It's Complicated

We're diving into the whirlwind of post-wedding life, travel adventures, and hormonal changes. Join us as we navigate newlywed life, tackle the impact of hormones on relationships, and dissect the important insights we gain from traveling with a loved one. Whether it's the excitement of nomadic living or the realities of hormonal shifts, this episode covers it all. Get ready for candid conversations about love, life changes, and the unexpected surprises that come with them. This episode is a blend of laughter, introspection, and practical advice, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in the nuances of modern relationships. Whether you're newly married, contemplating hormonal health, or simply looking for relatable stories of friendship and growth, this episode has something for everyone. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We're diving into the world of British reality TV with a deep dive into the UK version of Love is Blind. Join us as we dissect the cultural nuances, casting choices, and the drama that unfolds in this transatlantic take on the popular dating show. From the gentlemanly manners of British contestants to the heartfelt connections and inevitable heartbreaks, this episode covers it all. Will the British approach to love and dating bring about more genuine connections, or is it just another reality TV spectacle? Tune in to find out! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We dive deep into the whirlwind romance of Bennifer! From their early 2000s engagement to their recent rekindling and the latest rumors, we break it all down. Recorded just before their divorce was filed and made public, we posed the question: does this breakup mean that any couple who breaks up should stay that way? We also explore the timeline of their relationship, the media's role in their love life, and the impact of their public personas. Is JLo's career ambition what drove a wedge between them, or is there more to the story? And of course, we can't discuss celebrity relationships without mentioning the Kardashians, Tom Brady, and other famous love stories. Are celebrities fast-tracking their weddings because they can afford to, and does this impact the longevity of their relationships? Let's get into it! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

In this episode, we tackle the often overwhelming task of planning dates, especially for guys in heterosexual relationships. We discuss the pressure of making a good impression and how choosing the right date can be a make-or-break moment. But don't stress! We found a helpful list from Mostly Dating on Instagram that outlines six essential dates to plan before defining the relationship. These dates are crucial for building a connection and assessing compatibility before making things official. From the first casual meet-up over coffee or drinks to more formal dinner dates, fun activities, learning experiences, and finally, introducing your date to your friends, we cover it all. These stages help solidify whether this person is someone you want to get exclusive with. Tune in to get the full rundown and take the guesswork out of your dating game! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We are back and resurfacing like that booty call you never wanted to go away. This week, we're diving into one of our most talked-about topics: finding "the one" and the ultimate light at the end of the relationship tunnel—getting married. Our very own Jen got married, and we were all there to celebrate! We discuss the big day, what Jen would do or not do again, whether she misses the wedding planning, and how married life feels now. We break down the events leading up to the big day and the weekend itself. Jen shares her favorite parts of the wedding, from having everyone she loves in one place to the special moments with Daniel. She also opens up about the stress and pressure of planning a wedding, especially with guests flying in from around the world. We explore how she and Daniel managed the chaos and what she would do differently. We also go around the horn to share our favorite moments from Jen's wedding. From the location to the open bar, we relive the highlights of the unforgettable celebration. Now, what happens after you've found 'the one' and tied the knot? Jen reflects on the transition from being single to being married, the sense of accomplishment, and the grief of leaving her old life behind. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We dive deep into the much-anticipated Vanderpump Rules reunion, dissecting the drama, the betrayals, and the lessons on love that reality TV never fails to deliver. Is Tom Sandoval really the villain everyone makes him out to be, or is there more to the story? We debate the cast's reactions, the hypocrisy, and the emotional fallout that has kept this scandal in the headlines for over a year. We also explore the dynamics between other cast members, like Lala's surprising wisdom, Katie's rage and remorse, and James Kennedy's emotional rollercoaster. Plus, we ponder the enigma of Ally and James's relationship and why opposites seem to attract. As we navigate through the complexities of these reality TV relationships, we draw parallels to our own lives and the lessons we can learn from the cast's experiences. From the importance of self-reflection and boundaries to the challenges of maintaining friendships in the spotlight, this episode is packed with insights and entertainment. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Ever wondered how to balance kids, relationships, and the occasional bachelorette party? We've got you covered! In this episode, we dive into the latest updates on our personal lives, from Lauren celebrating Mother's Day and birthdays, and navigating the complexities of modern parenting, to Rob opening up about his new life focus and the challenges of approaching 48, while Jen shares her excitement and takeaways from her bachelorette weekend. Plus, we discuss the realities of long-term relationships and the pressures of societal expectations. Join us for an honest, raw, and real conversation that you won't want to miss! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Can you be ghosted by the very platforms designed to spark connections? In today's episode, we navigate the alarming trend of users being banned from dating apps without clear justification. We share real-life stories, including one from a friend who found himself unjustly ousted from the digital dating world, and dissect the phenomenon known as 'revenge reporting.' Is Match.com wielding too much power without accountability? Is the quest for love being unfairly hindered by an algorithmic judge and jury? Join us as we explore the implications of a system where one's dating fate can be sealed by a single, spiteful report. It's a conversation about love, technology, and the quest for justice in the age of the swipe. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We're peeling back the layers of Tom Sandoval's rumored breakup and the mysterious dynamics with his new flame, while unpacking the Bieber baby news and what it means for Justin and Hailey's public persona. Plus, we're holding up David and Victoria Beckham as the gold standard for enduring love in the limelight. Join us as we dissect the nuances of high-profile romances and ponder the question: Is a cheater always a cheater, or can love truly conquer all? Tune in, subscribe, and let's navigate the complexities of love and fame together. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

It's not just about what you say, but how you say it—tone matters! We're exploring the concept of tone monitoring and how it can deflect from the real issues at hand. From Instagram insights to personal anecdotes, we unpack why your partner's tone can trigger you, and how to handle those moments without losing sight of the actual conversation. Join us as we decode the tone scale, discuss how to address a tone monitor, and reveal how to stay balanced between expressing emotions and maintaining respect. Whether it's a simple request to take out the trash or a deeper sign of relationship resentment, we're uncovering the impact of tone on your love life. So, tune in, turn down the volume of your reactions, and let's get to the heart of what's really being communicated. Whether you're navigating a new relationship or fine-tuning a long-term partnership, understanding the subtleties of tone can be a game-changer. Don't miss this episode of It's Complicated, where we're turning up the insight and dialing down the drama. Subscribe, rate, and share with a friend who could use some tips on tone—it's a conversation you won't want to miss! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

From the fine line between a playful tease and a hurtful jab to the infuriating prompt to "just calm down," we're dissecting the dynamics that can turn a simple conversation into a verbal minefield. In this episode, we explore the art of navigating through the murky waters of communication faux pas. We delve into expert Jefferson Fisher's strategies on how to respond to "I was just joking" and the slippery slope of gaslighting. Join us as we arm you with the comebacks that could save you from an emotional tailspin and help you hold your ground with poise. Remember, it's not just about the words you choose but how you deliver them. So, get ready to take notes because this episode might just change the way you argue, for good. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

As your trusted village in the realm of dating and relating, this episode is a treasure trove of insights inspired by the hits and misses of Netflix's Love is Blind. We dissect pivotal conversations to have with your partner—from the necessity of location sharing for trust to the weighty matters of handling finances as a couple. Do you need to share your past relationship history, or is that best left behind? And how do you navigate the tricky waters of conflict resolution styles? It's not just about the drama on screen; it's about applying these scenarios to your own love life. Whether it's spotting red flags through discussions about exes or aligning on core values like politics and family planning, we're serving up a reality check that's as entertaining as it is educational. So, whether you're single, taken, or it's complicated, tune in, learn, and laugh with us. And remember, subscribing and sharing is caring—help us grow our village even further by spreading the word. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Ever wondered how a puppy can influence your dating life or what it's like to plan a wedding while juggling a busy schedule? This week's episode has it all! Rob shares the impact of a dog's "fear phase" on social interactions, Jen reveals the pressure of wedding planning to the importance of self-care, and Lauren updates us on her parents' trip to paradise. And if you're curious about high-end dating apps like The League, Rob's got a loophole that might just get you swiping sooner than you think. We also dive deep into the importance of asking for help and the role of self-care in managing life's demands. Whether it's delegating tasks with your partner or taking a timeout for a glazed donut face, their conversation is a reminder of the importance of balance. Subscribe, share, and join the conversation as we navigate the complicated world of dating and relationships together. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

In this heated episode, we peel back the layers of those dreaded words, "We need to talk," and plunge into the fiery depths of relationship arguments. We're not just talking petty bickering over unwashed dishes; we're discussing the explosive, therapy-inducing showdowns that can leave even the strongest bonds in peril. Join us as we sift through the wisdom of couple therapist Trevor, who shares three game-changing practices to prevent almost every argument before it spirals out of control. From the art of emotional regulation to the power of staying curious, we unpack the tools that could be the difference between a lovers' spat and a full-blown war of words. Whether you're a match-their-energy type or a cool-headed Buddha, we explore the nuances of communication that could save your next date night from disaster. Tune in, take notes, and let's navigate the minefield of confrontation together. Subscribe, share, and add a little strategy to your love language with It's Complicated. Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We dive deep into the quick unraveling of reality TV's golden couple from The Golden Bachelor post-vows and the allure of televised romance. Does the glitz of the small screen tarnish the sanctity of marriage, or are these quickie divorces just a sign of the times? Join us as we explore the expectations versus the stark reality of love in the limelight. Tune in as we question the motives behind seeking love on TV and the impact it has on the already complex world of relationships. Subscribe, share, and don't miss a moment of the drama on this episode of It's Complicated—because when it comes to love, we're all just trying to figure it out IRL. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We tackle the age-old question of timing in relationships—when is it the right moment to pop the question? Join us as we dissect the societal pressures, personal expectations, and the unspoken rules of engagement. From the anticipation of proposal season to the intricacies of who should propose and when, we're unwrapping the layers of commitment, love, and the ticking biological clock. Whether it's navigating financial readiness or deciphering the silent screams of an ultimatum, we delve into the complexities that couples face on the road to matrimony. Subscribe, share, and tune in for a candid discussion on the matrimonial countdown and the search for middle ground in the modern dating landscape. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Dive into the whirlwind of wedding woes, the trials of postpartum life adjustments, and the ongoing quest to navigate the dating world beyond apps. This episode of It's Complicated unpacks the personal journeys of our hosts as they confront the challenges of planning a dream wedding, embracing a new normal after kids, and the relentless pursuit of romance in the wild. Join us as we dissect the pressures of societal expectations, the intimate struggles of life's transitions, and the unpredictable path to finding love. Subscribe, share, and don't miss a beat of this candid exploration into the complex tapestry of relationships and self-discovery. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

This week, we're pulling back the curtain on the chaotic world of reality TV romance with an even deeper dive into Married at First Sight's latest season. Join us as Rob spills the tea on the dramatic dynamics, unexpected twists, and the raw truth behind the on-screen marriages. From love at first sight to divorce at first fight, we're dissecting the emotional rollercoaster these couples endure and the expert matchmaking that sometimes misses the mark. Whether it's a question of readiness, manipulation, or just plain ol' incompatibility, we're unpacking it all. Tune in, as we navigate the murky waters of love, optics, and the quest for that happily ever after on reality TV. Don't forget to hit subscribe, share with your fellow dating aficionados. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

In this explosive episode, we're peeling back the layers on celebrity scandals and the aftermath of public infidelity. Join us as we unpack the Ariana Madix saga and ask the tough questions: When is it time to stop vilifying the cheater? How does fame and fortune change the relationship game? Plus, we're stirring the pot with fresh rumors swirling around Kylie Jenner's love life. Could wealth be the ultimate accelerator for life's milestones? Dive in as we explore the complexities of forgiveness, double standards, and the relentless march of celebrity culture. Don't miss a beat of the drama—subscribe, share, and join our village because with us, it's never just black and white—it's Complicated. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Join us as we unravel the tangled web of modern romance in this week's episode of It's Complicated. From Kristin Cavallari's post-divorce adventures, the latest celeb to join Raya, to the rumor mill milling over the truth about Giselle's new relationship, we're dissecting it all. Plus, we're wading into the murky waters of royal rumors and the aftermath of high-profile breakups. Don't miss out on our candid conversation about age gaps, trust issues in the spotlight, and the ever-evolving standards of the dating world. Hit subscribe, share with a friend, and join our village of masterdaters because, let's face it, navigating love is complicated! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

In this heart-pounding episode, we're diving headfirst into the bewildering world of mixed signals and sudden cold feet. Ever wonder why Mr. Right turns into Mr. Ghost after a few magical dates? We're dissecting the perplexing phenomenon of men who woo like Romeo then go Houdini. With the help of dating coach Kelsey Wonderlin's enlightening insights, we're peeling back the layers of emotional unavailability and the fear of commitment that can ambush a blossoming romance. Plus, our very own Rob is put in the hot seat—will his male perspective confirm or contest these modern-day dating dilemmas? Fasten your seatbelts, masterdaters, as we navigate the twists and turns of relationships that seem too good to be true. Subscribe, share, and join our village because we're about to get real about the games people play in the name of love. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Wedding bells are ringing and we dive into the world of matrimonial madness as Jen counts down to her big day, sans the anxiety. From invites to bachelor(ette) parties, and the daunting task of balancing the books, we're unpacking the complexities of planning a wedding in the modern age. Plus, Rob takes a trip back into hermit mode as the dating app scene in Austin leaves much to be desired. Will a change in tactics or location reignite the spark? Meanwhile, Lauren shares her Vegas getaway - a whirlwind of spa time, shows, and roulette, proving Sin City still holds allure for the adult crowd. Don't miss this episode where we tackle the cost of 'I do's, the swipe left blues, and adulting in neon lights. Subscribe, rate, and join our village of masterdaters by following us on social media because let's face it, love might be blind, but we've got our eyes wide open. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Buckle up for a royal rollercoaster of theories and speculation! In this episode, we dive headfirst into the swirling mystery surrounding Kate Middleton's sudden disappearance from the public eye. From potential palace affairs to secret pregnancies and health scares, we dissect the cryptic clues and the palace's perplexing attempts at damage control. Is it a case of royal gaslighting, or something far more serious? As we navigate through an episode of The Crown come to life, join us for a gripping discussion that's got everyone asking: Where in the world is Kate Middleton? Subscribe, share, and stay tuned as we unravel the enigma of the duchess' vanishing act.   Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Two of us think this reunion was the best one yet, we'll let you guess who that is. We dive deep into the drama, the unanswered questions, and the reality TV gold that's left us all wanting more. From Trevor's text message scandal to the fiery debates over who's the villain of the season, we're unpacking it all. Plus, we weigh in on the success stories, the friendships that have blossomed, and the couples that left us scratching our heads. Don't miss our candid take on the connections, the breakups, and the behind-the-scenes dynamics that make this show a complicated web of love and reality. Subscribe, rate, and share as we navigate the blurred lines between love, entertainment, and the quest for genuine connection. Join us, your indispensable guides through the maze of modern love, because let's face it, it's complicated! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

There's A LOT happening in the romance department on reality TV. To say it's complicated just might be an understatement, and of course, we've got thoughts. Listen as we share our predictions for tonight's Love is Blind Reunion, and discuss the Vanderpump Rules breakup curse causing Jaxx and Brittany to move from The Valley, all the way to Splitsville. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Rob jumped on the Love Is Blind bandwagon and now we can have true water cooler talk! Season 6 is over, and we are probably more sad than Jimmy was when he saw that Chelsea did NOT look like Megan Fox…but not as sad as Chelsea was when Jimmy called her “clingy.” We share our thoughts on the show, the couples, and the finale, including why the first 5 minutes of the show had us in shock, who we sided with, and how we knew Amy and Johnny were IT! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Have you heard of the four horsemen? With regard to relationships, it was created by Dr. John and Julie Gottman - founders of the Gottman Institute, and it has been found to be remarkably accurate about predicting divorce. These destructive communication patterns, if they go unchecked, are likely to land a couple in splitsville, back on the apps, and desperately tuning into our show for answers. We get into what those patterns are and how to avoid them by trying out a couples' check in we found from Amanda Goetz' Life's A Game weekly newsletter. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We all know Rob loves his reality TV, but when he mentioned there was one show that brought him to tears, we knew we had to check it out for ourselves. Without fail, we fell in love with Love on the Spectrum. Listen as we share our perspective on the show, the cast, and which lessons can be learned and applied to anyone trying to find love. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Jen and Lauren's fav Netflix show, Love is Blind, is back and more complicated than ever! Hear our recap of episodes 1-6, including the couples that came out of the pods, the candidates that got canceled, and our controversial predictions! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

It's the month of LOVE and the It's Complicated crew shows you what Valentine's Day looks like at all different stages of the dating and relationship game. We update you on what our lives look like right now, including how Jen celebrates V-Day pre-wedding, how Lauren celebrates V-Day post marriage and kids, and how Rob celebrates V-Day while he's swiping away and following through with his dating challenge for February! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We've got your Super Bowl 58 recap, including which significant other got more coverage, the repercussions of being in the public eye, how we felt when we watched Taylor Swift get the ICK on live TV, whether we think other people's perception of your partner can influence your feelings, and share our predictions for Taylor and Travis' future. (Taylor, blink twice if you need help.) Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Happy Valentine's Day! We know which love language we speak, we know the types of red flags to look out for, which dating trends give us the ick and make us want to ghost, but do we know what the types of dating there are? Knowledge about more dating terms might feel like yet another damn thing we need to file away in our bag of tricks, but we think identifying which type of dating you are looking for could be a simple way to find clarity for yourself and a way to identify what the person you are interested in is looking for as well. We found an article that explains the 12 types of dating, including the positives and negatives of each and why only a few of them are what we consider to be the end game. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

It's the big game. Chiefs versus the Niners. Taylor Swift vs Olivia Culpo. We run the tapes and discuss which significant other will be this year's Super Bowl good luck charm, how romantic relationships may play offensive or defensive against your professional life, and why it's important for your crew to continuing cheering your relationship on. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Just like your dating profile, we post up and talk about our latest and greatest to keep you upDATEd! We get it, it's 2024, but this is THE year Jen is getting MARRIED. It's also the year Lauren has left the baby phase, and the year Rob has embarked on the road to finding love. Find out how wedding planning, romancing, and swiping is going during this very raw episode of It's Complicated. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We have all heard of ghosting, breadcrumbing, love bombing, and the “ick.” Believe it or not, those negative terms used to describe people who can't or wont commit for one reason or another actually became dating trends! Sadly, singles found themselves normalizing this behavior by calling it “dating” and it just became something people accepted and dealt with. So what are the new dating trends for 2024? We discuss what people are ready to say goodbye to, why closing that door is opening up a whole new positive outlook for singles in the new year, and how Rob faired with his January challenge in the ever changing dating climate! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We're back with the Dating Red Flag finals, the only time where the worst offense will come out on top. Tune in to find out whether self diagnosed mental problems, bragging on hinge about how unlikely you are to respond, frequent Miami trips, or filthy car interior takes home the trophy as the reddest flag of them all! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

It's a new year and we want to set the tone by opening the door to new beginnings and opportunities for you to win, especially when it comes to your love life…like Rob's 12 months of dating challenge. Some say dating is a sport, which rang true when we found a Dating Red Flag bracket from Barstool. In this Dating Red Flag Bracket, we go through 16 dating offenses and compare them to see which one is the most offensive. Listen as we get to the winner of the title of WORST RED FLAG, so you can be the dating champion in your league! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We deemed 2024 is the year Rob needs to decide whether he prefers the Bachelor life he's been living, OR alternatively, truly does want to find love and therefore needs to get.out.there. To help him do so, we've enlisted ourselves as his expert dating fairies and organized steps for him to take each month that will create awareness, momentum, and push him beyond his comfort zone...into the dating end zone. Listen as Rob's 12 Months of Dating Challenges unfold, and make sure to comment so he knows his accountability team is cheering him on along the way! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Celebs are living their lives like it's Golden, and we have a lot to say about it! Listen as we dive deep into Kylie and Timothee's Golden Globes convo conspiracy, and Gigi and Bradley's post Globes date night. We also unpack the circus that was the Golden Bachelor wedding, why it was tacky, and what peanut butter legs are!   Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Happy new year! (When do we stop saying that?) We're back from our holiday break and ready for all that 2024 has to offer. Listen as we recap how we each ended up celebrating, and what we're most looking forward to for ourselves, and each other...especially Rob. Spoiler alert, his dating life. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Love can be complicated, and the holidays tend to add yule log to the dating and relationship fireplace. To travel, or not to travel? To host, or not to host? To date, or not to date? Find out how we celebrate, and navigate the holidays this year, and what we're looking forward to in 2024!

This week we discuss MAFS, season 17. Don't worry if you haven't watched the show, there's only so much time for reality TV in our lives, unless you're Rob. That's why we are here to give you the highlights on the latest episode so you won't feel left out when your coworkers are talking about it during their Erewhon smoothie breaks. So, listen as Rob breaks down the show, explains the status of the most controversial couples, and why this season's drama is next level nuts. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Today we look into the Golden Bachelor's NOT so golden past and how it might be affecting his relationships, Chris Martin's ex, Gwyneth Paltrow, and present flame Dakota Johnson's close friendship, and Gigi Hadid and Bradly Cooper expedited future. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

The celebrity rumor mill takes no days off, and we're here for all of it. We dive deep into dish about Andrew Shue and Marillee Fiebig's merry-little Christmas (see what we did there), and dissect the latest wave of Royal-ly wild relationship scandals. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

If you're on the dating apps then you should be updating your profile in order to keep your potential matches in the loop. And just like your Instagram stories, we post up and talk about our latest and greatest so we can get you to like us more…and keep you upDATEd! Listen as we find out whether Rob has taken the plunge and dove head first into dating, what Lauren's family is doing for the holidays and how she's handling a traveling dilemma, and if Jen is surviving or thriving at wedding planning. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Are we here for the right reasons or are we just in our Zaddy era? This week we discuss The Golden Bachelor and whether it tarnished in the end. The 489th season of the Bach switched things up by giving the spotlight to the old guy looking for love after his wife passed away. We get into whether this season was worth watching and why, if it was really that much diff than watching the 20 year olds who are “here for the right reasons," and if we think he picked the right girl….or lady! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We're each in different phases of our love lives, and have been literally all over the place lately. We take you behind the scenes and upDATE you on Rob's venture out into the real world to find love, Jen's first family getaway as a couple, and Lauren's first couples' trip post kids. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

What do you do if you found out your current partner previously slept with someone from your inner circle? It maaaay have happened to Kourtney Kardashian Barker, but the verdict is still out. Join us as we discuss the alleged deed, our POV on this troubling triangle, and how we'd handle this sitch if we were faced with it. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We love a good reality TV romance, and each have our favorite shows. Rob's currently watching the latest season of Married at First Sight and shares the premise behind the show and how it works, his perspective on each of the couples, and his predictions for what's to come as the season unfolds. If you're a fan of the show, or are curious as to what it's about, don't miss this episode! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

The world's been a bit complicated lately so we took a brief break to sort ourselves out. In village news, Rob braced himself for Bravocon, Jen's been head down in wedding planning, and Lauren's going on her first adults only getaway since having kiddos. In celebrity couple news, we've got the latest gossip about the famous people we don't know but talk about like we do. We dive deep and say Bravo to the kiss between Captain Jason and Lala Kent, all the while wonder what on earth is happening between Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce, whether Sophie Turner was throned the villain and where the heck her aristocrat crawled out from, and try to piece together Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix's current standing after their awkward red carpet reunion. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

In a game of $20,000 Pyramid, the clues would be: Because they have babies, because they can multitask, they have a high level of emotional intelligence, because they have a high tolerance for pain, they are the muses of historical art and music and because wars have been fought over them. The answer? Why women are superior to men! You guessed it! We have definitely all heard versions of this phrase before, and we probably all have our own reasons as to why we can argue the validity of that theory, so today we are excited to have Dr. Ricky Arenson, author of the popular book Women Are Superior To Men, in to discuss why he believes this idea to be true and the 8 reasons that back up this theory, the number one issue that couples fight about and what they can do to stop the arguing, and what the “mysterious box” is that men retreat to and how to get them to come back out. Get some relationship medicine from Dr. Ricky: Listen to his podcast here: Happy Healthy Ever After Buy his book here: Women Are Superior to Men Learn more from Dr. Ricky here: https://drrickyarenson.com/   Keep it Complicated with Jen, Not Jen, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow