Podcasts about Raya

Episode 204: On The Road by Kathryn Borel Jr This month's dead pilot is On the Road, Kathryn Borel Jr.'s daring reimagining of Jack Kerouac's iconic novel. Instead of trying to recreate a literary classic beat for beat, Kathryn takes its spirit and builds something entirely her own. It's exactly the kind of ambitious swing we love celebrating on Dead Pilots Society.   Kathryn's credits include Rush, American Dad!, Anne with an E, and Kung Fu, and she's currently working on Damon Lindelof's upcoming limited series The Chain. She's also the author of the memoir Corked.   The cast features Kelly Marie Tran (The Last Jedi, Raya and the Last Dragon), Zosia Mamet (Girls, Laid), Rebecca Pidgeon (Euphoria, State and Main), and Brian McElhaney of BriTANicK (Pizza Movie).   Video of the live table read is available exclusively to Maximum Fun members. Become a member for as little as $5 a month at maximumfun.org/join.   And don't forget to check out Andrew's documentary Born Innocent: The Redd Kross Story at  https://www.reddkrossfilm.com/ Help support this show and unlock bonus content! Become a member at https://maximumfun.org/joindeadpilots

Comedians Sara Weinshenk and Maddi Mays are back together for one of the funniest SHENK episodes yet. From embarrassing high school singing telegrams and disastrous Raya dates to Love Island drama, relationship "icks," bad exes, dirty bathrooms, Comic-Con obsessions, and the absolute chaos of modern dating, nothing is off limits. The conversation also dives into bisexual dating, dating apps, religion in relationships, comedy, dating horror stories, and the tiny things that instantly ruin attraction. If you've ever had the ick, survived a terrible first date, or wondered why dating keeps getting weirder, this episode is for you. Subscribe for new episodes of SHENK every week featuring comedians, comics, and hilarious conversations from inside the Los Angeles comedy scene. Follow Maddi Mays: https://www.instagram.com/maddimays #SHENK #SaraWeinshenk #MaddiMays #ComedyPodcast #Dating #StandUpComedy

Lil Rel Howery and Karlous Miller pull up to Lip Service for an unfiltered conversation about modern dating, relationships, and everything in between. They debate whether people really lose themselves in relationships, if men should be more open about not always being in the mood for sex, and whether dating someone within your friend group is ever worth the risk. The laughs continue as the conversation shifts to dating apps, Raya, celebrity relationships, exes, and the pros and cons of dating another comedian. Lil Rel also shares eerie stories from filming Haunted Heist, sparking a hilarious discussion about ghosts, horror movies, and paranormal experiences. From relationship red flags to comedy and creepy encounters, this episode delivers plenty of laughs, honest conversations, and unforgettable stories.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's hard to believe we're already halfway through 2026. One thing I've learned over the years is that time is going to keep moving whether we're paying attention or not. That's why I've made it a habit to set annual goals, revisit them regularly, and share my progress publicly. At the end of 2025, I shared my personal and business goals for 2026. Now that we've reached the halfway point of the year, it's time for a check-in. In this episode, I'm giving you a behind-the-scenes look at what's working, what's not, what goals are on track, and where I need to refocus for the second half of the year. We'll talk about everything from health goals and reducing stress to business growth, podcast downloads, content creation, and the realities of running a business in today's economy. My hope is that this episode encourages you to pause and do your own mid-year review. Because sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is stop, reflect, and make intentional adjustments before the year gets away from you.   In this episode, we discuss: Progress toward my personal health and wellness goals What I've learned about slowing down, reducing stress, and prioritizing recovery My progress toward maxing out my Roth IRA in 2026 Why my honeymoon and wedding plans have shifted Efforts to reduce screen time and be more intentional with technology What the first half of 2026 has taught me about managing a full life The current state of City Girl Savings and our business goals Revenue, profitability, and navigating economic uncertainty Podcast growth, content creation, and audience building Why consistency matters even when results take longer than expected The mindset I'm carrying into the second half of the year   This episode is especially helpful if you: Set goals at the beginning of the year and haven't revisited them Feel behind on your personal or financial goals Want motivation to reset and refocus for the second half of the year Are working toward health, money, or business goals Need a reminder that progress isn't always linear Want a realistic look at what goal pursuit actually looks like   Why this matters: Too many people treat goals like a January activity. They set ambitious intentions, get excited for a few weeks, and then never revisit them until December. But real progress happens when you're willing to check in honestly along the way. A mid-year review isn't about judging yourself for what hasn't happened yet. It's about recognizing what's working, acknowledging what needs adjustment, and deciding how you want to move forward. Some goals will be ahead of schedule. Some will be behind. Some may need to change entirely. That's not failure. That's life. The goal isn't perfection. The goal is staying engaged with the life you're trying to build. Often, the willingness to reassess and adjust is what ultimately creates the results you're looking for.   Timestamps: [02:21] Raya breaks down her progress on her first personal goal of 2026 – improving her health for long-term functioning. This goal was harder to measure, but indicators of growth exist. [06:03] Raya's honeymoon and courthouse wedding timeframe has been pushed out. This goal likely will not be achieved in 2026.  [10:57] After 5 months of no breaks in daily workouts, Raya learned she needs to prioritize recovery (which means more frequent traveling)! [14:36] A business goal is to increase newsletter growth by 20%. Currently, this goal is trending about 4%. Raya shares things that can help improve this before the year ends.   Resources Mentioned: Episode #209: My Personal and Business Goals for 2026 Request a free money call with Raya City Girl Savings Personal Finance Portfolio Financial Focus Coaching Program   If you've been feeling behind on your goals, consider this your reminder that there's still plenty of year left. You don't need to wait until January to reset. You don't need a perfect first half of the year to have a strong second half. The truth is, most meaningful progress doesn't happen in a straight line. Some goals move faster than expected. Others take longer. Some priorities shift completely because life shifts. One of the biggest lessons I've learned over the years is that goals aren't just about achieving an outcome. They're about who you become in the process. They're about building consistency, learning from setbacks, making adjustments, and continuing to move forward even when things don't go exactly according to plan. So if you've fallen behind in an area of your life, give yourself permission to be honest about where you are without judging yourself for it. Then decide what the next best step looks like from here. Maybe that means recommitting to a goal. Maybe it means adjusting the goal. Maybe it means celebrating progress you've overlooked because you're too focused on what hasn't happened yet. Whatever your situation, don't let the first half of the year determine the second half. Take time to reflect. Acknowledge how far you've come. Make the adjustments you need to make. Then keep building. Remember: You are not behind…you are building. Consistency compounds. The steady work you're doing now is shaping your next level.  

What happens to a family when "wellness" stops meaning saunas and cold plunges and starts meaning keeping the lights on? In this episode, host Erin Gallardo, PT, DPT, NCS, talks with Russell Meyerowitz, founder of the Parkinson's Wellness Fund, about how the needs of families living with Parkinson's have shifted from health-and-wellness support toward urgent emergency relief — and what that means for the clinicians who serve them. Russell shares why his organization issues no-judgment relief grants for everything from walkers and ramps to groceries and utility bills, why they're now fielding two to three applications every 24 hours, and how those years on the front lines led to the launch of Raya Health, a subscription-based care-coordination platform that keeps a family's medications, appointments, documents, and clinical notes in one shared place. He and Erin dig into the continuity-of-care gaps neuro clinicians see every day, why care coordination is crucial, and the forthcoming "Ask Raya" feature for surfacing medication and exercise trends over time. It's a warm, candid conversation about being proactive instead of reactive — and about having a stranger in your corner when Parkinson's makes life feel like survival. Links mentioned:  Parkinson's Wellness Fund — parkinsonswellnessfund.org Raya Health — raya-health.com Instagram: Parkinson's Wellness Fund and Raya Health HQ Use this promo code for 100% free access to Raya Health! RAYALOVESNEURO

Siap-siap! Jalan Joglo Raya Ditutup, Arus Dialihkan Hingga 5 Oktober 2026.Pemkot Jakarta Barat mulai membangun saluran air di Jalan Joglo Raya. Arus lalu lintas dialihkan selama proyek hingga 5 Oktober 2026 demi mengatasi banjir.Siap-siap bagi warga Tangerang maupun Jakarta Barat yang setiap hari melintasi Jalan Joglo Raya. Pemerintah Kota Jakarta Barat memberlakukan rekayasa lalu lintas menyusul dimulainya proyek pembangunan saluran drainase di Jalan Joglo Raya. Ruas jalan sepanjang sekitar 800 meter ditutup dan arus kendaraan dialihkan hingga proyek ditargetkan rampung pada 5 Oktober 2026.Jalan Raya Joglo dikenal sebagai salah satu ruas jalan dengan volume kendaraan yang tinggi karena menghubungkan kawasan Tangerang dengan Jakarta Barat, Jakarta Selatan hingga Jakarta Pusat. Arus lalu lintas di jalur ini hampir setiap hari dipadati kendaraan, terutama pada jam berangkat kerja di pagi hari dan jam pulang kerja pada sore hingga malam. Kondisi tersebut membuat rekayasa lalu lintas akibat proyek pembangunan drainase diperkirakan akan berdampak pada mobilitas ribuan pengguna jalan.Pelaksana Lapangan Proyek, Pinto Riantoro, mengatakan pembangunan saluran air dimulai Sabtu (18/7/2026) sebagai tindak lanjut atas aspirasi masyarakat yang disampaikan melalui Musyawarah Perencanaan Pembangunan (Musrenbang). Proyek tersebut bertujuan meningkatkan kapasitas drainase guna mengurangi persoalan genangan di kawasan Joglo."Kami membuat pembangunan saluran air yang merupakan aspirasi masyarakat sekitar. Memang dampaknya cukup terasa sehingga kami mohon maaf kepada masyarakat yang melintas maupun warga yang sehari-hari menggunakan Jalan Joglo Raya," kata Pinto Riantoro dalam wawancara di Radio Elshinta, Sabtu (18/7/2026).Menurut Pinto, selama proses pengerjaan, arus kendaraan dari arah Ciledug menuju Joglo dialihkan melalui Jalan Basoka Raya, kemudian berbelok ke Jalan Strategi sebelum kembali ke Jalan Joglo Raya.Sementara kendaraan dari arah sebaliknya juga diarahkan melalui jalur alternatif yang sama sehingga tidak melintasi lokasi pekerjaan."Kami melakukan pengalihan arus melalui Jalan Basoka Raya, kemudian masuk ke Jalan Strategi dan kembali lagi ke Jalan Joglo Raya. Jalur alternatif ini sudah kami siapkan agar masyarakat tetap bisa melanjutkan perjalanan," ujarnya.Pinto menjelaskan, lokasi pembangunan berada di sekitar Jembatan Yadika (SMA Yadika 5), salah satu titik yang selama ini menjadi simpul lalu lintas di kawasan Joglo. Ia mengatakan proyek kali ini bukan sekadar memperbaiki saluran lama, tetapi juga membangun jalur drainase baru karena saluran yang sudah ada tidak lagi memungkinkan untuk diperbesar."Sebagian kami membuat jalur baru karena saluran yang sudah ada tidak memungkinkan lagi untuk digali. Akhirnya drainase dialihkan ke tengah jalan sehingga memang harus dilakukan penggalian di badan jalan," jelasnya.Akibat pekerjaan tersebut, ruas jalan yang menjadi lokasi proyek harus ditutup sepenuhnya demi menjaga keselamatan pengguna jalan."Jalan harus benar-benar steril. Ini demi keselamatan pengguna jalan karena pengerjaan dilakukan di tengah badan jalan," tegas Pinto. (Nak) @DKIJakarta

Drag queen icon Willam (Drag Race S4, host of Race Chasers) returns! She joins Nicole to break down the mathematical formula for the optimal orgy, the proper etiquette for passing good trade around to your drag sisters, and what really goes down inside LA's underground sex dungeons. Willam also reveals her pro tips for scheduling multiple hookups in one night and confesses the absolute kinkiest thing she's ever done. Plus, hear the hot story of how she met her 6'6" lawyer ex-husband at the door of Micky's, why she turned to OnlyFans to pay her two mortgages, and why she simply has to stop hooking up with the contestants on her new dating show, Love's a Drag.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast by checking out our sponsors:• Firstleaf: Get personalized wines, delivered. Head to TryFirstleaf.com/DATEME to sign up and you'll get 50% off your first box PLUS free shipping for an entire year• Cash App: Download Cash App Today: https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/3v6r90n6 #CashAppPod Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App's bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Cash App Visa® Debit Flex Cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC, and The Bancorp Bank, N.A., pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. See terms and conditions for the Sutton prepaid card, Sutton debit flex card, and Bancorp debit flex card. Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures.• Audible: Listen to Heads Will Roll: Heir Apparent, available now on Audible. Go to Audible.com/headswillrollseries to start listening today.• Wayfair: Ready to upgrade your home for way less? Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home and get your space ready for less.Check out all of our sponsors and discount codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I often think back to a time in my life when I was digging through couch cushions looking for enough money to order takeout. Not because I didn't have access to money…but because I had already spent it. Every dollar. Every credit card limit. Every option…and if you had looked at my life from the outside, you probably wouldn't have thought anything was wrong. I was living in Los Angeles. I was in college. I had the clothes, the social life, and the experiences I wanted, but behind the scenes, my finances were completely out of control. In this episode, I'm sharing the story of how taking control of my money didn't just change my finances, it changed my life. We'll talk about the wake-up call that forced me to stop avoiding my reality, the mindset shifts that helped me regain control, and the unexpected ways financial stability created more peace, confidence, and freedom. Because if your money feels like it's running your life right now, I want you to know that it doesn't have to stay that way.   In this episode, we discuss: The spending habits that led me into financial chaos in my early twenties How credit cards allowed me to maintain a lifestyle I couldn't actually afford The wake-up call that forced me to take responsibility for my finances Why gaining control of your money starts with awareness, not restriction How budgeting helped me stop reacting and start making intentional decisions The connection between money management and mental peace Why financial control creates options, flexibility, and confidence The shift from living for today to building for the future Why making more money alone doesn't solve financial problems The first steps you can take to regain control of your finances   This episode is especially helpful if you: Feel like you're making money but never getting ahead Struggle with overspending or impulse spending Feel stressed, anxious, or overwhelmed about your finances Want more control over your money and financial decisions Are working toward financial freedom but aren't sure where to start Feel like your money is running your life instead of supporting it   Why this matters: A lot of people believe financial freedom starts when they make more money, but often, financial freedom starts when they gain control of the money they already have. Because without control, more income simply creates more opportunities to repeat the same patterns. Control isn't about restriction. It's about awareness. It's about understanding what's coming in, what's going out, and making decisions that align with the life you want to build. When you gain control of your money, something bigger starts to happen. You stop living in constant reaction mode. You stop avoiding your accounts. You stop feeling like every unexpected expense is a crisis. Over time, you create something that many women are truly looking for: peace. Not because everything is perfect, but because you know where you stand and where you're going. That's where financial freedom begins.   Timestamps: [02:13] Raya shares how she fully leaned into the "LA lifestyle", even though she didn't have the funds to support it. [05:18] Not paying rent on time led to an almost-eviction. This is the catalyst that forced Raya to change her money habits. [10:07] The biggest shifts that came from proper money management were more personal than financial. For example, Raya gained a level of peace she didn't even know was missing. [13:45] You can make good money and still feel stuck if you don't have control. It's not about how much you make, it's what you do with what you make.   Resources Mentioned: Episode #1: Big City Spender to City Girl Saver: How City Girl Savings Came to Be Request a free money call with Raya City Girl Savings Personal Finance Portfolio Financial Focus Coaching Program   If you've ever felt like your finances are creating more stress than peace, this episode is your reminder that change doesn't happen all at once. It starts with awareness. It starts with one honest look at your numbers. It starts with one intentional decision to stop avoiding and start paying attention. You don't have to wait for a financial breaking point to take control of your money. You can start building that control (and the freedom that comes with it) today. You are not behind—you are building. Consistency compounds. The steady work you're doing now is shaping your next level.

Drag queen June Jambalaya (Drag Race S14) joins Nicole to discuss hiding her drag career from her dates, being engaged twice, and leaving her fiancé to compete on Drag Race. Plus, Nicole and June discuss the best city to be depressed in, reveal the wildest things they've done to impress a man, and June shares her amazing date after being set up by Kerri Colby.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast by checking out our sponsors:• Warby Parker: Our listeners can buy one prescription pair and get 20% off any additional pairs at WarbyParker.com/DATEME — and using our link helps support the show. #WarbyParker #ad• Squarespace: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.• Audible: Listen to Heads Will Roll: Heir Apparent, available now on Audible. Go to Audible.com/headswillrollseries to start listening today.• Planned Parenthood: Donate to support Planned Parenthood now at PlannedParenthood.org/defendCheck out all of our sponsors and discount codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Régulièrement, l'équipe de Folie Douce partage avec vous les extraits les plus marquants des épisodes du podcast. Aujourd'hui, on vous propose de réécouter l'autrice Elizabeth Gilbert.Dans cet extrait, Elizabeth Gilbert évoque sa relation amoureuse avec sa meilleure amie, Raya, et la charge mentale dévolue aux femmes et minorités, enfermées dans ce carcan par les personnes que cela arrange. Lorsqu'on demande aux femmes ce qu'elles veulent, elles répondent : être seules.Vous trouverez cet entretien sous deux formes : l'une complètement en anglais, l'autre doublée et expliquée en français par moi-même si vous préférez (les deux se trouvent séparément dans le flux du podcast, suivez les drapeaux !)Le lendemain de l'enregistrement de cet épisode - une dinguerie vous verrez -, je n'avais qu'une idée en tête : écrire à Elizabeth Gilbert, garder le lien avec elle. Cette femme a un charisme fou. Je le sais depuis 2006, lorsqu'elle a publié Mange, Prie, Aime, un livre qui a inspiré des millions de femmes - dont moi. Vingt ans plus tard, elle publie un livre poignant, Jusqu'à la rivière, dont elle estime qu'il est « la suite » de ce premier best seller. Le contenu en est bien plus sombre. Il lui a fallu huit ans pour avoir la force de « retourner en enfer » pour raconter l'histoire d'amour destructrice vécue avec son âme-soeur, Raya, atteinte d'un cancer en phase terminale et dépendante à la cocaïne et à l'héroïne. Elizabeth Gilbert, elle, était dépendante à l'idée qu'elle devait sauver Raya. Si, sur le papier, elle avait l'air d'être la « personne saine et altruiste », elle a compris ensuite qu'elle était « tout aussi folle, peut-être plus » que sa compagne. C'est ça, la « codépendance » un concept mal connu en France, qu'elle décrit d'une façon limpide : déverser dans l'autre tout ce qu'on est, puis rester « mains tendues, en espérant récupérer une miette de l'amour qu'on a déversé ». Elizabeth Gilbert est allée aux Codépendants Anonymes, et a fait ce fameux « programme en douze étapes » qui implique un bilan moral total, qu'elle décrit comme le moment le plus salvateur de sa vie.Elle me charme. Elle me fait rire. La conclusion à laquelle elle aboutit dans ce livre est exactement la même que celle à laquelle j'ai abouti dans Enfin Seule. Elle explore la nécessité pour les êtres humains, en particulier les femmes, de trouver l'apaisement dans une capacité reconquise d'être enfin heureuse seule.C'est pour ça que cet entretien m'a bouleversée. Je sais déjà qu'il vous plaira !Faites moi des retours sur les réseaux sociaux et n'oubliez pas de mettre des étoiles partout ! Ça aide Folie Douce à essaimer

Überall gibt's Verbote! Vapen aufm Schulhof, ohne Ticket Bahn fahren, Stille an Feiertagen - aber welche dieser Regeln findet ihr unnötig? Das hat Raya Petke euch gefragt, aber auch: Wenn ihr selbst etwas verbieten dürftet - was wäre das?

What happens when being a doctor becomes the only thing you believe yourself to be?In this deeply personal solo episode of Limitless MD, Dr. Vikram Raya explores one of the most overlooked challenges physicians face—not burnout, finances, or career decisions, but identity.For years, Dr. Raya believed that everything he had sacrificed, studied, and worked for pointed toward a single role: physician. Yet as his desire for greater freedom, impact, and fulfillment grew, he found himself wrestling with a question many doctors quietly carry:"If I build something outside of medicine, am I betraying everything I've worked for?"Through personal stories, mindset shifts, and lessons learned from coaching thousands of physicians, Vikram unpacks why so many doctors feel trapped by a single identity and how expanding beyond that identity can unlock new opportunities, resilience, wealth, and fulfillment.This episode is a powerful reminder that medicine can be a meaningful part of your life without becoming the entirety of who you are.“The goal isn't to become less of a doctor. The goal is to become more of yourself.”— Dr. Vikram RayaIn This Episode:Why physicians often tie their entire identity to medicineThe hidden dangers of defining yourself by a single roleHow burnout becomes more painful when identity is attached to workThe mindset shift that changed Dr. Raya's lifeWhat it means to become a "Doctorpreneur"Why your self-concept determines the opportunities you pursueThe importance of creating a second arena outside medicineBuilding confidence and self-worth beyond your clinical careerHow communities and masterminds expand possibilityWhy multidimensional physicians are more resilientThe connection between identity, wealth, and personal growthHow the Eight Forms of Wealth create an antifragile lifeKey Takeways:1. You Are Not Your JobBeing a physician is something you do—not the entirety of who you are. When your identity becomes fused to your profession, every challenge at work can feel like a challenge to your worth.2. Expansion Creates OpportunityMany physicians aren't held back by a lack of intelligence or ability. They're held back by an identity that hasn't expanded enough to allow new opportunities in.3. Build a Second ArenaWhether it's investing, entrepreneurship, fitness, writing, coaching, or philanthropy, creating a second arena allows you to discover new dimensions of yourself and build resilience outside of medicine.4. Community Changes What's PossibleSurrounding yourself with physicians who are investors, entrepreneurs, leaders, authors, and creators helps expand your vision of what's available to you.5. True Wealth Is MultidimensionalFinancial success alone isn't enough. Lasting fulfillment comes from developing multiple forms of wealth including relationships, health, purpose, impact, mindset, and adventure.Connect with Vikram:

Comedian and friend Liza Treyger (Night Owl, host of That's Messed Up) returns to the podcast! She shares her sobering experience hiring a Zoom stripper for a bachelorette party, how Heated Rivalry changed her life, and the struggle of making friends easily while her dating life remains in the dumps. Liza tells the story about how she got scammed by a stylist while making her Netflix special, her goal to quit weed for a relationship, and why she believes it's an actual safety hazard to date a man who isn't completely obsessed with you.Watch Liza's special, Night Owl on Netflix.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast by checking out our sponsors:• BetterHelp: This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit betterhelp.com/dateme today to get 10% off your first month.• Audible: Listen to Heads Will Roll: Heir Apparent, available now on Audible. Go to Audible.com/headswillrollseries to start listening today.Check out all of our sponsors and discount codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You may have noticed this is NOT a Midweek Mini. We loved this episode and wanted to put it out sooner rather than later. So here is a full length episode on a Wednesday....Thailand has been climbing higher and higher on our travel bucket lists, and after hearing Raya's experience, we think it's going to move up yours too. Raya joins us to share how her family of five spent 12 incredible nights exploring Thailand using points, miles, hotel credits, and a little bit of flexibility. We talk through everything from flying long-haul with kids in economy and booking luxury Hyatt hotels to finding ethical elephant experiences and navigating domestic flights around the country. Raya also opens up about the travel mishaps they faced—including fake sunscreen, lost luggage, a stomach bug, and a medical emergency abroad—and how travel insurance and incredible hotel service helped turn a stressful situation into a manageable one. If Thailand is on your wish list or you're simply looking for practical family travel tips, this episode is packed with advice that will help you travel smarter and with more confidence.Mentioned in this Episode:Travel Party of 5 PodcastRelief Band - Use code WONDERLAND for 25% off!Elephant ExcursionBoat TourChasingMemories.co (travel insurance)Find Us On Online:Sign Up for the Y! Wonder Travel NewsletterMary Ellen | JoFacebook GroupAffiliate Links:Comfrt.com 15% OFFRakuten- Mary Ellen (Get 5000 AMEX or Bilt POINTS)Rakuten- Joanna (Get 5000 AMEX or Bilt POINTS)CardpointersHalara (use code "Wonderland" for 10% off)Our Favorite Credit CardsWe may receive a small commission when you choose to use any of our links to purchase your products or apply for your cards

Drag queen icon Bosco (Drag Race S14, All Stars S10) makes her return to toss even more shade. She shares why the secret to polished drag is having mean friends, how to filter out dumb men in your dating life, and trades stories with Nicole about their most questionable fashion eras. They also discuss facial feminization surgery (and the boy queens getting it) and why we all need some more razzle dazzle in our lives. Plus, Nicole has become a human white noise machine for the nice man in her life.See Bosco on tour! Get tickets at dragfans.com. Buy 2 tickets, get the 3rd free. The whole polycule can come!Check out Bosco's new Magic The Gathering show, Spell Slayers on YouTube.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast by checking out our sponsors:• Warby Parker: Our listeners can buy one prescription pair and get 20% off any additional pairs at WarbyParker.com/DATEME — and using our link helps support the show. #WarbyParker #ad• Chime: Chime is not just smarter banking, it is the most rewarding way to bank. Join the millions who are already banking fee free today. Head to Chime.com/DATEME.• Squarespace: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.• Audible: Listen to Heads Will Roll: Heir Apparent, available now on Audible. Go to Audible.com/headswillrollseries to start listening today.Check out all of our sponsors and discount codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

A Note from James:Mark Pincus is one of the true OGs of the internet. You probably know him as the founder of Zynga, the company behind FarmVille, Zynga Poker, and Words With Friends. Zynga was eventually acquired by Take-Two in a transaction valued at approximately $12.7 billion. Before Zynga, Mark started Tribe, one of the first social networks—before MySpace and Facebook. He has spent more than 25 years building, failing, and studying what gets millions of people to click, play, share, and come back. His new book, Life at the Speed of Play, inspired me to start coming up with new business ideas while we were still recording.What I really love is how Mark teaches people to copy like a master without looking like a copycat. He has a framework called “Proven–Better–New.” Start with something that has already been proven. Make it obviously better. Then isolate the new idea you want to test. It's one of the best systems I've heard for creating products people actually want.We talk about the early days of Facebook and MySpace, the failure of Tribe, the gaming industry, consumer psychology, AI coding, and how agents could eventually network and work for us while we're doing something else.I loved talking with Mark. I was still thinking about this conversation afterward—and I'm literally building businesses based on what I learned. His new book is called Life at the Speed of Play. Listen to this episode, and then read the book.Episode Description:Most founders begin with an idea and then spend months—or years—trying to prove that people want it. Mark Pincus thinks that process is backward.At Zynga, Mark's teams built “failure machines”: simple systems that allowed them to test hundreds of concepts before writing the code. They put unfinished ideas in front of real users, watched what people clicked, and refused to build anything until the demand was obvious. The objective wasn't to avoid failure. It was to make failure fast, cheap, and useful.Mark explains the framework behind that process: Proven–Better–New. First, study an existing success down to every screen, click, and design decision. Then identify one improvement that current users would immediately recognize as better. Only after that should a team add the unproven idea—the part most likely to fail.James and Mark also examine the problems facing today's consumer entrepreneurs. AI has made software easier to build, but distribution has become harder. People aren't searching for new apps, established platforms restrict organic growth, and algorithmic reach isn't the same as users actively sharing something with friends.Mark uses the failure of his early social network, Tribe, to explain why virality is not enough. Tribe grew quickly but lacked retention and trust. He ignored the communities users loved because they didn't match the business model he had already chosen. That painful mistake became the foundation for much of his later product philosophy.The conversation ends with Mark's current experiments: personal AI agents modeled after members of his family, a proposed work network built specifically for agents, an enterprise AI company called Hivemind, and the difficult decision to end a four-year passion project without abandoning the instinct behind it.This is a practical conversation about testing ideas, separating instinct from ego, learning from the past, and killing the wrong product before it consumes the right opportunity.What You'll Learn:How to build a failure machine: Test headlines, offers, videos, and fake doors before investing in a finished product.How to apply Proven–Better–New: Begin with a proven behavior, make one unmistakable improvement, and isolate the risky innovation.Why distribution is now harder than development: AI can generate a prototype quickly, but it cannot guarantee attention, trust, or adoption.Why Tribe failed despite rapid growth: Virality without retention, safety, and alignment with user behavior does not create a lasting network.How to copy without becoming a copycat: Study successful products at the pixel level, preserve what works, and innovate only where it matters.When to abandon an idea: Preserve the underlying instinct, but stop funding the particular expression of it when the evidence turns against you.How AI agents may change networking: Agents could eventually search for opportunities, exchange work, build reputations, and bring useful leads back to their users.Timestamped Chapters: [02:00] Finding the “OMFG” Moment [02:58] A Note from James [05:00] Build a Failure Machine Before Building a Product [06:25] Testing Demand With Fake Doors and Broken Links [08:08] Writing Copy That People Actually Notice [10:52] Test More Ideas in a Week Than the Industry Tests in a Year [11:53] Why Neglected Products Become Innovation Labs [13:26] How Mobile Apps Slowed Product Experimentation [15:09] Can AI Bring Rapid Testing Back? [17:08] Why Consumer Technology Feels Uninvestable [18:38] The 90/10 Rule for Investable Platforms [20:08] Why Nobody Downloads New Apps Anymore [21:20] Franchises, “Spicy New,” and Healthy Platforms [23:21] The Internet's Lost Cocktail Party [27:58] Why Tribe Failed While Facebook Won [30:26] Virality Without Trust or Retention [31:31] Ignoring What Tribe's Users Actually Wanted [33:22] Facebook, Raya, and Designing for Trust [35:03] Social Networks as Lead-Generation Engines [37:12] Facebook, Instagram, and the App Nobody Knew It Wanted [37:51] Net Promoter Scores and the Feeling of Quitting a Drug [40:25] Algorithmic Virality vs. People Sharing With Friends [42:00] Building Products That Help People Create [43:47] What Entrepreneurs Should Build With AI [44:54] The Proven–Better–New Framework [47:12] What “Obviously Better” Actually Means [48:25] Why “All New Fails” [50:23] Zynga Poker and the Power of Removing One Click [52:00] What AI Does Well—and Where Humans Still Matter [54:25] Picasso, Slack, and Copying the Past [55:11] Adding Fun to Boring Enterprise Products [57:39] The Moral Arbitrage of Killing Your Ego [57:58] How to Copy Without Looking Like a Copy [59:10] Why Old Internet Mechanics Keep Returning [01:00:16] Anonymous Social Apps With an AI Twist [01:01:17] Don't Invent a New Business—Reinvent a Big One [01:02:00] Test 20 Variants Before Building One [01:02:58] Mark's Frustrating Experiments With AI Coding [01:05:29] Creating a Personal Team of AI Agents [01:07:57] Killing a Four-Year Passion Project [01:09:29] The “Social Membrane” of the Agentic Internet [01:09:57] Building a Work Network for AI Agents [01:12:16] Hivemind and the Human Side of Enterprise AI [01:13:52] Missing Twitch—and Knowing Your Zone [01:15:06] Why the Gaming Industry Still Isn't Social Enough [01:16:30] Chess Ratings, Competition, and Mark's Daughter [01:19:19] Writing Life at the Speed of Play [01:21:18] Don't Chase Every New Technology Race [01:22:05] Final ThoughtsAdditional Resources:Mark Pincus and the BookLife at the Speed of Play — official websiteLife at the Speed of Play — HarperCollins — published June 23, 2026. Mark Pincus on X — the account Mark recommends for updates on his agent-network experiments. Mark Pincus on LinkedIn Mark's interview about open-sourcing Stem Studio Zynga, Games, and Product ExamplesZynga's company history — covers its launch as a Facebook poker project and the development of FarmVille, CityVille, and Words With Friends. Words With Friends FarmVille Take-Two and Zynga acquisition announcement — the transaction carried an enterprise value of approximately $12.7 billion. Tribe.net history — the early social network Mark analyzes as a major product failure. Raya — the private community Mark discusses as an example of building trust through curation. Grow a Garden on Roblox See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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There was a time in my life where I didn't just go into debt once…I went into debt multiple times. And not small amounts. I'm talking tens of thousands of dollars…more than once. If I'm being honest, that used to be one of the most frustrating parts of my journey. Because it wasn't like I didn't know better. I had already learned the lessons. I had already gotten out of debt once. And yet somehow…I found myself right back in it again. In this episode, I'm not just talking about how to pay off debt…I'm talking about how to stay focused long enough to actually finish the journey.  Getting out of debt isn't about knowing what to do…it's about becoming someone who can stay consistent long enough to do it. And that's where routines come in.   In this episode, we discuss: Why paying off debt requires more than just knowledge or motivation The real reason people fall back into debt after getting out How inconsistency slows down your debt payoff progress Why daily awareness of your spending is a game changer How your budget gives context to your spending decisions The importance of weekly debt check-ins and staying engaged Why pre-deciding your spending helps you avoid emotional decisions How to create a strong "why" that keeps you motivated long-term Why tracking progress beyond balances helps you stay consistent   This episode is especially helpful if you: Feel like you've been in and out of debt more than once Struggle to stay consistent with your debt payoff plan Know what to do financially, but have trouble following through Feel overwhelmed or discouraged by your current debt balances Want to build better money habits while paying off debt Are ready to stay focused and actually finish your debt payoff journey   Why this matters: Getting into debt can happen quickly. Getting out of it takes time. If your habits, routines, and patterns don't support that long-term process, it becomes easy to fall into a cycle of starting and stopping. That cycle is what keeps people stuck. But when you build routines that keep you connected to your money (daily, weekly, and consistently), you stay engaged in the process. You make better decisions. You build momentum. And over time, that momentum turns into real progress. Because paying off debt isn't just about the numbers…it's about the behavior behind those numbers.   Timestamps: [00:09] Raya opens with her experiences with getting into and out of debt multiple times. [03:40] A pattern Raya had while in debt was disconnection. She wasn't aware of what she was spending. It was all about the moment. [08:00] Realizing that her spending wasn't random, Raya was able to see how her spending was tied to her identity (in a negative way). [13:45] Tracking your progress beyond balances is a great way to keep you focused on the journey.   Resources Mentioned: Episode #15: My Debt-Free Story and the Biggest Takeaways Get a Custom Budget Plan created by Raya Request a free money call with Raya City Girl Savings Personal Finance Portfolio Financial Focus Coaching Program   Getting out of debt isn't about being perfect, it's about being consistent. It's about building routines that support you even on the days you don't feel motivated. Because motivation will come and go. But your routines are what keep you moving forward. If you're on a debt payoff journey right now, you're not behind…you're in the process. Stay consistent. Stay connected. Stay committed to your plan. Give it time, because it will pay off. If you're ready for more structure, more clarity, and more support with your money, that's exactly what we build inside coaching. You can request a free money call using the link in the Resources section.

Red Cards, footballs and goalkeepers!  Ben and Tom are joined by Watto in New York to discuss the latest World Cup action.  We discuss Miguel Almiron's red card - do FIFA need to have a rethink about this rule?  With Watto in town, it's the perfect opportunity to talk goalkeepers, we look at how the footballs are behaving and get an insight into how much time teams would have spent with the ball.  There's all this to digest and the quiz, plus: 

Join host Meg Grier on God and Our Dogs as she interviews Dwaine Rivers of the Rivers Team with Phyllis Browning. Dwaine shares an incredible 12-day journey of faith, persistence, and divine intervention when his daughter's Australian Shepherd, Raya, went missing on her wedding day in Bay City, Texas. This heartwarming story demonstrates how God's fingerprints appear in unexpected places - from a traumatic storm that caused Raya to escape, to an entire community rallying together in prayer and search efforts. Despite crossing busy highways and navigating railroad tracks and canals, Raya was miraculously protected for nearly two weeks. The turning point came through divine guidance from an animal behaviorist who advised a simple but profound approach: just sit quietly with another familiar dog. Within 10 minutes, Raya emerged from the woods, completely healthy. This powerful metaphor reminds us how God patiently waits for us, and sometimes the best way to help those who are lost is simply to be present. Key Takeaways: Faith and persistence in the face of overwhelming odds The power of community support and prayer Trusting expert guidance even when it doesn't make sense God's protection and perfect timing Lessons about approaching lost friends with patience and presence About Dwaine Rivers: Real estate expert with 40+ years of experience, award-winning horseman, community leader, and devoted dog lover with the Rivers Team. 0:00 - Introduction to God and Our Dogs podcast 1:04 - Meet Dwaine Rivers - real estate expert and dog lover 1:49 - The Rivers family: from 10 dogs down to 6 2:15 - The wedding day crisis begins 3:07 - Raya escapes during a storm in Bay City, Texas 3:54 - The groom's remarkable decision at noon 4:36 - Wedding proceeds despite the crisis 4:55 - Bay City community mobilizes in prayer and search 5:15 - Raya spotted across town - crossing railroad tracks and canals 5:58 - Animal behaviorist explains traumatized dog behavior 6:21 - 12 days of searching and divine protection 6:30 - Raya crosses 4-lane highway multiple times unharmed 7:13 - The solution: Dakota, the familiar friend dog 7:38 - Miracle moment: Raya emerges in less than 10 minutes 8:21 - Found 100% healthy after 12 days 8:42 - Lessons about not giving up 9:24 - Priorities: marriage first, then continuing the search 10:54 - Following expert advice that didn't make sense 11:42 - Bay City celebrates - local newspaper covers the story 12:01 - About the Rivers Team real estate services 12:43 - Thought to "paw-nder": being present for neighbors in need 13:34 - Closing and how to connect Host: Meg Grier - Stories@GodAndOurDogs.com Website: www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100072683640098 God and Our Dogs airs every Saturday at 11:15am on Boerne Radio 103.9FM - www.boerneradio.com. Air Date: 6/20/26See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Comedian Sabrina Jalees (Mating Season) returns to the podcast! Sabrina talks about how she and her wife made a family, including picking out a sperm donor and performing a home insemination using a dog catheter. They break down the recent news about websites hosting non-consensual "sleep content" and the terrible networks of men coaching each other on how to assault their partners. Sabrina shares her attempt at a magic trick proposal while her partner dealt with a bathroom emergency, and they discuss: Can 2 butches make a right? Plus, why we need to rethink how we speak about pregnancy loss, and Sabrina makes a strong case for freezing your eggs.Check out Mating Season on Netflix.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast by checking out our sponsors:• FirstLeaf: Get personalized wines, delivered. Head to TryFirstleaf.com/DATEME to sign up and you'll get 50% off your first box PLUS free shipping for an entire year• Cash App: Download Cash App Today: https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/3v6r90n6 #CashAppPod Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App's bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Cash App Visa® Debit Flex Cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC, and The Bancorp Bank, N.A., pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. See terms and conditions for the Sutton prepaid card, Sutton debit flex card, and Bancorp debit flex card. Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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If you know me, then you know there was a time in my life where vacation spending felt so exciting in the moment…and so stressful the second I got home. I remember going on a girls trip to Vegas in my early 20s. Deep down, I knew I couldn't really afford the trip the way I was approaching it, but I went anyway. No real plan, no clear budget…just spending based on what felt good in the moment. And when I got back? Reality hit. I was scrambling to cover my normal expenses, including rent. That post-vacation stress didn't match the experience I thought I was creating. I thought I was enjoying my life, but what I was really doing was borrowing peace from my future self to enjoy the present. In this episode, we're breaking down the truth about vacation spending—what actually causes people to overspend, why guilt shows up so often around travel, and how to approach your trips in a way that lets you enjoy them fully without throwing your finances off track. Because guilt-free spending isn't about spending less…it's about spending with a plan.   In this episode, we discuss: Why vacation spending often leads to stress, guilt, or financial setbacks The two extremes people fall into: overspending vs over-restricting Why emotional spending is more likely during travel How to plan your vacation spending before the trip (not during it) Why deciding your experience matters more than just setting a budget How to structure your days to balance spending and enjoyment The importance of staying aware of your spending while traveling How to enjoy your trip without feeling restricted or financially anxious   This episode is especially helpful if you: Feel stressed or guilty after spending money on vacations Tend to overspend while traveling and regret it later Overthink every purchase on trips and struggle to enjoy yourself Want to travel more but feel unsure how to afford it responsibly Feel like you have to "recover" financially after vacations Want to enjoy experiences without sacrificing financial stability   Why this matters: Vacation spending isn't the problem. It's how you approach it. Most people fall into one of two patterns: they either overspend and deal with the consequences later…or they restrict so much that they can't even enjoy the experience. But there's a middle ground. When you plan ahead, decide what actually matters, and stay connected to your spending while you travel, everything changes. You stop making emotional, in-the-moment decisions and start making intentional ones. And that's what allows you to enjoy your trip fully…without coming home stressed, behind, or trying to fix your finances.   Timestamps: [02:45] Raya's past experiences with vacation spending tend to be a common scenario for a lot of women. [05:13] Don't wait until you're on the trip to start figuring out your finances. Planning ahead allows you to be proactive, instead of reactive with money. [09:00] When planning a trip, always start with the type of experience you want to have. This will help you plan spending. [12:20] There's a middle ground between being aware of what's happening with your money and spending while on vacation.   Resources Mentioned: Episode #30: Vacation Planning on a Budget Request a free money call with Raya City Girl Savings Personal Finance Portfolio Financial Focus Coaching Program   Vacation spending doesn't have to come with guilt, but it does require intention. When you plan ahead, decide what matters, and stay connected along the way, your trips stop being something you have to recover from…and start being something that fits into your life. You get to enjoy the experience and feel good when you come home…not stressed, not behind, but still in control of your money. And if you're ready to build that kind of structure and confidence with your finances (not just for vacations, but for everyday life), support and accountability can make all the difference. You can request a free money call using the link in the Resources section. You don't have to choose between experiences and financial peace. You just have to learn how to plan for both.

What if the safest path isn't actually the most secure one?In this thought-provoking episode of Limitless MD, Dr. Vikram Raya sits down with Rohan Saxena for a powerful conversation on entrepreneurship, uncertainty, wealth creation, mindset, and the evolving future of physicians.Together, they unpack why more doctors are beginning to question the traditional path of medicine and explore what it really means to create freedom, ownership, and long-term security in today's rapidly changing world.Dr. Raya shares his personal journey from practicing cardiologist to entrepreneur and investor, revealing the moments that pushed him beyond the limitations of traditional medicine. From building preventive cardiology programs and functional medicine initiatives to real estate investing and coaching physicians nationwide, this episode dives into the mindset shifts required to build a life beyond the stethoscope.Rohan also shares his own unconventional journey of walking away from the “safe” path in pursuit of greater autonomy, adaptability, and control over his future — leading to a fascinating discussion on certainty, antifragility, AI, coaching, entrepreneurship, and why the most successful people learn to thrive in uncertainty instead of avoiding it.This episode is a masterclass in resourcefulness, clarity, strategic thinking, and designing a life that aligns with your vision instead of someone else's expectations.“If your desire for freedom is greater than your desire for certainty, you have to think differently.”~ Rohan SaxenaIn This Episode:Why many physicians feel trapped despite successful careersThe hidden limitations of the traditional medical pathHow entrepreneurial thinking creates more freedom and controlThe difference between active income and asset creationWhy ownership matters more than income aloneBuilding wealth through entrepreneurship, real estate, and businessHow coaching and mentorship accelerate growth and confidenceThe role of AI in business, medicine, and decision-makingWhy clarity is one of the biggest missing pieces for physiciansReverse engineering financial freedom and lifestyle designThe concept of Ikigai and finding meaningful workWhy antifragility and adaptability matter in today's economyHow to think strategically instead of emotionally about your futureAbout Rohan SaxenaRohan Saxena is a digital marketing expert and the Director of Marketing at Limitless MD, where he helps scale the company's growth, brand strategy, and physician impact initiatives.With expertise in content creation, media buying, funnel building, campaign strategy, and digital growth systems, Rohan has built over 1,000,000 organic followers across multiple brands and profitably managed more than $400,000 in advertising spend.In his first year at Limitless MD, he helped grow the company's annual revenue from approximately $700,000 to over $2,000,000 while helping expand the movement of entrepreneurial and high-performing physicians worldwide.Passionate about entrepreneurship, AI, marketing, and personal growth, Rohan brings a fresh perspective on adaptability, value creation, and building freedom in an increasingly uncertain world.Connect with Vikram:

You ready for some good juju? This week, iconic drag queen Jujubee (Drag Race, Stop! That! Train!) joins Nicole to talk about the power of self-love and why she's officially stopped looking for a relationship. Nicole pays tribute to her first dog, Charlie, and the two discuss why the true soulmates are actually the animals in our life. Jujubee shares her philosophy on why love never dies, and opens up about the clarity she's found from being 9 years sober. She shares her best advice on having the ultimate solo date, and the two Delta Diamond Divas share their travel tips.Go see Stop! That! Train! in theatres today. Check out Jujubee's latest EP, MESS FOR YOU.Support this podcast by checking out our sponsors:• Jones Road Beauty: Use code DATEME at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Gift with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty #ad• Warby Parker: Our listeners can buy one prescription pair and get 20% off any additional pairs at WarbyParker.com/DATEME — and using our link helps support the show. #WarbyParker #ad• Squarespace: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.• Wayfair: Patio season is here and these deals won't last! Head to Wayfair.com right now to get your outdoor space ready for way less.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if success in medicine didn't require sacrificing your family, your peace, or the life you actually want to live?In this heartfelt and deeply insightful episode of Limitless MD, Dr. Vikram Raya sits down with Dr. Kristina Kypuros for a powerful conversation about what it truly means to build a meaningful life as a modern physician.Together, they unpack the evolving identity of today's doctors — physicians who are no longer willing to wait until retirement to enjoy their lives. From entrepreneurship and real estate investing to parenting, relationships, self-love, and intentional living, this episode explores how high-performing physicians can create success without losing themselves in the process.Dr. Kypuros shares her journey balancing medicine, motherhood, marriage, innovation, and wealth-building while staying grounded in purpose and presence. Meanwhile, Dr. Raya opens up about imposter syndrome, coaching, mindset shifts, resilience, and the philosophies helping him navigate growth, grief, ambition, and fulfillment in this next chapter of life.This conversation is both practical and deeply human — a reminder that building an extraordinary life is less about achieving more and more about becoming aligned with what matters most.“I want to include my children in everything I build without sacrificing time with them.”~ Dr. Kristina KypurosIn This Episode:Why today's physicians are redefining success and lifestyle designThe shift from traditional medicine into entrepreneurship and intentional livingHow coaching and mentorship can completely transform your trajectoryNavigating imposter syndrome and building true self-beliefWhy presence matters more than productivityThe importance of family, community, and designing a meaningful life nowHow to balance ambition with peace and fulfillmentLessons from stoicism, mindfulness, and European cultureWhy simplicity and surrender are becoming the new markers of successDaily practices and mindset shifts that help high performers stay groundedDr. Jessie Mahoney's Framework for FlowRegulate your nervous system before trying to optimize your scheduleReplace constant hustle with intentional pauses and awarenessBuild capacity through rest, presence, and recovery—not more outputPractice micro-moments of mindfulness throughout your dayReconnect with your internal signals instead of relying on external validationRedefine success from doing more to feeling alignedAbout Dr. Kristina KypurosDr. Kristina Kypuros is a wife, mother, and physician specializing in Pediatric Critical Care and Emergency Medicine. Beyond medicine, she is passionate about innovation, entrepreneurship, and real estate investing alongside her husband as they intentionally build a legacy-centered life for their family.She is currently developing an invention idea, writing a children's book inspired by her Greek and Mexican heritage, and empowering others to dream bigger, take action, and create lives rooted in purpose, alignment, and freedom.Connect with Vikram:

There was a time in my life where summer felt like a financial reset. Everything felt lighter. More relaxed. More social. I wasn't thinking about routines the same way, and I definitely wasn't as focused on my budget. I was just… living. In the moment, it felt good. Like I was enjoying my life and taking a break from structure. But what I didn't realize back then was that the kind of "reset" I was creating wasn't actually helping me. Because if you're not careful, a financial reset can quietly turn into falling behind. In this episode, I'm walking you through four common summer spending traps that can derail your savings goals…and more importantly, how to stay aligned with your money without feeling restricted.  You don't have to choose between enjoying your summer and being financially responsible…you just need to stay connected while you do it.   In this episode, we discuss: The real reason summer can throw off your savings and financial progress Why feeling like you "deserve it" can turn into emotional spending How social plans can quickly lead to unplanned overspending The danger of telling yourself you'll "get back on track later" Why inconsistency with money habits makes everything feel harder How small, everyday summer spending adds up faster than you think The importance of staying connected to your budget during busy seasons Simple ways to stay intentional with your money without missing out   This episode is especially helpful if you: Feel like summer always throws your finances off track Tend to overspend on social plans, dining, or last-minute activities Struggle to stay consistent with budgeting during busy seasons Tell yourself you'll "fix it later" when it comes to money Feel like your savings goals slow down or stop in the summer Want to enjoy your life while still making financial progress   Why this matters: Summer doesn't ruin your finances, but disconnection from your money absolutely can. And that disconnection doesn't usually happen in big, obvious ways. It happens in small decisions. Small patterns. Small moments where you stop checking in and start going with the flow. When you're not intentional, your spending becomes reactive; and when your spending is reactive, it becomes harder to stay aligned with your goals. But when you stay connected to your money (even in busy, social, high-spend seasons), you stay in control. You make better decisions in real time. You adjust as needed, and you avoid that overwhelming feeling of having to "start over."   Timestamps: [03:13] One of the biggest shifts Raya helps her clients work through is the mindset of justifying purchases. [06:06] Letting social plans dictate your spending can be one of the fastest ways to lose control of your spending. [10:53] Most women know what to do when it comes to money, but they struggle because they don't stay consistent with their efforts. [13:35] Not sure why your money feels tight in the summer? It's likely a lack of awareness of where your money is going.   Resources Mentioned: Episode #184: Fighting Summer FOMO: 5 Hacks that Keep Me on Track with My Budget and Goals Request a free money call with Raya City Girl Savings Personal Finance Portfolio Financial Focus Coaching Program   If there's one thing to take from this episode, it's this: summer doesn't have to set you back…but it will if you move through it without intention. The women who feel calm and confident with their money during busy seasons aren't the ones who never spend. They're the ones who decide how they want to spend before the moment happens. They stay aware. They stay connected. They stay grounded in their goals…while still enjoying their lives. If you're ready to build that kind of consistency with your money, having the right structure and support can make all the difference. You can request a free money call using the link in the resources section. You're not off track, you just need to stay connected.

Rachael Hornbucle joins us to tell us about her dating history on Raya and we talk about the best gay nightclubs. Join the PATREON HERE - Just $7 (AUD) for bonus eps and content - get tons of behind the scenes hacks and pranks and help keep this podcast going! Go watch Capper's special Hold Me Closer Tiny Cancer HERE Follow CAPPER and ROHAN and PHONE HACKS on Instagram Subscribe where you're listening and leave a review to get the word out thereSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The NN Pod begins its end-of-season player review series as Gavin returns to the show following Arsenal's Premier League title celebrations and a football-filled trip across England, Scotland and Europe. From the atmosphere around the Emirates on trophy-lift day to watching the Champions League Final in Amsterdam, the hosts reflect on a memorable few weeks before turning their attention to the squad review.  Part One focuses on the foundation of Arsenal's title-winning side. The panel grades the goalkeepers, defenders and deeper midfielders, discussing the seasons of David Raya, Jurriën Timber, Ben White, Cristhian Mosquera, William Saliba, Gabriel Magalhães, Piero Hincapié and Riccardo Calafiori.  The conversation then moves into midfield, where Declan Rice, Martín Zubimendi, Christian Nørgaard and Myles Lewis-Skelly come under the microscope. The hosts debate Player of the Season contenders, discuss the impact of injuries and availability, and consider which players exceeded expectations during Arsenal's championship campaign.  With grades ranging from A* to F, there are disagreements, surprises and plenty of discussion around the players who helped Arsenal lift the Premier League trophy. Part Two, covering the attacking players, follows next week.  The grades are in. The debates begin.Chapters:(00:00) - Arteta's Non-Negotiables & Intro(00:18) - End of Season Review Series Introduction(01:22) - Gavin's Arsenal Trophy Lift Travel Diary(08:02) - Elliot's Emirates Trophy Celebration Experience(13:18) - Champions League Final Reflections(19:18) - Player Review Format & Grading Criteria(19:29) - David Raya(21:57) - Kepa Arrizabalaga(23:58) - Tommy Setford (Mention)(24:18) - Jurriën Timber(25:55) - Ben White(28:06) - Cristhian Mosquera(30:20) - William Saliba(32:00) - Gabriel Magalhães(33:30) - Piero Hincapié(35:10) - Riccardo Calafiori(37:33) - Declan Rice(40:23) - Martín Zubimendi(44:26) - Christian Nørgaard(46:30) - Myles Lewis-Skelly(50:36) - Looking Ahead To Part Two & Outro

We just pulled off a travel move that still makes us laugh: a luxury stay at Waldorf Astoria Monarch Beach that was booked on Hilton points, covered by stacked Hilton resort credits, and somehow ended with us up $38 thanks to a perfectly timed Amex offer. If you've ever wondered whether points and miles are actually worth the effort, we walk through the real math, the real cards, and the real checkout moment where Raya hands over a stack of credit cards and asks the front desk to split the bill across all of them. Along the way, we rewind to our annual Oceanside getaway, the trip we protect on our calendar because it has almost no itinerary. Beach, pool, good food, and a reset. This year includes a surprise birthday dinner for Dwayne with friends he hasn't seen in more than 20 years, plus little details that made it feel special, like a custom menu and a table that just kept growing as more people arrived. We also get practical about family travel logistics: when a “standard room” starts feeling too small for five people, how we think about suites, and why an ocean view matters when one of us is working during the trip. We share our experience at The Seabird, how we handled a disappointing initial room assignment, and the polite ask that got us into a true oceanfront suite. Expect plenty of California details too, from the Monarch Beach club shuttle to June gloom weather timing, plus our favorite eats and one meal that went off the rails. If you want more strategies like this for affordable luxury travel, subscribe, share this with a points-obsessed friend, and leave us a quick review so more families can find the show. What's the next hotel you'd love to book entirely on points?

This week Mandy has Raya Hensler, host of Reality with Raya, on the podcast. Mandy and Raya spend most of the time deconstructing the Summer House reunion part 2 but chat a little In The City and Real Housewives of Rhode Island. Do you all agree Liz was on something when she freaked out at Jo-Ellen?For all things Raya Hensler: https://linktr.ee/realitywithraya?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=97758878-8062-4a9a-acd4-8009bd54119aFollow Reality with Ray on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realitywithraya/Follow Mandy on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mandyslutsker/

If you enjoy this episode, we're sure you will enjoy more content like this on The Occult Rejects.  In fact, we have curated playlists on occult topics like grimoires, esoteric concepts and phenomena, occult history, analyzing true crime and cults with an occult lens, Para politics, and occultism in music. Whether you enjoy consuming your content visually or via audio, we've got you covered - and it will always be provided free of charge.  So, if you enjoy what we do and want to support our work of providing accessible, free content on various platforms, please consider making a donation to the links provided below.  Thank you and enjoy the episode!Links For The Occult Rejectshttps://linktr.ee/theoccultrejectsOccult Research Institutehttps://www.occultresearchinstitute.org/Substackhttps://substack.com/@theoccultrejects?r=7auau0&utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-pageCash Apphttps://cash.app/$theoccultrejectsVenmo@TheOccultRejectsBuy Me A Coffeebuymeacoffee.com/TheOccultRejectsPatreonhttps://www.patreon.com/TheOccultRejectsHere is the discount code OCCULT10People can book through my website: www.rayathorne.comHere are my other links:YT: https://www.youtube.com/@rayathorneINST: https://www.instagram.com/rayathorne/Also want to remind people about the website, if you're into reading we have tons of information by multiple contributors, and we got t-shirts up on the site if you're interested. Fun fact, the art is all based on the eyeball. A

Drag queen Trixie Mattel (Drag Race S7, All Stars 3) returns to the podcast! After experiencing how exhausting it is to navigate a private breakup while smiling through a press tour, Trixie opens up about why she is now fiercely protective of her new relationship. Nicole explains why Drag Race S7 is her all-time favorite season, and the girls discuss wild dating reality TV shows like 90 Day Fiancé, Love After Lockup, and Love on the Spectrum, plus whether Trixie would ever actually compete on The Traitors. Trixie also discusses her impersonator recent retirement, gives her honest advice to all the gay singles out there, and reveals her obsession with crime scene cleanup.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTake our listener survey and shape the future of the podcast!Support this podcast by checking out our sponsors:• Jones Road Beauty: Use code DATEME at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Gift with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty #ad• Betterhelp: This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit betterhelp.com/dateme today to get 10% off your first month.• Cash App: Download Cash App Today: https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/3v6r90n6 #CashAppPod Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App's bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Cash App Visa® Debit Flex Cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC, and The Bancorp Bank, N.A., pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. See terms and conditions for the Sutton prepaid card, Sutton debit flex card, and Bancorp debit flex card. Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What happens when a sharp, inquisitive 14-year-old interviewer starts asking questions most adults never think to ask?In this conversation with Rithvik Raya, Coach Alex dives deep into some of the biggest questions surrounding health, fitness, resilience, agency, suffering, faith, and human potential.Together they explore:Living with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome and chronic painWhy modern abundance may be making us physically and mentally weakerThe science of adaptation and resilienceWhy "calories in, calories out" oversimplifies human biologyThe surprising science behind hope molecules and exerciseWhy coaching and community outperform diets and algorithmsThe role of agency in personal transformationWhat fitness has to do with faith, purpose, and stewardshipHow modern culture encourages victimhood—and how to reclaim responsibilityWhy intensity isn't always the answerThe difference between starting a fitness journey and becoming the kind of person who finishes itThis is one of the most thoughtful and wide-ranging conversations I've had in a long time. Rithvik asked questions that forced me to think carefully about what I actually believe and why.If you've ever wondered how fitness connects to psychology, theology, resilience, leadership, and the pursuit of a meaningful life, this conversation is for you.Life is hard.The question isn't whether you'll face difficulty.The question is:What kind of hard will you choose?⏱️ Timestamps00:00 – Introduction01:06 – Living With Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome05:15 – Why Modern Comfort May Be Making Us Weak08:42 – Choosing Your Hard10:40 – Childhood Trauma, Science & Finding Truth13:05 – Why Coach Alex Built Faithful Fitness16:45 – The Fitness Industry's Biggest Problem17:05 – Calories In, Calories Out? Not So Fast21:28 – Hope Molecules, Myokines & Exercise Science25:00 – What Is Agency?27:52 – Can Agency Survive the Algorithm Age?29:30 – Why Coaching & Community Beat Every Diet31:57 – The Science Behind SpyFit35:37 – Leadership, Responsibility & Personal Agency38:47 – Is Fitness Really About Intentional Living?40:02 – Is There A Moral Dimension To Fitness?45:32 – Pride, Gluttony, Shame & Stewardship48:21 – The Problem With Victimhood Culture50:38 – Why Intensity Is Overrated53:01 – How the Body Actually Adapts57:31 – Better Daily, Comparison & Following Christ01:01:12 – Social Media, Movement & Human Flourishing01:02:29 – Why People Really Get In Shape01:05:08 – Coaching, Identity & Freedom01:06:46 – Rapid Fire Round01:10:15 – Final Thoughts

We welcome you back to a very special episode of Upstairs Neighbors! Maya is away, so bring in Alexa Jay! This week Dom shares her Raya success story, Alexa tells us about meeting Tyriq Withers and they both retell their high stories.  Enjoy!  Offers:   SquareSpace: Head to Squarespace.com/UPSTAIRS for a free trial, and when you're ready to launch, use OFFER CODE: UPSTAIRS to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain. Smirnoff Ice: Available at local retailers near you. Please drink responsibly, 21+ RocketMoney: Let Rocket Money help you reach your financial goals faster. Join at RocketMoney.com/UPSTAIRSNEIGHBORS. Podcast Socials: IG: https://www.instagram.com/upstairsneighborspod/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@upstairsneighborspod Follow our Hosts:  Maya IG: https://www.instagram.com/mayamoto_/ Maya TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mayahasatiktok Dom IG: https://www.instagram.com/domrobxrts/ Dom TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@domnotateenmom Follow Alexa Jay:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/alexajay/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@flexylexxxy YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@alexa_jayy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Rich makes the case that he's technically a 9/11 survivor. Tracie has the gruesome realizes she's been on Raya for 10 years. We investigate the origins of "monkey bars," have a delayed Euphoria conversation, discuss how Kars4Kids raises money for jewish birthright trips to Israel, and examine Trump's deeply unsettling pronunciation of the word "vegan." We also review the dash cam footage from Britney Spears' DUI arrest and ask the important questions, like why we're all still here.To access video episodes, bonus episodes and our premium series WAWU—we're covering Michael Jackson: The Trial—check out our Patreon.Tracie's SubstackInstagramTikTok ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

THAT BALD MAN WAS OUR BOSS, MARK! Today on the Show, Payton had her BRIDAL SHOWER but then she ALSO HAD AN UNEXPECTED VISITOR! First though, Johnjay NEARLy discovered a model and RAYA's WATCH BETRAYED HER! Also, Kyle's hoarding tendencies have finally PAID OFF. Plus, Chelsea from Seattle just found us and is listening to us in her big rig AND Rich SCREWED UP MINUTE TO WIN IT SO BAD SOMEONE called in just to say WTF. All of this and MUCH MORE today on JOHNJAY AND RICH!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Summer has a way of making you want to say yes to everything. The trips. The brunches. The outfits. The events. The experiences. Listen…there's nothing wrong with enjoying your life. In fact, you should enjoy your life. But what you don't want is to come out of the summer with credit card debt, financial stress, or feeling like you have to start over when fall hits. Because the truth is, you don't have to choose between having fun and being financially responsible. You can do both. In this episode, we're breaking down how to have your version of a "Hot Girl Summer" without overspending, without guilt, and without falling off track with your financial goals. I'm joined by Aleah Vassell from Creative With Money, who shares a powerful perspective on building wealth, managing money, and staying intentional…even with inconsistent or creative income.   In this episode, we discuss: How to enjoy summer without overspending or going into debt Why high-spend seasons like summer can derail your financial progress How to balance fun, experiences, and financial responsibility What intentional spending actually looks like in real life How to manage your money during seasons of inconsistent income Why assuming "future income" will cover current spending can backfire How to create a summer spending plan or "fun fund" that works Creative ways to enjoy your summer without blowing your budget How to deal with FOMO without sabotaging your financial goals   This episode is especially helpful if you: Feel pressure to spend more money during the summer months Want to enjoy your life but stay aligned with your financial goals Tend to overspend on travel, dining, or social events Feel like summer always throws you off track financially Have inconsistent income or are self-employed/creative Want to feel more intentional, confident, and in control of your spending   Why this matters: Summer can either be a season where you fully enjoy your life and stay aligned with your finances…or a season that quietly undoes months of progress. A lot of overspending doesn't come from a lack of discipline. It comes from a lack of planning, intention, and awareness…especially during high-energy, high-spend seasons like this. When you approach your money with intention, everything changes. You stop reacting and start deciding. You give yourself permission to enjoy your life, but within boundaries that actually support your long-term goals. Over time, that balance is what allows you to build wealth without feeling restricted or deprived.   Timestamps: [02:40] Aleah shares how she went from starving artist to high-income creative, and how Creative with Money came to be. [09:36] Prioritize your joy. You don't have to spend money to bring happiness into your life. [20:20] Aleah gives guidance to listeners who are thinking about investing or struggling with choosing investing over saving. [32:40] Raya and Aleah share some low-cost ways people can have fun over the summer.   Resources Mentioned: Follow Aleah on Instagram Creative with Money Resources City Girl Savings Personal Finance Portfolio Financial Focus Coaching Program   If you've ever felt like summer throws your finances off track, this episode is your reminder that you can enjoy your life and stay financially aligned at the same time. With a little planning, intentionality, and structure, you don't have to choose between fun and financial progress…you can have both. If you're ready to build a system that helps you stay consistent with your money no matter the season, support and accountability can make all the difference. You can learn more about coaching using the link in the show notes. You are allowed to enjoy your life. Just make sure your money is set up to support it, not stress you out later.  

Tracie Thoms (RENT, The Devil Wears Prada 2) joins Nicole to discuss her 8-year journey to join the iconic cast of RENT, the wild logic men use to avoid commitment, and why some of them want all the benefits of a girlfriend with zero of the responsibility. Tracie also breaks down the nightmare of having dated someone who tried dictate her career, and reveals why living apart from her partner has actually been the ultimate relationship hack. Plus, why does true love make you feel sleepy? And Nicole opens up about her PMDD diagnosis.I'm just such a big fan of RENT and so happy we have Joanne on, omg folks this is a big one for me personally. Rentheads unite!Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTake our listener survey and shape the future of the podcast!Support this podcast by checking out our sponsor:• Squarespace: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You got small so you could learn how powerful you truly are. Every relationship, every betrayal, every "what was I thinking" moment… it's not punishment. It's a form of modern initiation. You are not behind. You're being initiated. You've loved people who didn't love you back the way you deserved. You've stayed longer than you should have. You've given the benefit of the doubt—and then wondered why you did. In this episode, Danielle shares a personal story—raw, funny, honest—about a dating app exchange that challenged her standards. What if every relationship that confused you, every situation that blindsided you, every "what was I thinking" moment wasn't punishment—but initiation?  If you've ever questioned your discernment after a hard experience. If you've done the work and still wonder why certain things keep showing up. If you want to know that you can trust yourself again… Press play. Episode Timestamps [00:53] Life update: Bless & Release, venture capital, and the Centering app [02:38] The Raya rude boy  [06:39] Shenpa: Buddhist emotional hooks and how you respond to the hard moment [07:50] The "what was I thinking" spiral [09:57] The priestess and warrior initiation [11:26] Earth school in the Age of Aquarius [12:50] The point is to love more now  [14:04] Revisiting rude boy: what he was actually a reminder of [15:00] Sign you're a Super Blesser [16:30] You can trust yourself [17:10] Walt Whitman close: I contain multitudes  

I'm going to say something that might sting a little. Inconsistency is the real financial killer. Not low income. Not inflation. Not student loans. Not a lack of knowledge. Inconsistency. Because most women don't struggle with money because they don't know what to do. They struggle because they do it for a few weeks… and then stop. They budget when they feel motivated… and then stop. They save for a month… and then stop. They start strong… and then lose momentum. And every time you stop, you reset your progress. In this episode, I'm breaking down why consistency (not motivation, not perfection, not even income)is the real secret to financial success. We're also talking about how consistency builds momentum, strengthens self-trust, reduces anxiety, and creates long-term results that feel stable and sustainable. If you've ever felt like you're constantly starting over with your money, this episode is going to hit home.   In this episode, we discuss: Why inconsistency is the real reason many women feel stuck financially How inconsistency breaks momentum and keeps you in a cycle of starting over Why consistency builds self-trust and financial confidence How consistency compounds—both financially and behaviorally Why inconsistent money habits increase financial anxiety The difference between being interested in financial success vs committed to it How consistency makes financial success predictable (not random) Why systems and structure are required to stay consistent   This episode is especially helpful if you: Feel like you're constantly starting over with your money Struggle to stay consistent with budgeting, saving, or tracking Know what to do financially, but don't follow through long-term Feel behind despite making good income Want to feel more confident, calm, and in control of your finances   Why this matters: Financial success isn't built in one big moment. It's built through repeated, steady actions over time. When you're inconsistent, everything feels harder. You lose momentum. You lose clarity. You lose confidence. And eventually, you start avoiding your money altogether. But when you're consistent, everything shifts. You trust yourself more. You stay aware of your numbers. You make better decisions faster. And you start to see progress that actually sticks. Consistency removes the chaos and replaces it with stability…and over time, that stability turns into financial confidence…and real results.   Timestamps: [03:39] When you lose consistency with your financial habits, you lose confidence. Avoidance is when financial chaos ensues. [07:12] Consistency changed how Raya approached risk. Decisions used to be made out of hope and adrenaline, where now, decisions are calculated.  [13:10] Inconsistency results in stalls growth…with budgeting, investing, saving, and any other helpful habit for your finances. [20:05] Consistency forces you to prove to yourself that you mean what you say. If you say you want financial peace, are you consistently doing things that create it?   Resources Mentioned: Episode #141: How Managing My Money Has Boosted My Confidence Episode #178: Finding Peace in Your Finances: 5 Steps to Eliminate Money Anxiety City Girl Savings Personal Finance Portfolio Financial Focus Coaching Program   If you've been feeling stuck or frustrated with your progress, this episode is your reminder that you don't need a better plan…you need more consistency with the plan you already have. If you're ready to build real consistency with your money, support, structure, and accountability can make all the difference. You can learn more about coaching using the link in the show notes. You are not behind. You're just one consistent season away from everything starting to click.

World famous relationship therapist Esther Perel has been studying relationships for over 40 years. She joins Nicole to share the most common problems couples seek therapy for, the 3 types of conflicts we fight over, and how to productively resolve them. Esther discusses how to get over "icks" while dating, and challenges us to ask ourselves: what "icks" would people find in you? They also explore exactly why modern dating feels so incredibly tough right now, the fact that therapy speak has gone mainstream thanks to shows like The Sopranos, and whether that's a good or bad thing. Plus, Esther shares a wild story about her first therapy session between a man and his AI girlfriend, and she totally flips the script on Nicole to ask the ultimate question: Would you date you?Celebrate the 20th anniversary of her groundbreaking book, Mating in Captivity.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTake our listener survey and shape the future of the podcast!Support this podcast by checking out our sponsor:• Chime: Chime is not just smarter banking, it is the most rewarding way to bank. Join the millions who are already banking fee free today. Head to Chime.com/DATEME.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Author Rachel Reid (Heated Rivalry) joins Nicole to chat about the wild, viral success of her steamy queer romance novels and the hit TV adaptation. She shares how she met her husband while performing a smelly, hockey-themed burlesque act, and the dynamic that keeps their 20-year one sided open marriage working for them. She discusses the creative process behind writing explicit romance between men, and exactly why she absolutely does not want to hear your glowing reviews of her work. Plus, Rachel opens up about navigating her recent Parkinson's diagnosis.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTake our listener survey and shape the future of the podcast!Support this podcast by checking out our sponsors:• FirstLeaf: Get personalized wines, delivered. Head to TryFirstleaf.com/DATEME to sign up and you'll get 50% off your first box PLUS free shipping for an entire year• Wayfair: Get prepped for patio season for way less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Wayfair. Every style. Every home.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Comedian and actor Beck Bennett (SNL, What's Our Podcast?) joins Nicole to talk about meeting his wife on a sketch shoot and how his wallet-less first date turned into a romantic, fart-filled sleepover. Beck opens up about surviving long-distance dating while shooting SNL, why he believes "love is trust," and the Joshua Tree engagement trip that ended with them sleeping in separate twin beds. He shares the creative ways he jerked off as a kid (including using a Sock'em Bopper and a vibrating pen), and Nicole admits to stealing her first vibrator from Spencer's Gifts.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTake our listener survey and shape the future of the podcast!Support this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors:• Jones Road Beauty: Use code DATEME at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Gift with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty #ad • Warby Parker: My listeners can buy one prescription pair and get 20% off additional pairs at WarbyParker.com/DATEME — and using our link helps support the show. #WarbyParker #ad• Squarespace: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Voice actress Sarah Natochenny (Pokémon) joins Nicole for a chat about how voicing Ash Ketchum inspired her to become the adventurous protagonist of her own life. Sarah shares her method for vetting a first date, why she has absolutely zero tolerance for men who neg her, and why animal companions (like her cat, Pikachu) will always be better than a boyfriend. Plus, the gals discuss Cher's wild 40-year age gap relationship, share tips for traveling solo as a single woman, and Nicole recounts a horrifying road rage incident that still haunts her.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTake our listener survey and shape the future of the podcast!Support this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors:• Jones Road Beauty: Use code DATEME at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Gift with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty #ad • Cash App: Download Cash App Today: https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/3v6r90n6 #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App's bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. See terms and conditions at https://cash.app/legal/us/en-us/card-agreement. Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit http://cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures.• BetterHelp: This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit betterhelp.com/dateme today to get 10% off your first month.• Quince: Head to quince.com/dateme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada, too. Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Fashion icon Tan France (Queer Eye, Honorable Gays) joins Nicole for a chat about how a planned "slut tour" accidentally resulted in an 18-year marriage, his secret past designing clothes for Mormon women, and why he really, really didn't want to be on Queer Eye. Tan gets real about the intense racism he faced dating in the UK - including the multiple times guys forced him to keep their dates a secret. Plus, he shares a horrifying first date story that had him walking out of dinner early, and they rip apart the bizarre new "looksmaxxing" trend.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTake our listener survey and shape the future of the podcast!Support this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors:Jones Road: Use code DATEME at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Shimmer Face Oil with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty #adChime: Chime is not just smarter banking, it is the most rewarding way to bank. Join the millions who are already banking fee free today. Head to Chime.com/DATEME.Squarespace: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.Wayfair: Way Day is THE sale to shop the best deals in home – we're talking up to 80% OFF with fast and FREE shipping on everything! Head to Wayfair.com April 25th through the 27th to shop Way Day.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.