful part of your leadership toolkit! Additional Resources: Connect with Rana on LinkedIn Learn more about VOLT Strategy Register here to party with Rosie Connect with Rosie on LinkedIn Learn more about Salveo Partners Follow PeopleForward Network on LinkedIn Learn more about PeopleForward Network Key Takeaways: Consequential Management Essentials – Using natural and logical consequences strategically can enhance accountability and foster a thriving, effective work environment. Natural Consequences vs. Logical Consequences – Natural consequences allow team members to learn from mistakes, while logical consequences are leader-initiated responses designed to correct recurring issues. Benefits of Consistency – Applying consequences consistently fosters a sense of fairness, trust, and clarity among teams. Leadership Anchors in Times of Change – Leaders should provide stability through clear goals and consistent values to help teams stay grounded.

In this week's episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, we're tackling the tricky topic of rewards and consequences in potty training—and parenting in general. I explain why rewards can actually lead to more problems, especially with young kids, and how we can shift from a controlling approach to one that supports autonomy and self-mastery. I also share thoughts on natural consequences, why it's so important to give our kids more responsibility, and how these strategies build confidence in their ability to manage their own bodies. (00:00:02) Behavior Management with Toy Timeouts during Potty Training(00:03:45) Empowering Children through Early Potty Training(00:08:04) Effectiveness of Natural Consequences in Potty Training(00:13:16) Empowering Kids for Successful Potty Training ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Courses⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Bed Wetting Solution⁠

Have you ever felt trapped by the endless cycle of self-criticism and the need to be a perfectionist? In this episode, Matt O'Neill dives deep into the profound impact of the wounds of judgment and guilt – and uncovers transformative strategies for overcoming these destructive thought patterns. Discover the importance of self-acceptance, the role of natural consequences in learning, and the freedom that would come from creating a judgment-free environment for growth and authentic expression. Break free from the shackles of perfectionism and cultivate a life of true happiness. Here are some power takeaways from today's conversation:  Embrace imperfection as an essential part of the human experience. Utilize the power of natural consequences as a teacher, rather than punishment. Create a safe haven for vulnerability and authentic expression in relationships. Shift from a mindset of criticism to one of learning and growth. Cultivate self-acceptance and extend compassion to yourself and others. [02:07] The Lasting Impact of Childhood Wounds The wounds of judgment and guilt are not only deeply rooted in our childhood experiences but also have a profound impact on our adult lives. These thought patterns can lead to an endless cycle of self-criticism, conditional love, and a tit-for-tat mentality in our relationships.  [06:39] The Two Forms of Guilt There are two distinct forms of guilt – overcompensating and undercompensating. The overcompensating form of guilt leads to harsh self-criticism and impossibly high standards, while the undercompensating form manifests as people-pleasing and conflict avoidance. Both stem from a fear of judgment and a desire for perfection, profoundly impacting self-perception, relationships, and well-being. [10:27] The Beauty in Embracing Your Imperfection Embracing imperfection and allowing natural consequences to be the teacher, rather than punishment, is key to healing the wounds of judgment and guilt. Surrounding ourselves with people who understand, have compassion, and allow for mistakes is crucial, as it fosters an environment of mutual understanding and growth, where both individuals can extend the same empathy and patience when mistakes occur. [11:01] The Transformative Power of Affirmations in Healing Judgment and Guilt By regularly repeating positive statements, we can retrain our brains to focus on the constructive rather than the critical, countering the trauma of constant self-judgment. These affirmations remind us that imperfection is part of the human experience, enabling us to extend the same compassion to ourselves and others and approach mistakes as opportunities for growth. [26:30] The Role of Natural Consequences in Learning Look at natural consequences as a teacher, rather than punishment in the healing process. By sitting with the discomfort of our choices and allowing the consequences to guide us, we foster true growth and self-esteem, without the need for harsh judgment or criticism. Resources Mentioned:  Download this week's free resource instantly when you sign up for The Good Mood Show newsletter here!  Or, reach out on our contact page at https://mattoneill.com/contact and we will email you a copy of any free resource you request.

In today's episode Mystie, Abby, and Brandy discuss the idea of natural consequences with a perspective shift that can really de-stress your motherhood. You're going to love this conversation! *** Are you ready for our annual Homeschool Essentials retreat?? This year's topic is attention, because without attention, we cannot learn. Join us LIVE on October 5, 2024 for a full day of refreshment as we look deeply into this topic. We cannot wait to spend time with you all! Go to scholesisters.com/attention and register today! *** Click here to access today's show notes. Click here to join the Sistership.

How natural consequences can help hold the standard and develop a player-led program. Plus, how to plan preseason practices, pregame warmups and how to move away from shell drill.

Send us a Text Message.Gentle Parenting. Permissive Parenting. Authoritative Parenting. The misunderstanding and noise behind parenting styles is confusing and stressing out an entire generation of well-intentioned but misinformed parents.That's where Rebecca Giannini helps! Rebecca is a mother of two, relationship and parent coach, and founder of The Present Parents. In this episode, Rebecca breaks down the four principles for healthy relationships:Everyone deserves to be listened to when they're strugglingEveryone deserves to be spoken to with respect, even when the speaker is upsetEveryone deserves their body safetyEveryone deserves their boundaries to be respectedWe also reveal some personal parenting struggles we have been battling and seek Rebecca's sage guidance in resolving them through the lens of her principles.After listening to this episode, you will understand the distinct difference between permissive and gentle parenting. You will also be well-equipped on how to enforce boundaries and implement natural consequences for optimal outcomes. The end result is eliminating unwanted behaviors while developing emotionally intelligent children who can communicate well and achieve greater success.***Rebecca has generously extended a 15% discount off her private and group coaching to our listeners! Apply code MOTR at checkout here!***Support the Show.DONATE (Thank you!!

Scrap everything you've been taught about parenting. This is a totally fresh approach. The adolescent and teen years are SO difficult. Any way to make this easier? How do you decode what's happening with your child and how to process it. I am so proud to bring this important episode to you with parent and teen coach, Cindy Robinson.Topics covered:Current climate post-pandemicBrain physiology of adolescents/teensParent/adolescent dynamic is designed to fail in our culture#1 way to handle a tumultuous relationshipCounter-intuitive messagingObstacles between parent and the child's growthWhat to do with mistakes?AcademicsSafe place to fall and boundariesWhich battles to pickControlling vs teaching life lessonsThere's no more "B" studentsMORE effective communicationAnger and strugglesHow to detect real troubleDifferent parenting stylesTeens, screens, and youCindy Robinson's Links:WebsiteIG Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.AllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.Schedule a FREE breakthrough call with me Want to take these ideas and apply them to your life? Let's do it!DOWNLOAD the free PDF - 40 Simple Ways to Add Energy To Your Day- get a quick burst of energy right now and KEEP IT!GET the Effectiveness Booster - Shift your priorities to what matters most in less than a minute!Reb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com

I get so many questions about what parents should do when their child makes a bad choice of XYZ.  Today I will help you understand how to find the ABC to match the XYZ. You can plug and play this strategy into every situation to have more harmony in your home. Check out our sponsor Herbal Face Food and support the show by clicking the link https://tinyurl.com/KellysFavoriteAntiAgingSerum and using the code Harmony20 at checkout for 20% off. Subscribe on Apple! Subscribe on Android! Join my FREE parenting bootcamp! Let's Connect! Here's where you can find me: Learn more at https://www.coachingkelly.com. Find me on Instagram! Find me on Facebook!

In this episode of The Child Anxiety FAQ, we challenge the notion of avoiding distress and emphasizes the importance of helping children learn to cope with discomfort, a fundamental tool in managing anxiety. We explore the difference between punishment and consequences, emphasizing the effectiveness of logical consequences in guiding children's decision-making. We also discuss the role of shame in parenting anxious children and offer insights on utilizing time-out as a protective measure rather than a punishment. Join us as we unravel effective strategies for setting limits and consequences while nurturing our anxious children without causing undue distress or shame.

Send us a Text Message.In this episode, we talk about how to, as parents, put our own emotions aside and focus on the learning and growth of our child.

Many parents struggle with this concept of "natural" consequences because they don't fully understand what constitutes a “natural” consequence. And sometimes parents have difficulty relinquishing control because they feel they always have to get their child to obey. Here's what you can do as a parent. Articles referenced in episode: https://www.empoweringparents.com/article/5-areas-to-let-your-child-face-natural-consequences/ The Total Transformation® Program: https://www.empoweringparents.com/product/total-transformation-program-subscription/ Our website: https://www.empoweringparents.com/ Subscribe to our newsletter: https://www.empoweringparents.com/newsletter-signup/ Parent coaching: https://www.empoweringparents.com/product/parent-coaching/

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Do you have a child who has mastered stalling and resisting bedtime? In this episode, Allison is suggesting a strategy for using natural consequences as a way to put an end to the pushback. She shares specific guidelines for implementing her approach, as well as detailed language to use with your child.    FREE Challenge Starts April 24th - 3 Days To Smoother Bedtimes. If you have a 2.5 to 6 year old and you want to go from bedtimes that take forever to shorter bedtimes and your child falling asleep faster, sign up today! Click here to watch or listen on YouTube  Want to hear more from Allison? Provide your email address here to receive Allison's weekly email about the podcast and other fun topics.  Enjoying How Long ‘Til Bedtime? Please consider rating and reviewing the show. This helps Allison support more parents. Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate the podcast, and select “Write a Review.” And if you're a Spotify listener, you can now leave reviews on Spotify by clicking here. Also, if you subscribe to the show, you won't miss any episodes!  Connect with Allison: Instagram Facebook Website YouTube  

You hear it a lot -- "allow for natural consequences." But what does that really mean? Natural consequences are the things you sometimes shield your loved one from -- whether it's a small conversation with someone who's upset with them, or something much larger. If something endangers life or well-being, different rules apply. But allowing the consequences of your loved one's actions to play out for them can be a force for change over time. Start with awareness; don't spend long feeling guilty; and let change begin in small ways at first.

Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!"In this episode of "Parenting the Intensity," host Anouk is joined by guest Carrie Conrad, founder of Beating Disasters, to explore the challenging topic of dealing with emotionally intense children who engage in physically dangerous behavior. The conversation sheds light on the need for parents to approach restraint from a place of empathy and support, rather than control or punishment, while emphasizing the importance of safety and nonviolent parenting. Anouk and Carrie discuss the struggle of finding helpful resources for parents dealing with intense behaviors and highlight the crucial role of natural consequences, preventative measures, and emotional regulation in parenting. Stay tuned for valuable insights, practical advice, and helpful resources in this thought-provoking discussion on resilient and mindful parenting.3 Key Takeaways:1️⃣ How and When to use Restraints: Approach restraint from a place of service and support, rather than punishment or control. We emphasized the importance of turning to resources like Dr. Althea Solter's book "Tears and Tantrums" for valuable insights into understanding restraint from a gentle, respectful, and dignified perspective.2️⃣ Prioritize empathy and support : while implementing natural consequences and preventative measures for challenging behaviors in children, especially those prone to emotionally intense reactions. It's important to adapt parenting advice and resources to fit your own child and family's reality.3️⃣ Importance of parent's emotional regulation: Recognize the significant impact of a parent's emotional regulation on their child's behavior and practice self-care to model the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing well-being. Teaching children about self-care and boundaries is crucial for their own emotional growth and development."Everybody wants control. But when it comes to physical safety and people or children being emotionally dysregulated or not in control of themselves, oddly enough, we give control to gain control."Connect with Carrie:Website: Www.beatingdisaster.comFacebook: Www.facebook.com/BeatingDisasterResources mentioned:Book tears and tantrum from Aletha Solter, Ph.D. founder and firector of The Aware Parenting Institute: https://www.amazon.ca/Tears-Tantrums-What-Babies-Children/dp/0961307366Daniel the Tigger for emotional regulation: https://pbskids.org/daniel/Make sure to subscribe to our podcast for future episodes and leave a rating and review, that helps us get in front of more parents. Don't forget to check out the resources mentioned on our website at www.parentingtheintensity.caJoin the "Parenting the Intensity Community" to find the right things that works for YOUR child and adapt them to YOUR reality.To be able to enjoy your life and kids, not always being afraid of the next outburstTake a deep breath, keep going, we're all in this together!Music by Oleksii Kaplunskyi from Pixabay

What are natural consequences? Can we really parent using them, and how do we use them? What about when safety is involved?  Action step: Reflect upon a consequence you gave in the last week.  What would it look like, and what may happen if you let a natural consequence occur instead? Can you experiment (without judgment, and lots of grace) with natural consequences?  Want to learn more about the EPIC process for conflict and connection?Check out our mini course Stress Less!  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theEPICcompany Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_epic_co/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@the-epic-company TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_epic_co Website: https://theepicco.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/your-epic-life/message

Bad behavior is sometimes punished to teach us a lesson. But with or without formal punishment, every action, good or bad, has natural consequences that teach us important lessons?

Kevin Mannion is a Strength and Conditioning coach and Premiership Rugby Club Sale Sharks. Previously he has worked for Gloucester Rugby and Rugby League side Wigan Warriors.Show notes:Developing Successful Academy Programs - 1:31Kevin Mannion shares insights on what made the Wigan period successful, including the players' understanding of the responsibility of playing for Wigan and the presence of leaders like Andy Farrell and Chris Identy. He emphasizes the importance of creating a cultural underpinning of young local players playing for their home team, which generates a sense of pride from the fans. Michael Wright adds to the discussion by highlighting the importance of players wanting to be part of the group and how it translates to the pitch and the fans.Characteristics of Players in Rugby Union = 11:15Kevin Mannion and Michael Wright discuss the characteristics required for players in rugby union, including the need for robustness and adaptability. Mannion explains how the program is designed to cater to the diverse characteristics of players, with different programs for front five and back rolls and backs. He emphasizes the importance of functional weight and creating a suit of armor rather than just adding weight for weight's sake.Managing Player Progression and Loans - 21:41Kevin and Michael discuss the loan system in rugby and how it can be used to develop players. They talk about the importance of timing and ensuring that players are physically and mentally ready for the demands of the game at different levels. They also discuss the challenges of managing the progression and pathway of young players, including the need to balance the needs of the first team with the development of young players.Player Preparation and Robustness 30:13Kevin and Michael discuss the importance of player preparation during the season, with Kevin emphasizing the need for recovery and freshness for games. They also discuss how to prepare players to be more robust, with Kevin mentioning a blend of touch, grab, and shoulders on training with physio-led gym prep. Kevin also mentions that every player has individual Boltons based on screening, and that they try to fit in three different elements of preparation within the week.Importance of Pre-Game Preparation and Natural Consequences - 34:23Michael and Kevin emphasize the importance of pre-game preparation and how it can affect a player's performance and opportunities. They discuss how natural consequences can motivate players to do the necessary work and how injuries can be a result of not doing the work. They also mention the challenges of working with cross organizations to ensure players are able to peak and perform at the right times.Overview of the Academy Schedule and Player Management- 43:41Kevin Mannion explains the academy schedule and player management, including the different pathways for under 16s and the importance of managing player fatigue. He also discusses the interaction between the academy and school systems and the need to ensure players have the best experiences to promote themselves. The academy also manages high potential players, known as England Academy players, with different interactions and considerations around their playing time.Maximizing Point of Difference - 55:10Kevin and Michael explore the concept of point of difference in athletes and how to help them embrace and improve it. They discuss the importance of identifying specific skills and techniques for different positions in football and how to manage training to maximize performance. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you handle conflict with your kids? How do you better understand their emotions? Parenting expert Alyson Schafer is back to share all her insight about how we can use natural consequences to lead our children to make the right decisions (and just be better humans in general). To learn more about Alyson, visit her website at https://alysonschafer.com/ or follow along over @alysonschafer. Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredOur new book "Mom Secrets" is now available! Head to www.catandnat.ca/book to grab your autographed copy! Come see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Follow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentBecome a Member of The Common Parent, our ultimate parenting toolkit for parents of teens and tweens for just $74.99/year: https://thecommonparent.comGet a FREE “Thoughts Between Us” Journal with The Common Parent Annual Membership: Click Here!Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel for our new cooking show and our #momtruth videos: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeCheck out our Amazon Lives here: https://bitly.com/catnatamazonliveOrder TAYLIVI here: https://taylivi.comGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why using external motivators are necessary for a child's development?How to create a reward system that is effective and fair?7  non-materialistic reward ideasToday we discuss how to use external rewards to motivate your child to follow your directions, comply with certain routines, and develop good behaviors. We will cover the different types of external reward systems and address the concerns that some parents have about using external rewards, such as the fear that their children will become too dependent on them.So tune in to this episode and the following episode (published in 2 weeks) when we talk about the transition from external to internal motivation.Leverage the momentum, print, and USE those reward chart templates.Featured episodes:#35 Consequences: The Magic of Natural and Logical Consequences In Parenting #31 The Art of Effective Parenting Communication! #26 What is a personal boundary? What Time Boundaries Look Like for Parents and Kids?As a certified parent coach, I can help you own your parenting style! How to connect with me? Book your free 30-minute session Leave a message Instagram Join the Bonding Boost Newsletter (We'll keep it short & sweet)!

Yes, in our home, our kids learned very quickly that one of my favorite reminders is, 'Every action has a consequence." And those can be both positive and negative! We can get intentional about reaping what we sow, and it's our charge as parents to help equip our kids with the tools to navigate their own personal responsibility.  Here are six tips for how to have effective consequences that move you and your kids forward vs. repeating cycles of punishment so that you end up bankrupting your kids and losing learning opportunities.  What have been some natural consequences in your home? Get some ideas for creative connections in this episode. 

Nir Eyal, author of "Hooked" and "Indistractable," joins Manisha Snoyer to discuss his family's homeschooling journey, the philosophy of child-led learning, the role of technology in education, and how to raise indistractable kids. Throughout the conversation, Eyal highlights his daughter's experiences with self-directed education, the importance of personalization in learning, and the benefits of a flexible homeschooling schedule. He also shares insights into managing screen time, distinguishing between good and bad digital experiences, and fostering a love for learning. This episode offers a profound exploration of the current educational landscape, providing valuable perspectives for parents, educators, and anyone interested in a modern approach to teaching and learning.Nir Eyal (@nireyal) is a renowned author, lecturer, and expert in behavioral design. Primarily known for his work on the psychology of habit-forming products, he has also made contributions to the field of education, particularly homeschooling. His book "Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life" serves as a manual for maintaining focus in an increasingly distracted world, a concept that he applies to educational settings as well. Eyal's approach blends technological innovation with cognitive psychology, focusing on creating habits and routines that make learning more interactive and tailored to individual needs. His insights not only enhance learning but also offer fresh perspectives in the constantly evolving landscape of learning. SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Nir Eyal:Website | X | Facebook | LinkedInHooked: How to Build Habit-Forming Products -  Nir EyalIndistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life - Nir EyalFree to Learn: Why Unleashing the Instinct to Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students for Life - Peter GrayRegain Hours of Lost Productivity - Indistractable Workbook How to Craft an 'Indistractable' Summer Schedule for Your Kids - Nir And FarWyzant - Professional tutorsNo, Smartphones Have Not Destroyed a Generation - Sarah Rose CavanaghSelf-determination theory and the facilitation of intrinsic motivation, social development, and well-being - Richard Ryan, Edwar DedciThe Modulo CommunityThis site contains product affiliate links. We may receive a commission if you make a purchase after clicking on one of these links. Time Codes:[00:01:00]: Manisha introduces her guest, Nir Eyal. He shares his personal homeschooling journey.[00:06:42]: Nir shares his daughter's positive experiences with self-directed education in the form of having the autonomy to hire her own teachers.[00:09:25]: Explanation of the multifaceted advantages of homeschooling, such as schedule flexibility and the ability to include activities traditional schooling can't accommodate, and provides a detailed account of what a typical day looks like.[00:14:45]: Nir shares his philosophy of natural consequences, focusing on guiding rather than dictating. He emphasizes the importance of allowing children to make their own paths, understanding the results of their choices, and building a more authentic learning experience.[00:20:10]: Nir Eyal highlights the importance of being honest and transparent with children, sharing personal anecdotes and struggles.[00:30:50]: Discussion about the social benefits homeschooling provides, including examples of how a customized education can cultivate broader social skills and adaptability.[00:34:43]: Nir Eyal presents his beliefs about screen time, stating that it isn't inherently bad. He emphasizes the importance of moderation and age-appropriate content, along with communication between parent and child.[00:39:20]: Offering a fresh perspective on managing screen time and understanding children's virtual behavior, Nir gives insight into the displacement hypothesis, the idea that children may seek online what they lack offline.[00:49:36]: The significance of scheduling time for online activities and free play.[00:53:53]: Manisha asks the guest, Nir Eyal, about something new he is currently learning.[00:56:00]: Nir Eyal introduces a workbook that can help anyone become less distractible. He outlines four key strategies, opening up a practical path towards focused and effective living.[01:01:24]: Conclusion, book recommendations, resources, and final thoughts.

At what age should the concept of consequences be introduced?How to use the "Budget Principle" as a consequence?What are logical vs natural consequences?What are the 5 key elements for effective consequences?This episode covers one of the most important tools you can have as a parent, and I know you might confuse punishment with consequences, so, tune in and understand the difference otherwise, you won't know it (that's the consequence :-)).Featured episodes:#34 How to set boundaries for your child?#30 "Your idea Is Stupid!" / How to set intellectual boundaries?As a certified parent coach, I want to empower you to own your parenting style! How to connect with me? Book your free 30 min session Leave a message Instagram Join the Bonding Boost Newsletter (We'll keep it short & sweet)!

After decades of working with families, and as a mom myself, I can tell you that one of the biggest “hacks” to parenting is letting kids learn through their own mistakes. As simple as that sounds, it can be extremely challenging for parents (especially moms) to allow mistakes and consequences to occur. So in this episode, I'm talking about the benefits of letting your kids learn through natural consequences. You'll realize how much more effective it is than nagging, lecturing, and getting into power struggles for raising responsible and resilient kids/adults. Get full show notes and information at www.lessdramamoremama.com/259

Amazing classroom management starts on the very first day of school. We all know building genuine relationships, focusing on the positive, and consistently reinforcing natural consequences is key to effective classroom management. But the problem so many new teachers run into is that nobody shows us how to do these things, so we struggle to figure it out on our own when we get into the classroom. I don't want you to go through this alone! In this episode, I am breaking down how I teach one specific routine inside my classroom, what to do when a student tests you, and the importance of consistency in praising the positive and enforcing natural consequences starting on day one. Show Notes: https://www.drlorifriesen.com/blog/deliver-natural-consequences  Sign up for my FREE masterclass: https://www.drlorifriesen.com/masterclass  Check out the R.E.A.D.Y. for School Academy: https://www.drlorifriesen.com/academy-2023-sales-page-eg-org-reg  Join our Beginning Teacher Talk Private FB Group now: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BeginningTeacherTalkGroup/ Check out Lori's TpT store (Beginning Teacher Talk): https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Store/Beginning-Teacher-Talk  Connect with Lori on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/drlorifriesen/ Connect with Lori on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beginningteachertalk If the Beginning Teacher Talk podcast is helping you in your teaching and if you're feeling extra loving, I would be so grateful if you would leave a positive review for the show! Your kind words mean the world to me. Just click here to leave your review now (and be entered into our draw for a $25 Amazon Gift Card)! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beginning-teacher-talk/id1456137677 I hope you have a wonderful week, and remember - just because you are a beginning elementary teacher, there is no need for you to struggle like one. Xo Lori P.S. Do you have your copy of my FREE Ultimate Classroom Management Checklist? Get yours by clicking here now! https://www.drlorifriesen.com/ultimate-classroom-management-checklist

Trauma Informed Coach Echo Vetter comes on the podcast today to discuss how teaching our kids emotional intellegence is in no way a hallpass to let them "get away" with poor behavior. She share her own parenting transformation and what she has intigrated into her home to see a major shift in her family. Connect with Echo: https://calendly.com/echohillvetter Use code Podcast for 20% off our Parenting Course: https://www.connectioncodes.co/connected-parenting-masterclass

By the time Cindy learned to establish boundaries with her son Colin, he had already endured brain injuries and intubations as a result of his alcohol abuse. When Colin finally called her from jail one night, she knew that she shouldn't bail him out despite her instincts. She expressed sympathy but didn't offer to rescue him - again.As Colin stewed in a holding cell that night, he realized his parents would no longer buffer him from the natural consequences of his actions. And he knew if he continued down his current path, his life would culminate into nothing.Since that day, Cindy and Colin have both experienced profound personal growth. Colin is now a fitness enthusiast serving as director of personal training at a gym. Cindy is an advisor in The Stream Community and personal coach to several moms. Their story gives hope that change can and does happen – and that's what Hopestream is all about.In this episode, I talk to Cindy and Colin together about how they each experienced Colin's addiction and the work they both had to do to move beyond it. We discuss:Cindy's go-to strategy for getting through their family's crisiswhat they each wish they had known during Colin's addiction and recoverywhy parents must confront their own issues to have whole-family healingthe practical application of boundariesa Netflix show that helped Colin move forward and thrive in long-term recoveryResources:Tara BranchKristin NeffPartnership to End AddictionPsalm 80StutzThe podcast is now part of a nonprofit called Hopestream Community: www.hopestreamcommunity.orgLearn about The Stream, our private online community for moms, at www.hopestreamcommunity.org/the-stream/Find us on Instagram: @hopestreamcommunityDownload my free e-book, HINDSIGHT: Three Things I Wish I Knew When My Son Was Misusing Drugs: www.brendazane.com/hindsightJoin my email list: www.brendazane.com/email

It's a very special Hopestream episode today in memory of a dear friend and host of The Woods Community, Bill Guy.Bill passed away June 2nd and he leaves a big gap in the world - we were fortunate to have had him as a generous and brave leader for our community in it's infancy. Bill was on the podcast late last year and to honor his legacy of helping parents of kids with substance misuse challenges I decided to share a compilation of beautiful thoughts and insights from our previous conversation.If you want to hear the voice of someone who led by example and epitomized the approach of love, education, empathy, boundaries and self-care when your child is misusing substances, you won't find anyone more pure than Bill.The podcast is now part of a nonprofit called Hopestream Community: www.hopestreamcommunity.orgLearn about The Stream, our private online community for moms, at www.thestreamcommunity.comWe now have a new community for dads parenting a child who struggles with substance use and mental health; The Woods: members.thewoodscommunity.orgFind us on Instagram: @hopestreamcommunityDownload my free e-book, HINDSIGHT: Three Things I Wish I Knew When My Son Was Misusing Drugs: www.brendazane.com/hindsightJoin my email list: www.brendazane.com/email

I get so many questions about what parents should do when their child makes a bad choice of XYZ.  Today I will help you understand how to find the ABC to match the XYZ. You can plug and play this strategy into every situation to have more harmony in your home. Subscribe on Apple! Subscribe on Android! Join my FREE parenting bootcamp! Let's Connect! Here's where you can find me: Learn more at https://www.coachingkelly.com. Find me on Instagram! Find me on Facebook!

In this episode of the Late Learner podcast, host Alison Hare and guest Cindy Robinson discuss ADHD and share tools and tricks for navigating it. As a parent of a recently diagnosed child, Alison shares her personal experience with ADHD, while Cindy provides expert insights from her work as a parent and teen coach. They also address the difference between ADHD symptoms and trauma or shame responses. The episode includes crowdsource questions and fun facts, including the surprising truth that people with ADHD make for great entrepreneurs.Timestamps:[00:02:02] ADHD and Entrepreneurship.[00:04:23] ADHD prevalence and culture.[00:08:19] ADHD and dopamine deficiency.[00:13:55] Fueling productivity with dopamine.[00:17:00] ADHD as a superpower.[00:19:16] ADHD kids and unstructured play.[00:23:47] Compassionate parenting for addiction.[00:27:58] Understanding ADHD brains.[00:31:03] Embracing neurodiversity.[00:34:17] Parenting kids with ADHD.[00:39:30] ADHD scheduling tips.[00:41:17] Neurodiversity and goal orbits.[00:45:55] Emotional intensity in ADHD.[00:49:30] Gene testing for medication responsiveness.[00:53:24] Nutrition and ADHD.[00:57:27] Anxiety and ADHD.[00:59:39] Embracing Your ADHD Brain.[01:06:31] Dogs with ADHD-like behavior.Are you a mother and ready for a new chapter? The Effective Collective mastermind can help you get there! Book a free exploratory call here.LINKS and resources mentioned:Cindy Robinson's WebsiteHuberman Lab - ADHD Medicines episodeCindy's previous appearances on Late Learner Podcast:Understanding your AdolescentsCould you Raise your Kids like Stranger Things (Surprising Benefits)Dealing with Emotions that annoy youTeens and screensFixing Dysfunctional FamiliesFalse prophets and Teal SwanReparenting YourselfThe Laziness LieWhere Belonging BeginsI Hate Playing with My KidsCindy Robinson - The Kid FactoryThe Good STUFF (Surprisingly True Useful Fun Facts) Research Sources: #1:  Entrepreneurs and ADHDhttps://www.forbes.com/sites/dalearcher/2014/05/14/adhd-the-entrepreneurs-superpower/?sh=7267e56159e9https://studyfinds.org/adhd-entrepreneurs/#2: Dogs and ADHD:https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S2352673416300178?via%3Dihubhttps://www.nature.com/articles/s41398-021-01626-xALLISON HARE'S LINKS:EFFECTIVE COLLECTIVE MOTHER MASTERMIND: Schedule a free exploratory call here.AllisonHare.com - Late Learner Podcast, personal journal and blog, danceInstagram - Steps to heal yourself, move society forward, and slinging memes and dancing (seriously, Allison is also a dance fitness instructor)Late Learner IGYouTube ChannelBlog - quick, way more personal, deeper topics - make sure to subscribeTikTok - documenting my journey one lo-fi video at a timeReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com

Teaching kids to earn, save and give are all important, fundamental money lessons. But so is learning to spend wisely, and one the best teachers of that lesson can be to let kids experience first hand, in a kid-friendly environment of course, the sting of impulse spending and buyers remorse, as well as the fulfillment of saving up and buying something of value that brings longer lasting enjoyment and pleasure. On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince discusses these topics and more with the Founder of Ketshop, and mother of 3 feral children, Mari Collins Harris Key Topics  Mari's inspiration for founding Ketshop (:59) How the Ketshop App works (4:27) Teaching kids to make purchasing decisions (12:50) How you “give” money to kids (allowances, chores, etc)  (14:27) “The Law of Natural Consequences” (19:53) The impact of on-line shopping on buying habits (21:08) The impact of the ease of spending money digitally on kids (23:57)  How Mari and her husband manage their family finances (28:43) Kids learning to appreciate what they have (32:07) Resources   Ketshop.com Ketshop.com/cfo/  for $10 off your first Ketshop-fulfilled order! Ways to connect/follow Ketshop.app - Instagram Ketshop App - Facebook  Contact the Host - vince@thecfoathome.com  

When life goes sideways, have we done something wrong?Sean helps answer this question that we all face at one point or another. 

Parents often don't realize they're deeply and unhealthfully embedded in their child's life- especially when that child struggles with their relationship to substances. The official term for this dysfunction is called enmeshment, but since Cathy and I aren't therapists, we liken it to back-pocket parenting.If you find yourself intertwined in your child's life to the degree that they're not doing age-appropriate things for themselves, or you don't know where they end and you begin, this is your episode. We talk about what enmeshment looks like, examples of our own relationships, the impact it has on a teen or young adult, and ideas for how to start to disentangle from your child using boundaries and natural consequences (and a good therapist!)The podcast is now part of a nonprofit called Hopestream Community: www.hopestreamcommunity.orgLearn about The Stream, our private online community for moms, at www.thestreamcommunity.comWe now have a new community for dads parenting a child who struggles with substance use and mental health; The Woods: members.thewoodscommunity.orgFind us on Instagram: @hopestreamcommunityDownload my free e-book, HINDSIGHT: Three Things I Wish I Knew When My Son Was Misusing Drugs: www.brendazane.com/hindsightJoin my email list: www.brendazane.com/email

oh my mama friend! I was facing heaps of natural consequences for myself last night after choosing the things I wanted to do over the things I needed to do. I did a 20 min workout at 8:30 pm and was journaling at 11:15 pm and stayed up connecting with my husband after he got home from his trip until 2:00 am! NOT MY NORMAL or my ideal, I am a in bed by 9:00 am kind of girl. However, I think it is very valuable to allow myself to experience natural consequences and hold myself accountable to doing things I say I will do so I can learn my lessons quickly and improve myself faster than that. You can hear the whole dang story in this episode and I hope it inspires you to see where your natural consequences are at. Then look at how much you can change! www.alignmentjournaling.com

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As God confronts Adam and Eve about their actions, we discern the natural consequences of sin, whereby division arises and separates us from the Lord and one another. February 11, 2023 - Cathedral Rectory - Superior, WI Fr. Andrew Ricci - www.studyprayserve.com  

CRAFT is like a menu. The better your awareness of patterns from watching yourself and your loved one – over time – and experimenting to see what works, the better you understand what to choose. Laurie talks about her learning process with her son, and how it led her to understand what she could and couldn't live with. You can learn to open your eyes, to check with yourself in a very deep way, and notice what you may not have before. The more you know about what you're looking for, the more effective CRAFT becomes, the better your decisions in the the moment. Eventually you can say, “This isn't working, so here are your options,” and your loved one can choose.

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