About the Girls

Infertility. Miscarriage. Joy. Triumph. Sadness. Grief. Pain. Celebration. Loneliness. We are talking about all of the pieces that are a part of Motherhood. This week, as we look ahead to Mother’ Day, we are joined by Lauren Frampton, Connie Greenhagen and Kristin Miller. 3 moms with 3 very different stories to bring you encouragement and maybe even some laughs. These women are graciously and honestly opening up about mothering in quarantine, failures, and diving into the different and sometimes painful roads to becoming moms. No matter what your story is and whatever this day brings up for you we hope you feel seen, find hope and in the end we hope the stories of these incredible women point you to Jesus. Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Thanks to Connie, Kristin and Lauren for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Attention all you HGTV lovers and Pandemic Home Project DIY-ers! If you’re anything like us, staring at the same walls has you doing projects and coming up with lists of things you want to do around your house. Or maybe you’re now realizing a move is in the plan when all of this is over. We’ve invited Interior Designer and successful Real Estate Agent, Jordan Stephens to join us for a fun conversation on all things home. She’s sharing tips and tricks on updating your home without the overwhelm, how to achieve “your style” and even some advice on getting your house ready to sell. Join us for a fun episode of About the Girls: Home Edition!

Maybe you’re exhausted and just need to hear some encouraging words or maybe you’re looking for practical tips to help you thrive in this season. Either way, this conversation with Erin is a great one. A few of our favorite takeaways:1. Do what works for YOUR family. 2. Don’t forget the long game, but also have some grace for yourself. 3. Use what you have. 4. Just add water and/or music Thank you so much, Erin for joining us today and we will be the first listeners when you start your podcast for moms

ATG Book Club - I Am NotLooking for a fun distraction from the news and a way to connect during #socialdistancing? Join ATG Book Club hosts April and Whitney for this month’s book, I Am Not by Simi John. We are talking about the ways they related to the book, the things that challenged and what was learned. Tune in for some quarantine fun and then come let us know what other books you’re loving! You may see them on the list of books we read for Book Club! Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:I Am Not Book - http://simijohn.tv/i-am-not-book/Thanks to Whitney and April for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Whether you’re trying to keep it together for your kids as you watch the news and take in all that is happening, you need some encouragement while you’re stuck inside with your littles, or if your heart just needs a reminder for the everyday, this episode is for you! We have invited two incredible moms to join us for a special episode where we talk about the hard parts of motherhood and the lessons they’ve learned. The point of this episode is not to focus on the Coronavirus or the craziness that seems to be happening all around us. The point of this episode is to shift our focus, encourage our hearts, and remind us that our call to show our kids Jesus hasn’t changed. We are not powerless, things are not hopeless, and we GET to raise little people that see us continue to point to Jesus. Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Thanks to Lisa and Heidi for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

About The CrawlKourtney is a mom of two sweet kids, a NICU nurse and just an incredible human being. You know that thing that you never thought would be your story? The heartbreak that brings you to your knees and knocks the breath right out of you? Kourtney shares the story of walking through deep pain and becoming a single mom when her marriage suddenly ended, despite her desire and prayer that it would be saved. Kourtney’s story is hard, but beautiful. She uses her words to remind us of God’s faithfulness. Kourtney shares her story with respect, care, and such grace, even as she details the moments she felt like she couldn’t get back up. We talk about how hard it is when you feel like you’re praying for the “right” thing and the answer is no, and how God is so faithful in giving us His best. She talks about the power of showing up for your girlfriends, whether it’s an encouraging text at the right time or a 4am coffee drop. This story is one that will remind you that God is near the broken-hearted, and that because of the hope we have in him, we can keep going, even if we have to crawl at first. Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North Church, www.north.churchActs 2 Church https://acts2umc.org/Thanks to Kourtney for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

About ATG Book ClubThe About the Girls Book Club has launched and we want to tell you about it! Whitney Grimes and April Haddock, ATG Book Club Hosts, are joining the show to talk more about the why, the how, and the when of this fun new feature of the ATG community. There are many of our listeners who either love to read or crave community, so we’ve added book club. This will be a chance for us to discuss real-life issues raised by the books we read from different perspectives, build community through reading together and even meeting up every now and then, and to have something fun for all the readers to look forward to each month. Tune in for all the details and let us know what books you’re loving! You may see them on the list of books we read for Book Club! Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North Church- www.north.churchI Am Not Book - http://simijohn.tv/i-am-not-book/Freedom House - https://www.okteenchallenge.com/freedom-house-women-18Thanks to Whitney and April for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

About Love and ParentingRodney and Shannon Fouts share three children and they are the pastors of North Church in Oklahoma City. For the final episode of February’s “Love and…” series, Kayla sat down with North Church pastors, Rodney and Shannon Fouts to talk Parenting. While they wanted to make it clear that no one has it all figured out, they offered so much wisdom and encouragement on raising kids and leading our homes well. This conversation is all about navigating activities while prioritizing church, loving our spouses well while we parent together, practical tips for making Jesus known in our homes and more. We even talk a little about the empty nest stage! This is a conversation we hope every parent, every person who hopes to be a parent, or anyone who has influence over children will listen to. They say “it takes a village” and what better way to grow as parents than to take in wisdom from the people around us who do it well and are ahead of us? We are so grateful for Pastors Rodney and Shannon and their willingness to have this conversation. We hope you love it! Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North Church, www.north.churchThanks to Pastors Rodney and Shannon for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

About “I Am Not”Simi John is a pastor’s wife, mom, physical therapist, author, speaker and so much more. Simi John is back on the show to share some exciting news! She is releasing her first book, titled “I Am Not” out now! Simi is giving About the Girls friends some background information and behind the scenes on what you need to know about it and why you NEED to grab it. This devotional addresses topics that are so relevant to all women, and if you remember Simi from her first time on the show, then you know there is so much wisdom in her message. From her website:“Are you tired of struggling with your identity and settling for a lesser version of you? Are you ready to erase the stories that culture teaches about women and tell a different story? Are you willing to change not just your mindset but the way you live? Then “I AM NOT” is for you.” Get your copy today at the link below:http://simijohn.tv/I-am-not-book/Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North Church, www.north.churchhttp://simijohn.tv/I-am-not-book/Thanks to Simi for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

About Love & FriendshipKay Newberry is a wife, mom, grandmother, business owner and minister. Deb Anderson is a wife, mom, grandmother, and mother in law to show host, Kayla Anderson. In part two of the “Love and…” series, Kayla sat down with her mother in law, Deb and Kay, Deb’s best friend to talk friendship. Deb and Kay have a friendship to be admired and they’re sharing insight and wisdom in what Godly friendship looks like, handling conflict, showing up for each other, how Jesus modeled friendship for us, and more. This episode is both encouraging and challenging. It will make you thankful for your “person” while pushing you to grow to be the best friend you can be. If you don’t have a “person” they are also talking about how we can ask God for that and trust him to bring the right people into our lives. This is a fun listen and you will love hearing from Deb and Kay on how they’ve grown to have such a beautiful friendship of over 25 years! Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North Church, www.north.churchBoundaries by John Townsend and Henry Cloud: https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-When-Take-Control-Your/dp/0310247454Thanks to Kay and Deb for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

About Love & MarriageGreg and Lisa Woodson are parents of 3, pastors, and retired military. Kayla’s mom and dad, Greg and Lisa, are kicking off February’s “Love And” series, and they are starting us off with a bang! If you’ve ever been around them then you know they LOVE Jesus, they love each other BIG and the laugh ALOT. Celebrating 39 years of marriage this year, they are sharing funny stories, wisdom, and encouragement for not just a long-lasting marriage, but one built on Jesus and full of love and laughter. They are keeping it real with the fact that marriage has hard days and they have had hard times, but they also share some of the important things they have done to weather storms and live a life of joy together. This episode is one that will make you laugh but also encourage you in so many ways. Whether you are married or hope to be someday, this one is fun! Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North Church, www.north.churchCheck out Greg and Lisa’s Church, Living Water for Sunday School on Sundays at 9:30 am, worship service at 11:30 am, and Wednesday evening prayer and bible study at 6:30 pm.Thanks to Greg and Lisa for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Elizabeth Ward is one of the worship leaders at North Church. She is a wife to Jordan and mom to baby Noah. So many women experience trauma or just really difficult circumstances bringing children into their families, whether it’s through labor and delivery or another means of adding to the family. So much of that pain isn’t spoken about for fear of being “dramatic” or not being “strong enough.” Elizabeth shares about missing some of her son’s newborn moments, the fear of being a burden to others and letting them see us at our low points, and the lie that we are alone in our suffering. Elizabeth goes on to share the reality of PostPartum Depression and the shame that can come with it. Out of the pain she experienced, Elizabeth talks about God’s faithfulness and how he has used her story to help others through her worship album, titled Selah. We talk about having a BIG dream and not letting fear keep you from it and the power that comes from sharing your story. The album can be found on Spotify, Amazon Music, Google Play, or wherever you get your music. You will want to get this album ASAP! Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North Church, www.north.churchCheck out "Selah" by Elizabeth Ward on Amazon Music. https://www.amazon.com/Selah-Elizabeth-Ward/dp/B07NGNMJZL/ref=nodl_Thanks to Elizabeth for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Tiana Monsi is a wife, mom, stylist, and worship leader. Tiana tells the hard story of being diagnosed with Lupus. She shares the reality of her diagnoses but she shares her incredible faith in a God who heals and who hears us. She talks about the power of our words and choosing HOPE. There are so many women who struggle in silence with illnesses or just struggles that we can’t see. We are thankful for Tiana’s voice for women who are battling something. She reminds us to be brave enough to open up to our people and let them love us and encourage us. She encourages us to be friends who check on our people and love them well. Tiana also shares about her most recent worship album, Created (can be downloaded on Spotify, Amazon Music, and more) and her recent concert @North Church. Don’t miss this incredible episode of hope in the midst of big prayers! Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North ChurchCreated, album by Tiana MonsiThanks to Tiana for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Jessica Koester is a wife, rodeo competitor, aunt, and more. At the start of the new year, most of us have major goals and dreams we are passionately pursuing. But what happens when the dream you know God gave you seems to be taken away? Jessica shares the hard story of being homeless, pursuing a dream, and getting back up after a MAJOR setback that almost took her leg. This episode is the motivation you need to get through the setback. Jessica shares how Jesus brought her through her darkest days. She keeps it real about how hard recovering from setbacks can be, but she shows us all a picture of what it looks like to fall down but get back up again. She reminds us that the messy middle of the process can be where the beauty happens and that sometimes the goal ends up looking a little different than what we thought. You will LOVE Jessica as much as I did!Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North ChurchThanks to Jessica for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Kathryn Thompson, is a wife To high school sweetheart, Robert, soon to be mom of two sweet kiddos, and she and her husband oversee a non-profit for single mothers that they started earlier on in their marriage based on a calling and pure obedience. On this weeks episode, Kathryn shares her story of success in the corporate world, trusting God through a BIG move from Oklahoma to California, and some big and hard life changes, PPD, and trusting God in the unknown after moving. If you need some big-time encouragement to start the year with boldness to trust God, peace in the midst of a hard season, if you have dealt with depression, or if you just need tools for how to rest and when to say, THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU! Not only will you walk away encouraged, you will absolutely love the phenomenal woman that is Kathryn Thompson! Go checkout REAL Ministries after you listen. They’re doing great work in the lives of single moms and their families. Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North ChurchREAL Ministries: realsinglemoms.org Thanks to Kathryn for joining the show today! Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

It’s the last episode of 2019 and Kayla is joined by girlfriends to talk Christmas in NYC, best of 2019 and encourage listeners for 2020. This episode is a light-hearted and fun listen to laugh a little during this holiday season. There is encouragement and honesty from four very different personalities and perspectives and we hope you will join us for some fun Christmas girl talk this Christmas season! Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North ChurchThanks to Hope, Whitney, April, and Kourtney for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Sarah Lovejoy is a wife to her firefighter hubby, Izea, mother to three sweet girls, and will forever be a California Girl. Sarah and Izea are joining us on the show today because there is something they do so well, and that is hosting. Sarah and Izea are talking about what it looks like to have a “happy home” and to host people in a way that makes them feel loved. This is a season where many of us will open our homes to loved ones for celebrations and fun holiday gatherings! This episode is such a fun reminder that opening our homes is about presence and “being Jesus” and not about having the perfect decor or best house on the block. Join us for this episode with a couple who truly lives their last name, and prepare your heart to open your home with love and to be present with your people this season! Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North ChurchThanks to Sarah and Izea for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

April Haddock is back on the show, with her bestie Whitney, for part II of their holiday episode. On this episode, the second of a two-part show, April and Whitney are back to share some more Holiday goodness. We are talking fun ideas for traditions with kids, comparison, expectations versus reality, seeing our friends who don’t have kids during the Holidays, and settling our hearts on Jesus during this season. It’s another fun one and this duo is sure to brighten your Tuesday! Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North ChurchNorth Pole City: https://northpolecity.comThanks to Whitney and April for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Whitney Grimes is a NICU nurse, wife to Patrick, and momma to their fur baby, Daphne. Her best friend, April Haddock, is also a NICU nurse, wife to Curtis and momma to sweet Jonah. On this episode, the first of a two-part show, Whitney and April are making us laugh and getting us in the holiday spirit! Whitney is helping us with some great ideas on what to get the people we love for Christmas, in hopes that your shopping will be a little easier this year. April is sharing fun holiday traditions. We also talk about staying focused on the true meaning of Christmas. *all items mentioned linked on our website. We know there are Holiday Gift Guides everywhere you look, and while we want to be helpful with your shopping and have a little fun, we hope you remember the presents are not what Christmas is about. Join us for a fun episode and don’t miss Whitney and April hanging out in our stories live later today on Instagram to show you some of the awesome items mentioned on the show! Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North ChurchGift Guide: www.aboutthegirls.comThanks to Whitney and April for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Ryan and Lauren Frampton have been married for ten years and share two kiddos together. They love time at the lake, spending time with friends, and cheering on the Thunder!On this episode, we talk about navigating grief and hard things during the holidays, and how we can choose Jesus and show up for the joy, even while navigating the grief. We do not by any means have grief figured out and we are not therapists or licensed professionals at dealing with hard stuff. But when you’ve walked through hard, sometimes your experience is the best way to encourage others going through it. Whether it’s a pregnancy that hasn’t happened, a pregnancy that didn’t end with a baby in your arms, a death , broken relationships, anything that is hard we just want to remind you that you’re not alone, encourage you to lean into your people who love you and let them support you and let them point you to Jesus. He is the reason we celebrate, and no matter what we walk through, he is still good and God still sent his son and that is something we can all celebrate.Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North ChurchThanks to Ryan and Lauren for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Shirley Mears has been married to her high school sweetheart for 47 years, she has five grandchildren, has been a radio host, tv personality, and is a savvy businesswoman. On this episode, Shirley talks about being diagnosed with breast cancer, and the anger she felt with God. She talks about changing her diet and her thinking, as she walked the hard road of battling cancer. Shirley encourages us to battle against negative thinking and self pity, by digging into God’s word and using his scripture to change our thinking. She talks about choosing to serve and love others during her hard season, rather than focusing on her own pain. This episode is a POWERFUL testimony of what it looks like when we choose to focus on Jesus and use His Word rather than the pain of our circumstances. Shirley reminds us that in this world we will have sorrow and pain, but we can choose to look for Jesus in the hard places. He is the hope in the hard. Don’t miss this encouraging episode! Available on the Podcast App, iTunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also available on our website at www.aboutthegirls.com. Mentioned:North Church: north.churchFacebook: Shirley MearsWebsite: shirleyemmears@wearelegalshield.com Healing Secrets from the Bible: https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Secrets-Bible-Patrick-Quillin/dp/0963837214Thanks to Shirley for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Simi John is wife to her husband Jayson, pastor of New Life Bible Church, she is mom to two sweet kids, Physical Therapist and a woman walking in her purpose to share the gospel. On this episode, Simi shares about her family immigrating to the U.S. from India, how she came to know Jesus, and the story of her father’s radical transformation and healing from alcohol addiction. We also talk about social media, boundaries, and societal pressures to “hustle.”Simi addresses the misconception that when we choose Jesus all the hard goes away. She encourages us that even though the situation may be the same, with Jesus there is HOPE. Simi reminds us that Jesus changes everything. She also reminds us that there is no past mistake or history that disqualifies us from grace and sharing the gospel, and she challenges us to be bold in sharing our faith. Simi is encouraging and her story will challenge us all to tell others about Jesus and to walk in our purpose. Mentioned:North Church: north.churchNew Life Bible ChurchInstagram: @simijohnYouTube: https://youtu.be/odQ7D5agMxIThanks to Simi for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Mrs. Joanne Davis is a wife, mother, grandmother, friend and more. On this episode, Kayla sits down with Mrs. Joanne for an episode that’s a little different than our usual. With openness, honesty, and true wisdom, Mrs. Joanne shares life-experience laced with so much goodness. They talk about working in a job you don’t love, the death of loved ones, marriage, comparison, anxiety and more. What a gift it is for women to learn from those who have learned and lived life lessons before us. This is one of those episodes you will want to grab a coffee and soak in all that is shared. It’s encouraging and refreshing, and Mrs. Joanne just has one of those voices that soothes. Don’t miss this conversation meant to grow us as women, to settle our hearts, and to remind us to look for God in everything. Mentioned:North Church: north.churchThanks to Mrs. Joanne Davis for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Heather Poe is a mother of two, is celebrating 21 years of marriage with her love, and is a business owner.On this episode, Heather is getting REAL about things we rarely talk openly about. Heather talks honestly about a time when she and her husband were looking outside of their marriage and how Jesus saved them from what felt like a hopeless situation. She shares about losing her mother, how the grief felt overwhelming, and believing the lie that her “stuff” was too much. Heather talks about how her desire to not burden anyone led to feeling like suicide was the only option.Heather’s story is packed with hard things, BUT JESUS. Because of Jesus, Heather is here today talking about a redeemed marriage that is thriving because of Jesus. Heather shares how God used her best friend to save her from ending her life and how she and that same friend carry each other’s burdens. The honesty and authenticity in the way Heather shares her story is refreshing and she credits it all to the goodness of Jesus. Heather reminds us that the truth in God’s word is what combats the lies we believe, that there is freedom in letting go of the shame we carry, and that even in hard things, God is still good. Mentioned:North Church: north.churchThanks to Heather for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Evelyn Chavira is a mother of two, engaged to her love, and works in the medical field. On this episode, Evelyn bravely shares her experience with Postpartum Depression. She describes what it has looked like for her in her day-to-day, how it has impacted her relationships, and how she is working to dive into community to make sure she isn’t coping alone. This conversation with Evelyn is by no means meant to be a complete representation of PPD, as we know people experience it in different ways. However, we do hope her bravery in sharing her experience will open the door for more women to be able to talk about it and seek help if they are struggling. Evelyn’s goal is to help women remember they are not alone in this, because she knows the personal struggle of feeling like it was her fault or that something was wrong with her. If you are struggling with PPD we hope you will seek help, and if you love someone who is struggling with PPD we hope this encourages you to love them well. Mentioned:North Church: north.churchThanks to Evelyn for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Raegan Alvarez continues in the family business of investing in the next generation as a teacher. On this episode, Raegan shares the heartbreaking story of finding out her dad was terminally ill. She details the journey she walked with her family in the short time between finding out their new reality and saying goodbye to her best friend. This conversation with Raegan is a tough one, but it is a necessary one. Raegan talks about feeling like her prayers were not answered and wondering how God could give them such a heavy burden, which is a feeling most can relate to whether through the loss of a family member or some other devastating situation. But, Raegan reminds us of the goodness of God even in hard times and how He is so sweet to give us reminders that he sees us. This episode is an encouragement for those grieving, that you are not alone and for those walking through hard things that you can make it through. Raegan’s story is also a gentle nudge to love your people well and to lead a life filled with joy, just like her daddy. Mentioned:North Church: north.churchThanks to Raegan for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media preview: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Lena Malone is a JOY. She is an enneagram 7, so she’s all about fun and her smile is so contagious. She is a teacher and very active at her church, NorthChurch. On this episode, Lena is talking about her struggle with identity growing up as one of the only minorities in her area. The conversation on identity continues as we talk about what it looks like to be single, and the expectations of others. We talk about how society defines success for women and the way we base our identities on things other than Jesus. This conversation with Lena is a great one for everyone, single or not. She talks about being in any season of waiting, and choosing to really LIVE rather than waiting for that “thing” to make life worthwhile or make you worthy. She talks about the choice to base her identity on who Jesus says she is rather than her marital status.Mentioned:North Church: north.churchThe Purple Couch: https://www.thepurplecouchlpc.comStudio 7: https://www.studio7okc.comThanks to Lena for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media preview: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Kandi Jones is a mom to two girls and wife to Todd. Kandi also serves as the NorthKids Director at NorthChurch and leads a thriving bible study group for moms called, Where Moms Connect. On this episode, Kandi talks about growing up with challenges that started early on. Kandi talks about the realities of being born with a cleft lip and palate, seeing alcoholism up close, the loss of her brother and more. She also shares the pain of miscarriage and walking through hard changes and challenges in her life. Kandi’s honesty is refreshing as she shares the lies she believed about herself, the difficulty in dealing with complex family relationships and words left unsaid after the death of her dad. Kandi addresses the lies and speaks of the truth of Jesus. She reminds us that our identity is based on him, and not the choices of family members, physical attributes, or accomplishments. This is such an encouraging episode for any girl (or guy) who has ever believed she is unlovable. Mentioned:North Church: north.churchThanks to Kandi for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media preview: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Heidi Oppegard is known for her big laugh and her ability to make everyone feel like family. She is a wife to Scott, mom to three, and district manager for a well known childcare facility. On this episode, Heidi shares about a time in her life where she minimized who she was and struggled to find her voice in a toxic relationship. She discusses the effects of damaging words spoken over her and how she started to believe the lies about who she was. There is so much hope in Heidi’s story as she shares what life looks like now. Heidi talks about being a new believer and the joy of a relationship with Jesus in her life. Heidi is guaranteed to make you laugh and make you feel like a friend on this episode, while encouraging those of us who may be in a season where we feel stuck in a toxic situation, or those of us who are supporting a friend in a toxic situation. Mentioned:North Church: north.churchWelcome Ave Designs (find them on Facebook or Instagram) Thanks to Heidi for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonGraphics and social media preview: Lauren Frampton Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Samson and Hope Varughese are pastors, parents, and one of the greatest couples. Surprise! About the Girls has another guy on the show! In our first episode, Hope mentioned she and her husband conquered a mountain of debt in a short amount of time. We wanted to dig a little deeper, so we invited them both back to share their story. We thought it was important to have both of their voices because this was such a team effort and a truly beautiful picture of what can happen in marriage when two people pursue Jesus together. Samson and Hope share the real, funny, and raw story of how they overcame debt and conflict around the issue of money in their marriage. They offer practical tips and there is an AWESOME giveaway exclusive to About the Girls listeners at the end so stick around. This episode is one you don’t want to miss! Mentioned:Hope for Samson: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChXun-wYTqxK9mcsKFZQvmQNorth Church: north.churchHER Night: https://north.church/womenGIVEAWAY: Follow About The Girls on Facebook or Instagram, subscribe to the Hope for Samson Youtube Channel, Send a message to About the Girls on either platform to let us know you would like to be entered. Winner announced on the next episode. Thanks to Samson and Hope for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonIntro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Lisa Woodson is a Project Manager, has been married to her “Snooky” for 38 years, a mother of three and grandmother to 9! On this episode, Lisa and Kayla talk about Lisa’s childhood and the extremely hard things that became a part of her story at a young age. They talk about identity issues in the complexities of not knowing her dad was her dad and his subsequent death, sexual abuse, her southern accent, and more. Lisa’s story is one that is full of unimaginable pain and hurdles, but she tells her story through the lens of Gods grace. She reminds us all that our identity is found in Jesus. In the absence of a father, she has found peace in knowing we have a Father who loves us and calls us his own. Thanks to Lisa for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonIntro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Skye Latimer is an entrepreneur, connector, dancer, social media wizard, encourager and all-around BOSS. She is most proud of her new role as Momma to Kal and wife to Mills. On this episode, Skye talks about setting boundaries in family relationships, building community and knowing your worth in the workplace. Skye takes some of the hard things she’s walked through, such as strained relationships with family members and difficulties at work, to give us practical tools to being emotionally healthy and setting boundaries. Skye talks about the importance of community and what it looks like to really create space for and cheer on other women. Mentioned:Studio 7 - https://www.studio7okc.comThe Folded Owl - https://foldedowl.comThanks to Skye for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonIntro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Kortnee Turpin is a Momma to two, a wife, and a lover of Jesus. On this episode, Kortnee talks about a traumatic event in childhood where she witnessed the shooting of her mother. She talks about how that affected her, being raised without her parents, and a decision to have an abortion. This episode covers so many hard topics, but Kortnee is courageous in showing up to share the difficult parts of her story to encourage others. Kortnee story reminds us that we are wanted, loved and never too far for God’s grace to reach us. Mentioned:North Church: north.churchThanks to Kortnee joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonIntro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Zack Anderson is the man behind the production and editing of the About the Girls Podcast. When he’s not working for the girls, he works as an accountant for Chesapeake Energy. Zack is husband to host, Kayla and they share a daughter named Zola and a son named Titus. This week, in honor of Tuesday being 8 years of marriage, Kayla is interviewing Zack for a fun look at some behind the scenes of running the show as well as behind the scenes of marriage. Zack and Kayla get real about working with your spouse, marriage after kids, and they have a very honest conversation about some parts of marriage people aren’t talking about. This episode is full of honesty, laughter, and so much fun, but we also hope it’s encouraging and a reminder of our very real need for Jesus to love each other well! Mentioned:North Church: north.churchThanks to Zack for letting us coax him into joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonIntro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Jenny Daer Shields is a mother to a sweet little boy named Noah and wife to Marcus, who she met in the high school marching band. Jenny attends LifeChurch where she and her husband serve in kids ministry. She just graduated from Oklahoma State University with a PhD in Clinical Psychology, and now works at the Center on Child Abuse and Neglect at OU Health Sciences Center.On this episode, Jenny talks about going from an ankle injury to being diagnosed with a brain tumor. After a very hard season, and just when things began to settle, Jenny’s dad passed away suddenly, a month after her wedding.Jenny shares her heart on the difficulty of walking through a world that is full of sorrow and sadness, but she points to the goodness of Jesus and how He walks through hard seasons with us. Her story is one that is full of grief, sickness and sadness, but also one that is full of God’s goodness and His faithfulness. Thanks to Jenny for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonIntro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Tiffany Ramirez is doing big things in the community through her job in foster care prevention. She also serves diligently at her church in several areas. On this episode, Tiffany shares about being a dual citizen of both the United States and Mexico, and some of the unique challenges she has faced. We talk about discrimination, hard conversations in the church, and we also talk about being single and thriving as she walks out God’s calling on her life. This episode covers some tough topics, but Tiffany is brave as she speaks openly and honestly about what how Christians can be better in the way we approach topics regarding immigration, race, and expectations of marriage. Tiffany’s episode is one that is so important, and through it all, she points back to Jesus! Mentioned:LilyfieldThanks to Tiffany for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonIntro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Shannon Hurt is a woman on fire for Jesus! She is enjoying an exciting season in her life, parenting a 16 yr old son, new baby girl, and loving being a newlywed. On this episode, Shannon gets real about mental health and the stigma associated with those who deal with it. She talks about waking up in a crisis center and crawling out from under the weight of shame because of grace. Shannon points back to Jesus as she talks about navigating bipolar disorder, and encourages us to “put on joy.” She has a heart to end the stigma associated with this conversation by being open about taking medication, seeing a counselor, and diving into God’s word. Resources:Hope Community ServicesNAMI OklahomaGoodtherapy.orgMentioned:North Church (north.church)Thanks to Shannon for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonIntro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Natalie Bergstrasser is a momma to two sweet and spunky girls, wife to NorthChurch Creative Director Michael Bergstrasser, and a warrior for foster care and adoption through her job with Lilyfield. On this episode, Natalie discusses her experience in foster care, grieving the loss of special people in her life, and the way her life came full circle as she and Michael made the decision to foster. Natalie’s story is so powerful as she talks about leaning into Jesus in the midst of suffering and seeing grief as an opportunity to know Him more and love others well. Show Sponsor:Erin Hernandez, The Joy Project; If you are interested in learning more please visit https://linktr.ee/erinhernandez_nnp. Mentioned:North Church (north.church)Lilyfield (www.lilyfield.org)Thanks to Natalie for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonIntro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Kaele Montgomery is a momma to three babes, wife to her high school sweetheart and proud member of her girl gang! On this episode, Kaele bravely shares the story of walking through every mother’s worst nightmare, the loss of her baby. Kaele reminds us that even in our anger, even when we don’t understand, and even in seemingly unanswered prayers, we can still look to God and know that He is there and He is listening. He can handle our hurts, our pain and even our anger. Thanks to Kaele for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonIntro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Somer Carrasco is the photographer/owner of Mia Photographs and a Big fan of all things 90’s. She and her hubby have three cute babies and are in the process of opening a new restaurant called, Leonardo’s Mexican Grill. On this episode, Somer bravely shares about a tough past that includes attempted suicide, addiction, abuse and more. Somer reminds us of the importance of choosing love rather than judging the girls around us, because we never know what they’re going through. Her story is a beautiful picture of grace and the fact that your future is not defined by your past. Mentioned: Mia Photographs Leonardo’s Mexican Grill (Both found on Facebook)Thanks to Somer for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack AndersonIntro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_Aspire

Crystal Manu is the Office Manager and a Worship Leader at North Church. She and husband Kofi share three children. On this episode, Crystal talks about her struggle to believe in God’s faithfulness through the loss of two pregnancies. Crystal tells the story of a friend at church taking the time to see her and pray over her during her difficult season. Crystal shares how someone taking the time to see her and pray over her shifted her perspective. She reminds us of the importance of showing up, even when you are struggling and the importance of setting a foundation of truth for your children to fall back on as they get older. Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_AspireMentioned: North Church Crystal’s Graphic Design Service (Facebook) Thanks to Crystal for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack Anderson

Lea Schoeffler is a hairstylist and makeup artist, married to Jake, and they have two beautiful babies. On this episode, Lea shares her family’s story of fostering and adoption. Lea is real and honest in such a beautiful way as she talks about her fear of the “what-ifs” and some of the hard times as she and her husband opened their hearts to God’s calling on their lives. Lea reminds us, in a powerful way, that sometimes faith means stepping out even in fear, to be obedient. She uses her story to share truth about how God is in the details. Her beautiful family is such a great example of how great our Father’s love for us truly is. Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_AspireMentioned: Angels Foster Family NetworkBeauty Therapy with Lea (Facebook) Thanks to Lea for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack Anderson

Whitney Fairsheets is a speech pathologist, married to Ryan and together they share two sweet little girls.Whitney tells the story of walking through the grief of miscarriage and the anger she felt. She gets real about how heartbreaking it is to lose a pregnancy and how it impacted her in future pregnancies. Whitney reminds us that God can handle our emotions, including anger. She points back to Jesus as she tells the story of her babies waiting for her in heaven and her journey to her sweet girls earthside. Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_AspireMentioned: Every Bitter Thing is Sweet, by Sara HagertyNorth Church: north.churchThanks to Whitney for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack Anderson

Jackie Buchanan works in education, is married to Matt and between them they share six children. Jackie is talking about walking through the heartbreak of her first marriage ending in divorce. She discusses the difficulties of mothering her two babies as she walked such a hard road, working toward forgiveness, and overcoming the lie that she was unwanted. Jackie reminds us of the importance of community, and the impact we can have by just showing up for those we love. Jackie describes what it looked like to forgive where no apology was given, and how forgiveness is about you and not the one who hurt you. Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_AspireMentioned: REAL Ministries Foundation: www.realsinglemoms.org North Church: north.churchThanks to Jackie for joining About the Girls today. Production and Editing by: Zack Anderson

Kasi Kennedy is the owner of Kasi Kennedy Productions, mom to her fur baby Bella, and loves working with her favorite group of teen girls through her volunteer work in church ministry. Kasi is sharing her story of surviving sexual assault and how she learned to trust God and allow her community to help her heal. We talk about corporate culture regarding reporting assault, forgiveness, and the way Jesus pursues us in such a personal way. Kasi reminds us that we are capable of not just surviving, but thriving. She shares her story with hope that other survivors will know they are seen and heard, and hopefully encouraged. Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_AspireMentioned: Show Sponsor- Kasi Kennedy Productions, a production company specializing in storytelling through videography and photography.Thanks to Kasi for joining About the Girls today. You can find Kasi here:Instagram - Kasikennedy1Facebook - Kasi KennedyProduction and Editing by: Kasi Kennedy

Jennifer is a Nurse, a fitness junkie, and loves all things natural. She is married to her military man, Billy. Billy and Jennifer have a sweet 8 year old named, Jordan.We discuss the season when Jordan was diagnosed with autism, and what that has meant for their family. Jennifer talks about educating herself, finding resources, and advocating for Jordan in situations where she needed to be his voice.Jennifer reminds us that in a world where it is so easy to compare everything, including our children, it is so important to focus on our child individually and their specific growth. Jennifer’s goal is to inspire and encourage other moms who may be in a similar situation to keep fighting for their children. Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_AspireMentioned: Louder Than Words, book by Jenny McCarthy Thanks to Jennifer for joining About the Girls today. Jennifer would love to encourage you or answer any questions. You can find Jennifer here:Instagram: jenn_w_22Facebook: Jennifer WashingtonProduction and Editing by: Zack Anderson

Erin is a Nurse Practitioner in the the NICU. She is married to the love of her life, Casey. Casey and Erin recently welcomed their first child, Harper Joy!We discuss the unraveling of Erin’s first marriage, and the shame that came with divorce. We also talk about the difficulty in moving forward after closing that chapter.Erin reminds us that we get to CHOOSE JOY! Even though her circumstances were so hard, Erin made the decision that bitterness would not be her story anymore. She points us back to Jesus and talks about how He was there the whole time. Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_AspireMentioned: North Church, found on instagram @northchurch, @northchurchdc, and @guthrie_nc. Website can be found at www.north.church.Show Sponsor: Jon Graves Realty Instagram: JG Realty LLC Jon@findyourspaces.com or (405) 640-7124Thanks to Erin for joining About the Girls today. You can find Erin here:Instagram: erinhernandez_nnpFacebook: Erin HernandezProduction and Editing by: Zack Anderson

Susannah is a proud OSU grad (pistols firing) married to Quinton. Together they share two beautiful children, Aidan and Addison. Aidan gained his angel wings and The Hooper family honors his legacy by living out love and “spreading good in the world.”We discuss the grief Susannah and her family walked, the way people showed up for her, and her family’s choice to not just survive but to thrive. Through unimaginable grief, Susannah and her family live their lives in a way that points straight to Jesus. She reminds us that He is truly close to the brokenhearted.Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_AspireMentioned: Aidan’s Legacy, found at aidanslegacy.comNorth Church, found on instagram @northchurch, @northchurchdc, and @guthrie_nc. Website can be found at www.north.church.Brookie’s Cookies, found on instagram @brookiescookies405Thanks to Susannah for joining About the Girls today. You can find Susannah here:Facebook: Susannah Marley HooperProduction and Editing by: Zack Anderson

Lauren is wife to Ryan, mom to Anniston and Beckham, and ATG’s very own Creative Director. Lauren grew up in Oklahoma City and loves photography, baking, and being with her sweet family at the lake. We talk about Lauren losing her daddy, how it changed her prayer life, and how some very sweet people showed up for her during such a difficult time. Lauren wants you to know that God is right there with you in your grief. She also encourages us to talk to someone that will point us back to Jesus during the hard stuff. Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_AspireShow Sponsor: Jordan Stephens, Realtor (The Nest OKC)Mentioned: Welcome Ave Designs (@welcomeaveThanks to Lauren for joining About the Girls today. You can find Lauren here:Instagram: loframp Facebook: Lauren Frampton*If you have a special event coming up or just want to try the best cookies of your life, check out Lauren’s custom cookie company, Brookie’s Cookies. Production and Editing by: Zack Anderson

April is married to Curtis, who she met while in school at The University of Oklahoma and they are parents to sweet little Jonah. Fun fact, Jonah has a set of dimples that will put a smile on your face on the hardest day. April is a full-time mom, part-time NICU nurse and lover of reading, cheese, and her people.We discuss April’s struggles with fertility, the joy of adoption, and the hard parts of family planning. Through it all, even in the midst of unmet expectations, April encourages us to remember God is sovereign and His plans for us are good. Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_AspireMentioned: Welcome Ave Designs (@welcomeaveThanks to April for joining About the Girls today. You can find April here:Instagram: aprilhaddock3Facebook: April Haddock*If you enjoy reading and you aren’t following April, go follow her on Instagram! She gives great reviews and book suggestions for your next read.Production and Editing by: Zack Anderson

Kayla Anderson, host of About the Girls, is starting off with episode #1 to share a brief overview of her story and why she felt led to start this podcast. In this episode, Kayla is interviewed by friend and producer Kasi Kennedy. They talk identity, marriage, friendship, and her deep desire for women to live life in community. Kasi and Kayla start off the show talking about how they met working at the OSU Foundation in Stillwater, OK. Kayla shares about her two kids and her husband and a little bit of her background being an Air Force brat. Kasi and Kayla get into a quick overview of some of the things Kayla has struggled with growing up, and how those things motivated her to start About the Girls, as a reminder to women to be kind to each other. We never know what another woman is walking through. Intro and outro music provided by: Scott Holmes_AspireYou can find Kayla here:https://www.facebook.com/Production and Editing by: Kasi Kennedy Productions