Our Apostolic dating culture needs some work. Let's talk about how to date well, connect deeply, and heal loneliness in our churches.
She's familiar, approachable, and as comforting as she is beautiful-- 'the girl next door' is a staple of American dating culture, and an archetype that many men seek out. But where did that archetype come from, and just how firmly rooted in reality is it? In this episode, Steven and Megan trace this idea back to some of its origins and unpack just what it says about how men's perspectives on relationships are shaped. Comic book fans, this one is for you! Our first summer flash sale starts Memorial Weekend! Mark your calendars to save 40% on matchmaking. D.R.A.W. conference begins May 23rd! More information here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/746363680108059/?hoisted_section_header_type=recently_seen&multi_permalinks=970171901060568 Singles at SEA 2026: We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Prices subject to change, but you only need $200 to book a cabin/$100 per person if you book with a friend. Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233 Email: spinell@dreamvacations.com Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com. Intro/Outro music by: Balloon Planet, "Write Your Own Story," https://artlist.io/royalty-free-music/song/write-your-own-story/135437
In the world of "appropriate" romance, period dramas and regency literature have a corner on the market among Apostolic women who want to enjoy a romantic story free of innuendo. But are these books and movies helping us build a healthy dating culture, or hurting us? In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss one of the most well-known works of literature (and its movie adaptations) and the impact of the plot and characters on dating culture for Christians. Our first summer flash sale starts Memorial Weekend! Mark your calendars to save 40% on matchmaking. D.R.A.W. conference begins May 23rd! More information here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/746363680108059/?hoisted_section_header_type=recently_seen&multi_permalinks=970171901060568 Singles at SEA 2026: We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Prices subject to change, but you only need $200 to book a cabin/$100 per person if you book with a friend. Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233 Email: spinell@dreamvacations.com Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com. Intro/Outro music by: Balloon Planet, "Write Your Own Story," https://artlist.io/royalty-free-music/song/write-your-own-story/135437
When the societal and cultural pressures on young, Single Apostolic men are unrealistically high, the risk of them fading from the Church increases. Is the number of single 35-50 year-old women disproportionately higher than the number of available men in that range, and if so, what is causing us to lose our young men on the cusp of starting Apostolic families? In this episode, Megan and Steven scratch the surface of a big question: what is happening to our men, and how to we help? 2024 UPCI Stats Booklet is available here: https://upci.org/stats/ Our first summer flash sale starts Memorial Weekend! Mark your calendars to save 40% on matchmaking. Singles at SEA 2026: We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Prices subject to change, but you only need $200 to book a cabin/$100 per person if you book with a friend. Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233 Email: spinell@dreamvacations.com Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com.
We make no bones about it: we view excessive consumer debt as a huge risk factor in dating relationships, to the point where we turn away clients who carry consumer debt in excess of their annual income. Why do we feel so strongly about something that (in today's economy) seems so normal, even expected? In this episode, Megan and Steven unpack their feelings about debt and why it's a massive red flag in dating relationships. If you need help getting out of debt, we encourage you to check out the resources from Ramsey Solutions, including Financial Peace University: https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ Note: we do not receive any sort of sponsorship or kickback associated with promoting Ramsey Solutions; we simply stand by the efficacy of their process. Singles at SEA 2026: We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Prices subject to change, but you only need $200 to book a cabin/$100 per person if you book with a friend. Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233 Email: spinell@dreamvacations.com Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com.
Loneliness is a slow killer in both the physical and spiritual body. What would it look like for the church to cure it? This week, Megan dives into that question with Synchrony client and healthcare provider Beth Cleavenger, who shares some insights from her own deep dive on the physical impacts of loneliness. Read the 2023 report from the Surgeon General of the United States on the health impacts of loneliness here: https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf Singles at SEA 2026: We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Prices subject to change, but you only need $200 to book a cabin/$100 per person if you book with a friend. Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233 Email: spinell@dreamvacations.com Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com.
All of us come into our marriages with assumptions and expectations for what it will be like, and only some of those expectations end up matching the reality of what couples build together. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss some of the expectations they brought into their marriage that ended up crumbling in the early years, and what that taught them about their shared values and priorities. Last day for earlybird pricing: Singles at SEA 2026! We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! The prices below are only guaranteed through 3/30; prices subject to change from 3/31 and beyond.Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233Email: spinell@dreamvacations.comCabin prices (includes space for two people:Ocean view balcony $1,792.68Interior $ 1,464.68These prices include: cruise, taxes port fee, gratuities, and registration fee.Deposit amount $100 per person to secure room. Singles Chat, West Palm Beach, FL Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there! https://topchurch.breezechms.com/form/60bcc4 Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com.
If God knew that Adam needed a helpmeet, why was he created alone? What is the biggest personality killer that limits relationships, and why is love the opposite of fear? In this week's podcast, Megan and Steven dive into these questions and many more with Dr. Joshua Abrego, Assistant Professor at Christian Life College and the host of The Certain Sound podcast. Thank you Dr. Abrego for joining us and sharing your wisdom! Check out The Certain Sound podcast on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Singles Chat, West Palm Beach, FL Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there! https://topchurch.breezechms.com/form/60bcc4 Singles at SEA 2026! We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Reserve your cabin now to take advantage of early bird prices!Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233Email: spinell@dreamvacations.comCabin prices (includes space for two people:Ocean view balcony $1,792.68Interior $ 1,464.68These prices include: cruise, taxes port fee, gratuities, and registration fee.Deposit amount $100 per person to secure room. Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
We've heard about why Singles conferences aren't great for dating, but what would an Apostolic event look like that WAS a great dating opportunity? In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss some exciting events on the horizon and why Singles Ministries and churches should consider offering more that are like them. Singles Chat, West Palm Beach, FL Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there! https://topchurch.breezechms.com/form/60bcc4 Singles at SEA 2026! We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Reserve your cabin now to take advantage of early bird prices!Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233Email: spinell@dreamvacations.com Cabin prices (includes space for two people:Ocean view balcony $1,792.68Interior $ 1,464.68These prices include: cruise, taxes port fee, gratuities, and registration fee.Deposit amount $100 per person to secure room. Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
We've covered the pros and cons of matchmaking before, but not in light of the patterns we've seen after analyzing hundreds of surveys and interviews with Apostolic Singles. In this episode, Megan and Steven break down matchmaking in comparison to the other options available to Apostolic Singles and reiterate why doing things differently may be the right choice. Want to Come Chat in Person? Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there! Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
What if we told you that mastering three very learnable skills could make you more attractive as a dating partner, more successful in your career, and more dynamic in your ministry? In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss three skills that almost every Apostolic woman has mentioned in her Synchrony interview as key aspects of what she's seeking in a partner. They also give some recommendations for how you can start building these skills today. Want to Come Chat in Person? Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there! Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
Steven and Megan went to a conference just for Apostolic Singles! What they found there surprised them. Check out the Texas District Singles Conference pages on Facebook for sermon clips and resources! Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
At the beginning of 2025, Megan and Steven launched a survey to gather data about singles' experiences with loneliness to help give Pastors and church leaders insight into its impact on the Church. In this episode, the unpack some of the data from the 500+ survey responses. Pastors--please take time to listen to this, and reach out to us with questions! Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds Still want to take the From Singles, to Shepherds survey? Add your response here: https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipHreTA #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
How do I get out of the dreaded "friendzone?" Why is the woman I'm interested in sending me mixed signals? Why are the expectations for men so astronomically high? In this episode, Megan and Steven chat about these questions and other FAQ's they've heard from Apostolic guys who are doing their best to navigate a wild dating culture. Send us more questions on Instagram or through the email below! Apostolic and Single? Take the "From Singles, to Shepherds" survey now! https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipHreTA #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
What makes Apostolic dating truly different from Worldly dating? In this episode, Megan and Steven break down the 10 Principles of Apostolic Dating that they wished everyone understood before they launched into a dating relationship. Send this to your youth leaders and teenage loved ones! Apostolic and Single? Take the "From Singles, to Shepherds" survey now! https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipHreTA #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
Trigger Warning: diet culture, disordered eating, body image. Dating in a fat body is different than dating in a thin body, and is in some ways much more difficult. Our dating culture has internalized the thin preference that is deeply rooted in Western culture, and that preference leaves many people struggling to find someone who appreciates their body and sees them as an attractive potential partner. In this episode, Megan and Steven grapple with this difficult topic and provide data to illustrate the trends and, hopefully, to give hope to anyone who feels that their body is presenting challenges to connection. Links and References: Preferences for sexually dimorphic body characteristics revealed in a large sample of speed daters--Sidari, M. et al, Social Psychological and Personality Science, 2019: https://dspace.stir.ac.uk/retrieve/54c9b8dc-0155-4447-bae2-387dae00637e/SPPS_20Manuscript_20Final.pdf Secular differences in the association between caloric intake, macronutrient intake, and physical activity with obesity- Brown, Ruth E. et al, Obesity Research & Clinical Practice, 2016: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26383959/ "Size, By the Numbers," Hilary George Parkin, Racked, June 5, 2018. LANGUAGE ADVISORY: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26383959/ Health at Every Size: The Surprising Truth About Your Weight, Lindo Bacon, PhD. NOTE: This is a research-based book about dieting and its impact on health, written by a secular author who also identifies as non-binary. We understand that some may feel uncomfortable reading a book whose author does not affirm biological gender; however, the book is not about gender identity and its contents are important for anyone who has struggled with guilt, shame, or depression around their weight. Read with caution, but please consider reading. https://lindobacon.com/health-at-every-size-book/ Apostolic and Single? Take the "From Singles, to Shepherds" survey now! https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipHreTA #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
We've collected survey data from 427 Apostolic singles so far, and the data is starting to show us some interesting trends. In this episode, Steven and Megan answer questions like: where do most Synchrony respondents come from? What is the racial and ethnic breakdown of the respondent pool? How many respondents are in each age group, and how many are male/female? We're also giving away something pretty big! If you are a Single Apostolic male between the ages of 40 and 55, you can email us at questions@synchronyproject.com to request a FREE consultation--the first 10 men to reach out will get one! References: Pew Research Center: "Racial and ethnic composition among Pentecostals in the Evangelical Tradition" https://www.pewresearch.org/religious-landscape-study/database/religious-family/pentecostal-family-evangelical-trad/racial-and-ethnic-composition/ U.S. Census Bureau, Quick Facts: https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/ Sarah Adeyinka-Skold, 2020. University of Pennsylvania Dissertations: "Dating in the Digital Age: Race, Gender, and Inequality" https://www.proquest.com/openview/223cdfe5121c5efa648e53476e624ae4/1?pq-origsite=gscholar&cbl=51922&diss=y Apostolic and Single? Take the "From Singles, to Shepherds" survey now! https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipHreTA #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
In the final episode of 2025, Megan and Steven discuss the surprising reasons why it may or may not be a good idea for you to consider dating a single parent. Spoiler: if you're avoiding it entirely, you could be missing out! Thanks to everyone for listening this year. 2024 End-of-Year Sale: You can get 40% of your Apostolic Matchmaking Consultation by applying the code: LONELY_SNOW_MORE at checkout, or by clicking this link: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/offers/ppk4uQTu?coupon_code=LONELY_SNOW_MORE This promotion will end on December 31st, so sign up now! If you would like to purchase a gift card for your loved one, you can do so here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/offers/T6i4GScv?coupon_code=LONELY_SNOW_MORE Apostolic and Single? Take the "From Singles, to Shepherds" survey now! https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipHreTA #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
Apostolic and Single? Take the "From Singles, to Shepherds" survey now! https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipHreTA In this episode, Megan and Steven introduce what may be the largest initiative they've undertaken to understand the Apostolic single experience. We'll be using the survey above to gather as much data as we can about the impact of Loneliness on our Singles, and the consequent impact on the Church as a whole. Please copy the link and share it with anyone in your network who is also Apostolic and single! The survey is entirely free, and we will be sharing the results of the survey for free with Leaders and Singles once it has been collected and analyzed. Every response counts! Please only respond to the survey one time. 2024 End-of-Year Sale: You can get 40% of your Apostolic Matchmaking Consultation by applying the code: LONELY_SNOW_MORE at checkout, or by clicking this link: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/offers/ppk4uQTu?coupon_code=LONELY_SNOW_MORE This promotion will end on December 31st, so sign up now! If you would like to purchase a gift card for your loved one, you can do so here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/offers/T6i4GScv?coupon_code=LONELY_SNOW_MORE #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
The holidays are rough if you're a Single Apostolic person OR a feral South Florida iguana, and we're here to support you in either case. In this short and sweet episode, Megan and Steven talk some tips for making it through the holidays without falling into temptation or angering the wildlife. 2024 End-of-Year Sale: You can get 40% of your Apostolic Matchmaking Consultation by applying the code: LONELY_SNOW_MORE at checkout, or by clicking this link: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/offers/ppk4uQTu?coupon_code=LONELY_SNOW_MORE This promotion will end on December 31st, so sign up now! If you would like to purchase a gift card for your loved one, you can do so here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/offers/T6i4GScv?coupon_code=LONELY_SNOW_MORE #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
How easy is it to meet someone at Bible College? How does it feel to date as an Apostolic after dating in the World? How likely are you to meet someone at your national youth events? Are there any great singles left in the Church? These are just a few of the questions we cover with the five young Singles we chatted with at ALJC National Youth Convention. Special thanks to Connor, Sarah, Emmanuel, Logan, and Brandon for spending time with us! 2024 End-of-Year Sale: You can get 40% of your Apostolic Matchmaking Consultation by applying the code: LONELY_SNOW_MORE at checkout, or by clicking this link: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/offers/ppk4uQTu?coupon_code=LONELY_SNOW_MORE This promotion will end on December 31st, so sign up now! If you would like to purchase a gift card for your loved one, you can do so here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/offers/T6i4GScv?coupon_code=LONELY_SNOW_MORE #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
Our end of year sale launches FRIDAY, 11/29! Scroll for details. Does using a matchmaker subvert the will of God? In this special interview, Megan and Steven sit down with Pastor and Apostolic thought-leader Rev. Jimmy Toney, who happens to also be their shepherd. Get ready for lots of laughs, some unfiltered opinions, and a wealth of wisdom on how the Church can address loneliness and build Kingdom families for His glory. Special thanks to Pastor Toney for his time! If you are a pastor or Singles' leader and would like to contact Pastor Toney for more insight into The Synchrony Project, please reach out to us at questions@synchronyproject.com so we can put you in touch with him. 2024 End-of-Year Sale: You can get 40% of your Apostolic Matchmaking Consultation by applying the code: LONELY_SNOW_MORE at checkout, or by clicking this link: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/offers/ppk4uQTu?coupon_code=LONELY_SNOW_MORE This promotion will end on December 31st, so sign up now! If you would like to purchase a gift card for your loved one, you can do so here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/offers/T6i4GScv?coupon_code=LONELY_SNOW_MORE #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Timestamps: 00:00 Beginning03:53 Introducing Pastor Toney05:18 Hist. of Pastor Toney's Ministry08:18 The Impact of Loneliness in the Church11:32 Advice for the Single Season15:18 How to Involve Your Pastor in Your Search20:04 How Synchrony Supports Pastors23:05 Is Matchmaking Against God's Will?29:02 Matchmaking Isn't a Silver Bullet31:11 Letting Church Be Church35:53 Why We Made the #synchpin 39:06 Healthy Marriage, Healthy Church44:31 Unpacking "Equally Yoked"48:21 Pastor Talks to Pastors53:38 Final Opinions on Synchrony56:23 End of Year Sale Announcement!
We've romanticized the idea of being swept off our feet by one look across a crowded room, but sometimes love blossoms more slowly, with better results. In this episode, Megan and Steven are joined by their dear friends Rev. Jennifer Peyton and Rev. Johnnie Peyton (EdD), whose commitment to their values of ministry and spiritual education drew them together gradually. Their story bucks all of the trends and is a great example of how values-driven dating can equip you for a marriage capable of great work for the Kingdom and each other. Special thanks to Jen and Johnnie for hanging out with us! Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com Resources and Sales: #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
What if the way you're choosing potential dates is actually what's keeping you from finding someone? You could be prioritizing something that scripture warns us not to care too much about, and it could keep you from the spouse that you need. In this episode, Megan and Steven launch into a spirited, unfiltered conversation about the idol that most singles are secretly worshipping--even if they don't realize it themselves. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com Resources and Sales: #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
This is the second in a two-part series about identifying values, and this time Megan and Steven are talking all about how you can ascertain what someone else's values are early on in a dating relationship. They'd like to make a special shoutout to Killer Whales for making this episode possible. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com Resources and Sales: #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
What are your values, and why do they matter to your dating journey? The Synchrony Approach revolves around identifying and utilizing your values to match you with great dating partners. In this episode, Megan and Steven break down what your values are and why they matter to your relationships. There's more on this to come, so stay tuned for part 2! Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com Resources and Sales: #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com.
If the phrase "break up" makes you feel a bit squeamish, you probably need to listen to this episode. Healthy dating sometimes involves moving on when a relationship is no longer working, and very few of us are taught how to do it well. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss reasons why you may need to consider breaking off a relationship and how to do it in an Apostolic way. Spoiler: ghosting someone is never the answer! Resources and Sales: #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
So, you met someone interesting--great! You're now in the "talking" phase, which is exciting, but also full of potential pitfalls and presents a real opportunity to slip unwittingly into a dreaded 'situationship.' In order to make this connection progress to a fulfilling relationship, you need to take some steps to make this period of time count, and move out of it quickly. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss how to make the "talking" phase short and sweet, and when you should consider ending it. Resources and Sales: #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
Humans look for signals, patterns, premonitions, and signs in everything, and sometimes we use those patterns to confirm what we want--not what God wants for us. In this episode Megan and Steven share their raw testimonies of how misreading 'signs' from the Lord led them down dark paths in their dating relationships, and how leaning on the Word led them back to Godly dating and ultimately, to each other. Resources and Sales: #Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
If you're single in an Apostolic social space, it can be nearly impossible to know who around you is available for a dating relationship. We're making that easier! In this episode, Megan and Steven introduce Synchrony Pins (aka Synchpins), a wearable accessory that is EXCLUSIVELY for Apostolic Singles. Get yours for free at UPCI General Conference by visiting the Kaffe117 Booth, or register to have one shipped to you for just the average US-based shipping cost. Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free. Get Your Synchpin Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration Resources and Sales: Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
"Follow your heart!" "Plenty of fish in the sea!" "When you meet him/her, you'll KNOW."Apostolic singles hear these phrases all the time, but are any of them actually advice worth following? In this episode Megan and Steven look at the advice Synchrony Singles said they hear all the time and give you their (painfully) honest opinions about it. Buckle in! Resources and Sales: Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
Lots of research has shown that, on average, women trend toward partnerships with older men, and men trend toward partnerships with younger women. Do those trends hold up for our community of Apostolic Singles? In this episode Megan and Steven dive into the data on Synchrony respondents' age preferences, and discuss what that tells us about how we're seeking out dating partners. View a PDF of the charts from this episode: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ptnQ_img5YUXr-lurpNCujo_cnWO3vdS/view?usp=drive_link "Age Limits: Men and Women's Youngest and Oldest Considered and Actual Sex Partners," Antfolk, Jan. 2017. Evol Psychol. via the National Library of Medicine: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10367477/ Resources and Sales: Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
We often talk about confidence as if it's an inborn quality--something that you either have or you don't. But confidence can be built, and in this episode Megan and Steven cover three key tips for cultivating the skill of confidence and bringing it into new dating interactions. Also, they tell some of their own very embarrassing stories along the way! Resources and Sales: Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
In this laid back, introspective episode, Megan and Steven share some upcoming changes to their work and home life and how they're making more space for Synchrony and using their values to chart the course. Resources and Sales: Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
With dating apps, we have hundreds or thousands of available singles at our fingertips, but we still feel more disconnected, hopeless, and lonely than ever before. Why? In this episode, Megan and Steven unpack the Paradox of Choice, our higher-than-ever dating expectations, and why you should maybe consider “settling.” References: PDF Summary of The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz: https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5df3bc9a62ff3e45ae9d2b06/t/5e384fcdf7bd6b4910e2cc17/1580748751460/Paradox+of+Choice.Schwartz.EBS.pdf Barry Schwartz's Response to criticisms: “Is the Famous ‘Paradox of Choice' a Myth?” PBS https://www.pbs.org/newshour/economy/is-the-famous-paradox-of-choic Resources and Sales: Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab... Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
Long-distance dating has it's challenges, but it also has some perks! In this episode, Megan and Steven talk about the pros and cons of dating from far away, with some insight for how it worked in their own relationship. Sales and Promotions Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). Download the FREE 10 Min Connection Guide Here! Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
Stop what you're doing and send this to your pastor or Singles ministry leader! In this episode, Steven and Megan answer 14 frequently-asked questions from church leaders about The Synchrony Project and how it can work for their Saints. We need this to reach ministers in all Apostolic organizations! Thanks in advance for sharing. Sales and Promotions LAST CALL: During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024. Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). Download the FREE 10 Min Connection Guide Here! Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony Contact If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
It's unavoidable, even though we'd all love to avoid it. Is there a way to experience rejection that's actually beneficial and not harmful? In this episode, Megan and Steven talk about how to respond to rejection in dating with grace and an eye toward your own growth. Along the way, they throw around a surprising number of sports metaphors. Sales and Promotions Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). Download the FREE 10 Min Connection Guide Here! Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024. Contact If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
In this episode, Megan and Steven celebrate the anniversary of the first Synchrony consultation, way back in July of 2023. They discuss their challenges, high points, and hopes for the Project, and look back on some of the key influences that made the first year of The Synchrony Project a success! A special thanks to: Adam and Karissa King of Dear Young Married Couple David and Jessica Tanderup of The Good Questions Show and Kaffe117 Greg Hackathorn of The Hacka Podcast Aniessa Ford of the Almost Apostolic Podcast Angie Williams of Divine Connection And so many others! Sales and Promotions Download the FREE 10 Min Connection Guide Here! Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024. Contact If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
Conferences, camps, and rallies aren't great places to make dating connections, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't make the most of the social opportunity! In this episode, Megan and Steven teach you how you can connect with someone new in less than 10 minutes. Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here! Sales and Promotions Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024. Contact If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
Are men actually more "visual" than women, or is that a trope we've been using to justify an unhealthy focus on physical appearance? In this episode Megan and Steven dive into that with a reasonable amount of research and an unreasonable amount of coffee. Articles and Resources Male more than female infants imitate propulsive motion - PubMed 2011 Vision contributes to sex differences in spatial cognition and activity interests (2022) Sex Differences in Response to Visual Sexual Stimuli: A Review - PMC (2007) Sales and Promotions Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024. Contact If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
In this (rather unhinged) episode, Megan and Steven sit down with longtime friend and longer-time gamer Edward Cruz, who also happens to be a Hyphen Young Adult Ministry Leader. Together they navigate a complex gauntlet of questions around dating as a 'nerd,' videogames and relationships, and how to be truly yourself with potential dating partners. It's wild, it's unpolished, it's DEFINITELY over-caffeinated, so buckle in. During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024. If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
If you were in Church in the 90's or early 2000's, you may have experienced some elements of 'purity culture' as it swept through American Christianity. In this episode, Megan and Steven share their own experiences with this phenomenon, and their thoughts on how we reckon with it in our current dating culture and move forward. During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024. If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com Links and resources: Harvard School of Public Health: Race/Socioeconomic Impacts on Age of Menstruation Statistics on Births Outside of Marriage CDC UCSF: What Drives Earlier Menstruation?
Are you in a 'Situationship,' where there's an opportunity to deepen the dating relationship and it seems like nobody is taking it? In this episode, Steven and Megan define situationships and discuss the harmful impacts they have on the Church. They also provide you with some strategies to get out of these harmful dating patterns and move toward commitment. During the months June and July, any man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024. If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking Our Website Do you have a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Send it to us at questions@synchronyproject.com!
In this episode, Megan and Steven talk about their ambitious (read: insane?) plan to get more men into the Synchrony Pipeline so more members of the community can be matched. For the months of June and July, anyone can refer single male friends and relatives to The Synchrony Project and will be entered into a drawing for $1,000! To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024. If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking Our Website Do you have a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Send it to us at questions@synchronyproject.com!
In this episode, Steven and Megan celebrate the marriage of two Synchrony Community Members and get excited about what that means for the Project. They then do a deep dive into values-aligned marriage and how the marriage (by itself) isn't actually the goal of The Synchrony Project at all. P.S.--Don't forget to refer your single male friends and loved ones to Synchrony! If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking Our Website Do you have a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Send it to us at questions@synchronyproject.com!
If you struggle to make connections with new people, this one is for you. Dating barriers block connection and prevent others from seeing who you truly are and how closely you fit their values--they don't have anything to do with your personality or your identity. There are small, actionable changes you can make to improve your ability to make healthy connections, and we want to teach you how! Synchrony Community Members: this course is FREE to you! Log in to join the challenge! Non-members: you can purchase the Dating Barriers course here. Please let us know what you think! If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking Our Website Do you have a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Send it to us at questions@synchronyproject.com!
Telling Singles to "Wait on the Lord," is one of the oldest plays in our Apostolic Dating playbook, but it also might be encouraging Singles into a state of paralysis in their search for a partner. What if "waiting" didn't mean "stop looking?" In this episode, Megan interviews UPCI Minister Bro. Colin Taylor about his experience with Apostolic dating and with truly Apostolic "waiting" for his spouse. Happy Belated Mother's Day to our amazing Synchrony Moms! If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking Our Website Do you have a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Send it to us at questions@synchronyproject.com!
Hyphen--the young adult ministry of the UPCI--puts together amazing events to minister to the souls of young singles. But these aren't the right places to find dating partners, and we know because--we asked! In this episode you'll hear from 5 Hyphen members about their dating experience and the challenges they encounter. They also drop some GREAT advice on how potential partners could approach them and make their dating experience better. If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking Our Website Do you have a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Send it to us at questions@synchronyproject.com!
What do women with advanced degrees and softspoken men have in common? In this episode, Steven and Megan discuss two types of Apostolic Singles who have a hard time finding their place in our dating culture, and unpack more about the difference between doctrine and culture and why it matters. If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking Our Website Do you have a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Send it to us at questions@synchronyproject.com!
You may have a lot of questions about what actually goes on when you meet someone for the first time through The Synchrony Project, and in this episode Megan and Steven try to answer them all. They'll take you into the weeds of what happens before, during, and after a Synchrony Date so you know exactly what to expect. If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at questions@synchronyproject.com. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking Our Website Do you have a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Send it to us at questions@synchronyproject.com!
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