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A special encore presentation of our World AIDS Day episode from last year, featuring work by writers we've lost to AIDS.Please Support Breaking Form!Review the show on Apple Podcasts here.Pretty Please.....Buy our books:     Aaron's STOP LYING is available from the Pitt Poetry Series.     James's ROMANTIC COMEDY is available from Four Way Books.SHOW NOTES:According to the website for World AIDS Day, more than 38 million people are currently living with HIV. And, since 1984, more than 35 million people have died of HIV or AIDS-related illnesses, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Donate here. Please consider buying the books of the poets we honor! We recommend Loyalty Bookstores, a DC-area Black-owned bookshop. We dedicated a Breaking Form Episode ("The Invisible Embrace") to Paul Monette (October 16, 1945--February 10, 1995). Monette was the author of 4 novels, 3 books of nonfiction, and 4 books of poems, including a New and Selected Poems  called West of Yesterday, East of Summer (1994). He died of complications due to AIDS on February 10, 1995.Read more about Essex Hemphill here, and  "American Wedding" (the poem Aaron reads during the show) here.  He published 2 chapbooks and 2 books of poetry, and edited the anthology Brother to Brother: New Writing by Black Gay Men, winner of a Lambda Literary Award. Hemphill died of complications from AIDS in 1995. Watch a short film written and performed by Hemphill called "From the Anacostia to the Potomac" here(~15 min)Dorothy Karen "Cookie" Mueller (March 2, 1949 – November 10, 1989) was an American actress and writer who starred in many of filmmaker John Waters's early films, including Pink Flamingos and Female Trouble.  Mueller wrote columns and criticism for magazines and papers, and released several books as well, including a memoir, Garden of Ashes. A short film of remembrances about Mueller can be seen here.  In April 2022, Semiotext(e) released Walking Through Clear Water in a Pool Painted Black: Collected Stories.Iris de la Cruz inspired the foundation Iris House. You can read more about Iris and the foundation here. De la Cruz died in 1991, leaving a 15-year legacy of fighting for health rights for women/femmes living with HIV. Hear the entire essay James reads ("Sex, Drugs, Rock 'n' Roll, and AIDS”) in this video here.  (TW for anachronistic language regarding sex work.)David Michael Wojnarowicz (September 14, 1954 – July 22, 1992) was an American painter, photographer, writer, filmmaker, performance artist, songwriter/recording artist, and AIDS activist. He died in 1992, having written more than 10 books (including Close to the Knives, from which Aaron reads), exhibited his visual art all over the world, and directed at least two films. Melvin Dixon was born on May 29, 1950 and died October 26, 1992. He authored two poetry collections: Change of Territory and the posthumous Love's Instruments. His novels were Vanishin

Patrik Ian-Polk is the creator of Noah's Arc, the first scripted TV show to center Black gay men. The show defied stereotypes and developed a cult following in the 2000s. He discusses the superheroes in his own life that served as his inspirations.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On July 23, 2009, the literary world mourned the loss of Everette "E" Lynn Harris, a New York Times bestselling author whose groundbreaking work gave voice to the experiences of Black gay men. Harris, known for his compelling storytelling and candid exploration of complex social issues, broke new ground with his debut novel, "Invisible Life," which was first self-published in 1991. His vivid portrayals of love, identity, and resilience resonated with readers and critics alike, earning him a dedicated following and significant commercial success. Throughout his career, Harris penned 11 novels, with 10 making the New York Times bestseller list, and he was celebrated not only for his literary achievements but also for his contributions to diversity and representation in contemporary fiction. E. Lynn Harris passed away at 54 years old.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My thoughts on Black Gay Men, HIV & AIDS how it relates to the Black Community.

This podcast is dedicated to the Black Gay Men and Women who influenced my life and the lives of others in the Black Gay Community.

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Do you put raisins in your coleslaw? Do you put eggs in your mac and cheese? In this episode, the guys discuss their holiday dinners. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

Have you ever dated someone that is living with HIV? In this episode, the guys get educated on what its like to date someone living with HIV and how to use inclusive language when speaking on this topic. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

It's Minoritea Report's 250th Episode!!! Will Smith and Duane Martin face some major allegations, is Patrick Dempsey really the Sexiest Man Alive, thoughts go out to KeKe Palmer, this week's Ask Yo Aunteas asks if you should just let that man cheat in peace, congrats to CHINO for winning the Barbie Name Game, Yo Aunteas say what they're thankful this Thanksgiving season, the Grammy Nominations are out but who is going to win, and are the rumors true? Will Rihanna be dropping an album soon? So, Get Your Cups Ready For Minoritea Report! Time Stamps: 0:35- 250th Episode! 8:13- That's How We Roll A Bop 9:16- Will Smith & Duane Martin 20:23- Sexiest Man In the World 23:15- KeKe Palmer 29:15- MinoriteaReport.com Merch 30:04- Ask Yo Aunteas: Let Him Cheat In Peace 43:32- Chino the Name Game Winner! 46:15- Thankful For… Cheat Codes 56:00- Grammy Noms 1:06:00- Rustin & Frank Ocean 1:07:49- Rihanna   Follow Us-   MERCH: MinoriteaReport.com   Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCo_xKK1VRhPrVMQxm1SzTCg   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/minoriteareport/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MinoriTeaReport/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/MTeaReport   Email Us- AYA@minoriTeaReport.com   Spotify Playlist- https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0rVJtKJmesMkCgVKmJwc46?si=1455491d0a4049b5

Do you like to skip your the line when you go out? Do you believe that celebrities should be given preferential treatment at establishments? The guys debate how they like to be treated when going out. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

In this episode, the guys discuss their infamous Washington DC trip that recently took place. An unexpected encounter with an unwanted guest leaves the guys shook. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

In this episode the guys discuss the civl case between Dwight Howard and Stephen Harper. Can the accused be the real victim? Are there messages missing from the plaintiff? Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

The guys are back and have an insight chat about their growing relationships with their moms and how they healed from the trauma they experienced. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

Beyonce's Renaissance World Tour gagged, gooped, destroyed Yo Aunteas and they review the tour and how they feel about he album 1 year later! So, get your cups, fans, edges ready for part one of Minoritea Report! Follow Us-   MERCH: MinoriteaReport.com   Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCo_xKK1VRhPrVMQxm1SzTCg   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/minoriteareport/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MinoriTeaReport/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/MTeaReport   Email Us- AYA@minoriTeaReport.com   Spotify Playlist- https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0rVJtKJmesMkCgVKmJwc46?si=1455491d0a4049b5    

In this episode, the guys discuss the sacrifice one makes working in Corporate America. Has Corporate America stopped you from starting your own business? What do you do when you're tired of a job? Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

Should the person you're dating tell you that they have an ONLYFANS? When should the person you're dating disclose their sexual health status? The guys debate this topic, and you might be surprised by their responses. Always Fun, Always Shady, Always Black, & Always Gay. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

In this episode, the guys debate how they feel the LGBTQ+ Community should show up for PRIDE. Should kids attend PRIDE events? Is the LGBTQ+ Community over-sexualized? Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

In this episode, the guys discuss DIY projects, stealing, and someone using a not-so-nice word. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

In this episode, the guys discuss what responsibilities celebrities have in being true ally's to the LGBTQ community. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

In this episode, the guys hold Jay accountable for a date night gone wrong. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

In this episode, the guys discuss what they are willing to accept and not accept while dating someone. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

What do you do with the nudes that are sent to you? Find out what the guys do when nudes are sent to them. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

J'ay realizes that he needs therapy and shares what led him to this decision. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

In this episode, the host's detail issues they're having with diversity and inclusion in the workplace. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

In this episode, the guys discuss if dating someone with substance abuse issues is a deal breaker for dating. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

The guys play a game of "One Gotta Go" Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

In this episode, the guys discuss what it means to apologize to a friend genuinely. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

In this episode, the guys discuss Mass Shootings and Gun Control in America. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

The guys discuss a ghetto workplace environment, and Torrian needs advice on a recent encounter with a co-worker and someone he's "dating" Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

Chef Von reminisces about a massage he had, J'ay shares details of his birthday trip. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

The guys have an insightful interview with LGBTQ+ Matchmaker, Lamont White Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com

The guys discuss setting boundaries with family & friends. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com/

In this episode, the guys uncover just how controlling they are, and tensions rise when an unexpected argument takes place between the hosts. Do you want to see how controlling you are? Take the test here: https://www.gotoquiz.com/how_controlling_perfectionist_are_you Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com/

I cherish my copy of Joseph Beam and Essex Hemphill's 1991 anthology, Brother to Brother: New Writings by Black Gay Men. It is a soaring, sensual and at times heartbreaking collection of the writings, plays, poetry and speeches of some of the Black gay men we lost during the AIDS crisis of the 1980s and 1990s. I cherish it because it has affirmed my unequivocal spiritual lineage to the Black gay men who came before me – and because it offers such piercing first-person insight into how Black gay lived and loved. As I've learned from Dagmawi Woubshet, Brother to Brother is also an effervescent and enlivening demonstration of grief as a public and political act. In The Calendar of Loss, Dagmawi illuminates how AIDS mourning challenges how we have come to think about loss and grief, insisting that the bereaved can confront death in the face of shame and stigma in eloquent ways that also imply a fierce political sensibility and a longing for justice. We explore how political funerals during the AIDS crisis honoured those who died — and would die — by exposing and confronting governmental neglect, what we can learn from those whom Dagmawi names “disprized mourners” about how we utilise our rage in our present moment; and the ways queer Black men maintained a fierce erotic intimacy that would animate their legacies long after their deaths. Busy Being Black listeners get 50% off at Pluto Press. About Dagmawi Woubshet Dagmawi Woubshet is a scholar of African American literature and art at the University of Pennsylvania, working at the intersections of African American, LGBTQ and African studies. The Calendar of Loss has transformed how I engage with the art and writing of those we lost during the AIDS crisis and I'm excited for his second book, Here Be Saints: James Baldwin's Late-Style. About Busy Being Black Busy Being Black is an exploration and expression of quare liveliness and my guests are those who have learned to live, love and thrive at the intersection of their identities. Your support of the show means the world. Please leave a rating and a review and share these conversations far and wide. As we continue to work towards futures worthy of us all, my hope is that as many of you as possible understand Busy Being Black as a soft, tender and intellectually rigorous place for you to land.  Thank you to our funding partner, myGwork – the business community for LGBT+ professionals, students, inclusive employers and anyone who believes in workplace equality. Thank you to my friend Lazarus Lynch for creating the ancestral and enlivening Busy Being Black theme music. Thank you to Lucian Koncz and Stevie Gatez for helping bring new Busy Being Black artwork into the world. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, the guys discuss the recent killing of Tyre Nichols and the recent video that was released showing his tragic death. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com/

The guys discuss the recent scandals that are happening in workplaces. A new segment is introduced, " Ass & Apps," - where the guys discuss recent encounters on dating apps. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com/

Torrian returns and throws major shade. The guys also discuss the effects of policing each other's words. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com/

The guys welcome a surprise guest. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

This episode is a tearjerker; the guys look back on some of the most exciting and dramatic memories of the year. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

In this wildly entertaining and comedic episode, J'ay shares his recent one-night stand; and find out what Torrian is tired of fighting with. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

In this episode, the guys debate the public perception of the killing of Shanquella Robinson. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

In this episode, the guys discuss a friend's recent health scare. Later, the guys discuss the importance of getting tested regularly and J'ay apologizes to Chef Von for a comment he made. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

Aaron and James read work by writers we've lost to AIDS in this bonus episode.According to the website for World AIDS Day, more than 38 million people are currently living with HIV. And, since 1984, more than 35 million people have died of HIV or AIDS-related illnesses, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Donate here. Please consider buying the books of the poets we honor! We recommend Loyalty Bookstores, a DC-area Black-owned bookshop. We dedicated a Breaking Form Episode ("The Invisible Embrace") to Paul Monette (October 16, 1945--February 10, 1995). Monette was the author of 4 novels, 3 books of nonfiction, and 4 books of poems, including a New and Selected Poems  called West of Yesterday, East of Summer (1994). He died of complications due to AIDS on February 10, 1995.Read more about Essex Hemphill here, and  "American Wedding" (the poem Aaron reads during the show) here.  He published 2 chapbooks and 2 books of poetry, and edited the anthology Brother to Brother: New Writing by Black Gay Men, winner of a Lambda Literary Award. Hemphill died of complications from AIDS in 1995. Watch a short film written and performed by Hemphill called "From the Anacostia to the Potomac" here (~15 min)Dorothy Karen "Cookie" Mueller (March 2, 1949 – November 10, 1989) was an American actress and writer who starred in many of filmmaker John Waters's early films, including Pink Flamingos and Female Trouble.  Mueller wrote columns and criticism for magazines and papers, and released several books as well, including a memoir, Garden of Ashes. A short film of remembrances about Mueller can be seen here.  In April 2022, Semiotext(e) released Walking Through Clear Water in a Pool Painted Black: Collected Stories.Iris de la Cruz inspired the foundation Iris House. You can read more about Iris and the foundation here. De la Cruz died in 1991, leaving a 15-year legacy of fighting for health rights for women/femmes living with HIV. Hear the entire essay James reads ("Sex, Drugs, Rock 'n' Roll, and AIDS”) in this video here.  (TW for anachronistic language regarding sex work.)David Michael Wojnarowicz (September 14, 1954 – July 22, 1992) was an American painter, photographer, writer, filmmaker, performance artist, songwriter/recording artist, and AIDS activist. He died in 1992, having written more than 10 books (including Close to the Knives, from which Aaron reads), exhibited his visual art all over the world, and directed at least two films. Melvin Dixon was born on May 29, 1950 and died October 26, 1992. He authored two poetry collections: Change of Territory and the posthumous Love's Instruments. His novels were Vanishing Rooms and Trouble the Water. He translated The Collected Poems of Leopold Senghor.  You can watch Danez Smith read a poem by Melvin Dixon here. Read more work by Dixon here. Tim Dlugos was born in 1950 and died in 1990. Dlugos authored at least 8 books, including the posthumous A Fast Life: Poems of Tim Dlugos (2011), edited by David Trinidad. Read more work here.

J'ay sent a list of rules with his invites, Torrrian didn't have any pie, and Chef Von cooked all the meat for Thanksgiving. In this episode, the guys discuss their Thanksgiving shenanigans. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

J'ay is struggling with a decision to intervene in what could be helping a family that's homeless; the guys discuss if it's a good idea to hook 2 friends up. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

If you're 4 minutes late, do you still expect to be treated as if you were on time? Is being 4 minutes late not a big deal? Find out as the guys debate a recent situation that occurred between a celebrity and an airline company. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

In this episode, the guys take a toxic trait test. The results are both alarming, and funny; the reactions are priceless. So what are your toxic traits? Take the test @ https://www.truity.com/test/toxic-traits-personality-quiz Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

The guys discuss Kayne West and the recent chain of events that has everyone in an uproar. In this episode, the guys debate the meaning of "HATE SPEECH" and if Kayne's recent statements about the Jewish community are problematic. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

The guys discuss the new Netflix Series "Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story" and how this show impacts the community. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay

The guys discuss some of the most dramatic events that took place this summer. Chef Von, reveals something personal with his co-host, and Torrian discusses an altercation that went viral. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- catchmyblackgay