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Join Jay, Torrian, Chef Von, and Mr.Los, strong individually opinionated four friends, debate today’s pop culture, politics and the lifestyles within the LGBTQ Black Community. The conversations held are sometimes intense but always comical and eyebrow raising. Catch My Black and Gay Podcast, a weekly bite-size podcast will have you inspired to keep an open mind with your views on life.

Catch My Black and Gay


    • Dec 19, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 42m AVG DURATION
    • 127 EPISODES

    4.9 from 102 ratings Listeners of Catch My Black and Gay that love the show mention: gay, black.


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    The Catch My Black and Gay podcast is an absolute gem in the world of podcasts. From the very beginning to the end, I was thoroughly entertained by the diverse, entertaining, and educational discussions brought forth by a group of grown, black, gay men. It's refreshing to hear them express themselves so openly and authentically, providing a much-needed platform for their perspectives within the black gay community.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is undoubtedly the variety of personalities involved. Each host brings their own unique perspective to the conversations, resulting in a rich and well-rounded discussion. It's intriguing to hear different viewpoints and experiences shared on various topics. The hosts' willingness to delve into topics that are often not openly discussed in other spaces is commendable. They fearlessly tackle issues that are relevant and important within the black gay community, making this podcast both entertaining and insightful.

    Another aspect that makes The Catch My Black and Gay podcast stand out is its ability to seamlessly blend entertainment with education. While there are plenty of laugh-out-loud moments thanks to Chef's raunchy sense of humor and Jay's hilarious side comments and sound effects, this podcast goes beyond mere entertainment value. It delves into deeper issues faced by the black gay community, addressing topics that often go unspoken but need to be brought into conversation. This combination of entertainment and education makes for a well-rounded listening experience that keeps you coming back for more.

    However, as with any podcast, there are also some areas that could be improved upon. One potential downside is that at times it feels like certain topics may not receive as much depth as desired. Given the limited time constraints of each episode, it can be challenging to fully explore complex subjects within a single sitting. Though understandable, it would be great to see some episodes dedicated solely to diving deeper into specific issues.

    In conclusion, The Catch My Black and Gay podcast is an absolute must-listen for anyone interested in the intersectionality of the black and gay experience. The hosts' ability to entertain while addressing important discussions within their community is commendable. This podcast fills a much-needed space in the podcasting world, providing a platform for conversations that are often overlooked. I eagerly look forward to watching this podcast develop and grow further, as it continues to provide both entertainment and insight to its listeners.



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    Latest episodes from Catch My Black and Gay

    Shut Up...Bissh

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2023 26:46


    Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111  Follow us on all social media platforms  IG - @catchmyblackandgay  Twitter- @catchmyblackgay  Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    Potlucks, Mac and Cheese, and DUI's

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2023 24:03


    Do you put raisins in your coleslaw? Do you put eggs in your mac and cheese? In this episode, the guys discuss their holiday dinners. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    What Do I Say to Him Next?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2023 53:12


    Have you ever dated someone that is living with HIV? In this episode, the guys get educated on what its like to date someone living with HIV and how to use inclusive language when speaking on this topic. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    We'll Start Over Next Week

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2023 12:28


    Chef Von and Torrian have a spar with words, leaving this episode to come in to an abrupt ending. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    I Want Preferential Treatment

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2023 33:54


    Do you like to skip your the line when you go out? Do you believe that celebrities should be given preferential treatment at establishments? The guys debate how they like to be treated when going out. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    We Had A Time... DC

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2023 45:08


    In this episode, the guys discuss their infamous Washington DC trip that recently took place. An unexpected encounter with an unwanted guest leaves the guys shook. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    Miss Kitty

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2023 40:38


    In this episode the guys discuss the civl case between Dwight Howard and Stephen Harper. Can the accused be the real victim? Are there messages missing from the plaintiff? Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    My Mother

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2023 36:54


    The guys are back and have an insight chat about their growing relationships with their moms and how they healed from the trauma they experienced. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    Slaving for a Company

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2023 26:00


    In this episode, the guys discuss the sacrifice one makes working in Corporate America. Has Corporate America stopped you from starting your own business? What do you do when you're tired of a job? Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    It's F'ing Over

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2023 48:24


    Should the person you're dating tell you that they have an ONLYFANS? When should the person you're dating disclose their sexual health status? The guys debate this topic, and you might be surprised by their responses. Always Fun, Always Shady, Always Black, & Always Gay. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    Fighting At Pride

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2023 44:34


    In this episode, the guys debate how they feel the LGBTQ+ Community should show up for PRIDE. Should kids attend PRIDE events? Is the LGBTQ+ Community over-sexualized? Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    What Did You Just Call Me?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2023 27:08


    In this episode, the guys discuss DIY projects, stealing, and someone using a not-so-nice word. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    Are You An Accomplice?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2023 40:07


    In this episode, the guys discuss what responsibilities celebrities have in being true ally's to the LGBTQ community. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    How Are You Late, and Rushing Me?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2023 41:56


    In this episode, the guys hold Jay accountable for a date night gone wrong. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    That's A Non-Negotiable

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2023 42:48


    In this episode, the guys discuss what they are willing to accept and not accept while dating someone. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    Deleting Nudes

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2023 21:18


    What do you do with the nudes that are sent to you? Find out what the guys do when nudes are sent to them. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    I Need Therapy

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2023 31:10


    J'ay realizes that he needs therapy and shares what led him to this decision. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    Too Old to Date

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2023 20:08


    What's the oldest you would date? The guys discuss what's too old for them to date. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    Trouble at Work

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2023 47:16


    In this episode, the host's detail issues they're having with diversity and inclusion in the workplace. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    Am I Striking That From the Record

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2023 43:26


    In this episode, the guys discuss if dating someone with substance abuse issues is a deal breaker for dating. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    One Gotta Go

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2023 44:36


    The guys play a game of "One Gotta Go" Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    That's An Apology

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2023 40:28


    In this episode, the guys discuss what it means to apologize to a friend genuinely. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    Another Mass Shooting

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2023 47:16


    In this episode, the guys discuss Mass Shootings and Gun Control in America. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    Send Me Your Underwear

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2023 56:39


    The guys discuss a ghetto workplace environment, and Torrian needs advice on a recent encounter with a co-worker and someone he's "dating" Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    A Massage, A Trip, and Annoying Chicks

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2023 52:32


    Chef Von reminisces about a massage he had, J'ay shares details of his birthday trip. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    LGBTQ Dating Coach Lamont White

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2023 45:02


    The guys have an insightful interview with LGBTQ+ Matchmaker, Lamont White Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

    Boundaries

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2023 56:15


    The guys discuss setting boundaries with family & friends. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com/

    I'm Not Privileged

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2023 48:26


    In this episode, the guys debate what privilege means and how it shows up in their community. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com/

    I Prefer To Control Everything

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2023 50:28


    In this episode, the guys uncover just how controlling they are, and tensions rise when an unexpected argument takes place between the hosts. Do you want to see how controlling you are? Take the test here: https://www.gotoquiz.com/how_controlling_perfectionist_are_you Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com/

    It Only Takes One

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2023 44:28


    In this episode, the guys discuss the recent killing of Tyre Nichols and the recent video that was released showing his tragic death. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com/

    Scandal in The Office

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2023 46:36


    The guys discuss the recent scandals that are happening in workplaces. A new segment is introduced, " Ass & Apps," - where the guys discuss recent encounters on dating apps. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com/

    Why Did We Do This

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2023 58:04


    Torrian returns and throws major shade. The guys also discuss the effects of policing each other's words. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com/

    Why Am I Crying

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2022 32:26


    This episode is a tearjerker; the guys look back on some of the most exciting and dramatic memories of the year. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

    Johnny

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2022 46:21


    In this wildly entertaining and comedic episode, J'ay shares his recent one-night stand; and find out what Torrian is tired of fighting with. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

    Going on Trips with Friends

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2022 38:00


    In this episode, the guys debate the public perception of the killing of Shanquella Robinson. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

    Handing Out Crabs

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2022 50:44


    In this episode, the guys discuss a friend's recent health scare. Later, the guys discuss the importance of getting tested regularly and J'ay apologizes to Chef Von for a comment he made. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

    No House Hopping

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2022 38:08


    J'ay sent a list of rules with his invites, Torrrian didn't have any pie, and Chef Von cooked all the meat for Thanksgiving. In this episode, the guys discuss their Thanksgiving shenanigans. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

    Hook Me Up With Your Friend

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2022 40:58


    J'ay is struggling with a decision to intervene in what could be helping a family that's homeless; the guys discuss if it's a good idea to hook 2 friends up. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

    Late, Is Late

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2022 47:30


    If you're 4 minutes late, do you still expect to be treated as if you were on time? Is being 4 minutes late not a big deal? Find out as the guys debate a recent situation that occurred between a celebrity and an airline company. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

    What's Your Toxic Trait

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2022 37:32


    In this episode, the guys take a toxic trait test. The results are both alarming, and funny; the reactions are priceless. So what are your toxic traits? Take the test @ https://www.truity.com/test/toxic-traits-personality-quiz Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

    Everyone Should Be Responsible

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2022 43:42


    The guys discuss Kayne West and the recent chain of events that has everyone in an uproar. In this episode, the guys debate the meaning of "HATE SPEECH" and if Kayne's recent statements about the Jewish community are problematic. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

    Monster: Jeffrey Dahmer

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2022 38:02


    The guys discuss the new Netflix Series "Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story" and how this show impacts the community. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

    An Eventful Summer

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2022 46:06


    The guys discuss some of the most dramatic events that took place this summer. Chef Von, reveals something personal with his co-host, and Torrian discusses an altercation that went viral. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

    Season 3 Comes To An End

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2022 35:44


    In this Season 3 Finale episode; the guys recap their favorite moments from Season, and give a sneak peek of what's to come. Follow the podcast on all social media platforms. IG: @catchmyblackandgay Twitter: @catchmyblackgay email us: catchmybagpodcast@gmail.com

    The Coming Out Story of Torrian

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2022 36:30


    As we conclude PRIDE month, Torrian shares his COMING OUT story; Torrian discusses the moments leading up to telling his mother he was gay, and his unique relationship with his stepmom. Follow us on all social media platforms IG: @catchmyblackandgay Twitter: @catchmyblackgay email us: catchmybagpodcast@gmail.com

    The Coming Out Story of Chef Von

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2022 26:42


    Chef Von shares his COMING OUT story; he details what it's like growing up black, gay and where it intersects with his Jamaican upbringing. Follow us on all social media platforms IG: @catchmyblackandgay Twitter: @catchmyblackgay

    The Coming Out Story of Ja'ay

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2022 37:56


    Ja'ay opens up about COMING OUT as a teen, his current relationship with his parents, and how his trauma still affects him as an adult. Follow us on all social media platforms IG: @catchmyblackandgay Twitter: @catchmyblackgay

    You Were Disrespectful

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 65:18


    Torrian felt disrespected by Ja'ay during a conversation off-air. Things get heated as they try to resolve their issues. Follow us on all social media platforms IG: @catchmyblackandgay Twitter: @catchmyblackgay

    Is Black Lives Matter Doing Enough?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2022 50:44


    In this episode, the guys have a difference of opinion on the state of the Black Lives Movement. Tensions rise when bold statements are made during this discussion. Follow the podcast on all social media platforms. IG: @catchmyblackandgay Twitter: @catchmyblackgay

    People Grow Apart

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2022 42:54


    Chef Von and Ja'ay discuss the fall out from the previous episode. Torrian believes Chef isn't being honest about his feelings. Follow us on all Social Media Platforms: IG: @catchmyblackandgay Twitter: @catchmyblackgay email us: catchmybagpodcast@gmail.com

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