Podcast appearances and mentions of iris benrubi

Iris Benrubi, a renowned dating and relationship coach and therapist, interviewed me for one of her summits about the importance of vulnerability. I love this topic so much, I did a TEDx talk about it. You can watch it here. I loved our conversation so much, I created a podcast episode so more of you could hear it. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: Why I used the metaphor of the Tootsie Pop to represent vulnerability Why we choose the wrong men  How to begin to shed the guards around your heart and become more vulnerable How to identify your core needs and speak up about them early on A powerful exercise to help you let go of past pain Important questions to ask yourself while dating ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you're feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy's books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9  ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching  ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear  ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/  ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/  ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/  ►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sandy-weiner9/message

Hi, lovely listener, in this episode, I am sharing the audio from a summit I took part in called The Secrets to Healthy Love, where I had the pleasure of being interviewed by Relationship coach and Therapist Iris Benrubi. We discussed the topic of breaking free from the past and finding a healthy relationship. I shared my personal journey of self-discovery and how my past experiences were impacting my adult relationships. One key point I emphasized was the lack of education on healthy relationships. During our conversation, we talked about common myths and mistakes women make while dating. Self-awareness and intentional action were highlighted as crucial in navigating the dating world. In the episode, you will learn 3 valuable tips to support you in finding the healthy, loving relationship you want. We explore the importance of ❤️Doing a relationship inventory ❤️A Dating Strategy and what it should include ❤️ Finding a community of like-minded women ❤️ Changing your narrative and approach to dating with a positive mindset. ❤️Letting go of past baggage and embracing a fresh perspective so you open yourself up to new possibilities and increase your chances of finding a fulfilling and healthy relationship.

Iris Benrubi, is a Dating and Relationship expert, psychotherapist and marriage counsellor. She has spent the last 20 years professionally Coaching and Counseling men, women and couples in over 14 countries to find True Love. Iris has interviewed Dr. Phil on how to attract a Good Man and asked Mel Gibson ‘What Women Really Want', has #1 Amazon Best Selling book “Lonely and Single to Loved and Adored”, is an inspirational and charismatic international keynote speaker most recently in South Africa. Iris loves coaching Savvy Successful women how to attract her Lifetime Partner by showing her how by simply changing her ‘Relationship Blueprint‘, she becomes “attractive and is attracted to” the kind of partner that can make her happy and shows women how to make her relationship of a lifetime last a lifetime. Join Robert Manni, author of The Guys' Guy's Guide To Love as we discuss life, love and the pursuit of happiness. Subscribe to Guy's Guy Radio on iTunes! Buy The Guys' Guy's Guide to Love now!

Iris Benrubi, is a Dating and Relationship expert, psychotherapist and marriage counsellor. She has spent the last 20 years professionally Coaching and Counseling men, women and couples in over 14 countries to find True Love. Iris has interviewed Dr. Phil on how to attract a Good Man and asked Mel Gibson ‘What Women Really Want', has #1 Amazon Best Selling book “Lonely and Single to Loved and Adored”, is an inspirational and charismatic international keynote speaker most recently in South Africa. Iris loves coaching Savvy Successful women how to attract her Lifetime Partner by showing her how by simply changing her ‘Relationship Blueprint‘, she becomes “attractive and is attracted to” the kind of partner that can make her happy and shows women how to make her relationship of a lifetime last a lifetime. Join Robert Manni, author of The Guys' Guy's Guide To Love as we discuss life, love and the pursuit of happiness. Subscribe to Guy's Guy Radio on iTunes! Buy The Guys' Guy's Guide to Love now!

Chandra Lynn introduces Iris Benrubi an internationally acclaimed life and love coach. Iris helps people break through the challenges that hold them back from living a truly fulfilled life. She strongly believes that everyone has the ability to design their own life. Through coaching with Iris you will take control of your destiny and decide on what you want to achieve, who you want to be, and walk towards it. Iris supports her clients in having the courage to be who they really are. -Show Notes- 00:30 -  Introduction 04:45-  Being relationship-ready 08;28 - Connecting the dots  10:52 -  Identifying our true needs 12:27 - Where do we place our needs on our partner. 16:05- Are you working on yourself 18:16 - We fall in love with the relationship potential 20:52- We have to be prepared to see reality 22:30- Attachment styles 27:10 - Compensating Strategies 30:20- Does your power get diminished. 38:05- Every decision has a cost Support this podcast

Iris Benrubi, is a Dating and Relationship expert psychotherapist and marriage counsellor. She has spent the last 20 years professionally Coaching and Counseling men, women and couples in over 14 countries to find True Love.    Damn I love this woman. We've been friends for years and wow has she continued to grow, evolve, serve and shine. She is more grounded, certain and receptive than I've ever seen or felt. Turns out she's moved north in Ontario and she's doing beautiful addiction recovery work with Indigenous people. It shows not only the fulfillment she has of giving her gifts, yet also the gifts she's received... valuing elders... valuing woman... You must listen to the yummy story of what her and her man do in the bathroom! And of the beauty of their communication that's led to full self expression where the relationship is never at risk... we're getting through this no matter what. Stunning. Enjoy!   allanapratt.com/irisbenrubi  --------- p.s. Take our FREE Assessment. Our Intimacy Blindspot Assessment is a quick, simple yet effective assessment so you can discover how to have the sexual freedom, healthy communication, and deep connection you deserve - https://allanapratt.com/quiz  Gentlemen - End the Fear of Rejection. Enjoy your "How To Be A Noble Badass" Complementary Training at www.GetHerToSayYes.com Ladies - Be irresistible. Feel sacred. Attract him now. Enjoy your "Vulnerability is the New Sexy" Complementary Training at http://allanapratt.com/vulnerability   Featuring music by: 4 Chambers - written by Aeone / BMI Published by Angleterre Music /BMI

In this episode, I interview Iris Benrubi about why you keep picking the same type of man and what you can do to change your type and pick a man who is healthy, who loves, adores, and cherishes you! Iris Benrubi is a Dating and Relationship expert, Registered Psychotherapist, and Marriage Counsellor. She has spent   [...read more]

In this episode, I interview Iris Benrubi about why you keep picking the same type of man and what you can do to change your type and pick a man who is healthy, who loves, adores, and cherishes you! Iris Benrubi is a Dating and Relationship expert, Registered Psychotherapist, and Marriage Counsellor. She has spent   [...read more]

In this episode, I interview Iris Benrubi about why you keep picking the same type of man and what you can do to change your type and pick a man who is healthy, who loves, adores, and cherishes you! Iris Benrubi is a Dating and Relationship expert, Registered Psychotherapist, and Marriage Counsellor. She has spent   [...read more]

It's so frustrating when you think you’re done dating the same guy and find yourself back down the same rabbit hole like before! Let’s change that pattern, shall we? Iris Benrubi is a Dating and Relationship expert, Registered Psychotherapist and Marriage Counsellor. She has spent over 20 years professionally Coaching and Counseling men, women and couples, in over 16 countries to find True Love. Iris has interviewed Dr. Phil on how to attract a Good Man and asked Mel Gibson on ‘What Women Really Want’. Iris has a #1 Amazon Best Selling Book “Lonely and Single to Loved and Adored”. She is an inspirational and charismatic international keynote speaker spiked with humor, energy and wit. She shares her life with the Man of her Dreams that she attracted using her own 3 step process she teaches women. And when she isn’t coaching, she is riding her motorcycle, doing back flips on the trampoline or riding in her pink 2-seater convertible next to the man of her dreams. Learn the 6 principles to Spark a Man's Desire without chasing him....and it's not what you think :) Want to stop going on sucky dates? Grab your MIDLIFE LOVE GUIDE TO SUCCESSFUL DATING and learn how you can call in Mr. Right, right now!  If you’d like some one-to-one support with Junie, apply for one of her complimentary  Love Breakthrough Session today so she can support you on your love path. And don’t forget to subscribe to Midlife Love Out Loud so that you don't miss a single episode. While you're at it, won't you take a moment to write a short review and rate our show? It would be greatly appreciated! To learn more about our previous guests, listen to past episodes, and get to know your host, go to www.CoachJunieMoon.com and follow us on Facebook and Twitter. If you’d like some one-to-one coaching with Junie, apply for your complimentary 30-minute Love Breakthrough Session today so she can support you on your love path.

Your Relationship BlueprintDetach from Toxic Relationships & Attach to a Healthy Partner with Iris BenrubiAired Tuesday, February 16, 2021 at 4:00 PM PST / 7:00 PM ESTThis week on Miracle Guidance for Everyday Life, Dr. Harra and special guest Iris Benrubi reveal your relationship blueprint.It is your birthright to have a stable relationship with a man who loves you unconditionally. And yet, many of us find relationships to be confusing, complicated, or downright stressful. It’s not supposed to be that way; only when we fall for the wrong partners do we experience disappointment, anxiety, and pain in our relationships. To detach from toxic people and transform your love life, you must first revisit the beliefs you hold and the “types” of partners you attract. Dr. Harra and Iris will take your calls and help you navigate through your romantic endeavors. Call in and get the love guidance you need!Tune in to Miracle Guidance for Everyday Life Tuesday at 7pm ET and enjoy healthy relationships.Visit the Miracle Guidance for Everyday Life show page https://omtimes.com/iom/shows/miracle-guidance-for-everyday-life/Connect with Carmen Harra at http://carmenharra.com/#IrisBenrubi #YourRelationshipBlueprint #MiracleGuidance #CarmenHarra

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Get ready for an empowering, uplifting show at precisely the time in history when we could all use it. My long-time friend and all-around nice lady Iris Benrubi joins me to talk about personal power. In particular, we're revealing and discussing those little hidden places in your life where you can actually DO something. But to start off, we wonder aloud why so many people seem to actively want to retreat into victimhood, despite the negative impact that has on confidence and self-esteem. It's no wonder that the idea of personal agency all starts with figuring out what we actually want and how to get it, right? And is it true you're going to end up exactly like your parents, no matter what? Could it be true that doing the exact opposite of what you're conditioned to could be just as disempowering as simply falling in line with groupthink? How does the tangle between opportunity and consequences affect our psychological mindset? Do we really have to hit rock bottom and lose all that makes us comfortable before bouncing back in a way that's truly in alignment with our hopes and dreams? Next, discover how there are two ways most men are handling the COVID-19 crisis. Which guy are you? What is the secret to deriving strength from life situations that would wither others? How can you begin to feel truly powerful at attracting and interacting with women, even if you've gone your entire life thus far without? And how can you acquire the power to get the RIGHT woman in your life, once and for all? Let's talk 25 minutes for free about how to get you to the next level in your career, lifestyle and--of course--in your relationships with women. Get on my calendar at https://mountaintoppodcast.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

Iris Benrubi, is a Dating and Relationship expert and Registered Psychotherapist . She has spent the last 20 years professionally Coaching and Counseling men, women and couples, in over 14 countries to find True Love. Iris has interviewed Dr. Phil on how to attract a Good Man and asked Mel Gibson ‘What Women Really Want’. Iris has a #1 Amazon Best Selling Book “Lonely and Single to Loved and Adored”, she is an inspirational and charismatic international keynote speaker spiked with humor, energy and wit. She shares her life with the Man of her Dreams that she attracted using her own 3 step process she teaches women. https://parkbench.com/blog/simply-success-inc-therapy-solutions-psychotherapy-mill-pond-richmond-hill-iris-benrubi

Why do we sometimes find ourselves in relationships with partners that aren't right?  Everybody wants to find joy and love. Being trapped in a relationship that is hurtful or harmful isn't good for your health. The right partner can bring so much joy into your life, but how do you avoid those hurtful and harmful relationships? My guest today is an expert on this topic.  Iris Benrubi is a psychotherapist and marriage counsellor. She is also a dating and relationship expert who has spent the last 20 years coaching and counseling men, women, and couples on how to find true love. She is also the author of Lonely & Single to Loved & Adored. On today’s show, Iris shares her journey, her dating expertise, and tips from her book.  Show Notes: [03:16] This is Iris's fourth career. She was a psychotherapist and marriage counselor for many years. When her 18 year marriage ended in divorce, she had an identity crisis and had to do a lot of soul searching. [04:26] A couple years later, she entered the wild west of dating. She realized she had to own that she couldn't see her own blind spots. [04:53] For the last few years, Iris has been teaching women how to find and maintain the relationship of a lifetime, they don't have to go through what she went through.  [05:33] Her book and programs look at three components. The first one is finding who are you and how do you show up? Women often compromise to make relationships work and come from a place of fear.  [06:15] Once we know our own value we start to look for someone different. Women need to be clear on what they are looking for. [07:40] We have a blueprint that we are born into from our families. Babies are a blank canvas, but what gets imprinted on us is how relationships work. [08:04] We get an identity, and we also look at how our parents interact. Even though we may not like it, this relationship blueprint is imprinted on us. [08:43] It takes work, but you can shift your relationship blueprint. [11:53] We pick our partners based on the wounds we have from childhood. If we pick a partner who is conscious, we both get to heal from those wounds, and create a happy and safe relationship. [12:22] Ask what the shift is that you need to make to be attracted to a better kind of partner. [13:20] Go for 80% and work to grow the rest. [14:30] If you cut people out for tiny little things, it may be because you have a fear of intimacy and getting your heartbroken. [15:29] When there is safety and you can feel what you feel, you can then negotiate and reach a compromise. [16:08] We either do exactly what our parents did or the exact opposite. [19:00] What we don't see and challenge is our blind spot. [20:43] You don't have to agree with what people are saying, they just want to be heard and acknowledged for what they are feeling. [21:46] Relationships are about how safe do I feel with you. The more we can allow someone to be who they are, the more space there is for them to want to be with you. [23:34] One thing Iris learned was that it was difficult for her to express what she needs. [27:16] Make sure you get into relationships that are in alignment with your values.  [28:49] The first six months is the honeymoon stage. After this, we start to see reality. How do the two of you show up when there is conflict.  [30:52] People often think dating is a numbers game, and that's a recipe for exhaustion. You need to know how to screen potential partners. [31:32] You need to write a profile that attracts the kind of people that you are looking for, and you need to know how to screen and sort potential dates. [32:01] Women need to be the buyer not the seller. [32:51] Online dating becomes fun when you start picking people who are fun for you. [34:57] Am I having fun? Do I feel safe? Am I happy? [35:57] It's about the quality of time that you spend together.  [38:09] Iris's clients keep her going. Helping people excites her. [39:15] Be introspective and responsible for yourself. This is where you get to create inner peace. Invest in yourself and get the skills you need to upgrade yourself.  Links and Resources: Iris Benrubi Website Spark a Man’s Desire Free eBook Iris Benrubi on Facebook Iris Benrubi on Twitter Lonely & Single to Loved & Adored

Iris Benrubi has been called the Queen of Hearts. She has a Masters Degree in Counselling Psychology. For 16 years she has been helping men and women all over the world find love. She has a fun and crystal clear approach to finding your perfect partner. Iris is a #1 Amazon Best Selling Author of “Lonely and Single to Loved and Adored”, is an inspirational and charismatic keynote speaker and is renowned for her no-nonsense approach spiked with humor and wit. Iris has made guest appearances on Slice TV and Women’s Network TV, and is the host of  the “Awakened Relationships Summit” Coming Soon: Mal will release her new book, Broken Open (Inspired Living Publishing).   Enjoy Mal's Heart-Opening Gift Set as a show of gratitude when you register for VIP notice when Broken Open: Embracing Heartache and Betrayal as Gateways to Unconditional Love is released on April 17th. You can download your gift set here >> bit.ly/Broken_Open

Iris Benrubi is a Mensan with a masters degree in Psychology. She has spent the past 16 years counseling men and women all over the world in finding love. Iris is the best selling author of “Lonely and Single to Loved and Adored”. She has made guest appearances on Slice TH and the Women’s Network. Annually she hosts the Awakened Relationship Summit.  You can reach Iris at www.TherapySolutions.ca  Inspirational speaker and best-selling author, Mal Duane invites women to embrace their divine wildness. Listen in and learn how to move from pain and heartache to forgiveness and freedom so you can live the radiant life you deserve. www.malduanecoach.com

Have you ever felt like whatever you do for a woman it's never good enough? Worse...have you been left thinking that no matter what ANY man does in a world with so much 'man bashing', it's always going to be flat-out wrong? Obviously, any well-meaning man with solid intentions can be left thoroughly frustrated with a quickness. That's why I brought in my long time friend Iris Benrubi, who is a genuinely man-friendly licensed psychotherapist. Find out how seeds of discontent in your relationship with a woman--and her relationship with you--were actually sown in early childhood. And wait until you hear the fascinating truth about how the mental trigger of 'getting beat by a girl' when asking a woman out ends up screwing up your relationship with her later. Also, why some women are so good at triggering your 'hot buttons' and what to do when it happens. Finally, you'll also get true clarity on who should apologize to whom, and when...all the while gaining personal power and respect instead of squandering it. Ready to live one-hundred percent? Well, we're in the happiness business. Give us a shout by visiting http://www.mountaintoppodcast.com/coaching === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free.  If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review.  As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!